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Have I lost him for good?
Answered by soon567 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. First I'm new to this site. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Well would be two years in twelve days. Everything was perfect. he has a child with another women before we met. His daughter is two. In the first two months of our relationship ...A. 20 November 2009: Brokenheartedagain, coz I don't understand why a young girl with her whole life a head of her would be wasting her life away with a man that doesn't really care. Ok you love him and he loves you. You are a perfect match. Your love is so deep for ... (read in full...)
What could be the reason for very bad luck?
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details ...A. 20 November 2009: I don't believe in karma or curses, just somethings turn out worse for some people then they do for others. If you feel that you're doing everything right, then I can't give you any advice, especially if I don't know what the bad stuff is. All I can ... (read in full...)
What could be the reason for very bad luck?
Answered by AskEve + on 20 November 2009.
Q. What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details ...A. 20 November 2009: Okay I saw this question and had to answer here. YOU make your own destiny. YOU are in control! It all depends on your own thought process. If you keep thinking (as you do) that nothing you do is working to turn things around then you are ... (read in full...)
Creepy friend keeps asking for hugs
Answered by strontiumdog + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the ...A. 20 November 2009: If you don't want to touch this guy... don't! You have no obligation to do so AT ALL. You have no obligation to touch anyone at all! If he asks you again say no. Flatly. If he keeps asking you say "I never want you to touch me ever again."
And w... (read in full...)
How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...A. 20 November 2009: Just had another idea: Tantric sex lesson. It may sound weird to have a lesson, but I know a lot of couples who have done so and they all said that when they went home and tried it out, it was the best sex they had. =)... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is worried about our future
Answered by lammy + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I need help and i dont wat to do. My gf and i who ive been with for 4 and a half months and we both love eachother, are having a weird issue thats happened b4. We both go to the same school and hang out all the time, however recently, since the ...A. 20 November 2009: im not the one who's insisting on talking about our future though:S we both do it?... (read in full...)
The ex or the new guy?
Answered by empop + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Tonight I have set up a date with a person I met online approx 3 weeks ago..We hit it off via phone and we text when we have time. He has his own business so he works long hours, but he finds time to date. He is looking for that special woman......A. 20 November 2009: You need to get yourself some confidence - just remember, if someone's willing to go on a date with you, you're just as good as them. If you don't have confidence, pretend like you do.
Don't cancel. Go on your date - remember, you're super aw... (read in full...)
Should I risk the friendship and tell him how I feel?
Answered by insummertime + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I met my best friend 2 years ago when I landed a new job. We talk on the phone several times a day, text, and can't go to sleep without saying goodnight to each other. We have talked about each other in romantic terms before and discussed that we ...A. 20 November 2009: Sorry, I forgot to mention an important detail, this man is 9 years older than me.... (read in full...)
I have a crush on this girl but she's already got a boyfriend, what I do??
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi guys, I have a crush on this girl and we are quite close friends, she is 15 and i am 14, we've been going to places together etc. for a while now, but, i want to go out with her, although she already has a bf. What should i do? Ride it o...A. 20 November 2009: Don't do anything, it could ruin your friendship. Try to look at other girls, but if they break up, just be there for her, don't be too forward - it could look like that you're taking advantage of her when she's vulnerable and on the rebound. You'd ... (read in full...)
I'm having difficulties satisfying my girlfriend due to erection problems.
Answered by Mr. Manpower + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi, I'm having trouble having sex with my girlfriend. As i seem to be suffering from erectile dysfunction. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. We have only been able to have missionary sex, with me on top. However i don't feel like she is s...A. 20 November 2009: I've been there before... a few things I see.
1) You need to learn what needs to be done to make a woman orgasm. It's not about you lasting long as hell, or having a huge penis... it's all about clitoral stimulation... learn some position... (read in full...)
I have a crush on this girl but she's already got a boyfriend, what I do??
Answered by Accountable + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi guys, I have a crush on this girl and we are quite close friends, she is 15 and i am 14, we've been going to places together etc. for a while now, but, i want to go out with her, although she already has a bf. What should i do? Ride it o...A. 20 November 2009: Being quite a devious person is, i will warn you, not an attractive quality. If your friend is happy with her boyfriend and you really care about her, why would you want to split them up? There will be other girls - the option you're missing is to ... (read in full...)
Period pain/cramp.
Answered by Jazzy924 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I'm 16 and I started my period when I was 12 and every month I have unbearable pains I think it's geting worse every time. I always miss a day off school if I start on a school day. I cry out in pain and throw up all day. I've taken (at different ...A. 20 November 2009: You sound just like me all the way cuz i been through ll the pills and they still dont work on time in school i had the worst cramps ever and no pill was workin that i tok too many and almost overdose i was so scared that i just dealed wit the pain ... (read in full...)
I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!
Answered by Accountable + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...A. 20 November 2009: Well what started as a "strictly sex thing" has turned into a parenthood thing, and you cant turn your back on that child, regardless of whether you two get into a relationship or not. Personally I wouldnt be at all surprised if she and her husband ... (read in full...)
Creepy friend keeps asking for hugs
Answered by Emilysanswers + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the ...A. 20 November 2009: Well the main reason he will keep asking for them is because you keep saying yes.
You need to start saying "No, stop pestering me!"
Let him know it is pissing you off.
To be honest he does sound like a bit of a perv. What is the rest of your... (read in full...)
Creepy friend keeps asking for hugs
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the ...A. 20 November 2009: He should really know his place if you've told him that it makes you uncomfortable but if he persists you should talk to him again.
Not hanging out with him is a bit harsh and if I were you I wouldn't unless he just won't listen. After that if he a... (read in full...)
How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...A. 20 November 2009: Cheer up! Nothing wrong with a sausage shuffle now and then. Besides, porn sure "beats" the hell out of the real thing - and just think of the money you are saving that you'd have to throw away on some ungrateful princess who would undoubtedly ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my period (and the unbearable cramps) when I'm at school?? It's even hard to walk and talk to people...
Answered by Jazzy924 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. PLEASE HELP ME!! I don't know what to do when i get my period on a school day. This morning i was having a pretty light period, then when I got to school, like all my nerves went off and my period suddenly turned heavy. During my 1st hour class i...A. 20 November 2009: Sweetie i feel your pain cuz i go through the same thing but my periods be the worst because i get real hot than i get light headed and i just feel like im bout to pass out. than sometimes mines get real bad that i throw up and i dont eat its just ... (read in full...)
Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...A. 20 November 2009: Hi everyone, thank you for the responses! I appreciate it. I really don't believe he is using me. For the fact that we are only taking a break from our relationship at the moment. We were very clear on that. I am positively sure he is not seeing ... (read in full...)
I'm so lost without her...
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So here is my story. I have been dating a girl for the past seven months and even though that's not the longest time, we fell deeply in love with one another. Our first few months together were great. But for the past 2 months or so my attitude and ...A. 20 November 2009: your very young and when your young a lot of your emotions become a lot more pronounced. I completely agree with theoneyoucancounton... and you should know that you will get over her, you will have other girlfriends, you'll probably get through many ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think sex is disgusting?
Answered by Jim01 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am 33 yrs old and could care less if I had sex again!! It's gross, and disgusting I have to be drunk to have sex with my husband. Is that normal, and how do you think I should handle it?...A. 20 November 2009: I feel bad for your husband! and no, it is not normal at all.... (read in full...)
Does my aunt's dream mean I'm pregnant?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a ...A. 20 November 2009: I have to take a little something out of both comments and say that a pregnancy test works much better than a dream to figure that sort of thing out.
And if your stomache keeps growing thats a better sign of you gaining weight, not being preg... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'give it some time'?
Answered by Jim01 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. What does it mean if a guy says "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way"? I am going through rough time very stressed, I caused a fight with my boyfriend and said some mean and hurtful things to him and broke up. I have apologiz...A. 20 November 2009: It means right now he wants to take a step back to assess this relationship and think about what he wants. He doesn't want to break up right now, but he doesn't want to rush back into anything either. I would try to give him some space, and make him ... (read in full...)
Has anyone lost weight while pregnant?
Answered by Roadster73 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. hiya well im 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am really confused. im getting a nice round bump but other than that have lost nearly 2 stone since i became pregnant and am worried that it could hurt my baby if i carry on losing weight ...A. 20 November 2009: I lost nearly 2 stone when pregnant, your body is running on food & energy for u plus the baby so you need to eat a few extra calories, I did this by eating smoothies & ice cream, dispute this I still lost weight?? I would casually mention this to u ... (read in full...)
Why is she always so mean to me?
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I just started seventh grade, and some mean girls have started making fun of me. One of the girls lives by me so its really embarrassing. She's started telling people I'm a lesbian. She's also saying she's scared and that I ask her a lot of ...A. 20 November 2009: At your age there is LOADS of bullying, just ignore it, I know it's easier said than done, but it's very true. There was a guy in my year and he picked on me and two other girls in my year lesbians, and now he's a drag queen and has bummed every ... (read in full...)
My husband claims he will change if I go back to him but I don't trust his word!
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I ...A. 20 November 2009: Eastern block man + Latin American woman = bad combination in my opinion.
Neutral country you say? Did you marry him for love or to conduct international diplomacy?
You should have thought more about what you were doing before you got involved... (read in full...)
Should I come clean and tell him the truth?
Answered by DrPsych + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet ...A. 20 November 2009: If you just want sex with the guy then go ahead. If you think having sex with the guy will keep him interested and start a proper relationship then you are wrong and will be disappointed. I think you need to decipher between lust and love here. He ... (read in full...)
How do I leave my married boss and not lose my job?
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi everyone, i really need help. I am 21, i am a student, i live here on my own. My parents live in another country.Last year i started working and yeah beginning my boss was trying wooing me all the time and i didn't really like him, cause he...A. 20 November 2009: It is illegal if he fires you for breaking up with him. You can sue him for it. But he has caused you so much pain that it wouldn't be a bad idea to leave your job to not have to put up with such a huge jerk.
good luck
xx... (read in full...)
I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...A. 20 November 2009: I don't think she loves me or wants to be with me though? she told me it was strictly just a sex thing... (read in full...)
How do you forget the person you are in love with?
Answered by Nur + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi to all. Anybody who can give some effective tips on how to forget a person whom you love so much that you can't live without him. I am waiting for your tips. Thank you....A. 20 November 2009: Say that she is a loser by losing your love it helps and remember that you may meet someone better than her.... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'give it some time'?
Answered by Anonymous_NF + on 20 November 2009.
Q. What does it mean if a guy says "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way"? I am going through rough time very stressed, I caused a fight with my boyfriend and said some mean and hurtful things to him and broke up. I have apologiz...A. 20 November 2009: Well I think that it means after time you guys might work something out so that you can be together again. Sometimes when people get bad they say things they don't really mean, so he understood that you didn't mean all of these stuff. He said that ... (read in full...)
He texts his ex and another girl. Is he losing interest in me?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 20 November 2009.
Q. my boyfriend and i got 2gether a couple of months ago. his girlfriend split up him then he got with me but he constantly keeps texting her and texting this other girl that he constantly talks about. he met up with her, had a couple of drinks a...A. 20 November 2009: Please get away from this guy now. He is STAYING at his ex girlfriend's house this weekend. What do you think he'll be doinmg with her? He is giving her more attention. He's not worth another moment of your time, so get away from him and find a ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...A. 20 November 2009: When I was 14 I was ugly, like, seriously ugly. But I blossomed, I'm actually quite pretty now. Chances are you'll look way better as you get older. Most of the people I know didn't get their first boyfriend until they were 16 or 17. It's completely ... (read in full...)
Does my aunt's dream mean I'm pregnant?
Answered by CaringGuy + on 20 November 2009.
Q. My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a ...A. 20 November 2009: You could be. The only way to be sure is to have a pregnany test done. ... (read in full...)
How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?
Answered by LilPixie + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...A. 20 November 2009: It's important that you sit down with him and tell him exactly how you feel, don't just casually tell him, make sure that he really listens to you. Ask him what he thinks and if there is anything he wants to try. Maybe next time you have sex, ra... (read in full...)
How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...A. 20 November 2009: I agree with MsFrankie, watching porn can be quite interesting, it can really get both of you into the mood and take the lead from what's happening on the telly. You should introduce things, get some new moves and try them out on him, you never kn... (read in full...)
I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!
Answered by CaringGuy + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...A. 20 November 2009: I'm afraid I have to agree with Accountable here. this is a big mess, and it will get bigger whatever happens. But he can't be expected to bring up your child and this woman has no right to expect you to just disappear. It will hurt your friend to ... (read in full...)
Does my aunt's dream mean I'm pregnant?
Answered by pancakes rule + on 20 November 2009.
Q. My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a ...A. 20 November 2009: If your stomach is growing, then it isn't a suprise that your colleagues think that your pregnant. Your not pregnant if you have your period and although there can be some strange conicidences involving dreams, it in now way means anything. Relax,... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.
Answered by Jim01 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...A. 20 November 2009: All i had to read was the title and your age to know you are way to young. grow up first!... (read in full...)
How can I last longer and not cum too quickly?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi hopefully someone will be able to help me I have two problems..the first of my problems is that I find that I cum too quickly. Whenever I masturbate I can do it generally within two minutes, which is fine by me when I'm in a rush however whe...A. 20 November 2009: eate more cheese... I know it sounds funny ...but it works ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think sex is disgusting?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am 33 yrs old and could care less if I had sex again!! It's gross, and disgusting I have to be drunk to have sex with my husband. Is that normal, and how do you think I should handle it?...A. 20 November 2009: Contrary to the earlier posts, yes, I'm afraid it's quite normal for American women around your age these days, especially in marriages between jaded "liberated" women who grow board of their mostly obese, unattractive, lackluster husbands (for good ... (read in full...)
How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?
Answered by Jim01 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...A. 20 November 2009: I agree with msfrankie when she says that resisting something and putting some control in your life is a good thing. But with that in mind I would not try to stop watching completely, try to wean yourself off of it. If you stop and go cold turkey ... (read in full...)
What it the appeal of bad boys?
Answered by Griim + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Girls like badboys? I was at the bar the other night and me and my friend got into a conversation with two other nice young ladies and one of the bar tenders. First I must make the assumption that all girls are attracted to 'bad boys' and in the...A. 20 November 2009: I think it is almost impossible to answer this question without making vast generalisations. Each person is uniquely defined by his or her experiences, genetics, age and about a million other factors - none of which we seem to have any control over. ... (read in full...)
I told her my feelings too soon and now she's backing away!
Answered by neophreak + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hello, I wanted to get your feedback on my little dilemma and perhaps guide me to a decision. I've been seeing her for a little over 6 weeks. To be honest, I'm surprised it even happened at all. We live in separate states, she's 23 and I'm 36, and ...A. 20 November 2009: Thanks for your input, I really appreciate it. After giving this some thought and observing her (lack of) response over the past couple weeks, I can safely conclude that she's just not that interested. I also think there were other motives at work ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my professor.
Answered by Jim01 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I'm in love with my professor. That first of all is the fact. I am now a graduating student in college, and this semester, he is not my teacher anymore. He was my teacher last semester, and I didn't feel this way. We only smile at each other when we ...A. 20 November 2009: hey, wild idea here. Just gonna go ahead and throw it out there. Try saying something more than 'Hi'. How about a nice ice breaker? Ask him what he is currently teaching his students? Ask him what he does outside of work with out seeming creepy. ... (read in full...)
Have I lost him for good?
Answered by Brokenheartedagain + on 20 November 2009.
Q. First I'm new to this site. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Well would be two years in twelve days. Everything was perfect. he has a child with another women before we met. His daughter is two. In the first two months of our relationship ...A. 20 November 2009: Soon, they were not married nor were they living together. He was living with his parents since she was 5 months prego because she cheated. She has five kids only has custody of two. His daughter and her other daughter. Yes he paid her money every ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: You know, the more I think about it, the more I think he's cutting off the sex on the side bit. He just is doing it in a roundabout way. When was the last time you got together or talked about this?
My bet is he has gone into his foxhole and hope... (read in full...)
How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?
Answered by MsFrankie + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...A. 20 November 2009: Maybe you could try watching some pornography together - men LOVE that - and say 'ooo, we should try that!' - and see what he says - find some porn that shows exactly what you would like him to do to you!! I think it's about making your suggestions ... (read in full...)
I'm so lost without her...
Answered by theoneyoucancounton... + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So here is my story. I have been dating a girl for the past seven months and even though that's not the longest time, we fell deeply in love with one another. Our first few months together were great. But for the past 2 months or so my attitude and ...A. 20 November 2009: Stop right there. You need to stop chasing her and reminding her that you are always there.
Take it from a womens perspective....you need to be there for her as a friend and show her you can be trusted and that you have changed.
Words mea... (read in full...)
How do I turn my FWB into something more?
Answered by q1605 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...A. 20 November 2009: If there are no benefits then you are just friends.... (read in full...)
How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?
Answered by MsFrankie + on 20 November 2009.
Q. hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...A. 20 November 2009: This is completely normal - don't worry about it. Sometimes the guilt that surrounds our sexual feelings makes it worse and drives us to do these things more - out of self hatred or punishment or something. Nearly all of us watch porn - I actually ... (read in full...)
Has anyone lost weight while pregnant?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. hiya well im 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am really confused. im getting a nice round bump but other than that have lost nearly 2 stone since i became pregnant and am worried that it could hurt my baby if i carry on losing weight ...A. 20 November 2009: I am overweight and 12 weeks pregnant. Since I found it I've been eating healthier. So far I have lost 16 pounds. I am healthy and baby is healthy and blood work was perfect. The only explanation is because my eating habits have changed I have lost ... (read in full...)
How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?
Answered by theoneyoucancounton... + on 20 November 2009.
Q. hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...A. 20 November 2009: You have nothing to worry about, it is perfectly normal for a guy to have an erection in the morning....in fact it is healthy if you do.
As for lookingat naked women and porn thats normal to a certain extent. If you want to stop,, get rid of t... (read in full...)
What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?
Answered by champilyn + on 20 November 2009.
Q. what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...A. 20 November 2009: I think that it's not wrong. it's just that people don't want to mind their own business and just wants to hear the newest gossip, since they have nothing better to do in life.
well, also because of culture.... (read in full...)
He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!
Answered by JustBreathe + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...A. 20 November 2009: Thanks to all of the responses.
I married him because he is my best friend. I am the main provider for us but he paid for most of the wedding.
When I found out about the tranny porn, I left. I flipped out and left. We talked about it endless... (read in full...)
I'm going out with someone new but I'm still in love with my ex!
Answered by theoneyoucancounton... + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok well I have posted a lot about a guy and its been over for a while now but I met this really good guy and he treats me like I deserve but I still feel that I really was in love with the last one. And real love doesn't come every day. I'm not ...A. 20 November 2009: Now heres something i can relate to....
firstly, you will fall in love again, guareented. Give it time. Time is the greatest healer.
Secondly, ask yourself do you have any feelings that could lead to more with this "good guy".
I can tell you... (read in full...)
I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!
Answered by champilyn + on 20 November 2009.
Q. i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...A. 20 November 2009: I'm 20 and I never had a boyfriend. I'm pretty, at least that's what people say, though I really have a BIG mouth, and I tend to over talk. so it's a problem too. I also want a boyfriend, but I seem to drive boys away. So, I think you're pretty much ... (read in full...)
Should I come clean and tell him the truth?
Answered by theoneyoucancounton... + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet ...A. 20 November 2009: Ok worries, heres the thing...
you sound like too much of a nice person to lose something so precious as your virginity to someone guy who's guna treat you like a notch on his bedpost.
You may be 27 but you dont want to waste time with someone ... (read in full...)
Should I come clean and tell him the truth?
Answered by DoubleM + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet ...A. 20 November 2009: The truth is always best, and 27 is very young. Yes, the guy would be thrilled.... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Answered by duce00 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...A. 20 November 2009: Dammit Garm! SLAP!!!
You gotta stop pining away by the dam phone!
Go do something productive, something you can take pride in.
You are wasting your life right now dude!
... (read in full...)
I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!
Answered by Accountable + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...A. 20 November 2009: Why two men are falling over themselves for this woman I do not understand.. firstly while her husband is going through god knows what in iraq she sleeps with his best friend, and is then willing to lie about the father of her child because thats ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Answered by Share Bear + on 20 November 2009.
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...A. 20 November 2009: I agree- she could at least contact you to keep you informed what's going on. -Even if it's just a quick text just to let you know that she's okay, or that she will contact you soon or whatever.
As much as I agree with what Duce00 is saying, ... (read in full...)
I look so young for my age...any way I can make myself look older?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. I need help, asap. The thing is, I look really young for my age. I'm 19, 20 in November and I still get asked for ID. Most of the time I even get asked ID for a 15 rated movie. When I got to clubs it's really embarrassing to be stopped infront of ...A. 20 November 2009: I am 21 yr old male and I often get remarks from others who assume I'm as yonge as 16. Its embarassing when you head out to a nightclub or an of age estabilishment and you pull out your wallet hoping you brough a valid source of verification. Here ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by Flashbacks + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: It just means he wants to continue to use you for sex in secrecy until the crap hits the fan, which it will eventually.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend dated celebrities and I'm not sure what to make of it
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later ...A. 20 November 2009: O, things we do when we are young and experementing. I did all kinds of crazy things, i would never tell my husband, but also I never ask him about his crazy youth. All he told me once after couple of drinks, that he had more than 200 women before ... (read in full...)
How do I turn my FWB into something more?
Answered by eyeswideopen + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...A. 20 November 2009: Since you PM'd me with the information that you are not having sex with him, this really isn't the typical FWB scenario. I would just try to relax and see what develops between you guys.... (read in full...)
I need advice on my cheating girlfriend!
Answered by quiet-echo + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hey guys im rather upset about this but just wanted some constructive feedback and others opinions on it. last night my girlfriend of 4 years went to her male friends house and just them two were drinking until they were completely wasted and he...A. 20 November 2009: By her behaviour I see more of a drunken mess than I do a slut.
Whether or not this is a phase is anyone's guess. Why stick around to find out? She's demonstrated limited impulse control, poor judgment and lack of etiquette. Either way you cann... (read in full...)
I can't have children due to PCOS. Please advise!
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi, I'm a 21 year old married female that can't have kids due to pcos... I have looked into adoption agencies but they are all so expensive. I really wanted to have children and now I am really beginning to become depressed because I can't have ...A. 20 November 2009: Well to be honest My husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost 5 years with NO luck! We have tried every treatment that my doctor will do!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend dated celebrities and I'm not sure what to make of it
Answered by Flashbacks + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later ...A. 20 November 2009: Sounds like she's giving off plenty of red flags (the "past" lifestyle, partying, cocaine use). I would be wary, and cautious. There might be a better woman out there to settle down with.... (read in full...)
Do you think he got me a ring for Christmas?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years mow. Things have been beyond wonderful lately, we're both going to school, and working towards our future. He also mentions kids and marriage in a few years, but doesn't like long engagements. ...A. 20 November 2009: i wouldnt expect a ring (although im sure you will be overjoyed if it were :)...) just incase its not what you think. Whatever he gives you, im sure a ring will come in time. xx... (read in full...)
I am 20 and too shy to tell my professor I have a crush on him, advice please?
Answered by champilyn + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am 20 years old, in college, and I have a huge crush on my professor. It wasn't a big deal at first, he was just good looking and really funny. But then slowly it developed into this big crush that now I cannot stop thinking about him. I think ...A. 20 November 2009: honestly, we're on the same boat. I am also in love with my professor, and i'm 20. he was my professor last semester, and not I'm stalking him, and we say hi to each other. there was even a time when I asked of his age. I don't know what to do. I ... (read in full...)
My husband claims he will change if I go back to him but I don't trust his word!
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I ...A. 20 November 2009: I think you dont need our help, you are helping yourself by getting away from this abusive man. He was using you more as his working slave than treating you with respect and as an equal. Stick to your decision. If he wants to change, good for him, ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by q1605 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: ing... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by q1605 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: Boy am I stupid. Reverse Psychology 101. Encourage her inner tartness until she gets them both fired.
Try explain that to their respective spouses.... (read in full...)
I feel really ugly and can't make my boyfriend understand
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, I apologise beforehand because I truly need to rant, I've been having an awful week regarding this problem! I hate it when people say to ugly people "just accept yourself, love yourself... if you don't feel it, just fake confidence!". IT...A. 20 November 2009: I wish I could help. I feel that way to. I am a nice person but there are more attractive girls out there. When you said you were ugly then added you had a hot boyfriend, I realized you are not as unattractive as you believe. I do not know what else ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by q1605 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: Obviously oblivious. Fem anon.
I think he wouldn't mind the discretion involved with you moving to a different state.... (read in full...)
Has anybody taken a break and everything worked out in the end?
Answered by katyayni + on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok so I'm 23 my bfs 25 we were dating for 4 months yet we have gone thru so much in so little time... yet he asked for space to make sure what he wants n to see if he's ready to make the next step which is marriage, yea sounds fast but we know each ...A. 20 November 2009: Hi
No. I have never heard of someone saying that they are taking a break from their partners and then come back and things were hunky dory. What issues can one resolve on their own, when it is related to the two of them together?
I mean, if he ha... (read in full...)
I can't have children due to PCOS. Please advise!
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi, I'm a 21 year old married female that can't have kids due to pcos... I have looked into adoption agencies but they are all so expensive. I really wanted to have children and now I am really beginning to become depressed because I can't have ...A. 20 November 2009: hi, i was just wondering how you know you cannot have kids? from what i've read, unless you've had reproductive organs removed, with treatment you more than likely should be able to have children. look into the treatment options that are available ... (read in full...)
Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?
Answered by Blatant Disregard + on 20 November 2009.
Q. my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...A. 20 November 2009: Because hand jobs are fun, and he thinks you’re the type to fool around outside of a relationship. Honestly, men are not that complicated. All he’s doing is giving you an opportunity to choose whether you’ll be in the “good girl” category o... (read in full...)
How do I turn my FWB into something more?
Answered by ShaeLynn1 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...A. 20 November 2009: Hey, I just wante to say thank-you to all of you that wrote me comments to help my question.... (read in full...)
Can you really be in love with two people at the same time?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. Is it truly possible to be in love with two people at the same time? or is that just something people say when they're afraid to admit how they truly feel, or are scared to say they don't love their partner anymore? I always thought that it wasn't ...A. 20 November 2009: I am in love with my husband, and we have a wonderful family. We compliment each other in many ways, and he is truly my best friend. I am also in love with his brother. At first I was horrified, and we stayed as far from each other as we could, but ... (read in full...)
I feel really ugly and can't make my boyfriend understand
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. Ok, I apologise beforehand because I truly need to rant, I've been having an awful week regarding this problem! I hate it when people say to ugly people "just accept yourself, love yourself... if you don't feel it, just fake confidence!". IT...A. 20 November 2009: I wish I could help. I feel that way to. I am a nice person but there are more attractive girls out there. When you said you were ugly then added you had a hot boyfriend, I realized you are not as unattractive as you believe. I do not know what else ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by eyeswideopen + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: I think his wife has her nose in the air and has caught a scent.... (read in full...)
The sum of al fears... My obsession with relationship (sexual) past.
Answered by Blatant Disregard + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I've been on this site, and a few others for a while. My question I guess is a combination of many questions, and I'm not totally sure where to begin. Let me start by saying that I love my girl. If I didn't then I wouldn't be worried about an...A. 20 November 2009: First of all, she cheated on you and you’re still spending an ounce of your brain power thinking about her. That’s weak. Your homework assignment is to read this: http://thebetterbeta.wordpress.com/2009/11/09/the-better-betas-creed/ Bust as f... (read in full...)
How do I turn my FWB into something more?
Answered by 5storeyfire + on 20 November 2009.
Q. So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...A. 20 November 2009: hey i really feel for you am in a very similar situation, it is very difficult when you cant see someone regularly. I know what its like to want one person above anyone else. Talk to him and see if he has any real feelings for you, guys have ... (read in full...)
Guys....does it matter if girls have arm hair??
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. hello Welll i know this question sounds pretty weird but do guys care if girls have arm hair or not? I know some girls that shave their arm hair and i just wanted to know if it even matters...i've never done anything to remove my arm hair but some...A. 20 November 2009: no it dosen't matters a lot but some times yes it looks akward in some kind of dresses!... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: Another one I thought of: he's actually ending it but doesn't have the courtesy of saying it's over, so he's said "be more discreet" and then when you want to hook up, he won't be available any more. A coward's way out of a messy relationship, ... (read in full...)
Do you think he got me a ring for Christmas?
Answered by katyayni + on 20 November 2009.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years mow. Things have been beyond wonderful lately, we're both going to school, and working towards our future. He also mentions kids and marriage in a few years, but doesn't like long engagements. ...A. 20 November 2009: Hey, don't count your chickens before they hatch luv.
... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: Wait, I thought of a few reason why he couldn't tell you what he meant. I'm just guessing here, of course.
One is that he doesn't want to spend any more money on you, because his wife is suspicious of his expenditures. He doesn't feel the need to s... (read in full...)
I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!
Answered by Frenzotic + on 20 November 2009.
Q. i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...A. 20 November 2009: Hey! Try not to listen to people's childish remarks. Brush it off because those people are just childish and need someone to upset because they haven't got anything better to do. Usually they call you allsorts because they have insecurities of ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by katyayni + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: Hi
I for one can't wait to read your follow-up. See how you react to the wonderful advices posted here.
Seriously, you got a really unique way of working on your marriage, you know! ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...A. 20 November 2009: It doesn't matter and it means nothing. I'm 17, never had a boyfriend and never come close to having one. I don't think there's ever been one guy who's actually liked me but that doesn't bother me. I know that it's not me. Like you, there's not... (read in full...)
He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few mont...A. 20 November 2009: i told him and he said exactly he does/ did not realize. ive told him, i guess i have feelings for him whilst he remains normal. its so sad... (read in full...)
Do you think he got me a ring for Christmas?
Answered by k_c100 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years mow. Things have been beyond wonderful lately, we're both going to school, and working towards our future. He also mentions kids and marriage in a few years, but doesn't like long engagements. ...A. 20 November 2009: Sorry to say this but it could be one of a hundred different things! And with your boyfriend mentioning marriage in a few years and he doesnt like long engagements - that suggests to me that a ring is the last thing he will buy you for Christmas!
... (read in full...)
How do I leave my married boss and not lose my job?
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. Hi everyone, i really need help. I am 21, i am a student, i live here on my own. My parents live in another country.Last year i started working and yeah beginning my boss was trying wooing me all the time and i didn't really like him, cause he...A. 20 November 2009: Get a new job and then press charges against him. In most countries its not allowed for the boss to sexually harass the employees, which is what he did to you. You are young and naive. Could have said young and stupid as the saying goes, but in this ... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend suddenly exclude me from his birthday plans?
Answered by Sweety Pie + on 20 November 2009.
Q. i was wondering, last night was my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together almost 3 years on and off. Every year weve spent it together, last night he excluded me from hanging out at his local bar where ive been with him before and met his ...A. 20 November 2009: This does sound strange.
Was it a boys night?... (read in full...)
He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few mont...A. 20 November 2009: Could be he doesnt realize how the way he treats you puts ideas into your head. Next time he treats you as more than friends, say no. ... (read in full...)
Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?
Answered by Ginalolabridga + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...A. 20 November 2009: Get yourselves off to marriage counselling, make time for each other, i think communication is sadly lacking in your relationship and that is what is causing you to drift apart.
Go to counselling, put the effort in, find the reasons why this marr... (read in full...)
I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...A. 20 November 2009: Why they call you ugly? Probably to get your attention, or because they think they are cool, or whatever. They are kids. So are you. Yes I know, 14 you might think you're older than you are, but give it another 10 years and look back and you'll know ... (read in full...)
Using a condom makes me lose my erection and it's happening every time!
Answered by anonymous on 20 November 2009.
Q. I'm a 24 years old guy and I have a 25 years old girlriend. Nowadays I'm going through a stupid funny thing which is becoming a very annoying thing. I had a very much normal erection but whenever I wore a condom and when I get ready to insert m...A. 20 November 2009: 1. Try a bigger condom or a polyurethane condom.
2. PUT LUBE INSIDE THE CONDOM and out.
3. Have her do it.
4. Try female condoms.... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Answered by Tisha-1 + on 20 November 2009.
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...A. 20 November 2009: Why didn't you just ask him that question? He's the one who said it, so he'll know exactly what he meant.... (read in full...)
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