http://www.dearcupid.org Agony aunt for relationships, love, dating, sex tips and advice Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-guys-think-its-sexy-or-good-looking.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-guys-think-its-sexy-or-good-looking.html hey i have a question and am looking for teenage guys to answer. im 15 years old 5'5" and 110 pounds. im quite thin compared to people around me. Do guys think it's sexy or good looking for girls to have six packs? just in general give your opinion i know everyone has their own Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/step-brother-lover.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/step-brother-lover.html This is actually quite hard for me to do, i am and have been deeply in love with my step brother for over 20 years. our parents were together when we were three till 13. he never lived with us and only stopped over once a month. our parents had kids and now we share the same Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-liking-transsexuals-make-me-gay.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-liking-transsexuals-make-me-gay.html So I've recently developed a pretty strong fetish for Shemales (yes, I know the term is offensive to some, and I'm sorry, but that's the best way I know how to describe them - that is, transsexual men - women who have penises). Does it make me gay to get horny and get off to Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/bus-girl-blues.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/bus-girl-blues.html Here's one where I'd appreciate female advice. Been chatting to a woman on the bus-50 minute journey -seemed to go well so I asked her out for a drink or two after work sometime. she said definitely yes but not til the next week. because I work away a bit, didn't't see her Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-his-eagerness-to-keep-contact-mean.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-his-eagerness-to-keep-contact-mean.html I was with my boyfriend for a year and we made the huge mistake of living together to early and about a month ago we started fighting and i moved out. After i moved out things got a bit rough but we still managed to talk a and see each other regularly but it just wasnt the Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/please-help-me-get-over-this-were-so.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/please-help-me-get-over-this-were-so.html Hey some help here would be appreciated please. Could you just please explain to me why this lad that i was good friends with is behaving this way. We were good friends and stuff and i've always liked him think he liked me too because of how he acted and things people said Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-starting-to-feel-very-misanthropic.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-starting-to-feel-very-misanthropic.html I'm starting to feel very misanthropic. I don't mean that I hate people, but I don't care about society at large. It's really starting to sink in how 'right' and 'wrong' are culturally imprinted into us from birth. just look at all the people across the world and history, and Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/since-weve-gotten-back-together-i-havent-orgasmed.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/since-weve-gotten-back-together-i-havent-orgasmed.html Hey, so I'm with my boyfriend of just over three years. We have been in love for these three years since we met, though we broke up after two years as we were both worried we were getting tied down too early, and both saw other people. However after eight months we realised it Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/feuding-friends.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/feuding-friends.html Well, this isn't a dating question but I really needed to ask anyway. I grew up with my two best friends from kindergarden to high school then through uni we were inseperable. We had a very intense and amazing friendship. Then disaster struck. Four years ago there was a huge f Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-all-these-emotions-when-i-rub-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-all-these-emotions-when-i-rub-my.html Hey, I've discovered that when I rub my nipples for a while, I start to get really emotional, and even cry. Why do I get filled with these strange emotions when I rub my nipples? Like, at some points it almost feels like 'love' in the sense of a deep filial or romantic conn Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-my-boyfriend-but-i-have-strong.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-my-boyfriend-but-i-have-strong.html MY name is Alice and I am 18. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months and its going okay, I do love him despite his struggle to stop taking ketamine on a regular basis. The drugs do get in the way because he has become quite selfish, we don't do normal 'couple' things l Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-bare-to-think-about-them-together.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-bare-to-think-about-them-together.html Hi, hope some of you could help me here. This is kinda 2 questions in one so sorry its long I know im probably being very stupid and yes i havent gotta get over it but i need some help and someone else opinion on what has happened. Obviously i won't act on it and just need Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/17-and-asked-to-move--how-do.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/17-and-asked-to-move--how-do.html I hate living with my family and they dislike living with me, because I don't contribute to anything in the house and just sit in my bedroom or go out, I've been wanting to move out for over a year now but only ever played with the idea, my Dad has now turned round to me and Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-okay-to-have-sex-on-your.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-okay-to-have-sex-on-your.html so i`m on my period and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but i`m not sure if i should. is it okay to have sex when on your period? what should we do, like lay down a towel? Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-is-mad-about-my-past.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-is-mad-about-my-past.html Hello, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I know I still love him and I know he still cares about me, but he is extremly mad at me for my past. I gave him my msn password because I honestly didn't care if he went on. But before I met him there were old emails that were nudes Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-keep-dreaming-of-my-boyfriend-cheating.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-keep-dreaming-of-my-boyfriend-cheating.html I have had three dreams in a row where my boyfriend is cheating on my with my best friend. The first one - my best friend was trying to hook up with him, and I told her to stay out of our relationship and I kept screaming at her. The second one - I caught them in his bed t Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-first-boyfriend-has-reappeared-in-my-life.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-first-boyfriend-has-reappeared-in-my-life.html I didn't start dating until I was 20, but I never had a serious relationship until I was 23. But the first boy I dated when i was 20, only for 3 months, but he was the sweetest, cutest, most lovely boy, and til now I still think about how wonderful he was. And I was really Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-left-me-financially-insolvent-and-hasnt.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-left-me-financially-insolvent-and-hasnt.html Yahoo!My Yahoo!MailMore Can anyone give me some advice? I'm a little nervous writing this because i really dont want any nasty comments just some advice please. 6 years ago I worked at the same place as my then fiancee and a good friend. I had a house with my fiancee - Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-opinions-here-i-dont-know-whats.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-opinions-here-i-dont-know-whats.html I've been dating this guy now for over 3 months, not exclusively. sunday he told me I was "growing on him" I asked him what he meant and he said that in the begining it didnt really mean anything to him, cos he wasnt looking for anything (he'd just got out of a 3 and a half Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-have-sex-with-my-first-again.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-have-sex-with-my-first-again.html i was wondering what other people thought about this. For many years me and my older cousin(female and 17 years) have been REALLY close.we talk each other often about sex,life and that sort of thing.Is stuff like this normal for first cousins? By the way i do love her not only Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-show-her-that-i-trust.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-show-her-that-i-trust.html Hey there my girlfriend has recently finished me after a two year relationship, she says because she is emotionally drained due to me being quiet mean over the past month ( the reason i have been like this is because she started a new job and a guy was being very flirty and Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/f-i-am-having-all-these-feeling-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/f-i-am-having-all-these-feeling-and.html I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and we are to get married in 2 months. I started dating her 1 year after my ex-girlfriend. Me and the ex had a terrible break up of course cheating was involved. The relationship ended and for the most part I just never spoke about Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-want-to-lie-to-my-parents.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-want-to-lie-to-my-parents.html hi everyone.. i`m spanish, so if i make mistakes,please excuse me i`m 17 years old and i fell in love with a guy who`s 34. i think he might like me too. i`m so confused , i don`t know what to do. i`ve never been in a serious relationship before, but this guy..i think he Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/they-talk-about-other-girls-but-never-ask.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/they-talk-about-other-girls-but-never-ask.html It seems like everyone my age is going out. My best friend went out with one of my guy friends. And my other best friend is going out with my best guy friend. I have more guy friends then i have girl friends. I think about sports and I act like one of the guys. But no one has Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-supposed-to-do-that-blowjob-tips.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-supposed-to-do-that-blowjob-tips.html Recently I gave my boyfriend a blowjob, but it was my first time and I was really nervous. I used to hand to help, and it didn't last long. Basically, he started leaking (I'm guessing he came O.o), but I didn't know whether I was supposed to stop or keep going. Later I gave him Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-choose-my-currnt-bf-or-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-choose-my-currnt-bf-or-my.html i thought i was in love with this lad, everything was going great i thought, then this laad that was my bestfriend as loong as i knew him came along and told me i was gorgeous and a right bird, he keeps calling me gorgeous and beautiful and telling me he likes me, so i started Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-makes-legal-threats-to-people-on-wiki.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-makes-legal-threats-to-people-on-wiki.html I found out on the computer that my husband has been making legal threats to others on Wikipedia under multiple usernames. I confronted him, and he denied it at first, but then admitted it. He said he got a buzz out of winding them up. All he's ever interested in now Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/this-girl-is-like-my-sister-but-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/this-girl-is-like-my-sister-but-i.html okay so there's this girl, she's like my sister we're that close, anyway we drifted apart abit, because i didnt like her boyfriend and one night whilst i was drunk/ hungover, i said a few mean things to her, now we dont speak at all, how can i say sorry for what i did, how can Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-my-cousin-remembers-but-is-afraid.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-my-cousin-remembers-but-is-afraid.html Well... Where to start? My cousin and I had sexual encounters when we were young. We gave each other back rubs or as we called it fratching. I stole 2 pairs of her panties in high school. Then was caught with them. 3 times I felt and fingered her pussy. Recently I told her Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-fallen-for-a-girl-who-is-with.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-fallen-for-a-girl-who-is-with.html About a year a go i realised i was bisexual. I currently have a boyfriend who i have been with for almost 3 years. I am only 19 but i realised something wasn't right. I started to have feelings for girls...especially some of my more closer mates and i'd find myself staring at Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-rdy-to-lose-him-in-our.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-rdy-to-lose-him-in-our.html Dear Cupid, I have 6mos relationship online with a guy from the US. I am from the Philippines. I loved the guy so much and I really care for him. We chatted everyday for more or less 1 hour. He was sweet to me when we were new. But lately, I noticed that his sweetness di Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-pubic-bone-hit-her-nosei-cant-seem.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-pubic-bone-hit-her-nosei-cant-seem.html Ok so this is kind of embarrassing for me and the girl. Iv been messing around with this girl, who i like alot, but two weeks ago while i was receiving some oral sex she decided to stick her finger in my anus. Well i jumped and my pubic bone hit her nose and she began to bleed Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-be-his-everything-but-he.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-be-his-everything-but-he.html I was just on my partner's internet history and I saw that he had been looking up "pegging". For those who don't know this is when a woman penetrates a man's ass with a strapon. I've known for a while he likes femdom [even though I hate it] and looks it up, but there was S Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-wants-penis-enlargement.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-wants-penis-enlargement.html I discovered from a Firefox tab left open by my husband that he'd been viewing pornographic sites with "MEN WITH BIG PACKAGES!! HOT GUYS!" I asked him why he was looking at it, and if he was gay, and he ranted at me about it, saying it's none of my business if he's looking Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/id-like-to-hear-from-lads-whove-actually.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/id-like-to-hear-from-lads-whove-actually.html I'm a gay lad and my new boyfriend has offered to give me anal intercouse. I've never experienced it but would like see what it feels like. I've read all about it and know it can be extremely pleasurable. My boyfriend says he can give me a really good orgasm by pleasuring Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will-wearing-tight-jeans-affect-my-unborn-child.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/will-wearing-tight-jeans-affect-my-unborn-child.html I'm 8 weeks pregnent and like wearing tight jeans,is this gonna affect my baby? Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-moving-away-and-im-worried-he-might.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-moving-away-and-im-worried-he-might.html I've been with my perfect match for about 4 and a half years now. Im totally head over heels in love with the guy and i could imagine a future with him no problem. The only thing stopping me is Fate ;His parents have decided to move and live in France and because of his a Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-justified-in-feeling-suspicious-and-what.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-justified-in-feeling-suspicious-and-what.html I just want to know if what I am feeling is normal and justified or if I'm over-reacting. Here's the story. I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for 10 years and we are engaged but have never got married. We met at Uni and as far as I know have both been fai Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-know-i-should-be-happy-that-he.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-know-i-should-be-happy-that-he.html Please help. I have written before about this. My xbf keeps getting in contact with me - for sex. Silly me thinking he would leave his new gf for me for the amazing things I did for him. She is the complete opposite me and I realized this morning he is never coming back Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-i-make-this-sound-during-sex.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-i-make-this-sound-during-sex.html My vagina has been making this queefing(fart) sound and im just wondering if this is caused because my vagina is loose? The sound is very embarassing and i hate it. My boyfriend said that my vagina is the tightest vagina that he has ever had and i believe him cause he Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-treats-me-badly-makes-me-feel-sad.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-treats-me-badly-makes-me-feel-sad.html Its hard to express how i feel bout my ex do i love him still? Am i jealous of him? I dont know. Me and him have been so back and foward to the point it makes me dizzy. 3 yrs ive spent trying to make him realise and hoping that one day he will change! I never met anyone l Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-says-shes-tired-and-doesnt-feel-sexy.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-says-shes-tired-and-doesnt-feel-sexy.html I am a little concerned about my girlfriend, because a few times when we've been laying on the bed we both know we can feel the sexual tension building up and all of a sudden she will say im tired, or something and then 10 minutes later we might have a cuddle and a kiss and Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-going-out-with-a-guy-she-says.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-going-out-with-a-guy-she-says.html I'm Falling for this girl i know, the problem is she is going out with a guy she says is the one. Should i tell her how im feeling about her? or try to move on? I think i could be her one. Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-girls-enjoy-anal-sex.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-girls-enjoy-anal-sex.html I know this is a really weird question but, do girls enjoy anal sex and anal play? Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-he-loves-me-but-hed-like.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-he-loves-me-but-hed-like.html I've been with my b/friend for 5 yrs. I'm very open minded as in making allowances for other peoples idiosyncracies...But there's never any kissing -which I need to light my spark, and he only ever likes to enter me from behind. It makes me feel like I'm being used. I 've never Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-do-to-make-him-comfortable.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-do-to-make-him-comfortable.html I find it extremely difficult to become aroused from manual stimulation, whether it's by myself or by my boyfriend. So I purchased a rampant rabbit which is wonderful - but the only downside is I don't like the penis part (it's too hard), so I came up with what I thought was a Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-has-suddenly-become-jealous-and-suspiciouswhy.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-has-suddenly-become-jealous-and-suspiciouswhy.html My wife has recently become excessively jealous of the women I work with. I'm not jealous of her socialising with other guys - far from it - so I don't get why she's like this. She seems to think I'll sleep with any other woman in sight - even though I'm loyal and kind. Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-him-i-told-him-but-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-him-i-told-him-but-i.html Okay, I love this guy and have since the first day we met. But every time we go out (date) i always end up breaking up with him,. We both tell each other we still have feelings for one another. But recently he asked me if it was okay if he asked one of my closest friends Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-teacher-moved-to-chicago-and-i-miss.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-teacher-moved-to-chicago-and-i-miss.html I need help,I think I might love my teacher, but he is the same gender as I am. I thaought at first I didn't because I liked this girl,but now were just good friends. Since summer is over,I miss him a lot since he move to chicago and he is my insparation. I think about himm Fri, 3 Jul 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/did-i-do-the-right-thing-to-say.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/did-i-do-the-right-thing-to-say.html Ok so me and my ex were going out for about 4 months and i have been feeling a little captivated in our relationship. Like he expected more out of me than i can give, he also did little things like tell me what i couldnt wear (cloths, make up, ect.), and how to wear my hair.