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Does their type of marriage work?
Answered by satindesire + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a ...A. 7 November 2009: When you have a good relationship, yes, it can work. My husband and I have worked together in three different companies since we've been together, and we spend pretty much every waking moment together as well. He rarely goes out without me, often ... (read in full...)
Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?
Answered by PeanutButter + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...A. 7 November 2009: The lack of masturbation or sexual activity does not increase the likelihood of developing cancer.
As someone pointed out, if you don't do either, the semen level builds up and you body gets rid of it for you while you sleep, so you're unlikely... (read in full...)
Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?
Answered by Ginalolabridga + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...A. 7 November 2009: Your welcome, you take care of your marriage that is all that matters now.
Gina... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Answered by Ginalolabridga + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...A. 7 November 2009: Best thing to do then is each take one another to meet the families see what happens, and deal with it accordingly.
Gina... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with a prostitute...What is the solution to my fixation?
Answered by Ginalolabridga + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Hi i have been seeing a prostitute now for some time as i was quite upset about myself losing my girlfriend few years ago i decided this was my only option. I had visited the brothels on several ocassions seeing a multiple of girls and living my ...A. 7 November 2009: I think you should seek help for your sex addiction and get clean, and hopefully you will see these places for what they really are and the women in them.
It is very hard to have a normal relationship with a sex worker because they get paid to have... (read in full...)
In my mind I want to have sex with every woman I see and meet... Why?!
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see ...A. 7 November 2009: thank you... (read in full...)
Does this mean she's not in love with me like I thought she was?
Answered by LVW + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. I've been in love with my best friend ever since i met her 3 years ago. She was in a relationship, i'm not the relationship type, things were really complicated because of many things and i never confessed how i felt about her. I'm pretty s...A. 7 November 2009: I have to ask the question: why would it be a bit complicated to have a relationship with her?
Having asked this, I know that there are some contentious or sensitive issues that a person may wish not to publish on the web, and if this is such a c... (read in full...)
What to wear going around town with my brother and his friends?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. This isn't really a question about relationships or anythin, but its the only place i seem to get quick good answers. So i don't have many friends because i fell out with my best 3 and they kinda turned everyone against me. But the few i am friends ...A. 7 November 2009: There's nothing wrong with going out with your brother and friends, but I'm a bit worried that you might tempted by the alcohol and end up in a worse position than before. So if you do go out with him and friends, don't get drunk and make sure ... (read in full...)
Can we have an active sex life is he is 64 and I am 29?
Answered by Anonymous_NF + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Ok here it goes. I am a 29 year old woman and I am in love with a man 34 years my senior. I have known him for 15 years and throughout our entire friendship I have gone through a few different relationships and was even married for a short time. ...A. 7 November 2009: All men are different, it might turn out well or it might fade in time... Just follow your instincts. :) ... (read in full...)
Help, I discovered my partner goes with escorts!
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Hi, Im desperatley unhappy. 3 years ago i met a wonderful man after spending 10 years married to a pub addicted bully who made my life a misery.I had finally made my way out and managed to buy my own place for me and my six year old daughter when I ...A. 7 November 2009: Oh dear. I have this terrible feeling that you did what so many abused people do. I think you went from one terrbile guy to another terrible guy without realzing it. This new guy isn't worth your time. He's putting you in danger, he's completely ... (read in full...)
I have low self esteem, slept with another guy and know I should tell my b/f but I'm afraid!
Answered by RosesAreRed86 + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I love him so much; he is gorgeous, intelligent good job etc. I could not ask for someone better. From what he has told me he feels the same way about me. However we have big relationship pro...A. 7 November 2009: You are right anonymous, I should have just said "so few decent PEOPLE" instead of "so few decent WOMEN". Didn't mean to offend anyone. I am certainly not one of those males who would tell a cheater not to tell the truth. I hate all cheaters and ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal girlfriend?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they alw...A. 7 November 2009: Thank God, you ARE normal. You're not obsessed all the time like some girls (who can be very scary!). You're normal, so don't worry and just hold out for a guy who really respects you and loves you. ... (read in full...)
Are all guys selfish and hateful?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and...A. 7 November 2009: No we're not thankfully. But your boyfriend is and you desreve better, so get away from him, focus on yourself for a while, and when you're ready, you'll find someone a million times better.... (read in full...)
Does their type of marriage work?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a ...A. 7 November 2009: Imagine having a wife (or husband, it works both ways) that was with you all the time, by your side 24 hours a day, all those relationshop problems just there all the time and you're not able to talk to anyone about it.
No, it very rarely work... (read in full...)
Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?...A. 7 November 2009: You're only 13! Of course you will. Take your time getting to know guys, and let them get to know you and you'll find your Mr Right.... (read in full...)
Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He ...A. 7 November 2009: Double M has some good points here. He was willing to forget about you quite quickly to go travelling, and he has been on single'd sites and has had an online affair as well. All important things to consider here. I wonder if you would be better off ... (read in full...)
He said he was going to change and become less immature... but he never does
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. ok so this might be long. i have known this guy since i was little, but then i moved here and he stood in our home country(dominican republic). now about 9 years later i see him and he tells me he likes me. things move pretty quickly at least for ...A. 7 November 2009: Here's a secret about some men (not all). We can be measured by their actions, not our words. There are a lot who promise things, then fail to deliver. This is your boyfriend. What we have here is a guy who promises to change, then doesn't, and acts ... (read in full...)
My dad is getting divorced for a second time... Is it unrealistic to hope he could marry 3rd time lucky?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. my parents divorced when I was 4, and my dad remarried when I was six. now I'm eighteen and my dad and step-mom are getting a divorce.i have an eight year old brother and a ten year old sister by my step-mom. I am not upset about the divorce, but i ...A. 7 November 2009: It all depends on the circumstances of both divorces. I know you look at your Dad and you're hurt for him, but to be divorced twice may indicate that he has problems committing, or that there are factors within the marriages that he can't deal with, ... (read in full...)
Feeling down about my friends... they only call when they need a favor or have a problem!
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I've been feeling really bad lately. The friends who I thought were my true friends don't seem that way- they seem to only call when they need a favor or have a problem. When I have a problem, they pretend to listen or act like they care, but then ...A. 7 November 2009: Well to me it sounds like the one friend who trashed you isn't worth another second of your time, and you did do the right thing by confronting her. Never allow yourself to be treated badly, so well done there. Forget about her.
I'm afraid to say ... (read in full...)
How do I decide between my boyfriend and my best friend who has opened his heart to me... ?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Well, I need help on a really awkward situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on a semi -distance relationship. We have had some ups and downs and even some betrayal from his side which i forgot and let go of. On the picture my best ...A. 7 November 2009: Your own question has a few answers in it. You say you love your boyfriend, then go on to say that you're probably comfortable with him. Then you say that your best friend opened up and you felt indifferent. And at the end you suggest you may not ... (read in full...)
She cheated with me when she was in a relationship with my best mate... I worry that she might do it to me now
Answered by pinktopaz + on 7 November 2009.
Q. This is a very long and complicated issue, but its kind of bothering me and wanted peoples advice. well im currently seeing this gurl and things are all great but the problem i have is a trust issue. the thing is she used to date a friend of mine ...A. 7 November 2009: I'm just going to put my 2 cents in: you lose them how you got them.... (read in full...)
In my mind I want to have sex with every woman I see and meet... Why?!
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see ...A. 7 November 2009: I wonder if because you feel admired and respected, you are under a lot of pressure to remain that way, and the pressure is now making you feel like this all the time. Also, look at your marriage. Is there something missing in it? Are you and your ... (read in full...)
My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?
Answered by pinktopaz + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been ...A. 7 November 2009: No, it's because your husband is a jerk. I completely agree with what caringguy said. Just about every guy looks at porn or checks out other women, but your husband doesn't need to act like a disgusting pig about it.
Making a remark and dry-hump... (read in full...)
He doesn't trust me financially and wants a divorce..
Answered by QuirkLady + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. My husband of 12 years recently told me he wants a divorce. After arguing and fighting about this we said we would go to counseling. Only through the 3 meeting did I find out that he doesn't trust me anymore and is not in love with me because he ...A. 7 November 2009: $3500 after you already lost the house?!?
You lied to him again after you lied and lost the trust once. He gave you another chance to be honest with him and you went behind his back to an amazing extent ($3500, I'm just stunned). The trust is... (read in full...)
My wife is not able to conceive and is under huge pressure...
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I love my wife a lot .. its been 5 years since we are married tried every option possible right up to IVF...but its not working.. The worst part is my wife is now getting very disturbed by the fact that she is yet to conceive. all our commo...A. 7 November 2009: Reassure her as nmuch as you possibly can, beause women who ar trying to get pregnant do not respond well to stresst. She really needs to know you care about her, and really needs to know you're there and you're listening.
Also, I agree with the ... (read in full...)
I've split with my ex but he's so depressed and still dependent on me... how do I help him to get help?
Answered by pinktopaz + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I just got out of a relationship that lasted for a few years about 2 months back, and my ex is taking it pretty hard. He still calls me sometimes when he is really upset and says stuff like he is so depressed. It is hard because I do care about him ...A. 7 November 2009: There's nothing that you're supposed to do. You can't help a person that doesn't want to help themself. You've made suggestions and his mother has tried to help him and he doesn't do anything about it, it's his problem. You're completely right ... (read in full...)
My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been ...A. 7 November 2009: First of all there's nothing wrong with you. This is about him being very tactless and not all that great as a husband.
Nearly every guy looks at porn sometime, but genreally deletes the history. The reason we look at it is that porn is a visu... (read in full...)
I've split with my ex but he's so depressed and still dependent on me... how do I help him to get help?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I just got out of a relationship that lasted for a few years about 2 months back, and my ex is taking it pretty hard. He still calls me sometimes when he is really upset and says stuff like he is so depressed. It is hard because I do care about him ...A. 7 November 2009: I'm afraid to say that you need to be a bit tougher here. Eve if you were still going out, you'd need to be tough, because his depression is now affecting the people around him, inlcluding you. You need to start not taking his calls sometimes, and ... (read in full...)
Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?
Answered by pinktopaz + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...A. 7 November 2009: I don't know about the whole prostate cancer deal, but if you don't have sex or masturbate--I do remember from back in the days of Biology class, that since a man is continually producing sperm his body will just naturally get rid of the "old" sperm ... (read in full...)
Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?
Answered by callsanya + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...A. 7 November 2009: Thanks Gina yet again... (read in full...)
Can you love someone you don't admire?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. Can you love someone that you don't admire? I feel that a large part of love is finding that person that you admire. A partner that can constantly energize you to do better just by the mere fact that you want to aspire to emulate them. I guess I...A. 7 November 2009: Thanks for the responses. They have been really helpful. PLEASE continue to write sound advise like the last two contributors.... (read in full...)
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...A. 7 November 2009: HIS PENIS! Tell him to get a life and get a girlfriend NO OFFENCE but really, he must get a girlfriend!... (read in full...)
Should I let him back in my life, or just keep trying to move on?
Answered by QuirkLady + on 7 November 2009.
Q. For the first time in my life, I felt like I was falling in love. After about 6 months my ex suddenly broke up with me after telling me he was falling in love too and swearing that he was very happy to be with me. It turns out, he went back to his ...A. 7 November 2009: Keep moving on. He had his chance to be with you and he blew it. On top of that he doesn't even come to you like a gentleman, but like a dog in heat asking for sex straight up like you have a menu and a table attached to your waist!
He should b... (read in full...)
Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?
Answered by harshbutfair + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...A. 7 November 2009: According to the study:
http://jama.ama-assn.org/cgi/content/abstract/291/13/1578
There was a reduced risk or prostate cancer in men who ejaculated frequently, but no other associations (so, not ejaculating was not found in this study to ha... (read in full...)
I'm ready to introduce sex back into our marriage...How do I approach my wife?
Answered by QuirkLady + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Ridiculously, we have let our marriage slip into a nearly sexless funk for 2+ years. Our second child was born in January and we've only been intimate a couple of times since she conceived. We've always been pretty low on the libido front, our ...A. 7 November 2009: It can all work out fine.
If you want some at 10pm (and it's been a while and stressful, like what's going on with you) you have to start work at 9 am. Help with the children, bring your wife flowers and compliment her, make everyone feel spe... (read in full...)
Should I make the move to be with this guy? Anyone got experience of this kind of thing?
Answered by pinktopaz + on 7 November 2009.
Q. One of my really good friends for years and I have really fallen for each other, but we live in different cities. We have kept in touch over many years although living in other places, and lately we have been going to visit each other and have ...A. 7 November 2009: Yes, I have and I would never do it again. Don't compromise what you have going on in your life to fit into his...especially moving. If you don't have any of YOUR OWN friends there (his friends that you like and like you too don't count), he's ... (read in full...)
Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?
Answered by Illithid + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...A. 7 November 2009: From what I have heard, masturbating or having sex (anything that leads to ejaculation) three times a week will reduce prostate cancer, yes. I cannot confirm if this is true, but it's what I heard. But you're not going to get cancer just because you ... (read in full...)
She cheated with me when she was in a relationship with my best mate... I worry that she might do it to me now
Answered by Illithid + on 7 November 2009.
Q. This is a very long and complicated issue, but its kind of bothering me and wanted peoples advice. well im currently seeing this gurl and things are all great but the problem i have is a trust issue. the thing is she used to date a friend of mine ...A. 7 November 2009: Hmm... she was attracted to you and has been unable to get over you for years even while in other relationships. There's something about you that IS different to her. But the saying does go that "if she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you." That ... (read in full...)
Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?
Answered by wendy2009 + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...A. 7 November 2009: Hay
Thanks alot for the advice. I think its time to move on. YOu are right. I think its easier to for independent people like you gys to see the problem than me who is in it.
Thanks again....... (read in full...)
My wife is not able to conceive and is under huge pressure...
Answered by HonningKanin + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. I love my wife a lot .. its been 5 years since we are married tried every option possible right up to IVF...but its not working.. The worst part is my wife is now getting very disturbed by the fact that she is yet to conceive. all our commo...A. 7 November 2009: If IVF has not worked and after five years of trying, its time the both of you test your goods. Meaning both of you need to go to the doctor to test your sperm and her womb. It could be you are shooting blanks or they are not moving and it could be ... (read in full...)
Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?
Answered by DoubleM + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...A. 7 November 2009: I have read about that as a possibility. However, I would think that any detriment would only apply after many years. You might consider that sexual activity is a very healthy function that, if not exercised, may eventually prove adverse to health. ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to enjoy oral sex more?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is ...A. 7 November 2009: Good advice about the nutritional aspect there DoubleM.... (read in full...)
How can I learn to enjoy oral sex more?
Answered by DoubleM + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is ...A. 7 November 2009: The pleasure derived from a great blow job by a wife (or girlfriend) is the ultimate for a man, but I think the deal should first include oral satisfaction for her. In my experience, if a woman has been thoroughly pleased via oral and penile sex ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by natasia + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: ps
but do read what the anonymous aunt wrote - she is the one to listen to, as she has actually been through it, and also she sounds extremely intelligent and thinking. Other people who are just shooting their mouths off about tax, etc. ... well... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by natasia + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: I see only 3 issues: schooling, financial support, and practical help with the baby in the first year or so. As for your relationship, attitude, maturity - that all seems great.
So, answer these questions:
- What about school?
- Who would pay fo... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by DoubleM + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: Please reconsider. As the anonymous reader suggested, "live your life" several more years before you take this leap. You are still very young, and there is a lot of fun to be experienced before you need to devote your future to an outcome that may ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal girlfriend?
Answered by Illithid + on 7 November 2009.
Q. please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they alw...A. 7 November 2009: You are normal. Girls come in more than one variety and I've had both girlfriends that called me every day (even getting worried if I was so much as fifteen minutes late getting in touch with her) and recently a girl that isn't interested in meeting ... (read in full...)
I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?
Answered by minnie73 + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...A. 7 November 2009: Thanks for the answers! I KNOW its how men think - now. I'm not trying to stop him fantasizing - im wanting to know HOW women manage to be ok with their boyfriends thinking of other women and touching themself. It's not a jealousy thing - im... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Answered by rhythmandblues2 + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...A. 7 November 2009: http://www.amazon.com/Drug-New-Millennium-Internet-Pornography/product-reviews/0967776406/ref=dp_top_cm_cr_acr_txt?ie=UTF8&showViewpoints=1
Here is a link to a the first book that talked about the mind body connection to porn and how it is addic... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Answered by Illithid + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...A. 7 November 2009: My opinion? Talk to her about sex in general. Talk to her calmly and slowly about how important it is to wait, how easy it is to catch STDs or get pregnant, how easy it is to lose her reputation or friends or even self respect if she has sex early ... (read in full...)
He never feels sex!
Answered by gamila + on 7 November 2009.
Q. hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...A. 7 November 2009: thank you friends for your opinions... (read in full...)
He never feels sex!
Answered by gamila + on 7 November 2009.
Q. hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...A. 7 November 2009: thank you friends for your opinions... (read in full...)
My self esteem is suffering because my girlfriend won't have sex with me!
Answered by generalist + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Hi. I have a girlfreind, before she was my best friend for 4 years. She means the world to me, and i seriously mean, she has given me a reason to live. we were together for 9 months and broke up a week and back together for a month, so 10 months in ...A. 7 November 2009: see dont treat sex as a mechanical thing... the point has to reach where you both feel the same... now if you feel it then its not necessary that she also feels the same... yes you guys are getting well...give some time to your relationship.. as ... (read in full...)
Is it a sin to love your first cousin?
Answered by generalist + on 7 November 2009.
Q. it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each othe...A. 7 November 2009: as long he is a human being i mean anybody is ok to love.. the problem is our society carries some preconceived notions about the way things should run.... and you really have to think on whether you love each other or not.. if yes then speak to y... (read in full...)
Are all guys selfish and hateful?
Answered by Illithid + on 7 November 2009.
Q. [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and...A. 7 November 2009: No, men are not all like that. I paid for almost everything for my most recent ex, but would never admit that I did because she cooked for me and bought what little she could, and that was enough. I was more supportive of her emotional needs, and ... (read in full...)
Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?
Answered by generalist + on 7 November 2009.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He ...A. 7 November 2009: i guess your relationship is yet to reach a level where the mutual trust plays important role... that means you are still to understad him..try and at times cross check whats he does when you are not there?... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a girl is as horny as me?
Answered by Illithid + on 7 November 2009.
Q. hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just ...A. 7 November 2009: Oooh trust me, I've been there. But I will admire you if you're mature and wise enough to wait. So many younger teens make the impulsive jump into a sexual relationship as soon as they're physically able, thinking that just because you're a smart ... (read in full...)
What should I do while my bf sucks my breasts?
Answered by sighingsoftly + on 7 November 2009.
Q. what should i do while my bf is sucking my breasts? And i want him to go down by my vagina but as his never been down there before not with me or any other girl im not sure what he'll think? We've been going out for 2years now :)...A. 7 November 2009: What i did was play a little kissing game with my guy..tell him kiss me here!and point a certain spot until after much playing and sucking and kissing i pointed to my vagina and ofcourse I moaned and complimented him a lot and boosted his ego so ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: Growing in a time of decadence like ours has left many young children like yourself feeling disillusioned, uninspired, and unproductive. They see procreation, and starting a family of their own, as a fast escape from an otherwise unfruitf... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Answered by rhythmandblues2 + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...A. 7 November 2009: Here are some worthwhile articles to read and consider,
I am sure there are books written about this subject as well, which you can do a search for. I don't envy parents raising young children in today's world, it is unchartered territory for ... (read in full...)
My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!
Answered by Illithid + on 7 November 2009.
Q. When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...A. 7 November 2009: I dated a girl with A cups and LOVED those perky, beautiful breasts. Not every guy will judge you based on your bra size.
But it HAS to be fair. If he's watching porn, you can. If he doesn't want you to, then he has to stop. That whole line tha... (read in full...)
I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?
Answered by Denizen + on 7 November 2009.
Q. hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i di...A. 7 November 2009: You have just been given one of life's lessons. It's tough. You need to be able to maintain confidences, particularly with friends. Now you are paying the penalty. There's no easy way back. I take it you have already tried flowers and a sorry no... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Answered by Denizen + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...A. 7 November 2009: What do you think your next step in this relationship might be? If you are going to marry or move in together it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks. If not then you must ask yourself how this relationship is going to progress. Do you both ... (read in full...)
Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?
Answered by sighingsoftly + on 7 November 2009.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He ...A. 7 November 2009: How close are you? I had the same problem of an "online affair" but he told me himself about it and then I read everything. But my point is that you yourself know how honest he can be...an online affair (depending on how serious it was) may just... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by pinktopaz + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: To think this way means that you're not mature...and you've been through a lot in your life? I don't mean to make you feel stupid, but you have not been through a lot in your 15 years of life. Have you paid for rent, utilities, groceries, credit ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. ...A. 7 November 2009: Maybe you need a change of scenery, get out of the bathroom so someone else in your family can use it...what is wrong with your own bedroom, with a lock on the door.... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: i had my daughter at 16. she changed my life. the way i had to grow for her was life defining, as was what i learned from having her. your first child is an amazing experience at any age, and anyone who cares enough can try to be a great parent. B... (read in full...)
What is the average age to lose your virginity?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that i'm a 20 year old male and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked when i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they called me a weirdo. am i quite old not to have had sex?...A. 7 November 2009: Hey man I'm 20 years old myself and I'm in the same boat as you. It's not that I haven't gotten close to it either...or looks or anything like that. I don't trust women period...and after I went through puberty it becomes alot easier to deal with ... (read in full...)
The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...A. 7 November 2009: Thank you all for taking the time to respond to my questions. Each one of you is right and I know all that, but my only worry is the kids, taking them away from their father, because I wouldn't stay in the same State if I leave him and as I ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by generalist + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: wrong idea..strict NO NO... (read in full...)
What should I do while my bf sucks my breasts?
Answered by generalist + on 7 November 2009.
Q. what should i do while my bf is sucking my breasts? And i want him to go down by my vagina but as his never been down there before not with me or any other girl im not sure what he'll think? We've been going out for 2years now :)...A. 7 November 2009: very simple..u sucks his and he does the same with u... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Answered by rhythmandblues2 + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...A. 7 November 2009: I don't think you should say anything at all to her about it.
I do think you need to put a password/lock on the family computer and it is off limits unless parents are home.
That will keep her off the porn sights. I don't think porn is ever acce... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Answered by generalist + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...A. 7 November 2009: hey...its normal and let her be on her own..believe me...this gen is too smarts and get into lot of things and learnings too early compared the last generation... dont worry and she will be fine...LET HER ON HER OWN... for god seck dont tell u saw h... (read in full...)
How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked...A. 7 November 2009: I really feel that you should tell the parents. You need to talk to your son and ask him why did he do it. Where did he see people having sex? Ask him if he has done it with anyone else? It is a possibility that someone older approached one of them ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by quiet-echo + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: You are absolutely not ready. You lack the life experience, and the financial and legal resources to support a child.
You won't even be listening to the same music 5 years fom now. Exactly what qualifies you, in your opinion, to be a mother? ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by rhythmandblues2 + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: I agree, you are both way too young. You cannot support a child, you haven't finished your education. Getting additional schooling or a college diploma will help secure your future. It would be just about impossible to do that at youra ages ... (read in full...)
He's moving away for school, can this work?
Answered by Evol Angel + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends ...A. 7 November 2009: absence makes the heart grow fonder. my fiance and I are in a slightly long distance relationship. He is in his senior year of highschool and I am currently in my freshman year of college, an hour and a half away. really the only time I see him ... (read in full...)
How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?
Answered by SirenaBlusera + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked...A. 7 November 2009: No WAY!! Is this for real?
Yes, you should tell the parents. ... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Answered by quiet-echo + on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...A. 7 November 2009: In our efforts to protect our children from being exploited, we sometimes swing the pendulum too far in the opposite direction.
Regardless of how calm you remain, if your approach is heavily laced with apprehension, your daughter will pick up ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
Answered by SirenaBlusera + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...A. 7 November 2009: The key word is, "I think."
You're wrong!
A baby will change your life forever, and there are so many things that you haven't done yet, that you have to do in order to develop and prepare yourself to provide a baby with the best of everythi... (read in full...)
What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?
Answered by SirenaBlusera + on 7 November 2009.
Q. what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...A. 7 November 2009: Teachers that have sex with their students SHOULD go to jail.
If teenagers want to have fun, they should be playing video games or something, not having sex. ... (read in full...)
My friends are talking about having sex, I feel ashamed.
Answered by DoubleM + on 7 November 2009.
Q. ok this is a really embarrasin thing to ask but here goes...all my friends are 13-14 year olds but talking about already have sex, im still a virgin and when im with my friends it feels like something i should be ashamed of i dont know what to do ...A. 7 November 2009: Please save yourself for someone (man) who who truly loves you, and whom you can love and trust. Do not become just another girl that others talk about. You are worth more than being a cheap sex object. You will have plenty of more meaningful sex in ... (read in full...)
Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?
Answered by SirenaBlusera + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ...A. 7 November 2009: Apparently Monica Lewinsky wasn't bothered by it. At least that's what I hear. :)... (read in full...)
Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?
Answered by DoubleM + on 7 November 2009.
Q. should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance....A. 7 November 2009: Yes, I would. But I would not be proposing anal sex sex with any woman I care about, because of the eventual problems it will likely cause her, which includes hemorrhoids. Otherwise, the advice from "quiet-echo" is probably appropriate. ... (read in full...)
Are all guys selfish and hateful?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and...A. 7 November 2009: NO, We're not all that way!! Any guy who won't take care of his spouse(commonlaw or otherwise!) when she's sick just doesn't cut it! You should demand more. marriedlady said it best: you have the wrong guy! Best of luck... (read in full...)
He said he would call after ons, but he didn't?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. I'm not normally into ons, but I was upset that night, so I was actually looking for someone for a cuddle and kiss, but I ended up at his somehow. We didn't even ask each other's name on the night, it seems like we both were clear it would be just...A. 7 November 2009: Thanks so much for your reply guys. I guess I shouldn't have keep my hope high base on ons,hence there won't be disappointment no matter what the outcome is. Yeah, I think I will be patient and see if he calls, and make the next meeting to be a date... (read in full...)
How do we tell her parents about this? Is this normal?
Answered by Old Guy + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked...A. 7 November 2009: The biggest concern is to find out if it was consensual. Kid's have been 'playing doctor' forever. Of course it's to be discouraged -- they're getting old enough that it's probably beyond innocent exploration. If one was pressuring the other, ... (read in full...)
How can I show my ex-friend I am happy without him?
Answered by RosesAreRed86 + on 7 November 2009.
Q. So I have an ex-friend who I kinda dislike. But today I felt upset because he was with other people and I felt lonely and like I had nobody. I do have my own friends but I feel alone too sometimes. I want to show him that I'm happy with not being ...A. 7 November 2009: Nobody "makes you feel" any way unless you let them. And contrary to what you said about not being "able to act [yourself]" at school, you absolutely can. Who is stopping you from acting like yourself? Seriously? The truth is, there hasn't been ... (read in full...)
He's moving away for school, can this work?
Answered by Digiman + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends ...A. 7 November 2009: Just my two cents, but I think, at 16, you're still too young to know about love. Now is not the time to be tying yourself into an LDR...You still have so much growing to do, and so many experiences to enjoy, it really doesn't make sense to "wait ... (read in full...)
What's the dating scene like in college?
Answered by human_male + on 7 November 2009.
 Q. Okay so im seventeen years old and im a senior in high school. I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been asked out, nothing! when i see all my other friends really happy in relationships i get really self conscious about why i ...A. 7 November 2009: I don't think you have anything to be embarrassed about. This sort of thing doesn't come easily to some people, and it doesn't make you a desperate loser.
No one here can tell you why it is you don't have a boyfriend without a lot of informat... (read in full...)
Last night I cheated on my husband. Should I tell him?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. I have a terrible dilemma--I cheated on my husband last night and I don't know if I should tell him or not. We have been together for over seven years (married two), I met him when I was 18 and he's the only guy that I had ever slept with or even ...A. 7 November 2009: I am in the same situation that I cheated on my husband and I am so ashamed. There're many tempting situations but I was able to handle well in the past 9-10 years since I knew my husband. I decided to tell him and thanks God he forgave me. I ... (read in full...)
Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and ...A. 7 November 2009: Oh, I have to disagree with Skweebuu, vasaline is a horrible lube (it's NOT a lube at all!) it's pasty and you need something really slippery. At a minimum KY jelly, better a sex lube that's like slik! Enjoying anal sex is all about your ability ... (read in full...)
Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?
Answered by DoubleM + on 7 November 2009.
Q. Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?...A. 7 November 2009: Of course you will. Do not be in such a hurry. There are also plenty of chubby guys around, but a few simple measures can trim you up. Try walking a mile or two a day, cut back on whatever you know contributes to the problem and please realize that ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal girlfriend?
Answered by quiet-echo + on 7 November 2009.
Q. please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they alw...A. 7 November 2009: You're a very normal girlfriend. The ones you describe who frequently text their boyfriends and try to keep constant tabs on them are not normal.
Everyone needs their space, some more than others. To deprive someone of it is discourt... (read in full...)
I think he is looking for a fwb. If I see him on the street again what should I do?
Answered by Digiman + on 7 November 2009.
Q. There is this guy who works in my neighborhood and for the last 2 years, I would always say to myself how attractive he was. Whenever we would cross paths, he would stare at me or go out of his way to turn to look at me, say hello or how are you. ...A. 7 November 2009: I think you just need to tell him that you can't be with someone who is already attached! Tell him he needs to choose: you or not you! Honestly, as a guy, I respect a woman who won't take second-best! I don't respect a woman that will settle for ... (read in full...)
What should I do while my bf sucks my breasts?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. what should i do while my bf is sucking my breasts? And i want him to go down by my vagina but as his never been down there before not with me or any other girl im not sure what he'll think? We've been going out for 2years now :)...A. 7 November 2009: you should give him instructions on what else to do... talk to him in a sexy aroused voice... tell him to finger you gently, and then tell him to go down and lick your clit... A shower before hand where you get each other all soapy and clean, a... (read in full...)
Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?
Answered by quiet-echo + on 7 November 2009.
Q. should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance....A. 7 November 2009: Yes, you should always use a condom for anal play. That and plenty of lubricant.
An enema several hours before the big event should help. You can buy those at any pharmacist. ... (read in full...)
I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot...A. 7 November 2009: Have you considered a foursome, or a little wife-swapping?... (read in full...)
Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?...A. 7 November 2009: no i wont go out and lose 59 pds ... (read in full...)
Have I got a problem?
Answered by anonymous on 7 November 2009.
Q. Whenever i masturbate i use three fingers, is that a problem? and also i come in like 25 seconds i'm quite worried and i really would like some help....A. 7 November 2009: well I have the same promblem so what I did is hump somthing instead... (read in full...)
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