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2 August 2008: this isnt really a question but more of a sucess story in the making. i found this site around march or april of this year. i come to it daily, usually 3 and 4 times a day! i have written in and asked for help on multiple occasions and recieved such ...

He just proposed to me except I don't know what to do?

Q.   I have a boyfriend and we've been datieing for such a long time. Sense the 7th grade...... and we graduate this year. We both plan on going to college. And he just proposed to me. That changed everything. I havent said yes or no, but im just not ...

A.   30 August 2008: there's nothing wrong with long engagements but i also agree with basschick--if u are this unsure, nothing says you have to accept. talk things over with him before making a final decision.... (read in full...)

I had sex with my wife's sister and now she's driving me crazy! What do I do about such a weird situation?

Q.   About 2 years ago I had the best sex ever with my wifes sister. I have always wanted her and in fact, when i met my wife my intention was to hook up with the sister but it didn't happen. Anyway we ended up in bed together just having the best sex ...

A.   29 August 2008: i hope u didnt com here expecting us to say "oh its ok" cause even you can't justify your actions. this is not the behavior of a man--its the behavior of a little boy!!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is telling me my vagina is too wide, what should I do?

Q.   my boyfriend told me that i have a wide vagina and theres no feeling for him when we have sex. what could be the problem?, and what can i do to fix it?...

A.   27 July 2008: he sounds selfish and judgemental...try changing up the positions. you can find them all over the internet and no you DON'T have to look at porn to get ideas because there are good sites devoted to enhancing you sex life.... (read in full...)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to have pictures of of celebrity on his cell phone?

Q.   my boyfriend has pictures of Vida Guerra in his cell phone, it bothers me, but should i worry.....

A.   27 July 2008: if it's a celebrity, you really have no worries. there's no possible way he could ever get with her and do anything. i used to worry with my boyfriend's porn, and it bothered me sooo much! but you have to remember, YOU are the one he comes home to, ... (read in full...)

Poll question for women: do you like oral and would you like your partner more for it?

Q.   Do girls like when a guy goes down on them? And would you like your boyfriend more if he did that?...

A.   24 July 2008: i love giving as much as i love receiving!! it feels soooo amazing when his hot tongue is on my clit! i orgasm EVERY time cause he really knows what he's doing@ i wish my boyfriend did it more--i go down on him way more than he does on me but that's ... (read in full...)

No matter how we start... it always ends up "doggie style"! Is he losing interest in me?

Q.   Hi! Any input here will be appreciated. I've been happily married for 5 years and thought we had a pretty good sex life. The problem is....lately my husband seems overly interested in doggy style sex. No matter how we start, it always ends up with ...

A.   24 July 2008: ah yes the renowned doggie style. at first i too felt this to be impersonal, but actually if you think about it, it's a way that shows just how comfortable you are with each other. when my man is getting tired, i am the one to suggest doggie ... (read in full...)

Can't cope with his colourful ex girl/boyfriend!

Q.   i am in a new relationship.my dude and i have been together for 2 months and he just revealed to me that he was with a transexual. im so very disgusted and i cant even look at him in the face anymore. should i try to get pass it becus it was in his ...

A.   19 June 2008: everyone has a past, good or bad. would you want to be dumped just because of YOUR past? we all learn from our mistakes, and yes people CAN change. just because they do it once doesnt mean they'll do it again. personally, i would be freaked out too, ... (read in full...)

It rips me apart inside that he told me one thing but does another. Now he insists that I tell him what upset me.

Q.   I have been dating the most wonderful man since December. I can feel and see just how much he truly loves me. When we first started dating, he told me he had gotten rid of all his porn because he didnt want to hurt me by looking at other women. A ...

A.   22 May 2008: well i just talked with him about it a few mintues ago. he admitted to me that he has a problem and is still trying to work on the problem. he claims he gets lonely and wants me all the time so that's why he bought the videos so he could please ... (read in full...)

It rips me apart inside that he told me one thing but does another. Now he insists that I tell him what upset me.

Q.   I have been dating the most wonderful man since December. I can feel and see just how much he truly loves me. When we first started dating, he told me he had gotten rid of all his porn because he didnt want to hurt me by looking at other women. A ...

A.   21 May 2008: well he has already been bringing up the topic of marriage, and speaks of it almost every day. i am just going to bring it all out in the open when we are alone again. i will let you know how things go. thank u all so much! u have made me more ... (read in full...)

What do guys actually like/look for in a girl?

Q.   What do guys actually like/look for in a girl? Does it really appeal to a guy when a girl cakes on makeup? Loads of foundation and blush, and black eyelinered eyes? Do they care of a girl is on a diet? Do they care if she is a size 8 with a f...

A.   3 December 2007: i'm no guy, but it really differs for each guy. my neighbour, for example, claims he wants a good christian girl, yet he tries to get the numbers from wild party girls that just look and act so fake. a real guy can give u a much better answer--... (read in full...)

How to forget some one after liking them for 4 years.

Q.   Hi, how do you forget the person you've liked for so many years (4 years) and havent told the, and that person don't have a clue at all of how you feel....

A.   11 November 2007:  Go out and meet new people, make some new friends, and chances are, you will meet a GREAT guy that will get your mind off of the 4-year crush. Take up a hobby of some sort involving something you really enjoy, such as music, photography, painting... (read in full...)

My mistress says she will leave her husband in 18months, but she still puts his interests above mine, does this mean she is not genuine in her desire to leave him?

Q.   i am having an affair with a woman i met online. She is in a loveless relationship she has had for nearly 20 years. They also have 3 children who are nearly grown up. She tells me that once her youngest has graduated (about 18 months time) she will...

A.   7 November 2007: Sir, I'm going to be blunt here, so read at your own risk. You shouldn't be having an affair with a married woman in the first place. Marriage is intended for one man and one woman, to devote to each other and love each other, not run off with ... (read in full...)

We only had a brief fling, now my neighbour won't talk to me

Q.   Is this normal behaviour from a 54 year old man? He(R) lives across the road from me. 6 years ago when I moved in we got to know each other and I fell for him quickly and hard. When we tried to make love, he was unable to sustain his erection. ...

A.   6 November 2007: Oh my gosh I am going through just about the EXACT same thing with MY neighbor!! He's 8 years older than me, and we had our "fling." He said he'd always be there for me, but he let some girl get between our friendship. Now it's like finding a ... (read in full...)

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