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23 April 2018, 12 hours ago (F age 22-25 - Hello, I'm 23 years old (f) suffering with anxiety and bipolar. In my childhood and teenage years, I suffered from emotional and physical abuse, and it's affecting my relationships with people right now. My dad was one of the people who made me feel like crap, until now, I ... (377 words

Their Grandma wont drop the subject, what do I do?

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23 April 2018, 12 hours ago (M age 30-35 - A few years ago, my sister-in-law's grandmother and her boyfriend went to Alaska on a vacation (the boyfriend is now decease). We talked about Alaska and I mentioned to her that Alaska is my dream vacation. I did my research and realize how much it would cost for me to g... (227 words

My well-connected but broke boyfriend has 4720 friends on Facebook but won’t add me!

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23 April 2018, 19 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I probably know the answer to this question, but if anyone has some thoughts, I'm in a long distance relationship with a much older man who is very accomplished and well-connected (flat broke, but always has younger women chasing him). We see each other a few days every other ... (1014 words

Did I do the right thing, I think he is still involved with his children's mother.

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22 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - I was seeing a man who lives with his 18 year month twin boys and he still lives with his kids mother.He told me they have broken up but staying together for financial reasons for now. Well he wouldn't see me outside working hours so I called him out on it. He said he would... (168 words

What should a person do .....

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22 April 2018 (F age 41-50 - What should a person do if they are falling for someone, and that person tells them they have a certain type a woman they like, and it's not you, and they don't have time but maybe one day a week, they are to busy to see you more then that, you live in different towns, but only ... (70 words

I muust have a "hate me" sign above my head.

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22 April 2018 (F age 36-40 - I’m unlikeable it seems, people don’t “take” to me land aren’t friendly. I feel like giving up on people. I Try to be nice and get ignored, uninvited, dismissed and forgotten. Please, how can I be more likeable? I listen, I smile and Am I’m not full of ego or “al... (122 words

My friend is upset none of us can afford to go to his wedding

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22 April 2018 (M age 30-35 - An old friend who moved from Berlin where I live to San Diego is getting married. 5 years ago we were great friends and housemates. As time went on, I recognized we are very different and have different value systems. His dream is to find a partner settle down and get married ... (411 words

A mutual friend has boundary problems

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22 April 2018 (M age 30-35 - I have this problem with a friend of mine (we are both gay men). He is very close to my best friend. This friend, who can sometimes be great and at other times be utterly creepy. He can be the kindest, most helpful person and in a whim switch to a hyperactive eccentric person ... (372 words

What are some thoughts or suggestions on solving this without ending this or is it just better to end this?

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22 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - I’ve been with my partner for going on nine years. We have lived together a good majority of this time. There are children involved from previous relationships, but my struggle doesn’t really involve the children. My partner is a great guy. I truly believe when and if he want... (759 words

How often should a healthy couple have sex?

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22 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - How often should a healthy couple have sex? I know this is a subjective question and every couple is different. I ask because my partner (32m) and I (32f) have been having issues around this lately. My natural rhythm dictates about 2-4 times per week, depending on the... (425 words

He’s been dragging his feet on getting a passport and my anxiety problems have caused a rift! What now?

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22 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend got into a big fight. Weve had a difficult time for the past 6 months of our relationship (we've been together nearly 2 years) due to my anxiety problems..We argued very frequently, and I developed a phobia that he was going to betray my trust. Anyway... (412 words

Friends of 25 years don’t include me anymore!

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21 April 2018 (F age 36-40 - At the moment im trying to clear debt i have so have to stop spending where i dont need to. I messaged my 4 closest friends saying id have to cut back on nights out round pubs as i cant afford to waste money. Having each other round at each others houses would work. This has ... (137 words

Why did he have makeup smeared around his lips?

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21 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - My husband is the most loving loyal husband, we never argue at all and we get along amazing, we are both just so madly in love, he’s always been very affectionate and he really is amazing in every way. However he went on a works meal yesterday and afterwards him and his fsna... (532 words

How do I have conversations with my husband about our relationship without him getting angry?

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21 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - I dont know where to start.. my husband changed a lot after we marry. In a negative way. He doesnt care anymore and we kinda lost connection after we marry. He become irresponsible man which i never think he could be. He used to be a very caring and considerate and patient man. ... (669 words

Am I meant to tell him to break up with her?

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21 April 2018 (F age 18-21 - I'm currently talking to this lad who seems to be interested in me. It would be fine but he has a girlfriend, who I asked about recently. He never seems too happy to see her, says they're distant,she doesn't speak to him much and she has cheated on him numerous times. He speaks ... (240 words

Did she sell the phone I gave her? I regret how our interactions ended!

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21 April 2018 (M age 36-40 - I am an Expatriate aged 39 and good looking working in a rather 3rd world country with good financial. I met a girl in a family friendly bar. After few visits at the bar, i took a liking to her as she was unlike the rest that goes around flirting with customers and doing all ... (888 words

Why doesn't my heart race when I kiss my boyfriend?

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21 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - So I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I have dated 3 guys (and have kissed all of the ) and the guy I am with at the moment is my first love, we have kissed many times but my heart doesn't race like his does. The first guy I dated took my first kiss, and I am my current boyfriends ... (118 words

I'm obsessed with my professor and it's making me depressed

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21 April 2018 (F age 18-21 - I have a massive crush on my professor. I assure you it's completely platonic but it's still causing me much trouble. I think there are 2 main aspects to my feelings for him: 1. Admiration: He's the exact kind of person I want to be when I grow older. He's passionate about... (750 words

Shall I just go along with this as it is and see where it goes, or ask now what he's thinking?

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20 April 2018 (M age 22-25 - Hey, so I'm 24 but pretty new to dating in general - I came out of a long-term relationship with my (thus far only) boyfriend back in September last year and only recently felt ready to start dating. In any case, I've been seeing some for the last couple of months who I qui... (315 words

I'm wondering how some females can manage not being jealous and I'm wondering how some guys don't see how this affects their partners?

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20 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - I'm single, so this isn't something I'm writing out of emotion, but something I have pondered in the past. I came across a lot of articles online lately about what guys like and dislike in relationships and it seems as though a lot of guys mentioned they frown upon jealousy. ... (263 words

Is he oblivious or selfish?

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20 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hello agony aunts and uncles It’s never a good sign when I appeal to the internet but here goes. I fell crazy in love with someone but he had a lot of financial issues. I still dated him and loaned him money which he did repay me for. Now that he’s finally stable, partiall... (269 words

How do I stop thinking about her being with someone else?

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20 April 2018 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend of several years broke up with me recently and we haven't talked or communicated since. It has felt like I've had a death in my family - I've lost the person I've spent every intimate detail of daily life with for the last several years and now I'm' alone, ... (125 words

Should I give this toxic person another chance?

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20 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - Should I give my “friend” another chance? I met this coworker from my parents employer who is single like me and we started chatting - I work a lot so we developed a friendship. Long story short she is just as miserable as I am but also guy crazy. We were set to hang out one ... (299 words

He phased me out but got angry when I moved on.

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19 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hey :-) im sorry that this is such a long one guys. About 6 months ago I started casually dating this guy who I had known for a while. It started because he pursued and chased me and I started to like him back. He told me how he thought of me 24/7, how there was 'something a... (789 words

We're both single now and he's invited me on an adventure... is he interested?

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19 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - I can't believe I'm 30 years old and asking this question, but my social skills are not the greatest so here goes. Tl;dr "does he like me?" A few years ago I met this guy in passing at an event I basically strayed into while out walking around. We started talking about ou... (729 words

He said he loved me but then he dumped me out of the blue! Do I just walk away and forget it all?

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19 April 2018 (F age 36-40 - Hi Everyone I have a really big dilemma and don’t know what to do. Long story short. I was seeing this guy for a little over 2 months. Things were going amazing, we got along well, we wanted the same things out of life, we had many of the same views and values, we nev... (523 words

My boyfriend, I and his so called lesbian friend who's slept with him, fancies him and doesn't like me. What do I do?

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19 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - Been seeing a guy for 7months now. Started off casually, us both not looking for a relationship, but it naturally progressed into one that we both are enjoying. We have had to redefine and communicate a lot about what our needs and expectations are and that has been hard, but ... (683 words

What can I do to make my Facebook account more respectable so that my boyfriend doesn't take things the wrong way?

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19 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hello. After a few years of being single minus one short relationship last year, I've found someone I want to get serious with. We've been dating a few months now and I've put a lot of thought into the type of partner I want to be. I've no problem really with living a settled ... (365 words

My boyfriend doesn't listen when I tell him I am not materialistic!

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19 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. I'm trying to get other's perspective. I come from a wealthy family, and my boyfriend think that i should be always spoiled with gifts. He's not too rich or poor, he's in the middle and every time we have an ... (190 words

Why is my co-worker taking care of his female friend after she just had a baby? Does he like her?

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19 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hello there, I am 32 years old and my coworker is 41 years old. We starred to talk around January only at work then we found out that we live 8 minutes away from each other. Our days off rotate and march 16th him and I set the date to go to lunch and asked other officers... (346 words

I have an ex that wont let go.

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18 April 2018 (M age 22-25 - Me and my ex girlfriend split up 4, maybe even closer to 5 years ago. In the end, she got quite nasty and I ended up blocking her on Facebook. Fast forward a few years and I get a message request from a previously deactivated account of hers, she was wishing me a 'happy anni... (270 words

I'm still being picked on at school, one girl said its because I'm clueless.

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18 April 2018 (F age 13-15 - THIS IS WHAT I WROTE BEFORE: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/please-help-me-stand-up-for-myself.html These friends are the only friends I have and when they give me the silent treatment or start rumors it really hurts! I pretty much end up begging them and doing whatever I... (542 words

A guy I was seeing went quiet on me, he says he is following legal advise.

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18 April 2018 (F age 36-40 - Im just wondering what are peoples thoughts. I was seeing a guy who went quiet on me we had been seeing each other for 6 month. i heard from him a handful of times in 2 month and didnt get to see him . I didnt sit about waiting for him i got on with my life , work , family , ... (350 words

My boyfriend is all about himself during sex, but never about me.

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18 April 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hello, I was hoping I could ask for some help regarding my sex life. I have a wonderful 2 year relationship with my boyfriend. Genuinely feel like I've found the one for me, I think he's amazing. However, he's the first person I've slept with so I've done a lot of learn... (380 words

Should I be thankful for the little I've got?

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18 April 2018 (F age 16-17 - Yes, mod, I’m 17. The only person I can talk to about my depression and anxiety is my boyfriend but I’m stuck in a polygamous relationship with him and his girlfriend. However, I love him and I’m getting tired of sharing him. I just want his body and heart for myself. He’s all ... (198 words

I'm back with my ex but sometimes he is not enthusiastic!

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18 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - My ex and I were together for 2.5 years. I ended the relationship about a year ago due to his immature habits (gambling and binge drinking on weekends). After the break up we tried working on things but ultimately not enough time had passed and nothing changed. Now almost a ... (173 words

No kids, no spouse, and nearing 30.

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18 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - Does anyone else freak out that their hitting their thirties with no kids and husband/wife? I have tried online dating and that hasn’t worked (honestly most people I have met look for sex) and I am traditional ( I would at least like to date a bit before that) I’m an ... (206 words

His piercing means no kissing for 10 weeks.

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18 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend got a new lip piercing last week and said that we can't kiss for the six week healing period, which I am happily enforcing because his healing is my priority and I don't want to hinder that process in any way. Coincidentally at the end of that timeframe, I'm then ... (188 words

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