http://www.dearcupid.org Agony aunt for relationships, love, dating, sex tips and advice Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-meet-an-online-friend.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-meet-an-online-friend.html Advice on Meeting this guy... I met a guy pretty randomly online about 3 months ago. He IMed me, and we just sort of introduced ourselves and we started talking. We kept talking acouple times a week, we would get on webcam and talk, but the sound on mine does not always work, Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-approach-the-boy-i-like.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-approach-the-boy-i-like.html i hav a crush on this boy in my year, have for a while. we know eachova pretty well cos i've known him for aaggeess. my friends think i should ask him out, my mum thinks i should n she doesnt even no that i like him. but i am scared of loosing him as we r not as close as we Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-send-each-other-saucy-pictures-and-flirt.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-send-each-other-saucy-pictures-and-flirt.html Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want to clarify we are NOT having a Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/help-my-friends-and-family-are-taking-advantage.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/help-my-friends-and-family-are-taking-advantage.html Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to jump. I do have a full time job (in Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sort-your-life-out-you-arent-a-baby.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sort-your-life-out-you-arent-a-baby.html Hi, i dont know if im being oversensitive here but i just want some feedback. Im 27 and been doing driving lessons just over a year now.My instructor wants me to book my test in and im just not confident. Last night on my driving lesson he told me "sort your life out,yo Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-to-get-him-out-of-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-to-get-him-out-of-my.html I am so upset by this so please no horrible answers. My ex friended me on facebook-i hadnt seen him for 4 years-it was to tell me he had got married. We were due to get married but it ended really badly because he barely showed any love or care-i only started seeing this afte Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-feel-better-about-my-life.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-feel-better-about-my-life.html Sorry this is gonna be long but your help will be intensely appreciated! ;) Story of my life... Before 13 years old: I was known as fun-loving, outgoing, talented and had many interests- sports, acting, dancing, singing etc. though I did have the potential to become a b Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-4m-pregnant-and-bf-still-wants.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-4m-pregnant-and-bf-still-wants.html Dear agony aunt. I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend is not taking my feelings into consideration. All he wants to do is go out all the time and wheb I tell him I don't want to go and that I am staying home but he can go he gets angry and says hurtful things As well Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-depressed-hes-depressed-and-im-paranoid-that.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-depressed-hes-depressed-and-im-paranoid-that.html Hey there, I've been um-ing and ah-ing whether or not to post this for a couple of days now because it sounds trivial but it's plaguing me, so here goes... To begin with, I'm 25 and I've had depression since I was about 16. It was a mixture of being bullied in school, bein Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-a-stupid-idea-or-can-love.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-a-stupid-idea-or-can-love.html hia all, i havnt been on here in ages and also accidently posted this as a forum message, not a question because i had forgotten how to use the site lol. recently i have met a girl via a site you wouldnt think you would meet on and we have been chattin for almost ages now. Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-called-to-love-this-girl-should.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-called-to-love-this-girl-should.html My general dilemma is if I should wait or take the chance with a close friend of mine who recently came out of a relationship. Though you need to know some background for the full story. The friend and I have been friends for about a year now, though I've known her for a Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-there-a-risk-of-prostate-cancer-if.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-there-a-risk-of-prostate-cancer-if.html Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the person don't have sex or Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-make-the-move-to-be-with.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-make-the-move-to-be-with.html One of my really good friends for years and I have really fallen for each other, but we live in different cities. We have kept in touch over many years although living in other places, and lately we have been going to visit each other and have gotten more involved. The last Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-split-with-my-ex-but-hes-so.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-split-with-my-ex-but-hes-so.html I just got out of a relationship that lasted for a few years about 2 months back, and my ex is taking it pretty hard. He still calls me sometimes when he is really upset and says stuff like he is so depressed. It is hard because I do care about him a lot, but we are not right Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-checks-out-girls-and-watches-porn.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-checks-out-girls-and-watches-porn.html I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been married for 3 yrs together Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-is-not-able-to-conceive-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-is-not-able-to-conceive-and.html I love my wife a lot .. its been 5 years since we are married tried every option possible right up to IVF...but its not working.. The worst part is my wife is now getting very disturbed by the fact that she is yet to conceive. all our common frinds have babies not and thats Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-cheated-with-me-when-she-was-in.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-cheated-with-me-when-she-was-in.html This is a very long and complicated issue, but its kind of bothering me and wanted peoples advice. well im currently seeing this gurl and things are all great but the problem i have is a trust issue. the thing is she used to date a friend of mine which was her first boyfriend. Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-him-soo-much-but-should-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-him-soo-much-but-should-i.html Hey, So I have been with the same guy for three years we started going out my sophomore year of high shcool an he was a senior. It was perfect he was the best boyfriedn and we always had fun together like we hung out all the time and surprisingly never got tired of each ot Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-my-mind-i-want-to-have-sex.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-my-mind-i-want-to-have-sex.html i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see on the road... hell ........ Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-decide-between-my-boyfriend-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-decide-between-my-boyfriend-and.html Well, I need help on a really awkward situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on a semi -distance relationship. We have had some ups and downs and even some betrayal from his side which i forgot and let go of. On the picture my best friend comes in, we been best Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/feeling-down-about-my-friends-they-only-call.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/feeling-down-about-my-friends-they-only-call.html I've been feeling really bad lately. The friends who I thought were my true friends don't seem that way- they seem to only call when they need a favor or have a problem. When I have a problem, they pretend to listen or act like they care, but then change the topic so it Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-dad-is-getting-divorced-for-a-second.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-dad-is-getting-divorced-for-a-second.html my parents divorced when I was 4, and my dad remarried when I was six. now I'm eighteen and my dad and step-mom are getting a divorce.i have an eight year old brother and a ten year old sister by my step-mom. I am not upset about the divorce, but i am upset that my dad has to Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-said-he-was-going-to-change-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-said-he-was-going-to-change-and.html ok so this might be long. i have known this guy since i was little, but then i moved here and he stood in our home country(dominican republic). now about 9 years later i see him and he tells me he likes me. things move pretty quickly at least for me. i went to his house to Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-happy-that-hes-interested-to-get-back.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-happy-that-hes-interested-to-get-back.html So I was seeing this guy for about a year then we both decided to take a break up for a while. We didn't talk for a month and a half. In the beggining I called him a few times to tell him I was sorry but he completely ignored my calls so I decided to leave him be. 7 weeks Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-15-and-really-mature-i-want-a.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-15-and-really-mature-i-want-a.html Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life so I think that I am mature Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-hell-cheat-when-he-travels.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-hell-cheat-when-he-travels.html My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He is 4 years older than me, Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-ill-ever-get-a-boyfriend.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-ill-ever-get-a-boyfriend.html Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf? Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-a-sin-to-love-your-first.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-a-sin-to-love-your-first.html it is sin to love my first cousin? dear cupid, i had a first cousin, love at first sight,,he courts me, jan.26,2009,when i told him that i love him so much.. and he love me also.. apr.26,2009,we decided to have sex. we love each other so much,,..but until such time Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-use-a-condom-for-anal-sex.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-use-a-condom-for-anal-sex.html should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance. Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-tell-if-a-girl-is.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-tell-if-a-girl-is.html hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just anything about this how do i get a Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-their-type-of-marriage-work.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-their-type-of-marriage-work.html My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a break from her husband. She Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-where-to-start-trying-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-where-to-start-trying-to.html hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i did things with said 1 month ag Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/whats-the-dating-scene-like-in-college.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/whats-the-dating-scene-like-in-college.html Okay so im seventeen years old and im a senior in high school. I have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been asked out, nothing! when i see all my other friends really happy in relationships i get really self conscious about why i havent had that yet. I constantly Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-you-love-someone-you-dont-admire.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-you-love-someone-you-dont-admire.html Can you love someone that you don't admire? I feel that a large part of love is finding that person that you admire. A partner that can constantly energize you to do better just by the mere fact that you want to aspire to emulate them. I guess I could say that I've admired my Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-all-guys-selfish-and-hateful.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-all-guys-selfish-and-hateful.html [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and cook him supper! he has do Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-let-on-i-know-she-fancies.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-let-on-i-know-she-fancies.html I had a thing with this girl about 2 weeks ago. My girlfriend found out and we broke up. We got back together soon after. Now, the girl I had a thing with and I are really good friends and she has just told me that while we were split up, my girlfriend told of her feelings Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-a-normal-girlfriend.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-a-normal-girlfriend.html please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they always text him how much they lov Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-self-esteem-is-suffering-because-my-girlfriend.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-self-esteem-is-suffering-because-my-girlfriend.html Hi. I have a girlfreind, before she was my best friend for 4 years. She means the world to me, and i seriously mean, she has given me a reason to live. we were together for 9 months and broke up a week and back together for a month, so 10 months in effect. The issue i have, is Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/help-i-discovered-my-partner-goes-with-escorts.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/help-i-discovered-my-partner-goes-with-escorts.html Hi, Im desperatley unhappy. 3 years ago i met a wonderful man after spending 10 years married to a pub addicted bully who made my life a misery.I had finally made my way out and managed to buy my own place for me and my six year old daughter when I met this person. For the Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/could-he-like-me.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/could-he-like-me.html So I've known this guy for about six months through work. We don't work for the same company, but see each other in a group setting a couple times a week because of our duties/schedules. Our interactions are usually in front of others, so if he was interested in me I know he Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-to-wear-going-around-town-with-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-to-wear-going-around-town-with-my.html This isn't really a question about relationships or anythin, but its the only place i seem to get quick good answers. So i don't have many friends because i fell out with my best 3 and they kinda turned everyone against me. But the few i am friends with aren't into that whole Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/caught-my-daughter-masturbating-what-should-i-do.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/caught-my-daughter-masturbating-what-should-i-do.html I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in front of the computer. She's Sat, 7 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-we-tell-her-parents-about-this.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-we-tell-her-parents-about-this.html I had my neice and my son over. My neice is 10 years old and my son is 11 years old and they are second cousins. After I made dinner, I went to my sons room to get them for dinner and when I open the door, they were both laying on the bed naked and having sex (my son's pe Fri, 6 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-ramp-up-the-intensity.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-ramp-up-the-intensity.html I'm dating a woman 10 years my junior who has a lot more experience than me. She has made it clear that she enjoys rougher sex (she revealed her safe word on our first date) but I don't really know where to start. My previous partners (and me, by extension) all preferred the Fri, 6 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-ready-to-introduce-sex-back-into-our.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-ready-to-introduce-sex-back-into-our.html Ridiculously, we have let our marriage slip into a nearly sexless funk for 2+ years. Our second child was born in January and we've only been intimate a couple of times since she conceived. We've always been pretty low on the libido front, our max has been once a week, but Fri, 6 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-if-i-want-him-or.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-if-i-want-him-or.html I work with a really nice gut we have a lot of things in common and we get on great.But I'm unsure if I actually like him or not..? We mess around and are often tickling or poking each other and have great chats together.I think I might just like the idea of liking him if that Fri, 6 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-14-and-i-love-masturbating-but-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-14-and-i-love-masturbating-but-i.html This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. tips? Fri, 6 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/know-of-a-place-to-get-a-cute.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/know-of-a-place-to-get-a-cute.html hey this would be a huge help to me if i can get some answers. does anyone have any websites where i can find a cute strapless dress, above the knee in length. any color, that i can wear for my winter ball. thank you, just reply with any websites and comments. thanks again! Fri, 6 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-scared-of-commitment.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-scared-of-commitment.html Hi. I am a 42 year old woman and I am panicking because I think I might be a commitment phobe. Here's a little bit of background. Two years ago I came to London to enrol for a post graduate MA in art. I managed to get a place in a very good art college and I was able to fina Fri, 6 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-let-him-back-in-my-life.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-let-him-back-in-my-life.html For the first time in my life, I felt like I was falling in love. After about 6 months my ex suddenly broke up with me after telling me he was falling in love too and swearing that he was very happy to be with me. It turns out, he went back to his "high school sweetheart" of 3