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I live on the East coast.
What makes me tick is my insatiable curiousity and my eagerness to learn new things and meet new people.
I am currently happily single, and not looking. I like to make new friends.
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I'm so in love with another man...
Q. I have been married for 9 years wif my husband for 11 and I don't love him, I have been having an affair solid for the last year with a man I was once in love with as a teenager although I have been seeing him on and off for 4 years, I am not proud ...
A. 18 November 2008: Hi there, You were very young when this man, who you are sure you love, introduced you to sex, I am assuming. This is a very powerful lock, on a young person's psyche, he was more experienced and if I might say so, took advantage of your youth and ... (read in full...)
Can you tell me what's going through her mind?
Q. I need advice about a situation I'm in. There's a woman I work with that is very out-going, whom I'm very attracted to. I few days ago I invited her out for a drink after work. We had a wonderful time. The conversation came easy, there was a lot of ...
A. 15 November 2008: Hi, It is my opinion that she is embarrassed, perhaps she was attracted you before, you were out together. She is probably afraid as well, that you might want more, and you do work together, which could be tricky. She wants her job, and no gossip, I ... (read in full...)
Was I destined to be miserable?
Q. I need help, I feel lonely and isolated in my school. I feel like I can't connect with people and I feel like they always avoid me.... was I destined to be miserable?...
A. 14 November 2008: Hi there, I agree with everything that has been said. One more thing I would like you to do, is to build your own self-esteem. If you like reading, find some library books on building your self-esteem. You could also find things that you are ... (read in full...)
Should I be more open minded and not show him that I'm jealous and interested?
Q. The man I'm dating likes to go out together when he has time and he likes to communicate but he doesn't say to me about a serious relationship. He has told me that he doesn't want a commitment and he just wants to have good time. Although I am ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hi, I will be the next one to say to you, that this is a waste of your time. he is openly showing you what he wants between the two of you, and that is basically a casual friendship, if that. He is not boyfriend material. Fish and birds can not hang ... (read in full...)
Whats a good way to calm nerves?
Q. I'm just wondering if anyone knows any good ways to calm nerves down. My biggest problem is my nerves and i get stomach aches because of them. I need a way to calm down my mind and relax. but i just have so much trouble trying. I need a way to get ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hi there, You should go to the grocery store and get something called Chamomile Herb Tea, it is soothing to the body, and relaxes you. Good to drink it before you go to bed. The other larger thing to do for long tem effect, is to learn how to ... (read in full...)
I told him I liked him, he kissed me, then he backed off because he's been hurt before! What can I do?
Q. I had an amazing weekend with a guy that I've liked for a while. I finally got the courage to admit to him that I liked him, and after chatting about the situation he kissed me. I was over the moon and thought that eventually it might turn into ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hi, I agree with Sharraie. This potential relationship depends on him. You cannot carry the whole thing on your side. He is going to have to come to a point of trusting you. When that would happen, who knows? So you would have
to decide if you can ... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend has turned up again but I'm with someone else!
Q. My ex boyfriend with whom I was with for eight months, decided one day he would leave me without telling me and go back to his ex-wife. Since he left me I have met a really nice guy, the problem now is that my ex boyfriend has come back into the ...
A. 8 November 2008: Hi, It seems you are interested in staying with your current boyfriend, which I think would be the best thing.
Your ex is only interested in what he wants, notice what he said to his sister. What about you? He doesn't care if you want him or not,... (read in full...)
Husband cheated on me while we were dating.
Q. My husband and I have been married for two years. We dated for three years before we got married. Anyways he use to live with another couple and I never use to suspect something happened between them. But I felt it in my gut there was something ...
A. 2 November 2008: Hi there, let's think about this, it would seem that something was wrong in the woman's relationship, since they eventually got divorced. Now she is jealous that you are with your husband and she is not with hers, so what does she do. She calls you ... (read in full...)
He's hurt me terribly but I love him! What do I do?
Q. Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and throughout our relationship there have been a few things that have been rough, but what couple doesn't have that? We managed through it...or I managed through it. About a month ago, I j...
A. 2 November 2008: Hi there, In this life we all experience disappointment in people. Especially those we love at times. But the most important thing, is, that we love ourselves, and respect ourselves. Otherwise if we don't, others will find it easy to disrespect us. ... (read in full...)
Is friendship all that's on offer here?
Q. Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I ...
A. 31 October 2008: Hi there, Sometimes, girls are reading the book of "Rules". She is young to be doing that, but maybe it is her own way. That would be to act as if she is not interested, when she actually is interested. Don't give up, because if you don't try, ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 17 October 2008: Hi there, We have all tried to help you deal with your problem. But sometimes, people love to feel pain. So it goes, you are going to have to decide what is the best thing for you to do, to make your life the best that it can be. If you love this ... (read in full...)
I'm a self proclaimed clingy girlfriend. How do I stop doing all these? How do I make my relationship better? How do I make myself better?
Q. Hey everyone... I am in desperate need of help. I am a self proclaimed "clingy girlfriend." I have been with my man for two years and some, and I have always been that girl who needs to know where he is, who he's with, what he's doing, what time...
A. 14 October 2008: Hi, First of all, all us have problems making relationships work, so don't beat yourself to death over it. Next, you have to ask, why are you like this? Is it because, it gives you comfort to know that your boyfriend is some place, that you are ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hides everything from me, the computer is more entertaining then me, but he loves our daughter. Do you think we can make it?
Q. What do you think about my relationship... Can we make it? I've been with my man for 4years we havent gotten married but we do have a two year old.... Any how where can I begin... Well it's come to a point in our relationship where I cant tak...
A. 14 October 2008: Hi there, My first question would be, could you get him to go to couple counseling sessions with you? If not, you have to decide, can you go on without any emotinal support? Even if he loves your little girl, and it seems he does, if you are ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend likes his brother's girlfriend!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and I think he is into his brother's girlfriend. She has been dating my boyfriend's brother for 4 years now and she is at his house everyday to see her boyfriend. I understand that they have a ...
A. 30 September 2008: Hi there, Hope you are doing well otherwise. This woman is going to continue her skankiness, so now you didn't say whether or not you spoke to him, to let him know you were not going to put up with the flirtation, which she is going to continue to ... (read in full...)
When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?
Q. I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot ...
A. 11 September 2008: Hi, Thanks for responding. Great, it sounds like you have you head on straight, good for you. Sometimes siblings will have rivaries that carry over into adulthoop, now that I know the relative status. Your sister-in-law is competing with her ... (read in full...)
When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?
Q. I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot ...
A. 11 September 2008: Hi there, Is that the only place you can find to sleep? I don't know what kind of place you work , but why not put your head down on a desk or something, for the time you spend over there. This is going to lead to a lot of problems, for you and, if ... (read in full...)
What does the phrase "I did love you but I am in love with you" mean to a guy?
Q. I have heard men say " i do love you but im not in love with you" but what does it mean opposite of that " I did love you but I am in love with you" What does that phrase mean to a guy? ...
A. 10 September 2008: Hi, My thought is that if a person loves you, they care about you, what happens to you, want you to be well and healthy. If they are in love with you, all those things previously mentioned are a patrt of it, but there is also passion, and sexual ... (read in full...)
I was almost hit by my boyfriend - where do we go from here?
Q. I am in an overwhelming state of mind and don't really know what to do next. Here is what happened... A couple nights ago my boyfriend (of six years) and I had a casual night out. Dinner with his mom, and then we rented movies - but before we we...
A. 10 September 2008: Hi there, if you two are still going to buy this house together, then that will be a binding factor. What I think is this, if as, I said you are going through with this house purchase, the two of you, after the closing, should find a therapist and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her my reaction about her comment?
Q. The girl I like said something to me that really hurt. I realise why she said it but I cannot agree with it. I am sure she didn't mean to hurt me so deeply but it is affecting me. Simply put: I was having a bad day and I decided to delete my fac...
A. 10 September 2008: Hi there, First of all, I am not sure that she knows that you cared for your grandfather, if you told her, alright, that's very admirable of you and she knows it. But she is very careless in what she said to you. I don't think that you should ... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 6 September 2008: Hi anybody, I think we can all be adults and agree to disagree, if we want, nothing personal. We all believe in something, which doesn't have to be about anybody else, we all have views, the fact that there is vanilla, chocolate and strawberry is ... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 5 September 2008: Hey there, If people are happy, dappy with the past eight years then go Palin. She is a lively choice, but this sequestration of her, so she can't face the press is very interesting. Also the investigation of Governor Palin, on charges of abuse of ... (read in full...)
Should I be considering divorce? I'm at a loss!
Q. how would you describe a woman, married for 10 years,hasn't wanted sex for the past 2, only likes to watch t.v, only participates if coerced but never initiates plans, is cheerful when people are around but when we are alone, barely wants ...
A. 31 August 2008: Hi there, You have received good advice from the other Aunts. I would like to ask you, if you still love your wife? If you do and you want to try to save the marriage, then I would suggest to her that you both go together to
see a therapist. It take... (read in full...)
Ever since we married it all went downhill. Is the love lost?
Q. Hello, I've been looking through this board and I see a lot of great responses to peoples questions. Well here is mine.... I started dating this gal about 1 and a month ago. Things got really hot really quick and we ended up getting married about ...
A. 30 August 2008: Hi, You are in a very complicated situation. People can enjoy sex with another person, and be disconnected at the same time, sometimes sex is just that, sex. You as a man can surely understand where I am coming from, so she enjoys having relations ... (read in full...)
He told me I was boring! Should I continue with this relationship?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We don't see each other too often because we both have busy schedules, when we do, however, it'r very great and fun. But sometimes we talk on msn. The problem is, he gets bored and usually le...
A. 29 August 2008: Hi there, Do you two like each other? I am thinking that this is not the only thing that he has said to you about you. Is he a nice person, you have been together for two years, if you are boring, he has been satisfied with boring for a long time. ... (read in full...)
My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?
Q. Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...
A. 29 August 2008: Hi there, Well, she is showing you what she will be doing for the rest of his life, if she can. The child between them is the binding force. What does it matter that she has kids by someone else, she wants this man. Again, this is your life, if you ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my obsession with her? I want to move on!
Q. I'm still obsessed with a girl I dated months ago. Things really didn't work out between us, there was an age difference and we had almost nothing in common but for reasons I can't understand I was devastated when it ended. She's moved on now but ...
A. 28 August 2008: Hi there, Sometimes it is not the person, we are obsessed with, but the obsession with love and companionship. Which can be quite powerful, if we feel that a person represents that, then we are very fearful if they are leaving us alone. It is almost ... (read in full...)
Ever since we married it all went downhill. Is the love lost?
Q. Hello, I've been looking through this board and I see a lot of great responses to peoples questions. Well here is mine.... I started dating this gal about 1 and a month ago. Things got really hot really quick and we ended up getting married about ...
A. 28 August 2008: Hi there, Tough one. If is very hard to rebuild trust, once you lose it in someone, it takes more than a little time to get it back. You always look at them strangely, trying to figure out, if they are telling you the truth or lying to you again. ... (read in full...)
How can I get over this jerk?
Q. How do I get over a guy? This guy I, for some unknown reason, really like, disrespects me, lies to me, ignores me and is currently secretly seeing someone else. He has had 6 women in the past 10 months and I dont think this new relationship wil...
A. 28 August 2008: Hi there, The only thing I am going to say that I second,
everything that bubbloo said, follow those words that she gave you. Move, and move fast away from this man, Find a person with better values. This man, that you want to habg aaround with... (read in full...)
Why is my mom doing this? Is she in denial or something?
Q. my mum has totally baffled me! she WILL NOT, as in no way hozay! never ever ever let my boyfriend in my bedroom, which is fair enough, its her house and i do abide by her rules, she pays for it so she says what gos etc.. but i have been with him now ...
A. 28 August 2008: Hi there, I am not a mother, but mothers try to protect their daughters from what they preceive as too much, too fast. That includes having sex at a very young age, and especially pregnancy. Drinking too much too young. Putting yourself in dangerous ... (read in full...)
How do I help my boyfriend get through the first anniversary of his last girlfriend's death?
Q. Its me, again. Crickey, my life is really complicated these days! Im not usually like this, just the past few months have been crazy. Well, im happy now, in a relationship with a new man, (the same man of the last post!). However.... next week is ...
A. 27 August 2008: Hi there, Thanks for responding. Stay in touch with him, keep trying to draw him out. If he is really depressed, Omega-3 is a good natural substance to held stop the depression, recommended by a good doctor, whose patients were helped greatly by it. ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi, Good, the medicine is working well. You don't know what to do, well there are two paths. First path, you cll her, set a date for lunch, not dinner. Short and sweet, if she blows you off for this weekend, ask her for the next feasible date. Talk ... (read in full...)
My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?
Q. Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi again, Now I am going to write this and hopefully you will come to an understaznding of what we are all trying to tell you. Find your own man, who is not tied to another woman and child! Period! What is wrong, that you feel that he is so great ... (read in full...)
Is there a special exercise or diet that will make my boobs bigger?
Q. i have small boobs r there some tips i should do to get bigger ones r there any exercises or food that can make them bigger ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi there, I can only remember in exercise places that I have been a member of, that you raise your arms, bending your elbows, hands over your chest, and keep moving your arms back and forth to each side over your chest. What I would suggest is ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi there, You are closer than I am and so you know what is going on better than I. I want you to think which is better texting her or telephoning her, mythought is thatif you call her, you probably should ask her out to talk and not just ask her the ... (read in full...)
My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?
Q. Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...
A. 25 August 2008: Hi there , Good to hear from you. Remember, peace of mind is the best thing for anyone. This young man with all his good traits, has too much hanging on to him to be able to give you what you need in a partner. If he was with you, every phone call ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 25 August 2008: Hi, Thanks very much for the update. I was wondering how you were doing. Very interesting texting. Here's my suggestion, do not ask her out to lunch or dinner, tell her "I want to ask you someting, I want to do what will make you happy, because I ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to let go of my sexual past?
Q. Hey all! Right im 16 and ive been with my boyfriend for around 8 months, ive nown him since i was around 7. When i was 15 years old i did some bad things, i went on holiday and got in with the wrong crowd, it was 4 weeks of alcohol and boys,...
A. 25 August 2008: Hi, I am sorry that you boyfriend is having a hard time with your past. I do hope that you two can work it out, he is having a problem, because he is wondering if he can trust you. It is a bit late with him, but my feeling is, though you are very ... (read in full...)
Can I continue to sleep over at a male friend's house after I get married?
Q. i am a 22 year old woman who has a guy friend for about 8 years. my boyfriend knows that i see him. my boyfriend and i want to get married. My guy friend and i say i love you all the time, we hold hands, we cuddle, though, i sleep over his house. Is ...
A. 25 August 2008: Hi there, Are you sure you want to get married. It appears to me that you and your "play boyfriend", that would be my name for your friend. if you are ready to get married, you would not want to be cuddling with another man, perhaps you should just ... (read in full...)
My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?
Q. Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...
A. 24 August 2008: Hi there, thanks for responding, and glad to know that we helped you a bit. No, I don't think it is ever wrong to pray for someone, it is a very generous thing to do, and you should be blessed for caring enough to do that. But I caution you, stay ... (read in full...)
My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?
Q. Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...
A. 24 August 2008: Hi there, If I were you, I would think about the fact that if you are going to be with him, be it as girlfriend or as his wife, the mother and the child are always going to be somewhere in his life. Most people don't like to share, I know that I ... (read in full...)
How do I help my boyfriend get through the first anniversary of his last girlfriend's death?
Q. Its me, again. Crickey, my life is really complicated these days! Im not usually like this, just the past few months have been crazy. Well, im happy now, in a relationship with a new man, (the same man of the last post!). However.... next week is ...
A. 23 August 2008: Hi there, This is a very tricky situation, as time goes on it will be a little better for him. My thought is that you do everything you can prior to this anniversay to make him laugh as much as possible, or at least smile, do things that would make ... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi, Hi,
Nice to hear from you again. Remember, do your reserch, if you want to find the truth on any subject. At least find different opinions, then sort it out for yourself. Can say this, you certainly prompted a lively discussion. :o).
Take ... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi there, Well I can say one thing you've got good taste. For one thing Obama is a bit too smart for most people. He has naunced positions and he talks on two diferent levels, sometimes three, so people who really don't like to think get a bit lost ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi again, Sorry but I wanted to explain something. The reason for trying to keep the lunch or whatever you ask her to do, short, is that you want to stir up a need in her to see you, not always being available for her at any turn. If you get out of ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi there, I think it was good judgment on your part to wait until she gets back to ask her to go out to lunch. When you do ask her, you might preface, by asking if she has time to have a cup of tea, coffee, or I wan't finish the clique, but you want ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi there, Sounds positive. Going to see the doctor is a good thing. That you are less anxious is a very good thing, keep it up. It is probably good that you did not go to happy hour, especially if you were going to be kooking for her. Lighen up a ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi, I was sitting here waiting for your response to how your Friday evening happy hour went? Was she there and did you have a good time? I hope so, let me know. Hope you are doing well. Take care.... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 31 July 2008: Hi there, In answer to you going to play golf, and being there for Happy Hour. I would go, why stop your life? Go and have fun, don't go looking for her, that's the last thing I would do. You have to let her know that you have a life beyond her, if ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hi there, I am going to allow you to absorb what askoldersister and Tisha, have given you. I agree with everything Tisha said. Her advice is spot on, and covers areas that we did not touch on. So stay in touch, but re-ead Tisha's reponse and try to ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 28 July 2008: Hi, there, Nice to hear from you. Good thing, the card, send the card only, if you would, do not send the gifts, wait on those. I would write in the card, something like hope you have a good time. Stop. No calling, no texting. The thing you have to ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 July 2008: Hi there, Thanks for sharing what you did. The response from her was positive, but like I mentioned before, let that positive contact sit now. The card will be a good thing, but you have the right idea about controlling yourself. You are reaping the ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 24 July 2008: Hi there, I would like you to perk up. Why do you feel she is slipping away? If two people care about each other, time and space don't necessiarly make things change. She has a favorable impression of you, she cares about you, and she enjoys your ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 23 July 2008: Hi there, You should be enjoying yourself, instead of fretting about her, for the umpteenth time, calm down, hope you are taking your medicine. Since I am assuming she knows, that you know she is going on vacation, find a card that wishes her a ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 19 July 2008: Hi there, I thought your vacations were at almost the smae time, call her after your vacation, and ask for a short sit down, just to get it straight about her wishes. Good luck, as I said calm down, it's going to be fine, fine, fine. Just don't ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi there, No you are not wearing me down. What I would like
is that you get some direction. You must know where you are going. You said you wanted to know the answer to your questions, which she had not answered to your satisfaction.
You can't kn... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi, thanks for writing back. Alright, if you really feel that you do not know what she wants, then call her and ask her if the two of you could have tea, lunch or something with a short time span, so she understands that you are not trying to have ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi, Now listen up. You are doing well, keep it up, think postively , but not only to be with her, for yourself and your..... your future. The other thing is, forgive my bluntness, stop trying to talk yourself into some reason to contact her, you are ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 15 July 2008: Hi, Although you may not realize it, you are staring to heal just a wee bit, because you feel the pain. Go through it, cry a little bit if you have to, but move on, everything has a time and a place, now is your hour to put things in perspective and ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi, What she told you was that she wanted space, she didn't say how long, or how much space. So virtually she is putting you in limbo. This is is where you are, as far as being with her anytime soon, we would have to wait to see. Now if it were me, ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi there, Alas, you are coming around to the fact of life, that you have to be you own best friend. She has a problem, you can't make it better, she has to realize it and change it herself. Don't know if I gave you this website, but take the time to ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi there, I would like you to take her at her word, that it is hard for her, when she does not see you, but do not act on it. Write down those words that she said and the date she said them. Hang on to that, put the paper the words are on, in your ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 13 July 2008: Hi, Good luck to you, try to find happiness somewhere else. There are a lot of people in the world, hope you find a good one next time. Take care.... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 13 July 2008: Hi there, thanks for responding. She is probably going through the same feelings you are, but on top of everthing else she has on her plate, something has to be put on the backburner, and I think with her, that includes any relationship. You have to ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi, If she doesn't want to talk to you, won't pick up her phine etc., you should look to the heavens and be thankful. Try to get over this and move on, you putting yourself through such a strain, trying to figure all this out. There has to be ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi, Right now, you will have to use a whole lot of self discipline. If you go in to try to persuade her, you will ruin what is a fairly good relationship. When you saw her, she responded to you, you don't want her to tell you to leave her completely ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 10 July 2008: Hi there, I am going to ask you one very important question, I think you know what it is going to be. Do
you trust your lady? If you do not, you will forever be looking and listening for signs of whatever you think she is doing or not doing. This... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi there, The best thing that I think you can do, is to listen to her. She tells you she needs space, you know enough about, what is going on in her life, to realize that she could be a bit overwhelmed. If you push the issue, you will, I think turn ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend likes his brother's girlfriend!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and I think he is into his brother's girlfriend. She has been dating my boyfriend's brother for 4 years now and she is at his house everyday to see her boyfriend. I understand that they have a ...
A. 2 July 2008: Hi there, Based on what you have told us, I would say at the least, your boyfriend is somewhat infatuated with his brother's girlfriend. He may not want to admit it, but people are not always in control of their emotions, and body language will show ... (read in full...)
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