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| | Honeypie's profile:I'm 39, married with 3 kids and a couple of pet. Been married little over 10 years. Been thru good times and rough times. Thru open communication and love we overcame problems in the marriage and thru all that I learned a lot about me and about relationships.
I have a college degree, which I do not use at the moment. I'm hoping to go back to school for another which I do intent to use:)
I have strong family bonds and have traveled the world.
I'm a good listener and I try to "put" myself in whomever's shoes. I believe in honesty, morals, values, love, trust and good communication. So the answer I give out I do so with a lot of though and honesty behind it. |
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Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?
Q. should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance....
A. 7 November 2009: Condoms are a good thing, use water based lube. Some people do the whole enema thing, but a hot bath and a good cleaning is really all that is needed. She however might feel better with the enema. Take your time getting her ready, don't just try and ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...
A. 7 November 2009: This might sound corny and please understand I'm NOT talking down to you, BUT consider getting a puppy and "raise" it for a couple of years. See how well you handle everything.
I know very well that a puppy and a baby is like comparing apples a... (read in full...)
Help! My friends and family are taking advantage of my skills. How do I say no and not offend anyone?
Q. Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to j...
A. 7 November 2009: Tell them to get an appointment at the salon you work at and you can handle their hair.
IF you STOP cutting/styling their hair they will eventually stop asking.... (read in full...)
We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?
Q. Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...
A. 7 November 2009: It is an emotional affair. All the energy you are both spending flirting is taken away from the "real" relationship. I mean really? Would you mail/send the pictures to his wife to see? Do you think she knows?
Reverse the situation. YOUR man/husb... (read in full...)
Should I tell my best friend her boyfriend kissed me?
Q. My best friends boy-friend kissed another girl and guess who it was! ME!! But i dont like him .... I think he's a jerk. So should i tell her or walk away ?? Cause i dont want to tell her and ruin our friendship... PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!...
A. 5 November 2009: You might loose your friend anyways, after all her BF kissed YOU and you "let" him.
I still suggest that you are honest and tell her.
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I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: It happened 33 years ago. You need to let it go. She obviously isn't going to tell you the whole story or the story you expect/want her to tell. Maybe she doesn't even remember.
I know that might sound a little wrong and if this was "new" stuff I ... (read in full...)
Why am I hurting down there?
Q. I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few months ago, and the area between my vagina and bum hurts, and it has been for about 3 days now. Is this normal? Please reply....
A. 2 November 2009: Urinary tract infection maybe? Go see your doctor. And PLEASE use more then just condoms, they are ONLY 85% safe, if you are that you and having sex I suggest you get on the pill as well as use condoms. Better safe then sorry.
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Just wondering...for those of you who were cheated on...how did you find out.
Q. To those of you in long standing relationships who have been cheated on by your better half, HOW did you find out?...
A. 2 November 2009: My husband was dumb enough to just minimize an email between him and his ex wife. I need to check my mail and hit the button and whuupti up came the emails. Since they both just hit reply every time it was many many emails back and forth RIGHT there ... (read in full...)
Do her drunken texts reveal something new?
Q. We all know how blunt or honest we can be when drunk. Here's the scenario. She's 23, at a bar, drunk and I'm at home relaxing from a long day of work. Here's the texts: Me: What's up? Her: I'm at a bar babe... gettin pretty drunk haha Me: Lo...
A. 2 November 2009: I wouldn't read so much into it honestly. She was drunk.
Cute is ( in female speak) you are a good looking guy. Now if she had used HOT or STUD.. it could have meant interest.
Sorry.... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend to try new things to spice things up!
Q. My wife doesn't like: anal sex (tried once too painful), deep throating, facials or cum swallowing (the last three only on rare occasions, very rare. I don't need her to compromise and do them all, all the time, but wouldn't it be fair for her ...
A. 2 November 2009: I agree with Gina. Anal is not for everyone. If she is enjoying being fingered, then enjoy it too. Can always try beads and other fun stuff.
To be honest I think facial cum shots are for the porn movies only, I really don't think any women tr... (read in full...)
Is this incest?
Q. Ok, Im 19.. I have a 21 year old sister who has a boyfriend at the age of 35.. He has a nephew at the same age as me! We have been talking for a while and my sister found out and her and her boyfriend tried to set us up... My sister an her bo...
A. 2 November 2009: Right out of Wiki:
Incest is any sexual activity between close relatives (often within the immediate family) irrespective of the ages of the participants and irrespective of their consent, that is illegal or socially taboo. The type of sexual acti... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends make fun of me for my beliefs and he always takes their side!
Q. My bf's friends put me down for my Christian values and beliefs. They always make fun of me and put me down. My bf doesnt say anything to them. He lets them get away with it. In fact, he basically defends them and takes their side!!! He says ...
A. 27 October 2009: I think you need to find a guy who shares your beliefs, not put them down.
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How do I overcome the bullying? I feel so ugly compared to her.
Q. I'm sat here in tears thinking over the events of yesterday and I really just need someone to listen and I would welcome any sort of advice on how to move on... By way of a brief introduction I'm 27, single mother, working part-time with m...
A. 27 October 2009: Wow how old were those guys? Like 5 years old? Or at least they had the maturity level of some 5 year old. Sure they meant to hurt you ( for whatever reason, usually because they saw you as an easy target).
As far as your ex and his new dreamy g... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable to want my husband to stop phoning and taking out a "friend" as he calls her.
Q. Am I being unreasonable to want my husband to stop phoning and taking out a "friend" as he calls her? This 'friend' has been in my husband's life for a long time now abuot 4 years, we used to go to a certain pub each week and he would always b...
A. 27 October 2009: I agree too. I'm sorry he is being such a wanker! If you look at your life and your marriage what would YOU like to see happen? So you think him not talking to her would help your marriage? Or would he start to "resent" you or simply find another ... (read in full...)
He backed off after I told him the truth about my past!
Q. I met somebody about 8 months ago, he seemed to be a really genuine guy with good morals and lots of ambition like me and I really thought it could go somewhere. We had several dates and was all going well only I made the mistake of admitting I had ...
A. 27 October 2009: I would let him go. He find you "lacking" in the girlfriend material but "good enough" to screw. Basically. But your gut already told you that. Listen to your gut :)
I agree with Ask Older Sister. There is no need to go into details abou... (read in full...)
Is sex overrated?
Q. As the scrren name may suggest i have done a lot of things in my short life, however there is one important thing i am yet to do , and yes , it is to lose my virginity . I am purely writing this looking for honest answers to the question, that is ...
A. 27 October 2009: I think sex can be amazing and it can be overrated. Same as anything really.
For many waiting on the "right" person to "pop the cherry" with makes it worth the wait. Personally I was almost 19 and he was definently the right guy. I'm really g... (read in full...)
Did he ever have feelings for me? Or was I used?
Q. I have been involved with someone for around three years he is Indian and I am British.He deceived me and went to India and got married and he broke my heart,we split up nearly a year ago and I still think about him sometimes.The biggest thing for ...
A. 27 October 2009: It is hard to know for sure, what his motives was/is. Sure it is not uncommon for men who are to have an arranged marriage to date women outside of their faith/culture til it's time to do as the family wants ( marry a picked out bride). It doesn't ... (read in full...)
By cutting him off, will he realize what he is walking away from?
Q. My husband walked out on me and our 2 children 3 months ago for another woman at work who is 17 years younger than him. We have been married for 9 years and together for 13. I have tried everything I can to try and win him back and I know he is ...
A. 19 October 2009: He wants his cake and eat it too. Sorry he can not stick to his promise, he has no spine :(
I would start the divorce and get the ball rolling, even if he did dump her could you ever really trust him? Love him? Respect him?
Does he reall... (read in full...)
Is she faking it?
Q. is this even possible because ive read alot of places that its not yet my gf seems to have 3+ orgasm just of vaginal sex? is she faking it? ...
A. 19 October 2009: It is quite possible to get multiple's from "ordinary" vaginal sex and I agree, faking one orgasm I can see but 3? I don't see it.
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Moral beliefs on fantasies?
Q. I was wondering what people think about this one. I feel that if you're in a relationship with someone, you shouldn't fantasise/masturbate over someone else. To me, at that moment in time you're choosing to be with (think of) someone other th...
A. 19 October 2009: I will disagree with you as well. Fantasy and reality are two very separate things. I think a healthy fantasy can keep a person alive, even endure unimagined pain and suffering.
I understand the loyalty part of your idea, but I just don't agree. I... (read in full...)
Can little lies lead to bigger lies?
Q. Hi, I just started dating this guy, and I'm noticing some strange little consistencies that I think maybe I'm being over sensitive about. However I feel like I need to address them. First of all, when we started seeing each other, I asked him if h...
A. 19 October 2009: It's called the snowball effect. So yes, little lies can grow and grow til it all tumbles down.... (read in full...)
Am I the only pregnant woman living apart from her significant other?
Q. Help me. My fiances family kicked me out of there house cause I got laid off. They say I can come back after I get a job but I'm pregnant and don't think ill have much luck in it. Also my fiance told me if I ever got kicked out that he would come ...
A. 19 October 2009: I wholeheartedly agree with Satindesire.. What a family @shudder@... (read in full...)
Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?
Q. Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me ...
A. 19 October 2009: Hormones my dear. Learn to control your impulses. And there is NOTHING worng with feeling turned on my a guy, it is how well you control yourself that determine the outcome.
Might be a good time to talk to your mom ( or another adult you trust) a... (read in full...)
Parent imposed curfew has destroyed my social life! Why have they turned against me?
Q. I'm 20 years old but feel like a child as my parents treat me like one yet treat my younger brother like a adult. My parents brought my brother a house for him and his gf to live in but have raised my rent to pay for the mortage and the expensive ...
A. 16 October 2009: I would do whatever I could to save up and find a room or a flatmate and simple move out. Curfew at 20? Ridiculous.... (read in full...)
Why should I save my virginity when other people don't?
Q. Why should I save my virginity when others people don't ? and why would I wait for the right girls in case the right girl could be a loose one as well. I can't see any points of waiting for me. even my ex-girlfriend when she was with me she siad she...
A. 16 October 2009: That is like saying :"If everyone else jumps off a bridge why shouldn't you?"
If your moral compass, upbringing, religious conviction whatnot tells you to wait til you find someone to share this with then don't compromise yourself. Don't sell you... (read in full...)
Misreading women
Q. I have a situation where a young lady has started to flirt with me (in an office environment at her workplace). She is very nice and it is light flirting. I have been going there for about 4 weeks and initially I did not pay much attention to her. ...
A. 16 October 2009: Well I personally finish one relationship before starting to even consider a new one....
I can't say if she is interested or not. Maybe she heard you are already involved with someone else and she is backing off.. ... (read in full...)
Vaginal flatulence - Help!
Q. The title says it all really. It seems that every time my boyfriend and I make love, that I have this problem. He does notice, laughs a little, and we carry on as we were, but it's a serious mood killer for me. Do I feel attractive when ...
A. 14 October 2009: Kegel exercises - never to early to start them!
And yes it is very normal and you two just need to find a way for him to enter you right.... (read in full...)
Did my text ruin our chance to renew our relationship?
Q. Sorry that it is a little long, anyway i dated this guy for a few months he lost his job and i helped him out but after a while i could not take it anymore he just started asking me for money over and over again i felt like his mother, but i still ...
A. 14 October 2009: You are his "security blanket" he calls and have sex with you when he isn't getting it from others..
Dump him and ignore him, time for you to really move on and do not let him back into your life.
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Is playing hard to get a good thing?
Q. ok what does a guy mean when he says "your playing hard to get"?is that a good thing?...
A. 14 October 2009: Him asking you if you are playing hard to get means that he wants you to be interested in him.
Normally I don't believe in "playing" games, so I would be honest with him, if you ARE playing hard to get I would tell him maybe, if you are NOT then... (read in full...)
12 years later and still clueless in the sack? Is it time to pack my bags?
Q. Here's my situation in a nutshell. Mr X and I have been dating for 12 years. We have never, ever, had good sex (for me). We have sex twice a week, he gets off every time and I get off once every six months only because I am so frusterated at that ...
A. 14 October 2009: Yikes. 12 years of bad sex? Whoa, you have the patience of a saint!
I know sex is everything to a relationship, but usually if the sex works so does the relationship.
I think he is lazy.
If you intend on staying in this relationship I woul... (read in full...)
I'm unhappy and he doesn't listen
Q. Should I stay or go?? I'll try and be brief with this, i met my partner 4 years ago, it was great at first we travelled the world together, and used to do a lot of things together. We moved into our own place but a year ago he decided we move bac...
A. 14 October 2009: I would honestly move OUT and get a place of my own if I was you. Living with your parents is OK in emergencies and for shorter durations ( of if you need to be their care givers) You are 42, correct?
Think about WHAT you want and go for it. If h... (read in full...)
Can anyone reccommend any places to go in the Caribbean for a romantic getaway?
Q. I was wondering what some of everyone's favorite places to go to in the Caribbean for a romantic getaway. What has good night life? What has the best scenery? What has the best beaches? Best hotels/resorts? Best things to do? Most r...
A. 14 October 2009: If I had the money I would love to try one of the Eco friendly resports like :
http://www.eco-tropicalresorts.com/caribbean.htm
Haven't been there - yet:)
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I'm being used by guys for just sex
Q. it seems as though im being used for sex by guys...im tired of it...this guy tells me were making love and i told him i took it seriously...and all he says is his job is very demanding and he's not ignoring me or wanting to hurt my feelings... ...
A. 13 October 2009: Honestly how long do you wait to have sex with a guy you met?
Maybe you need to take the time to get to know them before having sex, that way you will pretty fast weed out the ones that "only" want sex. They won't stick around if you don't pu... (read in full...)
Do I tell her or keep it to myself?
Q. Another Best Friends Wife Story... So my best friend got married to a wonderful girl about three years ago. She has been a very good friend of mine as well. I have been attracted to her throughout their relationship but very easily kept thin...
A. 13 October 2009: I guess my questions are:
keep my feelings for her to myself?
You seem like a smart man, what do YOU think would happen if you confessed your attraction to her? 1 of 2 things. Either she feels like you or she does not. If she does, what ... (read in full...)
Cant cope with the images of my wife with another man
Q. Please can anyone out there help me. After twenty years of marrage my wife had an affair and it has destroyed our marrage.I absolutely adored the woman and this has devastated me . I am only a shell of the man i used to be.I am now smoking heavly ...
A. 8 October 2009: Stop giving your ex-wife that much power over your life.
I understand that smoking hash and drinking have momentarily masked to pain of the betrayal of your wife, BUT in all fairness she did NOT make you pick up the pipe or the bottle THAT was... (read in full...)
Does being too nice drive women away?
Q. Along time ago my mother told me I was too nice to women and this is why my relationships never last.I have been married two times.The first about 5 years and the second about 9 years..I have had a couple of girl friends after this but nothing ...
A. 8 October 2009: I don't believe in the Nice-guy-always-finish-last either.
I don't think you can treat another human being ( be it a girlfriend or stranger) too nicely.
Did both your wives divorce you saying to were too nice?
What is it you are doing that... (read in full...)
My bf rips my thongs on purpose. how can I make him stop.
Q. ill make this short and simple. my boyfriend keeps literally ripping my underwear everytime we have sex! we will get into the mood and he will legit RIP my thong off! im getting rly irritated because i keep having to buy new ones! i have told him ...
A. 8 October 2009: MAKE him bu you new ones.. that simple or go commando.. ( that is no panties at all)
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She broke up with me after I moved 1000 miles to be with her!
Q. I met the girl two years ago. We reconnected over the phone a year later, which eventually developed into a long distance relationship. We fell pretty hard for one another and took frequent trips back and forth from our home states. As we both saw...
A. 8 October 2009: So what do I do?
Either pack up and move home or re-decorate, take one room at a time and get "rid" of her influence.
Do I give up on her?
What Else can you do? She gave up on you a LONG time ago.
What happened?
I think she never... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to give up drinking, but I don't really want to.
Q. i have been married for about 2years with a 4 months son. it has developed that of late my wife dosen't want me to drink and also to hangout with my friends and as we met i used to drink something have tried to quit but all in vein. the other da...
A. 8 October 2009: If the two of you can no find a compromise I think you are going to loose your wife. I can understand still having friends and being able to hang out with them is important, but really is drinking more important then your wife and son?
I guess th... (read in full...)
Do I have a disorder?
Q. I'm a 15 years old and I don't remember the last time I was truly happy. Sure, I laugh and I smile but I can't remember what true happiness is like. I haven't felt it in a long time. I don't have a bad life, I think I am a good looking girl and...
A. 25 September 2009: I agree that you sound like you are depressed. Don't fake it, talk to your parents and get medical help.
A LOT of women fall into depression after having an abortion, that is really "normal", it is not something you "just" get over. I hope you... (read in full...)
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