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Well I'm 22 I love to help people with there problems and will try to answer everyone..

I have 2 children and a lovely fiance..

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What's wrong with me? I love her very much!

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, I love her very much and I know she loves me, she is beautiful,loyal,kind, everything I could ever want, she is the only girl I have ever had sex with, whereas she has had 4 boyfriends previous and 3 ...

A.   3 May 2012: This is low self esteem.. I have the same problem with my man for years he has said the same thing your thinking. And it gets to point where I feel like ending it that's how much it hurts me that he thinks that.. So I suggest don't tell her your... (read in full...)

Is a bondage/domination fetish embarrassing?

Q.   I have kept my kinks under wraps for a few years and since breaking up with my girlfriend, I wanted a fresh view. I have been worried that women would be put off by my kinks because they do not match the friendly, kind personality I have. I guess ...

A.   2 May 2012: No I doubt it will scare women away.. I'm sure a lot of npeople like role play and to be tied up.. When you find a women just make a suggestion about roleplay tell her what you would like to do then if she doesn't like it tell her ok :) either find... (read in full...)

My live-in BF has never once in the whole 2+years touched me in a sexual manner!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 3 months, in the beginning it was good, he would hold me and kiss me and say loving things to me, he moved in with me after three months and then things started changing. He became less affe...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi I don't know weather I'm wrong but sounds to me like he has had bad past.. I don't know this but I have read a lot of books and know someone who was abused when little not saying he was but could be the reason as he is still traumertised by ... (read in full...)

Are they real friends or are they telling me I don't belong in their group?

Q.   i have these friends that i have known since university. Some of them have gotten married and some who are single. everytime they have problems in their relationships, hardships at work or they just need a friend i am always there. i answer the ...

A.   1 May 2012: They arnt your real friends honesty is the best policy.. Real friends are there for you when you down, Pick you back up of the ground, And listen to all your problems and try find a soloution.. Sounds like they are all out for them selfs (self... (read in full...)

Had a fling with a married man on holiday and now I cant forget him! What should I do?

Q.   I went on a holiday recently and there I found myself attracted to the driver of the car that was escorting us around. Things took a strange turn one evening. It was raining and we were alone by a river. It was bitterly cold and I was shivering. He ...

A.   1 May 2012: You have to forget him he is married and let's face it only after one thing (sex).. You have more respect for yourself than that I think to be used by a married man for his kicks.. Yes you have a attraction but keep it at that.. You don't know eno... (read in full...)

Had a fling with a married man on holiday and now I cant forget him! What should I do?

Q.   I went on a holiday recently and there I found myself attracted to the driver of the car that was escorting us around. Things took a strange turn one evening. It was raining and we were alone by a river. It was bitterly cold and I was shivering. He ...

A.   1 May 2012: You have to forget him he is married and let's face it only after one thing (sex).. You have more respect for yourself than that I think to be used by a married man for his kicks.. Yes you have a attraction but keep it at that.. You don't know eno... (read in full...)

Is a bondage/domination fetish embarrassing?

Q.   I have kept my kinks under wraps for a few years and since breaking up with my girlfriend, I wanted a fresh view. I have been worried that women would be put off by my kinks because they do not match the friendly, kind personality I have. I guess ...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi it depends on what kind of kinks you have got?? Some women find some bondage frightening and not for them.. But you could try online dateing that way you could confess before meeting them about your fantasies.. I'm sure you will find the rig... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be with someone 24/7?

Q.   My sister is dating this guy and he moved in with her about 6 months ago. they have been together 13 months. they are getting married in 1 week. my problem is this: He goes everywhere with her. he doesnt work nor does she. she goes to school. but he ...

A.   1 May 2012: Its not normally for any relationship for the 2 to be together 24/7 as it isn't healthy and can course arguemeants a lot.. But really this has nothing to do with you as long as they are happy with eachother then stay out of it. They may like to be t... (read in full...)

How should I interpret our relationship?

Q.   Hi everyone I was just wondering what you people think of this I met a man 14 months ago we have slept together ever since we have agreed not to sleep with anyone else me or him which we are both happy with we see each other a couple of times ...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi well its a tricky one.. Sounds like he just wants no string sex and nothing full on.. Try ask him how he feels its obvious you want more so stop sleeping with him if it isn't going to go anywhere because you will end up hurt in the long run.! ... (read in full...)

Did I have a chance with him?

Q.   So I liked this guy that I have known for 11 years and have had a crush on him for a years. After I told him I liked him he started talking to me and flirting, We text every day and he's sweet but recently I confessed to him that I don't want him to ...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi I think what he's trying to say is he's leaving in 8 weeks and doesn't want to get attached.. Sounds like he does like you but I would give it a miss as long distance relationships are hard and don't always work out.. But its up to you and him ... (read in full...)

I'm confused by my ex boyfriend's behaviour. What does he want?

Q.   I'm confused about my ex boyfriends behaviour. We were one anothers first loves and were together little over 2 years. We broke up as he cheated on me. Anyway, 2 years down the line he is still talking to me every week, calling me, ringing me. ...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi well beacuse he cheated on you and betrayed you when you where together I think you should draw the line, he is probably scared of you moving on and loosing you so trying to get into your head all the time so you don't.. Find a man that resp... (read in full...)

I'm gay and I like my best male friend. How should I address this?

Q.   I'm a gay man and I'm in love with my best friend (male.) He's a pretty masculine guy by the way. When I first got to know him, he seemed pretty anti-gay and homophobic, but as time went on, he gave me signals that made me think otherwise. Afte...

A.   1 May 2012: Hi.. Sounds like you friend is bi. Maybe he is just scared at telling you how he really feels or maybe he's in denial.. He obviously cares a lot about you and you do same. If you really want to tell him you love him maybe write him a letter l... (read in full...)

My friend's crush has been asked by another girl to prom and she's very upset, how do I make her feel better?

Q.   Me and my best friend was texting one day and all of the sudden she became all sad and she was crying. I asked her how come she was crying, and then she said that the guy she liked was ask to prom and he said yes. She is very scare that after...

A.   30 April 2012: Hi maybe you should take her out do something fun cheer her up and make her forget there's plenty more boys out there.. Or maybe you could have a word with the boy and tell him how your friend feels see how he reacts. He may just be as shy as your... (read in full...)

I know I need to step up and get my children back, but how do I go about repairing the relationship when I've been away for 5 years?

Q.   I'm 27 with 3 girls that have been without me for 5 years. I left home after a stressful 2 year custody battle searching for my own independance. Sadly pregnant I realized my it was best if I stayed away a while to keep from tearing the girls nerves ...

A.   30 April 2012: Well first of all I don't think any mother should give there children up under any circumstance. When you bring a child in to the world you are meant to provide and keep them safe not palm them of when the tough gets going.. Sorry but I have ... (read in full...)

I've been going out a lot, having fun, but I still think of him!

Q.   Hi, Brace yourselves, it's a little long.. Less than a month ago, I broke up with my bf of 3 years. The reasons were that for about almost two months, he told me he felt like he didn't feel physically attracted to me anymore (nothing about me ...

A.   30 April 2012: Hi well I get what your ex had.. Me and my partner have being together 6 and half year.. And the last few months I don't feel phisically attracted to him what's so ever. I don't kno where it came from and I don't know how to get it back I feel like ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be scared of having sex with a new guy?

Q.   I have a question. Is it normal for me to be scared to have sex with a new guy? I've been having sex with 1 guy for 3 years and I had sex with him the most. He was the 2nd guy I ever had sex with. So I was wondering is it normal? I've met new guys...

A.   30 April 2012: Yeah course its normal to be scared to have sex with someone new.. As you don't know what to expect. Plus when you find the right man you will know when your ready for a relationship when the rite person comes along.. Take your time and don't rush ... (read in full...)

He cheated, prom is only a week away and the dress is paid for. What to do?

Q.   Help! I just found out my my boyfriend of 7 months has cheated on me. He kissed another girl while he was wasted at a party....and Prom is a week away. We already have tickets and i bought a $500 dress. My family is super excired to see us go. Im ...

A.   30 April 2012: Hi have you spoke to him about why he cheated on you? I wouldn't put up with it the saying once a cheat always a cheat.. But a kiss maybe a mistake everyone deserves a second chance. But are you willing to give him that and move on and forget about ... (read in full...)

We broke up, but now he's not moving away are we back together again? I cant figure this out!

Q.   So I'm confused and here's why: My boyfriend of three months told me that he was going to leave New Jersy and move to North Carolina in with his mom. This was just this past friday. He asked me what he should do so I told him" he should do what mak...

A.   30 April 2012: Well what ever happens I hope you both work it out and are happy :)... (read in full...)

She dumped me over email despite telling me I was the one and she wanted to marry me!

Q.   Hey! So my girlfriend of 3 years decided to call it quits with me over email after she earlier told me i was the one and that she in time wanted to marry me. I felt like i was wanting to do the same. I don't know what to do. how to respond what i ...

A.   25 April 2012: Hi have you asked her why she has ended it? Sometimes people end relationships not meaning to and are not thinkin straight at the time.. To throw 3 years away is silly over nothing. She obvioulsy has her reasons and you need to know about these an... (read in full...)

We broke up, but now he's not moving away are we back together again? I cant figure this out!

Q.   So I'm confused and here's why: My boyfriend of three months told me that he was going to leave New Jersy and move to North Carolina in with his mom. This was just this past friday. He asked me what he should do so I told him" he should do what mak...

A.   25 April 2012: Hi.. Think you need to ask him if your together still and is it going to work long distance relationships can work but its going to be hard. Just ask him what he wants to do sounds like he's confused and doesn't want to loose you but then again he w... (read in full...)

I think she likes me and I want to have sex with her, how do I ask her?

Q.   Hi I have a problem. There is this girl I know and I have wanted to have sex with her for years but i have always been too afraid to ask. I have heard rumors that she likes me and that she has spoken to friends about having sex with me. I am a ...

A.   25 April 2012: I don't think asking a girl for sex is the rite approach.. Get to know her some more take her on a date show her your interested and not just for sex!... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do to regain my sex drive?

Q.   I currently got myself into a situation that I dont know what to do about. Im 23years old and I find myself to be a bi-curous (or at least I like to think that), however truth be told probably more gay then bi. Up till a few days ago I was s...

A.   25 April 2012: :) ... (read in full...)

I want to get married to this man someday, but to stand at the alter with the man who used to abuse me standing by his side, is unthinkable!

Q.   I love the man I am with, unfortunately his best friend is an ex of mine, an abusive ex. His argument is that they have been friends longer than I have known him and that everyone makes mistakes. He is a godly man and believes we need to forgive one ...

A.   24 April 2012: Hi.. Well how awful to hear what you went through.. My opinion is quick and straight.. This man loves you? He wants to marry you? Protect you? Rite well then he should understand what your ex his best friend put you through how ever bad it was. You ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do to regain my sex drive?

Q.   I currently got myself into a situation that I dont know what to do about. Im 23years old and I find myself to be a bi-curous (or at least I like to think that), however truth be told probably more gay then bi. Up till a few days ago I was s...

A.   24 April 2012: Hi.. Have u tryed having sex with a women? Maybe you are attracted to men but not in a sexual way. I lost my sex drive with my partner after 4 year together and suddenly it just come back. There's a number of things you could try like.. Forp... (read in full...)

How do I build a relationship with my mom?

Q.   i feel like my mom and i have no relationship what so ever! i feel like there is nothing i can talk to her about!! i've tried sitting down with her, tried writing her letters, i've even tried facebook messaging her, but nothing seems to change!! ...

A.   24 April 2012: Hi.. Well if your mum is clearly not making any effort to contact you and its always you doing the messaging.. I suggest leaveing her for a few days, weeks see if she gets in contact if she doesn't I don't know what to suggest.. You have said much ... (read in full...)

He distant, is our relationship ending?

Q.   I feel like I'm losing my boyfriend :( We've been together 2 years, and I'm going away for college in 2 months, so we'll be in an LDR. He's been distant the past week, (even forgetting our 2 year anniversary) and I just get this vibe that it's a s...

A.   22 April 2012: Hii.. Well first thing a LDR is hard for most people I should know.. But all depends on how much you love eachother and want it to work.. Maybe he's just upset that your leaving and only way to express it is to be (off) with you.. Try talk to him ... (read in full...)

Am I being overly sensitive because he wants to go to a strip club with his friends?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, i'm 48 he's 50.... we have a good relationship now, but it's been up and down over the years. I work hard staying in shape, looking good and pleasing him sexually. The other night he brought up that he ...

A.   22 April 2012: Hi.. Maybe your partner just wants to fit in at work and feel young again.. If you have such a great relationship then you have nothing to worry about.. But if you feel hurt by this then tell him he can't go.. I wouldn't worry to much though as you ... (read in full...)

We have been dating for over a year but still no sex!

Q.   So I'm 24 and have been dating a man that is older than me, he is 40. He is the best guy any girl can have we have a really great connection. We have been dating for a little over a year now but we havent made it "official" we don't believe in ...

A.   22 April 2012: Hi.. Well I think its time to pop the question up.. There could be loads of reasons why he maybe be holding out.. Virgin not that hard to believe.. Or he may have problems down there.. Or a wife? You have to talk to him to know this question as sex ... (read in full...)

Do I still like/love my ex?

Q.   there is this guy an ex boyfreind of mine. he got really hurt the other day and i was there it was scary i thought he was going to die he went to hospital.one day after that happened i made him a card and everyone signed it we were going to give it ...

A.   22 April 2012: Hi.. I think you confused.. Seeing someone you once loved and now care a lot about hurt you.. But I wouldn't say you are in love but that's for you to decide and to know your own feelings.. Sometimes it takes something like this to happen for you ... (read in full...)

I found out my wife had an affair. 20 years of my marriage have been a lie

Q.   Hi I need help I have been married 33 years and have just found out that the last 20 years have been a lie. 20 years ago she entered an affair whilst I was serving in the Army we had been married 11 years and have two children. I went to war and ...

A.   22 April 2012: Hi.. Well I hope you ok hard when something like this happens.. I think everyone deserves a second chance. I know its not a exeption but you where away a long tim and she may have felt lonely and need some attention.. Obviously when you married you ... (read in full...)

What is your opinion on a 25 year age gap ?

Q.   Is it too much ? Because for the past 2 years i have been really attracted to someone who is 25 years older . I am not looking for 'the father figure' or he isn't looking for 'sex' . But would it be stupid for us to try and date? Is the gap just too ...

A.   22 April 2012: Hi kelly.. No I don't think age really matters aslong as your both over 18.. Some people make a big deal about it but aslong as you both happy who cares.. Make ago of it what's the worst that can happen :) good luck x... (read in full...)

I feel jealous that my partner pays so much attention to our attractive friend

Q.   I am very embarrassed to ask for advice over this, because I hate to admit to being jealous. This is about my boyfriend of 4 and a half years and my friend. I think he has actual feelings for her. Me and my boyfriend moved to a new area 3 ...

A.   22 April 2012: Hi first of all don't put your self down so much.. Everyone is beutiful in there own way.. Your partner clearly as issues.. Yes I suggest talking to him about it aproach it in a joking way like.. Don't you think she's hot.. Or just ask him out right ... (read in full...)

What ways can a girl lie about her virginity?

Q.   Hello to all, I'm new member in this site and i think it's very helpful and useful. I got a question, in which ways can a girl lie to her bf for her virginity.( i'm male, just asking 'cuz i'm curious)Thank you....

A.   22 April 2012: Hi.. I don't know why a girl would lie to her boyfriend about bring a virgin when not.. But maybe she doesn't want him to know and for him to think he is special and her first.. Or maybe she doesn't want him to think she's put it about :/ A girl... (read in full...)

We live together and b/f is making out a schedule of what times to spend together?

Q.   ok so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months now and i just dont feel happy around him. he has been acting totally different but i dont know if its just a phase or if its permanent. he does so many things that makes it seem tha...

A.   22 April 2012: Hi hun.. Well first thing I think your boyfriend is taking you for granted that is a fact. He obviously doesn't see what he has. Sounds like he is playing away behind your back I know its not what you want to hear but that maybe why he doesn't want ... (read in full...)

How do I make sure my husband doesn't cheat again?

Q.   i am married for 2 years now. my husband has been cheating me.when i confront him he seems remorseful.what do i do to make sure he doesnt cheat again?...

A.   23 November 2011: Theres nothing anyone can do to stop there partner from cheating. If there going to cheat they will. But for a person to cheat my oppinion is there either not happy or not feeling very loved in the relationship. By all means everyone deserves a s... (read in full...)

Was sex with my new boyfriend awkward because I just got out of such a long relationship? Or do we just not have that kind of connection?

Q.   I just got out of a 2 year relationship to a guy that I was actually engaged to. I was very unhappy with the relationship and he was more concerned about his happiness than mine. I couldn't take it anymore so I left. I'm in a new relationship and ...

A.   22 November 2011: Hi.. think you should of left it a couple of months to get over your ex... sounds to me like your on the rebound trying to get over him by useing someone else. think you should be on your own until you know what you really want.. good luck x... (read in full...)

My bits don't look like the girls in porn.

Q.   So any help fr guys would be apreciated, basically. As embarasing as it is my vagina isn't like the ones I've seen in certain porn videos! It's got tight small outer lips everything is good except on my right side one of the inner lips sticks out ...

A.   15 April 2010: hi.. Everyone's body parts are diffrent, noboy's are the same, i son't think you have anything to worry about.. But if you feel it's going to put men boyfriend's of then go see your gp there mite be something he can do.. Gd luck x... (read in full...)

I want him to love me like he loves his ex.

Q.   Am a young entrepreneuer, very independent, have my own home etc and have been dating my boyfriend for the past two years.The only reason that he is in this realationship with him, because i make my own monies and i look after him pretty well, but ...

A.   15 April 2010: Awww bless you, i feel soo sorry for you.. This man is a complete user. You need to pluck the courage up and leave him before he leaves you.. I know it's hard and you love him but sooner or later he will hurt you.. I'm sure you could find a nice ... (read in full...)

Should I love him or love him not?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I think Im in Love With a Guy and He is one of my best friends, but he is dating my other friend and has a crush on my bFF and my BFF likes him too. Is it wrong to love him?...

A.   25 November 2009: if he is dating one of your other friends then there's nothing you can do. Keep your feelings to yourself, she is your freind and a freind doesn't betray a friend. If they split up then tell him how you feel.. good luck x... (read in full...)

I absolutely know it wasn't the sex. Is there something wrong or am I just 'trippin'?

Q.   I have started dating this woman a couple of weeks ago. She texted me 3-8 times per day. We saw each other 3 times. I spent the night 2 outa 3 of those times, the first night I spent the night, [in the morning] she asked me to come back that evening ...

A.   30 October 2008: Text her and tell her you want to talk to her in person about something don't tell her what though. Then just tell her you really like her. Good luck . ... (read in full...)

I absolutely know it wasn't the sex. Is there something wrong or am I just 'trippin'?

Q.   I have started dating this woman a couple of weeks ago. She texted me 3-8 times per day. We saw each other 3 times. I spent the night 2 outa 3 of those times, the first night I spent the night, [in the morning] she asked me to come back that evening ...

A.   29 October 2008: I think that was a hint when she text you to say she had a date she was wanting for you to say well what about me and you but you said cool so i think she thinks you are not that interested, i think you should ring or text her and tell her how you ... (read in full...)

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