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Hi everyone,

Something about me ......I enjoy myself trying to help people so maybe that's what brought me to this site! For my age i consider myself as a mature girl coz i passed through rough times in my life from when I wasnt even borned!

I am from MALTA a small island near Italy. Our language is Maltese and our second language is English which few maltese people knows how to talk it!

I am 17 years and my boyfriend is 36 years .....he is not married and no kids. He respects me a lot and we are mad and crazy on each other.

To be loved from the one that you love is the special thing in the whole world.

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I keep having gay thoughts about a close friend. I'm confused! Help.

Q.   Here's the story ... I'm 18 yrs old, I'm not sure if I'm bi-sex u Str8, definetaly not gay. Lately I've been having gay taughts about a friend of mine. I don't like any other guys, I just like him. I continously think about him all day long and...

A.   28 March 2008: hahahaha whenever i wanted to say something .......I usually drink 2 bottles of wine and I say it. I will feel less shy & I wont care. And bdw a real friend stands there for you in however you are so if I were you I would talk to him and tell him ... (read in full...)

I know he had been lying to me but why?

Q.   Ive been talking to this guy on AIM for a few months now (chatting for usualy about on hour evry day), but weve never met. He lives in the same county and a friend of mine went to high school with him so Im pretty sure hes legit. I know hes told me ...

A.   28 March 2008: I am a person that I won't tolarate a dot of a lie. God only knows how much I hate lies ..... grrrrrrr If i were you i would show him that i know eveything and I will block him and delete him! He is not worth of worrying! A thief start to s... (read in full...)

Broke up with her and now she's in a relationship and I feel hurt! Is this love?

Q.   Hello all, Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for almost 4 weeks now even though it feels like only 2, i found out just today that she is in a new relationship, and it makes me kind of upset, i dont know why. I was the one that broke ...

A.   27 March 2008: Hmmm 4 weeks .....So you was the one who broke up mmmm if i were you i wouldn't be shocked that she is seeing another guy. You wanted to see what was out there!! What did you do ?? date other girls?? and than you thought of going back to her?? ... (read in full...)

My ex wanted to stay friends so why is she ignoring me now?

Q.   hi, I have a problem with my ex-girlfriend. after she finished with me we decided to stay friends and i really wanted that because i didn't want to lose her. However i've been feeling like she doesn't want to now. she never makes any effort ...

A.   27 March 2008: HMMmmm it seems now that she got used to the situation that you contact her first .......so if you don't contact her she is going to feel it. she is going to be thinkin like ''oooo how come he didn't contaced me today'' , she will think about it for ... (read in full...)

I want to break up... for him not to feel my pain...and the strictness I have to obey?

Q.   i am fifteen years old and i have a boyfriend.. i really love him so much..we have many plans together for the future..but my parents don't like him..for some reasons..and it hurts me so much..because they don't want me to be with him..i know i'm...

A.   26 March 2008: SO is he your first bf?? I guees u r still school and maybe ur parents are afraid that you'll forget about your school stuff. They r even afraid that you 'll get hurt from him, and they'll be afraid and worried about you.....maybe they know you ... (read in full...)

He told me I had bad breath and I am sooo embarassed!

Q.   I got told the other night when I kissed someone that I had bad breath but then he was fine after, he was just like joking about and making it funny, but it so wasnt! I want to speak to him again but am so imbarressed as it was the 1st time we had ...

A.   25 March 2008: I agree with what kenny said. and dont worry swty if he tells someone make fun of that boy!! he is immature dont feel embarassed.... (read in full...)

A broken heart never really heals.

Q.   She lay on the living room floor with a glass of wine in one hand the bottle in the other love songs sang out of the stereo and tears slowly fell from her eyes everybody she knew seemed to be set on hurting her. Her heart was broken and there wa...

A.   25 March 2008: amazing ...its soooooo nice and its true ! ... (read in full...)

Keep your sex-life alive

Q.   A quick tip for the ladies reading this: I was told once, many years ago that the secret of success in keeping your sex life alive with your partner, whether it be your boyfriend, fiance or husband, is to act like a ----- in the bedroom and a wife ...

A.   25 March 2008: hahahaha this was a good one :) I like it and yea its true ........ and its nice to be a bit wild too man likes it !! It's nice how a woman can change from a sheep in the house and a leopard in bed :) keep it up ladies ... (read in full...)

Irregular period...is there something wrong with me?

Q.   Hi this is quite embarressing I'm 16 and had my first period when I was 13. However it is still very irregualr, sometimes I have a day flow, someitmes I have a week, and sometimes months go without anything at all? I also have bad period pain...

A.   25 March 2008: So mmmm your period is crazy (just kidding) Three years of period is something normal to happen a thing like that......the day flow or a week. To have a day flow or a week it could be coz you was stressed or had some thoughts or problems bear... (read in full...)

True love

Q.   one day i was at skool back in 2002, my friend came to me with a story how she had text a number she made up and started talking to a guy,she told me what they talked about, she thought i should text him and then we could exchange stories. so i did...

A.   25 March 2008: wooooooooooow thats cool !! goodluck im really happy for both of you :D at least we heard a good nice love story... (read in full...)

I want to make him jealous and beg me to be with him, any suggestions?

Q.   how can i make my friend whom i have been fighting with for 2 weeks now jealous and want me the more? help me i love him. but i want him to beg!...

A.   25 March 2008: I beleive in KARMA -- What goes around comes around. Its true ......it happenes to me most of the time. When someone gives you all the attention, you take him forgranted and you won't appreciate him. When someone kick off your bloody ass, you feel ... (read in full...)

She's cheating with me but now she is ignorning me...what can I do??

Q.   I have a girlfriend who's cheating on her boyfriend with me, first I thought it would work out but now problems are coming up, she's ignoring me and not calling. What do I do?...

A.   24 March 2008: Hi , Do you think she is your 'girlfriend??' If a person cheats on her opposite sex than she'll cheat on you too. You can never trust a person like that. If she is ignoring you why are you worrying?? she is not worth it ....don't loose your mind... (read in full...)

She's cheating with me but now she is ignorning me...what can I do??

Q.   I have a girlfriend who's cheating on her boyfriend with me, first I thought it would work out but now problems are coming up, she's ignoring me and not calling. What do I do?...

A.   24 March 2008: Hi , Do you think she is your 'girlfriend??' If a person cheats on her opposite sex than she'll cheat on you too. You can never trust a person like that. If she is ignoring you why are you worrying?? she is not worth it ....don't loose your mind... (read in full...)

My best friend has found another best friend and I feel left out!...

Q.   The past few days i've been really upset because my close friend who i spoke to a lot on msn and was with him everyday. Someone else has come into the picture and they always speek on msn and i hardly get spoken to anymore and when i ask if me and ...

A.   24 March 2008: So ....I passes through this S*** !! The thing was that they were jalouse ..... did you ever found out that they talked something behind your back?? It's hard to accept the fact of why you're being left out. And sometimes you just stay quiet an... (read in full...)

He begs me for blowjobs but never returns the pleasure...what should I do?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months, our sex is always the same, it just consists of me giving him head then he fingers me then we have sex. The problem is im not ever having an orgasm and its getting me down, i know i orgasm when i a ...

A.   24 March 2008: He is selfish as most of the men......a man always want to be satisfied! I dont think its fair on you and I can't understand his way! Don't let him pull you down .....coz soon he'll destroy your self asteam about your body and that definatl... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is 17 years older than I--I worry about how other people see us!

Q.   I'm dating a man 17 years older than me. I really like this guy but sometimes I wonder how people view us as a couple. I think it personally doesn't matter but I would like to know what other peoples' views on this are? ...

A.   24 March 2008: I'm passing through the same problem ....my boyfriend is 18 years older than me! My mum is not talking to me anymore and my grandmother ..the person who raised me up, she is in a shock! I don't really care of what they think, they experien... (read in full...)

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