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| | TasteofIndia's profile:TasteofIndia here. I'm 23 years old, I've been Dear Cupid-ing for like, 3-4 years. It's addictive. I'm based in upstate NY and just got married to a Marine. He's the only hippie in the Marines, but that gives him character. He is awesome. Despite popular belief, I'm not Indian, I just really liked that song by Aerosmith when I first made this account. I'm not even an Aerosmith fan, really, but I really liked that song. I am biracial though, so I've got a little funk.
I'm a theater junkie, with an awesome family. I have a dog who is mostly nice, but has a little attitude problem. I love Dear Abby, Ann Landers, all that jazz... when I found this website how could I resist?? (Couldn't.) I love Dear Cupid, love being a moderator and love giving advice when I can!!
Things I like: llamas, broccoli, my feisty puppy, Skip Bo, theater, earrings, positivity, sleeping, writing, Cesar Milan, sitcoms, sweatpants, lingerie. |
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Know of a place to get a cute dress?
Q. hey this would be a huge help to me if i can get some answers. does anyone have any websites where i can find a cute strapless dress, above the knee in length. any color, that i can wear for my winter ball. thank you, just reply with any websites ...
A. 7 November 2009: Forever21.com
Wetseal.com
charlotterusse.com
victoriassecret.com
Those are my favorite websites for dresses!!!
Good luck, sweetness!... (read in full...)
I want to have sex on the prom night, what do you think?
Q. I want to have sex on prom night. And just b/c i'ts prom night. I can and i probably will. My b/f is sweet and hot and prom is the perfect time to do it. What do you think? He's coming from out of town and i wanna make it special. any tips t...
A. 6 November 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ladies--what-is-your-experience-with-sex.html
A similar question to yours... thought it might help!
Good luck, sweetness!... (read in full...)
Can two introverts date and have a successful relationship?
Q. I have a question for anybody that would like to add their opinion.Can two introverts date and have a succesful relationship? I ask because I know that I,for the most part,have an introverted personality.Im usually lost in my own thoughts,or ...
A. 6 November 2009: My parents are both introverts, and it works well for them. When you're in an extrovert-introvert, I would think it would be trickier, because maybe... Extrovert would want to go out, bring their significant other, socialize and party the night ... (read in full...)
Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.
Q. Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...
A. 5 November 2009: You know, I know a lot of women who have kept babies and are overwhelmed with joy everyday they share with them. But, I also know a lot of women who have gotten abortions and have been grateful for their decision ever since.
This decision... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't put effort into our relationship!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was edited for grammar only, and to make it easier to read.] okay so my question is why does my boyfriend treat me like he doesn't want to be with me? he doesn't do anything to show me he wants to be with me he only hug...
A. 4 November 2009: So the only way that you know he loves you is because when you try to go, he cries and begs. That doesn't mean that it's YOU he's crazy about or that he's going to change. It sounds like he's afraid to be without you, afraid to be alone. And maybe ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm her brother and not her lover!
Q. Hi all. I'm 22 and I've been in a relationship for about 3 years now. This is my first proper relationship. Shes 19. Things have been okay. But its starting to feel abit like a brother - sister relationship, instead of lovers. Plus the fact ...
A. 3 November 2009: Well, do you know why she's waiting? Is she waiting until marriage? I personally think that you can still keep this relationship hot, even without the sex. Maybe you have gotten into a routine and you're in a little bit of a rut. Maybe you need to ... (read in full...)
We just broke up after a month of dating! What happened?!
Q. ok PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! me and my gf have been going out for like a month now. She just broke up with me, she still has feelings for me... but she said it didnt feel right... in the space of two days she didnt feel right, something wasnt the ...
A. 3 November 2009: Hi, sweet.
She was being honest with you and you have to appreciate that! A month isn't very long, but it's long enough to tell if you're really interested in a relationship or not. But, if you want to try to get her back, you need to give her... (read in full...)
I renewed my commitment and she said fate will decide!
Q. I consider my relationship with my girlfriend extremely healthy, I have had about 3 girlfriends in my life and non of them had the effect that this girl has on me, I guess I can say this one is the 'one'. Well at least I thought she was... I am...
A. 3 November 2009: I completely and whole-heartedly agree with Anonymous.
Hey, you know what? You have 11 months before you have to make this decision, and who knows what will happen in that time? The relationship is still new... you could get even closer by then ... (read in full...)
Romantic gift ideas?
Q. Hi All My partner is a little down lately, and id really like to surprise her with something to cheer her up.. something romantic. The problem is, money is VERY tight right now, and ive done most of the things i can think of (massages, flow...
A. 3 November 2009: One day I was having the crappiest day ever, so my fella handed me a disposable camera and told me we were going on an adventure. So we went to a nearby town that we'd never been to before and had so much fun poking around the stores and taking ... (read in full...)
What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.
Q. I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...
A. 3 November 2009: Sorry Old Guy, I'm 23 but had to pipe in. My parents rejected the belly-button idea and the instant I turned 18 I went out and got it (and have loved it ever sense). And yeah, I did it mostly to be cute (and because I love earrings), and I wasn't ... (read in full...)
Do girls have a problem with a curved penis? And what skin tone do girls find more attractive?
Q. Hi...i'm 18 years old boy,i have two questions. 1. I don't know why but i have a slightly curved penis.Its very little bent downwards and slightly curved to its left,perhaps its coz of the way i masturbate as i masturbate pressing my penis on...
A. 3 November 2009: Curved penis is totally cool - not a problem, and it has nothing to do with how you masturbate. Penises grow however they grow.
Skin tone, I don't think it really matters. If you look good, you look good. That's like asking if ladies prefer b... (read in full...)
How do I get a No-Strings-Attached Relationship?
Q. Ok without going into the reasons why I want one and the up- and down- sides of it: I want a sex buddy. So how do I get one? I can't (and don't want to) ask exes or female friends. How do I even let a women know that's what I want, without co...
A. 3 November 2009: There's always Craigslist - Casual Encounters. I've never personally tried it, but I've heard success stories from people who have. And at least there you can be straight forward and say exactly what you want without leading anyone on or coming off ... (read in full...)
Is there a foundation to launch a relationship from here?
Q. Hey i thought id give u some news - I met this reali kool and hot girl. But she was reali trashed so she didnt reali remember anything. but we had a reali kool conversation. Anyway, by odd coincidence, my friends from high school happened to meet ...
A. 30 October 2009: What's the link, Brendan?... (read in full...)
I fancy my driving instructor...does he think I'm stupid?
Q. Hey, I've been having driving lessons for a while now (over a year - embarrassing - I was crap at first). My driving instructor has been really supportive... But I really fancy him! I know he's married and I'm engaged but I can't stop thinking ab...
A. 29 October 2009: Whoa, whoa, whoa. This sounds like the beginning of a bad porn with an incredibly drama-filled horrible ending. It seems like this is a sexy situation. You guys are alone in a car all the time, spending quality time, getting to know each other... ... (read in full...)
Ladies: what is your experience with sex on prom night?
Q. I’m going to the winter formal soon. I truely care about my boyfriend . I look forward to a the evening of dressing up etc. the thought of sex has entered my mind. If we have sex on the winter formal night I think it should be with someone like my ...
A. 28 October 2009: I take it all back. Hire this guy to play during your first time and I can't imagine a more sexy situation. ROWR!!!... (read in full...)
Ladies: what is your experience with sex on prom night?
Q. I’m going to the winter formal soon. I truely care about my boyfriend . I look forward to a the evening of dressing up etc. the thought of sex has entered my mind. If we have sex on the winter formal night I think it should be with someone like my ...
A. 28 October 2009: Can I just add, that usually first time sex is not flowers and violins and beautiful. It's more awkward, a little (or a lot) painful and accordions (tried to pick the least sexy instrument... that or bagpipes).
So, if you're planning on doing it... (read in full...)
They're on a break, I'm really taken by her, but I'm worried he'll say "no more other people"!
Q. I am a 29 tear old male, who's been pretty damaged by love. yet, somehow remain consistently open to the prospect. i work 3rd shift 6 nights a week which makes meeting women difficult on top of that most realize off the bat that ill almost never be ...
A. 26 October 2009: I agree with Boo. This is just going straight for disaster, unless you want to be a dish on the side or a booty call. As soon as they break up, you'll be a rebound, or if they get together, you'll be ditched. Like Boo, it feels like you both are ... (read in full...)
I would like some advice on how to stand up to racist comments!
Q. Hey I know this isn't really a relationship question at all but it can sorta relate... cause racism happens in EVERY SITATUATION including ones with BFS and GFs around... Haa Ok so like I'm a 17 year old asian chick right and I've always had to de...
A. 26 October 2009: I've got to pity our OP here. Perhaps lots of people think that the little things that offend me, hurt me and feel racist to me are things that if I spoke up about, people would say I'm overreacting and that they're just saying what's observable and ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I hate my baby because of her dad!
Q. I'm 15 and I have a baby, when I was 14 I was raped by my second cousin (my dads couisns son), he is 17 and at a new years party we were hanging out together, and we snuck some drink out to the park (its near my home) no one noticed we had gone, I ...
A. 25 October 2009: If it is impossible to talk to him, maybe print out this question and hand it to him. Maybe it will be easier than saying the actual words. But, I think that the worst is over (telling him that you're pregnant), and your Dad will do nothing but love ... (read in full...)
I would like some advice on how to stand up to racist comments!
Q. Hey I know this isn't really a relationship question at all but it can sorta relate... cause racism happens in EVERY SITATUATION including ones with BFS and GFs around... Haa Ok so like I'm a 17 year old asian chick right and I've always had to de...
A. 24 October 2009: Oh, sweetness... I feel you. I'm half black and half white, and if I hear "Oreo" one more time... and let's not forget my catchphrase, "you're the whitest black person I've ever met!!" (just because I don't speak in ebonics or pump up the Missy ... (read in full...)
Drving test anxiety!
Q. Hi,this isnt a "love" question but im hoping to get some help. My 1st driving test is coming up soon and since i've booked it in i havent had a decent nights sleep because of the worry. Im constantly feeling sick and keep crying about it. Im so...
A. 24 October 2009: I know people who re-took their drivers test 3, 4 times. It's no big deal if you mess up, you just re-take it. I know before mine started, I was bawling in the car waiting for the guy to come. But, then I calmed down, pulled myself together and ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and boyfriend not ready...have you experienced this and can you help me?
Q. I'm 23 and I just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend, 20- almost 21, is not ready to have a child... For the main reason that he doesn't want to disappoint everyone. His father is a pastor and his parents would be devastated. The people in the ...
A. 23 October 2009: I think you got great advice. I do think that you've been misled about the Abortion pill (not like I'm recommending it, but it's an option and it's out there)
"Future Fertility
According to studies of the FDA (Food and Drug Administration) ... (read in full...)
What kind of flowers and stuff for homecoming?
Q. I need help, again. I need ideas on what color and wat kind of flowers to get for the corsage for homecoming. She is wearing a purple dress(like a normal purple, like the kind markers are) And also, what does the guy wear ? A cordage tooo or what is ...
A. 22 October 2009: All of those colors would go well... but yellow or white would probably be best if you're not positive what color purple she's wearing. Yellow or white are sure things. Go with one of those - when you go to the florist, as to see something in either ... (read in full...)
He told my friends he was going to kiss me. He keeps making up stupid excuses why he hasn't!
Q. My boyfriend is REALLY shy. We've been going out for over two weeks and we still haven't kissed yet. When I text him, we can hold a conversation for hours, but when we are in person he gets quiet and barely talks. He is a year younger than me, and I ...
A. 22 October 2009: Oh sweetness, give the poor guy a break and kiss him first! Maybe it's his first kiss ever and he's afraid that you won't like it or that he'll mess up. So, do him a favor and make the move!! Otherwise, I'm afraid if he tries to do it, he'll pass ... (read in full...)
The due date is coming up and I'm racked with guilt and worry about becoming a Mom.
Q. Me and my boyfriend are due to have are first baby next month (29 days). I should be really happy about this but I'm just not. She wasn't a planned baby, she was a surprise as I have a medical condition. When I first discovered my pregnancy I w...
A. 22 October 2009: Hi sweetness,
I really think that what you're feeling is more normal than you think. Labor lasts for a day or two, but having a child lasts forever. So I actually think you're wise, thinking about this now and processing the reality of what wil... (read in full...)
My mom kicked me out and I have no idea where to go.
Q. Hey, I'm 16 (turning 17 in January) and my mom kicked me out. I don't know what to do because my Dad just got kicked out too (sensing a theme anyone?) and he lives with his mom so there's no room for me. This is the first night so I have no idea ...
A. 21 October 2009: So both of your parents are leaving you to deal with this yourself? Um, your Dad needs to father-up and figure out how to help you. And you could at least crash on a couch or on a floor with your Dad & Grandma for a little bit. I'm sure they don't ... (read in full...)
Why marriage?...in fact...why love?
Q. Reading through pages and pages of questions on dating, love and marriage i just see the huge amount relating to affairs (both mentally and physically), being in love with someone whilst married (perhaps even with children), obsessing over a married ...
A. 20 October 2009: And, of course, we've forgotten to mention the legal benefits. This is a big part of why the gay & lesbian community hate this whole, "well, you can have a commitment ceremony, so why are you so upset that you can't be legally married?" - well, ... (read in full...)
What do girls look for in a boyfriend?
Q. Simple questions to the girls. Pls, consider you re lookin for a bf. And what are the features you ll be lookin for. Everything as a whole,what you girls look for when looking for a boyfriend.put everything you feel like you need in a boy friend. ...
A. 19 October 2009: I love for a funny, thoughtful, smart fella who is comfortable in his own skin. A guy who is polite and respects his family, his peers and me. Every girl is different in what she wants in her fella - for me, I like my guy to be creatively talented. ... (read in full...)
Moral beliefs on fantasies?
Q. I was wondering what people think about this one. I feel that if you're in a relationship with someone, you shouldn't fantasise/masturbate over someone else. To me, at that moment in time you're choosing to be with (think of) someone other th...
A. 19 October 2009: "I have always thought the actions of men the best interpreters of their thoughts." - John Locke
I think this is a great quote in relation to the topic at hand. Your theory is logical, but in reality it doesn't bode well. If you don't feel lik... (read in full...)
I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Now I like his best friend.
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Now i like his best friend. I want to ask him to our halloween dance but i dont know how. can anyone help....
A. 19 October 2009: Hey sweetness,
It's probably best to wait on making a move on his best friend. It's too soon and would be really insensitive towards your ex. It's messy to get between two best friends! So, I would wait for a little while until you make your mov... (read in full...)
Why marriage?...in fact...why love?
Q. Reading through pages and pages of questions on dating, love and marriage i just see the huge amount relating to affairs (both mentally and physically), being in love with someone whilst married (perhaps even with children), obsessing over a married ...
A. 19 October 2009: Ask Oldersister & CaringGuy are dead on. My view of marriage is that people lack the commitment to work at a relationship. They expect it to feel like violins, fireworks and cupcakes forever and when it starts to slow down or lose it's spark, they ... (read in full...)
My parents are very stricked...how do I tell them I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone, I am 21 yrs old and my boyfriend is 22 yrs old, We have been dating since I was 15. For some reason my dad never really liked him even though he is really nice and sweet to me. My parents are very stricked and have always told me that I ...
A. 19 October 2009: Not going to be easy, but you need to go in with the right attitude. I'm not sure if having your boyfriend there will be better or worse for you (you need to feel that out), but if you need moral support, enlist a good friend (who they like) or ... (read in full...)
I want to know if I'm trying too hard to be a good mother?
Q. Im a 22 yr old female. I have 1 child. And am married. I want to know if im trying too hard to be a good mother. Im in the type of career that requires me to be away from my family a lot. Example im gone for this year overseas. I really try to give ...
A. 17 October 2009: Well, what is your career, before we tell you to leave it? Are you with the military? Are a doctor going to foreign countries to open free clinics? Are you in the Peace Corps? Are you an archaeologist going on digs?
It's definitely importan... (read in full...)
I want to know if I'm trying too hard to be a good mother?
Q. Im a 22 yr old female. I have 1 child. And am married. I want to know if im trying too hard to be a good mother. Im in the type of career that requires me to be away from my family a lot. Example im gone for this year overseas. I really try to give ...
A. 17 October 2009: Gifts don't make you a good Mother, love does. And it sounds like you really, really love your son. So get creative... send him fun postcards, pictures of yourself, thoughtful letters. Maybe he won't be able to understand all the words, but later in ... (read in full...)
What is sexual tension?
Q. What is sexual tension? Is it a feeling, that you have with someone and cannot stay away from them? I would like to know......
A. 17 October 2009: Good question, and I'll bet you get lots of definitions. I would say sexual tension is when you're with/around someone and you can feel the chemistry between you, and it's making things awkward. I don't know if it's not being able to stay away from ... (read in full...)
Is he a stalker?
Q. My guy friend, his cousin and I were on the bus. His cousin who’s my best friend asked him if he was my stalker because I ran into him all the time this week. He just smiled and said no like he was admitting it. Today I said hi stalker and he said ...
A. 16 October 2009: I agree with CaringGuy, sounds like he just likes you. It doesn't sound like he's got an obsession or is actually stalking you. But, keep your eye open just in case. Better safe than sorry!... (read in full...)
Brother and best friend getting married on the same day
Q. Question:What should I do? My best friend is getting married on a Saturday next July. She's had it booked for 4 months. When my brother got engaged, I told them that particular Saturday was "off limits" if possible because my best friend's wedding ...
A. 14 October 2009: Ugh, how icky this situation is. I think you got great advice. I would say that your best friend probably has more of a reason to get you that day. After all, she arranged the day first and you committed to her first. So you're already engaged that ... (read in full...)
What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas? Please help
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 1/2 years now you would think I would know what to get him for Christmas by now. I have read suggestions on other posts and they don't help very much. We live together at college so we share ...
A. 14 October 2009: Perhaps you could give him the gift of dates? Like, get two tickets to the movies, a gift certificate to your favorite restaurant, or a gift certificate to the bowling alley or aquarium, stuff it inside a picnic basket with goodies inside (the date ... (read in full...)
I had lots of sex without any protection and I'm worried I might be pregnant!
Q. So me and my boyfriend (im 16 hes 18) have been together for about 4 months now. we have sex a lot, every weekend and sometimes during the week, and almost always more than once on these days. i am not on the pill and we dont use condoms, he just ...
A. 14 October 2009: Well, I'll tell you right now that at this stage of the game, the boobs would be the biggest indicator. But, don't rely on them - perhaps this is just a late period and the breasts are swelling nonetheless?
Anyway, this is not something (as Sati... (read in full...)
Is there a foundation to launch a relationship from here?
Q. Hey i thought id give u some news - I met this reali kool and hot girl. But she was reali trashed so she didnt reali remember anything. but we had a reali kool conversation. Anyway, by odd coincidence, my friends from high school happened to meet ...
A. 14 October 2009: Sorry, that was my girlfriend "A". She is totally trustworthy (all though can't spell a DAMN (hah! Sorry, love.) Anyway, here is my (Tasteo'India's) advice.p /
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I didn't read this as "foundation" advice, so thank you Moderator. Brendan, I do thi... (read in full...)
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