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My boyfriend pointed out a larger girl to me and said if I ever got that fat he would dump me!

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22 May 2013, 5 minutes ago (F)

age 26-29 - I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for just under 4 years. At the weekend we were on a night out and he pointed out a woman on the dancefloor who was probably a UK size 14/16 and he told me if I ever get as fat as that he will dump me! Now this girl was on the curvaceous ... (261 words)

Am I too needy or is she not really as into me as I am thinking?

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22 May 2013, 6 minutes ago (M)

age 41-50 - This might be long because I really need help and want anyone who can help to have as many "facts" as possible, but I'll be as brief as I can... I became friends with my girlfriend over a two year period that eventually blossomed into romance. After two years of friends... (1141 words)

Whenever we have problems my g/f goes running to her ex boyfriend!

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22 May 2013, 10 minutes ago (M)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I just spent the weekend on a wonderful mini vacation with my girlfriend. We are both 25 years old. We've been together for 3 years now and we have a great relationship which is very loving from both sides. We have had fights in the past and a breakup the la... (509 words)

He wants to get married and have children and I'm not sure yet. Do I stay and have kids or do I let him go?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been together with a guy for two years. We live together and for the most part, things are fine. We come from different cultures and are quite different as people, but we get on well in many respects. I'm happy enough with him but he doesn't exactly give me butterflies ... (312 words)

Why does he stay with this girl? How do I stop being upset about his relationship with her?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear cupid, I can't stop feeling so upset that my good friend continues to be with a girl who is always being unfaithful to him. I've known the guy for a long time, he's a good friend of the family and is really like a family member to me. When he first got with this gi... (283 words)

Text him again? Wait a few days, then text? Or just forget about him altogether and move on?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I sent a guy I've been meeting a text last Monday at almost 12am (end of monday). Monday was a day off here for most not sure if him since he always works night shifts and he doesn't always know when he works. Usually he's off Mondays and Tuesdays though. It's Wednesday... (272 words)

Should I go for it or not? Is he into me?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - Last October I got to know this guy on a night out (found out we had stuff in common, are on the same course, same uni etc) nothing happened that night but he emailed me on Facebook about timetables got talking and he gave me his number. We were texting practically ever... (409 words)

How do I warn my friend about my former FWB without reliving my story?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid I was in FWB for around 3 years on and off. He was my collegue at work and I was in love with him. Long story short he was very abusive towards the end and dumped me a month ago. We see each other at work, he carries on as if I don't exist and I am still trying to ... (175 words)

I'm in love with my best friend who is going through a divorce, is there any hope we could be together? Or should I just give up?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My heart is broken and I am wondering if I should just give up on love. I REALLY need help in this situation! I feel very broken about this. Please no mean answers... I'm hoping no one will judge me for this. I love my best friend. I love him dearly as a friend, but... (376 words)

Struggling to trust my girlfriend after she kissed another man....

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22 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - My situation is that my long term girlfriend of 9 years kissed another man at work. She came clean about it all and turns out that this dick has been pursuing her for about 6 years! She said she got curious and kissed him and that she immediately regretted it and told him ... (455 words)

Is there any way to convince her age is just a number? I'm 18 and she is in her forties but we have the most amazing connection....

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello everyone, Thank you in advance for reading this, and for your advice is any comes to mind :) I’ll try to keep this short and to the point. I’m 18, and gay (girl). I met the most amazing woman two weeks ago, at a concert. I assumed she was in her mid twenties. We ... (487 words)

Cant stop deaming about my son's father and the woman he cheated on me with....

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I am torturing myself over here. My ex of 2 years who I was crazy about, and I had a child together. Throughout the relationship he was abusive, and cheated, and I kept forgiving, and giving chances. After 2 years of the off and on and constant lies and My finding text messages ... (291 words)

He said my friend is a bit more beautiful than I am, is it ok for him to say this?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - I was with my boyfriend and we were talking,in the course of that i talked about my girlfriend and asked him if we look alike,he said yes that i and my girlfriend look alike but its just that she is a bit more beautiful than i am....is it okay that he said this?,does he really ... (64 words)

Boyfriend thinks I take advantage of his kindness

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - I love my boyfriend very much, and he loves me. He is 5 years older than me,he thinks of me as marriage material. Hes a great guy and booked a flight for us to get away for a long weekend.He has a good job and loves to take me out for dinner etc.im not working I'm a student.my ... (383 words)

How could a guy like him fall for a girl like her?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Thank you for taking the time to read my question. I have been dating the most wonderful man, Jeff, for about a year now, I have met his parents and he’s met mine, we’re planning to get married early next year. Everything’s perfect and I may be just looking for problems... (691 words)

Sex is dwindling and we are becoming more like friends, what can I do?

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22 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I always got advice that a healthy sex life was the second biggest factor to a normal relationship, without it the attraction between a male and a female in a loving loving relationship can't last, in a sense that they just aren't attracted to one another so what are they? Just ... (435 words)

My boyfriend has changed his mind about wanting children and now I feel like he resents me....

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - At the beginning of my relationship i made it clear i had no plans for children in my life, not because i dont like them but because i want to keep my freedom etc and not go through pregnancy in general. My boyfriend said he did not mind either way. However along the way it... (237 words)

My Wedding. Does any one have any solutions? I'm just terrified of everything and everything revolving around me

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22 May 2013 (F) age 22-25 - Hi! So I dont really know what to do for this, but I'm afraid of my wedding. I'm not afraid of commitment or anything and Im not afraid to go to other peoples weddings- just afraid of my own. I start looking at venues or dresses and just panic. I worry about how I will look,... (105 words)

Is there a lie I can make up to get myself out of this awkward situation or do I have to tell the truth?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - I recently meet a guy online and we've been on a few dates. I really like him and I see a future there and so does he. But I'm constantly sneaking behind my families back because I'm too ashamed to tell them I met someone online. I've met people online before but I usua... (127 words)

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not getting hard. So I haven't pushed i... (320 words)

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 13-15 - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always had arguments and i thought ... (241 words)

Distressing personal comments from my Gf :( I have told her that these comments, or jokes, are making me insecure. How do I respond when she says it's just a joke?

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22 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my lovely girlfriend for 2 year now. We recently began having sex, both our first times. I am just above average in penis length according to many quoted sites. However she has made a few comments that have seriously dented my confidence now on what... (191 words)

What do you think? Why does he choose to talk to me about girls he thinks are hot? It makes me uncomfortable.What to do?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend seems to be really comfortable talking about how some girls are hot. It makes me feel really uncomfortable and puts the thought in my head that he might go after another girl. Am I overreacting? Also yesterday, he mentioned one of his ex's and the first ti... (231 words)

How can I help my girlfriend be comfortable discussing serious matters with me?

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22 May 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - We've been together 3 years. I'm having a really hard time getting my girlfriend to be willing to communicate with me about serious matters. She's great to spend time with when we're doing well, but when something serious does come up, she tends to avoid me sometimes to th... (493 words)

We had a LDR. We broke up. How could he do this after he gave me his commitment?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I broke up with my bf last month because we were in a LDR and he drifted apart. He never contacted me after the breakup. Just few days ago he sent me a text asked if I called him from an unknown number. If so just call from my normal number so he knows to pick up. He doesn't ... (208 words)

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the main thing we're both looki... (329 words)

What should I do? But I have never felt so lonely in my entire life

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - In Janurary I moved interstate to try something new, and to live with my mum for awhile. I left a few extremely close friends, a boyfriend, and a part-time promotions/modelling job to come up here and give it a try. I've found a full-time job, which I enjoy, and I absolutel... (175 words)

Is there a good chance my friendship with this shy guy will go anywhere? Or should I move on?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Met this guy almost two years ago. We started off as co workers and then I left for another job. When we worked together I kind of got the vibe that he liked me. After we talked and got to know each other he suddenly got real quiet around me. He would be outgoing with everyone... (630 words)

Should I act on this. I can't get him out of my mind. It's been three years since we've seen or spoken to each other.

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - Greetings everyone, I am unsure as to whether or not I should get back in contact with an old high school teacher. I truly enjoyed his class and his passion for teaching emitted in the classroom. He was attractive, and well respected by his colleagues. I noticed that he was v... (653 words)

Should I come out so I can see him before he goes? Should I be worried about the 3 year age gap?

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22 May 2013 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm 16, gay, and in a crisis. I've got to know this guy from my school quite well. He was a sixth former when I was in year 9 and after he left school when I started year 10 for uni we got closer and we both discovered that we were both gay. Over the past 2 years we've beco... (306 words)

One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 13-15 - So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him my number too without soun... (118 words)

What can I do, to stay strong, and stop myself texting him hurtful things?

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22 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend keeps leaving the house when we start arguing and saying its over. I struggled a lot just before we met with money being on my own working mininum wage and having two kids. He has helped me out but now throws it in my face. I've gone yeara without all the ... (205 words)

How come he can't find 5 minutes for me? please help, what should I do?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - hey everyone. i'm right now in a disturbing relationship. my bf is older than me, he is very sweet, intelligent, and he loves me a lot. we have been together for one year. in beginning he was not too good but was not too bad either. he texted me, called me and spended time wit... (191 words)

Am I thinking right for a guy my age? Have I wasted my youth? Am I missing opportunities to meet girls?

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21 May 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - This may be daft a question but well I've had like 4 sexual partners from about 16-21 I'm now 25.. So that's 4 sexual partners in 9 years one relationship lasted 4 years and I got hurt in the end (a lot was my fault). I've been single for these 3 and a half years and feel h... (144 words)

I feel like I ruined a good relationship between my family and boyfriend!

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - hi, well i'm in this great mess. THe thing is I tend to fight and argue a lot with my family, so most of the time I'M angry with them and my dad used to allways talk shit and say really mean yhings about my boyfriend. SO yeah i ended up saying and expressing everything to my ... (228 words)

My crush knows I like him but he's back with his ex and treats me the same, what do I do?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 13-15 - I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science and english. In science i got sat next to him by the ... (417 words)

He wants a break after 3 months, he's not sure when he'll be ready to start dating me again. What should I do?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I met a guy online around 3 months ago. I wasn't initially into him but I liked him so I decided to give it a go. He runs his own startup business therefore we had an understanding from the off that we'd only see each other infrequently. He'd had failures in the past and it ... (520 words)

What is appropriate? From the moment I was introduced to this woman, she has been rude and condescending to me. Do I stay home or demand he end the friendship?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last year. Very early in our relationship I was introduced to a female friend/colleague of his. This woman was the partner of one of his close friends, he knew them as a couple for almost 20 years. The relationship between his ... (452 words)

He doesn't seem to understand why I would be upset that he wants to hang out with a sexy young flight attendant and her friend!

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend met a sexy young flight attendant at a bar last year. She lives in another city and is 30 years his junior. He says he wants to hang out with her and her friend this weekend because he wants to try to set up one of his buddies (also 30 years their senior). He ... (66 words)

Could my decision hurt me in any way and what do you think of FWB?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi. Im 18 young and single. I am getting ready to graduate from high school and will be heading off to college shortly. I have done extremely well and am graduating with a 3.9 gpa. I figure with the year coming to a close why not have some fun. So today i gave this guy I've ... (114 words)

No diagnosis for his ED and lack of desire! My marriage is almost destroyed by this!

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope there are someone out there in my situation. I feel so alone with my problem. My 28 year long marriage is almost destroyed by this, and I dont know what else can I do. So my husband has a chronic sexual/erectile dysfunction, and complete lack of desire for sex. The ... (187 words)

Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead?

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21 May 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead? A coworker flirted with me via email and in person for a few months. He stared at me all the time, emailed me but in some ways was reserved. I thought he was shy. He was actually flirting with another coworker... (163 words)

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

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21 May 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she don't want the guy anymore ... (84 words)

Why do I miss him, even after a week? He dumped me!

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me last week. He was very abusive for that past 6 months. Long story short, I haven't called him since the day he dumped me. I'm making myself busy at work so I won't have time to mope. But for the past 2 days he is always in my mind, I ... (155 words)

He told me he's not thinking of marriage yet! Am I wrong to be disappointed?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi im with a ldr now with my boyfriend and we been 3 years knew each other via skype and call. And always visiting me here every year, despite of the distance he always make effort to see me. He lives in Slovakia and i lived in Singapore and im still studying while he was ... (439 words)

He hasn't replied to my message, should I delete his number?

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21 May 2013 (F) age 22-25 - I've met this guy that's a few years older than me a few times and recently sent him a text (yesterday at almost 12am) it is now a little past 5. He normally takes a while to answer (few hours) but not this long. Should I just give up and move on (delete him from my phone an... (384 words)

Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other so much? My boyfriend says all guys do this, but I don't think so. In their group of friends they are always joking about having sex with each other, and they grab each others asses and squeeze it. They sometimes do it right in ... (260 words)

My boyfriend is deleting messages on his phone, am I just being insecure or should I be worried?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - i recently caught my boyfriend of a year and 8 months texting 4 other girls and he deleted all of the messages between them but i searched words on his spotlight search and the messages came up. we broke up for about two weeks and i started back talking to him because i love ... (218 words)

My fiance's ex is getting out of jail and he once told me he'd never love me as much as he loves her, am I going to get kicked to the curb when she's back?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. To start off Im engaged and happy for the most part. My fiancé list year got full custody of his kids which I love with all my heart. The kids mother went to jail and ate now getting out early.my fiancé knew about her getting out early but hid it from me and told ... (134 words)

How do I teach my partner to apologise and show him it isnt a sign of weakness?

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21 May 2013 (F)

age 18-21 - My partner doesn't know how to sincerely apologise. He can do something wrong but he will never say sorry, let alone mean it. He will most likely get angry with me and find something to blame me for and turn it all around. My question is, how do I teach him humility and sel... (79 words)