http://www.dearcupid.org Agony aunt for relationships, love, dating, sex tips and advice Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-could-be-the-reason-for-very-bad.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-could-be-the-reason-for-very-bad.html What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details , as it it is always Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-risk-the-friendship-and-tell-him.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-risk-the-friendship-and-tell-him.html I met my best friend 2 years ago when I landed a new job. We talk on the phone several times a day, text, and can't go to sleep without saying goodnight to each other. We have talked about each other in romantic terms before and discussed that we find each other attractive, but Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/creepy-friend-keeps-asking-for-hugs.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/creepy-friend-keeps-asking-for-hugs.html So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the "when you touch me too much, it Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-a-crush-on-this-girl-but.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-a-crush-on-this-girl-but.html Hi guys, I have a crush on this girl and we are quite close friends, she is 15 and i am 14, we've been going to places together etc. for a while now, but, i want to go out with her, although she already has a bf. What should i do? Ride it out and see if they break up? T Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-right-or-wrong-to-tell-your.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-right-or-wrong-to-tell-your.html Is it right or wrong to tell your boyfriend that someone he thought was a friend said bad things about him before we got together? Or does it just drag me to her level to tell? Background: This girl possibly had a thing for my boyfriend before we got together, but she was Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-do-you-aunts-think--does-he.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-do-you-aunts-think--does-he.html Before i met my boyfriend he had a female friend whom he was proposing to bit she preferred to be friends. They were very close and did everything that lovers do except for sex(so he says). After we got together he told her about me and she was disappointed. My guess is she Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-my-aunts-dream-mean-im-pregnant.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-my-aunts-dream-mean-im-pregnant.html My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a child bt if i am pregnant i'm Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-texts-his-ex-and-another-girl-is.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-texts-his-ex-and-another-girl-is.html my boyfriend and i got 2gether a couple of months ago. his girlfriend split up him then he got with me but he constantly keeps texting her and texting this other girl that he constantly talks about. he met up with her, had a couple of drinks and this weekend he is staying Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-ex-or-the-new-guy.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-ex-or-the-new-guy.html Tonight I have set up a date with a person I met online approx 3 weeks ago..We hit it off via phone and we text when we have time. He has his own business so he works long hours, but he finds time to date. He is looking for that special woman...in my eyes what he is looking Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-he-mean-by-give-it-some.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-he-mean-by-give-it-some.html What does it mean if a guy says "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way"? I am going through rough time very stressed, I caused a fight with my boyfriend and said some mean and hurtful things to him and broke up. I have apologized to him, he told me he still lo Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-ask-him-to-make-sex.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-ask-him-to-make-sex.html I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should be. He goes about it the same exa Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-tackle-this-problem-of-watching.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-tackle-this-problem-of-watching.html hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, whenever I wake up in the Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-going-out-with-someone-new-but-im.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-going-out-with-someone-new-but-im.html Ok well I have posted a lot about a guy and its been over for a while now but I met this really good guy and he treats me like I deserve but I still feel that I really was in love with the last one. And real love doesn't come every day. I'm not feeling anything towards this Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-in-love-with-my-professor.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-in-love-with-my-professor.html I'm in love with my professor. That first of all is the fact. I am now a graduating student in college, and this semester, he is not my teacher anymore. He was my teacher last semester, and I didn't feel this way. We only smile at each other when we pass by each other around Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-come-clean-and-tell-him-the.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-come-clean-and-tell-him-the.html Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet and he seems fine with that, Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-got-my-friends-wife-pregnant-now-hes.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-got-my-friends-wife-pregnant-now-hes.html Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got married. So I have a few concerns Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-it-the-appeal-of-bad-boys.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-it-the-appeal-of-bad-boys.html Girls like badboys? I was at the bar the other night and me and my friend got into a conversation with two other nice young ladies and one of the bar tenders. First I must make the assumption that all girls are attracted to 'bad boys' and in the end they get the girls, but Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-loved-her-for-all-these-years-but.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-loved-her-for-all-these-years-but.html Hi I dated my class sweet heart in high school for 4 years, I went into the Army right after school, I broke up with her the day before school got out, because I was off to the Army the next day. 8 years later I got out, about six months later, I ran into a friend of hers Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/things-seem-awkward-but-i-think-he-might.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/things-seem-awkward-but-i-think-he-might.html Hey i wrote up two days ago and thanks to "Another_Kapiti" who wrote back to me but just to give you an update. It was a very long question about this guy that i needed to tell him i really loved him but didnt wanna risk our friendship because he alwyas seemed to like me but s Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-14-years-old-and-never-had-a.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-14-years-old-and-never-had-a.html i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ok but all of my family say i a Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-he-got-me-a-ring.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-he-got-me-a-ring.html My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 years mow. Things have been beyond wonderful lately, we're both going to school, and working towards our future. He also mentions kids and marriage in a few years, but doesn't like long engagements. Well, the other day he told Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-would-my-boyfriend-suddenly-exclude-me-from.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-would-my-boyfriend-suddenly-exclude-me-from.html i was wondering, last night was my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together almost 3 years on and off. Every year weve spent it together, last night he excluded me from hanging out at his local bar where ive been with him before and met his friends. im just curious as to why Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-no-but-his-actions-say-yes.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-no-but-his-actions-say-yes.html not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few months for the both of us i have d Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-see-a-future-with-her-but.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-see-a-future-with-her-but.html I started seeing this girl who I have known since high school but we have been out of touch for about 12 years. She is a single mother and from the beginning I didn’t feel ready for a committed relationship. But I always liked her and still decided to go out with her. I foun Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-dated-celebrities-and-im-not-sure.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-dated-celebrities-and-im-not-sure.html I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later and she asked why I didnt Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-normal-to-think-sex-is-disgusting.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-normal-to-think-sex-is-disgusting.html I am 33 yrs old and could care less if I had sex again!! It's gross, and disgusting I have to be drunk to have sex with my husband. Is that normal, and how do you think I should handle it? Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-do-guys-want-a-girl-to-do.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-do-guys-want-a-girl-to-do.html Ok so... this actually a question for guys. What are guys really looking for? When I'm with my bf I'm sometimes a bit stiff and don't move a lot. I know that all guys are different, but in general how do guys like to be touched? Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-he-mean-by-you-have-to.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-he-mean-by-you-have-to.html I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is favors. No connections or Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-is-worried-about-our-future.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-is-worried-about-our-future.html I need help and i dont wat to do. My gf and i who ive been with for 4 and a half months and we both love eachother, are having a weird issue thats happened b4. We both go to the same school and hang out all the time, however recently, since the Christmas holidays are coming Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-advice-on-my-cheating-girlfriend.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-advice-on-my-cheating-girlfriend.html Hey guys im rather upset about this but just wanted some constructive feedback and others opinions on it. last night my girlfriend of 4 years went to her male friends house and just them two were drinking until they were completely wasted and her brother picked her up ve Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-tell-me-what-these-secretions-are.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-tell-me-what-these-secretions-are.html i am almost 16 now. about 6 months back, i was sleeping when i got these really erotic dreams. now usually if i get erotic dreams there's semen secretion. but the next morning when i woke up, there was no semen. but instead, there was this really fine crystal sort of particle Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-anyone-dealt-with-a-passive-aggressive-man.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-anyone-dealt-with-a-passive-aggressive-man.html Has anyone dealt with and know what a Passive Aggressive man is? I am in the midst of a two year battle of divorce because he continues to lie and drag his feet to produce things needed for court etc. He says he is " praying for me". He lies about eveything it seems...yet Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-slept-with-me-even-though-he-had.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-slept-with-me-even-though-he-had.html ok so here goes... i met this man who says he really likes me. we did oral sex but nothing else he texted me and rang all the time and i met up with him again and had unprotected sex. he continued to tell me he really liked me ect and we arranged ro meet up again. he was ok but Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-turn-my-fwb-into-something.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-turn-my-fwb-into-something.html So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online schooling and never get to see hime Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mother-is-a-compulsive-hoarder.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-mother-is-a-compulsive-hoarder.html My mother is a compulsive hoarder. She has been for as long as I can possibly remember, and once my father left it took over everything. I remember rushing to clean my house on my tenth birthday, so the friends I had invited over wouldn't see how much of a mess the house really Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-leave-my-married-boss-and.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-leave-my-married-boss-and.html Hi everyone, i really need help. I am 21, i am a student, i live here on my own. My parents live in another country.Last year i started working and yeah beginning my boss was trying wooing me all the time and i didn't really like him, cause he is 2 times my age. i spend ti Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have-i-lost-him-for-good.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/have-i-lost-him-for-good.html First I'm new to this site. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Well would be two years in twelve days. Everything was perfect. he has a child with another women before we met. His daughter is two. In the first two months of our relationship his baby mama had contacted Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-anyone-lost-weight-while-pregnant.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-anyone-lost-weight-while-pregnant.html hiya well im 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am really confused. im getting a nice round bump but other than that have lost nearly 2 stone since i became pregnant and am worried that it could hurt my baby if i carry on losing weight has anyone else had this befor Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-explain-this-to-him-so.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-explain-this-to-him-so.html I met my ex boyfriend through work although i didn't want to start anything in the beginning because i had just broken up with someone and he lived a very long way away from me. After around 6-9 months we started talking every day on the phone, things were going well and so he Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-get-pregnant-how-do-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-get-pregnant-how-do-i.html [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the same post] Question 1: When me and my boyfriend have sex we never use condoms. he always just pulls out. well the other night we had sex and he pulled out and came near my bottom but then he went bac Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-spend-the-rest-of-m3.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-spend-the-rest-of-m3.html i have asked this questions,he doesn't want to marry a person who already have a child,is he using me until he finds someone for his life and i want to stop cheating but he dont satisfy me sexually.all this questions are from me and it speaks of the same person,i really love Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-you-forget-the-person-you-are.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-you-forget-the-person-you-are.html Hi to all. Anybody who can give some effective tips on how to forget a person whom you love so much that you can't live without him. I am waiting for your tips. Thank you. Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-just-wont-touch-kiss-or-hold-meand.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-just-wont-touch-kiss-or-hold-meand.html Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a very intensive program, and for Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-claims-he-will-change-if-i.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-claims-he-will-change-if-i.html I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I had to accept living there, Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-question-him-about-this-or-leave.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-question-him-about-this-or-leave.html Hi I would really like the aunts interpreration of this man. I'm in a relationship with a guy we are both around 60. we have great sex and enjoy it very much.but sometimes he doesn't cum like today he always tells me how beautiful the love making is and he is always kind and Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-doesnt-show-any-emotions-even-though-we.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-doesnt-show-any-emotions-even-though-we.html My boyfriend and I are on a break. I've been sad, but he doesn't feel any emotions at all. He's broken up with me at least four times, and each time he wasn't coming back. Each time he told me he doesn't love me anymore, but in the end, he comes back to me. I feel so sad wh Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-jealous-of-his-past-will-i-always.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-jealous-of-his-past-will-i-always.html I grew up in a very religious home (no sex before marriage). I grew out of my religion, but my health kept me from having fun. I've met a great guy, (who i lost my virginity to at 23) but he has a lot of experience, with the pics to prove it. We've been together about two and a Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-nice-guys-finish-last--help-me.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-nice-guys-finish-last--help-me.html I'm a 25 year old virgin and I've never been in a relationship I feel at this point it's almost hopeless, the bad part is, is that, I'm almost ready to accept the fact that I will live out my life being alone and never understanding what love feels like. It's just hard Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ex-still-wants-sexual-favors-why.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ex-still-wants-sexual-favors-why.html my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we are not together. If we are not Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:00:00 GMT http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fifteen-and-i-want-a-baby-now-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fifteen-and-i-want-a-baby-now-.html Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a lot, I've done research on