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Masturbation and women.

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25 August 2010: It has been written and surveys have been done that men and women do masturbate.It came out clear that men are likely to admit to having masturbated rather than women.So it begs the question why do they deny having done it.In my opinion i think it ...

Horrific noises during sex are really embarrassing me!

Q.   So, I'm in a new relationship and he's the biggest I've ever been with. He likes to eat me out, or go down on me or whatever, but whenever he does, my vagina makes this farting noise. It's completely embaressing for me, and completely takes me out ...

A.   4 February 2011: Its called queefing and its normal so just relax and have fun... (read in full...)

Why do I pee during sex???

Q.   My boyfriend and I have a great relationship and a great sex life. We talk about everything and are very comfortable with each other. During sex, I usually come a lot, and again and again but lately I've been having trouble coming during sex. It's ...

A.   30 December 2010: If you pee before sex then i dont think that is pee it might be that you are squirting... (read in full...)

Will 1st time sex still hurt when I am 32?

Q.   I am so embarrassed to be a 32 year old virgin and am wondering if sex still hurts even when you're this old. I have kept my virginity for so long because I was caught up with studying and also because of cultural beliefs. I am just worried if I ...

A.   15 December 2010: As long as the hymen is intact it will hurt. ... (read in full...)

New to sex and have some questions!

Q.   [Mod note: this poster submitted several questions which have been combined here into one.] After having sex withvmy boyfriend I got really wet it even went threw my pants; I'm scared Is that normal ? My boyfriend and I have had sex a couple of ...

A.   14 December 2010: There is nothing wrong with getting wet its the lubrication it also shows that you are aroused... (read in full...)

Is my body normal?

Q.   Hi, im 15 years old.I love my body, short,small breasts,wide hips, that stuff. Theres just one thing that bugs me, my clit.i dont know how to explain, but it sticks out like its big.you know what i mean? Its always been like that since i started ...

A.   8 October 2010: Just like penis clitoris differ from size to size its all Gods creation.masturbation does not cause any damage instead its healthy so enjoy your self and dont worry.... (read in full...)

I'm 15 in a month and I masturbate 5-9 times a week. Do you think I should try and cut down? ...

Q.   How much do you think a 14 year old girl should masterbate? Is about 5-8 times a week too much?...

A.   5 October 2010: You can masturbate as many times as you wish coz its normal and healthy espesially at your age.... (read in full...)

Do guys like hairy vaginas or not?

Q.   I am 16 in a few months but ive never had sex before. Im not sure if my vagina is normal or really hairy, but i think its too hairy. Is it weird if i shaved it? What do guys prefer, hairy, a little bit hairy or no hair at all?...

A.   25 September 2010: It depends on ones preference.so look for what is cormfortable for you and your boyfriend.... (read in full...)

Does it matter what girls look like when sucking?

Q.   Question for guys (though ladies can offer their answers too!) I desperately want to give the guy I'm seeing really great head. But I'm incredibly insecure at times - not just as most girls are, it's a little deeper than that apparently- and ...

A.   22 September 2010: No we dont care how you look like what matters is the pleasure so just relax.... (read in full...)

He takes forever to ejaculate!! What's wrong..is it me?

Q.   help! me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and everytime we have sex, he takes forever to ejaculate. Is it me ? Am i doing something wrong! He always says he loves it when were done but still it takes awhile... Help?!...

A.   29 August 2010: Maybe he is waiting for you to orgasm first thats why it takes long but you should try to tighten your vagina just to be sure.... (read in full...)

Is a single 16 yr old who kisses 2 or 3 guys at different times considered easy?

Q.   Dear Cupid.! Is a single 16 yr old who kisses 2 or 3 guys at different times considered easy? i personally think not but alot of people disagree with me so i want your opinion please. Remember she's single but she messes around with ALOT of guys. ...

A.   27 August 2010: No kissing many people is not considerd as being easy engaging in sex is so no need to panic.... (read in full...)

I'm becoming desperate for sex!

Q.   i think im starting to become desperate for sex....is that possible after having sex alot with your ex...after not having sex can you begin to need to have sex.....i haven't had sex for only 3 months nearly and basically everything i read about a ...

A.   26 August 2010: If he cheated on you with another girl he doesnt deserve you & dönt worry you will find another boy who will love you.... (read in full...)

I'm becoming desperate for sex!

Q.   i think im starting to become desperate for sex....is that possible after having sex alot with your ex...after not having sex can you begin to need to have sex.....i haven't had sex for only 3 months nearly and basically everything i read about a ...

A.   25 August 2010: It seems you loved your ex so much but three mounths is a very short time people have gone for years without sex.but you can mastrbate when you cant handle it. ... (read in full...)

Do Asians have smaller penises?

Q.   I am an asian thats why i am wondering: Do asian have the smaller penises than the european? What their average size? Cause i dunno mine one is good enough or not. And also i have watched some pornHow come asian leave 'it' as hairy as it is, but ...

A.   25 August 2010: The size of a penis does not relate with where a person comes from.it differs from one man to the other and for the hairy situation its ones option whether to shave or not to shave it is what best you think it is for you.... (read in full...)

He cried when he ejaculated! Is this normal?

Q.   i have just started a new relationship and slept together for the first time although we didnt have sex just foreplay . i just wondered if it was normal for a man to cry whilst ejeculating never had this happen before ...

A.   23 August 2010: Yes it is normal sometimes you just cant hold your emotions.... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to look at my genitalia,

Q.   I am too scared to look at my genitals. I dont know why but I am. I was in the shower and looked for just a second, and it was kinda red, what does this mean? I also want to wear tampons but dont know where to put it? How can I get over this fear ...

A.   23 August 2010: Dont be afraid at all to look at your genitals because every one is beatiful in there on way.secondly genitals differ in size & shape from one person to the other.For the tampoons they come in different sizes look for the size that will be perfect ... (read in full...)

He finished off on his own!

Q.   okay so today i gave my boyfriend a handjob and a blowjob and he didn't cum, he finished it off on his own..i feel like he wasn't turned on by me.. why didn't he cum? and what are good ways to make him? or turn him on?...

A.   22 August 2010: I dont think you didnt turn him off maybe he was tired or in a hurry.but next time try blow and head at the same time,put your hand on his shaft & your mouth on the head of the penis and do the magic. ... (read in full...)

Why was he suddenly in a hurry when I rubbed it?

Q.   so the other day it was the first time i touched my mans penis and i was surprised i wasnt scared at all. nothing like i thought it was going to be. but after a while of me touching it and rubbing it he moved my hand and sat up quickly and like ...

A.   21 July 2010: He might be a virgin so he was afraid or maybe he was on the verge of ejaculating.... (read in full...)

How do I deal with unintentional biting during orgasm?

Q.   I hope someone would share his experience and give me an advice how to deal with my little problem. My girl is blessed with very strong orgasms, but when it happens, she often unintentionally scratches and bites me. We solved half of this problem....

A.   17 July 2010: Try different positions where she wont be able to bite.... (read in full...)

Should I have a circumcision?

Q.   I'm in a little dilemma. I'm 15 years old and uncircumcised. I'm embarrassed about it. I don't know if I should get circumcised. If I decide to do it, what would be the right age to have the procedure done? ...

A.   17 July 2010: It is healthy to be circumsiced & it also reduses the chances of contracting Hiv aids the reserch has shown.... (read in full...)

Is my penis normal?

Q.   Hi i would like you people to help me when am aroused my penis tend to bend towards my left side as in it is not straight am even afraid of making out with girls am i realy normal....

A.   13 July 2010: Thank you guys fo the answers but i would also like to if the bended penis feels weird in a vagina.... (read in full...)

How do I get to be beautiful like these girls I see?

Q.   Hello, I have a problem with one word that teenage girls go through and that's the word UGLY!!! I'm 5'2, brown hair and eyes, I have and average size body and I'm black. But even with that information I'm still called ugly. Everyday I get talked ...

A.   13 July 2010: You need to be confident about yourself for everyone is beutiful in their on way.... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be ticklish in this area?

Q.   I just wondered if something was normal or not: I realize the clitoris is very sensitive, but my clitoris is ticklish and it makes me go all squeamish in a way... is it normal for that spot to be ticklish? Thanks for any answers....

A.   13 July 2010: Clitoris is very sencitive if it feels good their is no problem however if it is painful it might be a urinary tract infection and you should see a doctor.... (read in full...)

My brother is only 15 but his crazy girlfriend wants to get pregnant and then get married, what can I do to stop this?

Q.   my bro and his girlfriend were together for 1 yr. they texts more than 24hrs although they just came back from date, thanks to that my bro sleeps every 2am. yesterday they posted a photo of them kissing together on fb, i was really shocked..i mean ...

A.   12 July 2010: Try to give them advice,talk to them and explain the dangers of being pregnant at 15 & show them the importance of finishing school.... (read in full...)

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