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Why do men string me along?

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14 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - Hello. I am a 43 year old woman who asked for advice with her I’ll health and dead end personal life last hear and I got good advice. This year, I worked in a better job and started dating people in may. I do meet men but they are usually younger and only want me for sex.... (228 words

Boyfriend refuses to use his sex toys with me

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14 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi I'm having a sexual problem with my boyfriend any advice you could give would be helpful thanks.. My boyfriend never tells me what he likes in bed he always says he likes what we are doing.. The thing is I know he likes porn actually I think it may be borderline addicted... (462 words

Etiquette on footing the bill

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14 December 2018 (M age 36-40 - Hi..My question is unrelated to a relationship but who is supposed to pay, and how often, when at a bar. For example, there's this foreign friend of mine working in my city, who I meet with quite often for a drink or so. Unlike him, I'm not into strong drinks, which means that ... (126 words

Is this co-worker friendly or testing out to be more flirty?

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14 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - At work there is a guy about my age who recently when around me or talking to me seems to want to touch my arm (shoulder area). He is a lovely guy to chat too but it dawned on me that no-one else seems to do it/not seen him do it to others). The other week I received some ba... (234 words

Is it normal to be so attached to someone that I never met?

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14 December 2018 (F age 18-21 - I met him on a dating app, and we got along extremely well. We chat for over a month, called many many times, but never did met up. The reason behind the parting was that we are not suitable. He is shorter than me by around 7cm, he has yet to get over someone else. Also, im an ... (200 words

What is my sis in law suggesting here? That I'm a loser??

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13 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - Was this fb post directed at me? and my “ettiquette” in talking with my sis in law and 11 yr old neice when I see them over new year? They live 2 hours from me in a small town. Im driving to see them in early Jan, sometime when its ok for them. Ive Not seen my neic... (317 words

I'm crushing on my team leader.

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13 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - I am very frustrated because there is someone that I'm potentially interested in at work that I think is also very interested in me but that nothing is happening for -- So I started work at this new place about five months ago now, and slowly I started noticing someone... (715 words

This guy has a girlfriend, should I forget about him?

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13 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I know a guy for almost three months now, who I thought I was getting along with well and gave him my number because we work together. He's the only person I talk to, really. I told him I was finishing school, he mentioned he's finishing studies as well, and he oft... (145 words

I wonder if forgiveness is the key to moving forward

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12 December 2018 (F age 36-40 - I, like many grew up with a toxic family. My parents where not there and pretty much abandoned me. I have struggled alot of my life due to this but also the last few years I have done alot of work and had therapy on this. This has made things easier and better for me , although ... (293 words

I'm not happy with my girlfriend and my crush is now single.

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12 December 2018 (M age 18-21 - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for past year and half. Because of her excessive mood swings, things have become difficult for me. I tried talking to her about this but she says this is how she is. We love each other and try to understand each other most of the ... (128 words

I'm planning on getting married but afraid of divorce

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12 December 2018 (F age 26-29 - I am engaged and planning the wedding next year. But off late I have been having recurring fears about divorce. I am worried about my husband (to be) falling out of love with me when we grow older. Not because i will stop loving himbut because I am no longer attractive or ... (87 words

I'm pregnant and my friend isn't supportive

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12 December 2018 (F age 18-21 - I am pregnant and so excited about it but my best friend isn't really happy for me and keeps saying all the wrong things time after time. I've told her I don't need her input but she just won't shut up. The worst thing is she thinks she is my only best friend but I have other... (106 words

I've grown to care for a sex worker that I see and feel I want to be more than her friend

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12 December 2018 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing a prostitute for some time now. When I started seeing her, I was in a very bad place emotionally (borderline depression, work pressure, family issues). We didn't have sex on the first few "dates". We mainly talked and cuddled, as it was what I mo... (632 words

I'm being used by a totally useless boyfriend and I feel trapped

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12 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - When me and my guy first got together about 8 months ago, he had his own vehicle, his own place to live with a roommate, a good paying job, and was easy to get along with. After about 5 months i agreed to let him move in with me but things went downhill fast as can be. He ... (537 words

Should I tell my friend that I am dating his ex wife?

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12 December 2018 (M age 51-59 - I'm dating a freiends ex wife. He's a good friend but don't see him much, 1 time in the last two years. He remarried and his ex wife was also remarried and divorced for 5 year. Is it important that I still tell him?... (44 words

No sex in almost a year, he's watching porn but says nothing is wrong with our relationship

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi I’m 32 and in a relationship for 5 years the first 4 years were good then our sex life became non existent I asked my partner what was going on if he was depressed or stressed about anything he said no then one day I heard him watching porn while he was supposed to be having ... (186 words

My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is obsessed with sex! He constantly tells about sex, tries it on.even when I have been ill. I had a colopscopy procedure a few months ago and it was meant to be 6 weeks recovery time..after a few days he told me I should be having sex with him as his ex had this... (227 words

Around how long were you and your significant other together before saying "I love you"?

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11 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - I'm just curious for other people's experiences, although I know every one is different. Around how long were you and your significant other together before saying "I love you" ? My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 8 months and are even moving into an apartmen... (265 words

Should I just leave it at that?

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - A guy i had got to know had occasionally winked and started bantering by text with me. We started having really good chats together bantering and flirting and then at a recent party we were both texting each other and he was saying I bet you really do flirt (He was quite ... (174 words

How can I approach faith and dating ?

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - I realize my question is towards faith and love but I wanted to come here since I got fantastic advice during my abusive relationships. I have been in what I would say emotionally neglectful combative home - my youth was always comparative to what she and he is doing is what ... (326 words

Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us?

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11 December 2018 (M age 22-25 - So a while back I met a woman through my sister-in-law. We've been talking on the phone a lot, and met up for lunch a couple times since we work near each other. It's obvious there's a chemistry between us. I'd like to ask her out. She has a seven-year-old son. I don't know if ... (102 words

How do I deal with my pregnant friend without upsetting her?

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - My friend recently got pregnant. Now everything i do results in fight. I try to look after her but she tells me i am being irritative. I try to make her mood happy by sending nice texts so she says she is bored of them. Yesterday she said somethings which made me feel bad but i ... (179 words

What can I get for my ex for a wedding present?

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11 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - Dear agony aunts, I’d like to get wedding gift suggestions for my ex girlfriend’s marriage coming in a few days. We broke up earlier this year and we started talking 6 months later. I found out she was engaged to a guy and since then, our friendship has been platonic and ... (108 words

Am I being unrealistic. Is it too late to change my thinking?

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11 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - I really hope that men in particular won’t take this question. Personally because obviously it’s not aimed at anyone and I realise that there must be good men in the world but I want to ask if any women have experienced similar to me and how they have dealt with it . I have ... (285 words

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