My problem is I don't enjoy sex although, according to the women I have been with, I am good in the bedroom.
Q. I'm a 23 year old guy. And my problem, put simply, is that i don't enjoy sex. Ever sinec i was a kid i wanted that sort of "fairy tale" experience. Since then though, i've learned to know better through a series of heartbreaks and backstabs tha...
A. 25 July 2008: FIND A girl that you love! than the whole sexual experience will be completely different think!
good luck... (read in full...)
Why can't a 14 yearold date but not sleep with a 26 year old?
Q. I was just wondering something. You know how they say you shouldn't see anyone who's really older than you, like in a loving way? like say you're a teen who likes or thinks you're in love with someone say in their 20's or 30's. say you're like 14 ...
A. 25 July 2008: Yeah, that doesnt usually happen!!!
Especially if the older one is a guy!!!! It always leads to sex.
Someone smart once said "You can't be a friend with woman, because woman is your fantasy" ... I dont know who was it tho. But its true ... eve... (read in full...)
Any sex advice for a larger lady?
Q. I'm very overweight and not very "attractive" but I've met a fella who accepts me as I am. We're now having regular intercourse for the first time in my life.To be honest I'm just glad to feel wanted and satisfy a man's needs in bed.Look...
A. 25 July 2008: HEY THERE
Congrats on your guy! I always love hearing happy loved people!!! BTW dont every say that you are not attractive, becaue everone is! Trust me, even if you were skinny blond bitch like me, you would still feel not attractive for one ore ... (read in full...)
Can a man love his wife and keep outside affairs seperate, and be content and happy?
Q. I have been with my husband for 18 years, who never wanted to get married in the first place. He was and is a player ever since I had met him. When I gave him an ultimatum. he married me after dating for 10 years. Anyway, He had many affairs ...
A. 25 July 2008: Oh wow
I would never be able to be with someone like that at first place! I need my man to be only mine. I cant share !!! But thats me. You are obvioulsy more open minded than I am (or probably most women) .. I would kill him 20 years ago for this... (read in full...)
Are men programmed to lose interest in a woman after they've had sex?
Q. I,ve been flirting with a friend of mine for months and yesterday we finally had sex. Today I feel that i really could be in love with him, but i have this feelin that now hes finally got his shag i'll hardly see him - and before u say it the sex ...
A. 25 July 2008: give him some time to think! ... (read in full...)
I met a guy on holiday in Greece, now he says he misses me and wants me to go back to meet up!
Q. I have been back from a holiday in Greece for a week. While I was there me and my friend got to know a local guy really well. He spoke perfect english and worked in a restaurant and a supermarket which we visited reguarly. He was older than we were ...
A. 25 July 2008: Hehe ... My boyfriend is Greek ... and he was reading this .. he said
If a Greek man is married with children...there is nothing else than sex that he wants from another woman. Its unexceptable for a greek man in Greece to have another woman, b... (read in full...)
I really want to move to California, but my boyfriend is against it because he's a mama's boy. How can things work between us?
Q. I have always wanted to move to California. Its been a dream of mine for as long as I can remember. And the career Im interested in, I'd make more money there. But I have one problem. My boyfriend of a year and a half is against california. I lo...
A. 25 July 2008: You have to make it clear for yourself Do you want to be with your boyfriend? Will that make you happy? Or will you survive without him, because California will make you even happier!!! He is obviulsy not going with you ... so you have to make... (read in full...)
I have an amazing boyfriend but I'm miserable because I don't have any other friends.
Q. Hi everyone, I need advice, and to spare u anymore agony my dearc agony aunts, im gonna make a long story short. Im miserable, I have an amazing boyfriend that I love and really enjoy spending time with but other than him I don't really have any...
A. 25 July 2008: HI YOU ARE IN THE SAME SITUATION AS I AM Well maybe lil different. I moved in the states 5years ago due to my job. I met lots of other people and friends (usually from the same country) .. we become good palls .. and than they left... I met m... (read in full...)
I'm interested in group sex, any advice?
Q. i am interested in group sex but i would like to know about the advantages and disadvantages of group sex and how can i enjoy more with different type of sex. my some friends and their wives are also interested to join in group sex with me and my ...
A. 25 July 2008: Well ... group sex maigh be fun, if both of you understand that you will be having sex with different people (at the same room!) ... it could destroy the relationship, if you guys are not as strong as you think you are .. and also if jellaousy comes ... (read in full...)
How do I learn to trust my boyfriend?
Q. Okay so today i took my boyfriend lunch on his lunch break and while he was on his way i looked through his condom stash to count how many were left because i knew how many we have used. And it turned out that 6 were missing, i didnt look to see if ...
A. 25 July 2008: Om .. I dont think he will go every time and tell you !
"Honey today I have been masturbating in our condoms! It felt great!" ... common girl!!!! Give that poor guy some privacy. I am sure he is not cheating on you .. and if he is after all? Than... (read in full...)
How do I learn to trust my boyfriend?
Q. Okay so today i took my boyfriend lunch on his lunch break and while he was on his way i looked through his condom stash to count how many were left because i knew how many we have used. And it turned out that 6 were missing, i didnt look to see if ...
A. 24 July 2008: First of all .. just because those condoms are missing doesnt mean that he is using them with other girls. He could of take some of them and put them in the car or pants or such .. just in case that you guys are "doing it" somewhere else than home ... (read in full...)
I found out that my girlfriend likes lesbian porn. Is this normal?
Q. hi,i found that my girlfriend like lesbian porn.me too!well i asked her if she ever masturbated alone and watched lesbian porn?she said yes.but is shy about it.the other night i thought id treat her and told her to watch some lesbian porn.she likes ...
A. 24 July 2008: yeah totaly normal Women are beautiful .. "sorry" much prettier than gusy! Its easier to look at their bodies!!! I watch lesbian porn too and it gets me pretty horny as well ... but I would not give up on men to be with a woman! NOPE foot fetish? O... (read in full...)
My husband won't have sex with me any more.
Q. My husband won't have sex with me anymore. I'm only 23 and he just turned 28. We have a son who is 3 years old and has been a major challenge for us. In the beginning of our relationship he loved being intimate with me, he'd initiate it all the ...
A. 24 July 2008: It does sound to me, that your husband, even tho he loves you deeply, is not interested in you,because of the weight you gained over the time of being. Maybe you stopped taking care of yourself and he just doesnt see you as he did before. Mayb... (read in full...)
How do I tell my 11 year old daughter she has a sibling? The baby is the result of an affair...
Q. To make a long story short, I had a 3 year affair. When we were breaking up, my girlfriend knew it was happening, and went off her birth control to trick me into making her pregnant. It was out right deception, as I specifically asked her if she was ...
A. 24 July 2008: HI
My father was married before he met my mom and had two girls w that woman. Than he met my mom, got divorced, married my mom and had me and my brother. We didnt know we had another 2 sisters somewhere around, no one told us. Than one day thes... (read in full...)
How do I tell my 11 year old daughter she has a sibling? The baby is the result of an affair...
Q. To make a long story short, I had a 3 year affair. When we were breaking up, my girlfriend knew it was happening, and went off her birth control to trick me into making her pregnant. It was out right deception, as I specifically asked her if she was ...
A. 24 July 2008: HI My father was married before he met my mom and had two girls w that woman. Than he met my mom, got divorced, married my mom and had me and my brother. We didnt know we had another 2 sisters somewhere around, no one told us. Than one day the... (read in full...)
He broke his promise when he looked up swinging parties and porn again, how can I trust him in our future marriage?
Q. Just over a year ago i found text messages on my fiance's phone. There were about 20 texts. The texts indicated arranging a meeting with another woman. The last of the texts sent said 'I wont tell, if you don't.' My fiance had never mentione...
A. 23 July 2008: I really wouldnt worry about the porn as much .... but I would definetely get crazy about prostitutes and the swinging parties !! Thats something I would definetely put my red flags up, because thats not normal . He is right that porn is a guy thing ... (read in full...)
What is worse, regret or rejection?
Q. I have always feared regret more than i fear rejection, but the rejections are mounting up I'm wondering if it would be best not to tell people i fancy them when i do, what d'you think?...
A. 22 July 2008: I always tell myself
"Never regret anything, because at some point that was, what I wanted!"
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When I shave down below I get a rash. How can I stop it happening?
Q. When i shave Below i get a sort of shaving rash, but their squeezy! Is this normal what can i do 2 stop it!? x...
A. 21 July 2008: DONT SHAVE!! WAX!!! ITS THE BEST THING EVER!... (read in full...)
Not even a birthday present from my boyfriend. What am I worth to him?
Q. It was my birthday last weekend. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. He's a very sweet guy, but not very good when it comes to suprises for me, or buying gifts ahead of time. I was over at his parent's house the day before my birthday ...
A. 19 July 2008: Hmmm ... thank God my BF's bday its the exact same day, so he can't say he forgot ... lol
If its really bothering you, tell him ... I wold probably wait for maybe another week or so .. and than start joking about "the present I never got" ...
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Do women like watching porn? Can they get addicted?
Q. Do women be addicted to porn and how do they fill when watching all the dirty action?please I prefer answers from female readers only....
A. 18 July 2008: Yeah
I enjoy watching porn! I wouldnt say I am addicted tho. But if my BF is not around and I feel like I "need"some .. than Ill watch it for a lil. We also watch it together soemtimes, just to get some new "ideas" .. and its fun :)
I think... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sometimes calls me fat, which makes me cry, and brings out my insecurities, I am driving him away, what can I do to build my self-esteem?
Q. I am currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. I would do anything for him and I think he would do anything for me, problem is I think I could be pushing him away. We have been in a relationship for a year and a half and I can honestly say...
A. 18 July 2008: Get rid of him
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Is it possible to find a boyfriend not into religion?
Q. Hey, I was wondering about this. I want a boyfriend, and one issue i was afraid would come up is that I'm not a religious person. (not that there's anything wrong with it) I know that LOTS of people are religious, and it would probably be really ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hey
I am Atheist and I am proud of it! I dont care what people say .. for example bebe girlie that called you "person with no identity" how dare is she .. you have identity if you are religious or not!!
Thats actually why I am not religious ..... (read in full...)
Okay guys, last day on earth! Who would you cheat on your wife with?
Q. Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, Jessica Alba , Pamela Anderson, Beyonce, Christina Aguilera, Jennifer Lopez, Madonna (shes still a virgin). Who do you prefer?...
A. 16 July 2008: I am not a guy but I will answer this as a woman :) hope thats ok !
If it was the last day on earth for me ... than I wouldn't cheat at all! I love my BF so much, I would want to spend the rest of our times together and dissapear with the earth to... (read in full...)
Would you cheat on a boat with George Clooney?
Q. If you were married and knew it was going to be the end of the world and you were on a boat with George Clooney, would you cheat? What movie star would get you to cheat?...
A. 15 July 2008: BORAT! ... in his bathigsuit
hahahhahahahah
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Slept with a few girls but too scared to go to the clinic for a check?
Q. I've slept with a few girls, but too scared to go to clinic what should i do?...
A. 15 July 2008: GO! There is nothing to be scared of ! You will be ok! Just do it... (read in full...)
I've caught him in a lie, but by snooping... should I confront him?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months now, we fell in love, and totally trust each other. Now he promised me he doesnt email other girls on myspace and other social network sites, but the other day he had logged-...
A. 15 July 2008: Well you should of not look at it, but you did ... so what now? Hm ... you should definetely talk to him. Does he have you on myspace as "in a relationship" if not, ask him why is that ... if there is a reason. You should not tell him, you went th... (read in full...)
How did you meet your partner?
Q. Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...
A. 15 July 2008: I use to meet all my guy friends at someone elses parties or bars or clubs - it have never worked for me, because the wanted only sex or they were just not "it" in any other way.
I met the love of my life on match.com (yeah, I know how phatetic... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is now willing to have anal sex, now I need some advice, please.
Q. Hello All, Well i am 27 and hve a gf. I want to do anal sex and i am kind of crazy for that. I like to see movie with anal sex, also i discuss the same with my gf. First she was not ready but now she said YES over the phone. Whenever we met she ...
A. 15 July 2008: Hm ...
I was always interested in knowing how anal sex feels, but never had the guts to do it. The pain and after problems are to scary for me to dela with.
As much as I know from my friends, the pain is horrible, she wont be able to even use... (read in full...)
I'm married. Would one afternoon of extra-martial passion be THAT wrong?
Q. I've been married nine years and have kids. Sex is not as adventurous as I'd like but things are fine. Better than fine. I Iove my wife and enjoy a wonderful family life. Then I go and get drunk at a conference and have some sexy action with a woman ...
A. 15 July 2008: DO you love your wife? Do you wana be with her or the other one? Do you respect your wife ?
Do not ruin perfect marriage that you have! You will feel horrible after you do it. Now it seems like an adventure, because its not "real" but imagine ... (read in full...)
Quiz on guys!
Q. I have couple of fun questions on you GUYS !!! 1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating? It seems to me, that first you are all into it, beeing kissed and such, and than, you just loose intrested and its more lik...
A. 14 July 2008: Sorry than ... it was ment as a fun quiz, as posted, not as something thats bothering me !... (read in full...)
Quiz on guys!
Q. I have couple of fun questions on you GUYS !!! 1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating? It seems to me, that first you are all into it, beeing kissed and such, and than, you just loose intrested and its more lik...
A. 14 July 2008: TO COLLAROY
Hahahahhahahaha ... lol ... u made me laugh
It was a fun quiz. This is usually what women talk about when they are all together so I put it up as few questions instead reading always some serious stuff like " He doesnt love me" ...... (read in full...)
I want answers from real women about parenthood!
Q. Hey girls( andblokes without sonding too sexixt)! I'm in a dilemma at this point in my life. You see, I really think that I might want a baby. Im 26, have a great career(well okay career- I'm a family planning nurse-the irony!), loving partner, ...
A. 12 July 2008: Well
I don't think you should listen to the people around you! You should listen to yourself at first place! This is your life and you have to make the decisions!
Is your BF ready to have a baby? Did you talk about it? If yes, than I woul... (read in full...)
I promised my girlfriend a great gift, for her birthday, but I have no idea what to get her, please help me with suggestions?
Q. Its my girlfriends birthday coming up and we have been together what will be 2years in November. Stupidly I said to her that I will get her something really good for her birthday, now as it's getting closer she is starting to get excited by what I ...
A. 12 July 2008: Om ...
Engagement ring ?
LOL
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Does my flat nose make me unacceptable?
Q. 1.How do you think of a woman who has a flat nose ? 2.Will the man loves a woman with a flat nose? 3.Is it that women who has a flat nose can't be good temperament and succesful? 4.Is a straight nose so important to a woman's beauty? ...
A. 11 July 2008: Keep telling yourself this
I AM BEAUTIFUL!!
BTW . did you also wrote that question before about the lips? Anyway
Everyone has different shape of body,shape of nose, eye colour, hair colour .. blah blah blah. It doesnt matter if your no... (read in full...)
What shape of mouth is most pleasing to European men?
Q. Do most Europe man likes a woman with a big mouth or a cherry mouth ? In my opionion ,most men in China likes a girl with a cherry mouth ,because it accord with the aesthetics in China. And I know that a world-famous model called LuYan ...
A. 11 July 2008: Everyone likes something different.
I am not a guy, so I cant speak for them .. but I am pretty sure, that it really doesnt matter what shape your mouth is as long as you have nice and healthy teeth - thats my opinion. Because to me, it doesnt matt... (read in full...)
This will be our one year anniversary of dating, and he has new job, and must be at work, do I try to get him to take off from work or plan something for another day?
Q. i need help so badly 2mro is mine and my bfs one year anniversary and he mite have 2 work yikes! bad bad bad i need help he cant take ne time off bc he just strtd this job so wht do i do he strts work at 12 in the afternoon n he usually stays at his ...
A. 10 July 2008: Job is more important than anniversary. Do it on weekend or so...or do it the same day even if its earlier in the day (breackfast) or late at night (just hang out by the beach or wherever you are !!!) Good luck... (read in full...)
I am happy with my boyfriend, even though he is 28 years older than I am, does the age difference matter, if the relationship is working??
Q. i am currently going out with sum1 28 years older then me ever since i've met him i've felt happy and more confident he supports me in everything i do. but then there's my dad who's telling me he's just using me and also my sister who wont talk to ...
A. 10 July 2008: Well ... Age difference doesnt matter when you are at your age .. but when you get older and you are still together, it will get harder and harder. YOu will be 40 and he will be70. You will be at your best, he will be ... sorry to say it ... almo... (read in full...)
With Him, It's Only Sex or Computer Games
Q. It seems like my boyfriends losing interest in me, or just too into his computer game. The only times he wants to talk with me is when hes horny, or when i tell him i feel really sick or something. When hes not horny or anything, then he only wants ...
A. 8 July 2008: He needs to grow up thats the problem. Its not you! He is immature! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he doesn't feel the same any more. Should I break up with him?
Q. My boyfriend who I totally love told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. We were both staying at my house on Friday and we had a small argument because he said it was weird that I had pictures of him beside my bed(there not all him - mostly friends ...
A. 8 July 2008: Ok ... Thanks for more informations. I think that he feels "stuck" .. and he feels he dosnt have enough freedom anymore, because you are at his feet 24/7. And you dont mean it in a bad way, I understand - I am the same. I think he need... (read in full...)
What can I do about my husband's porn habit? It's getting excessive..
Q. Every time I come into the office, my husband is frantically closing windows on the computer. I was wondering about this because he accidentally left a bunch of porn site passwords on the screen one day. I asked him about it and he got somewhat ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hey listen!
You asked for help, so we asked for more informations! You don't have to be bitchy about it!
Yes, you are not giving him what he wants and so he is trying to find it online! Be happy that he is not going to see a prostitute to do... (read in full...)
What can I do about my husband's porn habit? It's getting excessive..
Q. Every time I come into the office, my husband is frantically closing windows on the computer. I was wondering about this because he accidentally left a bunch of porn site passwords on the screen one day. I asked him about it and he got somewhat ...
A. 7 July 2008: Ok
So ... everyone here knows... I am absoluely up FOR porn .. BUT!!! ... if it gets to certain point (like your husbands) .. than I think its too much for anybody.
How is your sex life? Everything the same? Did it change? You guys talk ?
W... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he doesn't feel the same any more. Should I break up with him?
Q. My boyfriend who I totally love told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. We were both staying at my house on Friday and we had a small argument because he said it was weird that I had pictures of him beside my bed(there not all him - mostly friends ...
A. 7 July 2008: Well ... it could be the time too ... maybe he just needs more space? How often are you together? And how long you have been in a relationship with this guy?
I see my bf every day and we spend eveyr weeekend together (so its almost like marriage... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he doesn't feel the same any more. Should I break up with him?
Q. My boyfriend who I totally love told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. We were both staying at my house on Friday and we had a small argument because he said it was weird that I had pictures of him beside my bed(there not all him - mostly friends ...
A. 3 July 2008: I am not sure its a depression. It sounds to me, like he maigh have someone else on the side .. or not even going out with her,just maybe ... he is not into you that much anymore ...
good luck... (read in full...)
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