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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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What good excuse can I give my bf ?
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 6 months. I am on vacation right now with my mom, because she just retired. My bf didnt want me to go on vacation, but I had to because my mom had purchased the airplane tickets and everything before I even me...
A. 27 December 2015: What do you mean, he can't face the truth? Did you tell him that your trip with your mother would last as long as it did?
Are there other 'truths' you can't tell him or is this the only one?
And you said "He starts to argue and get mad because ... (read in full...)
What good excuse can I give my bf ?
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 6 months. I am on vacation right now with my mom, because she just retired. My bf didnt want me to go on vacation, but I had to because my mom had purchased the airplane tickets and everything before I even me...
A. 27 December 2015: Here is the post I remember reading: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-should-i-pay-for-in-the-first.html So over a month ago you knew you were going to be gone for a month and a half. And another one even earlier: ... (read in full...)
May We All Find Peace And Love This Holiday Season
Q. I wish to offer my most sincere wish of good tidings, good cheer, and peace in a troubled world. If we all watch the news and read social media; we would think the world has gone mad. The mass killings of innocent people. The plight of people who ...
A. 27 December 2015: Peace and joy to all! Thanks for a thoughtful and heartwarming article.
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What good excuse can I give my bf ?
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 6 months. I am on vacation right now with my mom, because she just retired. My bf didnt want me to go on vacation, but I had to because my mom had purchased the airplane tickets and everything before I even me...
A. 27 December 2015: Midsummer, I remember that you had wanted your boyfriend to move out of his mother's house because you couldn't be intimate together there, and you couldn't be intimate at your mom's house either.
Then when you convinced him to move into a new plac... (read in full...)
How can I know I'm with the right person?
Q. How can I know I'm with the right person? My boyfriend and I both love each other very much. We spend time together and have fun... we support and help each other in our careers. We both love cats and dogs and only want one child as we feel that's ...
A. 22 December 2015: Why would you be holding him back? What is it that he can't reach if you are with him? He's driven, you aren't. That's common and probably very natural for many couples. You encourage him, you support his dreams. Does he return the favor?
You say ... (read in full...)
Could you cure an STD without knowing it?
Q. Is it possible that you have cured you chlamidya (std) without knowing? so if you had caught Chlamidya and you didnt know you had it and took antibiotics for another reason such as a sore throat, would your STD also go away?...
A. 22 December 2015: And just to add, you and your partners should be screened for other STDs as well.
It's time to get proactive and smart about protecting your health as well as the health of your partners.
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Will going on vacation alone doom our marriage?
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles ;) I am 35 year old teacher from Europe- happily married and with no kids. In summer I get to have a month off school. I have been in love with NYC ever since I was a kid and have been going there quite frequently since...
A. 22 December 2015: Why would it doom your relationship? Many people are able to keep their relationships going despite long military deployments or extended business travel. Other relationships fail despite the individuals being together everyday.
If you are happ... (read in full...)
Could you cure an STD without knowing it?
Q. Is it possible that you have cured you chlamidya (std) without knowing? so if you had caught Chlamidya and you didnt know you had it and took antibiotics for another reason such as a sore throat, would your STD also go away?...
A. 22 December 2015: As Chlamydia is a bacterial infection, if you took the correct antibiotic, it might treat it.
However, and this is rather key, unless the sex partner who passed along the Chlamydia is treated as well, you can get it again from them. Also, you shou... (read in full...)
Would this be a good opener to ask a nice girl going past me?
Q. Just a simple question. If I see a nice girl going past and I just say "excuse me, are you busy" or "are you in a hurry?". Wouldn't that be the best opener to judge if she's interested? Her response would show straight away if she has any interest...
A. 21 December 2015: If you are standing around on a corner in a busy entertainment district then your opener will most likely be dismissed. You'll be considered a sidewalk creeper then.
Why not go into a pub or a bar and sit with a friend and start up conv... (read in full...)
Is my fitness instructor boyfriend trying to score this other girl in his class?
Q. I have been dating my fitness instructor for the past two and a half years. I met him as a client in his class. As the gym has policies in place prohibiting such relationships, we have kept our involvement under wraps. I was in his class today ...
A. 21 December 2015: If he wants to keep his job at the gym, then he has to convey the message to any and all that he's not interested in you or seeing you. You do want him to keep his job, don't you?
I'm guessing what upset you is that he didn't make a fuss over you ... (read in full...)
She took the presents and ran
Q. Hello was dating this woman for a short time. I just gave her Christmas presents, then next day she broke up with me. Should I ask for them back?...
A. 20 December 2015: Is the is the rose petal lady? The one who then stopped texting you?
What were the gifts? You mentioned a song on a CD and the rose petals, were there other gifts as well?
I see you hold out a great deal of hope in your expressions of affectio... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she want to see the xmas party photos?
Q. I'm well over 50 and work with a lovely girl in her late 20s. We have always got along very well but due to the age gap and personal circumstances I've never made a pass at her and never would. I'm married and she has a long term boyfriend, who she ...
A. 20 December 2015: It could be that she senses you have more feelings for her than merely collegial, and simply isn't interested in allowing those feelings to grow in any way.
If you press her on this, she will conclude that she was correct in her assumptions.
Be ha... (read in full...)
Can I trust him? maybe I shouldn't even be with him?
Q. Often times we are advised not to judge our boyfriends based on his past... But I wonder, isn't it important to have a general idea of his past relationships and how he has handled them? Wouldn't having this insight give me an idea of his characte...
A. 18 December 2015: So you met him online and as side flirting partner?
Have you ever actually been with this person in the same room in real life?... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 18 December 2015: Well, it happened.
Good luck with the next relationship!
And based on the very limited information you provided here, all I really have to offer in closing is that you might want to examine your own beliefs and criteria, as you apply those to... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 17 December 2015: If you can't figure out how to communicate with her, she blocked you and you are afraid of her emotions then you really do need to let this one go.
You asked a rather odd question in one followup: "what should I be doing to prepare myself emot... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 17 December 2015: When you say she didn't specify, does that mean she refused to answer the question? How did you ask it?... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 17 December 2015: What does she say when you ask her these questions directly?... (read in full...)
He wants more sex but I'm exhausted
Q. Hi all - I need advice. How often do happy couples have sex? I am in an on again off again relationship with a guy for 3 years. We just got back together in late October - early Nov. Within the last 3 weeks, he brought up that he wants more sex...
A. 16 December 2015: Your primary question was "how often do happy couples have sex?" The answer to that would be: as often as they both like.
The question and your followup seem to suggest that the problems he has are a bit too much for you to deal with.
It's ... (read in full...)
My master manipulator sister is ruining our wedding plans and our life. Help!
Q. My sister is a master manipulator. Over the past year, since getting engaged, not only has she tried to get money out of me for stuff we borrowed, as well as bringing money for family suppers (instead of food), but she also has tried to interfere or ...
A. 15 December 2015: Those are all suggested ways to address your parents' issues. Ask them to clarify, ask them to help you understand, clue them in that you are in the dark as to why your sister is being so difficult.... (read in full...)
My master manipulator sister is ruining our wedding plans and our life. Help!
Q. My sister is a master manipulator. Over the past year, since getting engaged, not only has she tried to get money out of me for stuff we borrowed, as well as bringing money for family suppers (instead of food), but she also has tried to interfere or ...
A. 15 December 2015: "She refuses to be in the same room as me, won’t let me see her kid (my niece), and my parents are now asking what is going on. They are now saying this wedding is ruining the family by tearing us apart."
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Mom, Dad, I'm not sure what's g... (read in full...)
Am I right to be upset about this skinny shaming?
Q. OK, I have a gay male friend who to me seems obsessed with my weight/body. I m female, a size 8 weigh 57kgs and i m 169cm. According to my doctor i m in excellent health and the right weight etc for my BMI (Body Mass Index). I ve never had an...
A. 14 December 2015: "Scott, my doctor says I'm fit and healthy. I've never had an eating disorder nor have I struggled with my self-esteem. I'm happy with my body and how I look and would not want to change anything.
"Other than my hair. We can talk about my hair. I'll... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me if my equipment is too small?
Q. I've recently become a little insecure about the dimensions of my penis. Due to various circumstances, I've never been in a committed relationship. Recently however, I had a fling with a female acquaintance who shared with me her very honest ...
A. 14 December 2015: And one more P.S. based on your age: porn is NOT an accurate representation of how women enjoy sex. So dismiss that from your self assessment.... (read in full...)
Ex' is threatening suicide. How do I stop her bothering me?
Q. I came on here not too many days ago stating my ex girlfriend of five years had me feeling unsettled. I stated we have been broken up for at least six months. She constantly contacted me and I responded cordially. Perhaps a friendship could come of ...
A. 14 December 2015: Take all of the texts and any other evidence to the local police. Ask how you can get a restraining order. Also ask them how to ensure your personal safety.
I would also take the texts and other evidence to her family to alert them that she appe... (read in full...)
I shared personal information. Now it'sall over the office
Q. The guy that I was engaged to 1997 gave me herpes.I was still young in my twenties. This change my whole life. He didn't tell me he had it. I was so hurt I cried. At some point I excepted this of course I couldn't change it anyway. Ten years late...
A. 14 December 2015: As your flag indicates you are in the US, then you are entitled to privacy about your medical information.
Go to HR at your company and file a complaint. I would also advise that you stop trying to date people at your workplace.
If you are bein... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me if my equipment is too small?
Q. I've recently become a little insecure about the dimensions of my penis. Due to various circumstances, I've never been in a committed relationship. Recently however, I had a fling with a female acquaintance who shared with me her very honest ...
A. 14 December 2015: Your size is perfectly normal.
Please be advised that your average woman's sexual pleasure isn't reached through penile stimulation. She doesn't have a penis, she has a clitoris, which is "wired" like your penis.
Her vagina is not an inside-o... (read in full...)
He wants more sex but I'm exhausted
Q. Hi all - I need advice. How often do happy couples have sex? I am in an on again off again relationship with a guy for 3 years. We just got back together in late October - early Nov. Within the last 3 weeks, he brought up that he wants more sex...
A. 14 December 2015: Rather than flipping out and cursing him out, I would just have let him go quietly into the past.
You two are clearly not compatible.
Spending time being angry and insulted is a waste of time. Instead, spend time figuring out why you tried to... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 11 December 2015: Well, I guess you've made your decision and don't really want or require any of our suggestions! Best wishes to you!... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 10 December 2015: Your decision to quit dating? Why would you do that?
Just try to find someone local with whom you can connect. This girl isn't going to be your online girlfriend any more, and while that may smart for a while, you will now be available to meet some... (read in full...)
What can I do? Should I meet a man who can only tolerate my much loved resucue dog?
Q. I was really looking forward to meeting a man I have have been talking online to. This morning he dropped the bombshell he would only ever"tolerate" a dog and his argument is he thinks its cruel to keep them as pets anyway. I am quite hurt as my do...
A. 10 December 2015: Oh well, NEXT!
And there's no point in mentioning his children at all.
You're going through the dating process which means you'll meet some men who seem fine in initial contact but as you get to know them, you realize they aren't as good a match ... (read in full...)
I'm finding her persistent acne a turnoff
Q. I don't want this this to come off the wrong way, but I need some help. I love my fiancée and we have a great relationship. I'm physically attracted to her but I find myself turned off a lot because of her acne issues. She's dealt with rea...
A. 9 December 2015: I mean to add a link: http://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/cystic-acne
... (read in full...)
I'm finding her persistent acne a turnoff
Q. I don't want this this to come off the wrong way, but I need some help. I love my fiancée and we have a great relationship. I'm physically attracted to her but I find myself turned off a lot because of her acne issues. She's dealt with rea...
A. 9 December 2015: What did the dermatolgists explain about her condition? (I'm assuming you were given permission under HIPPA to speak with them, btw)
Cystic acne? Rosacea?
Find a dermatologist specializing in the type of acne she has and bring her in for a treatmen... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 8 December 2015: It's a wise move because she is moving on and you will need to learn that sooner rather than later. Keeping contact with you will keep you hoping that things will change.
But based on these posts, she's done and not going to change her mind.
Your ... (read in full...)
I found a stash of condoms, but we don't use them.
Q. This morning while my boyfriend was at work, I decided to stop by and drop off the clothes I had bought for him while I was shopping yesterday. Realizing that this was the only time I had been in his house by myself, I decided to do a little s...
A. 7 December 2015: He put the condoms that you are allergic to out of the way.
If I were a practical guy dating a woman with a latex allergy, in the first week or two of dating her, I'd bag up all the condoms we couldn't use and get them them out of the way. A prac... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 7 December 2015: The good news as that it was all online, you aren't likely to run into her at the local coffee shop or grocery store.
... (read in full...)
I hate faking it -- why can't I get off through intercourse?
Q. Hi I'm 31 and I have been sexually active for over 10 years. I've had three long term partners and then a handful of one night stands back at the start. I've only ever orgasmed through sex or otherwise about 3-5 times. And they were clitoral an...
A. 7 December 2015: You are quite normal.
Think of it this way: while your mind and thoughts contribute to feelings of arousal and being turned on, the sexual arousal point for you is your clitoris. Which is a structure inside you, related to the male's penis.
When ... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 7 December 2015: Do you see each other in real life or is this a relationship that has been online only, from the beginning to the end?... (read in full...)
Ladies: If a man sprinkled rose petals at your feet would you have kept them?
Q. Last night spent a night with the woman I've been seeing for about four months, watch the football game together, she really likes football, am a romantic kind of guy, well this morning, ihad her put on a CD, of George Strait, cross my heart, when ...
A. 7 December 2015: Going back to your original post, I think most women would have been fine with spending time in a companionable and happy manner.
Having a sudden and obviously emotionally-laden (for you, not necessarily for me) event of a specific song and rose... (read in full...)
Ladies: If a man sprinkled rose petals at your feet would you have kept them?
Q. Last night spent a night with the woman I've been seeing for about four months, watch the football game together, she really likes football, am a romantic kind of guy, well this morning, ihad her put on a CD, of George Strait, cross my heart, when ...
A. 7 December 2015: Whoa. OP, was this your followup? "Maybe, am over reacting, ladies, am the one who wrote in, maybe I should just, told her to pick them up, throw them in the trash, i don't get it, treat a woman like shit , she loves you, be romantic,, an they treat ... (read in full...)
Troubled because I can't match his Christmas spend
Q. I would like to get advice on Xmas presents ie. buying for family when you live together. I live with my partner. Prior to this we lived separately. He moved from partner's into house he'd bought, and I moved in with him. I have grown-up kids. M...
A. 7 December 2015: I think the underlying conflict here is that you believe that your partner's role in the accident that cost you your ability to earn money isn't being handled right by him.
You can't work because of something he did, and you feel he's not taki... (read in full...)
Live in an isolated area and am home schooled. What can I do to make new friends?
Q. I have been diagnosed with an extreme form of social anxiety, going back to when I was a young child and my parents encouraged achievement above socialization. Now as a teenager forced to leave school in order to come back to grips with life (do...
A. 7 December 2015: As you report, you have a severe form of social anxiety. Yet you feel isolated.
Are your parents and your therapist and doctor looking for a way to get you back into school? Or is it because "all the kids (and I mean all) are illegally club... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable with my no contact request?
Q. Hi my partner and I separated for some time. During that time he began a sexual relationship with a woman for about 4 weeks. We have now got back together again and I have asked him to stop all contact with her. He makes excuses and fobs me off ...
A. 7 December 2015: I think that he's hedging his bets and your best move is to separate again, only this time permanently, as this obviously isn't going to work out. A guy who was truly committed to you would shout it out loud and clear... not wait a few weeks to ... (read in full...)
He's changed. How do I get to the bottom of this?
Q. Hi everyone me and my boyfriend have been together for three years we have a one-year-old son together. Lately he has been acting strange. For example Saturday I was going out and I changed my mind. He kept trying to talk me into going. I was only ...
A. 7 December 2015: Don't you have a key for the front door? If not, why not?
OP, you say that in the years you've been together you have never argued. But then you go on to say that you can't talk to him about this (and I'm guessing other things) because he says you ... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 7 December 2015: OP, having read your other post now, about her blocking you on IM and the video sharing site? You are both relating to each other online.
So being turned off by women who are interacting on IM and video sharing on their phones ("many girls in this... (read in full...)
Says she'll miss me so why am I blocked?
Q. Is this a blessing in disguise? I get dumped by a girl who I feel cannot be replaced, at all. During the conversation, she said she was going to miss me. The next day, she removes me from her contact list on our Instant Messaging program, and u...
A. 7 December 2015: OP, I have to point something out to you.
You complain "The local girls over here, they're all distracted by social media and text messaging" yet your contact with this LDR is via instant messaging and a video sharing site.
So to a guy who is local... (read in full...)
Ladies: If a man sprinkled rose petals at your feet would you have kept them?
Q. Last night spent a night with the woman I've been seeing for about four months, watch the football game together, she really likes football, am a romantic kind of guy, well this morning, ihad her put on a CD, of George Strait, cross my heart, when ...
A. 6 December 2015: Once they'd been on the floor? No, I wouldn't keep them. I've kept a rose from a bouquet for a while but they get all dried out and crumbly, so that's gone. It's the thought that counts, not the actual flowers or petals.
I think you have some unre... (read in full...)
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