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| | Fairy_Lu's profile:Im only 19 but ive been through alot of nasty hard times in my life and as ive seen many counsellors and spent many nights with friends crying on my shoulder i always seem to offer them good advice so have a reputation of being a great listener and a good adviser among my friends.
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I miss my teacher. Should I go to his house?
Q. okay so back in june my teacher wasnt allowed to talk to me or for me to speak to him either, but im kinda missing him since i havent spoken to him in around two months now but im debating whether or not to go to his house, yes, i have been before, ...
A. 25 July 2008: Thank you huni for the link.
My advice i think you should just leave him alone and dont go to his house i think he would be taking advantage of you, you are young and there are plenty of people out there dont waste you time on him.
The dir... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over my abusive ex?
Q. my divorce from my ex who was angry and abusive most of the time is nearly through. it has been an awful 2o years of a relationship. i last saw him in dec when i finally reported him to the police for damaging my car. i had never done this kind of ...
A. 24 July 2008: First of all congratulations on getting out of this relationship alot of people dont leave abuse relationships for fear.
I know you hurt at the moment but it will get better i wont lie and say it will be soon but in time you will feel better a... (read in full...)
What if I tell him I'm not ready for sex and as a result he does not want to know me anymore?
Q. hi well im 14 and my boyfriend wonts to have sex with me but i dont think im ready.but what if i tell him that and he doesnt wont to go out with me no more? can some one tell me what i should do plz?...
A. 24 July 2008: Sweetie if your not ready to hae sex then dont at the oldest your 15 so its against the law anyway, but the fact your not ready is more important. If your boyfriend loved and respected you he would wait, if he keeps pestering you then leave him he ... (read in full...)
How do I make sex more satisfying for me?
Q. my boyfreind is the kind of guy who takes control in bed and never lets me have a say and thats all good until the sex is over and i am left unsatisfied and if i have more sex with him he complains we are having to much sex how do i make sex more ...
A. 24 July 2008: Easy talk to him tell him how you feel get him to satisfy you before you have sex or get you to the point of orgasm and then have sex so you would be satisfied. Or if you are both on the adventorous toys buy some toys you can both use together so ... (read in full...)
I miss my teacher. Should I go to his house?
Q. okay so back in june my teacher wasnt allowed to talk to me or for me to speak to him either, but im kinda missing him since i havent spoken to him in around two months now but im debating whether or not to go to his house, yes, i have been before, ...
A. 24 July 2008: Heya some background info on this would be great as i dont have a clue whats going on with you and your teacher.
But as he is your teacher its against the law to date him if thats what your asking, he would loose his job and could get into ser... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated, and I'm the one who ends up apologising for my jealousy! No more. Advice?
Q. boyfriend cheated on me in the past twice and begged me for his forgiveness, telling me how much he love me an all that. So i did because i do love him back. But now weve had problems with trust since then and he wanted us to have some time apart. ...
A. 24 July 2008: My advice my honest advice is dump him and do it now he is using you and when he wants going off to someone else, you dont need this your better then this dump him now he will only cheat on you again and come back to you because you will take him ... (read in full...)
Will I grow any more? Can I do anything about it?
Q. I'm 17 is it too late to grow? I'm 5.9 and really wanna be a bit taller I've started the gym and go every week atleast. DO you think i will get any taller? My dads about 6.2 and my mum is about 5.1 ish :S Is there anything i can do b...
A. 24 July 2008: Sweetie how tall we are depends on our genes, im sorry but there is nothing you can do to make yourself taller just be happy with who you are ... (read in full...)
It hurts when I pee. Could I have cystitis?
Q. It hurts when I Pee. It only happens in the mornings and I wake up and go to the loo but keeping needing to go and it hurts quite a bit when I do go. I dont pass alot of urine. I had sex quite a lot over the past week (6 times) but with a condom. Do ...
A. 23 July 2008: Yep sure sounds like it i find the best thing to do is every time you pee drink a glass of water or cranberry juice or even lemon and barley it helps me get rid off it the only problem is afterwards you have to pee all the liquid you drink, but pop ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to conceive. Could I be pregnant now?
Q. Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past two months, as i hardly see him, its hard to concieve on that exact day. Last month, we were unlucky as i had my period 3-6th July. Ihave 27 day cycles. i used this website to determin...
A. 20 July 2008: I apologise for my answer but i work for a housing association and most of out tenants are teenage mums who's famillies have kicked them out because they got pregnant,there partners have left them someone of them struggle to make ends meet there ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to conceive. Could I be pregnant now?
Q. Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past two months, as i hardly see him, its hard to concieve on that exact day. Last month, we were unlucky as i had my period 3-6th July. Ihave 27 day cycles. i used this website to determin...
A. 20 July 2008: I dont mean to be preachy but why do you want a child at such a young age? You need to think about whether you are emotionally and finacially ready for a baby because at the oldest it says you are 17 an avergae 17 year old lives at home has a part ... (read in full...)
Is there someone out there for everyone? What if they live in another country?
Q. Hello. I'm 25, English and never had a proper girlfriend. I'm also a virgin. The truth is nobody wants me. People say you'll meet someone but I know I won't. I know this question gets asked more times but I would like some help. The problem is I ...
A. 20 July 2008: Im sorry you are feeling so low but being self pitying is not a good quality, you should just be enjoying life who cares if you dont have a girlfriend, you may hate bars pubs and clubs but sometimes you have to do things you dont like to meet ... (read in full...)
My mum and dad have been arguing, and my mum said she hates me. I don't know what to do and I need advice.
Q. I am an 8 year old boy from Cupar in Fife in Scotland. My mum and dad have been not really been getting on well and they have had some bad arguments. One day my mum got very annoyed with my big brother for putting a towel in with the dirty clothes. ...
A. 16 July 2008: Im sorry that she said that to you and sorry for your situation but sometimes people say stupid things in the heat of the moment and they dont really mean it, sounds to me that your mum is very stressed at the moment and taking it out on her kids, i ... (read in full...)
I had a baby very young and people seem to judge me. How should I handle this?
Q. why do people always judge me when they see my in the streets, or abuse me and call me all the names under the sun when they see me with my child. im 16 now, just after my 14th birthday i was raped by a friend of my cousins in his late 20's and ...
A. 4 July 2008: People judge other people its what happens on a daily basis everyone assumes something about someone without even realising it.
What happend to you is trully awful but you have something to show for it you have a bright light that came from a s... (read in full...)
My partner speaks to her "friend" daily. Then I found sexual text messages...
Q. I have recently got engaged and moved in with my partner. Until last week, everything was perfect and i couldn't imagine anything else i could wish for in life until we were driving home from work, my partner took a phone call from a friend i had ...
A. 30 June 2008: Ok this sounds very suspicious to me i think you need to put her to the test go away on the day you said you would, leave it a few hours till you know she will be home then pop back home and is she is with someone well maybe you should think about ... (read in full...)
How can I be sure I lost my virginity?
Q. well i had sex with my boyfriend. who is 19 and i am 15. yes i love him and i know he loves me and i dont regret doing it with him. but i didnt feel much pain so how am i sure i lost my virginity without telling my doctor?...
A. 26 June 2008: The fact you even had to ask this just shows how young you are, please be careful and always use protection. ... (read in full...)
Why is he pushing me away?
Q. my partner and i had a full satisfying relationship for 4 yrs until i had my gaul bladder removed 7 mths ago and he has not come anywhere near me since we dont hold hands we dont hug we barely talk anymore we used to share the same bed like to ...
A. 26 June 2008: You need to have a serious chat to this guy and make him tell you what he wants, this change of attitude is odd and really seems to be hurting you, you need to sit down and tell him how you feel. ... (read in full...)
I was raped by my father's boss, what do I do?
Q. Please someone has to help me. I can't live with this anymore. when i was 10 I was raped by my Fathers Boss. His boss is also one of his good friends. My Dad and his co-workers had a party to celebrate their works aniversary. All my Dads fr...
A. 26 June 2008: Ok well first things first well done for being brave enough to tell us what has happend as a victom myself i know how hard it is to talk about it and how much it controlas your life.
Right you need to tell someone in authority police teacher ... (read in full...)
Are mermaids real?
Q. My name is Annisa and I am 12 years old. I have been interested in this new t.v show/series called H2o. This show is about 3 bestfriends who turn into mermaids. Also with becoming mermaids they have powers. Each mermaid has a special power of their ...
A. 26 June 2008: Sweetie im from england and have seen the pictures of those mermaids and unfortunatly it was revealed it was a hoax, people have had pictures of the lochness monster and that definetly is not real either, fantasy is exactly that fantasy it gives ... (read in full...)
How can a man manage to keep his virginity?
Q. how can a male manage to keep his virginity through the post-GCSE summer when most of his female friends are losing theirs?...
A. 25 June 2008: Im a bit worried that all your girl friends are having sex after there GCSE'S hun, dont follow the crowed, remeber just because everyone else is doing something doesnt mean you need to either.
Hope your exams went well i loved that summer a... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be feeling like this??
Q. do you think im out of order to be unhappy and upset over this? well basicly im 16 and i live in the uk, ive just left school and at the moment ive just finished my exams and am looking for a job like most others my age. ive been goin out with my ...
A. 25 June 2008: Oh huni im so sorry you feel like this and your parents are treating you like this, its extremly unfair that you younger sister can have a boyfriend round and you cant, what i think you need to do is show them the post you have made and let them ... (read in full...)
Are mermaids real?
Q. My name is Annisa and I am 12 years old. I have been interested in this new t.v show/series called H2o. This show is about 3 bestfriends who turn into mermaids. Also with becoming mermaids they have powers. Each mermaid has a special power of their ...
A. 25 June 2008: Sorry sweetie im afraied there is no evidence to suggest that mermaids exist, just another legend like unicorns and faeries. ... (read in full...)
I had been playing online with this girl that I really like and now she is with someone else... how can I get over it?
Q. Hello everyone.Here i go.18 months ago i started to play an online game and a year ago i met a girl there.We were just friends but after a while we started to do everything together.We were spending whole day together.When i logon in the morning she ...
A. 20 June 2008: You just have to accept that there together you didnt make a move on her so neither of them know how you feel just smile and be happy for them, a better girl is just around the corner but next time dont leave it till its to late to tell her! ... (read in full...)
Was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before?
Q. This question may sound really stupid and weird, but I was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before? I am 22 and my boyfriend and I are doing a post- april fools sort of sex surprise thing, we are meeting up together...
A. 19 June 2008: Ouch sounds painful, i would go to a salon get it waxed into a heart shape and dyed pink,cute and strange and almost completely pain free ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him treat me better?
Q. My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...
A. 19 June 2008: Im going to say this as nice as possible.
Get rid of him!
What a complete perverted rapist pig i would go to the police then get rid of him you deserve better this is unacceptable thats not love. He doesnt love you he is using you WAKE U... (read in full...)
I had been playing online with this girl that I really like and now she is with someone else... how can I get over it?
Q. Hello everyone.Here i go.18 months ago i started to play an online game and a year ago i met a girl there.We were just friends but after a while we started to do everything together.We were spending whole day together.When i logon in the morning she ...
A. 19 June 2008: Sweetie im sorry you got hurt but i have to be honest as far as im aware you never let her know you felt something towards her maybe she thought you didnt like her that way and when someone else came along she didnt think it would hurt you because ... (read in full...)
Do I leave her to it and see what happens?
Q. 3 months ago i broke up with my GF of 2 and half years because although i know its wrong to do so, i read her messages due to someone we both knows telling me that she has been txting some other guy and not just as friends, so i read these messages ...
A. 18 June 2008: Im not sure of the right way to say this so im just going to say it.
YOUR BEING USED WAKE UP!
he wants her cake and to eat and your letting her get away with it. She is using you then when she gets bored she gets rid of you and gets with so... (read in full...)
My abusive ex has decided that he wants me back, since he found out I was dating again! Should I return to him after he kicked me and our son out??
Q. well i was in a relationship for about 4 years going on to 5 this year, we met when we were in high school i was a junior and he was a senior. we dated for about 5 motnhs when i came out preagnant. we decided to keep the baby and u know i thought he ...
A. 18 June 2008: Hun why do you want to get back with him yuo deserve so much better, dont even think about getting back with him. ... (read in full...)
What could this severe pain in my lower stomach be?
Q. Hi. My sex life with my boyfriend is really good at the moment and we've been trying out lots of new positions. I really enjoy it but lately after sex I've been getting really severe pains in my lower stomach. The pain is really bad and usually ...
A. 17 June 2008: Hey hun your doing the right thing going to the doctor it could be a grumbling appendix but you would know if you needed it out ASAP because it hurts so much you cant even talk, move its agony, also trapped wind is also very painful so might just be ... (read in full...)
My sisters husband forced me to have sex
Q. i lost my virginity at age 12 with my sisters husband. i dident want to but he forced me. know i dont know if to tell my sister wat happend. wat should i do?...
A. 17 June 2008: Sweetie im so sorry that this has happend to you rape is an awful thing you have been brave by telling us on here what has happend but you do need to tell people who can do something about this mainly your sister she needs to know she married a ... (read in full...)
Should I go against myself and be a FWB, and enjoy myself with him and be heartbroken if he finds true love elsewhere, or do I cut my losses and run?
Q. I'm 32 and recently began chatting online to a really great 37 year guy. We got on really well, and after about a month, we met up. And got on really really well. I stayed at his and we had a great weekend together. (yes we slept togethe...
A. 17 June 2008: This all seems very confusing to me, i know how you feel towards him and he knows how you feel towards him but there is no mention of how he feels for you. And to be honest i think you need to find out what he feels and what he wants because i would ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about putting on weight if I take the pill. Are there ways to avoid it?
Q. I'm having to go on the pill, due to heavy periods and unbearable stomach cramps. However, I'm concerned of the side-effects... Apparently you can gain alot of weight, i'm not prepared to sacrafice my pain for that!!! I'm tall and fairly slim, this ...
A. 17 June 2008: There are many diffrent types of pills each with diffrent side effects i went on the pill at 15 due to very heavey periods and cramps so bad i couldnt even move. Since then i have been on 4 diffrent types and not one of them has made me gain any ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I've been recording our conversations?
Q. recently ive been recording me and my girls conversations without her knowing. i do this so i can play them back later and analyze what she said. should i tell her about this or would that seem sketchy?...
A. 9 June 2008: Errrmm im not sure how to say this but, what is wrong with you? That is so creepy, why do you feel the need to do that? ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me?? I keep going back!
Q. Hey, I need help with my confusing situation! Long story short, I've been seeing a guy 6 years older than I am (I'm 18) for the past year. I've cried over him too much and promised myself I'd get over him and see other guys,thing is, I never really ...
A. 9 June 2008: Ok this guy is controlling you and using you to play his game to make him self feel powerful and in control. Some guys are like that they like to make there partners feel useless and worthless and make them cry.
So end the games now he has play... (read in full...)
This guy won't leave me alone!!
Q. Hello everyone, My problem is that there is a guy who won't stop texting me, when I don't reply, he emails me. He changes his MSN names and facebook statuses to the EXACT same as mine for instance I had a quote from my favourite TV show - Black Bo...
A. 9 June 2008: Just be honest with him i dont think he realises what he is doing to you and how he is making you feel, he obviously idolises you so just be nice and gently explain that he is making you feel uncomfotable and if he continues copying you there is a ... (read in full...)
Time has healed my wounds to certain extent, but as of yet, it hasn't brought a new girl to me! I hate being single!
Q. I've had a big kick backwards as far as moving on from my ex is concerned, tonight. I'd had a good evening, came up onto the computer where I got an e-mail from the site "Friends Reunited". I decided since I hadn't checked it in about a year to ...
A. 22 May 2008: First loves are always remeber and you always feel something for them but you do have to move on, or else you will continue living in the past and never letting yourself heal.
Join a club do online dating go out with your friends dont sit back... (read in full...)
He says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Could you please translate this?!
Q. Guys, can you help me out here....... He broke up with me - suddenly - after 3 years, hasn't given a reason (I'm sure he's seeing someone else) but he says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Translation ple...
A. 22 May 2008: Im sorry to hear this but with out asking him what he means there is no way to know, just ask him or just leave it alone and find someone better. ... (read in full...)
I love him with all my heart but hes in love with the fake picture of me!
Q. I met this guy and we talked online alot and we got on really well and he said he loved me and i loved him he asked for a picture a few weeks later and then after he saw my picture he didnt want to know he still talked but as friends and he ...
A. 6 May 2008: Hun you really want to be with a guy who loves a picture and goes for people with looks? Hmm i would delete your other account and leave him to his shallow ways ... (read in full...)
My wife feels she is showing her age, but I disagree! How can I make her feel better about herself?
Q. Hi my wife is in her mid forties and i thing she is very attractive. i am sure other men think the same way about her. i know for a fact that a few friends of ours think she is. she has started to say her 'boobs are saggie, and she has love han...
A. 22 April 2008: take her to get some photos done some proffessional photos she will spend the day with everyone focusing on her telling her how amazing she is and at the end of it she will have gorgeous photos and she can put them up and always be reminded that ... (read in full...)
I just had a baby but could I be pregnant AGAIN?!
Q. I just had a baby a month and a half ago and I had sex for the first time 6 days ago and continued all weekend but we used a condom. I know this is alot of detail but at one time we used the same condom for 2 to 4 hours and for the past 3 days I ...
A. 17 April 2008: they should start sex education when your 5 or maybe your mother should have told you about safe sex while you were still in her womb this has to be a joke ... (read in full...)
Pregnant with his baby and he's cheated on me! He's only with me for the baby. Should I move on? Or forgive?
Q. Ok So Im 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend has cheated on me. I feel so hurt and angry. He has told me that he has relly strong feelings for the other woman. And He is only staying with me for the baby. All I do is cry and I dont eat. He calls me a ...
A. 11 April 2008: He cheated on you and loves another women he isnt worth veing upset over he is a worthless useless loser who has no idea how lucky he. He isnt worth crying over you need to eat for yourself and this baby he isnt worth any of this, dont stay with him ... (read in full...)
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