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Can you teach someone to treat you the way you want to be treated?

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3 July 2009, 48 minutes ago (F)

- Can you teach someone to treat you the way you want to be treated?....Or is that the typical trap we women fall into, thinking a man is going to change for us?....My boyfriend has many great qualities, but doesn't really respect women in general. We've been together 3 years ... (167 words)

If a guy loses erection during sex, is it the woman's fault?

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3 July 2009, 49 minutes ago (F)

age 26-29 - Guys and ladies please I need your pespective! My ex bragged that it was my fault he lost his erections while we had sex. Lets keep in mind that all this time he teased me by saying that I am a saint to others and a horny bit*ch in bed. Guys, can a horny b*itch make you lose an ... (96 words)

Did he truly love me? Should I contact him to ask?

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3 July 2009, 50 minutes ago (F)

age 26-29 - Should I or shouldn't I? Sometimes, i think of my ex and I wonder if he thinks of me too. rarely are the times I think of him positively being that he made me go through so mamy emotional hardships. Times I thought he loved me and other times I totally felt he hated me. From a ... (238 words)

How do I not fall for verbally abusive ex's guilt trips?

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3 July 2009, 1 hour ago (F)

age 18-21 - So basically I am just wondering if anyone out there has some tips or ways to not fall for guilt trips? My ex-bf who was verbally abusive "jokingly" he called it, made a promise to change but he has lied about things in the past and I don't think I can trust him. I love him... (568 words)

I think I deserve to be treated much better. Your opinions, please!

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3 July 2009, 1 hour ago (F)

age 16-17 - just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheated on him that he was so in love wi... (271 words)

How do I break my hymen?

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3 July 2009, 1 hour ago (F)

age 18-21 - I've just finished school and I've not really had any boyfriends yet (I'm a virgin because I never liked the few boys that asked me out, and the ones i did like never asked me out/messed me around and were never that seriously into me) I'm hoping college will be differen... (300 words)

Is it a bad idea to tell him I've started seeing someone else? I really like this guy, but he had a bad breakup.

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3 July 2009, 2 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I care a lot about a guy I've been seeing. I try not to think about loving him but I know I do. However, he's not over his ex girlfriend - not in an "I still love her" kind of way, but in a "she hurt me so badly and killed my confidence in relationships by throwing away what we ... (268 words)

He's moved to be with me, and he says he loves me but that things just aren't "right"

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3 July 2009, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I met my boyfriend in a weird way. Our "at the times" cheated with each other. Him and I ended up bonding over broken hearts. He is my best friend and has always been there for me. He makes me smile and my every day. The only issue is, I lived in Michigan, and he lived in ... (199 words)

I've had 4 sexual partners, is that a lot for a woman my age?

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3 July 2009, 2 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 23 and have had 4 sexual partners. Is that a lot for a woman my age? My last ex told me during our break up that guys will think I'm really slutty now that I've been with 4 different men, but he might've been trying to make me feel bad. ... (58 words)

I hit my wife and choked her, she thinks it's her fault...help

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3 July 2009, 2 hours ago (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My wifew and I have been under alot of stress since my accident 2 years ago , we just recently went through depositions for our case, which is hard for us. Yesterday we got into a big fight and she wanted me to express to her what was wrong with me and I ju... (235 words)

Is it normal to get turned on thinking about attractive guys I don't know?

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3 July 2009, 2 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - Okay I have kind of a weird question for you… So lately I have noticed that when I am turned on and I start to pleasure myself it takes a long time for me to hit my high because out of habit I start to thing about my ex boyfriends or guys I know who care about me…which u... (143 words)

Arts and crafts gift for our two year anniversary.

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3 July 2009, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - What is a nice arts and craft gift i can make my boyfriend for our 2 year? I've already made a pillow, cake, scrapbook, lil notes in a jar, perfume (which he still has), teddy bear, picture frame, etc. What is some really cute craft gifts?! Hes 21 years old, and hes... (70 words)

Broken...

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3 July 2009, 3 hours ago (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 6 years with this woman who is now 31. She was a single mom of 3 kids with three different fathers, a high school drop out. I became daddy #4 four years ago. In our house there is a total of 6 different personalities,kids ages are ... (387 words)

I'm a silly big girl who's in trouble with boys

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3 July 2009, 3 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - Hi.. I'm a 17 years old girl.. and i'm not as all the girls my age because i've never been in a relationship and i've never kissed a boy. Sometimes i talk with boys but because of my insecure i don't know what to say. And i think that if i have a boyfriend he will get bored ... (72 words)

I'm not gay but watching gay porn turns me on...

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3 July 2009, 3 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - I'm straight i know that, i mean, girls turn me on so much you wouldnt believe it, i've had my fair share of girls and i've slept with one. Anyway, My problem is that gay porn arouses me, and not just gay porn, the smell of a penis turns me on, as just the thought of bumming a ... (146 words)

Why do I freak out my ex?

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3 July 2009, 3 hours ago (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i was in town the other week and bumped into my ex who dumped me after a 2 month break she initiated. When i saw her she crossed the street to talk to me. We chatted for a while and i suggested we go for a coffee. We were walking to the cafe and all of a sudden s... (141 words)

Advice please... Should I try to make things work with my husband or get out now?

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3 July 2009, 3 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I have been married a little over a year and things have been pretty rocky for the last 6 months. We lived a little town which totally sucked and we moved back to my home town and I thought it was the town that was dragging me down. I do not feel I even love my husband like I ... (159 words)

I love him, but I miss myself and I want to be happy again, how can I find myself?

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3 July 2009, 3 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I've been dating C for 4 months, everything moved way too fast. He has a lot on his plate right now trying to get his 2 daughters back from CPS and he can't seem to let his baby's mama go, after 9 years. I saw all the warnings and walked into this mess anyways. before we ... (275 words)

What can I cook her that's fairly simple for our romantic night in together?

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3 July 2009, 3 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - So basically i am planning to have a romantic evening in with my girlfriend, in a couple weeks time. The plan is: Dinner, maybe a film and then whatever entails. However the problem is i'm not a very good cook. I'd rather not cook her a microwave meal, because thats no... (111 words)

Friends verses lovers...

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2 July 2009, 3 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy and we became extremely good friends especially since we had so many things in common. He was seeing a girl but it wasn't working out. The girl was jealous because we used to hang out a lot but we were just friends. Eventually we both realised that we had ... (375 words)

Friend is saying stuff behind my back, is this a good friend?

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2 July 2009, 3 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Okay I'm not gonna mention real names so the friend I'm disliking will be "A" and the friend I like will be friend "B" and I'm "M" Okay so I sent my boyfriend a "naughty" picture and I know it was wrong, and illegal, but I don't want to hear that and don't worry I stopped ... (574 words)

My friend is going to have a boob job and never told me about it...

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2 July 2009, 3 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - My best friend is going to get a boob job.. She didn't tell me about it and I feel a bit left out and betrayed..(its not like she has the worst body on earth and NEEDS it) and I also think she's incredibly stupid for doing it since she's only 18. I don't think I'm jealous ... (99 words)

If things don't go the way he wants it then he gets mad.

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2 July 2009, 3 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - I just need opinions! Heres what its about. Well i have a boyfriend and ive been going out with him for ten months now, but the big problem is that he treats me like his little B**ch. See he sais its all because his ex girlfriend cheated on him that he was so in love with her... (259 words)

I don't think he realises that these lies to his mother are starting to erode my trust in him...

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2 July 2009, 3 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 2 years. He is in his mid thirties. He is currently working extremely hard to save enough money so that we can move in together. However, there is one problem that I don't know how to approach. When my partner goes out for a few drinks with ... (403 words)

I want to help my alcholic friend but don't know how! Help!

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2 July 2009, 4 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - I have a friend who I believe is an alcoholic. She drinks when she gets up, she drinks every evening. She admits to she drinks too much. She told he she’s always had a problem, despite my best efforts I don’t know what to do, I’m not getting through. Her doctor is surprised ... (88 words)

I cant stop thinking about my ex-girl. Should I act on it?

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2 July 2009, 4 hours ago (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my girlfriend after 3 years of ups and downs. I really loved her, but I felt it was the best thing to do given how she was treating me at the time. Funny thing is, I can't stop thinking about her. I tried to date other girls in the meantime, but can't stop ... (187 words)

My ethnicity seems to keep me from finding a girlfriend...

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2 July 2009, 4 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - Well i'm chinese and i live in the uk. I'm a gentleman and a nice lad but i can't seem to find a girlfriend as most girls don't seem to be interested in me due to my ethnicity and not my personality. i'm pretty outgoing and get on well with a lot of people. ... (54 words)

Found out he's going on holiday without me!

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2 July 2009, 4 hours ago (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that my boyfriend may be going on holiday. He did not ak me or anything. Our relationship has been struggling. I called him pretending not to know and told him I was planning on going to the same place. He did not say anything. I called again a few days late... (150 words)

I'm loney and need to move on from my ex...Advice?

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2 July 2009, 4 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - Im lonely, I still talk to my ex even though I shouldn't and he told me hes going to America for 2 weeks on holiday with his girlfriend and even though its been a year and half since he dumped me it felt like a kick in the guts. I want to meet another guy but I just don't go ... (95 words)

He says he "can't" love or care about me because of his past. How do I stop caring about this man?

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2 July 2009, 4 hours ago (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for 9 months we have never been out on a date we just have sex, he tells all about his past relationships, I love him and don't want to love him because I don't believe he loves me because he has never said it neither does he shows it. He says it's ... (85 words)

How do I get over him when this is happening?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I need some help. I have no idea what to do, or what to think, or what to feel. I met this guy a couple of months ago in a parking lot at a car shop that I was at with my best friend. The moment we saw each other across the way, there was this inexplicable connection. People a... (1122 words)

He really likes me and is telling my friends he wants to ask me out but I like someone else... help!

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I have got myself into a really awkward position. Basically this guy I went out with last year likes me again and was trying to find our from my friends if I like him, so when my friends asked me I told them to tell him that I think I like him, but I don't want to be in a ... (142 words)

He's now dating BOTH of us! What do I do?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I started dating my boyfriend 2 years ago and he told me he has a girlfriend but based on the girl's attitude he wants to breakup the relationship but all those times they had a quarell and i thought it will soon be over but the girl kept calling and texting to come back. ... (142 words)

What are the best ways to act when you know your crush is watching you?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - What are the best ways to act when you know your crush is watching you? I know that sometimes my crush watches me when we are in lessons or when we're in the same corridor and it might sound a little creepy to some but it's fine with me.... I just dont know how to act... c... (70 words)

My family relationships are falling apart!

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ever since my boyfriend moved back to my home town. I've been rebelling with my family. My family doesn't approve, so ever since then my mom has been trying to keep me on a leash, so I rebel even more. She changed my curfew an hour less, and always acts as if I am a little ki... (162 words)

When do you think I got pregant? Having trouble figuring out the conception date.

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - okay, i just found out that i am pregnant. i went for a sonogram and the sonogram showed 6w6d and gave me a due date of feb 16 2010. and i figured that up and on or around the 12th is when i would have gotten pregnant. right? anyways i know that i had sex on the 26th of april ... (173 words)

He gives me false hope along with broken promises....

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I hate the way i feel. Basically i have been in a relationship on/off 4 3yr years. I was madly in love with this man so much. But all i ever wanted was more time and attention from him! Im confused bout how he felt 4 me. We were so intense. So attracted to each other i never ... (421 words)

Do you really think they like me or are they just being jerks?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - i've been through a lot this summer and its hard to be happy with all the dramma. pertty much i was dumped by my bf and almost everyong(literally) on facebook hate me. i dont kno y, but lots of ppl tend to call me a transexual? these guys from my school(who r my age/grade and r ... (260 words)

Am I getting an orgasm? I can't even tell with the vibrator.

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i love my boyfriend so much, everything is amazing. there is one thing though, i don't seem to be able to get an orgasm.. atall. i've never had an orgasm through sex EVER. i've had three sleeping partners, one who i was with for 11 months and the guy i am with now i have ... (154 words)

I want to lose about a stone. Any suggestions?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hey ! :D i am a really insecure person and i know i need to loose weight but i dont know how ? i want to loose about a stone? is that possible but the things is i want to loose it fast?? no rude comments please just your feedback ! thanks :D... (64 words)

Why do I want to throw up when I remember my ex?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have this problem..all my friends say i lost a lot of weight. I just got out of a relationship and I know that this is the reason. Its not that I don't have an appetite to eat. I do have!! The problem is when I start to eat, I remember my ex and I feel like vomiting. It's ... (308 words)

Can someone that cheats change their ways?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I'd like your advice/to hear from your experiences about whether someone who cheats can change their ways. My bf and I have been together 5 years, and I recently found out he's been texting random women explicit pics/messages (from an adult text dating ... (252 words)

Boyfriend that drinks too much!

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am crazy about my boyfriend but he drinks too much. have told him I dont want to be around him when he drinks because he is really unpleasant and he always argues with me. we had a row a few days ago because he was drunk now he ignoring me and saying Im being unfair and will ... (72 words)

Orgasm, sexuality, and urine pain: can anyone help answer these questions I have?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Recently i have this feeling where i need to go for a wee all the time but when i dont pass urine, but when i do it stings alot, so much!! what is it? im a woman, with a boyfriend of nearly 2 years who i am totally in love with, thing is, in sex, he doesnt make me orgasm u... (133 words)

Can someone talk me out of feeling like this?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - can someone talk me out of feeling like this? i don't really feel comfortable bringing this up to anyone i know, and i've never really felt this way, save for one other time about someone who had given up on themselves, but i wasn't as close to them as i am to this person. ... (1110 words)

Should I make appointments for relaxation for both of us?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I make appointments for a day of relaxation for both of us? Or is it too much too soon? Okay, so I've been in a relationship with this great guy (6 months dating). Anyways, we planned a weekend get-away..and I just thought 'Hey, why not book appointments for... (180 words)

Should I go out with my BF and risk the social awkwardness or say no?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend has just invited me out to a "works night out". He has just started working at the place. This is the first time i have been invited to one, normally he doesn't bother asking. I would love to go but i am a bit worried about a couple of things. First is that ... (270 words)

I like him but he just wants to be friends, how can I get him off of my mind?

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ok i'm 16. i've like this guy so almost a year now. we almost went out but then decided to just stay friends. i really really like him, but he's not interested in me. anyway i tryed to get over him, but i can't, its just to hard. i can't stop thinking about him. i've even cryed ... (154 words)

Please help, need some advice on how to cope during the tough times

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi all, I was wondering if anyone has had a similar situation and what tools they arrived at to cope, or likewise suggestions. Not exactly relationship- but i guess lack of family relationship question I come from one pretty messy family. Alocholic mum since birth who ha... (572 words)

Help me please - I haven't heard from him since yesterday! I'm so worried!

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2 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I am currently in a long distace relationship with a guy in florida.. We have never met, Anyway yesterday he was at the theme park .. and he sent me a message saying "hey i can't text much but i am going home very soon and i will call you" and i sent one back saying ... (171 words)