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I feel my girlfriend is holding back on her affections!

Q.   Im 20 and my gf is 16, yea yea some of you think thats wrong. But i dont plan on having sex with her anytime soon, im in it for a relationship. We have been dating for 2 months now and we have a good relationship and we love each other. But ...

A.   24 October 2010: hay no worries chills girls act like this specially teenagers time will solve it you just arrange a date with her K??? tell me the progress i'lll guide you through... (read in full...)

I want a first kiss without being controlling!

Q.   How can I make a move to have a first kiss with my boyfriend without coming off as the controller in our relationship? We haven't kissed yet, and I know he wants to, but he's scared to try. Any advice?...

A.   22 October 2010:  "The girl I eventually DID marry doesn't know how much she should thank that first girlfriend of mine." hahaha dats funny... (read in full...)

I want a first kiss without being controlling!

Q.   How can I make a move to have a first kiss with my boyfriend without coming off as the controller in our relationship? We haven't kissed yet, and I know he wants to, but he's scared to try. Any advice?...

A.   22 October 2010:  @tasteofindia:hay you seem to have experience with kissing, yeah i agree biting is not good for the first kiss ;)... (read in full...)

How to keep him guessing.

Q.   Girls, you know how guys say we're complex? Good news for you, they love it. Mystery is what turns a guy on the most. It's like a puzzle a game or a search, so how do you keep the search going when you are in a relationship with him? 1. During t...

A.   22 October 2010: nice dirt ball but this are the stuff girls normally follow,, like it or not guys fall for those tricks ;)... (read in full...)

How to handle your breakup-for the Dumper against an Angry Dumpee

Q.   Dear Readers, We all have been in these spots, where we have to use the lines, "I think we should break up" or "It's not me, it's you" am I right? If we haven't used them we have surely had them said to us at one point in our lives. How do you hand...

A.   21 October 2010: good one kat... (read in full...)

I feel my girlfriend is holding back on her affections!

Q.   Im 20 and my gf is 16, yea yea some of you think thats wrong. But i dont plan on having sex with her anytime soon, im in it for a relationship. We have been dating for 2 months now and we have a good relationship and we love each other. But ...

A.   21 October 2010: it'll wipe out dude they are like that in the first place but it'll change be personal with her and tell her how you feel she'll help you out mate talking do the job :) good luck feed me with new news i'll give some more tips... (read in full...)

I'm worried it is just becoming habit instead of having meaning!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are together for around 8 months for now. And recently, we started to sleep together, yes just sleeping and heavy petting which includes me giving him handjob and blowjobs and him fingering me. However, I have discussed with h...

A.   21 October 2010: hay,,girl your boy friend is lucky my g.f. is very shy to do those stuff let me tell you something guys want a sex life just think for a second WHY THERE'S ONLY FEMALE PROSTITUTES that because they want it so much but remember love should ... (read in full...)

How to keep him guessing.

Q.   Girls, you know how guys say we're complex? Good news for you, they love it. Mystery is what turns a guy on the most. It's like a puzzle a game or a search, so how do you keep the search going when you are in a relationship with him? 1. During t...

A.   21 October 2010: ahhhhhhhhhhhha kat???? what the hack?? who told u these GUYS ONLY SECRETS huuuh???? hay guys do something about this we're doomed please mention the sex factor will you 6.they realy love sex,,,but don't give too much and don't keep him waiti... (read in full...)

The guy that made me feel alive again.. but he's taken now.

Q.   im 17,just call me joy a girl who didnt want to fall inlove again because of my ex-boyfriends who once destroyed my life then leave me so after my last boyfriend i decided not to love again cause im scared that i might be the one who will suffer at ...

A.   21 October 2010: girl,,,, make him your friend first talk with him and be a good companion then you decide whether to make him the life partner o just make the good friend may be he's not a good b.f. so better to be his fiend first you being fed up with b.f... (read in full...)

I want a first kiss without being controlling!

Q.   How can I make a move to have a first kiss with my boyfriend without coming off as the controller in our relationship? We haven't kissed yet, and I know he wants to, but he's scared to try. Any advice?...

A.   21 October 2010: get yourselves alone somewhere,,like movie or something,,,then it'll happen,,don't worry your eyes will do the talking lips willl do the touching,,,,good luck,,,,don't press too hard,,but don't forget to bite his lip a bit,,:)... (read in full...)

What else can I do to make her feel happy?

Q.   hi i have been i love with this girl for over an year,and things have always been ok. She has been very easy going . When we got together, she told me that was a phase and now she wanted a serious, long term relationship. the question existed ...

A.   21 October 2010: dude are you being strict on her???? release the HANDLE a bit,,she might be thinking you are trying to control her,,that's what girls hate,,they want freedom,just trust her,,i think that would work,,,don't suspect her,,... (read in full...)

Shy guys! How do you respond best to girls?

Q.   Shy guys. Please give me the lowdown. For example: How do you respond best to girls? Or how you like to flirt? If you hadn't had a girlfriend before, how would you like a girl to approach you? Is virginity reall such a big deal? Please give me some ...

A.   21 October 2010: catch his eye in the first place,,, then try to smile with him do this for some time that he too won't hesitate to do so then you take the first move go and talk to him he'll respond nicely sooo then you try get friendly with him after tha... (read in full...)

Husband texts other women

Q.   Hi, I need some opinions on how you feel about your husband texting/talking on the phone with other women. We have been married for about a year and I trusted him that he is a good husband and will never cheat on me, but now im not so sure. He...

A.   21 October 2010: hay good luck,,inform the progress,,,:)... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my coach!

Q.   I am In love with my softball ast. Coach he is 26 I am 17 I no he has feelings for me because he is always texting me and flirting with me we hang out every friday at the football games the biggest problem is I have a bf that I have been with for 3 ...

A.   21 October 2010: hay big prob,,,,,u gotta agree with your heart,,but your boy friend loves you right?? 3years is a big time,,,,,think before you leap....tell me the progress... (read in full...)

Having feelings for three girls is making me confused.

Q.   Ok so I feel so confused because I think I might have feelings for three girls and I don`t know what to do. The one girl I met at camp as CIT`s and we became friends pretty quick and I fell for this girl and didn`t have the guts to make a move. We ...

A.   21 October 2010: lucky you mate,,,,3?? congrats,,,but you should try my methodbut it's not a good way start putting points to your crushes,,u know according to you likenesses,,and what do they posses,and pick who got more marks,,i'll give you the marking scheme, ... (read in full...)

So fed up with my family!!!

Q.   I am the youngest of all in my home. since my chilhood everyone they shout at me. i am now an adult and still they do the same in tiny little things like, i don't keep my clothes in right place, my book, i don't clean my room. They think i am a ...

A.   21 October 2010: ooops,,,,hay family is like that,,,same here,,they are your family,,,so tolerate it a bit,,normaly everbody is trying to rule someone,,that's the nature of life,,,as TENNISSTAR said:) going out is a another option,,talk with your family members,,and ... (read in full...)

Need to talk to my b/f about problems in our relationship without sounding bitchy

Q.   I'm having a talk with my boyfriend about how he has been treating me and acting and how I don't like it and etc. What are ways to do this without sounding naggy, mean, bitchy, insensitive, annoying, etc. I just want something that wont sound ac...

A.   21 October 2010: hmmmmm,,,that's annoying,,this the first time i heard a guy doesnt like sex,,,,,different here,,so when you are talking to him,,don't rush it,,,,just gently tell it to him,,tell him how you feel about how he's acting,,and tell him the hardships you ... (read in full...)

Does his stare mean anything?

Q.   Hello. I just want to ask a question about something that happened to me today. Today, my crush and i catched eachother's eye. i smiled at him, looked down, looked back up and carried on smiling while he just looked at me. what does this mean? a...

A.   21 October 2010: good luck,,theese are early symptoms of love sick,,TALK TO HIM... (read in full...)

My boyfriends parents really dislike me

Q.   Help! So I like this guy, a lot. He and I were unofficial for a month when a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend, but there is one complication. His parents don't want him to have a girlfriend, and in turn they found out we were a couple, a...

A.   21 October 2010: that's how parents act,,they don't remember they passed this age too,,when they become older this happens,,so best answer is patience,,you look like you are have a good sense of patience,,,so i'll pray for you,,,try to organize a PARENTS ... (read in full...)

Husband texts other women

Q.   Hi, I need some opinions on how you feel about your husband texting/talking on the phone with other women. We have been married for about a year and I trusted him that he is a good husband and will never cheat on me, but now im not so sure. He...

A.   21 October 2010: oh those things happen,,,i'm not married but,,but i have a girl friend,,,and i plead her not to talk with other guys,,she's been a famous t.v. star she has to talk with lots of guys,,but i was a playful guy before the affair,,but i only talk with ... (read in full...)

My boyfriends parents really dislike me

Q.   Help! So I like this guy, a lot. He and I were unofficial for a month when a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend, but there is one complication. His parents don't want him to have a girlfriend, and in turn they found out we were a couple, a...

A.   21 October 2010: send a birthday card and some presents for their birthdays,,then buy movie tickets for their anniversary.that's what i did,,now they are fond of me,,shoe them that u love your boy very much,,they just want to see their child happy,,that's it,,keep ... (read in full...)

I don't want to take her viriginity but I need something

Q.   i'm 18 years old,i'm having a relationship with my girlfriend for a year now,we are happy with each other,but she's been a faithful to her parents she doesn't like to fulfil my sex needs,i don't want to destroy her virginity,but being a playful boy ...

A.   21 October 2010: thanks,,i do understand that,,,she said she would do anything if she has feelings,,,so i'm trying everything,,u know buying her presents,talking to her gently,and do things what she wants me to do,,,i cut my tinted hair,i removed my earring,i've ... (read in full...)

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