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Hi i James

Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.

I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.

Right now im at university studying to hopefully work in the criminal justice system or whatever i feel is right.

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No boyfriend! Because I'm too skinny?

Q.   Im 15 years old and never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I think maybe it cause im not that skinny or not that pretty. Some people laugh at me cause I've never had a bf. All my friends have had one. I just don't no what to think. ...

A.   6 April 2009: First off i wont be because of your looks, everyone is a gem in someone elses eye. Second off thinking like this may be the factor, men and women love confidence in a partner. If they know their partner is strong and confident that is sexy to alot... (read in full...)

Will I get charged for taking hotel towels if I send them back?

Q.   Hi there, I have just come back from holiday and have realised i have packed 2 of the hotels towels. do you think they will charge for this? if so do you think they waver this charge if i get in contact with them and post them back?...

A.   6 April 2009: Mate everyone steals hotel towels, im pretty sure its almost tradition to do so. Think of it as a free souvenir. But if you really want to send it back i doubt the hotel nor the police will do anything about a pair of towels.... (read in full...)

Older women dating younger guys

Q.   its high insight there something with girl of 31 years old going out with 29 year old guy? Is there anything wrong with this? ...

A.   5 April 2009: 2 years at that age is minor There is nothing wrong with that age gap... (read in full...)

I cant drive...does this make me a loser?

Q.   Hi,i just need some honest advice. Im 26 year old female and i dont drive. I did lessons a few years ago but just couldn't get my head round them so i quit. Also i suffer with anxiety -on and off and for the past few years i've been on antidepr...

A.   4 April 2009: It doesnt make you less of a person. I know plenty of people older than you who dont drive. In england we do have a good public transport system, as much as we complain its pretty good, you never pay tax for a bus and the driver wont chagre you for ... (read in full...)

Said yes to a boy for prom, now I wonder if I could do better...

Q.   It's my prom in June or July... either way it's still quite far off. My problem is a boy asked me to the prom and i automatically said 'yeh sure, id love to' i didn't really think about it, i wanted to seem laid back and casual about it but now im ...

A.   4 April 2009: i agree with acd719 here. You said yes to this boy. He seems shy and believe me its very hard for a shy boy to go up to a girl and ask her to a dance, and you said yes. I think as you already said yes you should go, have fun as you never know what... (read in full...)

I think my start in puberty is messed up

Q.   hi im 13 yrs old and i think my start in pubity is really messed up! i have hardly any pubic hair and what i do have is very close to the start of my penis i have armpit hair but not very much only about 3 or 4 hairs on each armpit and i was told...

A.   4 April 2009: Mate your only 13 i dont know why your worrying at your age. Puberty will come when it comes and it takes years for it to happen it wont happen over night. From what you've said your completly normal just wait your still young... (read in full...)

My g/f told me I was her first. Should I believe her?

Q.   my girlfriend told me she couldn't really feel something when i was inside her, but she told me i am her first time but before me there was a boy who just fingered her for a bit but didn't have proper sex, so she told me she never really have sex ...

A.   4 April 2009: Well she is your gf and unless she has given you a reason not to trust her you should Relationships are built on trust and if its not there just dont bother cus it will fail... (read in full...)

Am I to blame for his 'condition'?

Q.   My friend and I recently tried having sex. We had sex about 2 years ago when i first met him, but we never mentioned it again since it was in a drunken haze. Sorry for the graphic content: This time around he was hard in the beginning but as soon ...

A.   3 April 2009: His "condition" sounds like nevousness on his part. He is young and will get nervous when having sex. Its not your fault just an issue that happens sometimes.... (read in full...)

Advice please... Does size matter?

Q.   Do good looking guys fancy plain looking girls? Do tall thin guys fancy small heavy girls because I am 5ft2"....

A.   3 April 2009: As said before to each his own. Some like tall/short/medium some like curvy/slim etc No one person is alike and we all have our own tastes in people and im sure someone will like you... (read in full...)

Friends don't want to keep in touch after school

Q.   Hi I guess I'm an average 16 year old who loves her friends immensly. Many I have known since I was 4 years old, whilst others instantly became best friends when we met at high school. Recently, we've been disussing our futures, what careers we ...

A.   3 April 2009: I started uni last september and yes you do lose contact with old mates, but only if you let it happen. People do grow apart and you will change and find out more about who you are as an individual. But with things like facebook theres no reas... (read in full...)

Am I boring because I don't like to go clubbing?

Q.   Hi, i don't really like going clubbing but i do socialize alot in different ways i go to house parties and like meet new people quite often but clubbing just isn't my scene. because i don't like clubbing does this mean i am boring? ...

A.   2 April 2009: Clubbing isnt everyones cup of tea. Some people prefer a nice pint, some prefer a good book or movie. Whatever floats your boat as long as you enjoy yourself... (read in full...)

Boyfriend never gets jealous!

Q.   hey all. i just want to ask the guys a question. my boyfriend of two years neva gets jealous and that hurts. i end up wondering if he really loves me. am i bieng silly or oi have a reason to be worried?...

A.   2 April 2009: why would you want him too get jealous, it ruins relationships and destroys them. Plus some people just dont get jealous or it takes alot of effort to make them jealous. I think you should be happy as is, he trusts you and thats is alot ... (read in full...)

What does"take care"mean?

Q.   I got in a lil argument with my bf he txt me 10 min later and said sorry i meant not disrespect take care.. does the "take care" mean hes breaking up with me?...

A.   2 April 2009: in my opinion he is jsut saying sorry and take care, as in look after yourself etc im guessing he is sorry and doesnt want any hard feelings, as they say you shouldnt go to bed angry... (read in full...)

How do I get back with ex who has a girlfriend?

Q.   my ex and i were together 3 times; it was the 4th time we were going to get together but the [[welcome back]] dance came. he went with his friends and i went with mine. but he started dancing with another girl[[known as a slut]] so i tried to get ...

A.   2 April 2009: Dont get back Your young, you have alot of time for other boys and love and life. He hurt you, yes, we all get hurt and all have to move on. Truthfully the best way to get back is too move on show him your fine being happy by yourself and if he wa... (read in full...)

Is he using me? What should I do?

Q.   Ok I lust for this boy in my health class and we started talkin for about 2 months and I decided to give him my virginity which I now regret.after we stopped talkin to each other after we had sex I realize that he used me .a month later he called m...

A.   31 January 2009: The guy is plain and simple using you. He got into you pants and wanted to try again Stick with your bf, this guys not to be trusted... (read in full...)

Why do men cheat?

Q.   why do men cheat on girls? when they claim their inlove with you....why do they cheat period....

A.   4 January 2009: The question isnt why men cheat its why People cheat. Why? loads of reasons I couldnt name them all or why you may have been hurt without more info But men do cheat yes but so do women... (read in full...)

If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?

Q.   If a guy is taken and plays seven minutes in heaven with another girl, is he cheating?...

A.   30 December 2008: Depending on what he did If they sat there and chatted no If they played the game yes But he would be stupid to play it anyway considering hes taken and theres no way to say he didnt do anything... (read in full...)

Is masturbation bad for your health?

Q.   What is the average amount of ejaculation.. Is it bad for my health if I do this a lot?...

A.   29 December 2008: Quite the opposite Recently its been found out regular tugs keep the prostate healthy. So tug as much as you like, just not so much it hurts you Remember a spank a day keeps the docter away... (read in full...)

What do the guys look for in girls!

Q.   What kind of Looks does a guy look for in a girl? Blonde hair? Pretty nose? Big Mouth? Big B00bs? big booty? being thin? being tall? being stupid(not really a look but still common in many girls with boyfriends)...

A.   28 December 2008: Theres no one thing men look for Some like slim like like bigger Some like bigger boobs some like smaller Some like girls to be taller some like shorter We all have different tastes and ive noticed this through my mates and on DC... (read in full...)

Reasons why a guy would talk to a girl?

Q.   what are some reason why a guy would want to talk to a girl...

A.   28 December 2008: Friendship, Flirting, Small talk etc too many reasons to think of or write down The context of the convo can help narrow it down... (read in full...)

Is it okay to try weed?

Q.   my boyfriend wants me to smoke weed with him but I won't because I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. do they contain mutual elements? or would it be fine if I tried it?...

A.   23 December 2008: ok ill give you may student perspective and i wont lie to you and tell you what i know - ok weed For my experiences. Weed is just a plant rolled up WITH(sometimes/usually) tobacco. So yes there are similar elements between the two, since you say ... (read in full...)

Why can I only masturbate once?

Q.   hi, why i can masturbate only one time?once i masturbate, i just don't feel like doing second time even after 2 hours. it's kinda hurt little bit and i don't enjoy. Also it just takes me 2 minutes to cum? should it take more time? please help ...

A.   23 December 2008: Its normal it takes a little while to heal up, prehaps use lube as it can make it a bit less sore if thats a problem afterwards... (read in full...)

Will my sister get over what happened at her wedding?

Q.   I went to my sister’s (who’s very controlling and stubborn) wedding and my girlfriend join me as well. Even though my sister and gf don’t get along that well. Everyone kept saying my gf is going up stage the bride and her dress left a little ...

A.   23 December 2008: Ahh one time you never mess with a woman is at her wedding. Never. She may get over it in time, but your gonna have to wait. Showing up late and any dress that shows up the bride is something to not do in the future. A thing to do is get your gf, ... (read in full...)

My husband is obsessed with Johnny Cash and he wants to name our son SUE!!!

Q.   My husband is obsessed with Johnny Cash and he wants to name our son SUE (I'm 5 months pregnant) as in the song. I honestly hate that name for a boy (and for a girl). He won't change his mind about it. I think he just is stressed about being a dad. ...

A.   21 December 2008: Well i had a similar situation to this, not me but my parents My dad loved Hendrix and wanted to name me so Mum said no and i ended up with a different name. But my nickname, which everyone inc parents call me is Jimi Maybe i havent fully hel... (read in full...)

Do guys like a girl thats into cars and video games?

Q.   Do guys like a girl thats into video games, and fixing up cars? I'm curious cuz I'm into cars and video games. I've been helping my dad fix the 68Galaxiy. Also doing co-op with him on new games. Answers from anyone would be nice....

A.   19 November 2008: well ill have to disagree with emilyanswers as it goes where i am me and my mates just meet a girl who likes games and even challenged us. We all love her and actually want to play her, all the boys think shes cool Perhaps it cus we are a litt... (read in full...)

My friends say it's time for me to date, but I don't like anyone enough.

Q.   my friends say it's time for me to date but i can't find anyone that i like enough that likes me back. wut should i do?...

A.   18 November 2008: Dont go into relationships if you dont want to or dont feel like like Enjoy being young and single... (read in full...)

I can't ejaculate yet... is something wrong with me?

Q.   I'm 15 and can't ejaculate yet, is there something wrong?...

A.   18 November 2008: no there isnt Some people just develope a litlle later than others, give it time... (read in full...)

Do guys like a girl thats into cars and video games?

Q.   Do guys like a girl thats into video games, and fixing up cars? I'm curious cuz I'm into cars and video games. I've been helping my dad fix the 68Galaxiy. Also doing co-op with him on new games. Answers from anyone would be nice....

A.   16 November 2008: Well personally, if i had a girl who wanted to play me at games i would love it. Having things in common is always great, but this is me. ... (read in full...)

My stupid ape-looking boobs

Q.   Well me and my boyfriend have been getting pretty far in our relationship, sexually wise. On our last make-out session, we both took off our shirts. He wanted to take off my bra. I told him no because I'm not altogether comfortable with the way my ...

A.   13 November 2008: Double M is completly right... (read in full...)

I had a dream of a 13 year old giving some guy a blowjob, I think I want one too!

Q.   ok, please don't jump the gun I am 23 year old, it just happened to me a few days ago, I was ill and so I was sleeping a lot, and I had a dream of a girl who 13 and I know her, she was giving someone a blowjob and no it wasn't me and now a few ti...

A.   11 November 2008: Dreams are just dreams. You cant control them. But as said before you can control yourself. As you said you wouldnt do it so dont worry about it, everyone has weird dreams sometimes... (read in full...)

Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?

Q.   Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?...

A.   11 November 2008: if you are talking as in asking for advice then i say no. If thats all then ill say its ok, but remember that somethings should be kept private for your husbands privacy... (read in full...)

The snip with the man!

Q.   hi there I am just emailing you to ask my hubby had the snip about 1 and a half years ago but can you still get pregnant? If you could email me back just so I know, thank you ...

A.   8 November 2008: yes its still possible. Unlikely but possible I reckon you should get him tested to see if hes still active in the area But before that to be safe be careful before hand... (read in full...)

How old is TOO old?

Q.   Hey, I have just turned 17 and the guy is 32 and has a gf. background I have started to fancy this guy that drinks in the pub that I work at. It all started when we were talking one night and he asked for my number, I gave it to him thinking tha...

A.   8 November 2008: 1. You were right not to kiss him 2. As long as its two consenting adults i believe any age is ok, it up to the people to decide 3. Alot of people like the idea of someone, as humans we are really not meant to be alone. Some can be but we need con... (read in full...)

Why do some guys only want girls for sex?

Q.   Do they not know that girls are PEOPLE and not THINGS? What causes them to be like this? Is it in their genes?...

A.   5 November 2008: Because SOME men are a-holes the same way SOME women use men for sex It people and their personaliteis not a gender... (read in full...)

am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.

Q.   I am 22 and I have this thing for big asses.I just can't like a girl without a nice big ass no matter how i try i just cannot get aroused. Sometimes, I can like a girl just because of her ass and it has nothing to do wit her or how she looks.Does ...

A.   26 October 2008: Everyone has their preferences SO you may only date girls with these and maybe your perfect woman will have a nice arse, maybe she wont and you will like her anyway it doesnt matter... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a girl says "I like you a lot" during sex?

Q.   Hey could anyone tell me what does it mean when a girl says 'I like you a lot' in bed? I don't know how to take it, Is it just a heat of the moment thing to say or is it a time when all the truth slips out?...

A.   13 October 2008: It means what it means She likes you a lot... (read in full...)

Does anyone know what EMO means?

Q.   hi. I'm a 12 going on 13 and I want to know what is emo. My ex boyfriend was emo. but he stopped 4 me. He won't tell me what emo really is. I really want to know so I'm asking you. What is emo?...

A.   5 October 2008: modern emo is an overused term. The main sterotype is people who dress similar to goths and cut themselves for many reasons . The also asscioations with bands such as My chemical romance, Fall Out Boy(who i love) and Panic! etc (i like all of these... (read in full...)

If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?

Q.   If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?...

A.   5 October 2008: whatever she does with her boyfriend is her business. not anyone elses So no... (read in full...)

When we make sounds he cums quicker than if we're quiet...Why???

Q.   i dont know this is kinda an awkward question but my boyfriend - everytime we have sex he finishes[cums] quickly, but the weird thing is that he finishes faster when there are sounds, like moans you know. but when there arnt any moans it lasts ...

A.   30 September 2008: prehaps the sounds of moans are turning him on more. So he cums quicker?... (read in full...)

Why do his balls disappear when he's erect?

Q.   why do my partner's balls disappear when he is erect. he is 57....

A.   29 September 2008: Some mens disappear or retract when they have an erection... (read in full...)

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