http://www.dearcupid.org Agony aunt for relationships, love, dating, sex tips and advice Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-may-have-been-date-raped.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-may-have-been-date-raped.html I think I was date-raped. I ran in to my boss in a bar after I had already been drinking, and he offered to get me a drink. I asked for a vodka orange, but he asked me if I would prefer vodka redbull, and got me that instead. After that drink, I completely blacked out and can' Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-practical-driving-test-is-tomorrow-and-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-practical-driving-test-is-tomorrow-and-i.html Please help me!!! My practical driving test is tomorrow and i cannot find my theory test certificate? I dont know what to do? Can anybody please please help me? Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-told-me-the-all-the-other-girls.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-told-me-the-all-the-other-girls.html Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex with me. I kinda do..but im afra Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/which-of-the-four-should-i-choose.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/which-of-the-four-should-i-choose.html Okay so this boy loves me, well says he loves me, and he's also my ex. This other boy says he misses me and stuff, which is another ex, and this other kid always says he loves me but we're really close and we hangout alot, and then there's this other boy that just started Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-so-sexually-frustrated-and-all-the.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-so-sexually-frustrated-and-all-the.html Hi everyone. I have a major problem with my marriage. Although my relationship with my husband is great in every other way, the sex is so lame that i cannot take it. It´s pretty much the usual 2-minute missionary intercourse under the covers with the lights off once every tw Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-some-tips-about-prom-night-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-some-tips-about-prom-night-and.html I'm going to prom with my friend's brother. He's really nice and flirty. We aren't going out but...I'm not sure what will happen on prom night. He's 2 years older than me. It's my prom. My friend thinks that on prom night she will drive me and another friend and our dates wi Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriends-friend-wont-give-us-any-time.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriends-friend-wont-give-us-any-time.html Ok well my boyfriend's friend is always around us and he always pushes me out of everything just to be with my boyfriend. He also spends to much time with him when i would love to spend time with my boyfriend. Like a week ago i was talking to my boyfriend at lunch saying h Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-love-him-and-lose-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-love-him-and-lose-my.html i think im falling in love but im not sure if he's in love with me but i wanna trust him but im not sure and im not sure if i should loose my virginity tom him Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-used-to-be-a-tomboy-but.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-used-to-be-a-tomboy-but.html Hi I don't know where to start with this but I've got a friend (who I consider to be my best friend) that I've known since we were 9. We're now both 21 and I'm God Mother to her son. But recently she started hanging out with another girl that's her cousin's girlfriend. I me Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-milky-white-discharge--what-is.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-milky-white-discharge--what-is.html Today when i went to the restroom i had a milky white discharge in my panties and while i was using it white discharge was leaking what is wrong with me? Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-supposed-to-call-if-hes-casually.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-supposed-to-call-if-hes-casually.html We talked a lot while eating and we were quieter during the movie. We got to see each other after more than one month so it was a little bit strange first but then we warmed up. After four hours together, we had to say good bye but while he was on his way, I asked him if wanted Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-masturbates-while-i-am-asleep-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-masturbates-while-i-am-asleep-.html Just found out my bf masturbates daily when I'm asleep, but he always says he's not horny when I ask for sex. When I talked to him about it he just said he can't help it, he gets horny at about 2 or 3 in the morning and doesn't want to wake me (I need my sleep!) What can we d Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/unbearable-truthdo-i-move-on-or-wait-for.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/unbearable-truthdo-i-move-on-or-wait-for.html I am 38 and my ex gf is 23 going on 24. We had been together for over a year and a half. Chance meeting at a bar and I wasn't looking for someone this young. Firstly, she's geniunely naive, stupid and weak. I slept with her the first night. I had never done that before and Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-wants-us-to-be-friends-even.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-wants-us-to-be-friends-even.html Me and my ex-boy friend been broken up for almost 4-5years and he is in another relationship still with the girl he was cheating on me with. He want's us to be friends but it's hard for me because we had history. I get a feeling that he regrets are break-up even though he was Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/mothers-day-bluesis-it-selfish-to-want-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/mothers-day-bluesis-it-selfish-to-want-to.html Hey guys. Its mothers day, and I have 2 very young kids. Is it selfish of me to just want to be by myself today? I mean, I made the kids and my husband a big breakfast, but now, I just want to be alone, play guitar all day. Is this "holiday" really supposed to be for the kids Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-heartbroken-and-frustrated-will-i-ever-find.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-heartbroken-and-frustrated-will-i-ever-find.html Will I ever find love again? I thought that I had finally found my soul mate and after almost 2.5 years together she decided that she wanted to be friends. I know she got frustrated that we weren't engaged yet and I wanted to and told her this but i had just gotten laid off Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-get-past-him-cheating-on.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-get-past-him-cheating-on.html My boyfriend and i have been together for over two years. Within the first six months he cheated on me twice, just kissing two other girls. I found out after about a year, and we decided to try and work things out. I have forgiven him, and am trying to trust him again, and Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-sure-how-to-give-head-help.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-sure-how-to-give-head-help.html The past weekend, I was asked to give head, but I'm not sure how to. I really liked the guy who asked me to give him head, but I had to tell him no, becuase I don't really get how to. Help please? Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/36-year-old-woman-sleeping-in-the-same.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/36-year-old-woman-sleeping-in-the-same.html what do you think of a 36yo woman sleeping in the same bed with her uncle? yes she lied to me, she said she's living with her uncle in separate bedroom, but when i went to their apartment it was just a studio and they're sleeping together in one queen size bed. Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/together-5-years-and-no-sex-in-last.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/together-5-years-and-no-sex-in-last.html My friend and I have been together 5 years recently he and I haven't had sex in two months. I know he's a heavy drinker and I think he maybe using something eles could that be a problem. He says he isn't cheating and to please give him time to get his self together that he is Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/looking-for-my-first-relationship.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/looking-for-my-first-relationship.html I am a 20 year old shy guy from Southampton looking for his first relationship, I am loving and kind who would be described by his friends as a gentleman. I do chat to girls and they seem to like me but there always comes a point in the convosation when I have to tell them Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-a-boyfriend-but-now-i-have.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-a-boyfriend-but-now-i-have.html Hi everyone, i really need advice!! i have very strong feeling for a guy who now im very close friends with but whom i know for less than a year. i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. i know its probably just a crush and itll pass but we get along so well and have such a Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-smile-is-awful--what-can-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-smile-is-awful--what-can-i.html OK, I'm 15, and I have a really awful smile! i'm quite pretty (ish) but when i smile showing my teeth it kind of makes my chin jut out, and my teeth are awful anyway even though ive had braces. Please, does anyone have any advice on what i can do about this? i really want to Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-questioning-my-same-sex-relationship-now.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-questioning-my-same-sex-relationship-now.html hi. i just need some advice. im 23 and have been in a same sex relationship for just on 2 years now. iv been extremely happy in the relationship and to be honest could not think of there being any better. I'v been in love with my partner exlusively for the length of time h Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-has-an-addiction-to-amateur-porn.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-has-an-addiction-to-amateur-porn.html Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 25. We have been dating for 4 months but he has an addiction to amatuer porn. On top of this I found he had a profile on a dating website which is just for sex. He says he only uses it to see amatuer porn and he deleted his profile a few hours be Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-constantly-get-accused-of-having-affairs-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-constantly-get-accused-of-having-affairs-and.html hi everyone, same old story i suppose but here goes, i have two gorgeous children with my partner of five years. very happy till a few months ok, i constantly get accused of having affairs. which im not but her friends keep telling her otherwise. got to grunch time n Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-there-any-men-out-there-not-obsessed.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-there-any-men-out-there-not-obsessed.html I was in a long term relation-ship with a guy who was far from the type who goes after big breasted bimbos, and who was interested in feminism and wanted his girlfriend to be his intellectual partner. Sounds great.But it turned out that he had huge interest in porn: not the Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-of-almost-18-years-said-he.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-of-almost-18-years-said-he.html My husband and I have been together for almost 18 years. We have two wonderful teenage daughters. We have had a great marriage - no real serious problems. We hardly ever fought. We have always been a close knit family, went on trips a couple times a year, had many parties, Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-hasnt-he-let-me-meet-his-family.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-hasnt-he-let-me-meet-his-family.html ok ppl i neva did dis b4 but i need your advice on something ok i have been wit this boy for basically 4 months already n we are in love we have a great relationship we neva fight or anything but im so confused of why i he hasnt let me meet his family he has met me mine and Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/confused-about-brownish-discharge-what-is-wrong.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/confused-about-brownish-discharge-what-is-wrong.html i am a 20yr old girl who have brownish discharge anytime i feel horny or have romantic touches with my boyfriend, it sometimes result to my montly period or smtimes d discharge stays for 1 week and stops. am really confused what is wrong and what do i do? Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-long-term-boyfriends-condoms-have-mysteriously-disappeared.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-long-term-boyfriends-condoms-have-mysteriously-disappeared.html i thought i remembered a condom or two left in the condom drawer of my boyfriend's(3 years with him) aparment and also possibly opened wrappers from us there (just being lazy about throwing out the wrapper)...i actually don't 100% remember but i don't remember it being so Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friends-say-shes-cheating-on-me-but.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friends-say-shes-cheating-on-me-but.html Im very worrid, I have been told by people I trust very much that my partaner is cheating on me. She is denying it, but i dont think so many people can be lying. Also she was going to the cinima with another one of her freinds and someone said to her "You know your gonn'a kiss Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-has-moved-abroad-without-considering-me.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-has-moved-abroad-without-considering-me.html My boyfriend has moved from the UK to the US a month ago - something he has had planned for 2 years. I met him 14 months ago and we fell in love quickly but he never once considered whether I was able to come with him and decided that he could not stomach being in the UK any Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-friend-after-my-boyfriend.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-friend-after-my-boyfriend.html my friend had always liked my boyfriend even before he was my boyfriend. there had been moments when she tried flirting with him. but since he doesnt like her, he didn't play along. even though she said she didnt like him anymore, i always caught her smiling to herself whenever Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-sick-at-the-way-he-behaves.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-sick-at-the-way-he-behaves.html Is it ever ok to be in a relationship with a man who uses and sells drugs? Or torments your daughter with names? Or is signed on at many dating sites with pics you took of him on vaca even though he doesnt log in often? Why do I need validity for this? I know the an Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-do-something-romantic-not-sexy.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-do-something-romantic-not-sexy.html hi everyone ok so what should i do! i want 2 do something romantic and sexy on monday nite 4 my bf and i was thinking make a couple snacks lay a blanket down on the ground and look up at the stars talk cuddle. but i was thinking theres got 2 b something better i can do im Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-confused-but-i-love-him--i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-confused-but-i-love-him--i.html hello, i have liked this boy for a long time and we have a really special bond , he even says that we are really close he comes to sit next to me all the time in school and everyone says he always flirts with me so i flirt back and he loves it , yesterday him and his best fri Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/love-is-not-something-to-base-a-relationship.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/love-is-not-something-to-base-a-relationship.html In my experience "love" is not something to base a relationship on. It makes you ignore what the relationship will realistically be like down the road. When you act on "love" and create a relationship, you still need to get over the "honeymoon" period, and come down to earth, Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-stop-the-spots-appearing-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-stop-the-spots-appearing-.html hey, is there anyhing i can do to help me not to get spots, by tht i mean teenage spots, i've always had them and always used a facewash that is supposed to help prevent them but then i oticed i started getting blackheads so chnaged it use one for those and whilst they were Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-was-acting-like-a-doormat-but-now.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-was-acting-like-a-doormat-but-now.html My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. I know things change as you become more comfortable with each other, but it seems he has totally changed! He was the type of boyfriend that if I told him to jump, he would say how high. If I got frustrated during an arg Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-keep-breaking-up-and-i-dont-know.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-keep-breaking-up-and-i-dont-know.html Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have dated for almost 5 months... and we have broken up 4 times already over stupid things. but i dont like to argue with him and i dont. but I dont know why i keep goin back to him. But I know im in love. because ive never felt this Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-trust-my-new-girlfriend-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-trust-my-new-girlfriend-i.html I need help in my relationship, because I keep worrying bout getting hurt again and I know my new girlfriend will never hurt me. I want to let her into my heart and break down my walls but how do I do this, please help before its to late we dont want to lose eachother, PLEASE Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-broke-up-but-he-has-been-finding.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-broke-up-but-he-has-been-finding.html hey aunts jus wondering. me and my boyfriend hav been broken up for 2 months almost and only recently like 2 weeks ago his been trying to get my attention. It started off by him msgin me pointless things like "do u know where this place is?" then it started to be like "d Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-broke-up-with-me-suddenly-so-why.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-broke-up-with-me-suddenly-so-why.html My now ex-boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago after 3 intense years together. It came as a bit of a shock because we had been having a few problems but agreed to work through them but before we had a chance to he broke off with me. We both went to different universities Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-trouble-finding-a-boyfriend---what.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-trouble-finding-a-boyfriend---what.html I have the worst trouble finding a boyfriend. I am almost 21 and still single (yeah very pathetic hahaha!) I just want to know what I'm doing wrong. I can be shy but I'm not as shy as I used to be. Is there any fool proof ways to get a guy? And is online dating sites a good way Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-are-both-virgins-what-can-i-do.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-are-both-virgins-what-can-i-do.html Hi - i am an 18 year old guy and have shared a nice relationship with a very cute girl. I love her very very much and am commited towards her. we never got physical in the first 3 yrs- but have started getting a little physical lately. To me - it is very important to give her Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/where-else-could-i-meet-girls-so-that.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/where-else-could-i-meet-girls-so-that.html I already posted a question at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fine-except-im-scared-to-ask-out-girls.html, thanks for the advice, however, it didn't quite come out the way I intended. The actual problem is that I have an inability to trust women. I asked a girl out once, s Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/embarassed-to-buy-lubricant-and-condoms-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/embarassed-to-buy-lubricant-and-condoms-.html im 14 and i want to masturbat with condoms or lube but im too embarrased to go to the shop and buy them myslef what should i do? Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-you-too-faced-the-dilemma-to-stay.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-you-too-faced-the-dilemma-to-stay.html This is a question for those who faced the huge dilemma to stay in a 'comfortable' but ultimatley unfulfilling marriage (no children involved) or to leave and begin again 'alone', i.e not straight into another relationship. Those who decided to leave, did it turn out to be t Sun, 11 May 2008 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-broke-up-with-me-how-do-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-broke-up-with-me-how-do-i.html My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, he was all i had and im feeling exremely lonely and want him back, how can i get him back?