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I’m starting to worry about her relationship with a lesbian friend!

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24 June 2018 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend is friends with a lesbian. I'm starting to get worried. Am I overreacting? They've become really close. They've been spending a lot of time together. Sometimes, she goes for a girls night out with her friends including her lesbian friend. And, she's the one wh... (115 words

My ex wants to say goodbye!

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24 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - My ex of 1 year got a job opportunity in France a few months back and we decided to end it due to the distance. She wants to see me before she leaves but I don’t know if that is a good idea as I’m trying to move on and it may spark old feelings for us. I still really care ... (83 words

I stole from my brother, how do I repair our relationship?

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24 June 2018 (M age 30-35 - My youger brother, Justin, is 23 months youger than me. I am 35 years old and he is 33 years old. He have always been a good person (doing charity work, volunteering his time to different charities, est.). When I was in my late teens and early 20s, I was a jackass. I stole... (140 words

How do I make my girlfriend feel special and loved?

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24 June 2018 (M age 26-29 - Hi guys, Thanks in advance for taking the time to read my post. Basically, my GF of almost one year has told me that she feels more like my best friend than girlfriend. I really need help in fixing things as I care about her a great deal and would be gutted to lose her ... (257 words

How do I ask for a sex toy?

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24 June 2018 (F age 16-17 - I want a sex toy because, I'm a 17 year old girl now. I know after I ask I'm going to say, think of it this way, I'm still a virgin. Most people my age aren't anymore. But the problem is, I have to ask my dad. Not a mom. How do I do this? I'm daddy's baby girl. He can barley ... (82 words

Anything that bothers me he says its a cultural thing.

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23 June 2018 (F age 41-50 - Hello I'm married and my husband has all his exes on social media and still speaks to them. I have told him I feel its inappropriate to talk to your exes when their part of his past. He is also addicted to his cell phone. He has many Male friends and they talk alot during... (138 words

What if I fail ......

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23 June 2018 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I am in the middle of some crazy studying because very soon I’ll be taking a competitive examination (if I pass I will have to take another three competitive examinations in the course of the next year) to upgrade my career and get a new job I would love to ... (212 words

How to tell my family that I may never get married..

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23 June 2018 (M age 36-40 - Hi. I'm a 36-year-old guy living in a traditional society. Physically speaking, my interest in women is almost nonexistent, as have been scarce my sexual experiences with them. Until two or three years ago, I used to go on many dates with girls, in the hope that it could wo... (116 words

I love him but feel neglected.

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23 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi Aunts and Advisors :) Ive been dating, "Evan" going on 1 year. We worked together at a bar that I left soon after but we continued to date. He still works this hectic hospitality schedule. I have a day job. neither opus are "rich" people but we get by. His work certainl... (207 words

Is my sister crossing a relationship boundary line? I

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22 June 2018 (F age 30-35 - First i want to start by saying that setting boundaries in relationships has always been confusing for me. Some background info on my gradual Relationship with my sister.. She's always gotten mad at her boyfriends for being friendly with me. Me and her get along pretty w... (198 words

I ask women I sleep with about their opinion on abortion because I don't want kids. How do I know the girl I'm seeing is on the same page?

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22 June 2018 (M age 30-35 - So I met a wonderful girl online and we hit it off really well. We kissed on the first date, had lunch on the second, and ended up sleeping with each other on the third when she invited me over to her apartment for pizza and a movie. We used condoms. I've gone out with her once ... (307 words

I want to let the past go and move forward from this dead relationship, thinking about it has been holding me back!

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22 June 2018 (F age 18-21 - I'm in a bit of slump, again. Been with this guy for awhile now. He told me upfront that he was depressed from the start but i went straight to it without knowing what i've gotten myself into. I was 17 back then. He gave me a sweet memory at the beginning, but then it turn... (510 words

I suffer from OCD and crippling jealousy and my husband's occasional comments about other women's looks drive me over the edge

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22 June 2018 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I hope you guys can give me some wise advice, because i can't deal with and handle my OCD and my jealousy. I do suffer from OCD and now my OCD appears to have crossed into the realm of the physical too, whereby i get obsessed by a particular thought, (in today's ... (659 words

My bf drunk texted his ex FWB and now I feel like I have a right to go through his phone

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21 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of a year and 8 months drunkenly text a girl whom he used to see sexually before we started dating. I feel like I have a right to go through his phone now but at the same time I don’t. He feels terribly about the situation and has since deleted her number from his ... (80 words

He blocked me on Instagram then lied about why!

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21 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - He blocked me on Instagram and lied to me about it saying his app had a problem. Yes I believed it. I have another account on Instagram for makeup and fashion posts. He commented on another girl’s picture saying “Dayyyuuumm”. He has all his exes and women he’s slept with on ... (111 words

Was I wrong not to thank the ex who agreed we would go “no contact” for the flowers?

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21 June 2018 (F age 22-25 - So, my ex fiancé sent me flowers Monday, about a year ago he left me for his ex that he was stuck on. I knew something was wrong but he never admitted it. When she rejected him when he went back home he tired to get back with me. I flat out ignored him he then started to ... (226 words

I feel resentful toward my girlfriend. Should I keep trying to make it work?

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21 June 2018 (F age 30-35 - I met my girlfriend online 7 months ago and we have been living together for the past 4 months. We use to talk on the phone everyday for the first 3 months. She came here from a different country to visit me and hasn't been back to her country since. We have been on rocky ... (103 words

Newly back on the dating scene, can I booty call a guy or is that creepy?

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21 June 2018 (F - Hi Cupid, I have a weird question. So, I am newly back on the dating scene after almost 13 years. I am 31. So, I’ve been going on some dates, and a few weeks ago I had two with a lovely guy. We had a great time, connected well and had great chemistry. However, he was just ... (324 words

What do I do to get my brother to forgive me?

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21 June 2018 (F age 22-25 - I really made a huge and stipid mistake and now feeling guilty,hurt and embarrassed.I could not accept my past and move on.I have a brother and I'm really close with him.He has a close friend(jack) and he tells about him causually.I had seen him but never talk before.I started ... (635 words

Is a B-cup too small?

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21 June 2018 (F age 18-21 - Is B-cup too small? Everyone in my family has A-cup boobs, but I am a B-cup. I am not growing anymore, and all my friends and family make fun of me and call me flat. It hurts me a lot. So, on legitimate average? When is a boob size too small, or too big? ... (54 words

I’m worried about having sex due to the shape of my penis!

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20 June 2018 (M age 18-21 - Hi. I'm 19 years old. A boy who has never had sex due to the shape of my penis. I have a down curved banana penis. I'm scared to try it out. What should I do?... (36 words

I miss my abusive ex who cheated on me

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20 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - Now that I broke up with my verbally abusive ex ( it’s has been a few days)who also cheated on me, I miss him. All I can think about is the good times. I’m trying so hard not to contact him. It seems impossible. What do I do?... (48 words

I am simultaneously unsatisfied and satisfied with my life, I need direction!

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20 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - I am simultaneously unsatisfied/satisfied with my life. I have a bf whom I love, who does a lot for me and our 3 kids. But, sometimes he has a temper. He gets verbally abusive, not in a nasty way, but in a snippy sort of critiquing way. I've taken to ignoring him but find my ... (267 words

I hate my boyfriend’s best friend and don’t want him at my wedding!

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20 June 2018 (F age 18-21 - I got engaged to my boyfriend and we are currently planning the wedding, making guest lists etc. My partner wishes to invite his best friend to the wedding. The thing is i can’t stand being in the same room as my fiancées best friend as he severely bullied me all the way ... (158 words

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