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1st date, he touched my butt

Q.   So i was texting my coworker for almost 2 months and sometimes we were flirting and sometimes we were talking about work or trying to get to know each other. He has no girls, he does not drink like me, and he does not go out so often.Finally 2 ...

A.   22 December 2017: Yeah, he finally disappeared. No texts from him for 3 days!!!... (read in full...)

I asked him:what about us after dating 4 months, he did not answer me at all.what should I do?

Q.   What did i do wrong to deserve this? I have been dating with this guy i met online for 4 months. Everything was going great except he had a lot of family issues or work issues. Every time he was arguing his mom or sister, he was always talking ...

A.   5 August 2017: You are right guys... i should start moving on and have some dignity.... (read in full...)

I asked him:what about us after dating 4 months, he did not answer me at all.what should I do?

Q.   What did i do wrong to deserve this? I have been dating with this guy i met online for 4 months. Everything was going great except he had a lot of family issues or work issues. Every time he was arguing his mom or sister, he was always talking ...

A.   4 August 2017: I can not get over him. It has been 5 days and he has not texted me. It hurts alot. Sometimes, i think i should have never asked him what we are. Then things would be different... (read in full...)

I asked him:what about us after dating 4 months, he did not answer me at all.what should I do?

Q.   What did i do wrong to deserve this? I have been dating with this guy i met online for 4 months. Everything was going great except he had a lot of family issues or work issues. Every time he was arguing his mom or sister, he was always talking ...

A.   2 August 2017: You guys really think he wants to go back to his ex? But his ex called me in May not recent time but i had encourage to ask him who she is now, in June then in July. I do know they are friends on fb. If the guy still has feelings for her, and the ... (read in full...)

My army guy only contacts me when he's down

Q.   Hello, I met this guy online and started to talk for almost 2 months. He is in military active but he is a national guard. We went on several dates. Most of the times he texted me when he is depressed cause of his family issue or he is lost his...

A.   3 July 2017: After 3 months of dating, he barely contacts me and he does not ask me on an actual date. I am thinking about cause i did not sleep with him? I am just not ready. What makes guy change their action after a while?... (read in full...)

My army guy only contacts me when he's down

Q.   Hello, I met this guy online and started to talk for almost 2 months. He is in military active but he is a national guard. We went on several dates. Most of the times he texted me when he is depressed cause of his family issue or he is lost his...

A.   21 June 2017: My heart is broken. He is back from training and i know he had tough 2 weeks. As soon as he is back, he texted me that his sister is arguing with his mom and that he is tired of playing nediator. Next day it was raining and he asked me to take a wa... (read in full...)

We met online. He didn't ask my phone number. Was he not really interested in me?

Q.   I met with this guy on the dating website. We had alot of things in common. After a week, we decided to meet up. He asked my phone number so he can send me the direction of the restaurant. I did not want to write my number on the dating website and ...

A.   2 April 2017: I was expecting him to ask. Thats why i waited till the end of the night. When he did not, i had to text him in the dating website. What does not make sense is if you are not into me, why you are asking me if i made home safely and that see you soon... (read in full...)

Why guys appear to disappear?

Q.   I was talking to this guy for 9 months. We argued after and hurt his feelings. He did not forgive me. Then i gave it a time. I did not text him for a while. All of a sudden, he texted me as if nothing happens for 2 weeks. He lives in San Diego an...

A.   13 January 2017: Honeypie:: how am i going to move on? I was ready to move on when he did not answer my texts and forgive me. Then he appeared and texted me nonstop. He might find another person. ... (read in full...)

Why guys appear to disappear?

Q.   I was talking to this guy for 9 months. We argued after and hurt his feelings. He did not forgive me. Then i gave it a time. I did not text him for a while. All of a sudden, he texted me as if nothing happens for 2 weeks. He lives in San Diego an...

A.   13 January 2017: We used to see each other every 2 months. He even called me on new years to celebrate it. He told me whenever i go to san diego, he will take me to this restaurant. Idk this time i was so nice to him and try not say anything that would hurt his ... (read in full...)

If he has a gf, why he wants me to be his side-chick?

Q.   This guy i was dating almost 3 months, told me he got back with his ex but he does not want me to move on. He told me their situation wont last anyway. He also deleted me on facebook to move on. I am trying to forget him and i can not. Why he wants...

A.   13 August 2015: i made the worst mistake ever by taking him back after he broke with his gf. after we hang out for a week and thank god i did not sleep during that week, he went back to his ex gf. you guys were so right. i blocked him and even cursed at him. it ... (read in full...)

If he has a gf, why he wants me to be his side-chick?

Q.   This guy i was dating almost 3 months, told me he got back with his ex but he does not want me to move on. He told me their situation wont last anyway. He also deleted me on facebook to move on. I am trying to forget him and i can not. Why he wants...

A.   9 August 2015: Hi guys, here is updated information. I am just lost... he send a message on fb that he wants to talk to me and i said go ahead. So we were on the phone almost an hour and he told me he is not with his girl anymore.He explained to me that his gf ... (read in full...)

If he has a gf, why he wants me to be his side-chick?

Q.   This guy i was dating almost 3 months, told me he got back with his ex but he does not want me to move on. He told me their situation wont last anyway. He also deleted me on facebook to move on. I am trying to forget him and i can not. Why he wants...

A.   1 August 2015: Wow, that was such a good answer. No1 likes to have pair of shoes.. how am i going to move on? Maybe i should start not stalking his gf's instgram. What makes me upset is, she is not even good looking and this guy told me before he chose her beca... (read in full...)

He said he wants to get over me and deleted me on fb

Q.   Help all, I was dating with this guy for 3 months and we were on and off. We were friends on fb. Evert single time I went out, I poster my pictures and he liked it and texted me how was my dinner date or Etc... He was trying to learn i guess if...

A.   31 July 2015: Honeypie most likely you remember this guy before my posts... he basically told me to be his side chick. He is in a relationship and told me not to move on cause they wont last. I said good luck and i am out. No text after... I should be a stup... (read in full...)

How can guys be so insincere? I was dating him for 2 months, but now I find he already has a Gf?

Q.   I was dating with this guy from work almost 2 months. He told me yesterday and the day before he likes me and misses me. Today I asked him where he was at last night. He said he was in his gf's crib and that he was horny. I said, ^^^k him and d...

A.   22 June 2015: He texted me saying he does not have any girl and someone was messing around with me. Since i am a strong hard headed woman, i will not hear that. when he told me, he was in his gf's house, it was 8 am on that day. Plus, you can only access his phon... (read in full...)

How can guys be so insincere? I was dating him for 2 months, but now I find he already has a Gf?

Q.   I was dating with this guy from work almost 2 months. He told me yesterday and the day before he likes me and misses me. Today I asked him where he was at last night. He said he was in his gf's crib and that he was horny. I said, ^^^k him and d...

A.   21 June 2015: Hey all, dating does not mean commitment but it also does not mean you can have a gf and date/sleep with another person. Unfortunately, i trust him too much w his words. And he let me down. He texted me yesterday and asked me if we can talk. I ... (read in full...)

Should I see him before I leave? And should I text him when I arrive at the destination?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we dated like 4 times. I slept with him after a month.Since we both working in the same airlines, we took an advantage and went on a trip. He became sick on the 2nd day and i took care of him. He appreciated and ...

A.   19 June 2015: guys, you were all right. i asked him what he did last night. he told me he slept in his girlfriend's house. i texted him, wow, can not believe it. that's crazy and ^^^k you. deleted his pics, his ig and fb. he didn't answer to apologize.... (read in full...)

Should I see him before I leave? And should I text him when I arrive at the destination?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we dated like 4 times. I slept with him after a month.Since we both working in the same airlines, we took an advantage and went on a trip. He became sick on the 2nd day and i took care of him. He appreciated and ...

A.   14 June 2015: Guys, i listened all of you. He called me and texted me if we will play tennis. I said im gonna be busy and outside is too hot. He was like so u replaced me with another boo? Lol. I said lol. Told him if anything will call him tomorrow to play... (read in full...)

Should I see him before I leave? And should I text him when I arrive at the destination?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we dated like 4 times. I slept with him after a month.Since we both working in the same airlines, we took an advantage and went on a trip. He became sick on the 2nd day and i took care of him. He appreciated and ...

A.   13 June 2015: i guess you are right. He texted me today that he wants to pump with him. I didnt understand what he meant. Then i realized he wants to have sex with me. He told me he feels so good when he puts it in. Blah blah. I will not even text him tomo... (read in full...)

Should I see him before I leave? And should I text him when I arrive at the destination?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we dated like 4 times. I slept with him after a month.Since we both working in the same airlines, we took an advantage and went on a trip. He became sick on the 2nd day and i took care of him. He appreciated and ...

A.   12 June 2015: Thank you guys, for giving me such a great advises. He texted me around 1am, asking me i don't love him no more. It caught me suprise but it is maybe one of his game. I asked him why he said that. Waiting an answer. as you guys said, i wont text... (read in full...)

Should I see him before I leave? And should I text him when I arrive at the destination?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we dated like 4 times. I slept with him after a month.Since we both working in the same airlines, we took an advantage and went on a trip. He became sick on the 2nd day and i took care of him. He appreciated and ...

A.   12 June 2015: Tisha--- since i told him last friday, i wanna feel special without having sex, his actions changed. We worked in the same terminal. I posted like 45min ago saying he didnt come to see me. But as soon as I posted, he came to see me.we were just ... (read in full...)

Should I see him before I leave? And should I text him when I arrive at the destination?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we dated like 4 times. I slept with him after a month.Since we both working in the same airlines, we took an advantage and went on a trip. He became sick on the 2nd day and i took care of him. He appreciated and ...

A.   12 June 2015: Today, we worked in the same terminal. He texted me where i am at. Then went to the gate cause he is a gate agent and supervisor. I am a check in agent. He asked me if i want him to come out quick to say hi? I said however he wants. Then i called ... (read in full...)

Should I see him before I leave? And should I text him when I arrive at the destination?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we dated like 4 times. I slept with him after a month.Since we both working in the same airlines, we took an advantage and went on a trip. He became sick on the 2nd day and i took care of him. He appreciated and ...

A.   12 June 2015: I appreaciate your advises guys. I am not leaving country forever only for 10 days. I also got tested and the results came put negative. I guess i liked him more than he did. Maybe you guys are right. He will only see me for the last sex. If he d... (read in full...)

I understand that he was unwell but why is he treating me in this way?

Q.   So I went on a trip with my coworker who I met 1.5 months ago. We both have free flight benefits and i slept with him the week before we went on a vacation, like after our 5th date. I wanted to know him better and I really like him and he told me ...

A.   7 June 2015: After i left his house last friday, i texted him that i want to be special without having sex and sex comes 2nd. I am thinking serious and i hope he does too. He apologized that its all his fault. I have not heard anything from him after. ... (read in full...)

Should I cancel the trip or not?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we started to date almost for a month and i have not slept with him until last week. We both work at the airlines so taking advantage of free flight benefits his vacation started and after we slept, he asked me out of ...

A.   3 June 2015: Hey guys, Actually he did not come to work yesterday either. I heard that he is sick really. He texted me last night and asked me if I do hate him. I said hate is kind of strong word and what he has in his mind. He told me i do not talk that much... (read in full...)

I understand that he was unwell but why is he treating me in this way?

Q.   So I went on a trip with my coworker who I met 1.5 months ago. We both have free flight benefits and i slept with him the week before we went on a vacation, like after our 5th date. I wanted to know him better and I really like him and he told me ...

A.   2 June 2015: Hey guys, Actually he did not come to work yesterday either. I heard that he is sick really. He texted me last night and asked me if I do hate him. I said hate is kind of strong word and what he has in his mind. He told me i do not talk that much... (read in full...)

Should I cancel the trip or not?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we started to date almost for a month and i have not slept with him until last week. We both work at the airlines so taking advantage of free flight benefits his vacation started and after we slept, he asked me out of ...

A.   2 June 2015: Hey Janniepeg, He texted me today more often to see what i am doing and how is my day going. It was cool and i answered him back. We are working in the same airlines but different terminals. We used to see each other before I leave at least 5 m... (read in full...)

I understand that he was unwell but why is he treating me in this way?

Q.   So I went on a trip with my coworker who I met 1.5 months ago. We both have free flight benefits and i slept with him the week before we went on a vacation, like after our 5th date. I wanted to know him better and I really like him and he told me ...

A.   2 June 2015: Hey Honeypie, we used to see each other before i leave work. Cause we are working in the same airlines but different terminals. He has not texted me to see him before i leave. So i am like eh whatever. I will just leave the way it is. If it is mean... (read in full...)

I understand that he was unwell but why is he treating me in this way?

Q.   So I went on a trip with my coworker who I met 1.5 months ago. We both have free flight benefits and i slept with him the week before we went on a vacation, like after our 5th date. I wanted to know him better and I really like him and he told me ...

A.   1 June 2015: Hey Honeypie, he texted me today to see how i am doing but i kept it short and also asked how he is feeling since he was sick. It kinda made me happy but I still do not wanna get attached and hurt.... (read in full...)

Should I cancel the trip or not?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we started to date almost for a month and i have not slept with him until last week. We both work at the airlines so taking advantage of free flight benefits his vacation started and after we slept, he asked me out of ...

A.   1 June 2015: Janniepeg, i honestly do not know how to act. If he texts me, should I answer him or completely ignore him? I am still thinking what makes him to change his feelings. While he was telling me, he likes me a lot, now he is acting weird???... (read in full...)

I understand that he was unwell but why is he treating me in this way?

Q.   So I went on a trip with my coworker who I met 1.5 months ago. We both have free flight benefits and i slept with him the week before we went on a vacation, like after our 5th date. I wanted to know him better and I really like him and he told me ...

A.   1 June 2015: So if he texts me, what should i do? Just answer back or completely ignore him? I am kinda upset because i thought he really liked me. Those 5 dates were actual dates. If he asks me why i am acting weird, what am i going to say?... (read in full...)

Should I cancel the trip or not?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we started to date almost for a month and i have not slept with him until last week. We both work at the airlines so taking advantage of free flight benefits his vacation started and after we slept, he asked me out of ...

A.   1 June 2015: Hello All, So i went on a trip with him. 1st day:: we really had a good time with him except he was on his phone too much while he was in the resort because he did not have a wifi. So we went to a lounge and he wanted to leave at 3am and i said i... (read in full...)

Should I cancel the trip or not?

Q.   I met with this guy at work and we started to date almost for a month and i have not slept with him until last week. We both work at the airlines so taking advantage of free flight benefits his vacation started and after we slept, he asked me out of ...

A.   24 May 2015: Hey Janniepeg, yea it caught me by suprise because i wasn't expecting him to ask me. Because we do not really text each other but most of the time we spend time together. I guess, i assumed because of his friends he is hanging out. They all wanna ... (read in full...)

Where do I stand with this guy? He didn't ask me out after our third date.

Q.   Hello All, I have been talking to this guy from work almost 3 weeks. On our 2nd date, I made a mistake bringing it up where was his craziest place to have sex? Since that time he started to text me that he wants to hold me ... Etc Last w...

A.   10 May 2015: Okay so on the same day, i asked him if he exchanged the number and he explained to me that he got the girl's mom number so he can use the desk phone to make a phone call for her. Idk maybe i should believe his word cause my friends only saw him ... (read in full...)

5 year relationship ending because of us being jealous and controlling

Q.   MOD NOTE: 2 questions put into one Hello there, Yesterday my bf of 5 years told me on the phone he does not know what to do, he thinks to end the relationship is best for both of us because we will have more arguments. I cried on the phone and he...

A.   25 August 2014: So after 3 days, this guy just texted and asking me if I am feeling okay and how I am doing. I did not answer him ofcourse. I don't know why he is still asking how I am feeling because he is the one ended our relationship. Do I think this as a goo... (read in full...)

5 year relationship ending because of us being jealous and controlling

Q.   MOD NOTE: 2 questions put into one Hello there, Yesterday my bf of 5 years told me on the phone he does not know what to do, he thinks to end the relationship is best for both of us because we will have more arguments. I cried on the phone and he...

A.   24 August 2014: So I did unblocked him on fb and by mistake I poked him.He poked me back. i put in relationship status thinking of him will come to me later.Then one of his friends told him this situation because i have his friend as a friend.He texted me sayi... (read in full...)

5 year relationship ending because of us being jealous and controlling

Q.   MOD NOTE: 2 questions put into one Hello there, Yesterday my bf of 5 years told me on the phone he does not know what to do, he thinks to end the relationship is best for both of us because we will have more arguments. I cried on the phone and he...

A.   23 August 2014: Lonely81:: You are right.. He did neither call nor text me yesterday first time. Most likely he does not want me to be in his life. By mistake i poked him on fb and he will know that i check up on him. IDK what to do now. We are not even friends on ... (read in full...)

5 year relationship ending because of us being jealous and controlling

Q.   MOD NOTE: 2 questions put into one Hello there, Yesterday my bf of 5 years told me on the phone he does not know what to do, he thinks to end the relationship is best for both of us because we will have more arguments. I cried on the phone and he...

A.   23 August 2014: Thank you Honeypie for your answer. It will hurt me as hell but I guess I have to accept the fact that he is over with me. He is the one told me he loves me to death and wants to move ahead. All of a sudden, he changed and told me he wants to end ... (read in full...)

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