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I'm only 14 and he wants to have sex with me even although he has a girlfriend. Am I being played?

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28 November 2009, 4 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - I am fourteen years old and last year I had this "thing" with this guy. He has had a girlfriend for the past six months but now he wants to have sex with me. I really do want to have sex with him and have him be my first but I don't know because he has a girlfriend and I don't ... (90 words)

Why does he think this time will be any different?

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28 November 2009, 5 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - okay here the deal. my husband and i have been having problems for the last six months. just the other night we got into a heated argument to the point it almost got physical luckily he didnt actually hit me. I kicked him out the next evening saying i cant do it any more... (159 words)

The ex girlfriend that says she's a friend.

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28 November 2009, 5 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I don't even know where to begin but here i go i have a wonderful amazing boyfriend that i have been with for seven months now. He loves and tells me he loves me, we have a big age difference i am eighteen and he's thirty three yeah i know right. So the problem is the EX girlf... (202 words)

How can I stop this self-biting?

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28 November 2009, 5 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - I have a problem with self biting. Like I overly bite my lip and the inside of my cheek. I also contastly need to pull at the skin around my nails and my finger's are litterly raw from the fact that i pulled off all the skin. IDK what to do, idk why I even do it. I just need to ... (78 words)

My feelings for him are so strong, I want to be more than just friends with him!

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28 November 2009, 5 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago. (He cheated on me and lied about it. Needless to say - if I never saw him again, I wouldn't mind at all) Two or three weeks ago, while at the bar, I met another guy. He's a student at the school I go to - working ... (475 words)

My girlfriend desperately wants to get the feelings she used to have with me but can't and I will do anything to be with her.

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28 November 2009, 5 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - I recently moved in with my girlfriend. we have been dating off and on for 3 years. about six months ago she told me that she no longer had feelings for me in more than a friend way anymore. at that point i told her that i didnt want to see her anymore because it devastated ... (775 words)

Am I too demanding or am I stuck in a boring relationship?

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27 November 2009, 5 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years. Like with most couples, the first months of it went by smoothly. But lately, I'm starting to feel a bored with my relationship. I go to school full-time so I don't get to see him during the week, and I make every effort ... (423 words)

Should I pursue my friend's ex boyfriend?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok here's what went down. I like this boy. But he dated a friend of mine. He only went out with her because he wanted to see if there's was chemistry...and there wasn't. So he dumped her. Now I want to ask him out, but my friend still likes him, and they only went out for a few ... (131 words)

How do I confront an acquaintance about an untrue rumor she may have spread about me?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need to confront an acquaintance who I know very well about a rumor she told a close friend of mine. Basically, she told him I slept with someone I have not, at a time when I was in a long term relationship (I do not cheat on my partners). I doubt she made it up herself, b... (135 words)

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - What are some good sex positions for a small penis?... (10 words)

Are there any women out there who want a man for who he is instead of what he is?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Why can't a woman want a guy for who he is and not for what he is ? It seems women are more interested in status vs self existance. Notice the first or second question is what does he do for a living? Or is he cute ?..lol..I am so sorry but these things are so shallow to me and ... (95 words)

How can I get some 'me' time in this smothering relationship?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Okay, so my girlfriend is very needy and possessive. We've been dating for 6 months now, and we're both 15. Over the last few months, it's been getting worse and worse. She LITERALLY expects me to hang out with her every second of my spare time, right after school, until she ... (210 words)

My husband is a devoted teacher, maybe too devoted to his....work?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't believe it's come to this-posting an anonymous question on an advice forum. I hope someone can help! It started a while ago, four years ago. My husband is a teacher, a very dedicated devoted teacher who is respected and high up in his school. It seemed perfectly... (555 words)

My teacher told me he loves me too much to have a relationship with me.

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi. My teacher told me that he loves me too much to do anything about it. I'm 14 and he is 30. He has taught me for the past 2 years. It started just basic flirting really, he stares and smiles at me, touches my shoulders, hands etc. He asks my friends where I am when I'm of... (512 words)

My ex and I are talking again. Should I tell him I still love him or just leave it as friends?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Alrighty. So my and my boy friend broke up and I really still love him, I've tried to get over him, not talking to him and what not, but it just won't work. Me and him are talking now and I don't know if I should tell him how I still feel or not any advice? ... (56 words)

His "joke" was NOT funny!

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27 November 2009, 4 hours ago (F) age 41-50 - My husband jokingly said, "I love this woman... Jennifer", she is always so satisfied with my work... I totally lost it. I felt it was an insult. And he said, oh no it was just a joke, I was just making a funny joke.. Do you think is this really funny? I found it totally ... (120 words)

My friends thinks he fancies me but sometimes he avoids me. What's going on?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello, I have this problem, basically I really like this lad. And he knows that a used to like him blah blah blah. Anyways my friends really think he is interested this time, we keep catching eye contact. We act like friends but sometimes he completely ignores me, its unreal! ... (97 words)

He's in a gang, but a sweet guy. Is he using me for sex?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I met *John during the summer in the middle of July through the internet. We have already met in person and after about 2 and a half months of knowing each other, we began dating, which lasted for about 2 weeks. The reason we broke up is because John is 17, which makes hi... (414 words)

My ex seems to be copying me and nw she won't talk to me? What is wrong with her?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - my ex is not talking to me and is ignoring me. we went out for 6 months and broke up 8 months ago and we were really good friends and we talked alot. she lives down south now so we text each other and talked on msn. but last month i found myself a girlfriend and my ex found ou... (410 words)

Porn and masturbation addiction... Desperately need help.

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I desperately need help. I would say I am addicted to watching porn and masturbating. I am a relationship for 2 years and we do have sex, sometimes amazing and sometimes dull. She makes love the way I want but not always and not everything that I like. I am desperate for oral ... (180 words)

Need help! Love/attention addiction.

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is anyone familiar with "love addiction"? Like the need for attention/love/affection? As if it's a drug. Dr Drew (the celebrity therapist) was talking about it as a form of sex addiction. But just because you crave love doesn't mean you crave sex. I think I'm suffering fr... (101 words)

Why does he bother talking to me if he has nothing to say?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm a freshman in college and I've been talking to this guy in one of my classes. Just last week he told me that he liked me and that he's wanted to get to know me since the day he first saw me. Well we had this week off for Thanksgiving so I haven't see him. He'll message me... (164 words)

Will I ever learn to live alone?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 18 years old, never been kissed, not pretty, very chubby and I'm asking: Will I ever learn to live alone? Because of my appearance probably no one will ever want something more than be friend with me.... (40 words)

My friends have spread it around that I like him. Help!

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hi aunts i really need help, ok so ive liked this guy for nearly a year now and i thought it was just a secret between me and my friends an not even all of them know because out of all 15 of my best friends only 7 know who i like but i think someone might of spread it round ... (115 words)

Betrayed by a friend I fancied

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all I fancied a friend of mine who I had been helping out. I am a gay man and so is he. What happened is I kept hugging him when he was upset and we rubbed each others shoulders, I ended up rubbing his face and he didn't like it. He told me he didn't fancy me and told m... (241 words)

Help!!! What do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex"?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Basically, what do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex". I have a history with this guy. She doesnt know I had anything going on so I cant tell her no or anything. Ive only started getting over this guy. I dont know if hes doing this to annoy me, both way its ... (125 words)

How do I know I'm not just a rebound?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started dating a man who lives 6-7 hours away from me. We met over the summer in my city when we were both in the same month-long professional development program. He is funny and flirty, but he's like that with everyone. I developed a crush on him but he didn't do ... (546 words)

She is the love of my life and the air that I breathe... how can I get her back permanently?

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been dating this woman on and on for the past 12 years. She is also the mother of our 3 Children. Back in 06, She cheated on my with the guy across the street from our house while I was at work. I found out about it a couple of months afterwards. She told me the reason ... (206 words)

Revenge is sweet...

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I need help, can you pleaseeee tell me a way to get back at a guy you really like but recently you found out he is making fun of you behind your back? please don't tell me ignore him because I can't. Please help ... (45 words)

My facial expressions give me away all the time, so much so that people can even tell what I'm thinking, how can I rectify this?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To some this might seem very silly. I am feeling really sad about it. I have such an expressive face and eyes. Everyone (all and sundry) end up knowing what I am really thinking. I was hoping someone could help me to correct this problem. It's creating havoc in my life. ... (64 words)

The distance isn't working out and he wants to break up with me but I just can't do it!

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. we've been at it for almost one full year and i am COMPLETELY attached to him but recently the distance just hasn't been working out. We fight a lot and he's officially tired and bored of me. He wants to break up but I ... (186 words)

He loves her, he likes me. Should I move on?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I think I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. I won't go into details, but I feel really strongly about him, but he loves this other girl, who has a boyfriend. He's admitted he likes me too. Every single one of our friends say it, even when he's there, so I know it's ... (141 words)

Will a married man ever leave his wife if he doesn't have any children?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Back in June I met a man at a convention while on a business trip, although it was just friendly. We exchanged email addresses to be in contact about work-related questions. At the time I was engaged to be married (I have been with him for 3 years) and the other guy has ... (739 words)

Help me... I want the life back that I just lost...

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in hell. 2 months ago in one fell swoop i lost my partner of 2 and a half years, my job, my home (we ran and lived in a pub together), and my dog. I was left penniless, with 2 children (not his), nothing to focus on and living at my parents house in London. I am 31, I was ... (225 words)

I miss her so badly, but should I forgive her?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, I need help. A week ago me and my girlfriend (im 16 shes 15 and we're both female) broke up, as she had sex with another guy at a party whilst very drunk. We'd been togther on and off for about a year. What I dont get is that a week before the party, she made promises that ... (239 words)

I feel he is too old for me... should I end it with him?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 20 years. He didn't treat me right. All I enjoyed was what my husband could provide for me (everything.) I just focussed on bringing up my only daughter. At forty something I finally gathered my courage and ended my misery and divorced him. I have g... (147 words)

How can I manage to feel more comfortable around him?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi there, I had a drunken one night stand with a guy from uni 3 weeks ago, who I had only known for 3 weeks beforehand. He is fairly shy and its quite uncomfortable between us. He asked my friend whether I had a bf, what my interests are so I think he likes me. I like him too. ... (101 words)

First Christmas together, What do you get a boyfriend when your 5 months pregnant and lingerie doesn't fit the best?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My Boyfriend and I have been together for about 11 months now, we are planning on getting married in the next 2 years. On top of that I am 5 months pregnant with our first child. This Christmas will be our first together, and I have no idea what to get him. Since I am pregnant ... (142 words)

Totally confused with two girls... eughhh!!!!

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for two years now. My girlfriend have been through several ups and downs. Not to sound cocky but I have a thing for pleasing girls who have been hurt in a relationship. For a true example at school there is this very pretty girl that has... (597 words)

I faced my fear and gave him oral but I couldn't handle it if he came anywhere near my face...

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok this might seem like a weird question but here goes - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have a 3 month old daughter together. I had never ever given oral sex before i had met him to anybody (fear). I faced this fear recently and decided to give it a shot. ... (154 words)

Do men like to kiss as much as women?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do men like to kiss as much as women? For me, I think kissing somone passionately is a true sign of showing somebody your feelings - but currently my guy only kisses me as and when. So does this mean he doesn't enjoy kissing or do men just like to cut straight to the sex?... (56 words)

Forceful sex!

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - im 16 and ive been hooking up with a guy who's 26 for the last 5 months. it has been good, we just have sex, no dating. we have really good sex up until the last time which was a week ago. he really hurt me and left bruises all over me. he came inside me even tho he knows that ... (84 words)

How dare he try to dictate her life!

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27 November 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I met 4 months ago and are totally in love. Her husband left her for another woman 1 year ago and their divorce is in progress. Unusually, my gf is on very good terms with her in-laws (she's known them 26 years). The in-laws don't like he's split up a famil... (153 words)

He wanted me to take the job and now he doesn't trust me!

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, me and my boyfriend are together for 2 years and at first everything was perfect but after like 5 months he asked me to go and try to go dancing at the strip club, so I was thinking about that and went. I work there for 1 year and right now at this point our relationship is ... (91 words)

Hey!!! Is there still a chance I'm pregnant???

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi my boyfriend and I have been trying for a baby for a while now. We had sex during my ovulation period and my period was 10 days late naturally I thought I was pregnant. My question is once your period comes does it for certain mean you are not pregnant? It came today ten ... (146 words)

He still tells me he loves me even though he has a new gf!

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend of a year broke up 3 months ago due to him having feelings for another girl.he is now seeing her but still texts me every day and tells me he loves me.why would he do this??... (40 words)

To stalk the girls at his school, or to be miserable?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - so... here's my story. i like this guy. i'v known him since i was 6. we were best friends. and he lives more than 90 miles away. in 6th grade i went out with him a few times. and for the past two years i've been sad, depressed, and obsessed over him. he said he loved me [thi... (158 words)

Seem to be socially handicapped, is there something actually wrong with me?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have so much that I don't know how to start. I'm an aunt here on this site, but I prefer to be anonymous. In spite of the fact that I'm an agony aunt, I seemed to be cursed with the inability to click with people or make friends. I'm so afraid that there's something... (978 words)

Long distance relationship, I'm not sure if it's working! what should I do?

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27 November 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years now and it only worked out 'cause ever since we started dating, i've been doing every thing he wants. For example, in the first year that we were together, he was insecure and didn't trust me (even though i never ... (281 words)

Why are bigger breasts better?

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27 November 2009 (F) age 18-21 - I know this has been asked a million times, but why are big breasts better? Honestly give me the reasons of why they're superior to small breasts when it comes to SEXUAL PLEASURE. Nothing to do with not having back aches, or that big breasts produce more milk or indicate more ... (204 words)