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| | pepper27's profile:Hi peeps (:0) IM BACK JIM BUT NOT AS YOU NO IT!!!Is that how it went?
Well most of you nice guys no me as MANDY! So that is what it will be to my friends old and new...Been through a tad of a spin cycle so needed time out...Thankyou for all your support YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE (:0) Your the best all of you XXXXX Squidgy hugs all around!!!!
A bit about me.. Ive been married divorced and married again, Ive been in violent realationships and come out in one piece..Ive had alsorts of ups n downs...I have a strong spiritual belief that keeps me on track..IF ANGELS COULD WISH, Their wishes would not be for what we would do, But for what we would be in the midst of blessings as well as misfortune....
I like to help anyone I can, I love animals, Reading (If I get time) I have 3 children 26yrs 19yrs and 11yrs all spaced out!!!!:) Im happy hippy n hoppy and act my shoe size never my age, I nursed for quite a few years never got my qualifications never got time,(Im back nursing again and enjoying every minute of it) But enjoyed the hands on one to one helping and healing of my clients...Many a learning experience was to be had there...
When we belive in each other we act as angels, offering our confidence and the power of our faith. It is no small thing to look in another's eyes, straight and true, and say with sincerity, "I BELIVE IN YOU." XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX |
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I hate limbo... some advice please?
Q. I am 21 years old and I am worried that I will never find true passionate love. My biggest worry in the world is no one will ever love me in that passionate head over heels, one and only way. I don't connect with people my own age, because ...
A. 10 October 2008: Hi Sweetheart
Ive read ur question and it speaks volumes about how you have had to grow up so very quickly but also how terrible parts of your life were...I havent much time to talk now as I have work, But I would like to speak later and try and ... (read in full...)
Do women have morals?
Q. I had a Japanese friend who once joked that 'women have no morals!' I can't remember what we were talking about but, having read a lot of forums, here and elsewhere, this is what seems apparent:- Men, when considering cheating on their partne...
A. 10 October 2008: Annalisa darling as you do not really no diovan then im sure as the bible says you should not judge anyone in life hugs mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: well all I had was ooops something went wrong!!!!!!!!as I posted and all I can say is YOUR TELLING ME OOOPS! You only have to read it once love wot a day XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Sorry hun to pop that right as it sounded back to front maybe her sexuality is confusing her, She is going back to her past relationship, Not looking you in the eye is like hiding away from the truth..And when I mean she may need a friend sometimes ... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Sorry hun to pop that right as it sounded back to front maybe her sexuality is confusing her, She is going back to her past relationship, Not looking you in the eye is like hiding away from the truth..And when I mean she may need a friend sometimes ... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Sorry hun to pop that right as it sounded back to front maybe her sexuality is confusing her, She is going back to her past relationship, Not looking you in the eye is like hiding away from the truth..And when I mean she may need a friend sometimes ... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Sorry hun to pop that right as it sounded back to front maybe her sexuality is confusing her, She is going back to her past relationship, Not looking you in the eye is like hiding away from the truth..And when I mean she may need a friend sometimes ... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Sorry hun to pop that right as it sounded back to front maybe her sexuality is confusing her, She is going back to her past relationship, Not looking you in the eye is like hiding away from the truth..And when I mean she may need a friend sometimes ... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Sorry hun to pop that right as it sounded back to front maybe her sexuality is confusing her, She is going back to her past relationship, Not looking you in the eye is like hiding away from the truth..And when I mean she may need a friend sometimes ... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Sorry hun to pop that right as it sounded back to front maybe her sexuality is confusing her, She is going back to her past relationship, Not looking you in the eye is like hiding away from the truth..And when I mean she may need a friend sometimes ... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Sorry hun to pop that right as it sounded back to front maybe her sexuality is confusing her, She is going back to her past relationship, Not looking you in the eye is like hiding away from the truth..And when I mean she may need a friend sometimes ... (read in full...)
Does sex disappear in all relationships?
Q. hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...
A. 9 October 2008: Hi Hunny
I think she is depressed and wants or wanted to try something different and it hasnt worked for her the way she had hoped, She cant talk because she really doesnt no what she wants. It sounds as if she is going through the past and all she ... (read in full...)
I've had two miscarriages now, should I wait to try again like people keep saying or listen to the Dr's and try when I feel ready?
Q. I have had two miscarriages close together (April 08 and August 08) - at around 8wks each time. My husband and I are quite devastated following the second. The first we put down to bad luck, but when it happened again it got us worrying. However, ...
A. 8 October 2008: Hi Hunny
First sorry to hear of your pain sweetheart, If your doctor says it ok to go ahead and you are happy to try then it is entirely up to your choices as parents to try for another child when you feel comfortable to do so. The body itself will... (read in full...)
UPDATE - He dictates everything, I'm confused!!!!!!!
Q. Hi everyone... For those that were on a very long journey with me on my first thread I wanted to come on to give you an update Firstly though the support time and advice you all gave me is still truly valued and I have taken it all with me whic...
A. 7 October 2008: Hi Hunny bunny
Remember as soon as they are back in your life they will use and abuse and make you feel like crap, And yes you are worth more than that hunny, You are the sweetest kindest most caring person I have had the pleasure to speak with ther... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now and it seems as though we hardly talk or see each other anymore.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now and it seems as though we hardly talk or see each other anymore. He graduated from college last semester and I graduate next semester and he was just put in charge of ROTC at our school. I...
A. 6 October 2008: hi sweetheart
That is the question Id be asking him, 2 1/2 Yrs is a good while and to be honest with you Id have got hold of him by now not on the phn by the neck n asked him what was going on as you'd like to be popped in the picture as your bore... (read in full...)
I am totally stumped as to what to get for my best friend's birthday, any ideas?
Q. It's not exactly a question and I guess you guys see this type of question on here often, but I need help. It's my really close friend's birthday soon and I don't know what to get her. I was thinking of doing something based on our friendship t...
A. 6 October 2008: Hi Love
Ive just got a lovely braclet with efalumps on (elephants hunny) Ive got a young friend and she always puts so much thought into what she gets and it is always something special to that persons heart love, You could get her some Jewe... (read in full...)
How do I give her a "screaming orgasm"???
Q. Hi, i have either a very usual or unusual question. I dont know how to give my GF a "screaming orgasm" I mean, i have given her one but it isnt enough... She doesnt cum and doesnt moan like my friends say she sould. The way i do is just rub my ...
A. 6 October 2008: well qcumbr1 has a very good point!!!!You can involve toys as well hun, Women are all different..Its also a great turn on if your inside her while mabe she does the clitirol stimulation, This will also turn you on and her and you will both blow ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want solitude?
Q. I'm a really quiet person...and I like weekends to be spent all by myself, in my room..doing homework or reading a book. Or going to the gym. That's how I am. I go out with friends sometimes...but not often. And I don't have a huge group like most ...
A. 5 October 2008: Hi sweetheart
You can be who you choose to be and do what makes you happy, It means that you are a confident person who is happy in your own company. What others think shouldnt worry you love as if they are real friends they will accept you for who ... (read in full...)
Is taking responsibility for his actions?
Q. I want to know if my ex is sincerely apologetic. I broke up with him a year ago, and just emailed him yesterday asking if he is at all sorry for how he treated me. He said he made a huge mistake in leaving to Florida without me for two months right ...
A. 5 October 2008: Hi Hunny
If you see the abusive side more than you see the good side then you did the right thing, No one should force you to do anything against your will. Why was it so important to him to make you do these things, So he felt in control! You felt... (read in full...)
Do some women prefer to deal with men at arms length?
Q. Good morning. I appreciate that all men are different and that all women are different. Could someone explain to me (in a work related context) why a woman would turn down one guy's approach face-to-face by saying 'let's just be friends' whereas she ...
A. 4 October 2008: love n hugs someones got my line there its not me strange anon person love n hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Do some women prefer to deal with men at arms length?
Q. Good morning. I appreciate that all men are different and that all women are different. Could someone explain to me (in a work related context) why a woman would turn down one guy's approach face-to-face by saying 'let's just be friends' whereas she ...
A. 3 October 2008: Hi Hunny
I imagine it all depends on how close you are to the said person, If you were already friends with the one that asked you out and felt comfortable with them then it may be alot easier to say lets just be friends. But then that could be beca... (read in full...)
He snorts pills! Should I stay or should I leave him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. We both are so in love. He had a problem with snorting pills when we first got together. He's promised and sworn on my life that he has stopped for a year and a half. Recently his Mom ...
A. 2 October 2008: Hi Hunny
Your b/f has a addiction a real problem that he needs help with.. Snorting just makes the effects kick in quicker, because its a more direct pathway...He probably used to take large numbers of prescribed drugs love and then found the feel... (read in full...)
I love my wife but since I resumed contact with a girl I liked 14 years ago, I feel very sad and lost as my old feelings came flooding back.
Q. I have been happily married for 7 years and with my wife for a grand total of 14 years. I can honestley say that in all that time I have never looked at another woman. Before I met my wife there was another girl that I had strong feelings for and ...
A. 1 October 2008: Sweetheart
Stop hating yourself and getting depressed not easy but listen, You are going back years, Years ago when you had wonderful feelings for someone and sometimes hunny we never forget how wonderfull another person can make us feel and we get ... (read in full...)
What do younger guys think about FWB?
Q. Hey, just a quick question - what do younger guys think about the whole 'friends with benefits' idea? Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and although I get lonely and miserable, I don't want another committed relationship for a good while. I ...
A. 30 September 2008: well done hunny for putting that anon male right, Some do not read the question properly at all do they...As for the last male anon post what is it with guys who dont understand that women enjoy sex without the relationship attached why is so hard ... (read in full...)
I really want my dad to go! At least when my parents divorce the fighting will stop.
Q. hey! i'd love to have your advice. i dont know if its ok to ask here because its not really a relationship/love or something question i think. my dad and my mum just told us three kids that they will break up. my dad works in a hospital and chea...
A. 30 September 2008: Sorry love the first link did not work I hope the second one will help XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
I really want my dad to go! At least when my parents divorce the fighting will stop.
Q. hey! i'd love to have your advice. i dont know if its ok to ask here because its not really a relationship/love or something question i think. my dad and my mum just told us three kids that they will break up. my dad works in a hospital and chea...
A. 30 September 2008: Hi Hun
I really feel for you. I myself as a mother have been in the same position and my eldest son did not wish to see his father and was concerned that he would be made to visit or even live with him, This was not the case over here Im not to s... (read in full...)
What kind of message can I send him on Facebook to show him I really like him?
Q. So I met this guy and the youth club who taught us a masterclass in physical theatre, he runs his own theatre company. I really fancied him a lot. And I think he was flirting with me. I never got the chance to get his number or details. However, a ...
A. 29 September 2008: Hi Hunny
You could start of by saying how much you enjoyed the time spent in the class as you are very interested in theatre and would love to no more as he owns his own company you were very curious how he got started as this has been a inte... (read in full...)
I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?
Q. Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...
A. 28 September 2008: you want to seduce your bro? And this question you asked on a previous date ?????
Ok. Im want only male teachers or males who work around highschool females. I want to know is there ever one time when you think of your female students. like im ... (read in full...)
I have started to develop feelings for him besides just sex, should I tell him? Neither of us would leave their family.
Q. Hi so I am new to this. I have a question about an affair that I am having. He well is pretty much married has 2 kids and his wifey's 2 kids. And well I am married with 2 kids. But any ways me and this guy have been seeing each other for 2.5 years ...
A. 26 September 2008: Hi Hunny
To be honest it just sounds from your post that its an added bit of excitment for him, You said in you post love that you wouldnt leave your husband can I say if your husband was doing this how would you feel? You may not have been rumb... (read in full...)
I have a hard time loving in my relationships.
Q. I have unrealistically high expectation of myself and this daunting perfectionism triggers nothing but stress and anxiety in my daily life. It seems to permeate every aspect of my life, namely my relationships. I’m never sure if I “love” a woman...
A. 25 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Have you thought that you may be doubting yourself as a person to do right and you so want to do right all the time that it weighs heavy on your mind if you feel your not loving enough, Is this perfectionism in you, Are you the one who want... (read in full...)
Should I end this before I do something bad...or should I stick it out?
Q. My boyfriend thinks the world of me. He cries when he talks about how much he loves me, and there is no doubt in my mind that I love him too. We finish eachother's sentences and take the words from eachother's mouths. It feels as though we've rea...
A. 25 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Are you not on any contraception, As if you were and he used a comdom then than cuts the chances of pregnancy...If on the other hand you are, Are you taking the right one for you love i'll pop a link in just incase then get on to how you ... (read in full...)
Is it common for women to cry during or after intercourse?
Q. I have heard that women sometime cry during intercourse or after sex. Is this common? What does it mean? I appreciate your time....
A. 24 September 2008: Hi hunny
The girls are right the relationship im in now is a very good and loving one and ive cryed on occation at the closness and the bond I feel spiritually. This is before an orgasm has even taken place love, Also it has happened after orga... (read in full...)
I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?
Q. Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...
A. 24 September 2008: My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?
Plus hunny did you not get enough answers from your last post... (read in full...)
I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?
Q. Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...
A. 24 September 2008: Hunny this is plain cruel, What should i look for or do? You should look to your parents for help and advise, And you should do nothing but let this teacher do his job! TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXX... (read in full...)
I’m utterly devastated, I did admit to him I had made mistakes in the past, but he became very disrespectful and nasty to me, and in the end he dumped me. Is this what I deserve for trying to be perfect for him?
Q. I admit I had made serious mistakes. And I never denied this to anyone. For starters I lied to him about my past when he asked. I lied because he was jealous much, and I kind of expected an awful reaction to the truth. I lied, but told him the truth ...
A. 24 September 2008: Oh sweetheart stop your crying hunny, His behavior is not justified at all this is mental abuse hunny..You know my fiance has never asked about my past and I have never asked about his we know certain things but these things are just that in the ... (read in full...)
We're Christians, my wife doesn't dislike sex, but she doesn't like it, we have sex very seldom, how can I fix this, what am I supposed to do?
Q. ok I dont understand this and I know it probably sounds like every other question that guys ask about sex, but....My Wife doesn't like sex, and doesn't seem like she is ever going to. She doesn't dislike it, but she doesnt like it. During the first ...
A. 24 September 2008: Hi Hunny
Has your wife been brought up in anyway to be made to feel sex is dirty? I undersrstand your religion hunny and in some cases the woman can as she grows be told certain things by her mother or parents, Not in a nasty way but it still can ... (read in full...)
Would it turn you off if your new guy was in a serious relationship with one of your close friends?
Q. me and my ex girlfriend (lets say "Jen") were together for 4yrs, and engaged for 1yr during that period but ended up breaking up. Its been 8months since we broke up and we have stayed very close friends. I asked Jen about one of her friends ("Er...
A. 23 September 2008: Hi Hun
If this were me and Id set you two up then Id have probably told Erica my friend about the relationship and the fact that you were a nice guy but it just didnt work out for us so to speak..If they are that close it would be suprising if jen ... (read in full...)
We're together now but I'm worried about how my violent ex might react!
Q. hey guys i have another question. sorry i know i bug u guys so much but please help. ok remember the guy that i toll u guys about well yeah we re going out now. but now we have a problem. well am scared that when my ex finds out he is going to ...
A. 22 September 2008: Hi Hunny
I have found a link that goes through alot of advise for you as you are no longer with you ex you will have to go down to the end of the page for more help in assisting you with other ways of making sure you are safe there is a phone line... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't very ambitious and uses his mother's credit card to pay for our dates. What do I do?
Q. Ok. Here's my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I'm 27 and he's 29. We both live at home. I work full time while saving money to purchase a condo. I have worked ever since I was 16 years old. My boyfriend on the other ...
A. 22 September 2008: Hi Hunny
You have a big problem because as long as his mum is giving him everything he needs then there will be no insentive or desire to work or try for even his dream job, He will have it in his head "oh I can try it another time no hurry"
If hi... (read in full...)
I got drunk and broke most of the windoes at my school, why is my friend offering to help me?
Q. hate my life .All the teachers hate at my school my guts. My family is poor (we don't have a lot of nice things). One night I got so drunk that I broke most of the windows at my school with baseball bat. I can barely remember it. When told one ...
A. 21 September 2008: Hi Hunny
You are going through some major issues at this moment and have been for along time from your post love, This friend told the truth and she protected you because sweetheart she is a true friend. It is so hard when you have been treated badl... (read in full...)
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