Are there signs that she might be interested?
Q. Hi All, Bit of a long story this one but I think you’ll find it amusing if nothing else! I really like this girl. I’m fine chatting to her and joking around but there are moments where I get confused… Is she interested? Is she just being ni...
A. 14 February 2008: All the things that you have mentioned and find yourself embarassed about are actually very cute. You have probably made some impressions on her already by those two incidents...she will remember you. Now if she does like you then those incidents ... (read in full...)
Having trouble finding a partner as I am overweight, any advice?
Q. I am a 16 years old and have no trouble making friends but i have trouble finding a boy that wants to be more than just a friend because i am overweight does anybody have any advice...
A. 14 February 2008: It doesnt take a life time to lose weight....It is good that you are aware. Just try to lose weight slowly....give yourself small targets like half a stone in a month and then another half the next month or so on. If you just incorporate half and ... (read in full...)
My parents don't like her parents and therefore disapprove of my relationship with her. What do I do? Please my parents and lose my love?
Q. My name is Amit, Ive been dating a girl called Kajal - its been 4 years. Our parents knew of the relationship and we have subsequently started a business together and have plans buying a property, but we are not married. The relationship has...
A. 6 February 2008: I have to admit with all the aunts here. I am an indian girl myself and we got married in similar traditions. We also had 350 people in our wedding but the boy's side basically agreed with no alcohol and no meat as in reality whatever the girl's ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a man to be 'easy' but not a woman??
Q. I've known this man for 6 months. We went out for a drink one night and I went to his house afterwards. We had sex for the first time. Days after he says a good woman should not follow a man home and have sex on the first night. I am just too ...
A. 1 December 2007: well said phil...well said... (read in full...)
How do women want to be treated, nice doesn't seem to work, or am I too nice.
Q. OK, Im starting to get the picture, My gf is seeing that im insecure, boyish emotionally and not allowing my normal, assertive nature to show in my relationship... How do I change the way I see myself in relationships. I need to show the strength ...
A. 10 October 2007: This may sound a little harsh but i don't think you both are right for each other. You think you can't live without her so that's why you end up feeling insecure in your relationship that you might lose her....the moment you stop thinking like that ... (read in full...)
Guys, how would you feel to be asked out??
Q. hi there..a question for all you guys??? how would you feel if a woman asked you out??? im 27 years old, met up with a guy , but not sure if he is interested...should i ask him out first? he seems shy though......
A. 22 February 2007: Ponungalungb...."Bow Wow" what does this mean??... (read in full...)
I don't fancy this girl physically but her personality blows me away! Should I ask her out?
Q. Hi, I'm 27 and i've never had a girlfriend. Thing is i know a girl i met in college last year (she's 21), i honestly don't find her physically attractive, but her personality blows me away, in that respect she is truely beautiful. B...
A. 17 February 2007: Personality for me will always be the major attraction. I have always looked for real substance in men or women even in normal friendships. I have to a have good laugh with people and could be able to tolerate them for few good hours before i say ... (read in full...)
It's went from a kiss on the cheek to a kiss on the lips. Is this a sign that our friendship is getting closer?
Q. I have known my friend for about a year now, we go out usually with her sister and her hubby, whenever we say goodbye I give her a kiss on cheek as friends do, however, this went to kiss on cheek hug and anotha kiss on cheek, and over the last month ...
A. 17 February 2007: From a woman's point of view i can assure you that she would feel the same way otherwise she would have objected to your little peck on th lips. I have often said to my close friends about this ...that sometimes men take advantage of kissing on a ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend so critical about physical appearance?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I am just beginning to realize that he is very critical about physical apperance. I love him and want to be with him but he just doesnt get that when he makes critical comments that it really damages me. ...
A. 11 February 2007: I have been in a similar situation myself but that was ages ago...i took a break from him and started doing new things and making new friends that defintely changed me into a NEW ME and I loved it. I was no longer in his control and I enjoyed my ... (read in full...)
He's more interested in his computer and his ipod...than me! What can I do?
Q. I've been married for 10 years, have 2 kids and for the last 3 years have had sex with my husband maybe 3 times. I wear size 4 clothes, run at least 3 times a day try very hard not to look frumpy and even where sexy nightgowns. Everything I do ...
A. 29 January 2007: "I'm too young to have a relationship based solely on companionship" so what's the basis of your realtionship it its not companionship....may be that's what he is missing. Even if a man was married to a supermodel with real fit figure he still wants ... (read in full...)
Whats it like to live in Canada ?
Q. Hey everyone, Has anybody got an insight of how Canada is? We might move there in few years. Does anybody know how is it like to live there in terms of people,culture, job prospects, houses prices etc? It will be greatly appreciated....
A. 3 October 2006: Pumpkin carving, field trips to the Planetarium, Heritage Farms, milk factory... AAWWW!!! Were they not those wonderful days..no worries, no responsibilities and absolute bliss. I would love my little one to have the same experiences.
Eh! thanks m... (read in full...)
Whats it like to live in Canada ?
Q. Hey everyone, Has anybody got an insight of how Canada is? We might move there in few years. Does anybody know how is it like to live there in terms of people,culture, job prospects, houses prices etc? It will be greatly appreciated....
A. 2 October 2006: hey,guys thanks for all your responses...i really needed some insight from people who are actually living there to get the feel for how is it like to live in Canada.
Also, thanks Martini for your unbiased view towards it. I am a little disappoi... (read in full...)
I've had affairs, I've not been a great husband (but I am trying), and I've been a cross-dresser... But I can't get the image of my wife's affair in 1969 out of my head!
Q. in 1969 my wife had a relationship with a close friend it lasted only about two weeks and they had sex twice, she realised she had made a terrible mistake and finished it although my friend continued coming round to the house , often at my ...
A. 1 August 2006: BINGO!!! There is a wise say "what goes around comes around".
Ghosh!! What i am not sure here is that are you really feeling bad about your wife's mistake? or are you feeling guilty of your own past and may be trying to justify it by blaming ... (read in full...)
Breast feeding my new baby has some ... interesting effects on me!
Q. Hello, I am a 27 year old new mom. This will sound weird but I'm very embarrassed to ask this to any friends or family, as it is obviously a little strange. I breast feed, and every time I do so, I get turned on. Now I would NEVER do anything...
A. 27 June 2006: As snowbird rightly mentioned...it's perfectly normal. You are going through the most beautiful patch of motherhood, it is the best stage in a women's life to be able to have a great bond with her young one. So don't worry about it and enjoy.... (read in full...)
Are the nice guys boring and do girls prefer a bastard? Views please!
Q. Be honest, Do most girls love a bastard? Is it sexy or a turn on? I know that doormats aren't sexy but they usually treat their woman right. A guy who is a bastard and keeps to the 'treat em mean keep em keen' regime usually gets on all right in the ...
A. 26 June 2006: Well ...i guess everybody is right and have their own opinion. I have to say, there is that age element as well though. I always use to get attracted to older boys or older men who are more experienced. When i was 18 ...i saw things with different ... (read in full...)
Guys turn me on more then girls, does this mean Im gay ?
Q. WOOHAA got some confusing stuff to ask, I'm 21, never been out with a chick intimately, "still pure" lol Never felt the urge to be in a relationship, but I saw a nude picture of a hot chick the other day, I just felt embarrassed and blushed. To...
A. 22 June 2006: yes u are probably right Dr Pete, it is a shame.....not an argument about religion though ...it's an argument of humanity and basic human rights that does not even exists in india. I don't know whether its a good thing or a bad thing but sex before ... (read in full...)
Guys turn me on more then girls, does this mean Im gay ?
Q. WOOHAA got some confusing stuff to ask, I'm 21, never been out with a chick intimately, "still pure" lol Never felt the urge to be in a relationship, but I saw a nude picture of a hot chick the other day, I just felt embarrassed and blushed. To...
A. 21 June 2006: hey, atleast u have got an option living in this free country to try having sex whether with male or female. i come from india ....so it's tough....if you are a man you have to marry a woman and vice versa.....and yes you have to remain virgin until ... (read in full...)
Ever since the baby arrived I'm not sure I love my partner as a lover anymore... More as a friend!
Q. Help, I'm a very confused dad in what I feel is a difficult situation and need some impartial advice to help see my family and myself through this... I've been in a relationship (not married) for 10 years which most people think of as perfect bu...
A. 21 June 2006: Sounds to me that you are running out of energy and fuel at this satge. I can understand your situation as i have a 21 months old child myself and i am in my mid 20's. Having a child in your life does change a lot. It is a constant battlefield of ... (read in full...)
How do I masturbate? Advice please?
Q. i'm 15. i dont masturbate. am i ment to? cos a lot of people say everybody maturbates. second question is how do you masturbate?...
A. 20 June 2006: aaahhh chinese bunny... (read in full...)
How do I masturbate? Advice please?
Q. i'm 15. i dont masturbate. am i ment to? cos a lot of people say everybody maturbates. second question is how do you masturbate?...
A. 19 June 2006: eeehhh that is a weird fantasy indeed !!! martini....how boring this site would be if we didn't hear your special verdicts everyday.
By the way just wondering what's that animal picture on the side of ur name. i still haven't worked it out. I wond... (read in full...)
I like an older person and have a bad crush
Q. I think i like someone i shouldnt. I used to crave for just being able to talk to him for 5 minutes a day and now his not there anymore and i miss him heaps because he was really nice and was just like a male role model because his older than me. ...
A. 19 June 2006: I know where's that coming from....been there myself. Well atleast u are aware of ur feelings that u like someone that u shouldn't. I made myself very busy...that really helped.
That's all i can suggest that is BEST.... (read in full...)
Help! It's be a year and i'm still not over him.
Q. Hi, I went out with this lad 3 times and I really thought I liked him but he messed me around, so I was the one who always broke us up. He keeps asking my friends out just to spite me and he's even told my other friends that he was messing arou...
A. 19 June 2006: U really need to find something else to focus on...DONOT ever have anything to do with people who mess you around. Don't let yourself treated like that right from the beginning cos if u do, you will always have to and you will be the one who will ... (read in full...)
It creeps me out when a guy touches me...am I doomed to never be intimiate!?
Q. Hi I'm 22 years old, and haven't been intimate with any guys until recently. I didnt have sex, but everything else...the thing is, the first time I was really drunk (i still wanted to, i had for awhile) and i enjoyed it. But the 2nd time, i kept ...
A. 15 June 2006: Just because you are not ready for sexual intimacy does not mean that you are doomed to never be with a guy. Everybody is different...i am one of those types that takes a long time before trying any physical intimacy in a relationship, I am only ... (read in full...)
Am I too sensible too early in life?
Q. I want to know if people think I'm crazy or if my mates are. We're all 19 but very different. They all have a laugh all the time and sleep around, they don't take anything seriously and move from dead end job to dead end job just to get enough money ...
A. 14 June 2006: Hi there,
I have to say i admire people like you ...there is nothing more admirable and attractive than a sound woman with a goal. This is your age to be purposeful and stay committed to what you have chosen in life,while you still enjoy every now ... (read in full...)
I'm taking laxatives every day... Is this a good thing?
Q. Hi all... I am 25ys old. Since I can remember (14-15 yrs old), I never had free bowel movements. I would poo like once every 2-3 days. I figured that it was because of my dieting and irregular eating habits and not drinking enough water. But, now I ...
A. 14 June 2006: It is a common problem in this country (uk i mean) ...i faced it myself for couple of months when i came in the country. What i did was that i had branflakes for cereal in the morning everyday with two glasses or more of hot water. Try this and ... (read in full...)
After his accident I did everything for him now he says that I was fling
Q. 3 years ago my life was so wonderful. I was going out with a great, caring boy and I had a great social life. Then I met Dan and my world was turned upside down. The first time I met him I fell in love with him hard. I tried to ignore my feelings ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hi there,
I usually don't read long posts but i couldn't help reading yours. There was a lot of pain in your letter.If whatever you have cited is all true than sounds like this guy Dan was never really yours and also sounds awefully selfish.
Som... (read in full...)
She is more attractive 'mentally' than physically, am I a horrible person??
Q. Hi there, I want to ask this, because its going through my mind right now, there's this girl im going out with, shes like my best friend (1 of them), im attracted to her alot more mentally than physically, don't get me wrong i love her to bits but...
A. 3 May 2006: Hi there,
I often agree with country woman most of the times but i don't agree with her in this scenario on what she has mentioned about the female sizes here.
Please don't think that i am taking this personally but i would give my own opinion.... (read in full...)
He told me hes attracted to this girl at work and now I cant trust him!!
Q. Iv been with my bf for 2 yrs now. He just recently told me he met this girl at work who he really gets on with and was attracted to, he gave her his number and given her lifts home a few times. When he told me I was so hurt, he told me he instantl...
A. 1 May 2006: I agree with Dr psych and all the points she has mentioned. I don't know how old are you and what are you doing career wise but definetly would like to add again .....DONOT feel that you can't live without him...that just makes you weak in a ... (read in full...)
Treated my ex like a queen and want her back! I can't bear to hear about her new love life!
Q. Hello, I asked a question a few days ago and did not get any responses. I now come for advice and hopeufully people will answer this time. My EX broke up with me a month and a week ago. We were together for almost 2 years. I still love her with all...
A. 13 April 2006: U know what?? from a girl's perspective....stop being so sweet.I must sound awful when i am writing this. Try to be a little cold...believe me she will come running back to you if she loves you. You cannot force someone to love you. You have proved ... (read in full...)
Treated my ex like a queen and want her back! I can't bear to hear about her new love life!
Q. Hello, I asked a question a few days ago and did not get any responses. I now come for advice and hopeufully people will answer this time. My EX broke up with me a month and a week ago. We were together for almost 2 years. I still love her with all...
A. 13 April 2006: ghosh!
I was reading what happened to Mr david but ended up reading what just happened to Martini (you are so sweet). I can't believe someone so sweet as you both (i should say) ended up getting so hurt. We all get hurt every now and again but neve... (read in full...)
My culture won't allow them to be together so I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I am a woman in my late thirties with an 18 year old daughter. We are Muslim and therefore have certain rules and regulations in our society. Now, I absolutely adore my daughter, she has been a complete joy to me from the mome...
A. 2 April 2006: Hi there,
It is really a tough situation but not a new one. I am Indian myself and can understand exactly where you are coming from. Your daughter is very lucky to have a mum like you and it is very impressive that you both have a good rela... (read in full...)
After we got married my gf felt unattracted to me and left and now i am destroying myself!!
Q. I got married to my girlfriend of two years back in August. Since soon after the marraige things started to go a little strange, and she began to doubt her feelings for me. Over the last couple of months, she started to express a lack of attracti...
A. 25 March 2006: hi there, Reading your post really touched my heart. It is true that it's very hard if someone you love, leaves you when you need them the most. I don't know whether it is best for you to hear this at this time or not, but i think you need to move ... (read in full...)
Cesarean or natural pregnancy experiences wanted!
Q. Hi, I am 6 months pregnant and may need to have a c-section to deliver my baby. I am wanting other womans opinions on their experiences with both c-section and natural births. Thanks for any help you can give me....
A. 15 March 2006: hi there, It doesn't seem very encouaraging when you read all the post does it? I was one of those types who wanted to have a natural birth without taking any pain killers but i had to have a c-section later on (which was a blessing for me). I w... (read in full...)
Exams and other stresses are overwhelming me and my relationship is suffering!
Q. I need some help, I'm really low at the moment. I've got exams coming up and all I do is revise or work and when I'm not revising I just feel guilty for not doing it! I feel like I'm going crazy, I just wish I could relax like other people, who ...
A. 5 March 2006: Hey,
I am in a similar position as you (exams anxiety) ...i am a married woman with a little toddler,a dog, a house to look after, a busy social life and i am also studying. I was also getting a bit anxious about my exams coming up(and my other resp... (read in full...)
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