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How can I be more confident around my maths teacher?

Q.   Okay i need help, i have this problem that is bothering me a lot, okay here goes, so i like my maths teacher and when he looks or comes over to me i go all red, and i find it really embarrassing, i keep saying things in my head when hes around to ...

A.   22 January 2010: i agree. all you can really do is practice. maybe if you approach your teacher a couple of times you'll get used to him and feel less embarrassed.... (read in full...)

Is it just my imagination or does my teacher like me?

Q.   I think it most probably is my imagination, but I have to be sure that this teacher isn't showing interest in me, because I don't want to report him if it's nothing. So - when I first had him as my music teacher I really hated him, he was the ...

A.   22 January 2010: i've known teachers that throw things (little things: piece of chalk, paper clips, etc.) and it's just for fun or to be playful, so that's not weird. but you should watch the looking you up and down because that sure seems like he's checking you ... (read in full...)

My angry feelings towards my teacher are coming back after he announced that he's leaving.

Q.   Hello, I need some advice on my current feelings because they are getting me down, It sounds extermly stupid, but I am currently doing my A2 levels and am studying ICT, and my teacher got married last xmas and i was strangely jealous and thought ...

A.   21 January 2010: i agree. it sounds like you do and that's perfectly normal! i have one too so i get it, but i'm sorry that you feel this way.... (read in full...)

There is something wrong between me and my professor

Q.   HI everyone, i need some advice. i am now 22 years old and i am the 4th year student at my college. There is one male professor in my college. He is 36 years old and hold PHD. Anyway, for the last 6 months, all of my friends observed that he...

A.   17 January 2010: i think you should keep being nice, but maybe not go out of your way to talk to him for a couple of weeks so he has time to think.... (read in full...)

How can I strike up a decent conversation with my teacher who I adore?

Q.   Ok I havent written on here before and I have tried a few times but every time I write something it doesnt sound right so I never publish anything. Basically, I think I am in love with my teacher and have been for a few years. I will not go into det...

A.   17 January 2010: does he have an office or classroom he's usually in? if so, try going in before of after school one day and tell him that something you saw or something you learned in another class reminded you of his class, etc. and it reminded you of him. you ... (read in full...)

Wooing the boss?

Q.   I have a crush on my boss. At times it subsides some and then comes back again. I have remained professional. I never flirt or show signs I like him. I have had a crush on him for nearly eleven months and recently I decided that I should find ...

A.   16 January 2010: when you leave you could tell him your feelings or ask him out. or you could take it slowly and invite him to hang out, as you mentioned. this is, of course, if he is indeed single.... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong to kiss my teacher?

Q.   Ok so the other day I posted a question asking how to get over my much older teacher (I'm 15 and he's 50). I never expected it to go anywhere, but the other day it did. I have his class last period, and it just so happened to be my birthday. My ...

A.   16 January 2010: oh, gosh. i'm jealous of you and the second anonymous! so many girls would kill to get a letter like that from a certain teacher... if you think he's sincere, you should ask him to wait until you graduate. you can still flirt, but you wouldn't... (read in full...)

Age dfference, but can't help the feelings!

Q.   Hello, I am a fourteen and a half girl. Anyway this is my dilemna and I'd really appreciate it if you could give me your input or some advice. Just recently , I went back to my homeland, where I was actually born. There we have really good fami...

A.   16 January 2010: you won't be put in jail just for dating; you just can't do anything sexual. and if you're mostly dating via the internet then that's even more innocent. i see no way that you would get in trouble for that, and i don't think your feelings are silly ... (read in full...)

Why did he just now tell me he has a girlfriend?

Q.   MOD NOTE: Please put the link to your other question in so that we can catch up. Doesn't make sense without it. ************** if you have been following my questions,

A.   13 January 2010: most likely-- though, of course, i wasn't actually there. but he did seem like he was trying to get close. i understand your situation though. i didn't know until 6 or 7 months. like, ok??? i wish i could help you more, but i can hardly help ... (read in full...)

The Professor crush, what to do?

Q.   Well I have a crush on my professor and I'm not sure if he feels the same, or what I should do about it. It started last semester I was in his political science class. Watching him teach with such passion sparked my interest. My feelings grew wh...

A.   10 January 2010: LUCF, actually the large age gap makes a lot of sense. men want fertile women. it's a simple fact of evolution. to me, it seems that the hugging could be a bit on the flirty side... and he must enjoy your company if he keeps inviting you back! ... (read in full...)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   9 January 2010: so i take it you confided in him and it went well?... (read in full...)

Messed up joke

Q.   i'm affectionate with all of my close guy buds and even other teachers and some others who are way older than me. but this situation has somehow gotten out of hand. it all started as an inside joke between the two of us. i was kidding around w...

A.   9 January 2010: i wish i did; i'd use them for mine. you might try writing a letter though in which you express all of your feelings. and then burn it. apparently, it can be quite cathartic.... (read in full...)

Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?

Q.   OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...

A.   3 January 2010: yes. he definitely could have handled this better. maybe you should go see him just to ask if he got your card. that way, if he wants to talk to you he has the perfect chance. if he doesn't, you should just walk away. any respectable teacher doesn't ... (read in full...)

I can't stop thinking about my teacher!

Q.   I need help! I had this teacher last year he was amazing he is so sweet and caring he is 12 years older than me .i really love him.I know that he knows that i like him because one of my bestfriends asked him out for me .He makes me get shivers a...

A.   28 December 2009: oh, gosh. i'm sorry about that! but maybe you can harness that feeling of embarrassment to encourage you to keep away from him. i know the more time i spend with my teacher, the more i like him, so hopefully the reverse is true...... (read in full...)

How do I get over my impossible crush?

Q.   Hi, I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school. I have this crush on my teacher--well, he's going to be my calculus (and homeroom) teacher next semester, in a couple months. But he's also my assigned guidance counselor, and I've told him some personal ...

A.   6 December 2009: i know where you're coming from. 've had a crush on my teacher for a year and all guys i've liked are also taken. pm me and we can share experiences!... (read in full...)

I think my teacher may have feelings for me!

Q.   Please help... I think that my teacher may have feelings for me. He gets me out of class and I go to his classroom. I catch him staring at me and he always gives me good grades on assignments. He does things that he doesnt do for other students...

A.   26 November 2009: since he's married i suggest you don't disclose your feelings for him. when you go to college hopefully you'll be too busy to think of him much.... (read in full...)

Is my teacher flirting with me? Could my crush be something more? Help!

Q.   Warning: This question is kind of long. I appreciate all opinions. Thank you for reading! I have a problem and desperately need some advice and help. I know I’m like the majority of teenage girls out there, who have experienced this at one poin...

A.   21 November 2009: i'm in the same situation as well! i'm 17 and my teacher is 30, but he's my social studies teacher... but still. i get where you're coming from. i feel like he's beginning to like you as a friend, and the "flirting" you perceive is merely his frie... (read in full...)

How to stop liking your teacher?

Q.   Okay, so I am a student in my sophmore year in high school. Last year, during grade nine, a new teacher came to the school halfway through the year. Ever since then, I have had this thing for him. He's 27, so I would definitely be jail bait. He just ...

A.   21 November 2009: hmmm... then you should probably stick it out until the class ends and then avoid him like the plague. absence actually doesn't make the heart grow fonder. ;)... (read in full...)

I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!

Q.   This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...

A.   17 November 2009: i can relate, as i had a similar problem last year in history. i found it hard to concentrate at first, but then i started spending a lot of time studying and doing my homework as to impress him. i was still self-conscious, but at least my grades ... (read in full...)

Can a teacher tell when a student fancies them?

Q.   Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know?????...

A.   17 November 2009: and how can we be less obvious about it?... (read in full...)

I love my teacher, but he has a girlfriend!

Q.   I had this teacher for drama in years 7 and 9, we'll call him b. in year 7 i barely noticed him but year 9 i was having a difficult time and he really helped me. Somehow I remember the exact day I started liking him more than a teacher, two years in ...

A.   14 November 2009: I agree. it'll be really hard at first, but you have to try to avoid him. eventually, you'll start to get over him.... (read in full...)

I think my teacher wants me... what should I do?

Q.   Okay well I think maybe I'm just being paranoid but I'm not sure. I think my teacher may like me. I thought he was handsome the first day of class and I was annoyed by this because I didn't want him to distract me from learning. However, the seco...

A.   9 November 2009: if he's making you uncomfortable then you should tell someone.... (read in full...)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   8 November 2009: oh, yay! i'm also extremely happy for you :)... (read in full...)

Should I say something to my Professor about my feelings for him?

Q.   I am going to the local community college where I live and I am 17 I am not very good at science, but I feel like I have a thing for my professor. He's older but he's funny and charming in an odd way. I have been having dreams about him, and I told ...

A.   2 November 2009: how old is he? is he married? children? regardless, you definitely shouldn't tell him until you're out of his class.... (read in full...)

Is my teacher interested?

Q.   should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...

A.   2 November 2009: he's definitely physically attracted to you, but i'm still not convinced that he truly cares about you. can you provide some examples? and you probably shouldn't tell him how you feel unless he gets a divorce.... (read in full...)

Early teenager, wanting to look older without using make-up.

Q.   i put my phone on mute when i was talking to the boy i liked and our friend. when they thought i was off the phone the said something about me and my two best friends. they said one of my friends look like their in highschool, the other looks like ...

A.   1 November 2009: (read in full...)

How can I check my virginity?

Q.   I m doubted that i have broke my hymen during self i dnt remember that I ever seen blood during self can I check my virginity?...

A.   1 November 2009: see a doctor?... (read in full...)

I have a baby face and look younger than I really am..I need tips on how to look older.

Q.   This may seem like a odd question so don't take it too seriously. I am almost 19 years old and I look as though I am 16. I have a "baby face", and it sucks. Of course, this attracts the wrong type of guy, sorry but 15 year olds aren't my type. ...

A.   1 November 2009: don't worry! i'm applying to college right now and someone at a party yesterday asked me if i was in sixth grade. i'm sure we'll both appreciate looking younger as we age! :)... (read in full...)

At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child

Q.   MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...

A.   1 November 2009: well if he truly loves you and is going to stay with you then you should keep it if it's what you want, but wouldn't you like to go to college?... (read in full...)

My teacher is on my mind literally 24/7. Help me get over this!

Q.   Ok, this is going to be kind of long but I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! Hear it goes... I am 15 years old I am totally in love with my business studies teacher since year 8 and I think I’m getting to the point of obsession. I know a lot about him and...

A.   27 October 2009: awww, i'm sorry. i'm going through something similar so i know that this must be difficult for you. is he currently teaching one of your classes? if so, if you can switch out that would be great. try to avoid him as much as possible. that's ... (read in full...)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   25 October 2009: don't feel embarrassed! he seems to have figured out that you do want to confide in him but can't, so he'll understand any strange behavior around him. just give him an embarrassed smile when you see him; the silent recognition and apology for ... (read in full...)

I had an erotic dream about my teacher!

Q.   I had a dream last night.. and I was having sex with my teacher!! It was my 9th grade ELA teacher, we are very good friends and we perform at musical events often. But the strange thing is I could feel what was happening, like I could feel what he ...

A.   23 October 2009: are you the one who asked the question about the teacher you see in church? and i agree. if you were enjoying it it's probably a crush, or you're just experimenting with sexuality in a safe enviornment (ie your dream).... (read in full...)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   23 October 2009: can you go to his classroom before or after school?... (read in full...)

Can any males or male teachers tell me what you think?

Q.   Okay guys, tell me what you think There is this awesome male teacher that used to be my band director in 6-8 grade, but now he is my freshman ELA teacher. We go to church together, and (i play the flute and he plays pretty much everything) perf...

A.   21 October 2009: it is odd that the guy is 39 and still a virgin, though if he's never been married and devout Christian it could make some sense. also, how old are you? i wouldn't necessarily call this guy a pedophile as it's natural for men to be attracte... (read in full...)

My mom kicked me out and I have no idea where to go.

Q.   Hey, I'm 16 (turning 17 in January) and my mom kicked me out. I don't know what to do because my Dad just got kicked out too (sensing a theme anyone?) and he lives with his mom so there's no room for me. This is the first night so I have no idea ...

A.   21 October 2009: child protective services? a halfway house? a friend? another family member?... (read in full...)

Is my teacher crossing the line?

Q.   Okay, there's this teacher at my High School, and I think he kind of flirts with me a little bit, and I just want to know if he might like me too much. First of all, I don't even have him as a teacher, he's only my homeroom advisor. But we h...

A.   19 October 2009: it's unprofessional for him to be touching you, etc. and it seems like you only like him because he might like you. don't waste your time with him; you can do better!... (read in full...)

Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?

Q.   Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...

A.   19 October 2009: i agree. you should definitely confide in him, as he seems to care about you and your well-being.... (read in full...)

Is he a stalker?

Q.   My guy friend, his cousin and I were on the bus. His cousin who’s my best friend asked him if he was my stalker because I ran into him all the time this week. He just smiled and said no like he was admitting it. Today I said hi stalker and he said ...

A.   16 October 2009: i agree with the answer below. it's a crush. don't worry about it! just enjoy :)... (read in full...)

Should I call his bluff and take a chance on losing him?

Q.   A very old friend has recently turned up again. We have known each other for years and he is a friend of my brothers. we have in the past had a kiss here and there and some flirting. Recently we have been talking alot and over the years have gotten ...

A.   14 October 2009: don't call his bluff, call your own! tell him that you really do want to start a relationship... otherwise, you two will get nowhere.... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to a woman who looks like an actor I like

Q.   This will probably sound really weird, but i feel like i am attracted to a woman !. She resembles this actor that i have a crush on, she looks like she could be related to him. I can see that their features are similar. Does this mean i am a lesbian ...

A.   13 October 2009: it sounds like you're just suddenly feeling curious, so don't worry. nothing's wrong with you! if you're attracted to men my guess is that you aren't a lesbian, but straight of bisexual, depending on how much you end up enjoying sex with a woman ... (read in full...)

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