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| | dr.2.be's profile:HeY!!! Im Jenny! I live in Orlando Florida. (20 minutes away from Mickey Mouse!! =P) I am a student at the University of Central Florida: Burnett School of Biomedical Sciences- College of Medicine. My major is molecular, microbiology and neuroscience. I also have a degree in chemistry. School is my life and I love it!
Im in my early twenties...but I feel much younger and I prolly act much younger at times too and im not afraid to admit it. Its fun going back to childhood once and awhile! I don't want to grow up and I feel that being young at heart is important to enjoying life. But at the same time, I do handle my schoolwork, and other grown up stuff in a timely and mature manner as biologically and resposibility wise, I am an adult. But I don't let it get me down!
Career wise, I hope to earn my M.D./Ph.d degree and become a physician scientist. I want to practice neurosurgery and become a pioneering surgeon- developing new surgical techniques in spine trauma and perform research to restore people's ability to walk. Scientists are doing preliminary research on this right now and by the time I am done with school, I hope to join them. It may take nearly two decades or more until this surgery can be perfromed on humans as it is utilizing entirely new technology and medical advancements. (ie stem cells). But eventually, when it is perfected, we may be able to help those who lost their ability to walk in accidents...amazing! I also would love to teach and speak at medical conferences too. I want to go as far as I can in the field I love and make a huge contribution to medicine!! The possibilities are endless in the neuroscience field!!
I have only been in two relationships. But I have learned from them and feel I can offer good advice. My friends said I give very good advice so hopefully I can help people on here too. I am currently single now and just going with the flow. Right now, I am just concentrating on my education, staying healthy and achieving my dream career! :-)
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4 July 2009: Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...
I haven't been on here since March, thank you for all the compliments and I will get back to y'all.
No replies yet... 5 May 2009: Hey everybody, I just want to say thank you to all who sent messages to me and complimenting me on my education thus far. It is greatly appreciated. Sorry I haven't wrote back to any of you in forever but I haven't been logged on here since march ...
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Do men enjoy giving women oral sex?
Q. Right then... 'kay. I am sixteen and my bf has just turned 17 and is 11 months older than me, and we are just getting into the whole sex thing, and I was wondering: Do guys actually like going down on girls? because I've got a friend and he said...
A. 13 November 2009: I think your friend may have had a bad experience with someone who wasn't that clean down there or he may be one of those guys who don't like doing it. Just like there are girls who don't like giving a guy oral.
If your boyfriend wants to to it wi... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?
Q. Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?...
A. 13 November 2009: Its totally normal and there is nothing wrong with a girl watching porn. I watch porn and masturbate too. I think its good cause allows you to get aroused enough so that you can explore your own body and find more pleasing areas. In some ways, it ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!
Q. Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a ...
A. 13 November 2009: You have some options here. You could:
a) say no condom, no sex.
b) go on birth control pills
c) explore other types of birth control methods such as a diaphragm or IUD.
Let me tell you that what your boyfriend says about condom use ... (read in full...)
Are breast implants attractive to men?
Q. I am in great shape and all natural. As women we are inundated with images of women with the perfect breast implants. Women are getting boob jobs all the time. Honestly, to the men out there are breast implants attractive. Do they look fake? ...
A. 31 October 2009: Well like many of the other aunts stated, men like breasts of all sizes, shapes, and looks. The vast majority of them don't care wether they are fake or not. However, they may have preferences in size and shape including whether the boobs are fake ... (read in full...)
On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?
Q. Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...
A. 31 October 2009: I would like him to ask me.....but in a silent way. That is how it was when my boyfriend kissed me the first time. We actually finished studying together and when he walked me to my car and gave me a hug. Then while we were still holding onto each ... (read in full...)
Am I a worthless human being?
Q. Hmm... I am not sure what I want to ask... Well, lets make a start and turn this into a novel, eh? Anyway, I am 15 and I have a series of what I call 'problems'. Everyone I know at school have had there first kiss, had a girlfriend/boyf...
A. 16 October 2009: Yes I did! How did you guess Gerta? Sorry about that anon poster! My bad!!! =/... (read in full...)
Am I a worthless human being?
Q. Hmm... I am not sure what I want to ask... Well, lets make a start and turn this into a novel, eh? Anyway, I am 15 and I have a series of what I call 'problems'. Everyone I know at school have had there first kiss, had a girlfriend/boyf...
A. 10 October 2009: Hey Girl!!! No way, your not a loser! You are smart. Having sex when you are only 15 years old poses many risks. We are often not mature enough at that age to deal with the possible consequences and more vaunerable to psychological fa... (read in full...)
Is this just a nice way of him breaking up with me?
Q. My boyfriend wants to break up for now. Here is the deal. We went to the same college for one semester and it was amazing. We did everything together. Then I transfered to a school about 2 hours away and the first semester was hard but it work...
A. 8 September 2009: I think he needs to focus on his school and fraternity, like he said. School is very stressful, especially as you move up in credits and classes as they get significantly harder, especially if he is a science major or med student. He may feel like ... (read in full...)
It burns when I pee
Q. this passing weekend...i went over to a friend's house.... i had met him before and was very attracted to him, he was very nice to me and everything(this was 3 weeks back) the day before this friday...he told me that he wanted to have sex with ...
A. 8 September 2009: Let me tell you first off that this guy is a 'donkey'-hole. He has no respect for your feelings and is very selfish. He is never going to listen to you and enjoys the power that he has over you when having sex. A very controlling man. You need to ... (read in full...)
Did she used to be a guy?? Whats with all the hair?
Q. A girl that I just saw partly naked has a thick line of hair that leaves her navel and travels down to her private area. I wouldn't be so paranoid right now but she doesn't look too ladylike. . .as in she's not pretty. Someimes I even wonder if she ...
A. 7 September 2009: I understood your post as you said it and although I do agree that you did sound a little harsh, you are probably not an insensitive guy. You are just really blunt, curious, straight forward and want to know an answer to a question. While it is a ... (read in full...)
Do you know any married men that have managed to stay faithful?
Q. Do you all know of any married guys who are faithful?...
A. 28 August 2009: I know my dad has been faithful and my uncle as well!!!... (read in full...)
Please tell me to go see a doctor immediately..
Q. Hey, another probable. This is kinda embaressing. Emmmm, today i have noticed after going to the loo, that the water was all bright red!!! This has never happened before. Lately its been difficult going to the loo. Well not diffficult, more...
A. 28 August 2009: Please see your doctor immediately.
Blood while passing stool is not normal. Many medical conditions can cause bloody stool such as hemmorhoids, ulcers, GI tract infections, and even cancer.
Take note of your symptoms. Do you have any kind of... (read in full...)
I'd like to hear about women's experience with implants!
Q. My question is about breast implants and confidence. I have very small breasts which appear very far from one another and no matter what I do they will not grow. Even on birth control they haven't changed in size or fullness and it really affects ...
A. 17 August 2009: If I were you I would not get implants. Yes, they will increase the size of your breats but there are too many downsides to getting them.
1) They are a lot of money. If you want them to look good you have to go to a good surgeon. Surgeons who char... (read in full...)
How many times a month or a year do you feel sick?
Q. Just a quick question. Not anything to do with relationships but I’ll ask anyway. I would like as many people as possible to answer please. Just in general, how many times a month or how many times a year do you feel sick? Like just not feeling well ...
A. 17 August 2009: As far as being sick with a virus or bacterial infection, I would say less than twice a year. I don't remember the last time I had something as simple as a cold. Not feeling well in general however, depends on the time of year. During the schoo... (read in full...)
How big or not big do ladies like him to be?
Q. Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...
A. 17 August 2009: Im not too picky on sizes. I am rather petite and I find that a larger penis can be uncomfortable in some positions. I am currently dating someone who is 9 inches and we can't do doggie or have hard sex since it hurts me too much. I like the average ... (read in full...)
Having trouble with my mom, not sure what to do
Q. Well i need a little advice.My mom is very Bi-Polar(not actually diagnosed).She is always upset about something or shes happy one minute then shes cursing and yelling another.For example:we have a bishon frise(puppy) and he is locked up all day ...
A. 12 August 2009: I know how you feel. I grew up in the same situation. My mom had significant mood swings. One day she would be happy and then the next day she would be in a really bad mood. It was always tough between me and her; I had an eating disorder throughout ... (read in full...)
Jealous of another student!
Q. i was the smartest girl in class just after miss intelligent came over im alittle jealousd and all the teachers like her now even though i'm better than her in everything other than studies, what do i do? ...
A. 13 July 2009: Don't think of this new girl as someone who stole your smartest student status. Turn this jealously into motivation to be back on top once again. Its easy to be on top when no one challenges you but when you have no challenge and stay on top, some ... (read in full...)
What color mascara and eye-liner would look good with blue eyes?
Q. hey i have a make up question. i have blue eyes and i was wondering what color eyeliner and mascara would look best? thanks for the help...
A. 13 July 2009: I have blue eyes and I wear black mascara and black eyeliner. It really brings out my eyes and eyelashes and makes them stand out. I don't wear any other makeup. Without it, I look like I have no eyelashes.
You can experiment and see what looks be... (read in full...)
The Most Amazing Guy I have Ever Met
Q. Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...
A. 13 July 2009: Thank you everyone for your comments! :-)
Its great to know that there are others who are in the same situation. Who have moved on but will never forget that one they could never have. Yet thinking about them brings a smile to your face.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to live with me anymore
Q. Ok so im 19 and my bf is 20. We've been dating for a year and a half and for the past 6 months we've been living together. Now he's bought his own place and doesn't want me to move in with him he's told me to find my own place but we can still be ...
A. 12 July 2009: Hey girl. Let me tell you this. In general moving in with your boyfriend=disaster. It is not uncommon for young couples in their early 20's to move in together thinking everything will be great then breaking up and ending up dissappointed later.
... (read in full...)
He can't get hard for me because he's chatting sexually online
Q. i am married for 29 years my husband often had afairs but stopped almost 20 years now he has now join a chat line and speaks to a girl often where he contacts her but that has stopped she now contacts him regulary he was about to leave with her he ...
A. 12 July 2009: Im going to be blunt.
Your husband is not treating you right. Hes a cheater and this far in the game I don't think he will change.
He is not getting an erection for you because he has this other woman on his mind. He denies it because he doesn... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy?
Q. is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy? Recently, i have been building my confidence and i find that going on dates with guys i know i'm not attracted to really gives me a boost as its getting me more comfortable arou...
A. 12 July 2009: Theres nothing wrong with that. I have gone out on many dates with guys who liked me but I didn't want to be any more than friends and vice versa. I made it clear to them that I only want friendship before we went out and I find that we still had a ... (read in full...)
She asked for a photo of my penis, I sent it and then find out she was humiliating me in front of her friends!
Q. I started online dating a couple of weeks ago. I have never done anything like this before - and found it really fun. I started it because I wanted to find a nice girl to date. Anyway, I started talking to this 24 year old girl. We were going to go ...
A. 12 July 2009: This girl is no good. Stay away from her. Shes the type that likes to demoralize people and make them feel bad about themselves. Meaning she's either stuck up and full or herself or posses some insecurities. Plus this is very immature for a 24 year ... (read in full...)
Have you cheated or been cheated on?
Q. I am just curious how frequently people cheat or get cheated on? By partners, fiances, spouses? And if you have cheated, why did you do it? Is cheating unavoidable in long term relationships? Do all partners get bored at some point?...
A. 12 July 2009: I have been cheated on twice before. But I have also cheated. Although my boyfriend never found out, I really don't want to do it again. Cheating made me feel really guilty. =/... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of me and call me fat...but I'M NOT FAT!
Q. ok so. Pretty much all of my friends are non stop making fun of me for being fat. BUT IM NOT FAT! When im not there they talk about how fat i am and draw pictures of how fat i am. dont say theyre jealous cus theyre all skinnier than me. but im still ...
A. 12 July 2009: These are not good friends! Real friends don't care what you look like, how you dress, how much you weigh, etc. Maybe you should hang out with other girls who won't call you such a name. Im your height, weigh just as much as you and wear a s... (read in full...)
I'm forcing myself to throw up because I want to be a model
Q. My boyfriend is freaking out cause he caught me making myself throw up (been doing this for a week). I mean I'm 18 so I'm legally adult and its not like I'm killing myself. But he nags at me because "hurting" myself and he doesn't want to be like ...
A. 7 July 2009: Please stop before it gets too much out of hand.
You DONT want to end up with a full blown eating disorder. You just started and its easier to stop if you haven't been doing it very long.
I was anorexic for 5 years. I still have it now but ... (read in full...)
I need someone to talk to
Q. Hi... Is there anyone I can talk to about stuff? I'm a teenager, don't have many issues, but I do really need someone to talk to, because my family doesn't really care how I feel as long as I do well.. Thanks :)...
A. 6 July 2009: Hey girl, you can talk to me anytime. I grew up in the same situation...having really no one to talk to. My family wasn't really there either.
You can message me anytime. :-)
Or if you have aim you can im me at gottascrewlose86... (read in full...)
Naked and cuffed to the bed and now wife won't talk to me!
Q. hello,I just got married few weeks ago we are on our honeymoon..one night I decided to be kinky after dinner and decided for bondage,my wife my against being tied;so I handcuffed my self to the hotel bed..she was downstairs for dinner,so I had the ...
A. 4 July 2009: Irrational. She should not have gotten angry over a lost key. Plus, you didn't lose them on purpose. Even worse she left you handcuffed to the bed naked and didn't even bother to cover you up, left and then you had essentially no choice but to bare ... (read in full...)
I'm on the Pill but we don't use condoms, could I still get pregnant?
Q. hey i'm sophie, 16 right so i've been on the pill for nearly 6 months now and everytime me and my fiancé have sex we don't use a condom. Can i still get pregnant? i'm slightly worried. please help....
A. 4 July 2009: First of all, to the anon reader below. One of my friends from high school got married at 18. She's 21 and has 3 kids already. Im older than her and I can't even see having one! It depends on the person, some people grow up faster!
If you use your... (read in full...)
What can I cook her that's fairly simple for our romantic night in together?
Q. So basically i am planning to have a romantic evening in with my girlfriend, in a couple weeks time. The plan is: Dinner, maybe a film and then whatever entails. However the problem is i'm not a very good cook. I'd rather not cook her a micro...
A. 4 July 2009: Like everyone else, I would say pasta. Spaghetti, Penne, Lasagna, etc. Pasta is easy and its not too expensive to make.
You could also make a homemade pizza. They are so good. Just buy the dough and then you can put it together and be creative... (read in full...)
The Most Amazing Guy I have Ever Met
Q. Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...
A. 4 July 2009: Samantha x, Thank you for your comment! :-)
I definitely agree. The feeling I have for him is wonderful. It lifts my spirits and makes my day to think about him excelling in his future career and being happy in life. I can't imagine not being ha... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and haven't gotten my period yet...
Q. I am fourteen and still yet to have my period. I'd like to hear from you the age you first got your period...or a friend. Even if it was young or still yet to have gotten it... All help appreciated!...
A. 4 July 2009: Hey you have plenty of time girl. I started mine really late....when I was 17 years old. A senior in high school. There was nothing wrong with me and that is just the way I was. I was a late bloomer anyway. I didn't start developing breasts until I ... (read in full...)
How can I make my vagina less tight for my unusually large boyfriend?
Q. Err, how do I put this? Long story short: my boyfriend has a long, thick penis and I have an unusually small, tight vagina. Sex doesn't last very long because these two factors combined mean everything is finished before it even starts. Our sex life ...
A. 3 July 2009: I am also very tight and my boyfriend is very endowed too and he used to have the same problem during sex. He would cum within 5 minutes of sex and I would just be starting. There were some other problems too. Here are some things we did to solve ... (read in full...)
My mom won't let me get a second piercing ...
Q. I am 13 and I have one ear peircing on each earlobe. But on my left ear I want a second peircining t the top ( a little silver ring) and my mom would never agree. I am not the kind of girl that would go behind her back and get one nd either way she ...
A. 3 July 2009: Hey girl, I know how that feels, I went through the same thing when I was 13.
My mom didn't want me to get a second hole in my ear either and she thought cartilage piercings were whack. She was really old fashioned and wouldn't even let me wear ... (read in full...)
I've had 4 sexual partners, is that a lot for a woman my age?
Q. I'm 23 and have had 4 sexual partners. Is that a lot for a woman my age? My last ex told me during our break up that guys will think I'm really slutty now that I've been with 4 different men, but he might've been trying to make me feel bad. ...
A. 3 July 2009: Im your age and I have been with the same amount of guys as you. I never worried about it and among my friends I am considered "pure" and innocent because I haven't been with nearly as many as they have.
A slut to me (my opinion) would be a gir... (read in full...)
How do you cope if they don't return your love?
Q. i am deeply in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. All i want is him. He will make my life complete. He is the only person i have ever loved. i dont know what to do: im feeling sad depressed lonely and desperate. I don't k...
A. 29 June 2009: Hey girl, I know how you feel I have been through the same thing. A few years ago I met this attractive, tall, intelligent gentleman in one of my classes. We messaged each other on facebook for awhile and found out we had a lot in common. We both ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he just leave me alone and move on?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a month ago. When we first met he was a sweetheart and would do anything for me and made me feel very special. He was proud of my medical studies as I am a med student and he was very encouraging but after ...
A. 27 June 2009: Hey y'all, thanks for the replies. I continued to talk to him cause I felt really bad and wanted to make him feel better. Bad choice, he just made me feel bad. Im not going to talk to him anymore and just ignore him. Hes a loser anyway.
I thi... (read in full...)
Itching after anal... Should I see a Doctor?
Q. Hi, I tried anal sex for the 2nd time last week and it was protected and everything but now I freaking out that I may have a STD or something. It initially hurt the first day, but have a slight itchy feeling there every now and again but nothing ...
A. 18 June 2009: Chances are you may not have an STD, especially if the intercourse was protected. The itching may be caused by slight tears or swollen veins in the anal opening or just inside. They may bleed when you go to the bathroom or just plain itch. These are ... (read in full...)
Who has it worse: the one being cheated on, or the one doing the cheating?
Q. Do you think that if you are the cheater and are full of remorse and regret for what you have done and love and adore your spouse dearly, could it possibly feel worse than being the one who has been cheated on? Before you ask, we were going through ...
A. 14 March 2009: Yes the pain the cheater feels can be more intense than the pain that the one who has been cheated on experiences. However, it is not like that in all cases and is probably rather rare. Some guys or girls who cheat don't care about their part... (read in full...)
Will he think I'm cheap for sleeping with him? Was that all he wanted?
Q. hey people i split up with my boyfriend of one year 3 weeks ago on my terms as we argued all of the time and he wasnt very nice to me. Im quite happy about it. 2 weeks ago, i went out and met a ver attractive boy. We kissed and he asked for ...
A. 14 March 2009: Correction: Second Paragraph:
The fact that he didnt try to get you in bed on the first date tells me this based on past experiences. Note that a guy who is truly after sex will want it as soon as possible....ie they want it the first date.
... (read in full...)
Who has it worse: the one being cheated on, or the one doing the cheating?
Q. Do you think that if you are the cheater and are full of remorse and regret for what you have done and love and adore your spouse dearly, could it possibly feel worse than being the one who has been cheated on? Before you ask, we were going through ...
A. 14 March 2009: Im not married but I will help answer your question anyway. I think the person who cheats feels the most pain if they really really and truly love their partner. They feel guilty, ashamed, embarrassed and angry at themselves for what they did to... (read in full...)
Will he think I'm cheap for sleeping with him? Was that all he wanted?
Q. hey people i split up with my boyfriend of one year 3 weeks ago on my terms as we argued all of the time and he wasnt very nice to me. Im quite happy about it. 2 weeks ago, i went out and met a ver attractive boy. We kissed and he asked for ...
A. 14 March 2009: Every guy thinks about having sex, its always on their mind 24/7. Some guys...its all they think about when they go out with a girl; so much that they dont care about how the girl feels. Some care about you but sex is in the back of their mind, they ... (read in full...)
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