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I am Arian. (You can call me ARIANZ)

Live in Dhaka, Bangladesh

Works in a Telecom company also do little business.

Play drums, Cricket, Travel, and Chatting, Making friends...MuZic...

That’s all I like to do.......

I am so talkative, positive, open minded, trustable….

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Why do so many women want to be in control?

Q.   My relationship is great except for the following: She's a real nag sometimes and it drives me nuts! She's controlling and it effects my self-esteem. Why do so many women want to be in control? Don't they know it makes us feel like less of a m...

A.   16 January 2009: Dear, I can understand your problem. Many guys face this problem. 1st you have to understand your wife…because wife is a best friend. She is the one who always wants to see you happy and fit… If you face any problem with her then I suggest y... (read in full...)

How can I change his mind and get him back?

Q.   Hi everyone, I split with my boyfriend 4 months ago, we still talk and get on as friends, well I still have feelings for him and I think he knows it, anyway he's met this girl through facebook and they met for the 3rd time last nite, he told me ...

A.   16 January 2009: Dear, 1st find out the reason you both split. Then Start with him from end. Maybe he is also trying to make you jealous. (who knows…..) Tell him about your feelings and how you feel when he with other girls. You have to make your self clear ... (read in full...)

Can you help me control my cravings and increase my willpower?

Q.   I don't have any self control and I would like to know if anyone has any tips for me because I know this is not an uncommon problem... I was bulemic in 8th grade and I have always had issues with my weight. It's not that I am fat, I have just...

A.   15 January 2009: Dear, Few advices for you but please don’t mind...cause maybe my advice bit rude but it will work if you maintain. 1. Look at mirror everyday (Be Nude that time so that you can see you figure and realize and try to hate your this figure) ... (read in full...)

He is about to become a Dad, and has only just told me. What do I do now??

Q.   I have just found out that my boyfriends ex-girlfriend is 8 and a half months pregnant with his child. My boyfriend and I have just got back together after being separated for just under a year and although I knew that during that time he had slep...

A.   13 January 2009: Dear, I think you can forgive him this time. So that he can set his mind. Yah it’s true that he did mistake. If he realizes that then you can forgive him and continue as like before. But don’t pinch him for this because if you pinch its mean y... (read in full...)

Why can't my b/f make me have an orgasm?

Q.   i am 21 and i have had sex with a few guys in my life and 1 is my boyfriend now.and out of all them.i have never had an orgasm..and me and my boyfriend have sex about 2 times a weak.dont get me wrong it feels good in me.but i can never get there..i ...

A.   13 January 2009: Dear, I think you should talk to your BF about this. Let him know that you want orgasm. 1st tell him your expectation from him I hope he will understand that. 2nd how you like to foreplay and what makes to feel more good and wet tell him in a swe... (read in full...)

Sex--will it continue to hurt?

Q.   i'm 28 and had sex for the first time recently with my long time bf. both of us were virgins and for me it hurt so much. it took us a long time and a lot of pain for me to get his penis in. but after a while it became incredibly good. a feeling ...

A.   13 January 2009: Dear, I think everything is fine. Different people have different type ways of sex.. But dont make long gap cause after long time your {(V)} will be again tight as new and then it will hurt you again. so better keep trying I hope you will en... (read in full...)

Exercising the hard way!

Q.   What would happen if I only eat one mango every day and nothing else and exercised 3 hours on my treadmill at 6.5 km per hour? I want to lose weight and I've tried doing it the healthy way but it never works!x...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear, Extreme anything is bad for health. So do something which is in tolerance of you health. You better consult with doctor or health consultant and maintain as per their advice. I hope you will fine soon. Take care And best of luck ... (read in full...)

Why can't I just get a boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, I am 15 years old and I am bit worried! A lot of my friends talk about their boyfriends and how many they have had and stuff like that and I have never had one boyfriend in my whole life! Everyone says I have such a funny and likeable ...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear, If want to have a good boyfriend then you have to wait for that. If you make a quick decision then it will not be good for the future or lasting in life so better go slow and wait for your guy. You know what “you don’t need to go for him, H... (read in full...)

Why did I do something like that? Now she doesn't trust me

Q.   Dear Cupid i cheated on my girl friend, and i hate myself for it. i'v hurt the love of my life so bad, iv broken hers and my heart, and the thought of life with out her is killing me. last night (new years eve) i kissed this girl i didnt know and...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear bro, Yah I understand your situation. It’s like the worst time of your life. She is also upset maybe she is now feeling like hell time of her life. A suggestion for you - Go to your girlfriend, bow yourself and beg her back. And promis... (read in full...)

Relationship messed up and he has lost his patience!

Q.   Hi, at the minute i am in a a bad place, i met a guy wile shopping and we met had a chat and drink, and striaght away we realised we clicked, so he gave me his number, and he lives 60 miles away from me, then when i got home everything seem to ...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear I think if you share you every problem with him then it will work on him. He is far from you so its hard for him to understand what you basically doing. so try to make him understand that you love him lot by sweet sms or voice sms. Th... (read in full...)

Why hasn't he contacted me now?

Q.   Hi all, Theres this boy I speak to online. I have never met him before but I know hes not anyone werid as he only just stays 10 minutes from me and I know some of his family. He is 19 and I am only 15 I really really like him and I think ...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear, I think him also waiting for your birthday. OR maybe He is taking his time because he is going to make a relationship with you. So don’t worry. I hope everything will be fine. When you can…. just contact with him and start with somethin... (read in full...)

I have the sex drive of an 18 year old, my wife's is of a 75 year old! HELP!

Q.   I am a 28 year old man with a wife and 3 wonderful kids. I have a great job a very bright future and cant wait to watch my children grow. Here is the kicker.....I am pretty sure I have lost the love for my wife, and here is why: 1. Although I have ...

A.   1 January 2009: Hey bro, I think you should talk to her about this problem. If she says that she don’t need any sex then you tell her “if you won’t then I will go for others” (Just show that you are in serious mood) Her reaction will be your answer. Ok ... (read in full...)

He perves at young girls and looks at porn, am I overreacting here?

Q.   I found out that my 32 year old husband looks at porn online. Mostly just pictures of naked women and women with lingerie on. This doesnt bother me too much BUT I recentely discovered he has been looking at young teens. Now I am only 30 and am g...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear, From your point of view you are right. Cause why a guy looks around when he has a beautiful wife. Please don’t take it other wise: Just to know….. Ever you try to show your self attractive? Ever you try to know what he likes in girls? ... (read in full...)

How can I make it better re sex?

Q.   Hi, I enjoy giving my guy hand jobs and pleasuring him, and he likes to put his penis betweeen my boobs, what is the best position to do this (especially if we don't have anything to sit on), and how do I make it better for him, e.g do I squeeze ...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear, You can rub his penis by both hand or suck his balls and shake it by another hand. at ejaculate time if you suck or shake penis then he will feel better.(all is my point of view) Better way if you can ask you partner about this. ... (read in full...)

I feel used and ignored because he never bothers to call or text...

Q.   I have this friend that I've known for 7 months. We work together and we play together. He and i (or so i thought) became real close. We practically go out 4-5 times a week. I even met his mom and she loved me. He is going through a painful divorce ...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear, 1st I think you should talk to him straight because he is your friend. You should tell him how you feel when he does this with you. Or you can suggest him. I THINK your feelings is more then friendship so that your expectation is b... (read in full...)

Do I fake it or tell him the truth?

Q.   if my partner isnt good in the sack do i fake an orgasm or just tell him?...

A.   1 January 2009: Dear, In this case you should speakup. Tell him what can make you orgasm but in a very sweet way... Or you can make long time fore play....that will help you too. I hope it will work... take care best of luck arianz... (read in full...)

He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"

Q.   This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and ...

A.   31 December 2008: Dear Friend, I want to make clear something to you. If you think he doesn’t like it then you shouldn’t force him for this. Because it may has a bad reaction. From my point of view if you are happy with him and he cares about you both lot the... (read in full...)

How do I make a decision when I have strong feelings for both of them?

Q.   I had been dating a man for over two years. As he is in mining he was hardly ever home, and I lived about two hours away and would travel to see him when he was. We were in love, but then when I suggested it was time for us to live together he ...

A.   30 December 2008: Dear, I understand your feelings. But My suggestion is that please take more time before you go. Cause you have to see: Who is more caring? Who is moe loving? With whom you feel more comfortable? With whom you life will be fine? AND who i... (read in full...)

Swingin' bachelor dating a single Mom - I'm not a family man, can this work?

Q.   So, I've found the almost perfect woman and we've been dating a year now. She's the best g/f I've ever had. I always had a rule against dating single moms, but when I met her, I chose to break that rule and now I'm in love w/ her, but I can not ...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear bro, U feel chemistry and u want to be with her then u have to accept the reality. cause for a mother her kid is very important. Ur a guy it is very hard for u to understand that feeling. so u have to make a decision within 2 options: 1. u w... (read in full...)

Did he pop my cherry? Or am I still a virgin... please reply!!

Q.   okay so last night (christmas) i went over my bestfriends house...(its a boy) and we were it led to touching then it led to clothes coming thing i know he's on top of me....i'm still a virgin (i think) so when he puts it in ...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear, It depends how much he put inside. If he put at least half of him then its done... U bleed so i think he did it well... U better talk to any doctor for check. take care of ur health. arianz... (read in full...)

I'm more settled than he is, and our relationship is bothering me

Q.   hi i am into relationship with this guy 4 d last 2 1/2 yrs and though he really luvs me, he dont want 2 express it...i dunno y...but sometimes i really like being pampered n told that he luvs me.... he has been maintaining d same romance frm d st...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear sis, 1st: If u love him then his career shouldn't be a big deal to you. that is call DEEP LOVE how far i know. As a GF u can run for him, u care him, u love him more then he does. 2nd: U want to make him serious about his career then bett... (read in full...)

I'm soon to be married to a she-devil.

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm a 28 year old man from India. I'm an investment banker and about to be married to a lawyer in about 60 days time. In the last 150 days of our engagement, we have gottent to know each other a little, even confessed love. But...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear BRO, I am very stright fwrd guy........... She is ur fiance not wife ok... so better leave her if ur not comfortable with her. cause if ur Discomfort will run in ur married life then it will be more HELL......... so its better to have... (read in full...)

Why do I feel like this?

Q.   me and my ex link broke up 8 months ago because he was being long about starting a relationship, since then i haven't seen him but last week at a club saw him and dropped like a bag of stones, we talk and asked for a second chance but didn't say ...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear, I think he is confused about u. So make sure him u will be with him. Its a good sign that u still feelings for him. but if u talk with him face to face that will work better then text. cause face to face u will understand his feelings. so b... (read in full...)

I don't understand my husband

Q.   Hello, I have been with my husband almost 7years, we have two boys 4 and 2. Well last year he started to changed on me. snapping at everything I say, do or don't do. smashing things up, then one time he says he is going to drive me crazy enough to ...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear, 1st Y U IS NOT PERFECT WOMAN? Introduction of guys: Guys always try to find something attractive in woman…Especially in looks of figure and ways of talk. So if u think that ur not perfect then try to make u perfect and attractive. R... (read in full...)

Will his parents every accept me?

Q.   I need some advice. I am a few years older than my boyfriend, and I have a child. I left my husband for this man, and for this reason ( and for the ones named above), his parents refuse to accept me. He is also from a different cultur...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear, 1st of all they from different culture so it will hard to make them impress. Cause US culture can accepte ur condition but for other culture ur issue is different. U talk to ur boyfriend with understanding mind. Tell him ur feelings als... (read in full...)

How do I tell my hubby that his dad is a pervert?

Q.   Ever since my in-laws took a winter home in Florida my husband's dad "Marty" looks for opportunities to grab me(or "hug me" as he puts it)when his son and wife aren't around. If I enter their home last, "Marty" blocks my entry, grabs me and won't ...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear, I think u should share with ur hubby cause only he is the one who can make solution. But dont try to tell it to ur mother-in-law cause it can effect bad to her and maybe she will react against u. But the way of talking with ur hubby should b... (read in full...)

Confused! What am I doing wrong?

Q.   Ok I'm kind of new at this and haven't ever really asked anyones opinion before, but I'm just at a loss... I have been single for sometime now and I meet these guys that seem to be so great and start out good but then after about a week or two it ...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear, one thing i believe that A best friend can be a good husband. 1. He makes u smile it means he like to see u happy 2. U feel comfortable and no worry with him 3. he is a nice guy. I think all girls want it from her boyfriend or hubby. ... (read in full...)

My g/f's job is to hold a man's parts

Q.   hey, so i've found the woman of my dreams. We're both crazy in love w/ each other and going on a year now together. I have this one issue that bugs me soooo much and it seems the more feelings I develop for her, the more this issue bugs me. She ...

A.   26 December 2008: Dear, Don't think in this way, Cause it will kill ur mind everyday... so think its her job and she have to make it done. thats all. she is honest with u. she touch other penis for work or for tretment NO any other intension. So i think positi... (read in full...)

Help, what to do... I fancy my sister!

Q.   hey, i had a question, in the back of my head there's a voice telling me this is wrong, but at the same time i feel like it's not so wrong, my sister is only about a year younger then me, most guys her age think shes attractive and she's petite. i ...

A.   26 December 2008: dear bro, WARNING for u that If u tell her about ur feelings then she will lose respect for you. so better don't ask anything about it. She is ur sister who is younger then u...if u feel like this its mean u have problem. so u can also consult... (read in full...)

I want to sleep with him!

Q.   Hello everybody... Ok here's the deal. I'm 18(almost 19) years old and I really like one guy who is 23. He's very sexual attracted to me. But the problem is that I see him very rare and when I see him, he's always with bunch of his friends (dri...

A.   26 December 2008: I am also agree with SIRENA that u should wait for some one TRUE. but if u feel like desparate then better u ask out him directly but it shouldn't be ur 1st sentense. Wear something sexy, talk with him closely, then slowly explain ur expectat... (read in full...)

I think masturbating is affecting my health

Q.   I am 22 yr old..but just 45 kg..i am masturbating once or twice in a week..i think it is affecting my health..But i cant control it..What should I do?...

A.   26 December 2008: Bro, I don't think masterbate twice in a week is bad for health. But if u under weight then it will harmful. as i see ur weight is 45 but ur age 22 which is not perfect. so try to make urself well fit. U can do masterbate but increase ur ... (read in full...)

Do men just view women as sex on legs?

Q.   Question for the guys, well i live on a main road and cant even cross the road with out being told to show my tits or being tooted at. Im 18 and i get 30 to 50 year olds doing it not just young guys and it makes me sick. I feel like all guys think ...

A.   25 December 2008: Hey, I feel so sorry because it’s blame on guys. I know there are max amount of guys are like this. I don't think all guys are like that. WOMEN are respectful and they deserve it honestly. If any person want respect from other then 1st that per... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant with my brother and need to tell my family.

Q.   My brother is really cute and I have been havng sex with him. One time, we had too much to drink and we kinda forgot the condom. Now I am pregnant and my brother and family don't know. I am really scared and don't know how I'm gonna tell my family I ...

A.   25 December 2008: Dear 1st: I think u should talk to ur brother about this metter cause u both involved. He is ur brother so it will be a wired situation for ur family to have this baby. So don't tell anyone about this. 2nd: Go to doctor for abortion this baby cau... (read in full...)

Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?

Q.   I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. ...

A.   25 December 2008: Dear I suggest you to wait few more years like around 2 or 3 year more. 14 ages is not perfect for sex. I mean your vagina’s status is not for that. So if you can then please wait few. OR If u determine that u will have it with him with in few ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose? I'm married but I have feelings for a coworker.

Q.   I have been with my husband for 12 years and married for 3 of them. Recently, someone at work has fallen for me in a big way and I feel the same. I know it's wrong but we have kissed. We have always been good friends and he is the sweetest guy, he ...

A.   25 December 2008: Dear, 1st u have to think DO U LOVE UR HUBBY? 2nd R u comfortable with ur married life? 3rd Is that guy can make u happy? 4th Is this face is real face of ur coworker? 5th R u cheating with ur hubby? If u love him then u should leave ur c... (read in full...)

What to do to make him last longer in bed?

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't last very long when we have sex, a few minutes max! and it's over so quick i don't get anything from it. We are still in the early stages of the relationship and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to make him last ...

A.   25 December 2008: Dear, I think if u start very slow then it will work more better. Also intercorse time Penetrate should slow when he feels cum is on edge. And u can make busy with kissing, rubbing, and changing positions. It will really work if u change ur po... (read in full...)

I just don't seem to get as much out of sex unless it's anal. Am I a freak?

Q.   Sometimes I wonder if I'm normal. Hi I'm 25 and Having a bit of a problem. It's just that during sex I actually find it more pleasurable when something is being done anally to me. Even masturbating I go back there as it feels amazing. It's been ...

A.   25 December 2008: Yah...ur not freak... Please don't worry about it. Every persons has own style, position and pleasure receiving ways. SO u have ur own ways and style. So find partner who like that same way u like. I believe that...LIVE UR LIFE... LIKE U W... (read in full...)

Is my husband on the down low?

Q.   I have been married for 2.5 years and have not had sex for 17 months. I am trying to determine if my husband is on the down low. Does anyone have any signs I can look for? Or help me understand why we have not had sex for 17 months since I have ...

A.   25 December 2008: Dear, If he involved in another woman then u can catch it well. coz u always close to him. He is a guy so he will comes with nervous behave when he does this type work. Another thing: Does he likes ur figure or appeals in bed. Some guys giv... (read in full...)

I can't find work! Any suggestions!

Q.   well my big problem is im living in stupid country and very poor anyone help me find work...

A.   25 December 2008: Dear Bro, If u need job 1st of all u need to drop ur CV to all multinational Company. Depends whats ur MAJOR. Basically everything up to ur smartness. Or u can do another thing go to abroad apply for job n done. I know its not that much e... (read in full...)

Penis size opinions - help

Q.   Hello to everyone. I am about to have sex with my girlfriend and I am really concerned about the size of my penis.It's about 4-4,5 inches in length and about 4,5 inches in girth when erect. I am quite fat for my age (21), about 246 pounds (for BMI...

A.   25 December 2008: hey bro, I think u should go to doctor. Take some advice about food and health control. Size is not a big deal i think. if she loves u so much then its will not a problem for her. but make sure that u can last long. Coz Fat persons become tired... (read in full...)

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