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Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?
Answered by LJ001 + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and ...A. 9 May 2008: Honey this is just all natural, I don't think you're getting enough clitoral stimulation and this is why you are not orgasming. Have a bit more foreplay, or masturbate while he has sex wih you.... (read in full...)
I need to talk about being together. How should I approach it?
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. well, ive been seeing this dude for sometime now about two months or so and we also have sex together like two to four times a week. and i feel close to him, he takes me out to eat and we have fun together. well over time i have gained feelings for ...A. 9 May 2008: www.acmelove.com/romance/top-10-romantic-lines.php
lovetips4all.wordpress.com/2007/07/28/my-voted-10-most-romantic-movie-lines/
Make some changes and use these lines in your text.
you are a kid,even asking for lines to text.
strange t... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by Uncle_Phil + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: Oh dear, Sis! Ham? Nearly right. It's also known as the 'Pork Sword'.
Damage to this particular part of the male anatomy is also referred to as 'Snapping the Banjo string'. I remember once when I was in Mombasa . . . . . . but I'd rather f... (read in full...)
My husband fell out with me on our wedding night, it was terrible! Will he react this way again?
Answered by :):):) + on 9 May 2008.
Q. My husband fell out with me on our wedding night, it was terrible, I spent the whole night crying and he said he didn't love me and it was over.. well you might ask how did it all start? Well after many stressful months of planning the day arrived ...A. 9 May 2008: I'd see what happens, if it was 7 months ago and your husband had quite a bit to drink then chances are he wont remember him. Besides dropping you're nephews friend into conversation could stir up trouble.
Try not to drink too much and if poss... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: Yes go and get 1 sex mate. lol!!!!!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says there are hotter girls than me. How can I feel better about myself now?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going through a rough patch lately... I asked him if he was still with me just because of the sex (because it seems it's the time he enjoys the most when he's with me), so he said: "Look, there are hotter girls tha...A. 9 May 2008: He's being honest, that's rare and important. It means that he will tell you what's going on in his head, it may not always come out the best way but he seems to me like an honest guy. I socialise more with my boyfriends friends than my own and ... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: Government organises "blood donation camp" and lisa will "sperm donation camp". but hey why don't you join hands .first he will donate his blood and then sperms.
lol!!!... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period
Answered by :):):) + on 9 May 2008.
Q. i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...A. 9 May 2008: I also have two older sisters so I know how you feel completely! Starting your period happens to every girl at some point so its really nothing to be embarassed about.
Tell her when you're sisters arent there, she'll probably be expecting you to t... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period
Answered by malvern + on 9 May 2008.
Q. i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...A. 9 May 2008: All you have to say to your mum is this, " Mum I think I've started" and she'll know what you mean and take it from there. You may just be busy doing something else while you say this so you don't have to look your mum straight in the eye. Don't ... (read in full...)
Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?
Answered by :):):) + on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and ...A. 9 May 2008: Its completely normal, most women find it easier to orgasm through clitoral stimulation not through sexual intercourse. Concentrate on this aspect and tell him what you like. Im sure he'll be understanding.
Good luck
xxx... (read in full...)
She is 14, I am 17 and want to have sex....
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Me and my girlfriend are virgins and want to give it to eachother sometime soon, she is 14, i am 17, so im pretty sure that is illegal in the state of georgia, but we are so in love and really want to. how dumb am i for taking this risk with h...A. 9 May 2008: If you are truly in love, then waiting untill you have both achieved the legal age of consent will not be a challenge in the slightest. What you desire to do is illegal throughout the entire United States of America, as well as the majority of the ... (read in full...)
We're trying to conceive but he can't ejaculate! What can I do?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I hope some of you will be able to help. This is probably going to be long but I need advice real bad. I don't know what else to do! OKay, so my partner has difficulty ejaculating for some reason. But the sex is good, at least I think so, so i...A. 9 May 2008: Yeh thanks, I've seen Juno but we're not two teenagers that wouldn't know how to raise a baby or be able to provide for it.
I never said he was constantly drunk, I was just wondering if his alcohol intake might be preventing him from ejaculat... (read in full...)
I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...A. 9 May 2008: Your husband should come with same idea and leave you before you tell him.... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by birdynumnums + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: That was quite the eyeful. All the barbie outfits in the world couldn't make that pretty. EEwwwh!... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...A. 9 May 2008: Wax them in future. lol!!
You can even abduct him and then forcefully show your clean armpits.mMy be he give a thought then
lol!!!
what a kiddish question was that.lol!!... (read in full...)
I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!
Answered by eyeswideopen + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...A. 9 May 2008: What do you want from us?... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...A. 9 May 2008: I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles :( I hesitate to give this advice because I believe 100% in the sanctity of marriage, and it is not something to be thrown away lightly - but I have to admit, reading your story, every part of my just screa... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Answered by eyeswideopen + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...A. 9 May 2008: So shave them already.... (read in full...)
We keep breaking up, but I really want him back
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I felt in love with this guy since the first day I met him, and then we had a relationship, for more than a year, the problem now is we always break up and make up, because we do really love each other. He dumped me but I know that he still lo...A. 9 May 2008: I am sure that one of you will soon pop up this question .Can't say who will be that.But this will happen.untill and unless one of you get involve in another relationship.
So there is no need to right some long answer. this is the conclusion.
Me te... (read in full...)
My neighbor is allowed to kill my dog because my dog "murdered"? What the hell?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi everyone im gettin really agravated with my neighbor he lives 2 houses down from me and my dog lucy is a lab and a retriever mix n is 12 years old and is still very playfull but now shes to be confined in2 the house because of my dumb ass ...A. 9 May 2008: He's got a right to have a fragile wimpy dog if he wants. He has the right to let it loose in his own yard without someone else's dog coming over and posing a threat to it.
I know the animal control person was probably just trying to scare... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: BigSis, you learn AAALLLL kinds of things here on DC! Quite an ejimication... Sorry, Unky Phil, for the *gasp* factor!
And I've got some great new jokes from this thread, ta for that!... (read in full...)
Why is she taking so long in deciding whether she loves me or not?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Please help me! I've been with this girl for 6 months and I love her, she told me she'll feel the same way soon about me. She's said before that she wants to make sure everything will work between us. I'm doing my best to wait for her to make up h...A. 9 May 2008: Thank you guillaume, I am going to risk it and try what you said, it's going to be hard to do that to her but I'll give it a week, thanks again to all of you for your help... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by Uncle_Phil + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: I think you wasted your money going to a prostitute, most guys would let you do this for free. Just set yourself up in one of the traps in the gents shithouse in any pub or nightclub with a notice on the door offering free blowjobs all night. Take ... (read in full...)
I see him looking at me but I don't know if he really likes me
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hey, okay I have a problem. Theres this guy at my school who I really really like! And all my friends know I do-but he doesnt, we dont really talk, but if we see each other we smile/say hello... My friend asked him who he liked and he said its...A. 9 May 2008: and...what would I say on the text? ahhh help!!! x... (read in full...)
I see him looking at me but I don't know if he really likes me
Answered by genie88 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hey, okay I have a problem. Theres this guy at my school who I really really like! And all my friends know I do-but he doesnt, we dont really talk, but if we see each other we smile/say hello... My friend asked him who he liked and he said its...A. 9 May 2008: did you know if someone likes you they will copy your body language...
try yawning in class and if he yawns too ur in!!
if he's just not tired
try eye contact fr just a second with a smile.
dnt text him...play hard to get...men are... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by BigSis + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: OMG!!! Tisha!! I googled 'frenulum breve' and I got an eyeful of willies!!!
I've never heard of that before.
I thought 'cos I mentioned salami in a Deli' I assumed 'frenulum breve' was a type of soft cheese or a ham of somekind.
xXx... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period
Answered by genie88 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...A. 9 May 2008: hey,
i remember the day i got my first period and i had to phone my mum at work to tell her because i didn't know what to do. I felt ashamed and embarressed but my mum came home and she was proud and so happy.
Its a wonderful thing and time.
... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: Well, at least she didnt ask if she could get pregnant.... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...A. 9 May 2008: I agree wih "lonelytwo".so read it again,i just want to share one thing that you will feel guilty for few times but then it will fade away and may be just reading these answers will do away it.you feel guilt when you think that you are doing wrong ... (read in full...)
I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...A. 9 May 2008: wooo... stop it ! first ask this dude what he thinks about you. Then tell him about your plans ... lets see what he says..!... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm turning into a horrible person
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. i'm scared i'm turning into a horrible person, i keep being mean without the intension, like being nasty without me thinking about it. please help me stop! should i appologise? recently i have become a model for absolute and i'm scared it will go ...A. 9 May 2008: You sound all stressed out, and this will work against you in being more lovable.
You need to meditate, so to speak. When you having a feeling that you don't like, then investigate this feeling, ask why you have this feeling, explore the reas... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Answered by genie88 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...A. 9 May 2008: there is nothing wrong with sexual desire. most women like watching lesbian porn not beause they are lesbians themselves but because they like to watch to find ways of stimulating themselves. trust me we've all done it. and as for the hairbru... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by eyeswideopen + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: Simply nonsense.... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...A. 9 May 2008: It isn't bad, and wathcing the same sex actually allows you to explore your own body on your own terms, which is good.
Hopefully you washed the hair brush before you used it ;)
What you might consider though, is understanding why you feel guilty. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?
Answered by GothicPorcelainDoll + on 9 May 2008.
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...A. 9 May 2008: Im in a similar situation at the mo. and I'm findin it tough too. U are great for stayin so postitive!I hope everythin works out for you!... (read in full...)
Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?
Answered by genie88 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and ...A. 9 May 2008: hey, you're no sick atall! i have been through the same problem. As a fact women take a lot longer to orgasm than men. What is happening is you are putting too much pressure on yourself to orgazm. The more he asks if you're finished the longer i... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...A. 9 May 2008: What your going through is normal for any human being, feeling like second best. You will go through multiple ups and downs in dealing with this ... this too is normal, what you brain is trying to do is sort it all out, what it means for you and ... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period
Answered by BigSis + on 9 May 2008.
Q. i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...A. 9 May 2008: Your mum is probably waiting for this day to come, Is she some kind of ogre or what? You have to tell her, and honestly darlin', there's nothing to be embarrassed about.
She'll be upset that you didn't tell her, and anyway, she's bound to find out ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by birdynumnums + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: I don't know Phil! Send us a couple of pictures to compare them and I'll put them in the spank bank with the one from Waz!
How do you make a hormone?
Kick her in the shins...... (read in full...)
I wouldn't leave this teacher alone and now I want to apologize! How do I go about this?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms. Sounds good? Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she sta...A. 9 May 2008: what your doing sounds like a great idea, I say that on your last day of term simply go to her class room when school has finished and say sorry- if your afraid that you'll forget things then write down what yuo need to say. If you cant see h... (read in full...)
Will my red pubic hair turn him off?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I have never had sex before and my boyfriend has been making moves as if he was going to go down on me. I would love for him to do this but I need some advice on pubic hair. I have red hair and I was wondering if guys are turned off by that since ...A. 9 May 2008: Red pubic hair is a huge turn on for a lot of guys. It's special. Don't change it.... (read in full...)
Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and ...A. 9 May 2008: maybe he's not the one ?
or otherwise maybe try something new?
try whatever turns you on... maybe your not doin it for long enough!
maybe he needs to work harder!
... (read in full...)
My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was a...A. 9 May 2008: I think he has serious issues, and he needs to recognize this and get help. I don't know what his past has been, but it seems it has affected him in a serious way: this isn't normal, at all!
The best you can do is to protect you and your chil... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to have sex with me??
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I am 32 and my husband is 40 we have been married nearly 10 months. Before we were married we had lots of sex, now its once a week if that. We both work hard and can be invoicing until late at night, when we do finally go to bed we are shattered. ...A. 9 May 2008: let him know what hes missin
re ignite the fire
:P go for it
act sexy
roleplay have aromantic meal
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...A. 9 May 2008: Bring her to this site and make her read the question you posted. she will surely show some change..
Am not kidding.am very serious..forget all your fears and just show her this.then there will be nothing left to discuss or tell her.she will know... (read in full...)
When he hears your voice and instantly turns, is he interested?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. when a guy hears your voice and he instantly turns around does that mean he is interested?...A. 9 May 2008: Well, if I was walking with my friend and someone called her name from behind, I would look behind me also to see who was calling her name. I doubt it means he likes you just based on that!!... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by Uncle_Phil + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: Trust you pair to come up with something painful!... (read in full...)
I know that he loves me, but I can't help thinking he may prefer a thinner girl...
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I'm a bigger girl and I'm mostly comfortable with my weight, but I know how society views women who aren't a certain size. This makes me very nervous when going about intimacy with my boyfriend. I know that he loves me, thinks I'm gorgeous and the ...A. 9 May 2008: Not all men will be suckered into the "ideal"- most will go through a phase in their youth where they plaster their walls with images from lad mags, but eventually a few will grow out of it. Just because society is telling your man to prefer ... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...A. 9 May 2008: well one day she will have hairy armpits too when she forgets to shave them.
Have a shave wear a vest or something n show off your clean shaven armpits :P
let him know what he's missing... (read in full...)
What sort of women do men really like? Real? Or fake dolls with fake breasts, fake nails, fake hair...
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Ok, I know this topic gets old fast, and that I'll probably hear the same answers that are usually given, but let's have a try and I truly do expect honesty... PLEASE... It's always said men prefer natural beauty, natural looking women. But if th...A. 9 May 2008: Oh, I don't see Jennifer Aniston as fake. I see Pamela Anderson as fake. ... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...A. 9 May 2008: it may be just a faze
i used to do similar but about lads n without the hairbrush but erm maybe u will grow out of it
otherwise why not experiment no one will know!
have fun!... (read in full...)
I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...A. 9 May 2008: tell your mum theres no need for your sisters to know
i was like that at first but she will soon find out n your older sisters will hav started there periods too! They should be the main people to undestand.... (read in full...)
I know that he loves me, but I can't help thinking he may prefer a thinner girl...
Answered by fallenangelwithabrokenheart + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I'm a bigger girl and I'm mostly comfortable with my weight, but I know how society views women who aren't a certain size. This makes me very nervous when going about intimacy with my boyfriend. I know that he loves me, thinks I'm gorgeous and the ...A. 9 May 2008: You are lucky to have a b/F who wants to make love.I am or was engaged to a man who doesnt want to make love to me now as im too fat and dont turn him on.That hurt.So please you are lucky just be happy and remember not many people are completely ... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: I think this is a joke. As if you would need to go to a prostitute & take her used condoms to drink the sperm out of..and rummaging through the trash after your roomate & her boyfriend leave..come on.. If this was real, and I doubt it is, you would ... (read in full...)
So...I'm still really confused about whether he likes me or not! Does he?
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Ok this is sort of a repost and really hope it gets posted cuz i really need help! I wrote up yesterday and and only got one answer who said they didnt' really undrstand it so i'm reposting to make it mroe understandable so hope you can help!! R...A. 9 May 2008: IT was just the same. so why you want people to go through this big story once again..
yestreday also it was me who actually, asked for shorter version of your story but gals are mad when they are infactuated with guys.crazy!!
lemme breathe firs... (read in full...)
I don't want the abortion...But they're all pressuring me!
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I'm 17 and 8-9 weeks pregnant. I have my first midwife appointment on the 25th February. My boyfriend and parents are basically forcing me into an abortion that I don't want because I KNOW that after it I will be a wreck. Sure abortion is for ...A. 9 May 2008: hi there,
I went through an abortion a year ago today. Its a horrible thing to go through. No matter how much people tell you that you'll be fine and its such a small thing, if you are alreday thinking like that it will be difficult.
What you do n... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: Ooh, is that a possible treatment option for frenulum breve?... (read in full...)
My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was a...A. 9 May 2008: Thank you for the fast response. I was hoping to become soul mates with him, he has always made it clear that he loves me alot and we go to bed and sleep with each other everynight (well almost). I run a business from home and he goes out to work. I ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by BigSis + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: Phil, I'd like to see you wipe your's on my horizontal metal blinds, heeheehee!!!..the image would be just like you're slicing a salami in a deli.
: )
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I love him, but there's no sexual contact between us
Answered by fallenangelwithabrokenheart + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi well I dont know where to start.Im in love with my fiance very much.We live together.But for the last 5 months we have been like friends. No sexual contact,2 kisses a day.I told him i was highly sexed when we met.we were ok.but then after we move...A. 9 May 2008: Thank you who ever gave some advice.I didnt slap him cause I was too upset.He is ok company but i am 43 Im not ready to give up on passion.Like you said whats holding me back I have no kids at home now,He dont like going out to pubs.He likes his pc ... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: This has got to be a joke, right? Because no one is stupid enough to slurp the sperm of a prostitutes clients without knowing what kind of diseases he has.
If it's not a joke- just about every man on the planet loves getting head, so get yourself... (read in full...)
Come on aunts and uncles stop dodging your resposibilities....
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I often hear the phrase 'it's not for me to judge'. If no one offers a judgement then how is right and wrong determined in society? Someone batters an old woman, 'it's not for me to judge'....Someone molests a child, 'it's not for me to judge'. Isn...A. 9 May 2008: Interesting question. What are the responsibilities of volunteer agony aunts and uncles? And what does the word 'judge' mean?
These are from dictionary.com:
"to pass legal judgment on; pass sentence on (a person)
"to hear evidence or legal a... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is really unhealthy but I don't have the strength to leave!
Answered by growing + on 9 May 2008.
Q. well i dont even really know where to start. me and my bf have been dating for 15 months now. i am currently ending my first year in college, and about to go home in one week. he is still in high school, a senior, and lives back home(i go to college ...A. 9 May 2008: Why you are running into things??why you want to control his life??why you need him every now and then??if he can enjoy break,then why don't you try to??why you keep calling him and bothering him and give him hint as if you are nowhere without ... (read in full...)
My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was a...A. 9 May 2008: I would have to say his behavior is extremely odd, and maybe he has a serious issue.
Make it clear to him you do not accept this and will not submit to another man, and that if he continues, the marriage maybe ending (or something best appr... (read in full...)
Where did I go wrong? Why doesn't he respond?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. where did i go wrong? should i give him time or just move on? I recently start dating this guy, we get on really well. I felt that we know each other for sometime. We went for a drink then decide to go back to mine and watch a DVD. I suggeste...A. 9 May 2008: I think you need to move on and not attempt to patch things up with him. Apparently he couldn't accept the no sex thing, and for you, your better off I think.
At your age, one would think this would have been a no brainer and easily acceptable ... ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't leave this teacher alone and now I want to apologize! How do I go about this?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms. Sounds good? Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she sta...A. 9 May 2008: If you contact her, do it only by mail, not in person. Send her a letter and then leave it alone and move on.... (read in full...)
He broke up with me, wanting us to remain "friends", but I don't think I can deal with that. Should I?
Answered by loveangel + on 9 May 2008.
Q. My boyfriend , of six weeks, called me a little over 2 weeks ago and said that he thought "maybe we should break up." So, I said okay fine we're broken up and left it like that. The next day he came by my house, apologized profusely and wanted t...A. 9 May 2008: hi! first of all congratulations for having such high goals, law school is awesome!....your post caught my attention because when i was in my first year of law school i had your same experience, same exact one! My advice is the following, law school ... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: I wish I knew you when I were single.
Any ideas why you have this fetish? Have anything to do with missing a relationship? I've heard there is only 20 calories per squirt, so you won't have to worry about becoming overweight by it. But you do n... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by Uncle_Phil + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: Footballers are just a bunch of pansies! I mean, in what other sport do 'men' go around jumping on each other and hugging and kissing each other when they score?
Apart from that, they use completely the wrong shaped ball. Compare the boy Davi... (read in full...)
Does true love die?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. If two adults truly love each other and are so miserable when they are not together and can't bare to be without the other person in their life but circumstances force them to end their relationship and not see each other, will those feelings stop ...A. 9 May 2008: Love is a human weakness... (read in full...)
Almost 14 and I've never had a boyfriend! Am I the only girl in the world without one?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hiya everyone! I have a very embarrasing problem, I am nearly 14 and I have never had a boyfriend. It's really embarrasing for me when my friends talk about all their boyfriends. The problem wouldn't be so bad if I didn't want a boyfriend, bu...A. 9 May 2008: Last year I was a disaster with boys. I was so shy and nervous around them.
So what's happened til now?
I've kissed four boys, i don't have a boyfriend because I don't want to, but I flirt like crazy and love it! Boys flirt with me everyday... (read in full...)
Would you stick it out just for the kids?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I am married 11 years with 2 kids. We have been living abroad for the past year. This is our first time away from fam/friends. He has made the move as he moved from another country to mine 15 years ago. Our relationship has never been passoinate ...A. 9 May 2008: Why do you need to make a decision as to whether you need to be prepared to live the rest of your lives without affection towards one another?
Why not prepare yourself to work it out? Dig deep into the soul and find out what is there and what is m... (read in full...)
We're trying to conceive but he can't ejaculate! What can I do?
Answered by complex + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I hope some of you will be able to help. This is probably going to be long but I need advice real bad. I don't know what else to do! OKay, so my partner has difficulty ejaculating for some reason. But the sex is good, at least I think so, so i...A. 9 May 2008: I agree with Kimaxsi on this one. I wasnt married when I had my 2 kids. I got married after the 2nd one. Although it seems traditionally correct. When you have kids, you want to provide them with the very best (and expensive) of everything. That ... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by rproctor + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: I know you want advice for how to control it... But damn, I have to say that is pretty hot... Sorry I can not help you, but maybe you dont need help?... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: just try to ignore it get a bf that is gonna let u do it ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...A. 9 May 2008: Thank you, all of you. Thank you for your insightful words, your help, and your care. It really means a lot to me that people understand where I am coming from... I tried to talk to her about this before, obviously how I got my details... Once it ... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...A. 9 May 2008: Lisa, I can't help you with controlling the kink, but I need to point out there are infections that can be spread via semen. Hepatitis B is one of them, so if you wish to continue in this practice, I would strongly suggest you get yourself ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Answered by BigSis + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...A. 9 May 2008: Ok then, q1605...why do men whistle when they're sitting on the toilet?
To help them remember which end to wipe. SO HA!!
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Why do little boys whine?
They are practicing to be men.
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What does it mean when a man is in your bed gasping for
... (read in full...)
My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was a...A. 9 May 2008: I read your post with horror, what an awful experience you went through. I'm so sorry for what you're going through right now.
First off, he goes straight to be assessed for alcoholism and any other possible diseases or conditions by the doctor. ... (read in full...)
What does the word soulmate connotate to a man?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Recently my new boss called me his soulmate. We have never been intimate, but we spend a lot of time together outside of work. What does the word soulmate connotate to a man? Further, he has never crossed any physical barriers with me. What...A. 9 May 2008: I think you need to ask him what he means by the term 'soulmate'.
Far too often people use this word simply to describe their feelings with whom they feel a lot of love/affection for. Others, who know the true meaning, do not use the term loo... (read in full...)
Where did I go wrong? Why doesn't he respond?
Answered by kirstylou + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. where did i go wrong? should i give him time or just move on? I recently start dating this guy, we get on really well. I felt that we know each other for sometime. We went for a drink then decide to go back to mine and watch a DVD. I suggeste...A. 9 May 2008: Hi Hun
my best advice for you is to not contact him, give him some space and if he wants to get in touch with you, he'll phone or text you. If he dont then you will know he has moved on.
take care x... (read in full...)
My neighbor is allowed to kill my dog because my dog "murdered"? What the hell?
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi everyone im gettin really agravated with my neighbor he lives 2 houses down from me and my dog lucy is a lab and a retriever mix n is 12 years old and is still very playfull but now shes to be confined in2 the house because of my dumb ass ...A. 9 May 2008: From the American Kennel Club website:
Be a Canine Ambassador
Set a Good Example
As a dog owner, you are responsible not only for your own dog's well being, but for the status of dogs everywhere. One irresponsible dog owner in town can ma... (read in full...)
My girlfriend bleeds everytime we have sex, is it unusual?
Answered by Leanna + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. Most girls I've had sex with haven't bled during/afterwords, unless they were virgin's or hadn't had sex in quite a while, but my girlfriend at the moment, she bleeds EVERY TIME we have sex? is this unusual?...A. 9 May 2008: Bleeding during or after sex could be a sign of infection (amongst other things) so get her to see a doctor immediately. And I hope you use condoms because if it is an infection you might wanna get yourself there too.
Good luck... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...A. 9 May 2008: If it's more than you can handle, leave her. If you truly want to stay with her, then you have to make the effort. My ex used to be like you (although my past is like 0,1% wild compared to your girlfriend's), and even though he said he wanted t... (read in full...)
Where did I go wrong? Why doesn't he respond?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. where did i go wrong? should i give him time or just move on? I recently start dating this guy, we get on really well. I felt that we know each other for sometime. We went for a drink then decide to go back to mine and watch a DVD. I suggeste...A. 9 May 2008: Move on and learn from your experience.
Your behaviour appeared 'needy' to him! That is not a way to start off a relationship. In all honesty, that would scare me too. As women we often lose ourselves; we mold ourselves around the men in our live... (read in full...)
Would you stick it out just for the kids?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I am married 11 years with 2 kids. We have been living abroad for the past year. This is our first time away from fam/friends. He has made the move as he moved from another country to mine 15 years ago. Our relationship has never been passoinate ...A. 9 May 2008: Thanks for the replies. I have asked a bunch of strangers as I cannot confide in anyone else. I am away from friends/family and if they thought I was going through this they would be so upset. I am not expecting to ride off into the sunset, I am ... (read in full...)
My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?
Answered by solver + on 9 May 2008.
Q. House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was a...A. 9 May 2008: It sounds like your husband wants an excuse, any excuse, to go after other women. This is evidenced by his escapades at the house party you described.... (read in full...)
I found sexy text messages on my husbands phone....from another man!!! What do I do?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. I have been married for 10 years now. We have been together for 14 total. Just last week I found text messages on his phone, being the nosey person that I am I read them. Now I wish that I had not, the messages were sex related. I do not know ...A. 9 May 2008: Well, the first thing I would suggest is to evaluate your marriage... are you open with each other? Are you best friends in the way that you can tell each other anything? If so, then the best approach is to be blunt and tell him you WERE snooping on ... (read in full...)
Should I believe him after he broke the promise the first time, about visiting lap dancing bars?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, My fiance is going out tommorow night to liverpool with a load of guys who want to go to a lap dancing bar, when I first got with my fiance I explained that I do not like these kind of things and he said he didnt like them either and promised...A. 9 May 2008: Relationships are about trust, trust him, even if he does go into one that he won't do anything he will regret latter.
For the most part, these places are somewhat innocent that you don't have to worry about your guy either touching any body part... (read in full...)
How can I get more freckles without harming my skin?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. This is more of a question than needing advice, is there anything I can do to get more freckles?? weird I know but I get freckles in the sun and they look really cute.. how can I get more, without harming my skin?...A. 9 May 2008: Experiement with sun tan lotion and the sun. Contact some of these sun tan lotion companies for advice on achieving this.
Thinking to myself on how you could do this would be suntan lotion; the sun; and a template placed over your face. ;)... (read in full...)
We're trying to conceive but he can't ejaculate! What can I do?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. Hi, I hope some of you will be able to help. This is probably going to be long but I need advice real bad. I don't know what else to do! OKay, so my partner has difficulty ejaculating for some reason. But the sex is good, at least I think so, so i...A. 9 May 2008: Thanks for the advice so far. I guess I should have mentioned that I am 21 and he is 27. It was a joint decision for me to come off of the birth control when we knew the time was right.
As for getting married, I know that that should probably... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...A. 9 May 2008: I think you need to cut her some slack. Women at this age maynot be so tuned in to their feelings, as she sounds. Don't bring up the subject, and when she begins to say something about this past, ask that the two of you not discuss it, because it ... (read in full...)
His addiction to video games is causing problems! What can I do?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. hey people out there, well i need help my boyfriend is addicted to video games and it annoys me so much. i hate video games because with one of my ex it got between our relationship. and i don't want that to happen to me and him. because i love him ...A. 9 May 2008: I have the same problem with my boyfriend he plays his playstation everyday at least 5 hours or even until early morning and that is not the worse part he has actually given guys that he plays with his phone number and they call him in the hours of ... (read in full...)
My neighbor is allowed to kill my dog because my dog "murdered"? What the hell?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. hi everyone im gettin really agravated with my neighbor he lives 2 houses down from me and my dog lucy is a lab and a retriever mix n is 12 years old and is still very playfull but now shes to be confined in2 the house because of my dumb ass ...A. 9 May 2008: First, if your dog does kill his dog, and your dog returns to say either into the house or in back yard, they neighbor)would be tresspassing if they enter your property, and if you feel threatened, you have a right to defend yourself.
I think the ... (read in full...)
Do I want to stop loving her?
Answered by anonymous on 9 May 2008.
Q. For the past year i've been 'in love' with my female P.E! ive never been in love with members of the same sex before. i feel all funny when she talks to me, looks me in the eye or smiles at me. when i think of her my heart feels really weird and ...A. 9 May 2008: Hi I hope i can really help you I have been in that situation before. I acted on my feelings and it is the biggest regret of my life! My teacher made it clear she felt the same way yet I acted on it, we kissed but from then I got into trouble ... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to have sex with me??
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. I am 32 and my husband is 40 we have been married nearly 10 months. Before we were married we had lots of sex, now its once a week if that. We both work hard and can be invoicing until late at night, when we do finally go to bed we are shattered. ...A. 9 May 2008: Stress leads to being tired later. I think when we have to work with other people, it is only a matter of time that we will become stressed.
I've been in his shoes before, and fear to start something that I either can't finish or perform well. Com... (read in full...)
My date for the prom...do I greet her with flowers, a rose or what?
Answered by bubbloo24 + on 9 May 2008.
 Q. I'm taking girl to prom. I'll be meeting her there because she's arriving with friends. Do I bring flowers? A Rose? Please explain in much detail. Thank you....A. 9 May 2008: Yep, one single rose would be sooo sweet!! :D
Have a lovely time!
xxx... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have your left ball bigger than your right ball?
Answered by LonelyTwo + on 9 May 2008.
Q. is it normal 2 have ur left ball bigger than ur right ball ...A. 9 May 2008: It is normal, recently reported by Dr. Oz on the Opra Whinfrey show. He also said the penis will lean in the direction of the smaller nut (I recall).... (read in full...)
I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?
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