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He broke up with me and now I'm pregnant

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17 April 2019, 14 hours ago (F age 22-25 - Hello all! I’m in a tough situation.. So last week my boyfriend broke up with me because of pressure from his family. Here’s the gist of it: We started dating a year and half ago. I’m bi-racial, half black and half Hispanic. He’s Indian. When we started dating, I asked ... (631 words

We broke up and now I regret it

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17 April 2019, 14 hours ago (F age 16-17 - So I had been dating this boy for three weeks, and we were in a happy relationship together. He's currently in his last year of school so has to prepare for his exams, so he couldn't talk to me all the time but we agreed that he would keep me posted whenever he had time and he ... (808 words

Is it normal for pregnant women to drift away from friends?

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17 April 2019, 14 hours ago (F age 30-35 - Is it normal for pregnant women to drift apart from friends? My best friend is 6 months along now but she has been ignoring me since Dec. Never answers my texts/calls. Strange thing is one random day she blocks me on fb but keeps me on whatsapp and instagram. Ay work i catch ... (104 words

Does my post break up regret suggest we should stay together?

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17 April 2019, 14 hours ago (F age 26-29 - Hi guys, I feel at a dilemma here. I have been in a relationship with my current BF for 5 months now. I am 26, he is 26. I have asked questions about this relationship on here in the past, basically not wanting to deal with his issues. Most advice returned was to end the ... (392 words

Supplemental: My ex is now posting horrible things about me

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17 April 2019, 14 hours ago (M age 18-21 - Hi everyone, I did post my question earlier this week and i did get good feedback so thank you to those who did help, but I do feel as if I left out a lot of information and it is quite a confusing situation I find myself in so I’d like to give this another attempt. To give you... (1053 words

Should I tell my former professor how I feel about him?

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17 April 2019, 14 hours ago (F age 22-25 - its been about 6 six years now since I left college and I got along really well with my maths teacher and I started to develop strong passionate feelings towards him , I was aware it was not appropriate so I have never told anyone or him . just recently I saw him shopping and... (142 words

My Algerian fiance wants $5000 for a student visa?

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17 April 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hello Thanks in advance for your help. My fiancée and myself live in different countries. I’m Canadian , he is from Algeria. We have been together over 2 years. I have went to see him 6 times in the two years. He has applied for his visiting visa twice and both tim... (155 words

One night stand why didn't he call back

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16 April 2019 (F age 41-50 - To make a long story short, I had sex with a guy from my office last week and he bailed right after. I noticed he had been staring at me over the last several weeks, but we were never introduced. At a late office party at a hotel last week (where I had a room); he was there; we ... (547 words

Why does my wife go cold on me when we’re on holiday?

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16 April 2019 (M age 30-35 - I've just got home from a 2-week cruise around the Caribbean with my parents, my wife and my two kids. It was the holiday of a lifetime and we all had an amazing time. The only downside was that my wife seemed to just ignore me the whole holiday. I might as well have not ... (698 words

She is the one who left me so why is she lashing out and treating me like crap?

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16 April 2019 (M age 18-21 - I was with this girl for 2 years, and when we were together she told me that she loved me and wanted a life with me. about a month ago she turned around one day and told me she has been unhappy with me for months and broke things off. since then she has been posting horrible ... (90 words

I’m afraid his drinking will kill him—am I overreacting by giving him this ultimatum?

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15 April 2019 (F age - Hi, My husband and I have been married for 10 years. He is an excessive drinker and over the years I have done everything to help him. He was recently diagnosed with heart failure and i blame myself for not doing more to stop him.When he was in hospital he told the doctors... (167 words

Can't understand why my lesbian g/f would be taking birth control for the sole purpose of not getting pregnant

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15 April 2019 (F age 26-29 - I'm struggling how and if to bring this up with my partner as I want to be sensitive and not offend her, I'm not sure if I'm getting red flags or being paranoid. My girlfriend and me are in a long distance relationship. She is having some birth control supply issues it's real... (214 words

What do I wear for my first time at a swingers’ party?

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15 April 2019 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone So on my bucket list for the last 10 years has been to attend a private adult party. I have been recommended one and I have been checking it out quite thoroughly and it all seems legit and safe etc. My question is - as a single female, going alone, w... (260 words

Does anyone have a short sharp way of dealing with work place bullies?

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15 April 2019 (F age 41-50 - Does anyone have a short sharp way of dealing with work place bullies? I have approached my employer and he says he does not see it. I am ridiculed about my age my appearance, my unmarried status and shockingly having children out of marriage and told by women colleagues I do ... (166 words

Do I go meet my grandmother knowing my mother may get upset?

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15 April 2019 (F age 22-25 - I have never met my mum's mum and she recently sent me a message saying to come to see her in her home city , I'm not sure if I should , as my mum hasn't seen her in over twenty years and I don't even know her and if my mum finds out I feel as thought she will be hurt and ... (119 words

I was told my friend doesn't wish to speak to me anymore. Do I ask her about this?

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14 April 2019 (F age 22-25 - someone who is really horrible and by far the most nasty and manipulative person I have ever met due to multiple reasons inboxed me and told me my friend does not want to speak to me again . I'm not sure if he said this to be hurtful or if he is telling the truth or lying as by ... (370 words

I have read some horrible things about a singer I loved. Should I stop listening to his music?

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14 April 2019 (F age 22-25 - I have really enjoyed listening to this person's music ever since I was around 10 , I danced to all his songs and sung them on karaoke at weddings and bought his albums . I have a full bookshelf full of all his greatest hits . He is not alive anymore , and I cried so much when ... (203 words

Adult son's fiance is too old for him

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14 April 2019 (M age 26-29 - My wife and I have been aware of our son’s dating preferences since he left home for college. He prefers older women. We believed it was a phase and did our best not to get bent out of shape. We have met several of his older girlfriends over the years. Most these women were 15 ... (692 words

Is my mother trying to create drama in my life for her amusement?

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14 April 2019 (F age 18-21 - I've come to realise my mother may perhaps be creating drama in my life to fuel her amusement, however, I could be wrong. I'm 22 years old and my mother is my go-to person for advice for everything. Many incidents have occurred where I feel she is stirring up the pot of drama ... (236 words

I don't know whether to ask my father for financial help or go overseas for further studies

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14 April 2019 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupids, I have a life dilemma. I am 31 and still living with my parents. I am an intuitive person and I understand its time for me to move on to my own apartment. Unfortunately though the salary i make per month cannot sustain me into moving out on my own. I could how... (245 words

There is something wrong with me, as soon as we have sex I dump them!

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14 April 2019 (F age 18-21 - I daydream about sex most if the time.I read about it, and I watch it. I also find dates, the person usually starts to like me and we hit it off, then we have sex, and then I immediatley cut them off, even if i've enjoyed it I just need to find someone else and I need sex. So i ... (118 words

I think I am being manipulated into being Plan B

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14 April 2019 (F age 51-59 - My ex who dated me for almost 5 years suddenly blocked me on whatsapp and 3 weeks later sent me a break up letter. I did not react but I cried and still cry. I went online 2 days ago and saw that his ex wife has new pictures in his new house which he bought 2 years ago, and s... (311 words

I suspect my ex set up my (now also an ex), boyfriend to cheat on me.

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13 April 2019 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. I go to his house every weekend for Friday and Saturday night, and he comes to my house usually to stay the night on Wednesdays. He's been a complete sweetheart to me and we had good plans for the summer togther. But then i ... (297 words

Could this teenage boy be having a CRUSH on me?

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13 April 2019 (F age 41-50 - Do teenage lads get crushes on middle aged female authority figures? This is a bizarre situation and you can rest assured nothing will be acted upon - but as a female tutor in her late 40s I work with young men of teenage years aged about 16 or 17. Most are quiet and shy ... (206 words

LDR wont introduce me to his teenager son which means we cant spend some weekends together

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13 April 2019 (F age - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months He is 68yrs old has 15 yr old alternate wknds I am 62 one son 28 lives away he wont introduce me to his son so we can spend wknds together Am I being unreasonable? I work f/t m-f ... (53 words

Will he take me back even though I have acted like a nutter?

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13 April 2019 (F age 22-25 - I posted once before - see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everything-was-perfect-until-he-lost-his-nan.html Since then it’s all been pretty messy.. I went a little psycho for a while, kept trying to contact him etc to which he completely ignored me. Our friends got invo... (488 words

I get dates but then I think there might be somebody better so I ghost them

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13 April 2019 (M age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I am looking for some help and would be grateful for your opinions. I'm single and looking for a woman, and I've had 13 dates so far this year. I'm not a fussy guy and I liked 9 of them. With 7 of these 9, I have had second or third dates and then I go silent... (218 words

I have neve wanted children, husband is being pressured to adopt his orphaned nephew

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13 April 2019 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I are both 29 and child free by choice. His sister and her husband, both 40, passed away in a car accident two months ago. They left behind a 9 year old who is currently living with my husband's parents. Long story short, his parents and other sister have been... (440 words

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