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I am in a serious, but now long distance relationship with my fiance.

I enjoy talking with and or hearing peoples feelings, as well as expressing my own in relation.

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How to get over my Casanova of a fiance', or stop him in his tracks!? Please help

Q.   How to get over your "fiance'" of almost 5 years? I have not ended the relationship Totally; not nearly set in stone. I have just showed anger. I believe I probably SHOULD end it... Yet!, I am weary to end the relationship because I feel i...

A.   1 September 2010: OH! I just noticed I put "'fiance' of almost five years" well I meant to say we have had a relationship of almost 5 years. We have know each other for approximately 8 years, and have been engaged for about a 1 1/2-almost 2yrs. I Had to correct this... (read in full...)

How to get over my Casanova of a fiance', or stop him in his tracks!? Please help

Q.   How to get over your "fiance'" of almost 5 years? I have not ended the relationship Totally; not nearly set in stone. I have just showed anger. I believe I probably SHOULD end it... Yet!, I am weary to end the relationship because I feel i...

A.   1 September 2010: OH! I just noticed I put "'fiance' of almost five years" well I meant to say we have had a relationship of almost 5 years. We have know each other for approximately 8 years, and have been engaged for about a 1 1/2-almost 2yrs. I Had to correct this... (read in full...)

How do make her believe me now?

Q.   I made the biggest mistake of my life at the beginning of this year.I was unfaithful to my wife of 4 years, we have been together for 8 and have a beautiful daughter.I hurt her in a way that i vowed to never do again and i havent.It took a long time ...

A.   24 July 2010: If your wife says she still loves you with all of her heart I doubt she really intends on leaving you. She may say it, but it will hurt her just as badly to leave you. Unless that lady is truly out to get you, you should tell your wife to call ... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant from him rubbing his penis on me?

Q.   If me and my boyfriend were messing around and he rub his penis on me up around the top of my virgina. Like the skin near my waist, and he didn't cum, and there was barely a trace of precum. Could there be any chance I could get pregnant. Plus I'm ...

A.   24 July 2010: Hi, No, the cum has to go inside. So, (if) the area he came on was rubbed, then touched inside of you, then yes, there is a possibility, However if the cum was strictly on that one spot, and did not go anywhere near the Inside, you will not get... (read in full...)

My wife possibly had sex with two of my co-workers, should I consider divorcing her?

Q.   hai, well il go straight to the point..i am a christian man raised with morals and i waited to have sex till i married, now 10yrs down the line my wife tells me i was not her first, she had slept with 6 men 2 of which i work in the same company.i ...

A.   21 July 2010: NO, I mean, if that happened before your time with her, then just try to deal with the lie she told you. Dealing with it by trying to get some closer from her, and never bring it up, or think of it again. (try)Dwelling on it will only make things w... (read in full...)

My period is late, could I possibly be pregnant?

Q.   i had sex on the 10th of july and i dont use contreception with my fiance...we use withdrawel method, wen he pulled out he didnt do it quick enough and caught just of the inside of my vagina and the rest on my clitoris and groin...i was due on my ...

A.   21 July 2010: There is a good chance you are. Because he came inside there is an 82% chance that you are, but also you may not be. Here are some things to look out for in the mean time, 'till you can take the test. (Although everyone does not get the same... (read in full...)

What is wrong with me? Is this normal?

Q.   "Op Own Title" what is wrong with me like seriously:( i need things like clothes, money, shoes, bags to make me happy:( i think is cos am single cos i never use to be like that..i use to be soo in love but now i cant find a good guy i just want ...

A.   21 July 2010: Hi, :) Well I must say you are OK, You just need to go to the doctor because could possibly be depressed, Its called a fixation. Example. A baby, a thumb sucker, the baby gets upset if it can not suck its thumb, just like that. The child f... (read in full...)

Are married women basically all disloyal, cheaters at heart, ready to do whatever it takes for male attention?

Q.   Why do so many married women cheat? I don't know if this is just a function of where I live (Southern California), but it seems like the majority of women I know well have cheated at some point on their husbands. These range from a few women who ...

A.   20 July 2010: Well, perhaps the lady is "lacking something" as you later posted. But you really do not know what happens behind closed doors, or even when just strangers are around., It could be a bad relationship and no one else knows. They may and most... (read in full...)

Is this a sign that he's cheating?

Q.   I am living with my baby father recently i saw a condom in his bag which is different from the type we used i was wondering if it is a sign of cheating....

A.   20 July 2010: Well I think that is strange. Why would it be in his bag anyway? Where does he take that bag, and what people is he around when he brings that bag with him. I mean, if its a bag he brings to work, or to the gym, etc, he should not have that with h... (read in full...)

I'm worried that I may lose him and confused on what I would need to do to keep him

Q.   Ive been in my relationship for 7 years. Weve had our problems , but as far as i can tell we have been very happy and comfertable. Unfortunatly i suspect hes getting bored with me. We only get to see each other on the weekends since our schedules ...

A.   20 July 2010: I am in a long term relationship also. And I have JUST noticed this problem in my own relationship as well, about 2 months ago. I actually asked him if he was becoming or is bored with me, and he reassure me that he was not and just busy. ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for getting upset about him adding my cousin on facebook?

Q.   So there is this boy and we've had an off and on relationship but i really care about him. We just got back together like a couple days ago, well we agreed on it because we don't see eachother much, so the next time we see other we'll make it ...

A.   20 July 2010: Wow, this even upsets me! I can relate to this, not being a cousin, but my boyfriends past ex girlfriends whom i requested he didnt associate with, or add. and he did. but now, stopped, i hope. but i think this guy may be curious about you... (read in full...)

If he's so into me, why have I not met friends at least after 5 months?

Q.   I'm in a relationship with an older guy, I have proof that hes not married and all. It's been five months, never met friends or family and yet, he's met mine. He refers to my god-daughter as "our baby" and is so very affectionate towards me. The ...

A.   20 July 2010: Well , He could care for you so much, but afraid of what his friends think of you. maybe you are not the USUAL "type" he goes for/dates, and he is worried his friends will judge him for choosing something different, regardless if you are... (read in full...)

How long to wait before proposing?

Q.   Hi, my name is louise and I am 16. I am deeply in love with my girlfriend of 2 months and we both agree we are soul mates. My question is how long do couples normally wait to propose? i am confident she will say yes so don't want to wait but will...

A.   20 July 2010: Well, I got engaged young, and still not married. I am waiting later to marry, because my family frowned upon the engagement in the first place, so you may get the same result I got. This bad result from possibly her, or your family. and... (read in full...)

Why are so many people in abusive relationships/marriages?

Q.   I read so many questions about people stuck in "abusive relationship"s and marriages and I can't help but wonder: 1. how did this happen? I mean, why do people let themselves be stepped on like that? Why do people treat their significant o...

A.   20 July 2010: Well, others call my relationship "abusive", And I also wonder if it is myself. I rather call it difficult. Sometimes im not sure who abused/abuses who. Therefor im not sure if its right for me to say "im abused by HIM" people do not no... (read in full...)

She won't have sex till she knows me better?

Q.   Hello just a quick question, what does it mean when a girl says that she won't have sex with me untill she knows me better? does this imply she's after something deeper then just a 'one night of naughtiness?' or does it mean something else?...

A.   20 July 2010: It could mean diff things. Either she is just telling you that 'till she knows for sure she wants to have sex with you. or she doesnt want to sound "easy" or she really wants to get to know you better and make sure, she thinks you are worth th... (read in full...)

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