I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!
Q. This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...
A. 17 November 2009: i can relate, as i had a similar problem last year in history. i found it hard to concentrate at first, but then i started spending a lot of time studying and doing my homework as to impress him. i was still self-conscious, but at least my grades ... (read in full...)
Can a teacher tell when a student fancies them?
Q. Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know?????...
A. 17 November 2009: and how can we be less obvious about it?... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, but he has a girlfriend!
Q. I had this teacher for drama in years 7 and 9, we'll call him b. in year 7 i barely noticed him but year 9 i was having a difficult time and he really helped me. Somehow I remember the exact day I started liking him more than a teacher, two years in ...
A. 14 November 2009: I agree. it'll be really hard at first, but you have to try to avoid him. eventually, you'll start to get over him.... (read in full...)
I think my teacher wants me... what should I do?
Q. Okay well I think maybe I'm just being paranoid but I'm not sure. I think my teacher may like me. I thought he was handsome the first day of class and I was annoyed by this because I didn't want him to distract me from learning. However, the seco...
A. 9 November 2009: if he's making you uncomfortable then you should tell someone.... (read in full...)
I think my teacher likes me...am I just misinterpreting his personality?
Q. I think my teacher likes me. I'm 14 and he's 30. So it started last year. From the first time I saw him, I knew I liked him. I didnt tell my friends, I knew that they'd tease me. To me, hes absolutely beautiful, he's perfect in every way. No-one e...
A. 9 November 2009: yeah. that sounds a bit too flirty... especially the whole taking pictures thing. it would be best to distance yourself from him, which i know is hard.
good luck... (read in full...)
Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?
Q. Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...
A. 8 November 2009: oh, yay! i'm also extremely happy for you :)... (read in full...)
Should I say something to my Professor about my feelings for him?
Q. I am going to the local community college where I live and I am 17 I am not very good at science, but I feel like I have a thing for my professor. He's older but he's funny and charming in an odd way. I have been having dreams about him, and I told ...
A. 2 November 2009: how old is he? is he married? children?
regardless, you definitely shouldn't tell him until you're out of his class.... (read in full...)
I think my teacher has feelings for me, what do you think?
Q. Well first of all, hi there! :) Anywho, the question pretty much sums everything up, I believe there could be a chance that my teacher likes me. I know myself that I have strong feelings towards him and I can't exactly say it's a crush because I'...
A. 2 November 2009: awww! it's so cute that i wish there was more!!! :)
to answer your question, i think that he does have feelings for you and you're age difference isn't big enough to be an issue in my book.
it seems to me that when the time comes he'll come... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 2 November 2009: he's definitely physically attracted to you, but i'm still not convinced that he truly cares about you. can you provide some examples?
and you probably shouldn't tell him how you feel unless he gets a divorce.... (read in full...)
Early teenager, wanting to look older without using make-up.
Q. i put my phone on mute when i was talking to the boy i liked and our friend. when they thought i was off the phone the said something about me and my two best friends. they said one of my friends look like their in highschool, the other looks like ...
A. 1 November 2009: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-tips-on-how-to-look-older.html... (read in full...)
How can I check my virginity?
Q. I m doubted that i have broke my hymen during self pleasuring.bt i dnt remember that I ever seen blood during self pleasuring.how can I check my virginity?...
A. 1 November 2009: see a doctor?... (read in full...)
I have a baby face and look younger than I really am..I need tips on how to look older.
Q. This may seem like a odd question so don't take it too seriously. I am almost 19 years old and I look as though I am 16. I have a "baby face", and it sucks. Of course, this attracts the wrong type of guy, sorry but 15 year olds aren't my type. ...
A. 1 November 2009: don't worry! i'm applying to college right now and someone at a party yesterday asked me if i was in sixth grade. i'm sure we'll both appreciate looking younger as we age! :)... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 1 November 2009: well if he truly loves you and is going to stay with you then you should keep it if it's what you want, but wouldn't you like to go to college?... (read in full...)
Does my male teacher likes me? A simple yes or no may help.
Q. I hope someone can help me figure this out. I have a crush on a Science teacher in our school since I was still in grade 5 and I'm pretty sure he already knew about that because the class would always tease us those times. I'm just 15 and he's...
A. 27 October 2009: yeah... the talking on the phone and commenting on your picture felt a tad wrong to me too. i think that he is somewhat attracted to you.
if you really don't want to take it further, i recommend you avoid him.
but if you do, wait until you'r... (read in full...)
My teacher is on my mind literally 24/7. Help me get over this!
Q. Ok, this is going to be kind of long but I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! Hear it goes... I am 15 years old I am totally in love with my business studies teacher since year 8 and I think I’m getting to the point of obsession. I know a lot about him and...
A. 27 October 2009: awww, i'm sorry. i'm going through something similar so i know that this must be difficult for you.
is he currently teaching one of your classes? if so, if you can switch out that would be great. try to avoid him as much as possible.
that's ... (read in full...)
Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?
Q. Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...
A. 25 October 2009: don't feel embarrassed! he seems to have figured out that you do want to confide in him but can't, so he'll understand any strange behavior around him. just give him an embarrassed smile when you see him; the silent recognition and apology for ... (read in full...)
I had an erotic dream about my teacher!
Q. I had a dream last night.. and I was having sex with my teacher!! It was my 9th grade ELA teacher, we are very good friends and we perform at musical events often. But the strange thing is I could feel what was happening, like I could feel what he ...
A. 23 October 2009: are you the one who asked the question about the teacher you see in church? and i agree. if you were enjoying it it's probably a crush, or you're just experimenting with sexuality in a safe enviornment (ie your dream).... (read in full...)
Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?
Q. Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...
A. 23 October 2009: can you go to his classroom before or after school?... (read in full...)
Can any males or male teachers tell me what you think?
Q. Okay guys, tell me what you think There is this awesome male teacher that used to be my band director in 6-8 grade, but now he is my freshman ELA teacher. We go to church together, and (i play the flute and he plays pretty much everything) perf...
A. 21 October 2009: it is odd that the guy is 39 and still a virgin, though if he's never been married and devout Christian it could make some sense.
also, how old are you? i wouldn't necessarily call this guy a pedophile as it's natural for men to be attracte... (read in full...)
My mom kicked me out and I have no idea where to go.
Q. Hey, I'm 16 (turning 17 in January) and my mom kicked me out. I don't know what to do because my Dad just got kicked out too (sensing a theme anyone?) and he lives with his mom so there's no room for me. This is the first night so I have no idea ...
A. 21 October 2009: child protective services? a halfway house? a friend? another family member?... (read in full...)
Is my teacher crossing the line?
Q. Okay, there's this teacher at my High School, and I think he kind of flirts with me a little bit, and I just want to know if he might like me too much. First of all, I don't even have him as a teacher, he's only my homeroom advisor. But we h...
A. 19 October 2009: it's unprofessional for him to be touching you, etc. and it seems like you only like him because he might like you. don't waste your time with him; you can do better!... (read in full...)
Should I confide in my teacher about my problems at home?
Q. Alright so for the past couple years I've been having trouble at home with my dad and fights every couple of weeks would either result in me getting kicked out for a couple of weeks or me leaving my house for a couple of weeks. Now somehow 3 of my ...
A. 19 October 2009: i agree. you should definitely confide in him, as he seems to care about you and your well-being.... (read in full...)
Is he a stalker?
Q. My guy friend, his cousin and I were on the bus. His cousin who’s my best friend asked him if he was my stalker because I ran into him all the time this week. He just smiled and said no like he was admitting it. Today I said hi stalker and he said ...
A. 16 October 2009: i agree with the answer below. it's a crush. don't worry about it! just enjoy :)... (read in full...)
Should I call his bluff and take a chance on losing him?
Q. A very old friend has recently turned up again. We have known each other for years and he is a friend of my brothers. we have in the past had a kiss here and there and some flirting. Recently we have been talking alot and over the years have gotten ...
A. 14 October 2009: don't call his bluff, call your own! tell him that you really do want to start a relationship... otherwise, you two will get nowhere.... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a woman who looks like an actor I like
Q. This will probably sound really weird, but i feel like i am attracted to a woman !. She resembles this actor that i have a crush on, she looks like she could be related to him. I can see that their features are similar. Does this mean i am a lesbian ...
A. 13 October 2009: it sounds like you're just suddenly feeling curious, so don't worry. nothing's wrong with you!
if you're attracted to men my guess is that you aren't a lesbian, but straight of bisexual, depending on how much you end up enjoying sex with a woman ... (read in full...)
I've just had sex with my TEACHER!
Q. I've had sex with my teacher last week and I don't know what to do. I can't look him in the eyes any more, I feel ashamed and bad. Can somebody give me an advice what to do?...
A. 13 October 2009: if you were unwilling, it's rape. i hope you contacted the police.
can you call your uncle???... (read in full...)
I am in love with my ex-teacher in highschool, what do I do?
Q. I am in love with someone which is possibly a huge plus. A problem with this love is its for my ex teacher from high school. I am now in college and have known him for three years. He has no clue, but i think he sees us as friends or at least more ...
A. 13 October 2009: i agree! if he feels the same way, then you should definitely go for it! ...but in order to judge that, i'd like to hear the other examples. :)... (read in full...)
I'll always be thinking that it could have been me!
Q. I've just found out that the love of my life will be moving back to my hometown in a few months.... with his fiancée! I'll have to tell you guys a little bit of our history so you'll understand the situation I'm in - right now I'm terrible unhappy...
A. 11 October 2009: can you move away? that way, you won't have to see them. you can get a fresh start.... (read in full...)
I like my teacher and need advice!
Q. I am a mature student at uni. I like this teacher a lot, he's interesting intelligent, funny. I think he's hot (for some reason no-one agrees, they are all clearly blind in my opinion!)He's single and he says he has no friends and niether do I. ...
A. 11 October 2009: maybe go see him for "help." usually, you end up talking about things you have in common, and it might help you gage how compatible you'd be.
i don't see any problem with you two dating after you're no longer his student. are you in grad-sch... (read in full...)
31 year old and an 18 year old???
Q. hey I'm turning 18 in october and i've been head over heels for a former teacher that I had a while ago. He's turning 31 this year i think. would it be ok if i dated a 31 yr old once i graduated high school. cuz in school will def be wrong even ...
A. 6 October 2009: i don't see why not! my parents are 14 years apart... (read in full...)
Why is it that so many men choose to be dishonest to women?
Q. What is this code with men? Why is it that so many men choose to be dishonest to women, all women and be "men" with each other, you know drink, womanize, even cheat on their women and then look that woman in the face and act like they know nothin...
A. 6 October 2009: natural selection. if they told us the truth, we probably wouldn't want to marry and reproduce with most of them.... (read in full...)
I gave teacher a BJ under the desk, can we get in trouble?
Q. i just turned 18 and i'm graduating high school this year. ive had a teacher for 3 years now that i have fantasized about for a long time and friday i gave him a blowjob underneath his desk. will we get in trouble? he just got a divorce so do you ...
A. 6 October 2009: i agree with the guy below! as long as no one knows, you two will be fine and then you can start dating when you graduate! :)... (read in full...)
Should I move on or email him? It's an online, LDR.
Q. I have been talking to a 45 year old man (I'm 23) over the internet for about 5 months now. He lives about 13 hours away from me and I plan on moving to the state he lives in, in about 3 months (for college). Hes not married (is divorced). So we ...
A. 6 October 2009: is it possible that he didn't get them or suddenly got too busy to write?
i'd try sending a casual hey, i haven't heard from you in a while sort of thing.
good luck!... (read in full...)
How can I get over my spanish teacher?
Q. i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher ...
A. 5 October 2009: If you stay away for a few weeks it WILL begin to go away. I mean, how do you think you're gonna feel when you graduate? It's gonna hurt; it always does. and keep in mind that going to see her often can get her in trouble too if suspicion arises... (read in full...)
My teacher thinks I like him and now he's avoiding me
Q. I have a new teacher this year who is 24 and has a very friendly open personality. The type that is often more of your friends and discusses DS games. Up until a few weeks ago he has always being nice to me, since then he has been very distant, bu...
A. 5 October 2009: hmmm... that's tough. you may not be able to be physically distant, but you can be emotionally distant, ie. not being particularly friendly (but not rude either... just neutral). i'm not sure what else to tell you though... what were you normal... (read in full...)
Why am I attracted to my guitar teacher and older men?
Q. I have a crush on my teacher. He is my guitar teacher and he is awesome and we have so much in common. He does private lessons with me and my best friend and I had a dream yesterday that my best friend was ill and he tought me on my own. He put his ...
A. 4 October 2009: oh, yes! i'm also mostly attracted to older men as well. in fact, there is evolutionary reasoning behind it (older men tend to be attracted to younger, more fertile girls, etc.) so have no fear!... (read in full...)
How can I get over my spanish teacher?
Q. i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher ...
A. 4 October 2009: hmmm... well that was out of line for her to tell you that, considering your not-even-close-to-legal age and the fact that she's you teacher.
if she ever gets a divorce in the future, it would be fine to date her, but you're definitely right ab... (read in full...)
Are there stereotypes about cowboy boots I am unaware of?
Q. I am a 26-year old young professional and I have been dating a 30-year old man for almost two years. I recently mentioned that I wanted a pair of cowboy boots to wear over jeans just to go around the town with him because I liked the look. He pr...
A. 4 October 2009: i agree! lose him.
also, cowboy boots (and any leather boots for that matter) are in for fall... you i say go for it!... (read in full...)
How can I get over my spanish teacher?
Q. i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher ...
A. 3 October 2009: she told you that she loves you romantically? because everything she's doing could just be friendly.... (read in full...)
How can I get over my spanish teacher?
Q. i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher ...
A. 25 September 2009: in order to truly get over her, you'd have to stop going to see her.
i know that for me, my teacher-crushes tend to feel less intense during the summer when they aren't there everyday to remind me of how funny, attractive, etc. they are.... (read in full...)
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