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Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested

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9 February 2010, 37 minutes ago (F)

age 36-40 - I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke down and told me how he had ... (369 words)

Should I stay or should I go?

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9 February 2010, 40 minutes ago (F)

age 22-25 - I recently wrote about finding condoms in mine and my bf's car and how he bought them for us and forgot them there. I also mentioned texts between him and some girls were, well lets say he crossed the line.(8 mnths ago) Well what if I do get the strength to leave but I ... (99 words)

Is it a good idea to get her a going away gift before she leaves for Australia for 5 months?

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9 February 2010, 41 minutes ago (M)

age 22-25 - Me and this girl have been hanging out quite a bit recently. I got her number at a party a few weeks ago and weve talked a few times and hung out a couple but just recently been going over to her house, she invited me to a hockey game with her, and we always have alot of fun, ... (291 words)

Am I just being paranoid that he will use me for sex due to the way I have been treated in the past?

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9 February 2010, 42 minutes ago (F)

age 18-21 - ive been getting to know this guy.. he calls me a lot.. and he actually does call me when he says he will:) the thing is he keeps asking me if i like him..i like talking to him.,,hes good looking, sweet..he seems like a gentleman.. but i don't know if i like him that wa... (210 words)

Is it safe for a woman to take viagra?

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriends got some viagra from his dad and wants us to take it together. Iv read the packet and health risks but it stil says its for male erectile disfunction. Is it safe for women to take viagra (pfizer 25mg)? And if so what are the known effects for women? And have any ... (72 words)

My boyfriend got another woman pregnant!

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (F) age 22-25 - I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. A few months ago, I found out that he got his officemate pregnant.She was on her 5th month that time. I know that this is mainly my guys fault, but I found out that the girl knew all along that I'm living with my ... (915 words)

As soon as she came back from travelling her feelings changed, how could this happen so quickly?

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9 February 2010, 43 minutes ago (M)

age 30-35 - I've been really good friends with a girl for the past 15 years,we get on really well, usually have fun and laughs together and she had helped me through problems with my ex and witnessed the fallout on both sides from the eventual breakup a few years ago. About halfway ... (759 words)

I cant get motivated to go to school.

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - I never want to go to school. I mean, when I get there, the lessons aren't so bad. I just can never motivate myself to get up and go! It's not becuase I'm tired in the morning, I just feel whats the point? And I know I should go, I really do, I know I miss out on work and... (104 words)

I'm 19 and my bf has a 16 year old daughter who is doing everything in her power to split us up.

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9 February 2010, 35 minutes ago (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend has a 16 year old daughter. i'm 19 and he's 50 - she's had a problem with us being together for the whole year and a half we've been together. at first i tried to get on with her but she started being devious and trying to get him back with his ex (who's 21 - so ... (552 words)

I made out with my friend and now he has stopped calling me!

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - hi, am very distrubed, i had a friend, we have been together for aby 6 months, no sex but be shared good times together, but one day, we decided to make out for the FIRST time, and after that, he never called again. i called and texted him, he refused to reply, am so hurt and ... (72 words)

My ex and I agreed to be friends, ..so how often should I text ot talk to him?

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend split up because we go to different schools and it makes it very difficult for us to be in a relationship right now, although we managed on and off for about a year, so we've agreed to be friends and keep our options open. How often do I text or call him... (196 words)

My boyfriend swears at video games and uses forks instead of spoons.

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9 February 2010, 34 minutes ago (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend has this manner of sticking his fork into a main dish my mom prepares, even when there is a spoon there for him to use. I know it isn't a big deal, but it annoys me a bit, especially when I'm eating with my parents, who are all about table manners. He also has... (135 words)

I really care about her and would like to know how she feels.

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - ok i have this girl and i was her first well that was the one and only time we had sex then i move away i'm back now and she has a kid (not mine) and a old man and we have became really good friend like so good we talk ever minent we are alone if its not not on the phone its ... (142 words)

Is it a bad idea to mention threesomes to girls that I might be risking not having 1-on-1 sex with?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - So I just got out of a 6 year marriage and for the last two years or so I've been obsessing about threesomes. I'm a very people-oriented guy and make friends fast and keep them for a long time. I always love being in groups and I've always thought 3-or more arrangements would ... (241 words)

Why do I want my ex wife around when I'm out and flirting?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - I feel so bad for my ex. We had a marriage for 6 years, and recently got divorced. I'm living with her till I get a job and can move out, we are trying to be friends, it's working pretty well, but she's noticed that I'm never home. Not only do my friends feel so much more at ... (206 words)

I don't want to get too comfortable as friends if perhaps we both want to go farther.

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 26, she's 25. it's been 6 years since i seen her last, i had a huge crush on her before and we hung out a lot but i never really put on any moves on her. i didn't have a lot of confidence back then but these days i'm VERY cocky. She just got out of a 6 year relationship, ... (155 words)

Jekyll and Hyde, Narcissistic Personality Disorder? What is this about?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (F)

age 51-59 - I never left him, everytime I do it just falls apart but I have changed . I was right of being suspicious about the other woman. He plays away, he has sexual affairs yet he tells me I am the only one he loves blah blah blah.. I know him well looking at our relations... (928 words)

I just think if a guy likes u he will be in touch everyday! am I wrong? Do I need to be more patient??

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - I was wondering if anyone could share some opinions on this and if i'm expecting too much! Ok so met this guy (kinda knew who he was before but not really to chat to) he took me number, we were texting all week he was always asking questions about me to get to know me, he works... (355 words)

Now that I'm free, I'm wondering if my availability suddenly makes me unwanted.?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - So I'm divorced now, was married for 6 years. Now single, confident and trying to get back into dating. During my marriage I seemed to always get vibes from girls that seemed to like me, but now that I'm free, I'm wondering if my availability suddenly makes me unwanted. I ... (107 words)

Should I disconnect the friendship or should I play smart and act strong or should I move on and forget what had happened or should I wait for him?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - (Modf Note - Op's own title) I met this guy online while playing poker. Then he traveled from another country to come see me and take me on a vacation. We spent a week of vacation together. We made out two times but didn't have any sex. After the trip we talked it over. T... (200 words)

He makes me feel needy and neurotic. Is this his gameplan? ... or am I just being naive?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - One year ago my relationship of 16 years ended. I am now 33. I have never lived alone until this past year and i am finding it very hard. i was with my ex since i was 14. he had feelings for a woman he worked with and decided he wanted to pursue them while still living with me. ... (350 words)

How can I tell if an old flame actually likes me or just wants to be friends...?

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9 February 2010, 6 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - i met up with an old falme on saturday night for a quick drink, but now im getting mixed signals. How can i tell if he actually likes me or just wants to be friends...? after meeting with him i went out with a couple of girlfriends, i texted him thanking him for the drink... he ... (238 words)

Does having a drivers license - or not - affect getting dates?

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9 February 2010, 6 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - will not having my drivers license in a rural town affect if girls will date me? Due to slow and unmotivated parent still dont have it. Its the root of much of my hesitance to date, does it matter?... (40 words)

Do guys kiss and tell?

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9 February 2010, 6 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - if you kiss a guy or he kisses you, will he go and tell everyone about it? is it possible if i ask him not to tell, that he won't? please help me (im 15)... (35 words)

I am confused about orgasms.

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9 February 2010, 6 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - me and my bf r confused about orgasm..last month he fingered fast and i moaned with excitement(the excitement was at its height)..and sudddenly there was some jelly like substance...is this known as orgasm?and how to self masturbate?and how to reach orgasm by self ... (46 words)

He did not even tell me her got back with his ex!

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9 February 2010, 6 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I have a guy friend that i've been foolin around with for 8 months and i really like and i wish we could be together but he has a girlfriend/babymama and when he's with me sometimes he does'nt even go home that nite...he spent time with me 4 my b-day,x-mas etc.but him and his ... (81 words)

I asked him to make a couple changes but now he is acting completely different!

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I recently went through a four month rough patch. We finally resolved our issues about two weeks ago. I was upfront and told him that I wasn't getting what I needed out of the relationship and as a result I was unhappy. However, I love him very much and I ... (246 words)

Should I be happy with our friendship or fight for us to be together?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Ok so last year around April I met this guy named lets call him Jonny. He is 29(I know, I know...)he is attractive, down to earth, sweet, romantic, hard working, real ect ect. We texted for awhile right and then decided to hangout one day. So he picked me up at his house and we ... (918 words)

How do I go about having sex with my cousin?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (?) age 13-15 - ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. we always end up talkin ... (178 words)

I want paybacks on my best friemd!

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9 February 2010, 6 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - wow my "bestfriend" has always screwed things up for me but i always forgive her becuz she can be nice sometimes. she has started rumors and made fun of me and stabbed me in the back so many times i lost count. its too much stress when we fight and she says shessorry a nd shes ... (102 words)

Has having a long distance relationship ruined my chances for a normal one?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - So I have a pretty big dilemma. Let's call my boyfriend- B Question. What should I do with my relationship? I feel stuck. The past six months or so I can't help the feelings, or lack thereof I feel towards B. We have been together for more than 3 years and nearly two year... (423 words)

My fiance tried to sleep with my best friend! Should I leave him?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-lied-and-cheatedand-yet-can-be.html Above is a link to my situation. I am still with my fiance. I am writing this to tell all women to GET OUT when someone cheats. IF you read the above, and think I am stupid for staying, you are r... (1017 words)

Would I know an orgasm if I felt one?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - This may be kind of long... Ok, so ive been dating my boy friend for over seven months now. He is two years older than i am. The farthest him and i have ever gone is hand jobs (we are both virgins). So heres the deal, before him and i started dating, i was with a not... (227 words)

Is he a pedophile for dating a 13 year old when he was 17?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a relationship with an amazing, mature and positive guy, who is also my age (27 -28 years old). We are inseparable and I feel happy when we are together. When we are apart (we live in different countries) for longer than 3 weeks, say, I become quite cynical about th... (313 words)

She broke up because I can't see her enough. Any advice?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and for the past month she has been hurt because she say's that i have been distancing myself from her. in the beginning of the relationship i was still in school with her so we hung out everyday. then in the summer she went on a ... (422 words)

The thought of her doing that with another guy disgusts me!

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - I need your opinions. So last night my fiancé was giving me head. As I was about to finish, I pulled it out of her mouth and finished on a towel. She seemed surprised and asked why I didn't finish in her mouth. I said I didn't know, I didn't think she would be ok with that.... (424 words)

He's 12 years older and I'm scared to move forward.

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 25 years old going on 26 and have never before dated anyone more that 4 years older than I am in the past. I recently met a man who is 38. I found out his age after I realized how interesting and intriguing he is. I do enjoy his company but the age thing scares me I ... (119 words)

How long is an average 13 year old's penis?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (M)

age 13-15 - how long is the averge penus of 1 13 year old ... (13 words)

He won't discuss Valentine's Day and I feel like he doesn't care anymore.

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I are complicated right now and we are trying to fix things. weve been together 4 years now. its almost valentines day and he hasnt said anything to me about going out. i already got him a gift and a card, and im just waiting for him to ask me. he hadnt so I go ... (195 words)

Will she come back to me and ever get over her fear of marriage?

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9 February 2010, 47 minutes ago (M)

age 22-25 - Let me tell u in short story. I am in relation with this girl from 1.5yrs. Its long distance relationship. Well we never had fight. We both are loyal to each other. Trust each other very much. Our parents have no prob in our marriage. Everything was going fine with us. Suddenly ... (364 words)

I can't choose between the nice man and the emotional one!

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with a lovely man who treated me well, but didn't have much in common with me. It was a hard decision but I felt I really needed more of an emotional connection. I started seeing another man and we became heavily involved. I am absolutely crazy about him but he is ... (161 words)

Why is my boyfriend such a control freak??

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F) - Why are men such control freaks? I can't stand it! My boyfriend is so bossy it drives me nuts. Yet God forbid I ever make a suggestion about anything he hasn't thought about in that "brilliant" mind of his, and I am "nagging" him! WTF! How do you break a man from acting like ... (146 words)

He has ejaculated in me numerous times and I still haven't gotten pregnant. Is it me?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - ok so i have been having sex for the last 5 months not very often but i will say like at least more then 8 times... each and every time the guy ive been with has ejaculated in me ...but i cant seem to get pregnant ... what may be the problem...me ,,,him,,,,or what?... (60 words)

Why does he ask for my help then insist I am wrong?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F)

- What do you make of this frustrating situation? My b/f and I took a road trip recently. He set GPS to destination, yet still insisted that I read the map. When we stopped for lunch he glanced at the map and pointed out a small highway that looked like a shortcut and said, "I ... (274 words)

My ex and I still talk but I don't know how he feels about me. How can I find out?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - ok ...so me and my ex still talk and stuff but we r not 2gether anymore ... every now nd then i spend time with him ...nd have the greatest time ever... he still tells me he loves me but ..we dont talk as much as we did b4 ...only when he basically i guess starts missing... (129 words)

My boyfriend said he had hair in his mouth after oral sex with me!

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - me and my bf r in a comitted relationship.he stays far from me..and we have sex only once in a month!well few days back we were talking on phone..and he said that wen he was trying to give me oral sex,my hairs got into his mouth..and dat was yak!...i said whether he wants me to ... (88 words)

Will it be a mistake to have sex with my sister-in-law?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (M)

age 41-50 - I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I sneak at her. I could see her ... (131 words)

My girlfriend lets people walk all over her. How can I change this?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (M)

age 13-15 - ok, so i have a kinda Big problem here. the thing is that my gf thinks that its her goal in life to make everyone happy and please them all the time, even though she says she doesnt know why she thinks that, but she still feels she Has to. one of her "friends" started spreading ... (311 words)

How would I go about turning on my shy and bi best friend?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F)

age 30-35 - What does another girl do to turn you on or warm you up? I'm bi curious but not sure how to get my bestfriend who his bi curious too to warm up to me? We have always talked about messing around but we've never done it. Should I start by rubbing her legs and mentioning how soft ... (109 words)

He flips out everytime I mention our future!

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I've been in a committed relationship for three years and my boyfriend and I live together. I've never, ever rushed him into anything or put a time line on our relationship, but whenever I try to just approach the topic to just see if we want the same things out of life, he ... (224 words)