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Should I worry that he has stopped texting?

Q.   So I have spent a total of 19 days with my current guy I'm seeing we have been together for 3 months and known each other for 4 I know I love him he says he loves me, he was the first to romanicly take me in his arms and tell me in my ear I know ...

A.   25 December 2013: I have asked him that question if the reason he is with me is because I will do many things with him that others would not. I equally enjoy everything we do I actually suggested many things and find out he enjoys the same so it's amazing to know ... (read in full...)

I'd like at least one photo of him!

Q.   Okay guys here is my biggest challenge. My new bf does not want me to take photos of him or even with him. How can I convinc him or make a deal to be able to take maybe just 1? He said even his mom has almost no photos of him. The years books don't ...

A.   24 October 2013: We are actually a couple now he asked me to be serious with him. He is a really great guy. So many things we click on. ... (read in full...)

I'd like at least one photo of him!

Q.   Okay guys here is my biggest challenge. My new bf does not want me to take photos of him or even with him. How can I convinc him or make a deal to be able to take maybe just 1? He said even his mom has almost no photos of him. The years books don't ...

A.   24 October 2013: I have been to his parents house and he is defiantly telling me the truth with everything he wants to be with me forever. He has a Facebook I found it, but he has no photos and the photos I do have of him are not very good. He told me he hates ... (read in full...)

Does he care about me? He's so busy training!

Q.   I am in a new relationship where we have not yet decided if we want to take it real serious yet. We have just been getting to know each other. He has decided to get back into MMA fighting which I don't mind, but his time is going to become consumed ...

A.   24 September 2013: I hope soo I really like him and its going well so far. We do have plans on Friday do I just hope it works out and he doesn't chose to not Perdue me in the tome frame before Friday. ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to text a FWB every day?

Q.   I am recently out of a relationship, but I would still like to find a guy to have a no strings attached kind of relationship. I have met this person I think. I think he may actually care about me which is great and makes me only not sure what is ...

A.   2 September 2013: Ii'm just new to it honestly, I don't know anything that's why I am asking. thanks.... (read in full...)

He can't seem to feel love for me. He does care about me. Should I break up with him? Or are there other options to consider?

Q.   My bf and I have been together for 2 1/2 years we live together and get along great. All the arguments stopped once we started living together and everything flows great. The one problem we still have, is that he can't seem to feel love for me. ...

A.   3 May 2013: He has never been able to tell me that he loves me, but every time I ask him if he is still wanting to be with me he says yes. I'm starting to think he is with me because he does not want to see me sad if we broke up. I caught a conversation he had ... (read in full...)

My supervisor flirts with me but I just found out he is gay!

Q.   I have a supervisor at my job who always seems like he is flirting, I mean he will come stand me and starts singing songs, asking me dumb questions, and trying to joke with me like guys normally would do if they are trying to get a girls attention. ...

A.   12 April 2013: I don't talk to anyone at work about how I feel. Heck no. Just the roommates I live with and that's one person. I was told he was gay so I'm not sure i believe it just because what I have experienced. I don't mind that he seems to flirt with m... (read in full...)

My supervisor flirts with me but I just found out he is gay!

Q.   I have a supervisor at my job who always seems like he is flirting, I mean he will come stand me and starts singing songs, asking me dumb questions, and trying to joke with me like guys normally would do if they are trying to get a girls attention. ...

A.   12 April 2013: I do to talk to anyone at work about how I feel. Heck no. Just the roommates I live with and that's one person. ... (read in full...)

Should I talk to him about our cuddling while we slept in the same bed?

Q.   I have a friend that I have known for 3 years we almost dated once, but chose to be friends and its made our friendship pretty strong. The other night I was visiting him at his house and he told me I could sleep over if I want. I made the choice to ...

A.   18 March 2013: I never said anyone did judge me. ... (read in full...)

Should I talk to him about our cuddling while we slept in the same bed?

Q.   I have a friend that I have known for 3 years we almost dated once, but chose to be friends and its made our friendship pretty strong. The other night I was visiting him at his house and he told me I could sleep over if I want. I made the choice to ...

A.   18 March 2013: I am sorry for the confusion of this title, I did not create it dearcupid did. I do like my friend more than friends, but I don't know what changed all the sudden. My last relationship was so dead. I keep thinking maybe that is why.I think I truly ... (read in full...)

Should I talk to him about our cuddling while we slept in the same bed?

Q.   I have a friend that I have known for 3 years we almost dated once, but chose to be friends and its made our friendship pretty strong. The other night I was visiting him at his house and he told me I could sleep over if I want. I made the choice to ...

A.   18 March 2013: Let me be clear I never said it was inappropriate the website made up this title. I am not mad about him touching me, I liked it. I was in his bed, but I was not thinking anything would happen cause of us not really being touchy feely with each ... (read in full...)

Did I make a mistake turning down my friend for a relationship?

Q.   I have a friend, that I have known for 2 and a 1/2 years and Sometimes I still go back to when we first meet and I made the choice to not be more than friends with him. I sometimes feel like i'm not sure if I made the right choice. I see us both now ...

A.   6 March 2013: Thanks ... (read in full...)

Should I choose a different Doctor? When I met the new Doctor I realised that I've slept with him and his wife. He was professional when I saw him recently.

Q.   Okay this is an odd thing that happened to me, I went to the doctors because I have been having some bad neck pains so I just randomly picked a doctor and when I finally meet the doctor I actually know him and have slept with him and his wife when I ...

A.   27 October 2012: Yeah I am not sure how he feels and I don't see how I could ever really ask him. He is one of the best in his field. I don't plan on trying anything cause I am at a different part in my life now and that sexual fun with him and his wife was 5 years ... (read in full...)

Feeling uncomfortable around this girl because she has slept with every guy I hang out with, including my boyfriend!

Q.   I feel kind strange when ever this girl Taby comes and hangs with my friends and my bf, because she has slept with every guy in the room even my bf once. I just wonder if I can ever be okay in the same room or if I have a legit reason it feel ...

A.   16 September 2012: She is a hoe that's all and I don't want her around me. ... (read in full...)

Feeling uncomfortable around this girl because she has slept with every guy I hang out with, including my boyfriend!

Q.   I feel kind strange when ever this girl Taby comes and hangs with my friends and my bf, because she has slept with every guy in the room even my bf once. I just wonder if I can ever be okay in the same room or if I have a legit reason it feel ...

A.   16 September 2012: No no no no no no no... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I freaked out my friend when I told her about my past!

Q.   My issues is not about any guy, but relationship I have with a very good teacher of mine. My teacher has been inspiration in the search for goal because the job she had in her field is where I would like to be some day. We seemed to be pretty good ...

A.   14 September 2012: Oh I am fine I got help years ago and I do see someone if I need too. I was just worried about the application possess and that's the whole reason any of it came up. ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I freaked out my friend when I told her about my past!

Q.   My issues is not about any guy, but relationship I have with a very good teacher of mine. My teacher has been inspiration in the search for goal because the job she had in her field is where I would like to be some day. We seemed to be pretty good ...

A.   13 September 2012: She is an ex forensic investigator so I also did not think anything I said would be something she could not handle. I also asked her before hand if she was okay with me talking about something personal and she said yes. I tried my best to approach ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I freaked out my friend when I told her about my past!

Q.   My issues is not about any guy, but relationship I have with a very good teacher of mine. My teacher has been inspiration in the search for goal because the job she had in her field is where I would like to be some day. We seemed to be pretty good ...

A.   13 September 2012: Ok well what am I supposed to do now?... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I freaked out my friend when I told her about my past!

Q.   My issues is not about any guy, but relationship I have with a very good teacher of mine. My teacher has been inspiration in the search for goal because the job she had in her field is where I would like to be some day. We seemed to be pretty good ...

A.   12 September 2012: She is someone I trust. ... (read in full...)

I think he needs to accept that he did something while drunk, how do I discuss it with him?

Q.   I kinda had a small bump with my boyfriend. We did not see each other this weekend which is fine I made this choice, but I called him last night to talk to him for a bit before I went to bed and he was drunk. He was playing a world wide online video ...

A.   25 April 2012: Well that would be why I ask people and did not go to him with it duh. I thank you for your hurtful comments and I don't understand why it's so rude I am not always like this I just had a question, so that I did not get in his face with something ... (read in full...)

I didn't like what I found when I logged into my boyfriend's facebook

Q.   I feel so bad and guilt because I found out my bf's password for facebook and chose to log into it today and I looked at a conversation that he had with one of his male friends the most recent person he talked too. So I found something I did not ...

A.   14 April 2012: well I tried my best to ask him if anything crazy happened on friday, but he would not tell me about the incident that I saw on his facebook. I have not logged in again and will not again, but I guess I will just have to let it all go.... (read in full...)

Suddenly he wants Fridays to himself, leaving us with only Saturday! I don't like this!

Q.   Okay so me and my bf have been together for about 1 and a 1/2 years, and for the longest time we have always spent time together on Friday and Saturday, but the following week my bf likes to host a poker game where a bunch of guys come over to play ...

A.   29 February 2012: I am not High maintenance and if you read anything I wrote you would see that I give him plenty of time during the week to do what ever the heck he wants and I just don't understand why I need to give him Friday cause even on Saturday when we are ... (read in full...)

The ex and her text

Q.   I feel like I go crazy every single time I see my boyfriends ex commenting on his facebook status I just wish she was not there or even in his friends. Every time I ask him to delete her, he says he is afraid it will cause drama. My thought is she ...

A.   20 January 2012: You guys are great thanks so much for the help. :D... (read in full...)

My boyfriend does really crazy things to be entertaining. I'm not sure if I want to be with him!

Q.   I just don't understand my boyfriend. He enjoys drinking, but when I am not around he does crazy things when people are around. Its like he needs to be the entertainment. People always look to him for the entertainment and whatever idea they come up ...

A.   3 January 2012: The thing is the puke drinking thing happened about 2 months ago he told me about it and it made me slightly upset but he told me he did not actually drink it but now a video has surfaced of him doing it and it just bothers me very much now again.... (read in full...)

How is he still confused about how he feels after being with me for a year?

Q.   I just want to know is it possible to be confused on if you love someone or not for almost a full year? The man I am with has been unsure about how he feels for a while. This does not make me want to leave him, but it sure makes it hard for me when ...

A.   1 November 2011: Yes we see each other every weekend he has declared saturday as our day to spend together and will let no one else get in the way of it. He is always there for me when i need him and he lets me talk about anything i want and never feels angry about ... (read in full...)

I'd really like him to try oral

Q.   I don't know if I am wrong to ask this but I am dieing to have my boyfriend eat me out but he is not to sure about doing it but I really want him to try it. I want him to be comfortable and just try a new thing with me how can I help ease him into ...

A.   13 August 2011: One side note I must add is my boyfriend has said one thing that maybe why there is this tiny issue he said that he thinks a women and males genitals are not appealing to him. I told him they are to me and most people do like parts of the body on a ... (read in full...)

Multiple orgasms must be amazing - WHY don't women want to have sex all day?

Q.   Ever since I was with my first "serious" girlfriend, I've envied womens' ability to have multiple orgasms. When she got going, she'd have one after another with only a few seconds (if that) in between for a couple minutes, I'd have my one "little" ...

A.   14 June 2011: I just so happen to be one of the rare women who has multiple orgasms I love it and I actually always say I have a sex drive like a man cause I always want sex. Most men I have been with could handle my sexual drive but most times my drive was high ... (read in full...)

How do you feel about yourself? How does this opinion affect your relationships?

Q.   Sort of a big question here, I just want opinions. How do you feel about yourself? How does this opinion affect your relationships? The reason I ask is because I have very low self-esteem, which I am working on but it always comes back to bite me ...

A.   14 June 2011: Its a big problem my current boyfriend has this almost same problem you have. He almost never knows how he feels about anything he does and he feels he is not good enough for me even thought some where in there he knows he is so he stays with me ... (read in full...)

Dating nearly 8 months and still no kiss?!?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months, and we still have yet to kiss. We cuddle and stuff, but he just won't kiss me. When I ask him about it, he trys to change the subject and such. I know this wouldn't be his first kiss, but why ...

A.   14 June 2011: he is either very afraid he is going to screw up or maybe he is with someone else and feels if he kisses you that officially means he is cheating. Its a very small possibility so I would go more with the he is afraid he is going to screw up, so try ... (read in full...)

Should I apologize to my friend?

Q.   Well...I made an offensive joke to my friend who is trying to be religious now. Sometimes I'm a bit harsh and so I made a joke and I told her she cannot watch a movie with Witches and Wizards if she believes in God. (I said that because she told...

A.   14 June 2011: God does not hate you if you are bisexual you can do whatever you want I am bisexual and I still believe in God and I was raised Catholic that's a more strict religion than Christian so I say :P to it all you have a right to say how you feel and if ... (read in full...)

Am I being too needy? Seems I initiate everything. He cancels dates. It unsettles me.

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 2 months and we have just became a couple. It wasn't discussed we just have such a connection. Which is what drew him to approach me in the first place. He has 3 kids and a ex and its recent. Hes writing a book and ...

A.   14 June 2011: Well guys don't call or text you if they already know you are always going to be there and available meaning you always initiate so why should he move a muscle when you are doing it all. One thing you really should try to do is not call him or text ... (read in full...)

She says I was her first for everything except phone sex!

Q.   ok so i feel bad for not trusting my girlfriend but every story iv heard about peoples first times and such dont match when we first had sex and she swears up and down she was a virgin weve been dating for 2 years and 4 months i found out about 6-8 ...

A.   14 June 2011: I am sorry to say but since she is young as you are I assume she maybe stretching the truth on what she has and has not done but it is also possible she does not want to tell you if she did something cause it was not great to her and does not matter ... (read in full...)

I need a good role model to confide in!

Q.   the last day of schools tomorrow, and then im back to being lonely.. no more confiding in my teacher for months.. whats even worse is that my brothers ex girlfriend, im not allowed to talk to her anymore. when she was the only one who tried to be ...

A.   14 June 2011: What is the real problem hear? Why are you running to random people for role models? Do you not really have any friend or people to talk to? ... (read in full...)

Trying to come to terms with being 3 months pregnant and getting hate texts from the father and his wife.

Q.   i started meetin a fellow which i taught to be very nice. was seeing him for about two months when he told my sister that he would like to get me pregnant but for as i have 3 kids myself i felt like i had my lot and was in no way interested in havin ...

A.   14 June 2011: Well screw the wife in this situation but he needs to grow some balls and be there for this baby since in all honesty he wanted to have a kid so badly and you did not but now the moment is here and he is being a dick because of the wife. You need to ... (read in full...)

Do you think its ok to have a couple's profile on Facebook and for me and my BF to share it together?

Q.   My boyfriend made the suggestion last night that we delete both of our facebook profiles and create a new one that is a couples profile and share it together that way the people that add us or that are real true friends will not have a problem ...

A.   2 June 2011: The whole reason this conversation even happened is because there is someone i really really don't like and is very disrespectful to me personally and she is a person in his facebook so I said to him I really wish you would delete that person if she ... (read in full...)

My aunt hates me now and I don't know why

Q.   what do I do I am so upset? My aunt and me live kinda far but we have always been kinda close even because she is not just my aunt she is my godmother and so it means a little more to us usually. Well I went to send a request on facebook for her to ...

A.   10 March 2011: She has actually always been weary about facebook herself but I only have facebook to be able to keep in contact with my family other than that I would not be able too. SO this is why I am kinda taken back but she is going to be here next week so I ... (read in full...)

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