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Do I keep trying to contact him? Or cut contact despite his debts to me?

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23 October 2017, 10 minutes ago (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid. I think I know the answer but I need some advice... So, I have been helping out an ex from seven years ago with rent while he's jobless for the last six months (He rents out a room in a house) (I offered to help him) on top of the rent I have been buyin... (349 words

Am I an easy target for abuse because of my quiet nature?

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23 October 2017, 3 hours ago (F age 41-50 - Been picked on many years ago when i was at school. once when i walked to primary school a high school kid cracked a egg on my head. cant recall if it was a male or female but they laughed with there friends. i went to school to wash if off and not home even thou i lived really ... (453 words

I feel trapped because I can't get a job without references

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23 October 2017, 3 hours ago (F age 41-50 - Im ashamed to say i havent worked for a number of years. ive talked myself out of doing things mostly because being afraid and also lack of confidence. I was going to start a course at college, tutor told me i would have to do a presentation so didnt do course. i was doing ... (240 words

What is it like being a stepdad?

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23 October 2017, 3 hours ago (M age 30-35 - Hi I've got to known this girl for 1 year and she has daughter that's 5 years old, what's it like being stepdad? My parents say just be dad from start that way you see him grow in stages as you have a full dad title ... (47 words

The relationship I am in has become exhausting

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23 October 2017, 3 hours ago (F age 22-25 - So I need to preface this by saying I am not a second-chances person. Basically once someone loses my faith or trust, they usually can't get it back. That being said, I dated this guy for about a year, from September of last year to earlier this summer. Everything about ou... (1245 words

My boyfriend was kissed by a gay guy and now he wonders if he is bi?

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23 October 2017, 3 hours ago (F age 16-17 - My boyfriend of 10 months just told me he was kissed by a gay guy at a party I wasn't able to attend, and also told me he thinks he might be bi now. I'm just wondering if other people consider this cheating. I'm pretty uncomfortable with the whole situation and feel like ... (64 words

How can I boost his sexual interest?

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22 October 2017 (F age 41-50 - My husband has a low sex drive but mine is extremely high and I'm looking for tips or advice on how to spice up our sex life and things I can do or say to get him excited and turned on. ... (41 words

My husband was exposed to HIV and I am very scared

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22 October 2017, 3 hours ago (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am juggling with a serious situation ., My husband has been exposed to hiv at work he is a health care provider. He is given post exposure prophylaxis now.we have to wait and see what happens in future.my husband is the best human being you could ever look up to..i was a ... (256 words

Can I ask him to let me touch myself?

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22 October 2017 (F age 41-50 - I want to masturbate in front of my husband but I'm not sure how to go about it. Do I talk about it and just straight out ask him if he wants to watch or should I slip into something sexy just be waiting for him when he enters the bedroom and ask him if he wants to stay and ... (67 words

Is 15 years too big a gap for us?

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22 October 2017 (F age 51-59 - Hi I have been talking to a guy on line who states he is 39 although looks a little older in his picture. I am a 54 year old woman but I do not look my age and have stated that I am 43. I work as Cabin Crew and surrounded by loads of young people and I teach dance part time.... (143 words

My long distance love wants me to send sexy pictures of myself

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22 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - I've been going out with this boy for 2 months now and it's a LDR situation. I knew it was going to be hard to not spend all that time together but I felt I could handle it. Lately he's been asking me to send naughty pictures to him and it makes me feel dirty and low for d... (317 words

I have the hots for my sister-in-law

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22 October 2017 (M age 30-35 - I got married 3 years ago, since then i have had a crush on my sister-in-law. She is a beautiful girl. Whenever i see her i have this uncontrollable urge to have sex with her. I love my wife but i also have feelings for my sister-in-law. Neither my wife nor my sister-in-law ... (65 words

How do I make him feel for me the way he once did?

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22 October 2017 (F age 13-15 - Guys, I need help. So my boyfriend broke up with me and it's different from most relationships so I don't know what to do. Let me explain our entire relationship, we were best friends for 3 years and one year he really liked this girl and couldn't get her out of his head. I ... (696 words

Can he be a sucess when he neglects everything around him?

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22 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - Need opinion on this person. Thank you? Can ignorant, careless and not taking care of self person going to be succeed? Please give example and opinion? Do you believe ignorant, stupid, and not take care of himself person can be succeed? Is there any examples of that? I kno... (166 words

Her attitude is confusing. Should I cut her off?

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22 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - Just looking for advice regarding my friend as I'm honestly confused. I have this friend I met through university (a guy) and he has a friend we are both kind of friends with (she's a girl). Anyway my problem is sometimes this girl acts like she wants me there and I'm ... (444 words

Why was he was so mad because I answered his phone?

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22 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi. Last night my bf got so mad at me and left my place at 2 am. He fell asleep on the couch while I was watching a movie, around 130 am I noticed on his phone maybe like 10 phone calls then like 10 messages, his phone is always in silence so he couldn't hear it plus he was ... (254 words

Why would a man get distant when time together is limited?

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22 October 2017 (F age 30-35 - so i have been seeing someone for about 2 years now, we are both military and it is now the time for me to rotate to a new duty and he will not be able to come with me. We both love each other very much but the closer i get to leaving, the more distant he becomes. Can someone ... (129 words

Should I try to see if he is available? If so how?

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22 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - Ok! Where do I start? I met a boy seven years ago. We were on a summer abroad in Australia and we fell madly in love with each other. When the summer ended we both went back home. But lived in opposite parts of the country and it just wouldn’t have been possible. We kept in ... (258 words

There's a big age gap so how do I go about this relationship?

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21 October 2017 (M age 41-50 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/would-counselling-and-therapy-help-after-all-this.html That is the link to the first question I asked. Now over a year later, I am now finally getting in a real relationship. Except the problem is that she is only half my age, and this ki... (106 words

Two guys... So whom should I go for?

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21 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have an issue where I'm interested in two guys and I don't know what to do about it. The first guy we met on a night out (he's 21 and I am 18) and there was this instant thing between us, an attraction, but also we got along really well. We've been messaging since then for... (646 words

Most of the things he does really gets on my nerves!

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21 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have been going out with a guy for almost a year now, when we first started going out I thought he was really sweet and I really liked him, we see each other every week but now it's been nearly a year I feel like things have changed, he still makes me laugh but most of the ... (111 words

Can you clarify his behavior?

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21 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - I recently started seeing a new physician. I don't know his relationship status but I know that he doesn't wear a wedding ring. He asks me personal questions like if I am dating anybody, how my sex life is, and what I like to do on my days off. He seems laid-back and casual ... (73 words

The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me?

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21 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me? We have an odd relationship, we say we love each other all the time. He says he's not ready to date (we've been in a like-dating stage for 3 years). I have fallen in love with him. But I feel like I'm always worried he will leave ... (354 words

He is not being supportive and I am literally broken because of what is happening!

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21 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months and a few days ago I found out I was pregnant. We both currently live 100 miles apart and only get to see each other once a week. We decided an abortion was the best option for us as it would be impossible to ra... (161 words

A year after my break up I still haven't been on a date and no one has shown any real interest in me!

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20 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - I'm 22 and the only relationship I have ever been In lasted 3 years before he came out gay. It was a very complicated break up with a lot of mixed feelings and we would still spend time together and end up sleeping together for around a year afterwards. It's been 3 years since ... (171 words

Does my FWB have feelings for me?

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20 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - I've been friends with benefits with a guy for over 3 years. We hook up nearly every week. I telephoned him today to speak to him, he was busy building a draw and I didn't realise I was on loud speaker, during the call we were talking and he was saying it's not been long enough ... (112 words

Given his past, do you think that this man would be a good parent to my daughter?

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20 October 2017 (F age 30-35 - I recently left an abusive marriage, and have been seeing a man from work for almost a year. He moved in with my kids and I over the summer. He has always been very sweet and caring to all of us, but the relationship isn't perfect, though I love him. I was aware that he ... (212 words

Why did she keep that key ring for so long?

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20 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have a friend who flirts with me all the time.We used to have a great friendship until one day I heard her saying I'm annoyed.We had an argument and have each other cold shoulders.However,recently I wrote a letter to her saying that I really don't want to lose her as a ... (176 words

My boyfriend revealed a secret and my question is how do I deal with what he told me?

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19 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - My new boyfriend of almost 5 month has been suffering from ptsd i knew this when we first got together , he decided to be open tonight and told me a shocking secret he had kept from me , he admitted he sometimes smokes weed to help him relax and sleep because of all the ' ... (184 words

She takes more than she gives and I know part of the problem is her low self-esteem!

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19 October 2017 (M age 26-29 - Hi, when I told my girlfriend that I love her she replied, for the first time, that she does as well, although she doesn't know if it's really love. She justified this with saying that she discussed the matter with her mom and when her mother asked her whether she would be ... (235 words

Is this a ploy to make me jealous?

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19 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - This guy and I decided to be friend with benefits before uni' but when we got to uni, it was quite different. The guy is in his late 20s and we go to each other's place to sleep over but we simply end up cuddling and kissing. We got into an argument and he came over days la... (128 words

Being used by my boyfriend and I don't know how to get rid of him

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19 October 2017 (M age 30-35 - I will try to make it short as possible, I am 35 years old gay and I dated a guy few months ago, specifically in May and I really liked him, everything was great , although he is way younger than me 24 years old, but I felt that he loves me, he introduced me to his friends and ... (819 words

Haunted by the past and now I'm expecting

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18 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hey, my name is Nancy, I'm 22 years old. I don’t know how to make this story short, but here we go Man, I've been feeling really depressed since early this year, my mental stability was ruined the day I accidentally found my husband's sex tape with a beautiful girl, and I di... (1236 words

Family squabble upsetting my new relationship

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18 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - My boy friend and I r relatively a new couple. He lives with his twin brother and a friend. I was staying in their place for the first time and just to clarify. Before that night me and his brother were getting along real well that I would call him real friendly with me. Around ... (279 words

I don’t know if I should stop talking to him or give it a chance?

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18 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have been texting this guy for 2 months everyday and sometimes we talk on the phone. We live in two different states I keep telling him I want to move to a different state and he wants me to move to his state because he says "I'll already know one person there" talking about ... (136 words

Was I out of line and is my boyfriend right in not trusting me?

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18 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. A few months ago I met a guy at work who I messaged after I left the job. He was quite flirty with me in this conversation but I didn't think it meant anything. About a month later he messaged me again asking if I was arou... (267 words

How do I lay my cards on the table? He wants to go into the Navy but I think he's missing a good thing in us!

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18 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hi. I'm sorry for the long email - but I feel like I need to get loads of details into this to give afull picture. Here's my story: I'm a 25-year-old woman who struggles to meet guys that I'm attracted to and have a really great connection with. Doesn't help that all of my f... (1567 words

My husband's coworker made some very odd comments and I'm wondering if there is something going on!

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18 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - Recently on a ride home my husbands coworker needed a ride home. While we were driving his coworker begin to flirt with my husband, He repeatedly said how much he liked my husband, saying my husband was one of a kind. How he had never met anyone like him, then he brought up a ... (277 words

Why am I hopelessly infatuated with this man?

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18 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I was just wondering if someone could give me advice I'm with my husband for 16 years married 6 and have two wonderful children we had out up's and down's over the years I've been in and out of counselling due to child abuse and suffer with PTSD but I have come along ... (230 words

What should I do about feeling inadequate?

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18 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - First off, this is quite the premature question, but tonight, its all I can think about. A year ago, I had to escape a mentally, physically, sexually, and verbally abusive relationship. It was difficult to say the least. A few months after we seperated, I met an amazing man. I... (588 words

I'm being taken for granted and wonder if I should marry him!

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18 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my bf for 9 years now and we both dicided to get married, and we had registered. Just lately I have been very uncomfortable with my fiancee, i dont fee like i am being loved, i am only his comfort. It has been probably my fault because i loved him so muc... (336 words

Do mixed signals just mean he's not interested?

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18 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - There's a guy in my graduate program who is very handsome. I knew him previously from a class during undergrad as well. He is also a gentleman and very kind to everyone he comes by. He's naturally friendly, social, and sweet. He says and does things that make me wonder if he is ... (332 words

This woman is getting close on the train!

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18 October 2017 (M age 41-50 - I catch the busy train to work in Tokyo everyday and there is this cute younger lady who gets on along the way. I am usually standing near the door anyway but somehow she seems to find her way in front of me so we are hugged and crushed together. We remain this way for around ... (114 words

Why would my guy friend joke about marrying me? Does it mean anything?

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18 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - This isn't the first time this guy has joked about us and marriage, but this just happened recently. I was over a friend's house, it was 4 of us. 2 guys and 2 girls (myself included). I said to Guy A: Heyy you need to find me a Caribbean husband that can cook as good as you! ... (169 words

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