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I'm 28, from Milwaukee Wisconsin, and while I have a lot to say, I don't always take my own advice.

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All these stresses make me wonder if we know what we are doing?

Q.   Me and my fiance have been engaged for 2 years, dating for 3. For the longest time, I thought we were quite literally made for each other. but since entering our LDR...certain issues have come up, that had never come up in our relationship before, ...

A.   2 October 2012: Depending on how "temporary" the LDR is, what these new issues are and how willing you are to be completely and unabashedly honest with him about your doubts,I doubt that your doubts will resolve themselves without having that nerve racking ... (read in full...)

All these stresses make me wonder if we know what we are doing?

Q.   Me and my fiance have been engaged for 2 years, dating for 3. For the longest time, I thought we were quite literally made for each other. but since entering our LDR...certain issues have come up, that had never come up in our relationship before, ...

A.   2 October 2012: Depending on how "temporary" the LDR is, what these new issues are and how willing you are to be completely and unabashedly honest with him about your doubts,I doubt that your doubts will resolve themselves without having that nerve racking ... (read in full...)

Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends?

Q.   Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends? Including telling his friends some sexual things that they do together, (Not actually about having sex but fingering, making out, touching, etc.)? Do all guys do that? Just ...

A.   29 April 2009: just creeps... (read in full...)

What is this lump? Help!

Q.   hello I feel quite embarrassed asking this question and I understand that you aunts are not doctors but I would like some advice. Well... just above my clit there is this small lump and I know it isn't a spot, I do shave and haven't yet come across ...

A.   29 April 2009: I wouldn't worry about it. Put some cortisone on it. If that doesn't work, sit in a salt bath for a bit. If that doesn't work, go to a doctor or clinic. -Jmo... (read in full...)

I can't please everyone and its really starting to get to me!

Q.   Lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting and the fight is always the same thing. It is about how he well never spend time with my family I hear so much shit about this from my family that it's starting to drive me up the wall. Evertime my ...

A.   14 April 2009: Oh, I forgot to say, with regards to your family, just tell the truth for the most part. Tell them he fells uncomfortable. Hopefully they'll understand. Good luck -Jmo... (read in full...)

I can't please everyone and its really starting to get to me!

Q.   Lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting and the fight is always the same thing. It is about how he well never spend time with my family I hear so much shit about this from my family that it's starting to drive me up the wall. Evertime my ...

A.   14 April 2009: Oh hell, I know what you're talking about. The thing is, after awhile, you need to do some negotiating, such as *I go to this if you go to that* or you could give him a guilt-trip (which I do not suggest). Actually, I could think of a million things ... (read in full...)

Can you truly be friends with your ex?

Q.   My and my ex's relationship ended on good terms. I was just too shy and he felt we acted like friends. Me and my ex are really close, we're best friends coz we can tell each other everything even if its embarrassing. We even sometimes have a little ...

A.   14 April 2009: Date other guys casually, he'll obviously figure out his feelings then. If it doesn't work out with him, at least you'll have some plans for the weekend (and maybe more).... (read in full...)

Will a special encounter with a female help me?

Q.   I am 22 years old. I am most confused. I don't have a reason to wake out of bed. I still haven't had any real special encounters. I have no experience in the dating game whatsoever. I hate to use the dreaded "V" word if you know what i mean. I ha...

A.   14 April 2009: I don't know what city you live in, but in Milwaukee,this is commonplace. I've also gone to college with many people who have felt the same way. I'm not saying you should relocate but I will say that in your state of mind, "a special encounter with ... (read in full...)

Curious 14 year old girl ....

Q.   hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....

A.   14 April 2009: Well, I was 13 when I lost my virginity. While it was of my own volition, it was kind of messed up . It wasn't until I was 16 until I actually had sex with someone I cared for deeply, but let me tell you there is a huge difference between having ... (read in full...)

I feel guilty because I am not physically attracted to my b/f

Q.   iv been with my boyfriend for 6months now.. his loving, caring, senstive all the things a girl can look for in a guy and i do love him the only problem is im not psychically attracted to him and i feel really guilty about it.. his always telling m...

A.   14 April 2009: Take some pride in the fact that you're not as superficial as the people you know!... (read in full...)

Curious 14 year old girl ....

Q.   hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....

A.   14 April 2009: In response to your response (which I did not see until too late) anonymous, I think you've answered your own question. -Jmo ... (read in full...)

Curious 14 year old girl ....

Q.   hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....

A.   14 April 2009: I know that when it comes to this question most people might say you're too young. I won't. That isn't to say that I think you're ready based on that, Just think you need to evaluate your feelings regarding that. Hell, it's your body, remember that. ... (read in full...)

My b/f ex keeps updating him on her life. What shall I do?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a few months, we get on very well and are very close but I have a bit of a problem with his ex. It's a bit of a long story so I'll try and put it in a nutshell. His ex and he were together for two years but she ...

A.   11 March 2009: I don't think you have reason to be worried. It sounds like this girl is a nuisance and an annoyance and it seems your boyfriend feels the same way. Even though he is still accepting her texts doesn't in any way show that he's still interested in ... (read in full...)

I'm so sad people around me laugh at my wide, square, flat butt:'( pls help me

Q.   I'm 21 years old and I'm an asian. I always feel down when thinking that I've got quite not a good figure. My boobs are small (B.34) and actually i'm still okay with my small boobs. The only problem is that, i've got a wide hip but a very flat...

A.   11 March 2009: It sounds like your ass is perfectly fine. And when girls give other girls shit about their ass (no pun intended) it's almost always because they're self-conscious about their own. I've gotten criticism about my small ass but you kind of have to ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for us to be physical and get married?

Q.   i am a non practising christian divorced with children and ive met a new partner who is widowed and a catholic can we have a physical relationship and get married ...

A.   11 March 2009: I agree with ArmyMedic, and don't get too worked up about it. My mom was Lutheran and my dad was a divorced Catholic (a big no-no in the church). They had been intimate before they were married and when the did get married had a hell of a time ... (read in full...)

300 calories weekdays, 3000 cals weekend. Will I lose weight?

Q.   heyx i am on this new diet where i eat 300 calories and do half and hour exersize everyday. though one day a week, i eat 3000 calories, just so i can go out and have fun and EAT once in a while!! would i lose weight from this diet? (I want to lose ...

A.   11 March 2009: I'm no diet expert, but my dad had to lose some weight and did something similar (he said the splurge day keeps the metabolism from dropping drastically but I don't believe it). He did lose weight but it seemed pretty unhealthy. He seemed a bit ... (read in full...)

I'm really confused by his comments. How do I handle this?

Q.   Is he messing me around? I met someone that looks after my kids in the daycare nursery I use. We have met up a few times and text every day yet. He said he wanted to take it slow which I respected and felt that was the right thing to do. We ...

A.   6 February 2009: Maybe he feels like a teacher dating the mother of a student? It sounds like he's into you but is also concerned about what could happen if the two of you get serious.... (read in full...)

How to be a massage therapist...?

Q.   I want to be a massage therapist. Does anybody knows how to be a registered massage therapist in Canada on the quickest way? Thanks ...

A.   6 February 2009: I'm not sure about Canada but in the U.S. I see countless (I mean seriously more than I can count) ads on tv for how quickly and cheaply you can become a massage therapist. If they're pushing it that hardcore here, I'm sure there are some similar ... (read in full...)

Partner divorced 2 years ex wife still on his computer!

Q.   I have been with my partner 2 years and have recently given birth to a son. My partner got Divorced 2 years ago but fails to delete all of his ex wife's photos holidays, wedding etc from his PC and company Home Server. I finally moved in x-mas a...

A.   5 February 2009: You have every right to be upset, however you shouldn't go and delete them. They are his. Tell him he can keep the files but keep them off the server and the PC. It's a compromise between you respecting his property and he respecting your feelings ... (read in full...)

Pretending to be the ex during sex?

Q.   What do you think about a husband asking his wife to play like he is her ex, while they are having sex?...

A.   5 February 2009: Ha! If my boyfriend asked me to act like his ex during sex, I'd act like a stuck-up bitch, because that's what she was. Seriously though, what does acting like one's ex entail exactly?... (read in full...)

Should my crush be bothered that I have a best friend who is also male?

Q.   Me and a boy at school have liked eachother for months. But I have a best friend whos also male and who I hang about with in school. I have told the boy I like I dont fancy this other boy and hes my best friend. He says hes not botherd if I hang ...

A.   5 February 2009: Seeing as how all my friends have been guys for years this issue has come up a lot for me. The thing is, you shouldn't have to choose between a real friend and a potential relationship with someone who may or not work out. If he can't respect your ... (read in full...)

Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?

Q.   Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?...

A.   29 January 2009: Common..... I guess.... (read in full...)

Does she still like him and just want me for sex, or does she love me and just wants to really be friends with him??

Q.   I met this chick during summer school last year and we totally hit it off. Before school was out, I asked her if she wanted to hook up and have some fun, she enthusiasticaly agreed and so we got together. I really found her attractive and really ...

A.   29 January 2009: No it wouldn't be wrong to go out and see someone casually. You owe it to yourself. ... (read in full...)

How can I stop worrying so much?

Q.   I'm 19 years old and have a lot of worries at the moment, to list a few: *my dad was made redundant just before xmas, he's trying so hard to get a job but can't, our family arent very wealthy anyway and although my parents always try and stay hap...

A.   29 January 2009: I can relate to a great deal of what you're going through. I won't bother you with the details but a few years ago it seemed like everything that could have possibly gone wrong, did, and my response to it was to mess everything up even more. I'd ... (read in full...)

Is cyber sex just as bad as physical cheating?

Q.   Hi, i have a problem i am in a happy relationship i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he works away in the week i only see him at weekends. I have been chatting to this guy online but i also now him, everytime we talk after a while it ...

A.   29 January 2009: An emotional affair is (in my mind) almost worse than a physical one. Having several of both myself, I know. However, the question you should be asking yourself is not "is this just as bad as cheating physically" but "why am I doing this?". Why do ... (read in full...)

Does she still like him and just want me for sex, or does she love me and just wants to really be friends with him??

Q.   I met this chick during summer school last year and we totally hit it off. Before school was out, I asked her if she wanted to hook up and have some fun, she enthusiasticaly agreed and so we got together. I really found her attractive and really ...

A.   29 January 2009: You're the other guy. Trust me. I've had them. And I completely agree with pvtguy, "Don't sink your heart into this one, but enjoy it until you find someone who will be more for you." -Jmo... (read in full...)

Affiliations...

Q.   Please I'd like to know if a girl says to her lover "whenever I think of you my affiliations is ending" please help me explain the meaning of this to me thanks....

A.   29 January 2009: I think I agree with the anonymous poster. It sounds like a compliment. Either way maybe it would ease your mind if if you just came out and asked her. It sounds like a somewhat awkward way to say something emotional and I wouldn't know how to take ... (read in full...)

Tips on dirty sex games?

Q.   I will be going to be meeting my online girlfriend, that i have been talking to online and on the phone, for the first this summer. We were going to camp in a cave by a creek of mine.She says that we will have lez sex for the whole week we will be ...

A.   29 January 2009: I'll skip the lectures on age and the caveats of meeting someone online (I'm sure you'll get enough of that). I think as far as people trying to act like they "know what they're doing" it's pretty overrated. If the two of you feel comfortable it ... (read in full...)

Sex games?

Q.   First I'm gay and I don't want any annoying advice on it, I get enough of it already. I'm meeting and going camping with him soon and he wants to play some sex games and I want to look like I know what I'm doing (even though I don't 0_0) any advice ...

A.   29 January 2009: Hey, not knowing what you're doing can be fun and exiting, a new experience. If you're too caught up in acting like you "know what you're doing" you'll be too nervous and self-conscious to enjoy it. Don't worry about it, or make up some sex games of ... (read in full...)

Sleepy fun?

Q.   Does anyone else have the sexual fantasy of having sex with a girl in her sleep, then her waking up and being totally into it?...

A.   29 January 2009: That's pretty common. In fact the guy I'm with right now does this pretty often in the morning. Sometimes it's downright startling to wake up like that but sometimes it's kinda cool.... (read in full...)

He says he's a virgin, but I don't think I believe him

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend now for almost six months, and he claims to still be a virgin. I don't know whether I can fully believe him or not because he has told me in the past that he has had sex before, but then one day he tells me that was...

A.   29 January 2009: I've lied to guys before about whether or not I was a virgin. I've told guys who were virgins that I was one too just to make them feel less self conscious or make them feel special. I've also told guys that I was just messing around with that I ... (read in full...)

Is it realistic to think we could stay in love and get married eventually?

Q.   Is it possible to love someone since a teenager until marriage? Well that's how I feel, I really love her and she really loves me but I'm afraid there will be something bad happen on our way in the future and the thing is how do I go through if ...

A.   29 January 2009: I agree with Emilysanswers, anything can happen and you shouldn't preoccupy yourself with the "what ifs" to the point where you can't enjoy what you have right now. -Jmo... (read in full...)

I see my self in a mirror and I start thinking that I'm ugly...

Q.   Hi, this is the first time I have posted on here, but I have been hanging around for a while now and I like the advice and help given. I'm 14 years old and when ever I'm doing anything, or even just doing nothing for that matter I don't care about...

A.   26 January 2009: I don't know what you look like and quite honestly it doesn't matter. All girls get self-conscious from time to time but the more you start to think about it, the more down on yourself you will become. When I was little (like too young to even ... (read in full...)

Will I be stuck in this rut forever where I don't meet many girls?

Q.   -Nearly 22 -Never had a girlfriend -Kissed once ( drunk ) -I really struggle talking to girls -No friends that are girls, not even 'Sorta' friends -Never approached a girl, but read everything on how to do it lol I feel a big void, never ha...

A.   26 January 2009: Just a thought. From the way you've described yourself (attractive, confident, not overly nice or needy) and the fact that you never approach the girlies, it sounds like you might come off as someone who wouldn't be interested even before a ... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Please help me!

Q.   Me and my BF got into an argument.. he got really angry and started saying horrible things to me.. he said I am always whining and..(f*king about with other guys).. he said I am not having sex with him so someone else must be getting since he ain't ...

A.   15 January 2009: I don't want to put ideas in your head, but ti sounds to me that he's got something (someone else) going on in his life. Sorry. If I'm right about this, he's probably trying to turn things around on you saying you're messing around with other guys. ... (read in full...)

Is she prego?

Q.   Hey, my girlfreind might be pregnant, shes really worried bout it. and now her pants are getting tighter and that worried her more. I think its just extra fluf from the holydays. but shes really worried nad doesn't want to get a test. so how long ...

A.   14 January 2009: if she doesn't want to take a test, I guess her best bet would be to wait until she gets or misses her period. Keep in mind however, that all of this stress could cause her period to be a little late. As far as how long it will take to show, it ... (read in full...)

Was it wrong of me to take my phone back from him?

Q.   I don't think my boyfriend trusts me. He took my phone and was about to read my texts but I took it from him. He got all mad at me and said what are you trying to hide etc. and tried to take it back. I said why do you have to do that you don't trust ...

A.   13 January 2009: No it wasn't wrong of you to take your phone back. It's your phone, and you have a right to have male friends. (at least he didn't do what my boyfriend did and smash up my phone because on of our mutual guy friends kept calling.) Guys who insist on ... (read in full...)

How do I convince her that 5 years is long enough and we should have sex

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 and a half years now. We've had a healthy relationship except for a period of time a couple years ago when things got rough. Here's the problem: Both of us are 22 and we have never had sex. I've spo...

A.   13 January 2009: Maybe she has reservations about sex in general?... (read in full...)

My husband's friend is acting like I hurt his feelings. How do I approach this?

Q.   I have a friend whose husband is acting like I hurt his feelings. Should I confront him or not? How would I approach it? Is communication the best way or not? Please give me some advice. I consider him a friend also, and I do feel badly if I ...

A.   13 January 2009: Why do think you hurt his feelings? Did you do or say something hurtful? If not, ASK him if you did something to offend him. If you just ignore it and you consider him a friend, he might start to become more standoffish and the static between the ... (read in full...)

I love my mom but she's so controlling of my life

Q.   my life is so confusing......im currently seeing my ex boyfreind and we are so in love but im seeing him behind my mams back because she has it in to her head that he is gay....he is the most sweetest lad you could ever ask to be with and i dont ...

A.   13 January 2009: First, why do you refer to him as your ex if you're seeing him and the two of you are in love? Why can't you tell her you're seeing him? Why does she think he's gay? Second you said "i dont know any other mother that has soo much control over thei... (read in full...)

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