http://www.dearcupid.org Agony aunt for relationships, love, dating, sex tips and advice Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/g-f-said-we-should-take-a-small.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/g-f-said-we-should-take-a-small.html we've dated for 2 years we had a "breakup" about 8 months ago as a result of a fight, but we made up the next day and we have been together since. we haven't had a major fight like that again, and I took time to address my issues related to it so we haven't had any huge arg Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/benefits-of-an-accounting-degree.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/benefits-of-an-accounting-degree.html I am currently studying accounting at university. However, I failed two important courses which each add a year to my completion date. Right now I am considering quitting the degree and going to study CIMA or switch to another school and change majors. What are the benefits of Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-did-she-wait-2-years-to-break.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-did-she-wait-2-years-to-break.html My girlfriend of 13years (fiance for 3 of those) left me 2months ago. Its a really tricky one this. We always agreed on not having kids. We were very happy together. No fighting, no cheating. We always gave one another space when we needed to do our own hobbies or hang out with Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-doesnt-he-want-me-as-a-woman.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-doesnt-he-want-me-as-a-woman.html I have been married for over 31 years. When the children got older in high school my husband cut loving way down. really way down. 4 times a year- then we went to nothing. we do not kiss at all-peck once awhile. no embracing. no loving for over 2 decades now. we go places Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-you-keep-yourself-from-falling-so.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-you-keep-yourself-from-falling-so.html So the thing with that guy didn't work out. I have a problem with falling too quickly in love or having a huge crush on someone, then it ends up sucking. All the guys I've liked have only liked me for a short period of time or not at all. They lead me on, treat me so sweet and Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wont-stop-confiding-in-his-exwho.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-wont-stop-confiding-in-his-exwho.html Hi, I'm a college student in a 2 year relationship with my current boyfriend. Before me, he was dating this girl for 4 years. They remained distant friends after things didn't work out and would occasionally text/call to just update each other about their lives, but live far Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-moved-on-and-have-a-nice.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-moved-on-and-have-a-nice.html my daughters father and i broke up march 15 2012, it took me forever to get over him! I started dating my current boyfriend Feb 15. Me and my boyfriend got into a fight and he went back home he lived 30 minutes away. I have my own place and he stayed with me everyday for 3 Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-girl-that-my-b-f-used-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-girl-that-my-b-f-used-to.html I am in need of some advice..my b/f and i are 29 years old and have been together for almost a year..i have no doubt that we truly love each other and we see a future together. We are both currently staying with family members in order to save money. We also only see each other Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-it-mean-when-my-mate-doesnt.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-it-mean-when-my-mate-doesnt.html What does it mean when my mate sleeps on the couch or sometimes living room. When my mate wants sex he would sleep in the bed with me? Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-been-3-weeks-since-ive-heard-from.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-been-3-weeks-since-ive-heard-from.html Hi I would like some advice.I was in a relationship for 6months. We took it very slow at the beginning. He told me he had alot of wounded damage from his previous relationships and he was hurt in the past, but his ex was no longer in the picture. so we took it slow. We had Thu, 20 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/weve-grown-used-to-each-other-but-im.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/weve-grown-used-to-each-other-but-im.html So this guy i know has always had this strong connection and we both confirmed we felt it. He's been curious about me for years and finally one day we were able to call each other and then started making time to actually hang out.We both have trust issues, and are prideful Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/return-a-gift-after-breakup.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/return-a-gift-after-breakup.html Hello Everyone, I have been seeing this guy for over about two months now. He was away for a while so I couldn't see him but he brought me something which I thought was really sweet. After he came back, we went on dates. On our first date I paid. No big deal he offered the n Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/no-trust-in-boyfriend-right-now-ruining-a.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/no-trust-in-boyfriend-right-now-ruining-a.html I'm having a major issue with my boyfriend of 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. He's the first person I've fallen in love with, and sometimes I wonder if that's the problem. My being too in love. Let me state that I don't know if this is MY issue or stuff he's actually doing to make Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-like-feeling-like-a-maid-or.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-like-feeling-like-a-maid-or.html Just a question about cohabitation: My boyfriend works 50 hours a week, and I am currently unemployed (but looking) I contribute economically, and do all the cooking and cleaning except for one night where he makes dinner. Usually he does his own laundry, because he like Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-bring-up-that-im-going.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-bring-up-that-im-going.html I've recently started going out with a guy i met online, but am worried about the trouble it might bring with my family. I'm almost 21 years old, and still live at home because my parents don't want me to live elsewhere But i've tried asserting my independence(I dormed freshman Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-think-i-can-handle-seeing-her.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-think-i-can-handle-seeing-her.html Hi, bit of a long question here. So about 2 years ago I told this girl whom I had been friends with for about 2 years (at that time) that I had feelings for her but she told me that she didnt like me in that way and just saw us as friends which took a while to fully accept but Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-understand-why-he-wouldnt-simply-deactivate.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-understand-why-he-wouldnt-simply-deactivate.html Hi, My boyfriend left his email open on my laptop once, and already having had previous trust issues we are working on, and have been getting there, I couldnt help myself cast an eye....(the previous problem was him trash/sex talking with a 'female' friend) What I found wa Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-an-ldr-his-live-in-son-asks.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/in-an-ldr-his-live-in-son-asks.html im in a long distance relationship he comes for me every wk end we are both widowed he has 6 children i have 5 all grown up it takes him just over an hr to get here then an hr to take me back to his house , he has a son in his 40s living with him works night and asking every Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ex-partner-apologises-after-2-years-apart.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ex-partner-apologises-after-2-years-apart.html I split with my partner 2 years ago. I had 1 young child with her and she had a child from a previous relationship. We had been together for about 12 years! We have stayed in touch due to me seeing my son weekly, of course, and she has often had a bit of a bitter attitude Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/cancelled-weddingbut-can-we-sort-this-out-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/cancelled-weddingbut-can-we-sort-this-out-and.html where do I start..my fiancé told me 8 weeks ago he wanted to cancel our wedding. He didn't do it. We thought we could work on our differences and see what came about. We were due to get married in seven months. I feel like he has not made any effort to sort things out and spent Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-expects-me-to-always-be-happy.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-expects-me-to-always-be-happy.html Hi everyone :) thanks so much for looking, I'll try to keep this short. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he is in the military and we are happy together. I'm usually very bubbly and happy, but occasionally feel tired, so I'm not as bubbly. I'm still happy, I'm not i Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-believe-a-person-can-do-achieve.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-believe-a-person-can-do-achieve.html Do you believe a person can do/achieve whatever they want if they want it enough and work hard enough for it? I'm asking this question in reference to my dream career but I'm interested in all general opinions on this too. Thanks! Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-over-that-he-is.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-over-that-he-is.html I broke up with my boyfriend about 14 months ago. We had been in an open relationship for just over 2 years. He had been seeing another woman(who was actually a close friend of mine)for the last few months of our relationship until he decided he loved her more so broke up with Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-told-his-ex-that-i-wasnt-his.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-told-his-ex-that-i-wasnt-his.html Hi everyone, thanks for reading. I met my ex from riding, we meet on Easter weekend, at the time I was looking for a place to move, and so was he, so we decided to shared a place, few days before we move in to the house, we became boyfriend and girlfriend, and we still decided Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-trust-my-husband-when-he.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-trust-my-husband-when-he.html Dear readers, I find myself here again and I have only been married a month. I wass here to weeks ago. Because my husband joined a sex site and still denies it. But know I am here because my husband has been out of town for the week and I looked at our phone bill and found ou Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-get-so-panicky-when-he-doesnt-respond.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-get-so-panicky-when-he-doesnt-respond.html i visited the guy that i really like and we got along great, had lots of laughs etc. when i returned home, we texted and everything was fine.i got on twitter and started tweeting about my guy friend that passed away and then I tweeted "random I love you's make my heart melt" Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-end-this-i-dont-love.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-end-this-i-dont-love.html THANKS for reading...but friends i am in a great difficulty...i met a girl on social network site and we did long chats and also did talk on the phone and now it has been over a year of our such relationship but before a couple of months that girl proposed me and i myself Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-reverse-psychology-or-what.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-reverse-psychology-or-what.html I work in two places. In one place there are mostly married women in the late 30's up to 50 and more. They adore me, especially one-let's call her "Helen"-who is head over heel about me. She even says things like she wants sex with me tonight. Although I don't find her Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-made-a-mistake-and-it-hurts-so.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-made-a-mistake-and-it-hurts-so.html Thank you for reading... I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years and we are very happy together. We have always been good but she left me last week and i can't see what to do from here. I was at a party a few weeks ago and there were a bunch of people taking ph Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-keeps-breaking-up-my-relationships-im-in.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-keeps-breaking-up-my-relationships-im-in.html There is this guy who I am completely inlove with but everytime we start dating he just stops talking to me and then months pass and he comes back and then he leaves again and that just keeps happening. I told him im tired of him doing that and that I want more I want to be in Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-marriage-the-right-thing-for-me-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-marriage-the-right-thing-for-me-to.html I just want to share my story and I would Love your opinions. it was about 8 or 9 months ago I was walking into church for a revival when I laid eyes on the most beautiful creature I had ever seen. He was well dressed, the cutest smile with perfect straight white t Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-go-about-initiating-a-no.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-go-about-initiating-a-no.html I hooked up with (not had sex with, just made out) a guy last weekend that I'd never spoken to before with mutual friends. We were both very attracted to each other, but haven't really spoken or texted since then. I would really like to talk to him/become friends/hook up again, Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-talk-to-him-next-time-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-talk-to-him-next-time-i.html Hello, So I met this guy back in January. We immediately hit it off, spoke, exchanged numbers and hung out like 1 month later. We talk maybe like twice a week via text. Sometimes not talking can extend to two weeks. When we talk and hangout there is just some kind of connecti Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-does-she-really-feel-about-me-im.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-does-she-really-feel-about-me-im.html Am a guy of 22 ,handsome and very jovial with everyone espercially with girls which makes them to be fond of me to an extent that whenever they are doing something they will always want me to be by their side for jokes. There is this particular girl that am having feelings for Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-elocution-lessons-really-change-a-person.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-elocution-lessons-really-change-a-person.html I haven't seen my friend in 3 months since she was at university, having seen her I was very taken back by her voice. Turns out she did online elocution lessons to lower her voice a bit and speak properly over the months, even when i saw her she was learning then too! She Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-girlfriend-is-trying-to-get-back.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-girlfriend-is-trying-to-get-back.html My ex girlfriend that we dated for four years left me for another guy, four months later she started sending sms to me just for us to get talking.I ignored all, recently she sent this one which got me very confused . She sent this " hello, how is work. please just try Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-make-him-feel-more-at.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-make-him-feel-more-at.html I knew this guy two years ago but he didn't give me the time or place. Just recently he contacted me and wanted to be friends. He's been going threw a hard time, so I have a lot of empathy for him and want to be there for him. I have to admit I live him, and already see him as Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/where-is-the-blood-coming-from.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/where-is-the-blood-coming-from.html Hello! I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for quite awhile. While we were on vacation, we were having sex much more frequent than what normally happens at home. YAY! On one of those days it was kind of rough, and later on when I used the restroom I notic Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/feel-confused-do-i-go-with-my-gut.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/feel-confused-do-i-go-with-my-gut.html Hi i've know this guy for some years now. About last year we have been together almost everyday. Throughtout this whole year i have seen this guy open up and want to be around me, and then act like he just wants to be my friend. Everytime it seems like he's digging me, I ei Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-go-back-to-my-old-job.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-go-back-to-my-old-job.html For 3 summers I have worked at a retail store, and then leave when I go back to college for the year. When I work there, I always feel very unconfident because I worry that the store manager doesn't like me, and I always feel like I am under surveillance by the higher-u Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-bow-out-for-the-sake-of.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-bow-out-for-the-sake-of.html I need help as I am having a serious dilemma! I am with a wonderful guy...been together 2 years and are happy together. He has 2 kids, we want them together as I don't have any. When we met, we decided to save for a house, marriage etc. I love his kids to bits. We both wo Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-go-in-for-the-first-kiss.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-go-in-for-the-first-kiss.html I'm 15 and I've been dating this girl for 4 months now and I'm really starting to like her and I want to go in for the kiss but I don't know when to do it. Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/boyfriend-always-refers-to-other-women-as-hot.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/boyfriend-always-refers-to-other-women-as-hot.html Whenever my boyfriend is telling me a story he always refers to girls he knew either as friends or ex girlfriends as "hot." I find it disrespectful and have already told him I don't appreciate it and that I find it tactless and hurtful and he said he wouldn't do it again but Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-to-love-someone-without-trusting.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-to-love-someone-without-trusting.html Hi guys ! Me and my boyfriend had been in a on and off relationship for almost 3years , on top off that he was my first love.... During those 3years Ive been good girl that always get hurt ! I was faithful to him never derespected him ! But him on the other hand had a chi Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-his-back-up-date.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-his-back-up-date.html i met a guy online and we went out last thursday. I had a pretty good time. I texted him after i got home later that night thanking him and to let me know if he wanted to do it again. He replied something along the lines of "sure, I'll let you know" and then didn't text me Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-shows-no-interest-in-me-except-pushing.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-shows-no-interest-in-me-except-pushing.html In my experience, if a woman is interested in me, she flirts heavily with me, laughs at my jokes and all the other usual things. In this case, there is this girl at work who seems a bit cold to me in general and hardly even responds to my flirting. However, whenever we are Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-so-sick-and-tired-of-losing.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-so-sick-and-tired-of-losing.html I feel absolutely hopeless. I love my friend more than I have ever oved anyone. If he goes back to his ex wife or doesn't lvoe me now is there some hope that maybe he'll fall for me in the future? I am so sick of the loneliness and pain I feel because he used to be reall Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-figure-out-how-this-boy.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-figure-out-how-this-boy.html There is this guy I like that I have known for 4 years. He is 16 and I am 14 turning 15 this October. Before I began to like him again, we hadn't talked for around a year. At first, it was just a crush bc I thought he looked like a guy from this popular band. It was just a Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-help-girlfriend-spending-too-much-time-with.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-help-girlfriend-spending-too-much-time-with.html Dear guys, I have a problem right now that I hope i can get some help with, first of all, sorry if my english is not so good, I am from Brazil. I have been in a relationship for 4 years with my girlfriend, we love each other very much and care for real, however in the pa Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-needed-a-break-and-doesnt-want-me.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-needed-a-break-and-doesnt-want-me.html I have been split up with my ex 7 weeks today and I just can't seem to get over it! I've seen pictures with him and other girls and its really getting to me! I have phoned him and asked him if he is with someone but he said its got nothing to do with me! We were together for