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In my mind I want to have sex with every woman I see and meet... Why?!

Q. i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see ...

A. 7 November 2009: thank you... (read in full...)

Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?

Q. Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...

A. 7 November 2009: Thanks Gina yet again... (read in full...)

Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?

Q. I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...

A. 7 November 2009: Hay Thanks alot for the advice. I think its time to move on. YOu are right. I think its easier to for independent people like you gys to see the problem than me who is in it. Thanks again....... (read in full...)

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

Q. Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...

A. 7 November 2009: Thanks for the answers! I KNOW its how men think - now. I'm not trying to stop him fantasizing - im wanting to know HOW women manage to be ok with their boyfriends thinking of other women and touching themself. It's not a jealousy thing - im... (read in full...)

He never feels sex!

Q. hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...

A. 7 November 2009: thank you friends for your opinions... (read in full...)

Are all guys selfish and hateful?

Q. [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and...

A. 7 November 2009: i should have wrote a little more also,(even tho it is pretty long). thanks i do deserve better and yah i have the wrong guy in that department, but we do get along great tho everything is fine except for the selfish n hateful thin. yes he puts a ... (read in full...)

Help! How can I make things better?

Q. My fiance and I are extremely happy together and his family is really happy for us, and I get along great with them all except for his father. I am a full time college student and my fiance and I live an hour and a half apart. I see him only on ...

A. 7 November 2009: Hi, if possible I am still looking for advice from other agony aunts, as the problem has continued to escalate... if you wouldn't mind referring me... that would be great!... (read in full...)

Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues

Q. hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...

A. 7 November 2009: i went to a meeting tonight, it wasn't great the only people there were the meeting instructor and myself. there were some good points, but mostly i got to hear how all the druggies and alcoholics he bumped into died, including his wife. very ... (read in full...)

How long should I date someone before expecting a kiss or more...?

Q. Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out ...

A. 7 November 2009: Thanks both of you. You both are a big help.... (read in full...)

I broke up with him and now I realize how much I loved him and want him back!

Q. Hello! I am new to this site. I am hoping that someone would advise me on what to do. I have been dating this guy since a year. I have known him since 6 years. We have many common friends and I know a lot of his cousins. Everything was a...

A. 7 November 2009: Should I ask him for a second chance before moving on?... (read in full...)

Does this mean she's not in love with me like I thought she was?

Q. I've been in love with my best friend ever since i met her 3 years ago. She was in a relationship, i'm not the relationship type, things were really complicated because of many things and i never confessed how i felt about her. I'm pretty s...

A. 7 November 2009: I was going to wait until she got back to tell her how i feel. should i not wait? i mean, i'm pretty sure she knows i have feelings for her, because it's very obvious... but no, i have never confessed because it would be a bit complicated to have... (read in full...)

At 24 am I too old to be happy again?

Q. i'm 24 and at the moment i'm not in such a good place in my life. 4 months ago my ex broke up with me - i adored him and it left me reeling. I'm getting over it now - and i feel ready to move on, but my confidence is pretty low. I feel like no ...

A. 6 November 2009: (MOD NOTE: I did indeed put up the title. Sometimes when the poster doesn't title his/her qustion we have to create one.) Thanks to everyone who has answered. i appreciate you a... (read in full...)

Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?

Q. I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...

A. 6 November 2009: I am sorry I have not been able to resolve my situation. And I am sorry that I have asked so many questions. I know the overwhelming response has been to leave. I see it. I am not really sure I have anything in me to stand up. I have become weak by ... (read in full...)

Does he really mean what he says or do you think he's maybe just mad/upset?

Q. I was dating this guy for 1,5 years. I'm foreign and graduating, therefore don't have permission to stay in the US. He asked me to marry him a couple of times but didnt really do anything about it. So there is one month left and I asked him if he ...

A. 6 November 2009: This is kind of funny. I just wanted to get back here and put a response. lol. It's been about a year maybe. If you are curious I'm much better now. I am actually doing my PhD. And I have an adoring boyfriend. But out of the blue my ex-boyfriend, ... (read in full...)

I want to enjoy sex, but he's too big!

Q. My new partner is also a dear friend of mine. Over the weekend we met up and when we came to "doing it" he was too big for me. We had done foreplay beforehand and he was reassuring but i want to be able to enjoy it without it hurting, any advice?...

A. 6 November 2009: Thanks to all who replied to this, i will definately take on board everything said and when we next meet will use the lube and try different positions - lucky me haha Thanks again x... (read in full...)

Should I move on or email him? It's an online, LDR.

Q. I have been talking to a 45 year old man (I'm 23) over the internet for about 5 months now. He lives about 13 hours away from me and I plan on moving to the state he lives in, in about 3 months (for college). Hes not married (is divorced). So we ...

A. 6 November 2009: well I sent him 1 email and he never responded. It is so weird. And he also deleted his online dating account, too. So strange...But I'm over it and really don't care but I still would have at least liked him to respond. Thanks for everyones ... (read in full...)

Should I leave my husband and go it alone, or should I stay and risk being unhappy for the rest of my life?

Q. thinking of leaving my husband of 7 years. He is a kind caring consdierate person who would do anything for anyone but there are a few issues i just cannot live with. they are : he hits and verbally abuses our children calling them stupid, he swears ...

A. 6 November 2009: ok, thanks to all who answered. so i got a friend to help me remove my husband from the home. It worked for 11 days and now he is back, he just sneaked back in one night(shoulda had his keys i know)and even though i told him i didnt wana try anymore ... (read in full...)

How do you know if the reason you get back with your ex is you, or the new baby?

Q. Am 16 wks pregnant. Broken up with partner. He is unsupportive but acting weird. When we were together - he would buy food cos he was practically living with me and I would cook it for him. He didn't want to go to any scans or hospital appointments ...

A. 6 November 2009: Thank you both of you. I think you are correct. I keep caring what he could possibly be thinking and its turning out to be more detrimental to myself then good. So yes I keep giving him chances and taking him back..that is the problem. He is ... (read in full...)

What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?

Q. what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...

A. 6 November 2009: thanks for the advice, but like I said, where I live, the teachers don't give you grades that count for anything at all, and guys in thier 20s have been known to go out with 17 and 16 year olds, so what difference does it make if they just happened ... (read in full...)

Anger issues with my LDR

Q. hi im 18 and i have been in a 2 month long distance relationship with a man from argentina who is 27. we met on the internet so we havent met in person yet. however we connect very well. im in love with him and he says he loves me to. but a cou...

A. 6 November 2009: i didnt go looking for someone online, we met on xbox live and somehow connected, it just feels right i cant explain it. i know it sounds strange but i feel like i know him very well and i trust him a lot. he knows i would do anything for him and i ... (read in full...)

I've fallen in love with a prostitute...What is the solution to my fixation?

Q. Hi i have been seeing a prostitute now for some time as i was quite upset about myself losing my girlfriend few years ago i decided this was my only option. I had visited the brothels on several ocassions seeing a multiple of girls and living my ...

A. 6 November 2009: Hi everyone thanks for the answers all is very helpful. i have tried all the things seggested to no avail i kept going back to her. although recently i have been very base with her about what she does etc. was only the other night we agreed to meet ... (read in full...)

How can I encourage my boyfriend to drive to see me?

Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and we both live an hour away from each other. In the 3 months that we have known each other, I have always driven to see him weekly (sometimes twice a week), and he's only driven down to see me ...

A. 6 November 2009: Some of you have said he's using me, but I don't think he is. We were seeing each other a month before we started dating, and we were basically just friends with benefits. There is nothing extra that he could've gained by asking me to be his ... (read in full...)

Foreskin always retracted, is this normal?

Q. I am not circumcised. I am bit curious to know my condition. My penis' foreskin is always retracted regardless of erect or not. From articles and friends i know that foreskin retracts only when it is erect. Mine was normal i think till i was 17. Is ...

A. 6 November 2009: is there no other opinion on this..... i wonder why? but i cannot demand for it.... anyhow thanks for all... (read in full...)

She's going to live our dream with someone else

Q. My girlfriend of 5 yrs has recently left me and i am finding it very difficult to move on. She says she loves me, but she's not IN love with me anymore. We have been through alot in our relationship, 4 miscarriages but it made us stronger. She says...

A. 6 November 2009: Thank you both for taking the time to offer advice to my problem. I know there is no quick fix to feelings so i guess i have to accept its going to be a long road but eventually i will find happiness again. Its just very hard to imagine my life ... (read in full...)

How can he not like sex and prefer masturbating?

Q. I am in a relationship with someone, but the thing is, he doesn't like sex. We've had it before, but he says he gets bored and it doesn't interest him/ doesn't feel as good as masturbating. "Why should i do in a vagina, what i can do with my hand?" ...

A. 6 November 2009: Thanks guys, but there's more to it. he always says he wants to do things for me, but i never know how to answer that because I know he doesn't really like the female genitalia. I mean, it's not like penises are any better, but i do agree with him... (read in full...)

Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!

Q. Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more...

A. 6 November 2009: Thank you to all you judges of life ! You are so perfect and I hope that one day everyone will be as perfect as you all !!! Do you think I am proud of what I have done? If she was so in love with me, how come she told the other man "I love y... (read in full...)

I'm so protective of her and it causes problems

Q. I'm incredibly in love with a wonderful woman and she's crazy about me too. But I tend to get jealous. Now this isn't really a tremendous problem. I think I deal with it well enough. Usually I'll just make a passing joke about it and ask about it...

A. 6 November 2009: Country Woman, I was talking about the male anonymous poster. I wasn't upset or offended by your post. I just can't stand it when I ask for help and someone always has to say "suck it up, get over it, you're being a big baby for feeling this way." I ... (read in full...)

Twice I had unprotected sex. Am I pregnant?

Q. help! ok soo me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago. but just last weekend, i slept over and we had unprotected sex twice that night and again in the morning. i usually get my period from the 10th to the 12th of each month. its the 5th now. soo ...

A. 6 November 2009: victimhood? ....how am I acting like a victim? I say he would be angry because he is very short tempered is all. he tends to lose it when put under pressure or in tough situations which is part of the reason we have broken up. as for telling my ... (read in full...)

Is this older man playing me?

Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...

A. 6 November 2009: Ok to answer some of the questions you all asked - 1) He says that our families won't approve of our age difference. He said his family will make a huge deal out of it and my family will hate him. 2) I have met some of his friends, and a f... (read in full...)

Are they setting me up for something?

Q. Hello. please don't judge me until you read it till the end.it may sound silly and just lame teens thing,but its not ,please take the time to read it and help me. I'm 16 years old and when i was 13 my family moved to another state .it was ha...

A. 6 November 2009: thank you for helping ,i really agree on what you think but my family would know too and thats a whole another story i dont want them to know the person i was. thanks anyway=)... (read in full...)

Why do I find it so hard to approach women I am attracted to?

Q. Why do I find it so hard to approach females I like, particularly good-looking ones? Last night, I went to Pizza Hut and got my friend to ask the waitress out for me cos I didn't have the guts to do it? Is it because I am afraid of rejection, that ...

A. 6 November 2009: LadyCorsair,I didnt get your reply... (read in full...)

Why is porn regarded as such a bad thing in couples?

Q. i just have to ask peoples opinions on this, why is porn such a no-no when it comes to couples? my partner and i enjoy naughty weekends where we explore our kinkier side and watch and make our own porn (to be viewed by only us i stress!!) but i hea...

A. 6 November 2009: thankyou everyone, but i was just wondering if anyone agreed with me. to the anonymous person who wrote do i think he will delete them when we break up... you have to trust that person before getting into any of this with them and i trust him comp... (read in full...)

I'm on the pill but had sex briefly without a condom, is it still possible to get pregnant?

Q. Recently I had sex without a condom...well, started sex.It was only for 2 min (prob less) and we stopped but it still freaked me out.Im on the pill but im wondering if its still possible to get pregnant.I've never done that before and I guess we ...

A. 6 November 2009: thats what i thought. i tend to worry and figured a lil advice/opinions would be good.considering this thing was out of the norm for me. thanks so much for replying. :) ... (read in full...)

She's horrible so why can't I let her go?

Q. So I know this girl. And shes really, really talented. and attractive. charismatic. And, even though she had some obvious red signs, I thought we clicked and became friends. Eventually this turned into something more and unexpected. I got to know ...

A. 6 November 2009: Thanks so much openmind :). I took it to heart, and though I still miss her, I think imma continue with your advice and move on. Thanks sooo much!... (read in full...)

Is a monogamous relationship/marriage realistic these days?

Q. Hey, I don’t post much but I visit the site daily to see the new questions. I think this post is a rant versus a question, but it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. It’s really been on my mind. I really just don’t kno...

A. 6 November 2009: ***Female Anonymous--- Anyone that I've met who agrees with open relationships, always bring up the fact that, "humans are animals, animals aren't monogamous," (along those lines of comments). --"But they are doing it not because they are... (read in full...)

Is she really that busy?

Q. I have been exchanging emails with this girl. She has written twice that she is sorry it took couple of days to reply to my email, but she first mistakingly thought that she had replied me and only later realized she hadn't. Do you think it's pos...

A. 6 November 2009: Thanks everyone! You are very observant :-) I admit she is cute and seems like interesting person (we hardly know each other). You might even say I have a crush on her. It still doesn't mean I would have an affair! Anyway, she has probably... (read in full...)

How do I help her cope with past sexual abuse?

Q. hey i would really appreciate some help on this because its not getting easier. my girlfriend told me she was sexually abused by her uncle for as long as she can remember, but we werent going out then, but ever since we have been going out, 3 mon...

A. 6 November 2009: thank you so much, its just if its something that she can never forget, does that mean she will always hurt? about what you asked with what have i said or done, well she wanted me to touch her so i did but she had a few visions of 'him' yet she said ... (read in full...)

I've let my insecurities get the better of me and just stuff everything up...

Q. I don't know what to do.. i feel as though my relationship, more myself has gone off track by a mile. I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and am 19 and in the past year have become overly obsessive and insecure. i really don't kno...

A. 6 November 2009: well i think i should tell you all we broke up. I don't know if this is the case but this is what my instincts are telling me. long story short: For three months now we've been trying to work things out.. and each time i think things r getti... (read in full...)

We both really like each other but she has a boyfriend?

Q. This is kinda long/confusing but i'll keep it simple. I'm a senior in high school and have had a great friend since my sophomore year. Back then when she was a freshman, she had a big crush on me but i was oblivious since even if i was great friends ...

A. 6 November 2009: Thank you for your great advice. I think I wanna just wait things out and be her friend and no more of this "friends with benefits" thing because I don't want to wreck her current relationship and respect that. "FireandIce" you seriously know ... (read in full...)

Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?

Q. Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...

A. 6 November 2009: Thanks for all of the responses/opinions. I do look for a job, the truth is... he is about to get laid off. I even suggest me and him go together job hunting, he doesnt even want to do that with me. Im not saying we have to go out, as in every day ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

Q. I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...

A. 6 November 2009: it seems to me 'anonymous female' seems to share the same trait: nastiness, maybe you are the same person? or your man had an affair? ...nobody was to know the wife had cancer, herself included, up until a couple of weeks ago..and that could easily ... (read in full...)

Does porn affect your feelings towards your own partner?

Q. Do one's perceptions of their partner's attractiveness become altered by actively engaging in pornography? Would it be possible to remain sexually attracted to your partner considering that the individuals portrayed in pornography are, for the...

A. 6 November 2009: Thank you, HonningKanin. :) Anonymous male- I don't agree with that notion. Engaging in porn is not solely a masculine trait, women also engage in it. Being labeled immature really only resides in one's own person. ... (read in full...)

Ideas on how to take the 'roughness' futher.

Q. So, I'm new here and this is my first question. First, thanks in advance for any advice that is given. Here goes, I'm 24. I'm very happily married with two gorgeous children. I always thought things were as close to perfect as my wife and I co...

A. 6 November 2009: Well, after gently broaching the subject about a mock rape scene it was shot down rather quickly. I feel like my marriage is really on the rocks right now. I also feel like I'm the only one even attempting to fix it. Over the last couple of nights ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?

Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...

A. 5 November 2009: Thanks for the answers. My wife just turned 50 though she actually looks closer to 38 ( and acts much younger). She has strong PMS so maybe the period cramps etc relieve this pressure and lead her to be more sexually aroused. I look forward to more ... (read in full...)

I am falling for my "friends with benefits" guy, should I tell him?

Q. I am in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who is not ready for a relationship. I thought I wasn't ready either so the arrangement at first suited me fine plus the XXX is fantastic. But lately I have found we have both been getting very ...

A. 5 November 2009: Im sorry mr anon did you read the entire thing? look if you are not going to help me then dont bother answering the question. In fact I told him how I felt tonight and we r now officially a couple so dont think that all friends with benfits ... (read in full...)

I'm a Catholic. What are the pros and cons of waiting til my wedding night?

Q. I am a Catholic and I know that as one I should not have sex before marriage but as most, if not all, Catholics do today they do. I just assumed that I would sometime in my late teens. Now I am nearly 16 and I'm beginning to change my mind. I real...

A. 5 November 2009: Thanks to everyone who answered my question. You have all really helped.... (read in full...)

Just can't figure him out!

Q. I just can't figure him out..... I am so confused!!!! I am in love with a very dear friend. There are times where I am SURE he feels the same way about me....then there are times I am sure he has no romantic interest in me whatsoever. We have known ...

A. 5 November 2009: Thanks so much for the advice. I WISH it was as easy as just telling him how I feel. I have had male friends in the past, but never quite this close. I just really don't want to screw up a great friendship by revealing my feelings. TRUE, since we've ... (read in full...)

Drunken mistake won't leave me alone...

Q. This guy i did stuff with while drunk keeps trying to contact me through facebook, but he was just a DISGUSTING mistake and I really don't want to have anything to do with him... How can I reject him without seeming like a bit of a b****?...

A. 5 November 2009: thanks for the advice =)... (read in full...)

Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.

Q. Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...

A. 5 November 2009: Dear natasia,i am sorry if my question has affected you.It was not my intention to upset anyone.You must understand that i am probally very different to you,and as i said my decsion has not come easy.You don't know about my life,and i don't asume to ... (read in full...)

I might want more... Eventually

Q. hey. Well straight to the point. I've been talkin dirty over the net to this guy i've known for quite a long time. We've been good mates for a couple of years now. So, We're planning to get down and dirty, sometime soon in the future. But i ac...

A. 5 November 2009: I was meant to name it I MIGHT WANT MORE EVENALLY.... (read in full...)

My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!

Q. I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been ...

A. 5 November 2009: Grrrr...had to make the appointment to monday. Pre-update I am going back on birth control.... (read in full...)

Pregnant with 1st child, Boyfriend distant...I'm so lonley.

Q. I am 15 weeks pregnant with my first child, my boyfriend and I got pregnant maybe a month or two after we first got together and so much has changed. At first he was so sweet and when I told him I might be pregnant he was so excited and happy to ...

A. 5 November 2009: Well thankyou for all the insight people. I am NOT going to have an abortion...(Im 15 weeks!!!)thats never been an option for me, I know I would be strong enough to do this by myself...I have great support from my family. Also, I need to clarify.... (read in full...)

I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!

Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...

A. 5 November 2009: Thanks everyone for getting me to take a look at myself. Tisha I went to the links and they opened my eyes. I really do believe I was worrying about something that never happened. My wife said one time that I should focus on the things she didn't ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?

Q. Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I k...

A. 5 November 2009: Thanks - and he said the same - which just made me like him more :-) Because I think he was trying to put me first...but maybe not....agh life is so confusing!... (read in full...)

At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child

Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...

A. 5 November 2009: While we wait for my bf to respond,I'm sure he's going to do it tommorow, I can tell you that I'm about 10 weeks pregnant and I don't think that I'll be able to finish this year studies.As for having support structures,I have my aunt and her ... (read in full...)

I want to see him for an explanation and an apology but his wife forbids him from contacting me!

Q. I was seeing an Iranian man for a couple of months. He told me he was separated for the last year, doesn't live with his wife and has a 5 year old child. We got on really well and a while into our relationship I actually was getting more conscious ...

A. 5 November 2009: Thanks everyone for your comments. Yes, he is a liar and a cheat. Just to say that I would never be with a man who was happily married, and only stay with someone who was "separated" if they were seriously contemplating a divorce. He gave me the ... (read in full...)

How can I build up my confidence so I can ask out this great guy?

Q. Hi. Ok here's the scoop. Iv heard from some mates that a really gorgeous, fun guy likes me. I want to ask him out but whats holding me bak is that im out of his league. I am pretty but i get the impression that hes more experienced and will be ...

A. 5 November 2009: He's also a bit older than me.... (read in full...)

Help me cope with my worry about someone I care about deeply!

Q. Hey there. Umm, starting this is really hard so I'll start from the beginning and a bit of a backstory.. I've recently started university and I met a girl here on my first day, in fact she was the first person I met here. A few days later we open...

A. 5 November 2009: Thanks a lot for the replies guys :) I know I need to back off and let her do her thing, I just really needed someone to tell me that, I think. It's just really hard seeing someone you care about in so much pain and not have the chance to help. ... (read in full...)

How can I Deep Throat a boy without gagging?

Q. Okey my problem isnt a really big one but a good answer will really help me in my situation. i want to give my boy friend the best blowjob ever and i kno this question has been asked alot but i need some tips on how to deep throat with out feeling ...

A. 5 November 2009: Great Advice Guys Well The Best Iv Got So Far Thankyou Well it isnt my first time, iv give blowjobs quite alot really and i dont seem to get it deeper my boyfriend is pretty big and its hard to take it in as i feel i wanna throw up and i dont no ... (read in full...)

She's making out with me one minute then ignoring me the next???

Q. hey, long story (kinda) short, im 15, and there is a girl in the year above who has been one of my close friends for quite a long time, but i realised that i liked her more than that. A few weeks back i told her how i felt, and she told me that she ...

A. 5 November 2009: Thanks a lot, i spoke to her after school today, and introduced her to some of my best mates, she seems much more chilled about everything now and we are finaly together properly :) thanks sooooo much, talking was the key... (read in full...)

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