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Should I meet an Online Friend?

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7 November 2009, 29 minutes ago (F)

age 18-21 - Advice on Meeting this guy... I met a guy pretty randomly online about 3 months ago. He IMed me, and we just sort of introduced ourselves and we started talking. We kept talking acouple times a week, we would get on webcam and talk, but the sound on mine does not always work,... (350 words)

How do I approach the boy I like?

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7 November 2009, 32 minutes ago (F)

age 13-15 - i hav a crush on this boy in my year, have for a while. we know eachova pretty well cos i've known him for aaggeess. my friends think i should ask him out, my mum thinks i should n she doesnt even no that i like him. but i am scared of loosing him as we r not as close as we ... (80 words)

We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?

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7 November 2009, 39 minutes ago (F)

age 26-29 - Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want to clarify we are NOT having a... (233 words)

Help! My friends and family are taking advantage of my skills. How do I say no and not offend anyone?

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7 November 2009, 44 minutes ago (F)

age 22-25 - Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to jump. I do have a full time job (in... (207 words)

"Sort your life out, you aren't a baby anymore"?

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7 November 2009, 2 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i dont know if im being oversensitive here but i just want some feedback. Im 27 and been doing driving lessons just over a year now.My instructor wants me to book my test in and im just not confident. Last night on my driving lesson he told me "sort your life out,yo... (166 words)

I need to get him out of my head forever. How do I get rid of his so-called "friendship"?

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7 November 2009, 49 minutes ago (F)

age 30-35 - I am so upset by this so please no horrible answers. My ex friended me on facebook-i hadnt seen him for 4 years-it was to tell me he had got married. We were due to get married but it ended really badly because he barely showed any love or care-i only started seeing this afte... (183 words)

How can I feel better about my life/make my life better?

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7 November 2009, 2 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - Sorry this is gonna be long but your help will be intensely appreciated! ;) Story of my life... Before 13 years old: I was known as fun-loving, outgoing, talented and had many interests- sports, acting, dancing, singing etc. though I did have the potential to become a b... (1059 words)

I am 4m pregnant and BF still wants to party every weekend. Please Help!

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7 November 2009, 1 hour ago (F)

age 18-21 - Dear agony aunt. I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend is not taking my feelings into consideration. All he wants to do is go out all the time and wheb I tell him I don't want to go and that I am staying home but he can go he gets angry and says hurtful things As well ... (187 words)

I'm depressed... he's depressed, and I'm paranoid that he'll leave me again... How can I overcome this?

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7 November 2009, 2 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - Hey there, I've been um-ing and ah-ing whether or not to post this for a couple of days now because it sounds trivial but it's plaguing me, so here goes... To begin with, I'm 25 and I've had depression since I was about 16. It was a mixture of being bullied in school, bein... (1183 words)

Is this a stupid idea or can love really be worth it?

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7 November 2009, 2 hours ago (M)

age 26-29 - hia all, i havnt been on here in ages and also accidently posted this as a forum message, not a question because i had forgotten how to use the site lol. recently i have met a girl via a site you wouldnt think you would meet on and we have been chattin for almost ages now.... (155 words)

I feel called to love this girl... Should I wait or take the chance?

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7 November 2009, 1 hour ago (M)

age 16-17 - My general dilemma is if I should wait or take the chance with a close friend of mine who recently came out of a relationship. Though you need to know some background for the full story. The friend and I have been friends for about a year now, though I've known her for a ... (1006 words)

Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the person don't have sex or ... (69 words)

Should I make the move to be with this guy? Anyone got experience of this kind of thing?

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - One of my really good friends for years and I have really fallen for each other, but we live in different cities. We have kept in touch over many years although living in other places, and lately we have been going to visit each other and have gotten more involved. The last ... (252 words)

I've split with my ex but he's so depressed and still dependent on me... how do I help him to get help?

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 22-25 - I just got out of a relationship that lasted for a few years about 2 months back, and my ex is taking it pretty hard. He still calls me sometimes when he is really upset and says stuff like he is so depressed. It is hard because I do care about him a lot, but we are not right ... (217 words)

My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been married for 3 yrs together ... (137 words)

My wife is not able to conceive and is under huge pressure...

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (M)

age 30-35 - I love my wife a lot .. its been 5 years since we are married tried every option possible right up to IVF...but its not working.. The worst part is my wife is now getting very disturbed by the fact that she is yet to conceive. all our common frinds have babies not and thats... (131 words)

She cheated with me when she was in a relationship with my best mate... I worry that she might do it to me now

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - This is a very long and complicated issue, but its kind of bothering me and wanted peoples advice. well im currently seeing this gurl and things are all great but the problem i have is a trust issue. the thing is she used to date a friend of mine which was her first boyfriend. ... (699 words)

I love him soo much but should I let him go... and did I push him away?

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, So I have been with the same guy for three years we started going out my sophomore year of high shcool an he was a senior. It was perfect he was the best boyfriedn and we always had fun together like we hung out all the time and surprisingly never got tired of each ot... (700 words)

In my mind I want to have sex with every woman I see and meet... Why?!

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (M)

age 30-35 - i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see on the road... hell ........... (138 words)

How do I decide between my boyfriend and my best friend who has opened his heart to me... ?

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I need help on a really awkward situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on a semi -distance relationship. We have had some ups and downs and even some betrayal from his side which i forgot and let go of. On the picture my best friend comes in, we been best ... (302 words)

Feeling down about my friends... they only call when they need a favor or have a problem!

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - I've been feeling really bad lately. The friends who I thought were my true friends don't seem that way- they seem to only call when they need a favor or have a problem. When I have a problem, they pretend to listen or act like they care, but then change the topic so it ... (169 words)

My dad is getting divorced for a second time... Is it unrealistic to hope he could marry 3rd time lucky?

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - my parents divorced when I was 4, and my dad remarried when I was six. now I'm eighteen and my dad and step-mom are getting a divorce.i have an eight year old brother and a ten year old sister by my step-mom. I am not upset about the divorce, but i am upset that my dad has to ... (108 words)

He said he was going to change and become less immature... but he never does

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - ok so this might be long. i have known this guy since i was little, but then i moved here and he stood in our home country(dominican republic). now about 9 years later i see him and he tells me he likes me. things move pretty quickly at least for me. i went to his house to ... (1682 words)

I'm happy that he's interested to get back together with me but why now? And why's he acting like nothings changed?

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7 November 2009, 6 hours ago (F)

age 26-29 - So I was seeing this guy for about a year then we both decided to take a break up for a while. We didn't talk for a month and a half. In the beggining I called him a few times to tell him I was sorry but he completely ignored my calls so I decided to leave him be. 7 weeks ... (251 words)

I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?

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7 November 2009, 9 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life so I think that I am mature ... (120 words)

Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He is 4 years older than me, ... (166 words)

Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?... (40 words)

Is it a sin to love your first cousin?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each other so much,,..but until such time ... (92 words)

Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance.... (32 words)

How can I tell if a girl is as horny as me?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (M)

age 13-15 - hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just anything about this how do i get a ... (74 words)

Does their type of marriage work?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (?)

- My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a break from her husband. She ... (243 words)

I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?

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7 November 2009, 9 hours ago (M)

age 18-21 - hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i did things with said 1 month ag... (191 words)

What's the dating scene like in college?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - Okay so im seventeen years old and im a senior in high school. I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been asked out, nothing! when i see all my other friends really happy in relationships i get really self conscious about why i havent had that yet. I constantly ... (187 words)

Can you love someone you don't admire?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (M)

age 22-25 - Can you love someone that you don't admire? I feel that a large part of love is finding that person that you admire. A partner that can constantly energize you to do better just by the mere fact that you want to aspire to emulate them. I guess I could say that I've admired my ... (352 words)

Are all guys selfish and hateful?

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7 November 2009, 11 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and cook him supper! he has do... (437 words)

Should I let on I know she fancies someone else?

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7 November 2009, 12 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - I had a thing with this girl about 2 weeks ago. My girlfriend found out and we broke up. We got back together soon after. Now, the girl I had a thing with and I are really good friends and she has just told me that while we were split up, my girlfriend told of her feelings... (153 words)

Am I a normal girlfriend?

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7 November 2009, 12 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they always text him how much they lov... (173 words)

My self esteem is suffering because my girlfriend won't have sex with me!

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7 November 2009, 12 hours ago (M)

age 16-17 - Hi. I have a girlfreind, before she was my best friend for 4 years. She means the world to me, and i seriously mean, she has given me a reason to live. we were together for 9 months and broke up a week and back together for a month, so 10 months in effect. The issue i have, is... (217 words)

Help, I discovered my partner goes with escorts!

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7 November 2009, 13 hours ago (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im desperatley unhappy. 3 years ago i met a wonderful man after spending 10 years married to a pub addicted bully who made my life a misery.I had finally made my way out and managed to buy my own place for me and my six year old daughter when I met this person. For the ... (627 words)

Could he like me?

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7 November 2009, 13 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - So I've known this guy for about six months through work. We don't work for the same company, but see each other in a group setting a couple times a week because of our duties/schedules. Our interactions are usually in front of others, so if he was interested in me I know he ... (281 words)

What to wear going around town with my brother and his friends?

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7 November 2009, 13 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - This isn't really a question about relationships or anythin, but its the only place i seem to get quick good answers. So i don't have many friends because i fell out with my best 3 and they kinda turned everyone against me. But the few i am friends with aren't into that whole ... (265 words)

Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?

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7 November 2009, 13 hours ago (M)

age 41-50 - I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in front of the computer. She's ... (391 words)

How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?

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7 November 2009, 13 hours ago (F)

age 41-50 - I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked and having sex (my son's pe... (113 words)

How do I 'ramp up' the intensity?

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6 November 2009, 14 hours ago (M)

age 36-40 - I'm dating a woman 10 years my junior who has a lot more experience than me. She has made it clear that she enjoys rougher sex (she revealed her safe word on our first date) but I don't really know where to start. My previous partners (and me, by extension) all preferred the ... (123 words)

I'm ready to introduce sex back into our marriage...How do I approach my wife?

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6 November 2009, 14 hours ago (M)

age 30-35 - Ridiculously, we have let our marriage slip into a nearly sexless funk for 2+ years. Our second child was born in January and we've only been intimate a couple of times since she conceived. We've always been pretty low on the libido front, our max has been once a week, but ... (197 words)

I don't know if I want him, or want to be with him?

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6 November 2009, 14 hours ago (F)

age 16-17 - I work with a really nice gut we have a lot of things in common and we get on great.But I'm unsure if I actually like him or not..? We mess around and are often tickling or poking each other and have great chats together.I think I might just like the idea of liking him if that ... (144 words)

I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. tips?... (52 words)

Know of a place to get a cute dress?

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6 November 2009, 14 hours ago (F)

age 13-15 - hey this would be a huge help to me if i can get some answers. does anyone have any websites where i can find a cute strapless dress, above the knee in length. any color, that i can wear for my winter ball. thank you, just reply with any websites and comments. thanks again!... (54 words)

Am I scared of commitment?

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6 November 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am a 42 year old woman and I am panicking because I think I might be a commitment phobe. Here's a little bit of background. Two years ago I came to London to enrol for a post graduate MA in art. I managed to get a place in a very good art college and I was able to fina... (501 words)

Should I let him back in my life, or just keep trying to move on?

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6 November 2009, 14 hours ago (F)

age 18-21 - For the first time in my life, I felt like I was falling in love. After about 6 months my ex suddenly broke up with me after telling me he was falling in love too and swearing that he was very happy to be with me. It turns out, he went back to his "high school sweetheart" of 3 ... (457 words)