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My boyfriend is upset about something and wont talk to me about it!

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7 September 2010, 3 minutes ago (F)

age 16-17 - For about a month now, my bf has been upset over something he doesn't want to tell me. So I, being a girl, am panicking since its been this long and he only told me "I'm in a bad mood today" and then nothing after that....two days ago!!! Like what the heck!? I really like thi... (100 words)

Should I end the relationship or stay with her?

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7 September 2010, 6 minutes ago (M)

age 26-29 - I've been with this sweat lovely lady almost three months long. We get along great and have fun, but recently I've become unsettled, and interested in a few people around me. I am 27 years old (she is 25 yrs old) and lives in a big city, which I’m still young and I don’t know ... (595 words)

My ex husband sent me a picture of his penis! is he feeling regret for divorcing me?

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7 September 2010, 11 minutes ago (F)

age 30-35 - after my divorce i wrote a question here under this title"Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child". and now after 2 months of my divorce he sent me his penis picture!!!!! he said that he likes to see me wearing a tight t-shirt ... (169 words)

What did he mean by saying I'm not pregnant yet?

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7 September 2010, 17 minutes ago (F)

age 13-15 - Okay. So I have a crush on my friends brother, who is one year older than me. I was at their house yesterday and and said Guess What? My friend said: Uh.. You're pregnant? I said: No. Her brother said: not YET anyways" Whats that supposed to mean!? ... (50 words)

I'm afraid to touch my genitalia!

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7 September 2010, 18 minutes ago (F)

age 13-15 - I have never had sex, or even masturbated. I have tried but I cant. For awhile I was scared to look at my genitalia but I am slowly getting over that fear, I still cant look at it freely. I know the body is a very beautiful gift but for some reason im afraid to "explore" down ... (114 words)

How should I tell my friend what's going on?

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7 September 2010, 19 minutes ago (F)

age 13-15 - Ok so we had a fair and my best friend really wanted a big stuffed animal. I won it a little later and I was about to give it to her but then she ran away and said she had to meet her mom. She texted me later and asked me if I left and I said yes. And then she says great ... (197 words)

Is she lieing to me about the other girl? I need help!

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7 September 2010, 25 minutes ago (M)

age 18-21 - this is kinda tricky, and im in what i would call a problem. One of my friends (female) that we will call F1, gets jealous, and has admited that F2 (also female) always has guys like her more than her, even though they are "best friends". this is important for later in the ... (1386 words)

Should I contact my ex or wait for her to initiate communication?

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7 September 2010, 22 minutes ago (M)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my ex girlfriend 5 and a half months ago. Realized I was an idiot, tried to get her back immediately but she started dating someone new and didn't want me back. I haven't spoken a word to her in about 2 and a half months, and I still have strong feelings for her ... (170 words)

Did I pop my cherry or is something else wrong?

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7 September 2010, 1 hour ago (F)

age 18-21 - This is kind off embarassing, I was masturbating the other day using an electric toothbrush, then I hve a really great sensational feeling, but suddenly there was a sharp painful feeling and the tootbrush was bloody.... now my stomache feels like hell and I feel like I cant pee ... (69 words)

Why is he telling me this AGAIN? is he doing this to me now?

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7 September 2010, 1 hour ago (F)

age 22-25 - Should I worry or not? My man was talking about how he was having sex with 2 girls back when he was 15 and it felt awkward when he would have sex with one and sometimes have sex with the other in the same day. he told me this story one time long ago and he just now brought it ... (155 words)

Can I stop this before it gets to deep?

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7 September 2010, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - can i stop this before it gets tooo deep???? i have recently been back in touch with my uncle after my great grandmother died... he recently told me he has feelings for me he knows its worng we both do but for some reason it feels so right its hard for us because he lives in a ... (156 words)

Boyfriend said he needs to take a "break"

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7 September 2010, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 13 months. He lives in California, and I live in Maryland. We've had a long distant relationship for 13 months, and haven't seen each other once. We've never really seemed to mind it, as long as were always speaking to another. ... (330 words)

Help, my man cheated on me.. with a man!

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7 September 2010, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Heres my story. I started dating my best friend of several years just about a year ago. Everything was going fine untill a few months ago when he started agruing with me over everything. He is always canceling plans and ditching me to go do drugs with his friends its a real ... (124 words)

Still not over my husband having an affair!

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7 September 2010, 2 hours ago (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 9 years had an affair 2 years ago. The affair is over and I thought I was over it. However, my husband has an old female friend (?)that recently looked him up. She called him twice so far this month. I told him that I found it unusual that a woman would look... (111 words)

Is she giving me the run around because she wants to see what else is out there?

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7 September 2010, 2 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me about a month ago. At first she said she needed time, which made me think ok no big deal. I was still sad about it and acted like a hopeless fool, but did give her time. About a week ago she says that were over for right now. We still ... (294 words)

Clueless about girls, How do I gain confidence and how do I know when the right time is?

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7 September 2010, 2 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - I've never really been comfortable about sex before. It's always been something I've felt extremely awkward and embarrassed about. I mean, I don't have any problem talking about it with people online, nor do I have any problem watching porn or even masturbating because I do ... (489 words)

She made out with her ex and it turned me on!

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7 September 2010, 2 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - A week ago, my girlfriend of almost 2 years and I took a "break", which lasted three days. We both sort of agreed to the break after a series of little fights, though I was the main proponent of the break. We both said we love each other and want to be back together. On t... (399 words)

Should I give in to a 3some to make my boyfriend happy?

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7 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I have a boyfriend I been with for almost 3 years now. We are very happy together we have the occasional fight mostly because I am very jealous. I don't want to share him with any one else. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone else. He just wants to fulfil certain f... (211 words)

Shy guy around girls...

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7 September 2010, 3 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - please help me out! i need your advice!! im a 21 years old guy in a good shape and often times i catch some people checking me out. the problem is when i start talking to a girl i always think she is "the one meant to be". so im too nice too her, always try to talk to he... (161 words)

My husband is so distant since I've had the baby...

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6 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - What does it mean when my husband is so distant after we just had a baby? He doesn't want do anything with me anymore and that he works all the time from 8 until 9 at night. I think he does that so he wont spend time with me. That we dont even have sex anymore, I try with ... (81 words)

Should I change and become a 'bad boy'?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I need some advice on dating, relationships, and life in general. I'm a 17 year old guy. I'm athletic and get good grades and focused on becoming a doctor. Some close girl friends of mine say I'm fairly good-looking and muscular. Usually they describe me as such a ... (342 words)

'Adderall' changes my girlfriend!

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok so here's the thing, were both 17 years old and go to the same school. We started going out at the end of last school year. Then dated threw the summer and we really conected, I mean really conected. We did so much together, texed non stop every day. We both agree we could ... (200 words)

Brother in law's ex fling is psycho, poor baby sis!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay so this is for my sister. She and her now fiance (great guy, love him to death!) are in a rough spot. Before they got together they were seeing other people pretty regularly, and when they decided to commit to each other, they respectfully agreed to inform any and all ... (294 words)

My boyfriend and his sister have an incestuous relationship?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a suspicion that my boyfriend is having an incestuous relationship with his sister. Before I met her, she was always very jealous of me which I found very odd. We finally met and she actually lives with us temporarily. These are the weird things that make me think ... (286 words)

Need your help! How do I get him to notice and talk to me?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 16-17 - Hii!! Well i am 16 years old and i have just started college :) anyway i am just like any other teenager even though i do drink and go out into town (clubbing) but thats just who i am! My mum doesnt let me do any of this but i do it all the time and i always make sure i am... (328 words)

My head is melted with a decision that I have to make, Can you you help me please?

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6 September 2010, 3 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - Any answers will be deeply appreciated from the bottom of my heart. Dear Cupid, I am with my girl for 3 years. We had a lil break up about 2 months back and she started texting a "friend" right away. She sent him pictures and videos and whatever, I felt very sad because I ... (386 words)

He has gotten distant after I asked him if we were in a relationship!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 18-21 - What if I texted a guy and said "just saw you"...and he replyed... "yea."... so i replyed .. "yeah"... then that was it.. then two days later... he saw me and said "just saw you what you doing"... so I said "yeah" and he said "yea lol".... Is he into me? Keep in mind we had ... (122 words)

Friends? Or hope for a relationship?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 22-25 - so this guy and i are friends. but just saturday he danced with me held my hand held my hips held me when we were gust sitting down. and when a bouncer said he had frisk me this guy said 'no thats my job'! do i take it as were just friends? or do i hope for a relationship? ... (59 words)

I'm confused about my relationship with my boss

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 31 and single and my boss is 47 and single. I do like him alot, but wonder about his feelngs for me. I started to notice him looking at me intensely in the staffroom or in a crowded room, and we still seem to be in the staffroom together alone alot at lunchtimes. I was s... (465 words)

What should I do this time?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been friends wit this girl for over 2 year and for the last year i am so clear on how i feel about her . she is all i seem to think about. I have told her i care about her deeply as more than a friend her response to this was i have been hurt so many times and dose not ... (261 words)

I've never had a girlfriend, is there something wrong with me?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 25 years old (nearly 26) and I've never had a girlfriend at all. Is there something wrong with me? I have been on dating sites (got rejected on those), I get rejected by women a lot (I never said anything nasty, disrespectful and so on to anyone), I see overweight guys, un... (189 words)

My self esteem is shattered because my friend gets all the attention!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 22-25 - Ive searched this site and cannot find any relevant advice for the dilema that i am in. I really love my best friend shes a really nice girl and very supportive and very pretty. When we go out to parties and clubs all the guys are interested in and want to talk to her and i'm ... (258 words)

Should they proceed or postpone the wedding?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - A family member is planning to be maried in 2 months. The couple have been living together for almost 2 years - and have been engaged for about 10 months. The bride recently discovered by accident several large loans which the groom has amassed over the pass 10 years. ... (299 words)

All I want is him, I don't know what to do!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 13-15 - when i was in year 10, i fell pretty much head over heels with this guy in the year above. he told me i was beautiful, that he'd never hurt me. but a month or so later after saying how much he liked me, he said he wasn't ready for a relationship. it hit me hard, and i was s... (164 words)

I rebounded and now how do I tell him I am not interested?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 22-25 - I broke up my boyfriend of 10 and a half months about 2 months ago. I was totally in love with him and it broke my heart. I've been trying to get over it, but it's been really hard. Last night I went out with a guy I knew from before and it started out really fun...we just ... (198 words)

How to stay in love, when my wife isn't in love with me anymore.

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - how can i do it? after all is said and done, it is my fault, i never cheated, hit her. i wasn't there for her emotionally, didn't support her when she needed to be supported. she fell out of love with me. now how can i stay in love with her, knowing that she isn't in l... (200 words)

I want to be his girlfriend someday, whats the next step?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 13-15 - I know its a typical start to a story, but: Theres this guy at school that I really really like. I've liked him for quite a while now and I did tell him that I liked him but then he apologised and said he was in a complicated realtionship. He never said he didnt like me in... (297 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want me on birth control!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i always use condoms but a few times i've found that the condom had broke because i found a piece was left inside me. i decided to get on b/c so at this point we have 2 methods of b/c. he doesnt want me to be on b/c but has never tried to have unprotected sex. ... (63 words)

I'm not interested in sex!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i'm in need of a bit of help. i'm 18 nearly 19 yrs old and i know it sounds stupid but i'm not interested in sex at all and its that bad i'm worried eventually my relationship of two yrs is gonna go down hill. he says he isnt bothered but i am, i dont enjoy sex at all and if ... (135 words)

Good man, but not in love...what do I do?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, so I'm 36 so in theory should be old enough to know what I want. But, I'm wracked with self-doubt and indecision. I have a 6 year relationship with a good (if dull) man. We are engaged and have one lovely gorgeous daughter. But I don't love him, and we haven't had sex ... (164 words)

Is it normal that this turns me on?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been seeing a guy for several months now on the DL; we're just friends with benefits and have agreed that there's no strings attached. I'm 19 and he's 34. Well, today is my birthday and last night I went by his place for some fun and ended up staying the night. This ... (340 words)

Is he playing me? should I trust my gut feeling and avoid him?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Sorry for the long post, I am trying to figure out my friend. I am 29 and my male friend is 23. I had a secret crush on him. We were best friends for a long long time. He became friends with another guy and he started treating me badly. I have gut feeling they regularly m... (283 words)

She thinks I cheated on her and she broke up with me!

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 16-17 - i have been accused of cheating for the past 4 days and well someone had gotten on my facebook account and said something to this girl that my girlfriend didnt like..well it ended up as that i gave my phone number to her and said well call me when and ur bf broke up..but the ... (91 words)

Is it a good idea to initiate another kiss?

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 18-21 - Two nights ago I went to a small kickback at my best friend's house. He has been my best friend since high school and he had had a big crush on me back then. We are now in college and we hang out every weekend with our whole crew. At the kickback, we had both gotten a little ... (235 words)

My girlfriends period was short! could she be pregnant?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi My Girlfriends period is very short however in saying that what are the chances of her falling pregnant in the middle of her period? She told me that her period did not end as it normaly does, Could this mean that she is pregnant?... when can she do a pregnancy test? ... (73 words)

Wife on dating website

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I just found out that my wife was on a dating website for like 10 mins. should i be concerned? we're going through some problems right now, but are still working it through. was she just seeing what is out there? we have two youngs kids. the reason that i know that it was... (121 words)

I'm afraid to talk to him incase I was wrong about him!

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6 September 2010 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi! okay, so i'll set the scene here: i'm a freshman in highschool, and we're 2 weeks into the school year. i'm in marching band with a boy who i really like. i've been practicing night and day in marching band for 3 months now, and i know what he likes, doesnt like, and his ... (135 words)

I don't know if our baby is mine! we were so in love yet she cheated on me!

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i was in a 2 and a half year relationship and ive been madly in love with her until i started getting gut feelings about getting cheated on. i asked several times and she sweared she would never or has never done that. but the feelings were so strong i had 2 bluff her into ... (286 words)

How can I get her trust back?

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 16-17 - So this is all my fault, but my girlfriend and I have been having huge trust issues cause i lied about talking to and old friend who was a girl, and she asked me not to talk to another girl but her. Kinda weird for my age? We've been dating for 6 months and I don't know how to ... (72 words)

I think I may have blew it with her! I'm confused!

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6 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi everyone. i really screwed things up with a wonderfull girl in my building. im hoping i can make things better but maybe lost my chance. here is what took place....for the past six months i have been crushing on her like crazy and could only ever say hi. i could tell she was ... (511 words)