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Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. Hey guys, I know I've asked this question before but now with a few more leads. I think he has caught onto me used to liking him so he has been giving out the same signs aswell lately. I can't bare to look at him during class anymore because ...
A. 28 April 2009: Another good way is if you can: Find another love interest around your own age at your school. if your school is co-ed then it should make things clear to the teacher also.
Don't feel bad about it, I think this sort of thing happens to alot of ... (read in full...)
Sex CAN be beautiful!
Q. I have made love with 3 of my ex-boyfirneds and my current bf. I was amazed by how romantic and gentle and beautiful sex could be. all my exbfs were virgins and sex with them was boring, tiring (I had to move from the beginning to the end and I am...
A. 28 April 2009: I personally think that sex (Making love) with somebody you love, loves you or even better both love each other is far more pleasing in the bedroom than just having sex with somebody who your not in love with.
I too have had the same experien... (read in full...)
He keeps staring at me! What's going on in his mind?
Q. Hi. I think this guy likes me. We have never talked before but he always looks at me constantly. Whenever I walk past he will just stare at me until i look at him, and then he'll look away. He doesn't do it to any other girls except me. He tries to ...
A. 28 April 2009: It all delends of you like him, and him looking at you or not. DO YOU?
Ask him. But its either: He likes you or; he does not like you. So go ask him and find out. just say: "Why you keep looing at me all the time - its kinda creepy?" or "Why are... (read in full...)
What does "Friends with Benefits" mean?
Q. Hello, i was talking to my ex-boyfriend, and he said we can be friends. im fine with that.He also said we could be friends with benifits. What did he mean? thank you....
A. 28 April 2009: yep, below is true. Friends with benifits are also people (in your case) boys who just want to have you in their little black book. Thats not to say he wont have feelings for you he will when he wants to be with you. It just means there wont be a ... (read in full...)
I am tearing my hair out trying to understand him!
Q. Help please I'm in a relationship with a guy but he is so hard to read when it comes to his feelings that i am always tearing my hair out trying to understand him. He always txts me in the morning but today he was late so i sent him a txt that said ...
A. 27 April 2009: Your not obsessing. You are simply starting to over-analyse the situation. don't worry about him, just take it easy.
What ever you do, try not to take anything non face to face to seriously its almost always incorrect in the feelings you will rec... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. Hey guys, I know I've asked this question before but now with a few more leads. I think he has caught onto me used to liking him so he has been giving out the same signs aswell lately. I can't bare to look at him during class anymore because ...
A. 25 April 2009: Yes, based on the psychology of the body language you described and the body comment he said to you its highly likley he has sexual interst in you. But as you know his professional situation is his concern.... (read in full...)
In Love with 15 year old guy and I'm 13
Q. Dear Cupid, I really like this guy, he's a gentleman to every girl and he knows who i am the only thing is that he's 2 years older than me!, and i believe that age doesn't matter but he's in my sisters grade see, I'm 13 and he's 15. I've tried to...
A. 25 April 2009: This happened to me almost exactly the same when I was 15. Just tell him. At least you will get your answer or to lessen the burden ask a friend of his if he is interested, make sure its somebody you could generally trust.
If word gets out just... (read in full...)
In a foreign country; the only person I can lean on is drifting away from me!
Q. So I'm in a really bad place right now. I'm 24, and when I left university, I taught English abroad to make money and met a Canadian guy who I really fell in love with. Long story short we stuck together from then on and I eventually came to Canada ...
A. 25 April 2009: One of the true great challenges in life is one you are facing now. True love defies all obsticales and I know even though you feel there is no love there or it is fading away, know that it is not, that it is only beeing blinded by the financial ... (read in full...)
Why don't I fancy him? He's Perfect!
Q. Im so inlove with my boyfriend ,he is the sweetest kindest most loving person there is . He absolutly adores me .. we have been going out for three years now .. sounds blissful doesnt it? everyone envys my handsome loving boyfriend ,he is really ...
A. 24 April 2009:
We can love people, but we can also fall out of love. Especially when we are growing and learning about the world. For men, the first love is magical, It's all heart, and the sex is fully emotional and all, so its likley why its really great for ... (read in full...)
My horrific past is haunting me
Q. For a year I went out with my bf who abused me really badly, not only physically but emotionally and sexually (in which he raped me). I broke it off with him, so I guess hes always had anger towards me for that. For atleast a year after the b...
A. 24 April 2009: Hello,
Firstly, he’s a real looser! Someday he’ll meet his match, what goes around comes around. And It’s good that you have found the strength in yourself to leave in the first place. There are women in very similar situations as you once wer... (read in full...)
I always think that if I hold on a little bit more she would love me again, but nothing's happening..
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. At first were were having fun and I can see that she loves me as much as I love her but now things got a little bad for me. She told me about this guy that she was talking with on the inte...
A. 9 April 2009: What a crappy girlfriend... you deserve much better from somebody, i know you must feel for her and this situation but if you can find it in yourself somewhere that you may need to prepare yourself to move on it would help you greatly.
Ive h... (read in full...)
I always think that if I hold on a little bit more she would love me again, but nothing's happening..
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. At first were were having fun and I can see that she loves me as much as I love her but now things got a little bad for me. She told me about this guy that she was talking with on the inte...
A. 2 April 2009: Mate that does not work. As i said you need to tell her, and if she wants to be with you then be with you - not some other guy. just say something like: "Look, your my girlfriend right?" She'll say yes. Then say "Its not normal, nor hardly mature if ... (read in full...)
How do you get over someone you love?
Q. how do you get over someone you love? she was my first love and its hard cause i think about her all the time and all the memories we had and theres been alot cause we were together for 2 years. im not trying to forget her or trying to stop thinking ...
A. 30 March 2009: Ill tell you the secret and it actually works for me.
You'll have to do somthing a little daring. Be honest with yourself and ask do you really love her... Really have a good think about it because the next part will take some real guts.
... (read in full...)
How can you tell he likes you?
Q. Hi everybody, I absolutely need to know this. I know this might sound really pathetic. If a boy doesn't tell you that he likes you, then how do you tell? Please be gentle because I am new to the whole boys-liking-me thing. Thanks. (Mod Note: Pl...
A. 29 March 2009: Simply by the communication. If hes talking to you and its positive and sweet talk then he genuinly likes you.... (read in full...)
Tips for having sex with a taller woman
Q. I am on the short side and have been dating a woman who is taller than I am. I don’t think the differences in our heights should be a reason for us not to have sex. Any tips for having sex with a taller woman? What positions work well? ...
A. 29 March 2009: To answer your question one of the best positions with a taller woman is when shes on top, so long as she likes that and you do too. The reason is, well to be honest, is that her breasts are right there in front of you to play with.
Im not shor... (read in full...)
Ex suddenly very affectionate..never was in the past!
Q. my ex boyfriend was at the same party as me last week ... when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him even thou he broke my heart .. after stuff that he told my best mate i decided i had enough of making an ...
A. 29 March 2009: Sound like he was already an affectionate person before but wasn't really sure about you until he lost you.
Firstly, it's very questionable how he calls you only asking straight out for a "root" durins SMS's can you see how because you love him... (read in full...)
I asked my b/f to marry me and he said "I don't know"
Q. i feel as though i may have made the worst mistake in my life. i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year and i have never felt the way i do with him with anyone else and i have a ton of exboyfriends. i asked him to marry be because i ...
A. 29 March 2009: Yes, ask him why have a good chat about it and then make your decision from there.
Traditionally, as you know a guy asks a girl, but girls asking is on the increase. the good thing about that is it allows her to not beat around the bush with a g... (read in full...)
LDR and I have so many doubts about his love for me
Q. I wish you could all give me a little advice, and tell me what you think. I am 30 years old and I've been in a LDR for about 4 years. My bf and I have been through some really ups and down. We have had fight about the distance, trust, dishonesty, ...
A. 29 March 2009: Yes, you see he's simply keeping you hooked on his line. this means he does not show you much interest or say he loves you even though he might do so. he makes you perceive he's chasing another girl to make you "think" he's not interested in you all ... (read in full...)
How many positions during sex?
Q. Quick poll/survey/whatever you want to call it: How many positions do you like to go through during sex?...
A. 29 March 2009: 4... (read in full...)
Will she want to go out with me again?
Q. hi well my ex that i loved with everything i had (but i dont anymore only a lil) and i broke up um about a week or two ago and she told me to stop textin her so i did and we havent talked for like a week. the last time we broke up she told me the ...
A. 29 March 2009: It sounds as though, although she might genuinely love you or have feelings for you, you seem to be a place holder. meaning when she finds another love interest she will dump you or stop communication, so she can make herself available and so she ... (read in full...)
Just want to be friends...
Q. Sigh...well here it goes... This girl at my school asked me if I liked her while we were txting and I said ya cuz I really do! Anyways before I even asked her out she told me she just wants to be friends... That was like a month ago and now she comp...
A. 29 March 2009: Why does she think your annoying? have you been trying to get her attention too much?
At least your talking and having a bit of a convo, thats a good start. What do her friends say?... (read in full...)
I had sex with 2 girls who are considered 'sluts', now I have a nice girlfriend. Should I tell her?
Q. Hey, something has been bothering me! I've been in a relationship with a girl for 3 months, she's a nice, respectful girl! What's bothering is that she's a virgin and I think she thinks I'm a virgin also. A few months back before the relationship I ...
A. 24 March 2009: Take it easy bro, tell you GF. She'll be cool if she "loves" you enough. But if you really did it after you started dating, god help your arse! She will eventually find out.
If she's religious then im sorry to say. it'll be a tough one, as some ... (read in full...)
I always think that if I hold on a little bit more she would love me again, but nothing's happening..
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. At first were were having fun and I can see that she loves me as much as I love her but now things got a little bad for me. She told me about this guy that she was talking with on the inte...
A. 24 March 2009: Id tell her to get ... If your her boyfriend, and she told you of another guy who's more mature and all that crap then what the hell is she doing being with you... ?
Mate if she's so mature she wouldnt be checking out other guys on the internet... (read in full...)
Just want to be friends...
Q. Sigh...well here it goes... This girl at my school asked me if I liked her while we were txting and I said ya cuz I really do! Anyways before I even asked her out she told me she just wants to be friends... That was like a month ago and now she comp...
A. 24 March 2009: There's really no way unfortunatley. So its better and far easier to move on.
Communication is the key to all relationships, and she's making the effort to cut it short or cut it completley. Therefore she does not want to be your friend. Or she's... (read in full...)
Do good guys come last when you are choosing who you want to go out with?
Q. This is a question for the women of all ages cos I want to know what each generation of women think. I am a kind, considerate guy. I always treat girls like they deserve. I don't want you to think I'm big headed or perfect cos I know I'm not. On...
A. 19 March 2009: Depends if he's smart or dumb. I'm a good guy and if I want that girl ill go first leaving mr bad behind - I know how to treat a lady, protect her, nurture her. And if i see what i really want ill go for her - i have confidence in myself. plus i ... (read in full...)
What kind of woman/girl would you go for?
Q. For a while now, every guy that I have seemed to like is interested in that stick thin, big boobed, blonde haired type, and seeing as I am a size 10/12 [in UK sizes] brunette, I just wondered.... this is one for the guys, but women feel free to ...
A. 19 March 2009: This is my scoop on things:
Person
Someone down to earth, must be in it for the love, and not the toys, (us guys can see fake women from a mile, but honestly, do sometimes play dumb when a hot beauty comes along, only to enjoy the sex. But tha... (read in full...)
Do men have a forgiving nature?
Q. do guys have forgiven nature or not.guy said i was rotten to him years ago and he still mad me for it.and i said sorry and i didn,t mean to hurt his feelings.but i really didn,t .but i though he was making fun of me,i didn,t even know he liked me ...
A. 14 March 2009: I really feel sorry for some women because all there lives they have met men who are so crule in the end and that's all they come to know.
A girlfriend of mine actually thought that was normal so she started doing it herself to guys when the rela... (read in full...)
My boyfriend checks out other women all the time, how can I get him to stop?
Q. my boyf is constantly pointing out the hotness of other women. at first when we met i laughed it off but it's really starting to hurt my feelings. i'm not an especially jealous person, i dont care about him saying some actress is hot or anything but ...
A. 13 March 2009: Thats shitty! What a slacker! Id put it in his face and say well what are you wating for? go tell her not me then!
Or just take the time to tell him you don't like it and you dont wanna hear it any more.
Alot of guys just say it because they ... (read in full...)
How can I make this weekend special?
Q. Me and my bf have been going out just over a month (was a month on monday) :). I've always had a little thing for him aswell. Anyways... We spend the weekends round each others houses (he lives an hours bus ride away, but we both go to the same c...
A. 12 March 2009: Yep thats right you dont have too make love but you asked for something different or nice. And love making IS nice.... (read in full...)
How do you want it baby?
Q. While me and my boyfriend are doing foreplay, and getting 'heatin' up for sex. He ALWAYS asks me "how you want it, baby?" and i get sooo put on the spot! We have no names for any of our positions, and...i can't even think of anything sexy to say. ...
A. 8 March 2009: Id actually try asking him first and see how he feels about it. I know this puts you on the spot but it may very well be he could be a little nervous with it too.
Try it and let us know what happens
Cheers :)... (read in full...)
Interested in an older woman... how can I find out more about her past sex life?
Q. I have been friends with an older woman for a while now. I am interested in moving out of the friendship zone and become lovers with her. How should I let her know this? Any tips for telling her this? She is what I call a “beautiful” woma...
A. 4 March 2009: Yep don't ask. One of the top rules: never ask a woman about her past.
Just go with the flow and don't let it blow.
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Need to hear from people who have broken up with their first love and re-connected after many years?
Q. Has anyone broken up with their first real love only to get back together for good later on in life? I love him with all my heart and Im finding it possible that my heart keeps breaking more and more every day he's not here. its been seven months ...
A. 4 March 2009: Let her go and tell her you'd like to see how she is in a few years. Just let her know she was your first love then move on. Try to leave on good terms.
My first love is now one of my best friends. We did not see each other for about 6 or 7 years ... (read in full...)
How can I make this weekend special?
Q. Me and my bf have been going out just over a month (was a month on monday) :). I've always had a little thing for him aswell. Anyways... We spend the weekends round each others houses (he lives an hours bus ride away, but we both go to the same c...
A. 4 March 2009: To make it special or remembered you would have to do something out of the ordinary. Are you wanting to make love with him? Will it be your first time with him? What so what do you really want to achieve?
Say if you did want to make love with him... (read in full...)
My ex has got back in touch saying he wants to be really good friends with me... Why???
Q. My ex boyfriend never did care about me. He lied, went behind my back seeing other girls, complained to his friends about me - about how he did't want to be with me. After more than one year of not being in a relationship and treating me rather ...
A. 4 March 2009: Did he take some time away after the break up? If so this is a good step he as taken but you may need more time to evaluate if you want to be friends with him. Establishing friendship after a breakup and a prolongued period of time that gives you ... (read in full...)
Do men have a forgiving nature?
Q. do guys have forgiven nature or not.guy said i was rotten to him years ago and he still mad me for it.and i said sorry and i didn,t mean to hurt his feelings.but i really didn,t .but i though he was making fun of me,i didn,t even know he liked me ...
A. 4 March 2009:
Of course we do. Why is he making you feel so bad? to call him and keep making you feel guilty??? so you feel obliged to speak to him all the time? sounds like he could be using it as a way to lead you on kind of like hooking a fish on a line befo... (read in full...)
I fall in love very easily!
Q. I have a problem. I fall in love very easily and normally is unconditional. In that aspect no other woman catches my eye. Now I did it again but, she does not feel the same. Therefore my question is how can I stop falling so quickly. That way when I ...
A. 2 March 2009: Mate I just would like to share a bit of light here: True love is not always reciprocated. True Love is when one loves another weather that person loves them or not in return for all the qualities that that person has. someone does not have to love ... (read in full...)
I feel a break up coming on and am trying to determine exactly why?
Q. My wife and I have been together for 5 years now and almost married for two, and have a 3 year old daughter. Our relationship started out as your fairy tale love at first sight and I even played the night in shining armor so to speak when her and ...
A. 2 March 2009: Yes, I too agree with most of what Gina says.
However we need to take it one step further for you. You see it is common that people do fall out of love its a normal part of life and from what im gathering here if shes genuine it seems as though s... (read in full...)
Does his attentiveness and effort mean anything in terms of his interest in me?
Q. I met a guy online and he just asked me out. We went to the same college years ago so I know he’s not some strange old man :) We’ve been emailing for just over 2 weeks and I've seen load of pictures of him. He’s very attentive to what I say and r...
A. 2 March 2009: I agree partly with the below poster but I can tell you a man would only go out with you for three reasons one, yes, for sex or two for a relationship or not rarly but very often both! - guys will certianly keep a girl if she's great in the bedroom ... (read in full...)
Help settle an argument!
Q. My boyfriend and I are having an argument about cheating. No neither of us is but we can't agree as to what can be defined as cheating. I said that if I made a girl on girl video (hypothetical) but he wasn't allowed to see it BUT I told him about...
A. 2 March 2009: Cheating is where you do somthing with another person in spite or againsed to respective wishes of your lover. heating can be defined not just having sex with another person but also going with someone else that your pertner finds competative. for ... (read in full...)
Fate? Just a really weird coinicidence?
Q. Almost 1 year ago i called an old boyfriend and another guy answered the phone the new owner of that number and from then until now we are still communicating with each other but we've never met in person the strange thing is i now have strong ...
A. 2 March 2009: Im a believer in Karma, If you do good it will come back to you in kind, if you do bad it will come back and bight you on the arse in some way or another. In other words what goes around comes around, and what comes around goes around.
It looks as... (read in full...)
I fall in love very easily!
Q. I have a problem. I fall in love very easily and normally is unconditional. In that aspect no other woman catches my eye. Now I did it again but, she does not feel the same. Therefore my question is how can I stop falling so quickly. That way when I ...
A. 2 March 2009: I dont think one is able to tell when he or she falls in love it just happens when it does. Consider yourself very lucky to experience this - unfortuatley not many people get to have this gift most peopl only experience once, twice or mabey three ... (read in full...)
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