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I don't like feeling like a maid, or taken for granted. Am I being unreasonable?
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Just a question about cohabitation: My boyfriend works 50 hours a week, and I am currently unemployed (but looking) I contribute economically, and do all the cooking and cleaning except for one night where he makes dinner. Usually he does his own laundry, because he like...
(369 words) How do I bring up that I'm going out without telling my parents everything?
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I've recently started going out with a guy i met online, but am worried about the trouble it might bring with my family. I'm almost 21 years old, and still live at home because my parents don't want me to live elsewhere But i've tried asserting my independence(I dormed freshman ...
(231 words) I don't think I can handle seeing her with her boyfriend!
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Hi, bit of a long question here. So about 2 years ago I told this girl whom I had been friends with for about 2 years (at that time) that I had feelings for her but she told me that she didnt like me in that way and just saw us as friends which took a while to fully accept but ...
(198 words) I don't understand why he wouldn't simply deactivate these accounts!
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Hi, My boyfriend left his email open on my laptop once, and already having had previous trust issues we are working on, and have been getting there, I couldnt help myself cast an eye....(the previous problem was him trash/sex talking with a 'female' friend) What I found wa...
(269 words) In an LDR, his live-in son asks for money, will this relationship last?
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im in a long distance relationship he comes for me every wk end we are both widowed he has 6 children i have 5 all grown up it takes him just over an hr to get here then an hr to take me back to his house , he has a son in his 40s living with him works night and asking every ...
(106 words) Ex partner apologises after 2 years apart!!!
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19 June 2013 (M)
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I split with my partner 2 years ago. I had 1 young child with her and she had a child from a previous relationship. We had been together for about 12 years! We have stayed in touch due to me seeing my son weekly, of course, and she has often had a bit of a bitter attitude ...
(280 words) Cancelled wedding...but can we sort this out and stay together?
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19 June 2013 (F) 
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where do I start..my fiancé told me 8 weeks ago he wanted to cancel our wedding. He didn't do it. We thought we could work on our differences and see what came about. We were due to get married in seven months. I feel like he has not made any effort to sort things out and spent ...
(290 words) My boyfriend expects me to ALWAYS be happy and full of energy...
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19 June 2013 (F)
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Hi everyone :) thanks so much for looking, I'll try to keep this short. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he is in the military and we are happy together. I'm usually very bubbly and happy, but occasionally feel tired, so I'm not as bubbly. I'm still happy, I'm not i...
(264 words) Do you believe a person can do/achieve whatever they want if they want it enough and work hard enough for it?
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19 June 2013 (F)
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Do you believe a person can do/achieve whatever they want if they want it enough and work hard enough for it? I'm asking this question in reference to my dream career but I'm interested in all general opinions on this too. Thanks!...
(42 words) How do I get over that he is expecting a baby with my ex friend and they will be getting married!
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19 June 2013 (F)
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I broke up with my boyfriend about 14 months ago. We had been in an open relationship for just over 2 years. He had been seeing another woman(who was actually a close friend of mine)for the last few months of our relationship until he decided he loved her more so broke up with ...
(183 words) He told his ex that I wasn't his g/f but I scary room mate he had to babysit!
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Hi everyone, thanks for reading. I met my ex from riding, we meet on Easter weekend, at the time I was looking for a place to move, and so was he, so we decided to shared a place, few days before we move in to the house, we became boyfriend and girlfriend, and we still decided ...
(371 words) How can I trust my husband when he texts a girl from an escort service all night?
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19 June 2013 (F)
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Dear readers, I find myself here again and I have only been married a month. I wass here to weeks ago. Because my husband joined a sex site and still denies it. But know I am here because my husband has been out of town for the week and I looked at our phone bill and found ou...
(183 words) I get so panicky when he doesn't respond right away to my texts
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19 June 2013 (F)
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i visited the guy that i really like and we got along great, had lots of laughs etc. when i returned home, we texted and everything was fine.i got on twitter and started tweeting about my guy friend that passed away and then I tweeted "random I love you's make my heart melt" ...
(206 words) How do I end this? I don't love her but don't want to hurt her
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THANKS for reading...but friends i am in a great difficulty...i met a girl on social network site and we did long chats and also did talk on the phone and now it has been over a year of our such relationship but before a couple of months that girl proposed me and i myself ...
(196 words) Is this reverse psychology or what?
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19 June 2013 (M)
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I work in two places. In one place there are mostly married women in the late 30's up to 50 and more. They adore me, especially one-let's call her "Helen"-who is head over heel about me. She even says things like she wants sex with me tonight. Although I don't find her ...
(345 words) I made a mistake and it hurts so much I don't want her to leave me
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Thank you for reading... I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years and we are very happy together. We have always been good but she left me last week and i can't see what to do from here. I was at a party a few weeks ago and there were a bunch of people taking ph...
(607 words) He keeps breaking up my relationships, I'm in love. I need to stop him!
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19 June 2013 (F)
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There is this guy who I am completely inlove with but everytime we start dating he just stops talking to me and then months pass and he comes back and then he leaves again and that just keeps happening. I told him im tired of him doing that and that I want more I want to be in ...
(339 words) Is marriage the right thing for me to do?
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19 June 2013 (F)
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I just want to share my story and I would Love your opinions. it was about 8 or 9 months ago I was walking into church for a revival when I laid eyes on the most beautiful creature I had ever seen. He was well dressed, the cutest smile with perfect straight white t...
(701 words) How do I go about initiating a no strings relationship with this man?
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19 June 2013 (F)
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I hooked up with (not had sex with, just made out) a guy last weekend that I'd never spoken to before with mutual friends. We were both very attracted to each other, but haven't really spoken or texted since then. I would really like to talk to him/become friends/hook up again, ...
(107 words) Do I talk to him next time I see him and tell him how I feel?
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19 June 2013 (F)
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Hello, So I met this guy back in January. We immediately hit it off, spoke, exchanged numbers and hung out like 1 month later. We talk maybe like twice a week via text. Sometimes not talking can extend to two weeks. When we talk and hangout there is just some kind of connecti...
(319 words) How does she really feel about me? I'm so confused
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19 June 2013 (M) 
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Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl that am having feelings for ...
(653 words) Can elocution lessons really change a person?
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19 June 2013 (F)
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I haven't seen my friend in 3 months since she was at university, having seen her I was very taken back by her voice. Turns out she did online elocution lessons to lower her voice a bit and speak properly over the months, even when i saw her she was learning then too! She ...
(216 words) My ex-girlfriend is trying to get back to me, am confused!!!
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19 June 2013 (M)
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My ex girlfriend that we dated for four years left me for another guy, four months later she started sending sms to me just for us to get talking.I ignored all, recently she sent this one which got me very confused . She sent this " hello, how is work. please just try ...
(138 words) How can I make him feel more at ease around me after what happened between us?
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19 June 2013 (F)
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I knew this guy two years ago but he didn't give me the time or place. Just recently he contacted me and wanted to be friends. He's been going threw a hard time, so I have a lot of empathy for him and want to be there for him. I have to admit I live him, and already see him as ...
(326 words) Where is the blood coming from?
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19 June 2013 (F)
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Hello! I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for quite awhile. While we were on vacation, we were having sex much more frequent than what normally happens at home. YAY! On one of those days it was kind of rough, and later on when I used the restroom I notic...
(163 words) Feel confused. Do I go with my gut feelings or forget him?
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Hi i've know this guy for some years now. About last year we have been together almost everyday. Throughtout this whole year i have seen this guy open up and want to be around me, and then act like he just wants to be my friend. Everytime it seems like he's digging me, I ei...
(1077 words) Should I go back to my old job? I worry that the store manager does not like me and I suffer social anxiety. Or should I look for something else?
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18 June 2013 (F)
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For 3 summers I have worked at a retail store, and then leave when I go back to college for the year. When I work there, I always feel very unconfident because I worry that the store manager doesn't like me, and I always feel like I am under surveillance by the higher-u...
(242 words) Do I bow out for the sake of my boyfriend's children?
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18 June 2013 (F)
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I need help as I am having a serious dilemma! I am with a wonderful guy...been together 2 years and are happy together. He has 2 kids, we want them together as I don't have any. When we met, we decided to save for a house, marriage etc. I love his kids to bits. We both wo...
(478 words) How to go in for the first kiss
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18 June 2013 (M)
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I'm 15 and I've been dating this girl for 4 months now and I'm really starting to like her and I want to go in for the kiss but I don't know when to do it....
(36 words) Boyfriend always refers to other women as hot! I don't like this
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Whenever my boyfriend is telling me a story he always refers to girls he knew either as friends or ex girlfriends as "hot." I find it disrespectful and have already told him I don't appreciate it and that I find it tactless and hurtful and he said he wouldn't do it again but ...
(151 words) Is it possible to love someone without trusting them?
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18 June 2013 (F)
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Hi guys ! Me and my boyfriend had been in a on and off relationship for almost 3years , on top off that he was my first love.... During those 3years Ive been good girl that always get hurt ! I was faithful to him never derespected him ! But him on the other hand had a chi...
(171 words) Am I his back up date?
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18 June 2013 (F)
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i met a guy online and we went out last thursday. I had a pretty good time. I texted him after i got home later that night thanking him and to let me know if he wanted to do it again. He replied something along the lines of "sure, I'll let you know" and then didn't text me ...
(183 words) She shows no interest in me except pushing her arm against mine when standing close. Is this a sign?
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18 June 2013 (M)
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In my experience, if a woman is interested in me, she flirts heavily with me, laughs at my jokes and all the other usual things. In this case, there is this girl at work who seems a bit cold to me in general and hardly even responds to my flirting. However, whenever we are ...
(124 words) I am so sick and tired of losing out in love and being the lonely one.
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I feel absolutely hopeless. I love my friend more than I have ever oved anyone. If he goes back to his ex wife or doesn't lvoe me now is there some hope that maybe he'll fall for me in the future? I am so sick of the loneliness and pain I feel because he used to be reall...
(278 words) How can I figure out how this boy feels about me?
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18 June 2013 (F)
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There is this guy I like that I have known for 4 years. He is 16 and I am 14 turning 15 this October. Before I began to like him again, we hadn't talked for around a year. At first, it was just a crush bc I thought he looked like a guy from this popular band. It was just a ...
(197 words) Need help, girlfriend spending too much time with a new male friend, I'm abroad.
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Dear guys, I have a problem right now that I hope i can get some help with, first of all, sorry if my english is not so good, I am from Brazil. I have been in a relationship for 4 years with my girlfriend, we love each other very much and care for real, however in the pa...
(545 words) He needed a break and doesn't want me back.
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18 June 2013 (F)
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I have been split up with my ex 7 weeks today and I just can't seem to get over it! I've seen pictures with him and other girls and its really getting to me! I have phoned him and asked him if he is with someone but he said its got nothing to do with me! We were together for ...
(105 words) Is he still into his ex?
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18 June 2013 (F)
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Hi and thanks My bf and I have been together for about a yr. Its been a roller coaster at times. Hes got different rules for him and I. Don't text men don't email men but he texts his ex and hangs out with her. He swears hes over her but I get weird feelings hes hanging on a...
(254 words) He said to keep an open mind about things -- that makes me worry
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I've been seeing this guy for several weeks now - we met via online dating. Things have been great, our first date lasted for a weekend and met up again. We have also expressed our fondness for one another and it is clear that there is attraction between us. We discussed a...
(216 words) They're both friends, she cheated -- I feel caught in the middle
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Hi everyone, I have friend that´s temporarily abroad for work - she´ll be back in one month. She confessed to me that she´s cheated on her boyfriend with some man there...And she begged me not to tell his boyfriend, that is my good friend too...He is very good guy and he smells ...
(149 words) He's the only one I'll ever love. How can I find a way for us to be together?
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18 June 2013 (F)
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My heart is broken. I'm so afraid that I've lost hope of winding up with the person I know in my heart is for me. I love one of my closest friends, and I know in my heart that I'll NEVER love anyone else like I love him. I'm afraid that he's lost interest and that it's...
(538 words) Friend has given me an ultimatium--either be his girlfriend or we no longer talk
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18 June 2013 (F)
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I'm really close to my friend who told me he wanted to be more than friends about a year ago. Initially I said I didn't feel the same way and we tried to carry on as we had been before, talking everyday but I was seeing other people. Since then we've got even closer and flirt a ...
(154 words) Married but attracted to a coworker
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18 June 2013 (F)
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I am a happily married female who is also attracted to a male coworker. I have known him for approx 3 yrs now and we are work friends. He is a single dad and so cute. Every time he smiles at me I just melt because he has the sweetest smile in the world. He is funny and ...
(223 words) Details about my wife's past have made me feel our sex is not new or exciting or different!
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18 June 2013 (M)
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I recently found some details of my wife's sexual history and I'm now disgusted by her. What can I do? I mean I know it is "the past" but we're talking about her saying and doing the exact same things she says and does to me. This bothers me a tremendous amount. It makes...
(86 words) We're using each other for sex so why are my friends so against him?
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18 June 2013 (F)
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Ok, I've been sleeping with this guy on and off for just over a year. When it all first started out he had a gf, so as you can imagine my friends don't have a very high opinion of this guy. I know it was a crappy thing to do but I didn't care, it was just sex. He's now split...
(205 words) What to make of a woman who has confusing behavior
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I've been giving (hopefully useful) advice on Dear Cupid for a while, now I have a question myself. When I walk my dog I occassionally bump into this woman jogging. This has happened at least five times. The first time she actually saw me having fun with my dog. After that...
(393 words) Do girls have relationships so young? I'm only 14
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18 June 2013 (F)
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HI, my name's Olivia and recently, I went for this competition where I met this boy who I talked to. And afterwards, we talked on facebook for a couple of weeks and we met once after that for a movie with some of our mutual friends. He confessed that he had a crush on me. I ...
(246 words) In the western culture... who pays the bill on a date?
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Hi Dearcupid, I came from asian background and i was on the dating website. Recently i meet a guy on line and went for a coffee date and one dinner date. Now i have a little question to ask " for the western culture, what should happen with the payment? is guy should ...
(88 words) How can I stop my clingyness to a guy that is already involved? I am in love with him!
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18 June 2013 (F)
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I'm hoping someone will help me I love this guy so much but unfortunately I've made the usual mistakes clingy too emotional etc Ok he's with a girl he's been with her 5 years We got close and kissed twice last year please don't judge he said after it shouldn't have happened ...
(196 words) My gf left me over a silly mistake... what should I do from here? We love each other!
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Thank you for reading... I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years and we are very happy together. We have always been good but she left me last week and i can't see what to do from here. I was at a party a few weeks ago and there were a bunch of people taking ph...
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