http://www.dearcupid.org Agony aunt for relationships, love, dating, sex tips and advice Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-tell-if-an-old-flame.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-tell-if-an-old-flame.html i met up with an old falme on saturday night for a quick drink, but now im getting mixed signals. How can i tell if he actually likes me or just wants to be friends...? after meeting with him i went out with a couple of girlfriends, i texted him thanking him for the drink... he Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-having-a-drivers-license---or.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-having-a-drivers-license---or.html will not having my drivers license in a rural town affect if girls will date me? Due to slow and unmotivated parent still dont have it. Its the root of much of my hesitance to date, does it matter? Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-guys-kiss-and-tell.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-guys-kiss-and-tell.html if you kiss a guy or he kisses you, will he go and tell everyone about it? is it possible if i ask him not to tell, that he won't? please help me (im 15) Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-confused-about-orgasms-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-confused-about-orgasms-.html me and my bf r confused about orgasm..last month he fingered fast and i moaned with excitement(the excitement was at its height)..and sudddenly there was some jelly like substance...is this known as orgasm?and how to self masturbate?and how to reach orgasm by self Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-did-not-even-tell-me-her-got.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-did-not-even-tell-me-her-got.html I have a guy friend that i've been foolin around with for 8 months and i really like and i wish we could be together but he has a girlfriend/babymama and when he's with me sometimes he does'nt even go home that nite...he spent time with me 4 my b-day,x-mas etc.but him and his Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-asked-him-to-make-a-couple-changes.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-asked-him-to-make-a-couple-changes.html My boyfriend and I recently went through a four month rough patch. We finally resolved our issues about two weeks ago. I was upfront and told him that I wasn't getting what I needed out of the relationship and as a result I was unhappy. However, I love him very much and I Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-be-happy-with-our-friendship-or.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-be-happy-with-our-friendship-or.html Ok so last year around April I met this guy named lets call him Jonny. He is 29(I know, I know...)he is attractive, down to earth, sweet, romantic, hard working, real ect ect. We texted for awhile right and then decided to hangout one day. So he picked me up at his house and we Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-go-about-having-sex-with.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-go-about-having-sex-with.html ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. we always end up talkin Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-paybacks-on-my-best-friemd.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-paybacks-on-my-best-friemd.html wow my "bestfriend" has always screwed things up for me but i always forgive her becuz she can be nice sometimes. she has started rumors and made fun of me and stabbed me in the back so many times i lost count. its too much stress when we fight and she says shessorry a nd shes Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-having-a-long-distance-relationship-ruined-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-having-a-long-distance-relationship-ruined-my.html So I have a pretty big dilemma. Let's call my boyfriend- B Question. What should I do with my relationship? I feel stuck. The past six months or so I can't help the feelings, or lack thereof I feel towards B. We have been together for more than 3 years and nearly two year Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fiance-tried-to-sleep-with-my-best.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fiance-tried-to-sleep-with-my-best.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-lied-and-cheatedand-yet-can-be.html Above is a link to my situation. I am still with my fiance. I am writing this to tell all women to GET OUT when someone cheats. IF you read the above, and think I am stupid for staying, you are r Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/would-i-know-an-orgasm-if-i-felt.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/would-i-know-an-orgasm-if-i-felt.html This may be kind of long... Ok, so ive been dating my boy friend for over seven months now. He is two years older than i am. The farthest him and i have ever gone is hand jobs (we are both virgins). So heres the deal, before him and i started dating, i was with a not Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-a-pedophile-for-dating-a-13.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-a-pedophile-for-dating-a-13.html I am in a relationship with an amazing, mature and positive guy, who is also my age (27 -28 years old). We are inseparable and I feel happy when we are together. When we are apart (we live in different countries) for longer than 3 weeks, say, I become quite cynical about th Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-broke-up-because-i-cant-see-her.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-broke-up-because-i-cant-see-her.html I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and for the past month she has been hurt because she say's that i have been distancing myself from her. in the beginning of the relationship i was still in school with her so we hung out everyday. then in the summer she went on a Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-thought-of-her-doing-that-with-another.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-thought-of-her-doing-that-with-another.html I need your opinions. So last night my fiancé was giving me head. As I was about to finish, I pulled it out of her mouth and finished on a towel. She seemed surprised and asked why I didn't finish in her mouth. I said I didn't know, I didn't think she would be ok with that. Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-12-years-older-and-im-scared-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-12-years-older-and-im-scared-to.html I am a 25 years old going on 26 and have never before dated anyone more that 4 years older than I am in the past. I recently met a man who is 38. I found out his age after I realized how interesting and intriguing he is. I do enjoy his company but the age thing scares me I Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-long-is-an-average-13-year-olds.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-long-is-an-average-13-year-olds.html how long is the averge penus of 1 13 year old Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-wont-discuss-valentines-day-and-i-feel.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-wont-discuss-valentines-day-and-i-feel.html My boyfriend and I are complicated right now and we are trying to fix things. weve been together 4 years now. its almost valentines day and he hasnt said anything to me about going out. i already got him a gift and a card, and im just waiting for him to ask me. he hadnt so I go Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-choose-between-the-nice-man-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-choose-between-the-nice-man-and.html I broke up with a lovely man who treated me well, but didn't have much in common with me. It was a hard decision but I felt I really needed more of an emotional connection. I started seeing another man and we became heavily involved. I am absolutely crazy about him but he is Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-my-boyfriend-such-a-control-freak.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-my-boyfriend-such-a-control-freak.html Why are men such control freaks? I can't stand it! My boyfriend is so bossy it drives me nuts. Yet God forbid I ever make a suggestion about anything he hasn't thought about in that "brilliant" mind of his, and I am "nagging" him! WTF! How do you break a man from acting like Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-ejaculated-in-me-numerous-times-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-ejaculated-in-me-numerous-times-and.html ok so i have been having sex for the last 5 months not very often but i will say like at least more then 8 times... each and every time the guy ive been with has ejaculated in me ...but i cant seem to get pregnant ... what may be the problem...me ,,,him,,,,or what? Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-he-ask-for-my-help-then.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-he-ask-for-my-help-then.html What do you make of this frustrating situation? My b/f and I took a road trip recently. He set GPS to destination, yet still insisted that I read the map. When we stopped for lunch he glanced at the map and pointed out a small highway that looked like a shortcut and said, "I Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-and-i-still-talk-but-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-and-i-still-talk-but-i.html ok ...so me and my ex still talk and stuff but we r not 2gether anymore ... every now nd then i spend time with him ...nd have the greatest time ever... he still tells me he loves me but ..we dont talk as much as we did b4 ...only when he basically i guess starts missing Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-said-he-had-hair-in-his.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-said-he-had-hair-in-his.html me and my bf r in a comitted relationship.he stays far from me..and we have sex only once in a month!well few days back we were talking on phone..and he said that wen he was trying to give me oral sex,my hairs got into his mouth..and dat was yak!...i said whether he wants me to Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will-it-be-a-mistake-to-have-sex.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will-it-be-a-mistake-to-have-sex.html I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I sneak at her. I could see her Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-lets-people-walk-all-over-her.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-lets-people-walk-all-over-her.html ok, so i have a kinda Big problem here. the thing is that my gf thinks that its her goal in life to make everyone happy and please them all the time, even though she says she doesnt know why she thinks that, but she still feels she Has to. one of her "friends" started spreading Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-would-i-go-about-turning-on-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-would-i-go-about-turning-on-my.html What does another girl do to turn you on or warm you up? I'm bi curious but not sure how to get my bestfriend who his bi curious too to warm up to me? We have always talked about messing around but we've never done it. Should I start by rubbing her legs and mentioning how soft Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-flips-out-everytime-i-mention-our-future.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-flips-out-everytime-i-mention-our-future.html I've been in a committed relationship for three years and my boyfriend and I live together. I've never, ever rushed him into anything or put a time line on our relationship, but whenever I try to just approach the topic to just see if we want the same things out of life, he Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-want-to-move-before-marriage-in.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-want-to-move-before-marriage-in.html My ex and I got back together but I don't want to live with him before marriage. We were engaged once before, then I left him because he was emotionally not nice. Now he is thinking of moving again, but I don't want to leave my job again like i did three years ago just so we Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-married-shes-36-and-my-teacher-but.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-married-shes-36-and-my-teacher-but.html I am in love with my English teacher. I don't know what to do. She is married and like 36 and has 2 kids but I can't stop thinking about her. I try to stand close to her and sometimes even just touch her by mistake but not really. I even told her I love her but she acted like I Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-tell-me-how-far-along-in.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-tell-me-how-far-along-in.html Hi and thanks all who get back to me =) I'm currently pregnant and Ive been using a baby calculator on my myspace to keep track of how far a long i am. But my husband says that it's wrong. So I was wondering if anyone could tell me how far a long i am. The doctor told me that Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-motivates-a-guy-to-be-nice-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-motivates-a-guy-to-be-nice-to.html Hi, Aunties! Thanks in advance for reading-- I'm just wondering what motivations a guy might have to be abnormally nice to his ex. He never tends to be as nice or sweet or thoughtful as he's being, except when he pretended to love me. Could it be because my on-and-off bf of Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-incapable-of-being-in-love.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-incapable-of-being-in-love.html I have had some of the greatest relationships but wonder if I am incapable of love. Guys get really attached to me and I dont know I cant get into the love part of the relationship. I get “blaséd about the whole thing. I wonder if it is because there is maybe just one thing Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-seem-to-cum-throughout-the-day-is.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-seem-to-cum-throughout-the-day-is.html im a girl, i seem to 'cum' throughout the day making a mess in my undies. its very annoying and im wondering if it is normal or if i should get it checked out ? :/ Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-secretly-talking-to-a-guy-out-of.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-secretly-talking-to-a-guy-out-of.html Ok.. Where to start. Well first off, Im gay. Noone knows that though. Except one guy that i met on myspace/facebook that lives in a different state. Hes been really great with helping me out when im having "Down" days, but now i have a problem. He keeps wanting to send picture Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-guys-to-notice-me-and-not.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-guys-to-notice-me-and-not.html i'm a big gurl or you can call me fat i never had a boyfriend in my life each guy i like either had a gurlfriend or never think of me as a gurl at all i want to know how do i get guys to notice me and not my friends beside me ? Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-being-abused-by-my-husband-but-have.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-being-abused-by-my-husband-but-have.html hi, my husband has only increased his drinking since our marriage 8 years ago. he has quite grand ideas about himself and considers himself to be a blessing to humanity. He started physically abusing me from the 3rd month of getting married, even while i was pregnant with the Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-go-for-him-or-to-forget.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-go-for-him-or-to-forget.html okay so theres this guy, ill call him joe. joe is new this year. im 13, and hes 14 and were both in 8th grade. ever since he got here i thot he was cutee and nice. we became instant friends. but then he broke his leg and wwas out of school for a whilee. and while he was gone i Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-im-needy-is-it-me-that.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-im-needy-is-it-me-that.html My boyfriend and I have been arguing because, when we are together, he often zones out and does not reply to what I am saying. I always respond to his concerns, but if he is zoning out (which happens often, even though we only see each other one day a week), he ignores me and Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-inexperienced-did-i-put-her-off.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-inexperienced-did-i-put-her-off.html I am inexperienced when having sex and need some advice. 1st, I hung out with this girl for a while (one month) and always pleased her. We had sex once and my nerves got to me and I came pretty fast. For about a week we still messed around but I didn't try to have sex with Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-him-but-i-cant-handle-our.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-him-but-i-cant-handle-our.html I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I really love him but I am not sure if I am in love with him. When I began dating him I had self esteem issues and now that I am more comfortable with myself, I'm not sure about our relationship. He has always been Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/public-situations-making-me-ill.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/public-situations-making-me-ill.html I hope someone can help me please.... My work involve dealing with people on a day to day basis, which is fine but there is a problem. I cannot stand up and talk infront of a crowd. When there is a workshop or training, i'll be there fine, but when time to introduce my my Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-my-boyfriend-drink-too-much-or-am.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-my-boyfriend-drink-too-much-or-am.html I would like to ask peoples opinions on what you consider to be too much drinking when it comes to your bf/gf? My bf is a really great guy, his drinking is mainly while watching hockey with the boys, which doesn't bug me. It's about how much/how often. His typical is he drink Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-safe-is-it-to-meet-a-private.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-safe-is-it-to-meet-a-private.html Hi. I'm a young and very lonely man. I was a virgin until recently until I finally went to a brothel. I'd rather not go with prostitues, I'd rather have a gf but that's not happening and is another story. I would like to see an escort again but I don't want to go to a broth Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mum-is-flirting-on-the-net-do.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mum-is-flirting-on-the-net-do.html i am seeking advice on wot to do. here goes-my mom an dad have been parting and getting back for about 2 years. her version is he`s got a fancywoman. his version is she is meeting men off the internet. my husband spent 3 hours fixing her laptop which had bad viruses. he shouts Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-make-a-big-deal-of-the.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-make-a-big-deal-of-the.html Ive been dating this guy about 3 months now and just the other day i had a fight with him about when we started dating because he hasn't actually said to me that he wants me to be his gf and what not.. he just started calling me his gf about a month and a half ago.. before that Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-do-something-nice-for-valentines.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-do-something-nice-for-valentines.html I want to do something nice for my boyfriend( we've been dating for about 2-3 months) for valentines day but i dont really know waht to do.. ive never had a boyfriend before and ive never celebrated the day before could some one give me ideas on what to do or what and if i Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/still-living-together-after-they-wanted-a-divorce.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/still-living-together-after-they-wanted-a-divorce.html A man tells his wife he can't do their relationship anymore and wants a divorce. His wife is devastated, but has since "accepted the facts of the situation". This was 3 weeks ago. In the last 3 weeks, they have separated the bills (not legally set it on paper), opened up Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will-me-leaving-him-before-cause-us-problems.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will-me-leaving-him-before-cause-us-problems.html I met my now BF almost 8 months ago. At that time I was 'chasing' the hot, popular guys and he was more of a quiet type and never pushed me into anything. We had about 3 dates and I called it quits because I couldn't see that 'spark' with him. I also met someone else at the Tue, 9 Feb 2010 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-struggling-to-make-friends-in-high-school.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-struggling-to-make-friends-in-high-school.html iv started high school and things havent gone very well for me. My biggest problem is making new friends. I had "best friends" in middle school who were horrible to me and im no longer their friend. and now im trying to become friends with new people but it dose not seem to be