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| | Jamer70's profile:Hi i James
Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
Right now im just trying to get through my Education and then go on to a life in most likely Law Enforement, but i still have time to decide. |
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Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 20 July 2008: There is no answer along the lines of men like X
Some Men like Skinny Girls
Some Men Like Big Girls
Some Men Like Curvy Girls
Some Men Like Men
There you go, men like different types of woman. Just because you see a certain woman in a magazine ... (read in full...)
Want to find out how you would act in a relationship, take this test.
Q. After reading all these articles I decided to throw this in there too! I was given this test by a "relationship theropist" LOL yes that title does exist! However it was interesting to see just which one you pick....... Read the question, don't ...
A. 16 July 2008: well i chose tigers cause i like tigers, and it doesnt sound like me. Buti do sound like the sheep a little... (read in full...)
Would it be bad if I kissed another girl while we are on break?
Q. I have recently spilt with my girlfriend of nineteen months. She ultimately called it off although she said it was me afterwards, as i had written a letter the week before saying the relationship should end. I wrote the letter as I was extremely ...
A. 16 July 2008: Your on break not broken up.
You wouldnt want her to, so dont... (read in full...)
Would you cheat on a boat with George Clooney?
Q. If you were married and knew it was going to be the end of the world and you were on a boat with George Clooney, would you cheat? What movie star would get you to cheat?...
A. 16 July 2008: Dusky!! David Caruso! Awful! cant stand him
But on the question i doubt i would wanna cheat on my loved one, if it were truly my last moment i would wanna be with her
BUT if i must, i would be with Jennifer Love Hewitt. Just Beautiful... (read in full...)
Could I be happy with two different girls?
Q. is it possible for me to happy with 2 different girls? without them knowing. i dont want to lose the girl im with now. and the girl in my past is someone close to me and i dont want to lose her either....
A. 16 July 2008: if your happy hurting two girls than your not right plain and simple.
Sorry but you cannot have your cake and eat it too.
Leave both as if you think you can have both, you shouldnt have either... (read in full...)
How dangerous is breathing in helium?
Q. Hello, this is a weird question but is it real dangerous to breathe in helium from a balloon? Me an my friends did it for a laff but i read on the internet that it can make you really ill. Plz help, i'm worried now. x.x.x.x....
A. 16 July 2008: Yes hellium CAN be dangerou. In high quantities very high quantities. In high doses you can get light headed and pass out and in higher doses it can upset your oxygen balance and suffocate you. In High doses mind you
Breathing in hellium from ball... (read in full...)
We are an interracial couple, my family likes him, his family likes me, when we go out, we are stared at, and it bothers me, I don't like the attention, should I just ignore the staring, or what??
Q. I'm black and my boyfriend is white. Him and I have a lot of fun together, but I've noticed that when I go out with him a lot of people look at us a little different. I'm not racist and I was not brought up to judge a person based on the color of ...
A. 15 July 2008: My step dad is white and my mum is black. Still if i see an interacial couple i stare
(and like lazy guy has said)
If the woman is taller i will stare
If the man is alot taller ill stare
If the woman is good looking ill stare
If the woman is d... (read in full...)
Do most men prefer thin women or otherwise, do they like women with curves or skinny ones, please let me know what you think?
Q. I over heard some guys talking outside of work the other day and they were talking about how much more sexier a "thick" girl looked compared to a "thin" girl. Do guys like girls with curves or do they like girls that are skinny? I know a lot of my ...
A. 15 July 2008: I dont know why people expect men/woman to have a one "i want" view of woman. That the majority of men will like a certain type of woman and if you follow this men will pine for you. There isnt a universal view. Maybe alot of men fancy Jessica Alba ... (read in full...)
Why would a guy have sex with a girl and not want her to be his girlfriend?
Q. If a guy doesn't want a girl to be his girlfriend but still wants to have sex with her, does that mean that shes ugly or doesnt have a good personality?...
A. 3 July 2008: It means he wants unattached sex from a woman. No strings sex... (read in full...)
Is it Ok to sleep with someone you met on holiday?
Q. Whilst I realise several of us may have done this would you all be honest especially men who might reply and say the truth - if someone has just met someone else on holiday during a two week break - is it wise to sleep with them or would they ...
A. 2 July 2008: Well who cares what he thinks, he is your easy lay.
In sex its not always the woman who is conquered a man can be, either way i wouldnt care, sex is sex
If both parties are single, unattached, legal and willing there is no issue.
(Though y... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 1 July 2008: Great News Andrew love the site
You are a saint in this world having help Millions of people (half of students in love with teachers)
And since everyone missed Irish's party i say we party it up at mine, ill even try to write up the DC manual.
... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have sex in the sea?
Q. Is it safe to have sex in the sea? its something i have always wanted to do and me and my boyfriend are going away and would have the opportunity, but he seems to think its not good for me, is this true? ...
A. 29 June 2008: Salt water actually helps disinfect wounds but if you have an open cut i wouldnt as you may get an infection but it will also sting like a bi***
Sea sex should be safe just watch you dont get caught... (read in full...)
How do I know if my husband has had sex with another woman?
Q. how do i know if my husband has had sex with another woman...
A. 29 June 2008: if you put a buttercup under his penis and it glows.
But seriously you cant tell unloess you ask him... (read in full...)
What should I do - she doesn't like roller coasters, should we break up?
Q. I've been going out with my GF for a year a a few months, i think she's great and we have alot in common.I found out recently that she doesn't like roller coasters (although she has only been on one). The problem is i absolutely love roller c...
A. 29 June 2008: Dump her over roller coasters? no offence but its really really really petty
If she doesnt like them and you love them i bet shes willing to wait while you have you fun or even give it a try if you love it as much as you say... (read in full...)
A young lady who is not ready for sex or to fall in love sleeps in my room...I want to have a sexual relationship with her!!
Q. A young lady who is not ready to fall in love or sexual relation, she is very strict against love but everyday she is sleeping in my room.I want to make sexual relation with her.How it is possible.How can i convince her for sex and how should ...
A. 29 June 2008: i want to have sex with alot of people around me, and if they dont want to, you imagine it and leave them to their wishes.
You say shes strict about it, well theres your answer
Leave her to her wishes... (read in full...)
No bleeding after using the dildo, am I still a virgin?
Q. ok i dont know if i am still a virgin....my friend told me to use a dildo to ease my first time with my b/f. I did use the dildo but it really hurt and there was no bleeding. i had read that you could lose my virginity without bleeding but i am not ...
A. 29 June 2008: If you never had intercourse with your bf then your a virgin
No matter of the state of your hymen or if you bleed or not
PS: Hymens can be broken in ways other than sexual ways like horseback riding... (read in full...)
If I continue like this at 15, will it affect me when I get older?
Q. Im 15 and usually cum about once a day. If i continue this at this age will it affect me when I get older? Like when I want kids and that?...
A. 28 June 2008: if that was the case few men would actually have kids
Very very few
when you cum it keeps on cumming :)... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bicker over our wedding plans?
Q. My fiance and I are getting married in september and were both stressing and bickering over plans and money,is this normal?...please help x...
A. 18 June 2008: Try and find me a wedding where the Couple didnt bicker at all. If you do youve either got a whiped/Doesnt care man, or the most agreeable couple ever... (read in full...)
I don't understand the difference?
Q. He LOVES me but is NOT IN LOVE with me. what does that mean? i'm confused....
A. 18 June 2008: He loves(cares about you, like a close person in his life) you BUT isnt in love with you (as in a romantic , having a future together with kids)
There are different types of love
Love for your Friends
Love for your family
Love for your Loved O... (read in full...)
Do 'R'-rates movies turn guys on?
Q. Hi! I'm a 17 yo girl and have just started going out with this amazingly sweet, cute, shy boy whose had no experience with girls whatsoever. this isn't a strictly "relationship" question---but... when guys are watching a very--err--rated R movie ...
A. 14 June 2008: At that age i could get happy from the mere thought of anything erotic, sometimes didnt even need to think of it.
The glory years of a couple of months ago... (read in full...)
Does alcohol consumption kill sperm?
Q. can i get pregnant if the guy drinks a lot and we had sex after?? Does that kill his sperm?...
A. 14 June 2008: have you ever heard of a girl getting knocked up after a drunken romp. NO? get out more. Of course you can get pregnant, perhaps drinking does kill sperm but theres millions of the little guys and it takes one to make a baby. So yes you can get ... (read in full...)
When do girls usually stop growing in terms of height?
Q. Hi everyone, just a quick question really. When do girls usually stop growing in terms of height? I'm 15 now, 5ft 4 and I was just wondering will I get much taller than this? ...
A. 13 June 2008: it depends on the person and their family. Are you parents tall or about your height. Girls usually stop growing at 18 but it doesnt mean they will grow up to that day. ... (read in full...)
Why do you think young teens have sex? Shouldn't you wait for the right person?
Q. I cannot understand why people have sex at such a young age. There're many posts on dearcupid coming from 13-15 year olds saying "I want to have sex with my boyfriend" or "Could I be pregnant?". What's the rush??? I'm 16 and haven't even had a ...
A. 13 June 2008: I have no idea why kids so young have sex. Maybe they want to be more grown up, impress their friends or think its part of a relationship like kissing. But at the end if they end up pregnant they relise they shouldnt of played adult games but then ... (read in full...)
Sex Burgers - or people?
Q. Which of you out there feel the same as me. In an ideal world which would make me so happy it would be like this: Women would be celebrated for who they are in equal measure, whether it be because they were clever, great Mums, leaders, spo...
A. 11 June 2008: i completly agree with lazy guy
You talk about woman being sought as objects but all i hear i how Hot Brad Pitt is and Look at the Footballers six pact etc
Do i care about the sexualisation of my gender! No not at all, why you ask? i dont carry ot... (read in full...)
His father won't let him use the phone to talk to me. What can I do?
Q. Me and my bf have been in a long distance relationship for about a year.Just recently his father decided he doesn't like me and punished my boyfriend off the phone with ME for 2 YEARS. This made me so mad. My boyfriend still sneaks and calls only ...
A. 11 June 2008: Letters and email are a good idea if not
Also as the dad most likely pays the bills he has every right to cut him off when he wants as hes the adult and your bf is the kid. Unfair right! no not really but it does seem that way
Another way to actua... (read in full...)
It's been over a year since I found a tape of my boyfriend and his ex having sex! How do I get over it?
Q. About one year ago, i found a tape of my boyfriend and his ex having sex. I threw it away and he rerecorded it over one of my tapes. I still can't get over it but he tells me that we need to move on. It's been over a year since it happened. It still ...
A. 11 June 2008: Saying you have to grow up could be a little harsh, but is still justified. (im assuming he didnt cheat on you, and this tape was made during their relationship)
If this is the fact, the fact that this still bothers you after a year is worr... (read in full...)
Why do I get scared when I have the chance to have sex?
Q. Ok im always horny, but when i get the chance to have sex i get scared, why do i get scared?...
A. 10 June 2008: Because you know your not ready really. You may feel horny etc
But your mind and body knows that your not really ready to... (read in full...)
How can I ask my husband for sex?
Q. Hi I feel too shy though I need sex. How can I ask my husband for sex? ...
A. 10 June 2008: Your still shy with someone your married to.
I have two courses you can take
1. Get into something sexy, make the bedroom romantic, then you wont even have to ask, he will know
2. Say "hey want sex" either way it should happen... (read in full...)
What is your opinion on a non-sexual relationship between a 14 and a 17 year old?
Q. As a general question - what are people's opinions on a relationship between two teenagers with a three year age gap (not sexual)? e.g a 14 year old and a 17 year old? ...
A. 10 June 2008: Yes girls mature more than boys
But try and have a non-sexual relationship with a horny (yes 99.9% are) 17 year old boy, and you may fail. He may be the nicest guy ever (i dont know) but think, will he wait until hes 19 to start having a sexual rela... (read in full...)
Can you love more than one person?
Q. hello! can somebody loves more than more than one person? thank you for answering my question! Cathy...
A. 10 June 2008: i agree with LJ001 i dont really think you can love more than 1 person at once truely, not the same way anyway.
In the case of exs i think its not the same as loving someone your in a relationship in.
But in certain cases like the passing of a lov... (read in full...)
I like this guy who keeps asking me for sex and I don't trust him. What do I do?
Q. thre is this guy that i met and he is 17 and i'm 15.he is really cute and i like him. we went out for 2 days and then i broke up with him cause he kept ansking me to hve sex with him and i do not feel like doing that right now and when i tell him ...
A. 10 June 2008: Uncle Sneaker is right
This guy is an A class jack***
There are so many reasons to say why not to, but ill just say dont to make it simple... (read in full...)
I feel bad for having these thoughts about girls and their bodies...
Q. every time i look a a girl my one age i size them up i every aspect and then think about how hot they are i cant healp it and if one of the girls i look at trys to talk to me i just feel like a perv so i dont talk to her i dont know why i do its not ...
A. 9 June 2008: Your growing up and starting to see girls differently. Its not perverted unless you start being inappropiate. Like unlce Sneaker said soon you will be able to control yourslef and talk to girls and keep eye contact
Welcome to man hood, you got a fe... (read in full...)
Is It The Teachers fault that Students are attracted to them or falling in love with them??
Q. Is It The Teachers fault that Students are attracted to them or falling in love with them?? As many people may have read or heard about students falling in love with their teachers then coming on websites like this to see what to do about it... ...
A. 9 June 2008: You cant blame someone for another persons emotions.
Even IF in the hypothetical a teacher flirted with a student it does make the student like them, same applies to all crushes/loves throughout life.
Anyway like eyes said Students have liked te... (read in full...)
What do 23 yr old guys want? Just sex or a relationship?
Q. At 23 years old do guys just want sex or are they ready for a relationship?...
A. 9 June 2008: Some men do want sex at that age
While some men are looking for longer term relationships (sometimes not marriage)
Not all men mature at the same rate... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have sex without protection and still not get pregnant?
Q. is there a time when you can have sex without protection and stil not get preg?...
A. 8 June 2008: No you always run the risk of getting pregnant
There are lesser chances but you shouldnt run the risk... (read in full...)
I'm having sex with my best friend but he doesn't want a relationship. Should I end the friendship?
Q. im in love with my guy best friend, we have a sex relationship, i dont want just that, he dosent want to be in a relationship right now. should i end our friendship for good?...
A. 6 June 2008: Did he say he would be in a relationship with you?
Did you assume it?
Really it depends on both your mindsets and did you talk before hand, if he said you could have a relationship, then changed his mind, kick him to the kerb
If you never ask bu... (read in full...)
We both really like each other but are in different 'groups' at school...what should we do?
Q. I really like this girl and she feels the same way, but at school we are in totally different groups and we never get the chance to really socialise. What should we do?...
A. 6 June 2008: Watch High School Musical, they break the status quo and go in different groups. Great Watching!! *kills self*... (read in full...)
Are chavs victimised?
Q. are chavs victimised do you think?...
A. 6 June 2008: Pretty much everyone is victimised and has a sterotype
The Blonde = Stupid
Chav = Working Class Mongrel
Teens = Hoodlums
Red = Ginger
There are more i left the racist ones out
Some people fulfill there sterotype, but 90% dont and the people ... (read in full...)
Is this real oral sex (or just cheating)?
Q. hey If a girl give you oral sex in condom is that a real oral sex or not....
A. 6 June 2008: Why wouldnt it be... (read in full...)
Is there any treatment for a person who is gay?
Q. hi is there any treatment for a person who is gay??????...
A. 6 June 2008: If you mean turning a gay person into a straight person
No there is no treatment unless you wanna believe some of the religous people out there.... (read in full...)
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