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I am here to make friends here and give what little advise I can and get advise from others,Also I like learning from others.

Does size matter? I think he's going to be too big.

Q.   I met this gentle loving person. However, when we got close I saw that his was way too big and wide. Now I do not know how to tell him that we cannot work out and best to part as I do not think I could take it, it is too big. ...

A.   25 September 2012: I am a well endowed guy and what has worked for the women I have been with was that they have taken control most of the time when it came to penatration,But first of all,you just got to make sure you are wet as much as you need it to be and then it ... (read in full...)

Is it ok for a friend to sleep with your FWB?

Q.   My very close friend slept with a fwb of mine and has not come out and told me herself. I am so hurt by this, but other people who I have spoken to don’t understand why I should be as bothered as he is only a FWB and therefore he doesn’t mean ...

A.   25 September 2012: I would say yes that if you 2 didn't have any rules or promises not to sleep with anyone else.Like Bondgirl said,this is one of the problems with FWB relationships simply because there are not clear cut rules between some.I was in a FWB relationship ... (read in full...)

Is it weird that I call my partner "daddy" during sex?

Q.   Hello everyone! I just wanted to know your thoughts on calling your significant other Daddy during sex. Not dad, or father, I mean it on the sexual way. It started with him pestering me to do something, and I ultimately rolled my eyes and sardoni...

A.   25 September 2012: No,I don't because me and my wife calls eachother daddy and mama sometimes when we are having sex and we have found out by doing that,itmakes things alittle hotter for us.I say as long as the 2 of you is ok with it,go for it. Have fun!... (read in full...)

We had a threesome and my husband completely ignored me! I feel our marriage is over...

Q.   I am married for 5 1/2 yrs. My husband and I have useId talking about a 3some several times during sex for excitement. Me being bi. But he has always said he doesn't really wanna do it. But the opportunity presented itself. And he asked and asked if ...

A.   17 September 2012: I am sorry that you had to go thru with what you went thru,But I TOTALLY blame him and the other woman,but especially him,because he knew what the rules were and agreed to them.Again I say,you has to go with what your heart is leading you to do.You ... (read in full...)

I no longer desire sex with my wife but I do desire other women. It's consuming me, help!

Q.   Ok,i'm married,and have lost my desire for sex with my wife,but have a desire to have sex with almost every female i come across! When i meet another woman,even for just a minute,i'm wondering what it would be like to have her! It's consuming ...

A.   14 September 2012: I agree with BondGirl172,I am a male and I have have had those feelings every since I got with my wife and she is the ONLY woman whom I have every had sex with,But I know that if I truly loved her,that I can't cheat on her no matter how much I want ... (read in full...)

We had a threesome and my husband completely ignored me! I feel our marriage is over...

Q.   I am married for 5 1/2 yrs. My husband and I have useId talking about a 3some several times during sex for excitement. Me being bi. But he has always said he doesn't really wanna do it. But the opportunity presented itself. And he asked and asked if ...

A.   14 September 2012: I'm gonna say I TOTALLY! agree with So Very Confused,because for one,it was respectful and very rude that he did you this way especially after he had asked you to do the 3some,2.She should had stopped once he wouldn't after hearing you tell him ... (read in full...)

Ladies only: would you decline to have sex with a man with erectile dysfunction resulting from surgery?

Q.   This one is for the Ladies here ONLY!I am asking this for a friend of mines. Thanks Ladies,Say if you was to go out with a guy you met and things became hot and heavy between the 2 of you,then the 2 of you end up at a place that you have picked ...

A.   10 September 2012: Thank you ladies for your help on my friend's question.I will make sure to let him know what was said. Thanks... (read in full...)

Ladies only: would you decline to have sex with a man with erectile dysfunction resulting from surgery?

Q.   This one is for the Ladies here ONLY!I am asking this for a friend of mines. Thanks Ladies,Say if you was to go out with a guy you met and things became hot and heavy between the 2 of you,then the 2 of you end up at a place that you have picked ...

A.   9 September 2012: My friend is in his mid 40s and the woman he was in a relationship with left him because of this plus he wasn't ejaculating anything in her.she says that she doesn't know how to take it,because she loved when he was leaving his sperm inside of ... (read in full...)

Can someone with bi polar live a normal life with treatment 

Q.   i just had my bf bakeracted . He is bi polar and has run out of his meds since moving back here . He had and appt for this week but i was scared that he wouldnt make it till then so after him trying to hurt himself last night i had him locked up . I ...

A.   7 September 2012: ktmae, I am so glad to hear that,just keep in mind on what I told you about making sure to let them know if anytime you or him don't understand what they are telling him,Also tell him to keep a positive attitude and keep looking up. Good Luck on ... (read in full...)

What to do? I don't want our relationship to be based on amazing sex

Q.   Well me and my baby's dad have crazy sexual chemistry...its off that charts... I just had a baby 3 months ago and don't want anymore for a while. But anyway because of our attraction it seems like we can't even be around each other without havi...

A.   5 September 2012: I don't see anything wrong with having sex everytime you 2 are with eachother and I know that there are other couples are like that too,but if you have to have sex,maybe the both of you can use protection so that way you won't end up getting ... (read in full...)

Can someone with bi polar live a normal life with treatment 

Q.   i just had my bf bakeracted . He is bi polar and has run out of his meds since moving back here . He had and appt for this week but i was scared that he wouldnt make it till then so after him trying to hurt himself last night i had him locked up . I ...

A.   5 September 2012: ktmae, You mentioned that the doctors just told his what the problem was and gave him some meds,but didn't explain anything.One thing that I have learned from being a patient as well as observing patients and their family member with the doctors.... (read in full...)

Wife talking to a FWB from 15 years ago. Should I worry?

Q.   Should I be worried about my wife talking with here friend with benifit from about 15 years ago? My wife and I have been married 13 years and have two girls. About four month ago i notice my wife was becoming very secretive with her iPhone. ...

A.   3 September 2012: I would say,before you become to worried and upset about it,I would sit her down and talk to her about it and let her know your feeling on it,because a marriage is never gonna work with 2 people if there isn't any trust among the 2 and there should ... (read in full...)

Does watching lesbian porn mean I'm bisexual?

Q.   Hi I am a 24 year old virgin,I don't believe in sex before marriage,I believe in abstinence..I know some of you may think its crazy but these are my values,luckily the men I have dated understood this about me and never pressured me into sex.. I...

A.   3 September 2012: No it doesn't.There are lots of girls and women who like watching lesbian porn including the woman I am with.... (read in full...)

Can we help determine the sex of a baby by the position we have sex in?

Q.   Ok guys . I hope you can help me. My husband wants a little girl. Right know we have 3 boys. My mother in law and her sisters told me to do all the work in bed. My husband should just lay there while im on top. Is that true? Apparently according to ...

A.   3 September 2012: I work in the medical field and I never heard of anything couples can do to help determine the sex of a baby by having sex in different positions,So I'm gonna say,Don't think so.... (read in full...)

Are guy's disgusted by breaking a girl's hymen?

Q.   Okay, so last week, I was getting fingered by a guy that I've been fooling around with. I'm a virgin and I guess I never really took into consideration about my hymen. Anyways, while his fingers were inside of me, he pulled out and said "Are you um, ...

A.   3 September 2012: No,I'm a guy and I never were disgusted by breaking a girl's hymen.There are some guys who get alittle quimish when it comes to blood,but I wouldn't think it would be to the point of disgusted.... (read in full...)

Husband won't work and we are about to lose our house!

Q.   I am needing some advice and am not sure what to do about my marriage. My husband refuses to look for work or get a job. First off, he is not depressed at all. He has seen the doctor for an evaluation and he is not depressed. He was lai...

A.   3 September 2012: Honey,I'm sorry,if there isn't nothing medical going on with him and he is just being lazy and not trying to get a job,then you need send him on his merry way or at least give him 2 choices.Get a job to help out around there or go.... (read in full...)

I hurt my FWB's feelings by talking to another girl. Did I cross boundaries?

Q.   My friend with benefits is not happy with me after she found out that I was speaking to a mutual female acquaintance. I am not interested romantically in this other woman at all. The conversation was about music related activities that we both have ...

A.   3 September 2012: I agree with Honeypie and So Very Confused,You should sit down with you FWB and see what you 2 got going on,because if you 2 are just ONLY FWBs then you didn't cross boundaries.When 2 people are FWBs then they have the right to talk to whoever they ... (read in full...)

Does it bother women if men like their scent?

Q.   I just would like to know is it really gross and disgussing to women if a guy whom they are in a relationship or friends with bennefits with loves their wetness and scent down there during the women sexual arousal?as well as smelling their panties ...

A.   3 September 2012: Honeypie,I'm not only talking about her smelling panties,but their wetness scent down there period. person12345,I am not talking about just some random guy,just the guys who she is involved with sexually. When I say their wetness and scen... (read in full...)

Can someone with bi polar live a normal life with treatment 

Q.   i just had my bf bakeracted . He is bi polar and has run out of his meds since moving back here . He had and appt for this week but i was scared that he wouldnt make it till then so after him trying to hurt himself last night i had him locked up . I ...

A.   2 September 2012: Yes he can live a normal life as long as he stay on his meds.I am a witness to this,because I have a female friend who is bi-polar as well as a sister-in-law and they are living a normal life,of coarse they have appointments with their doctors just ... (read in full...)

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