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She likes slaps and I like kisses. We have a baby girl but I don’t see how this will work!

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16 August 2018 (M age 26-29 - More than a year ago, I started dating a girl who I was exactly smitten by but wanted to see how things would progress. I was introduced to her via a friend so I really wanted to see where things would go. During the first few weeks, we got on somewhat well, but i wasn't too ... (1013 words

Five years online relationship ... maybe I should just give up!

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16 August 2018 (F age 41-50 - I never knew I would find my "Soulmate", "The Love of My Life", on one of these dating websites but I did. The connection we have together is so exciting and real. The bond we share is like no other. I've never felt felt this way about another person. We connect so well on ... (244 words

My husband lies and the trust is gone.

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16 August 2018 (F age 51-59 - I just recently found out that my husband has been in touch with an old girlfriend .. email.. and had sent her $200 for her birthday and $400 last Christmas .. and he refuses to put my name on his bank account... I saw all of this on his email .. I’m ready to divorce him ... (68 words

How long after hooking up do I wait before texting him?

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15 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - I went out with a guy I've known for a while but we started talking differently recently so last night we hooked up and one thing led to another. He said he would be busy this week with work and he suggested we maybe hook up on Sunday. So how long do I wait for a text before I ... (88 words

Why is my ex reaching out again?

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15 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and I dated in school only for a month when he suddenly broke it off. I was really hurt because I have deep feelings for him and we talked about our future a lot even though it was short lived. He ended up apologizing for his behavior about six months later. I ... (161 words

My body turned him off ... he preferred to watch porn.

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15 August 2018 (F age 36-40 - I split up with my boyfriend of 10 years a few months ago and he's really effected my self esteem. He said quite hurtful things about my body, I'm just looking for some opinions from guys about what kind of imperfections would really put you off. I have great legs and a... (288 words

How do I tell my date that I’m bisexual?

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15 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - I’m a bisexual woman and I need advice on coming out to a guy I’ve been dating for a couple of weeks. I’d like to know if any other bisexual people have advice on how to do it, and how straight people would feel if a date came out to them as bisexual. My previous (and on... (282 words

I'm already cheating on my new boyfriend with an old FWB. How do I stop?

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15 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone. I'm about to admit to something bad so please don't be too harsh with me here. I have recently got into a new relationship with a man my age. We have been together for just over a month and were dating for about a month before that. I will readily admit that I g... (254 words

I’m worried about how I’ll be able to handle things at my new job!

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15 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - I have a trial for a job at a café/restaurant next week and i'm unsure of whether to do it as ive been asked to hand out menu's to customers and I no this is just something im really bad at talking to people and how do I even say so to someone oh look here's the menu to this ... (197 words

Am I just in love with the idea of being loved?

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15 August 2018 (M age 26-29 - Has anyOdy else experience what I am experiencing now? Although She is an attractive woman I have never had any feelings for her in the past. By accident I found out that she finds me physically attractive. I never realised that fancied my type. Now I can't stop thinking ab... (88 words

How do I not get too attached to the new guy I'm seeing?

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15 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - How do I not get too attached to the new guy I'm seeing? We like all the same things to a spooky degree and we have a lot of chemistry. The only thing is his ex might be pregnant and she won't go to the drs because she is religious. Which I don't understand. So she's been ... (140 words

Any advice please I’m pregnant and I feel like he doesn’t care

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15 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend stemmed to be happy that I was pregnant until I pushed him away and deleted my Facebook and Instagram for a break. He hurt me I had enough I deleted social media so he doesn’t know how I am since we are long distance. He literally knew he messed up he cheated and I ... (309 words

I want to meet and talk not be his hook up

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14 August 2018 (F age 30-35 - I’ve known this guy for nearly two years, we originally met on a night out and we were instantly attracted to each other, however he soon got a girlfriend and we barely stayed in touch and only bumped into each other a few times, the problem is that whenever we did talk or see ... (173 words

My parents are so overprotective that its affecting my dating

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14 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hi there, I hope I don't get judged by what I'm about to say. I'm not sure how to feel about this but what I do currently feel is like a mixture of being a little angry and annoyed. I'll try to keep it short. So just before my boyfriend was due to fly off the States to contin... (665 words

Is it normal to have an orgasm this way?

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14 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hey Guys, I'm a virgin. I was wondering if it's normal to have an orgasm just by playing with my nipples... cuz i have a very quick orgasm within just 3 minutes of teasing the nips.I don't even have to stimulate the clit; the work get's done with the nips alone. Is that n... (60 words

We live far apart so why did he tell me not to share things hes told me with anyone?

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14 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - I've been talking to a guy online for a while now and we get on really well but he lives far away so we are just having fun. He said to me today - if at some point we have to stop talking please don't share some personal things he's shared with me. Since we live so far apart. ... (71 words

I could see myself having a FWB with this guy but don't know how to approach the whole thing

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13 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - So I got out of a long term relationship about 2/3 months ago now. I went through a lot of soul searching and i'm feeling better than ever. I'm not completely over my breakup but i've got to a point where I would never get back with my ex now and know that i'm in a much better ... (278 words

I can't seem to let this attached man go?

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13 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - I've been the other woman for a year and I now finally ready to leave but I can't seem to get that last bit of strength to send that break up text. Our affair is purely sexual and I want more. I don't find a relationship that is based on sex satisfying and fulfilling.I was... (217 words

How I am going to do with my the monthly expenses with all these medical debt?

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13 August 2018 (F age 36-40 - I had an emergency surgery done this year and unfortunately, the medical insurance covered only a small portion of it so I am in debt with medical bills. I did call all the parties and set up a payment plan so at least I am paying it little by little instead to go for ... (257 words

I’m ready to buy my first home but I’m not sure about buying it with my boyfriend!

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13 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - I'm 24 and I'm ready to buy my first home. I have been saving for years and years and finally have enough for a small deposit. I currently live at home with my mum and I've never lived elsewhere. Living at home and just paying rent and the food shop is what had made me ... (391 words

I’m pregnant and my boyfriend lies and goes out with other women, what do I do?

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13 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - A year ago I met my boyfriend, we got to know each other for two months he lives 3hours away. When we finally met up we had so much chemistry and smiles it’s still like that. We’ve been official for a year now and I just found out I’m pregnant. And he’s excited too but he lies ... (298 words

I’m sick to my stomach that he had a lap dance on a stag weekend!

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13 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend recently went on a stag do to Prague and whilst he was there he went to a strip club and the whole group paid for a lap dance off of 2 dancers. Before he left for Prague, I told him that it would really upset me if he got a lap dance and he assured me that he ... (133 words

Should I message this friend again?

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13 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - Im unsure of whether to send someone a message about how I feel , basically we aren't friends anymore , we were more like acquaintances but I did spend some time with him and tried to get to know him . He told me he liked me and wanted me to be his girlfriend however I didn't ... (384 words

He’s not reassuring me in the way I’d hoped! What should I do?

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13 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - Please bear with me, this is a long one. I met a guy six months or so ago and the chemistry and attraction was completely instant. I’ve never felt like this before ever. We currently have a long distance relationship where he lives 270 miles away so we see each other every two ... (1158 words

My not going to my sister’s hen do may we’ll end our already strained relationship!

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13 August 2018 (F age 30-35 - I need some advice about my sister's hen party. I live 4 hours drive from my sister and she has invited me for her hen weekend. I agreed to go several months back. The weekend involves overnight away, spa, drinks, meal out so is going to cost £200+. I've since found out ... (295 words

Toxic sibling or am I too sensitive?

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13 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - Everyone has always told me that I'm too sensitive and what my brother does is normal sibling behavior. I can be oversensitive, but I'm really weary when my brother comes to visit. Its almost like he has 2 personalities, a nice one and a mean one. A lot of times I don't know ... (157 words

Help I was too chatty!

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12 August 2018 (F age 36-40 - What the etiquette here? Did I do wrong? Help, I over shared and talked about something too much with a friend I hadn’t seen in a while and now I feel Bad What to do? I don’t normally do this.. Feel I was to chatty about a certain topic, I got caught up in my enthusia... (135 words

How to initiate conversations on social media with potential dates?

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12 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - Okay I'm new to this whole internet dating thing..... if I find a guy on social media who has similar interests and appears single, how do I go about initiating a conversation and how to I turn it to a conversation that asks if he is single and if he would like to meet up? ... (55 words

How do I get past this abusive false relationship and move on?

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12 August 2018 (F age 36-40 - I left an emotionally abusive relationship. I thought we were head over heels in love but it was just false. He lead me on and tried to use me financially and to help him with his kids. I fell for it for about 2 months. Tried to work things out but he just got so mean and I ... (193 words

My friend and I are drifting apart!

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12 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - I haven't seen or been in contact with my friend in over 4 months now , which may not seem a while to some but this is first time I haven't seen her in so long since meeting her about 4 years ago. normally it is just under 2 months when I don't see her. Obviously I like her as ... (348 words

How do I find a match? I have herpes!

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12 August 2018 (F age 30-35 - I'm wanting to start dating in the future and eventually attract a soulmate to share a life with. However,I have herpes (HSV-2); how do I keep myself emotionally safe? This will mean opening emotionally. ... (43 words

I’m looking for practical advice on managing interviews!

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12 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - I have been looking for a part time job for over a year now and now need one more then ever as I don't have a job anymore due to the café I worked at closing as a result of lease expiry and other issues . I had been quite happy working in a café and I am looking for some... (324 words

How do I change myself so I don’t get cheated on again?

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12 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - I dated a guy for 2 weeks.And I find him very weird and complicated.Sometimes I even suspect of him having any mental illness.I came from north Indian family.My family is looking groom for me.They arranged this guy to date and see how far things go.During first meeting he said ... (360 words

Could he be gay? Is he not attracted to me?

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12 August 2018 (F age 30-35 - I am now wondering whether my husband might be attracted to men and not women... My husband and I met online about a year and a half ago, we dated for about a year when he proposed. He was keen on getting married even just a month into dating, which I thought was too soon. I... (367 words

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