http://www.dearcupid.org Agony aunt for relationships, love, dating, sex tips and advice Thu, 17 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-been-interested-in-my-friend-for-over.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-been-interested-in-my-friend-for-over.html I have been interested in a girl for over three years. I've never looked at another woman the same way. We are very good friends and we share a mutual friend. The reason I never said anything to her was because I discussed it with our mutual friend and he told me that not Thu, 17 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-and-i-no-longer-have-sex.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-and-i-no-longer-have-sex.html I've been in a committed gay relationship for over 5 years now. My boyfriend and I no longer have sex, and it's been long past a year since we have done anything sexual with each other at all. We have discussed it several times, he even went to a doctor. Essentially what Thu, 17 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-thinks-i-cheated-on-him-but.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-thinks-i-cheated-on-him-but.html So I'm 18 and my Boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 15. His birthday is coming up in about 3months and I wanted to get him something special for his birthday. And he's been wanting a guitar since forever. So I was planning on getting him one. And I have a really Thu, 17 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-wrong-to-have-doubts-in-your.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-wrong-to-have-doubts-in-your.html Is it wrong to have doubts in your relationship? I love my boyfriend, very much, but I find myself second guessing things. We started out amazing! We both felt an instant click and in no time at all it was like we had known each other for years. The first time I told him I Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-lose-contact-with-her-or-should.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-lose-contact-with-her-or-should.html Okay I haven't asked any help for awhile, but I am starting to have problems again. So I have a friend that is also in my English class. We started as friends and soon we started dating. We were fine for the first two weeks we started dating until other situations came Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-have-a-penis-am-i-ever.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-have-a-penis-am-i-ever.html When my boyfriend looks at porn, it's of transvestites. i've also found emails where he's talked to transvestites. When i ask about it he gets really upset and denies everything. i'm very hurt that he won't be open with me. He's admitted to liking to wear women's clothing, Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-stick-it-out-and-hope-that.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-stick-it-out-and-hope-that.html Hello, I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. This is my first boyfriend. Everything was great for the first few years - we got on extremely well and we really did love each other. We went to the same university and everything started to go wrong, Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-in-love-with-me-or-her.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-in-love-with-me-or-her.html My bf and i were apart from eachoder but started calling me the day i finished writing my exams, and he declared his love for me that he still has feelings for me and we got back together. Lately, he's been asking me of my sis whom he saw her pics. i dont answer any question Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-i-not-respect-myself-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-i-not-respect-myself-.html This is so embarrassing: I am in my forties, a grown up woman, an excellent mother, I have been told my son is a credit to me, I raised him on my own. My problem: I dated a cheating lying man for 5 years on and off, on and off as I wanted to end it but he kept coming back Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-know-is-how-do-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-know-is-how-do-i.html I started a new job at a local hotel around 2 months ago with another woman who is older than me. We started off cleaning front of house and i would occasionally work in the laundry. At first we got on really well then it all changed when we were moved to housekeeping. I wa Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-dad-wont-let-me-go-back-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-dad-wont-let-me-go-back-to.html Pls help! My brother and i moved from our homeland another city. My parents are seperated that's one of reason my dad(in Uk) sent us to live with his brother and wife. Since we came here iv always been doleful. I have missed my mom, friends, nd especially my bf. I wanted 2 go Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fiance-middle-aged-seems-to-have-two.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fiance-middle-aged-seems-to-have-two.html My fiance (middle aged) seems to have two different personalities. He dotes on me at home and is so loving and attentive and this is when I love him the most. It's when we go out in public that he becomes mesmerized by other women and stares over at them in front of me, Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-acts-odd-with-me--what.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-ex-acts-odd-with-me--what.html what does it mean my ex broke up with me 5 years ago wanted to be friends with me but i turned her down and then we fell out and havent spoken since she acts odd around me she wont talk about it and has ago at her mate when im at the same pub as her she stares at me whe Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-been-having-problems-getting-hard.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-been-having-problems-getting-hard.html Hi, I've been with my husband for 8 yeras now, and lately he's been having problems getting hard, he tried some naturals pills and some vitamis, it worked at the beggining but now is worst, sometimes even with the oral sex he doesn't get hard, sometimes I think he's cheating on Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-keep-my-relationship-with-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-keep-my-relationship-with-my.html How can i keep my relationship with my boyfriend exciting? We get along great! Weve now been together 7 years and would love to move in together but at the moment need to wait for me to finish my studies which is another 18 months ish as at the moment we cant afford it. Were Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-know-is-it-a-good.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-know-is-it-a-good.html Just want some thoughts on my situation. I have been in a serious relationship with my guy for 6 months, serious meaning we both want long term and to eventually move in, etc. We are both in our 40s and had previous relationships. A month ago we talked about getting engaged Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-insecure--i-dont-trust-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-insecure--i-dont-trust-my.html I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months an we have a good relationship she is a dancer an has been for about six months she says she hates her job an trust me when I say so do I!!!! We have known eachother for years she has been ingaged 3 times an we have always had Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-want-our-kids-to-have-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-want-our-kids-to-have-my.html I imagine this question is going to spark a lot of controversy.Me and my fiance have been talking about kids lately. Why I have no idea. But she keeps saying about the kids have her last name. but she has already said that when we get married she is going to take my last name. Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/since-my-parents-argue-all-the-time-ive.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/since-my-parents-argue-all-the-time-ive.html Okay. Im from a family where parents always quarrel with one another, and there s nothing i can do about it. So ive been looking at my future alone the other day and something just came up in my mind that i cant have a family because having a family s tough (picturing my mom), Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/her-mother-has-heard-my-wife-is-escorting.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/her-mother-has-heard-my-wife-is-escorting.html my wife has been working as an escort since 2009 and is quite satisfied with what she does. it causes no problems in our marriage. we are financially stable now and invest 75 percent of everything she makes. she pays her taxes and even lists her occupation on the irs form as Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-as-bad-as-i-think-it.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-as-bad-as-i-think-it.html Is this as bad as i think it is? i have been on and off with a guy who is a bit older than me for 4 yrs now and there is the same cycle every couple of weeks..........he goes mental at me for sumfin silly and acts like a physco he'll threaten me and call me every name he can t Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-you-truly-know-if-this-is.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-you-truly-know-if-this-is.html Hi i was hoping to get advice on how do you know if the person you are with is The One!! i'm in a relationship, in fact living with my boyfriend for the past year and a bit. we have talked about the future, marriage, family etc i do love him and care for him deeply, but ther Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-over-was-i-wrong-will-he.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-over-was-i-wrong-will-he.html me and my aquarius man have been together for two mounths now we are happy as ever when around eachother inseparable whenever theres a disagreement between us two we manage to work through it and except eachothers wishes lately i can honestly i can be a brat and i am Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/wondering-if-this-is-normal-for-a-vagina.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/wondering-if-this-is-normal-for-a-vagina.html Hi, Well recently I am curious to know whats normal about vaginas. I've been checked for STD's and i'm all clear. But my vagina is redish colour and if I touch around the hole it can be quite tender. I find sex uncomfortable-but I put that down to I don't have it very often li Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-ended-it-so-why-do-i-feel.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-ended-it-so-why-do-i-feel.html On another note, Im a junior righ now. I had an ex bf who I dated for 2 years and 3 months. We broke up this school year. He's a freshmen in college. I broke up with him because he did drugs and drank, plus, I was starting to fall for another guy that was my age and in fear of Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-does-a-man-feel-when-hes-in.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-does-a-man-feel-when-hes-in.html I know this might sound weird but How does a man feel when he's in love or when he really loves a girl and how he feela he's willing to do ?!! I know it sounds stupid but me as a girl I know how girls feel about a guy when they really love him and what they're willing to do and Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-hasnt-he-told-his-parents-his-friends.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-hasnt-he-told-his-parents-his-friends.html Hello. I'm getting married in 5 months, my bf proposed a few months ago. It was an out of the blue proposal, we never discussed marriage and I'd never forced him into proposing at all. I love him so much and he sure loves me back a lot. We're both real excited about the Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-this-urge-to-kiss-him.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-this-urge-to-kiss-him.html Hi everyone I am hoping you can help me figure out what to do here with this little, er, problem. So i have this male friend and we're very close. The only problem is lately i have this urge to kiss him. I haven't done anything about it but the feelings are getting str Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-happening-here-is-my-landlord-attracted56.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-happening-here-is-my-landlord-attracted56.html Hi everyone. I recently started renting and my landlord seems a nice guy..polite in the way he talks and treats everyone around him. My house is not completed so from time to time we communicate on the plans for the day. He keeps calling me dear..but I thought it was just his Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/did-he-love-me-when-he-was-with56.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/did-he-love-me-when-he-was-with56.html Hi, I don’t even know in what situation I am going through now. My name is Beloved (fake name) The year of 2011 was a great year for me for both in good and bad terms. Firstly when I say in good terms, it means I found a guy (25) of my dreams in the month of February Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-accept-my-boyfriends-sexual-history67.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-accept-my-boyfriends-sexual-history67.html Hello readers. Im here for looking for help. My boyfriend and me, we have knew each other for a while, about half an year. And he shares his sex history with me. and it freaked me out. And actrully Im really really sad about it. Im 20 and im still a virgin, I hope I can giv Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have-i-made-the-right-decision-to-leave56.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have-i-made-the-right-decision-to-leave56.html I have been married for 6 yrs and for the rest of the six yrs my husband has never be faithful. He had atleast 7 affairs just in one yr - dont ask me how he does it but yrs to an extend he was dating 4 other women at a go. He has never just once shown any sympathy towards Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/worried-about-messing-things-up-with-my-date457.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/worried-about-messing-things-up-with-my-date457.html Hi I have a date coming up next weekend I like the guy he seems like a really nice person and he's good looking but I'm so worried and nervous as I'm a single mum to a 3 year old girl and have been alone with her since she was born. I always attract the wrong sort of men but I Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-come-out-from-exta-marital-affair.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-come-out-from-exta-marital-affair.html I've an extra marital affair from last 6months. I'm emotionally connected with him but I don't understand does he really loves me or he is only after physical relationship? He doesn't have a kid nd completed 6yrs. Of his marriage. I have a adopted daughter.Me nd my husband r Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-still-date-him-even-though-he.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-still-date-him-even-though-he.html Alright so here is my story. About a month ago I met a guy who wasn't my type, and is 9 years older than me. He is 28 and i'm 19 almost 20. Despite me not thinking anything would happen between us we had good conversation. A coffee date turned into dinner, which turned into a 1 Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-i-keep-going-back-to-my.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-i-keep-going-back-to-my.html Dear Cupid my bf of 2 years is emotionally abusing me, always ignoring me, treats me like shit, never apologize and always finding one reason to another to stop spending time with me. Its been very long since we even talked for more than 5 mts. I know i need to leave hi Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-like-each-other-but-well-be-10.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-like-each-other-but-well-be-10.html This is real complicated. This guy and I found out we both liked each other a couple of days ago, but the problem is, we will soon be 10+ hours of flight apart. We've hung out together on a few dates, held hands, kissed, cuddled. But the problem is, we kind of left things open Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ldr-with-not-much-support-and-low-communication.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ldr-with-not-much-support-and-low-communication.html I like a girl which I met at the Superdome in Leyte, Phils. Currently, I live in Iloilo City... We are far from each other.... And I really really want to make something between us... Even though... We just met a month ago and we dont have much exposure to ourselves... Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-a-beautiful-woman-but-very-demanding-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-a-beautiful-woman-but-very-demanding-and.html I am in a relationship with a "now"divorced woman of 52 yrs.We regularly have discussions,and Im told repeatedly...Im shouting at her/raising my voice,but she has 50%hearing loss in both ears,she wont wear aids....she feels like because she pays most things...rent etc...I have Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-often-should-i-call-this-girl.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-often-should-i-call-this-girl.html There's this girl i met through my bro. She's his friend's sister. she's cool, beautiful, brilliant, has vision, we have a lot of things in common. I've been talking to her for a while and all of a sudden i started developing feelings for her. We went on a walk recently and she Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-talk-to-a-shy-foreign.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-talk-to-a-shy-foreign.html Hello everyone! I just wanted your opinion on something. Like if I am going about this the right way? I believe I posted a few posts about this months ago. But just to recap. There is this very shy, very quiet Vietnamese boy that goes to my school. I like him, but it has been Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-sure-i-have-many-faults-in-this.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-sure-i-have-many-faults-in-this.html I'm having trouble with my marriage... My husband has been down in the dumps lately. He's not happy and neither am I. I don't exactly know where the problem lies, but there are a few issues with his job that seem the most likely. See, his job takes him away from home for go Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/worried-im-losing-my-best-friend45.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/worried-im-losing-my-best-friend45.html I feel like me and my best friend is falling apart and slowly drifting away. I'm a guy and my bestfriend is a girl. It's really hard talking with her as a bestfriend especially when I have no experience of talking to a girl from a bestfriend point of view. We use to talk a lot Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-cant-say-no-to-door-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-cant-say-no-to-door-to.html I am so frustrated w/my spouse. We don't agree with how to handle door-to-door salesmen. I prefer not to answer the door. It spares their feelings, and keeps them from wasting my time. My husband on the other hand cannot resist answering the door, and then he gets trapped for Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-ask-if-he-is-still-interested.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-ask-if-he-is-still-interested.html Hey. So theres this guy that has a huge crush on me. Hes one of my best guyfriends. He asked me out a week or two ago and i declined because i didnt like him like that. Now that ive talked to him more and had one-on-one time with him, hes starting to grow on me! I can tell he Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-my-boyfriend-never-compliment-me.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-my-boyfriend-never-compliment-me.html My significant other tells me that he loves me from time to time, but he almost never compliments me. It always seems like a chore for him to do. I told already that it bothers me when he doesn't tell me nice things every once in a while but about 2 years have passed and he Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mom-is-dating-a-33-year-old.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mom-is-dating-a-33-year-old.html My mom who is 49 years old is now dating a guy who is 33 years old and I don't know how to feel about the whole situation. I mean he's closer in age to me than her, she's never done anything like this before so I don't know whats going on. She has dated a few men in the past Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-by-my-family-knowing-we.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-by-my-family-knowing-we.html I had an affair with the father of the child I was a nanny for. After doing this for 18 month the guilt became to much and even though I love him I told him we had to end things because he was married. He left his wife and filed for divorce so we could be together and as much Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-did-i-have-to-cry-in-this.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-did-i-have-to-cry-in-this.html Hi. I have an unusual issue that I think is linked between a rather strange dream I had. Here's background on it: 6 months ago, I got dumped, in the most ruthless way possible. (By Instant Messenger + the dumper was LYING to me, and actually KNEW I trusted her with Wed, 16 May 2012 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-parents-favor-my-sister-over-me-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-parents-favor-my-sister-over-me-and.html Hi DearCupid, I'd like your opinion on this. I am 20 and my sister is 16. We both live at home with our parents. I work full time, she has a part time job. My parents have spent hundreds of dollars on her for clothes, sports events, parties, shoes, etc. This is not because t