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| | Honeypie's profile:I'm 39, married with 3 kids and a couple of pet. Been married little over 10 years. Been thru good times and rough times. Thru open communication and love we overcame problems in the marriage and thru all that I learned a lot about me and about relationships.
I have a college degree, which I do not use at the moment. I'm hoping to go back to school for another which I do intent to use:)
I have strong family bonds and have traveled the world.
I'm a good listener and I try to "put" myself in whomever's shoes. I believe in honesty, morals, values, love, trust and good communication. So the answer I give out I do so with a lot of though and honesty behind it. |
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Why is she always so mean to me?
Q. I just started seventh grade, and some mean girls have started making fun of me. One of the girls lives by me so its really embarrassing. She's started telling people I'm a lesbian. She's also saying she's scared and that I ask her a lot of ...
A. 20 November 2009: Wow, that is jsut sad.
You are being bullies. Lesbian or not who cares? The girl obviously have some homophobic issues or she has a crush on you. Either way I would not only ignore her, I would stay the heck away from her, she is toxic.
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In love with my friends girlfriend
Q. I'm in love with a girl and we get along really well and we're close but she's already going out with one of my best friends. Do i ask her out and lose a friend or keep it to myself and never know what would've happened?...
A. 20 November 2009: If you ask her out you might get a no - loose her -and the friend.
To be honest I think you need to think on quite a few things here.
1. Morally - she is already involved do you really think it is right for you to start anything with he... (read in full...)
I bled after masturbating - what happened?
Q. some day before i did sex with my finger. my boyfriend see me on web cam and he told me how to do.i did that. he told me do it with pen so i take 2 pen and i did with pen.after sometime i get blood i dont know how its come. i am in tension and i ...
A. 20 November 2009: Stop masturbating with foreign objects. Use your fingers. And honestly if you are 16, stop doing it on web cam, do you realize how many places that can be uploaded to?
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Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 20 November 2009: Anon you asked:
**And for Honeypie, yes it happens! If you only find out hes commited after you fell in love, what can you do? you had the affair already! its just so sad to see how people are still so hypocritic.... **
WHY would you keep at that... (read in full...)
Who the heck is "Sadie?"
Q. the guy I ve been seeing just text me, he said ok tks sadie, thing is my name isnt sadie....what shall i do...
A. 20 November 2009: I would ask him who Sadie is. He would be the one to know.... (read in full...)
Is oral sex on a woman better than intercourse for them?
Q. Is oral sex on a woman better than intercourse? I'm better at sex when I'm tipsy, I come out of my shell. Is that normal??...
A. 20 November 2009: It would depend on the woman, and of course the skills of the guy. Some women love it, some women hate it.
One thing though, liked Strontumdog said, you do loose some inhibitions when drunk, but.... that doesn't always mean you are doing a better... (read in full...)
The sum of al fears... My obsession with relationship (sexual) past.
Q. I've been on this site, and a few others for a while. My question I guess is a combination of many questions, and I'm not totally sure where to begin. Let me start by saying that I love my girl. If I didn't then I wouldn't be worried about an...
A. 20 November 2009: I think your girl have some problems with her sexuality, as in she might be a sexual addict. The fact that she is ashamed of her sexual "exploits" kinda shows that it goes deeper then she is letting on. I'm no therapist but early promiscuity can be ... (read in full...)
He cant cum when I give him a blowjob because of the big "mental' component to it! What am I doing wrong?
Q. Hi Guys, I've been going out with a friend of mine for about a month now, and although we're both VERY different we get along great. However, the other night I decided to give him a blowjob, which he thoroughly appreciated (OK, who wouldn't), but a...
A. 19 November 2009: Not all guys can ejaculate by a BJ, don't take offense. I know my husband was never able to(before of me) and maybe 3 out of 10 times with me. Even after all these years. Some guys are very sensitive "down there" and it is a mix pf pain/pleasure ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to realise that I am Mr Right?
Q. Alright so there is this amazing girl I work with... Kinda a fucked up situation... She is seeing some one and I am sungle... I want to get with her because I'm single and her guy treats her like shit... We talk for hours wen it's slow at work and ...
A. 19 November 2009: You can't make someone love you. I'm sorry if that is painful to hear. She obviously love him, despite how he treats her. If you can handle it, be her friend. Maybe, one day she will realize that there are good guys out there and that you are it.
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Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 19 November 2009: To OP thank you :)
And I forgot to add:
One thing people tend to "forget" is that the focus shouldn't be on the OW ( other woman) but on the married guy. HE is the one committing adultery. HE is the one cheating his his spouse. HE broke his vow... (read in full...)
Why do women sleep with married men?
Q. Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...
A. 18 November 2009: I believe that what Caringguy is saying is part of the answer. There are many reasons why some women will "settle" for a relationship with a married man.
1. You can choose NOT to see him if you rater want to do something else whenever you want.
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I have had unprotected sex for 5 months and not fallen pg, does this mean I cant have kids or something?
Q. im 17 years old i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, hes 23 years old, ever since we got together we havent used protection once, i dont have to worry about STD's because we have been tested and we are both okay. the thing is i dont want ...
A. 18 November 2009: Smart Girl!
Not all pills will make you gain weight. If the first one your doctor offer you gives you side effects you do not like go back and try a different brand.
The pill is 98% safe (from pregnancy) and condoms are only 80%, however I r... (read in full...)
A bad experience in bed!
Q. I had an experience in bed the other night and I am not sure how I should react to it. I was having sex with my boyfriend, I was lying on my stomach and he was on top of me. We were both very drunk. Then he stuck it my bum. I dont know whethe...
A. 18 November 2009: I agree with the rest of the aunties, I don't think it is rape.
However I do suggest you talk to him and let him know what happened and that anal is out of the question.
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I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 18 November 2009: I agree with Duce00 - you are in love with an idea more then a person. The idea of how this woman was, how she can actually be anything you want her to be. She will never argue with you, turn you down, walk away.
I think we all (more or less) ha... (read in full...)
Any tips for losing weight quickly?
Q. hi guys. im a british girl size 12. age 17 going on 18. recently ive been through a rough time and been piling on the pounds i would like to lose a stone or half a stone for that matter. i was just wondering if enybody had eny tips on losing...
A. 17 November 2009: Loosing weight quickly is never healthy. I would suggest you take the time to educate yourself about nutrition a bit. You can find a lot of information jsut by using Goggle.
Learn what are "good" calories "good" fats and what is "bad. Learn ab... (read in full...)
I have had unprotected sex for 5 months and not fallen pg, does this mean I cant have kids or something?
Q. im 17 years old i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, hes 23 years old, ever since we got together we havent used protection once, i dont have to worry about STD's because we have been tested and we are both okay. the thing is i dont want ...
A. 17 November 2009: NOT using any kind of contraceptives is like playing Russian Roulette, specially if you DON'T want kids.
BTW if you don't know what Russian Roulette is do a Goggle on it.
There could be many reason why you haven't gotten pregnant. Howeve... (read in full...)
Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?
Q. should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance....
A. 7 November 2009: Condoms are a good thing, use water based lube. Some people do the whole enema thing, but a hot bath and a good cleaning is really all that is needed. She however might feel better with the enema. Take your time getting her ready, don't just try and ... (read in full...)
Help! My friends and family are taking advantage of my skills. How do I say no and not offend anyone?
Q. Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to j...
A. 7 November 2009: Tell them to get an appointment at the salon you work at and you can handle their hair.
IF you STOP cutting/styling their hair they will eventually stop asking.... (read in full...)
We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?
Q. Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...
A. 7 November 2009: It is an emotional affair. All the energy you are both spending flirting is taken away from the "real" relationship. I mean really? Would you mail/send the pictures to his wife to see? Do you think she knows?
Reverse the situation. YOUR man/husb... (read in full...)
Should I tell my best friend her boyfriend kissed me?
Q. My best friends boy-friend kissed another girl and guess who it was! ME!! But i dont like him .... I think he's a jerk. So should i tell her or walk away ?? Cause i dont want to tell her and ruin our friendship... PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!...
A. 5 November 2009: You might loose your friend anyways, after all her BF kissed YOU and you "let" him.
I still suggest that you are honest and tell her.
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I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: It happened 33 years ago. You need to let it go. She obviously isn't going to tell you the whole story or the story you expect/want her to tell. Maybe she doesn't even remember.
I know that might sound a little wrong and if this was "new" stuff I ... (read in full...)
Why am I hurting down there?
Q. I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few months ago, and the area between my vagina and bum hurts, and it has been for about 3 days now. Is this normal? Please reply....
A. 2 November 2009: Urinary tract infection maybe? Go see your doctor. And PLEASE use more then just condoms, they are ONLY 85% safe, if you are that you and having sex I suggest you get on the pill as well as use condoms. Better safe then sorry.
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Just wondering...for those of you who were cheated on...how did you find out.
Q. To those of you in long standing relationships who have been cheated on by your better half, HOW did you find out?...
A. 2 November 2009: My husband was dumb enough to just minimize an email between him and his ex wife. I need to check my mail and hit the button and whuupti up came the emails. Since they both just hit reply every time it was many many emails back and forth RIGHT there ... (read in full...)
Do her drunken texts reveal something new?
Q. We all know how blunt or honest we can be when drunk. Here's the scenario. She's 23, at a bar, drunk and I'm at home relaxing from a long day of work. Here's the texts: Me: What's up? Her: I'm at a bar babe... gettin pretty drunk haha Me: Lo...
A. 2 November 2009: I wouldn't read so much into it honestly. She was drunk.
Cute is ( in female speak) you are a good looking guy. Now if she had used HOT or STUD.. it could have meant interest.
Sorry.... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend to try new things to spice things up!
Q. My wife doesn't like: anal sex (tried once too painful), deep throating, facials or cum swallowing (the last three only on rare occasions, very rare. I don't need her to compromise and do them all, all the time, but wouldn't it be fair for her ...
A. 2 November 2009: I agree with Gina. Anal is not for everyone. If she is enjoying being fingered, then enjoy it too. Can always try beads and other fun stuff.
To be honest I think facial cum shots are for the porn movies only, I really don't think any women tr... (read in full...)
Is this incest?
Q. Ok, Im 19.. I have a 21 year old sister who has a boyfriend at the age of 35.. He has a nephew at the same age as me! We have been talking for a while and my sister found out and her and her boyfriend tried to set us up... My sister an her bo...
A. 2 November 2009: Right out of Wiki:
Incest is any sexual activity between close relatives (often within the immediate family) irrespective of the ages of the participants and irrespective of their consent, that is illegal or socially taboo. The type of sexual acti... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends make fun of me for my beliefs and he always takes their side!
Q. My bf's friends put me down for my Christian values and beliefs. They always make fun of me and put me down. My bf doesnt say anything to them. He lets them get away with it. In fact, he basically defends them and takes their side!!! He says ...
A. 27 October 2009: I think you need to find a guy who shares your beliefs, not put them down.
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How do I overcome the bullying? I feel so ugly compared to her.
Q. I'm sat here in tears thinking over the events of yesterday and I really just need someone to listen and I would welcome any sort of advice on how to move on... By way of a brief introduction I'm 27, single mother, working part-time with m...
A. 27 October 2009: Wow how old were those guys? Like 5 years old? Or at least they had the maturity level of some 5 year old. Sure they meant to hurt you ( for whatever reason, usually because they saw you as an easy target).
As far as your ex and his new dreamy g... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable to want my husband to stop phoning and taking out a "friend" as he calls her.
Q. Am I being unreasonable to want my husband to stop phoning and taking out a "friend" as he calls her? This 'friend' has been in my husband's life for a long time now abuot 4 years, we used to go to a certain pub each week and he would always b...
A. 27 October 2009: I agree too. I'm sorry he is being such a wanker! If you look at your life and your marriage what would YOU like to see happen? So you think him not talking to her would help your marriage? Or would he start to "resent" you or simply find another ... (read in full...)
He backed off after I told him the truth about my past!
Q. I met somebody about 8 months ago, he seemed to be a really genuine guy with good morals and lots of ambition like me and I really thought it could go somewhere. We had several dates and was all going well only I made the mistake of admitting I had ...
A. 27 October 2009: I would let him go. He find you "lacking" in the girlfriend material but "good enough" to screw. Basically. But your gut already told you that. Listen to your gut :)
I agree with Ask Older Sister. There is no need to go into details abou... (read in full...)
Is sex overrated?
Q. As the scrren name may suggest i have done a lot of things in my short life, however there is one important thing i am yet to do , and yes , it is to lose my virginity . I am purely writing this looking for honest answers to the question, that is ...
A. 27 October 2009: I think sex can be amazing and it can be overrated. Same as anything really.
For many waiting on the "right" person to "pop the cherry" with makes it worth the wait. Personally I was almost 19 and he was definently the right guy. I'm really g... (read in full...)
Did he ever have feelings for me? Or was I used?
Q. I have been involved with someone for around three years he is Indian and I am British.He deceived me and went to India and got married and he broke my heart,we split up nearly a year ago and I still think about him sometimes.The biggest thing for ...
A. 27 October 2009: It is hard to know for sure, what his motives was/is. Sure it is not uncommon for men who are to have an arranged marriage to date women outside of their faith/culture til it's time to do as the family wants ( marry a picked out bride). It doesn't ... (read in full...)
By cutting him off, will he realize what he is walking away from?
Q. My husband walked out on me and our 2 children 3 months ago for another woman at work who is 17 years younger than him. We have been married for 9 years and together for 13. I have tried everything I can to try and win him back and I know he is ...
A. 19 October 2009: He wants his cake and eat it too. Sorry he can not stick to his promise, he has no spine :(
I would start the divorce and get the ball rolling, even if he did dump her could you ever really trust him? Love him? Respect him?
Does he reall... (read in full...)
Is she faking it?
Q. is this even possible because ive read alot of places that its not yet my gf seems to have 3+ orgasm just of vaginal sex? is she faking it? ...
A. 19 October 2009: It is quite possible to get multiple's from "ordinary" vaginal sex and I agree, faking one orgasm I can see but 3? I don't see it.
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Moral beliefs on fantasies?
Q. I was wondering what people think about this one. I feel that if you're in a relationship with someone, you shouldn't fantasise/masturbate over someone else. To me, at that moment in time you're choosing to be with (think of) someone other th...
A. 19 October 2009: I will disagree with you as well. Fantasy and reality are two very separate things. I think a healthy fantasy can keep a person alive, even endure unimagined pain and suffering.
I understand the loyalty part of your idea, but I just don't agree. I... (read in full...)
Can little lies lead to bigger lies?
Q. Hi, I just started dating this guy, and I'm noticing some strange little consistencies that I think maybe I'm being over sensitive about. However I feel like I need to address them. First of all, when we started seeing each other, I asked him if h...
A. 19 October 2009: It's called the snowball effect. So yes, little lies can grow and grow til it all tumbles down.... (read in full...)
Am I the only pregnant woman living apart from her significant other?
Q. Help me. My fiances family kicked me out of there house cause I got laid off. They say I can come back after I get a job but I'm pregnant and don't think ill have much luck in it. Also my fiance told me if I ever got kicked out that he would come ...
A. 19 October 2009: I wholeheartedly agree with Satindesire.. What a family @shudder@... (read in full...)
Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?
Q. Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me ...
A. 19 October 2009: Hormones my dear. Learn to control your impulses. And there is NOTHING worng with feeling turned on my a guy, it is how well you control yourself that determine the outcome.
Might be a good time to talk to your mom ( or another adult you trust) a... (read in full...)
Parent imposed curfew has destroyed my social life! Why have they turned against me?
Q. I'm 20 years old but feel like a child as my parents treat me like one yet treat my younger brother like a adult. My parents brought my brother a house for him and his gf to live in but have raised my rent to pay for the mortage and the expensive ...
A. 16 October 2009: I would do whatever I could to save up and find a room or a flatmate and simple move out. Curfew at 20? Ridiculous.... (read in full...)
Why should I save my virginity when other people don't?
Q. Why should I save my virginity when others people don't ? and why would I wait for the right girls in case the right girl could be a loose one as well. I can't see any points of waiting for me. even my ex-girlfriend when she was with me she siad she...
A. 16 October 2009: That is like saying :"If everyone else jumps off a bridge why shouldn't you?"
If your moral compass, upbringing, religious conviction whatnot tells you to wait til you find someone to share this with then don't compromise yourself. Don't sell you... (read in full...)
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