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| | pepper27's profile:Hi peeps (:0) IM BACK JIM BUT NOT AS YOU NO IT!!!Is that how it went?
Well most of you nice guys no me as MANDY! So that is what it will be to my friends old and new...Been through a tad of a spin cycle so needed time out...Thank you for all your support YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE (:0) Your the best all of you XXXXX Squidgy hugs all around!!!!
A bit about me.. I've been married divorced and married again, I've been in violent relationships and come out in one piece..I've had al sorts of ups n downs...I have a strong spiritual belief that keeps me on track..IF ANGELS COULD WISH, Their wishes would not be for what we would do, But for what we would be in the midst of blessings as well as misfortune....
I like to help anyone I can, I love animals, Reading (If I get time) I have 3 children 26yrs 19yrs and 11yrs all spaced out!!!!:) I'm happy hippy n hoppy and act my shoe size never my age, I nursed for quite a few years never got my qualifications never got time, But enjoyed the hands on one to one helping and healing of my clients...Many a learning experience was to be had there... On a one to one basis I've cared for cancer patients, Parkinsons, Alzheimer's disease and am now back at work, Working with brain damage..I've never had the chance get any quallys (if that's how ya spell it!!!!!!I've studied on my own for over 20yrs reading and I'm always googling something medical, My dad comes in to ask if the doc has got his meds right ( cause my dad believes in me) Plus I new he had cancer before the doctors did. But my mum bless her always runs away when she comes in from the doc as they gave her Amitriptyline!!!!!There is nothing wrong with my mother apart from her back! Have you seen those side affects...Yes some people have no option other than to go on this kind of medication...but my mum was OK! And I phoned the doctor! My mum loves the doctor and hates me..As I wont let her go until she shows me the goods(:0) Its quite mad in this house,I was adopted at 13days old and have been taught good values, I've since met my other family, I gained a mad brother 2 nephews and 2 nieces that I love sooooo much, I live with my three children and my parents, The kids are not kids any more they just wont leave!!!!!Well my two boys 26yrs and 19yrs GO FORTH AND DON'T!!! Multiply!!!! My little girl is growing up she is 11yrs...All mad!!!!!But I wouldn't be without them all because its where my heart is..Saying that I've been waiting to move for two yrs would like more than one room that I can lock the door to..I've had really bad times I can relate to an awful lot, Rape, child Abuse, Abusive relationships violent/mental, suicide, drink, And more...But I've Just always believed in this.............
When we believe in each other we act as angels, offering our confidence and the power of our faith. It is no small thing to look in another's eyes, straight and true, and say with sincerity, "I BELIEVE IN YOU." without people believing in me were would I be? WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX |
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6 August 2009: Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
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31 October 2008: As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when you...
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Why is my b/f allowed to look at this kind of stuff and I'm not?
Q. I am an insecure teenage girl. Sounds like the typical teenager but even my friends think my insecurities are weird. The thing is, lately my boyfriend of 7months has been asking to by ZOO magazines [a 'car mag' with spreadsheets and pages upon pages ...
A. 19 October 2009: (bloody thing went all funny) :)
Where was I PFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!
you say you dont look and I really believe you as when I was younger I was just like you...But as you get older your veiws change and if you get stronger and get all that self co... (read in full...)
Why is my b/f allowed to look at this kind of stuff and I'm not?
Q. I am an insecure teenage girl. Sounds like the typical teenager but even my friends think my insecurities are weird. The thing is, lately my boyfriend of 7months has been asking to by ZOO magazines [a 'car mag' with spreadsheets and pages upon pages ...
A. 19 October 2009: Hi sweetheart
First please dont allow this to make you feel you are second best and do not allow this to make you feel even the slightest bit insecure (hard I no) These are just visuals and he is young and will brag about looking and this will make... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a girl to enjoy porn?
Q. i'm a girl, with a pretty damn good sex life, but i secretly love to watch porn. is that weird? my ex thought it was hot, but he was very open and adventerous, to "normal" guys is it weird for me to like to watch porn?...
A. 26 September 2009: Hi Hunny
No it is not wierd at all, Just because most feel a good Jackie collins novel will do the trick well!!!!!!Lets face it women like visuals to.. Watch what you want hunny its a free world..
I always think why is it that so many feel men and ... (read in full...)
Since I found out I was pregnant he's changed...should I have an abortion so things get back to the way they were?
Q. how do i remain happy about being prego when he is so unhappy. he said that he will be okay just take time but i feel him slipping away from me. we dont talk like we use to we dont smile are snuggle. im wonder if i should kill my first child. like ...
A. 5 September 2009: Hi Hunny
This is something quite personal,You have to think very carefull about what YOU!!!!Want.
Having an abortion is not easy pain free and so out of the way as the word may seem...When I was young and I mean 16 I found myself pregnant, This was... (read in full...)
He won't let me break up with him
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we have lived together for the last two years. He is generally a nice guy, but I am certain that I want to break up with him. I am not really enjoying the relationship as I feel I should be, we are ...
A. 29 August 2009: Hi Hunny
This is hard as I can see from your post, But if you are so unhappy then you must talk with him (even if he chooses not to listen) Just ask tell him you need to talk its important and then tell him just what you have said here. Then love... (read in full...)
What are your stories on getting revenge on a cheating ex?
Q. I would like to hear some revenge stories for a cheating ex and the affair partner... I promise I am not planning on pursuing anything... just want to live vicariously through your story. So what is your best revenge story?...
A. 28 August 2009: Hi Hunny
I dont think you will get many telling you these kind of storys, I think revenge is not sweet at all...I no when you have been hurt you feel anger and want to hurt the other person but I believe that you being the better person and lear... (read in full...)
What should I do so we can be best friends again?
Q. I have a friend who i have know since i was in the 4th who was my best friend(im 19 btw). but after the 8th grade we lost touch because i moved to another school and im in my second year of college and only seen him twice since the 8th grade, and i ...
A. 22 August 2009: Hi Hunny
Could you send him a card wishing him well and congratulating them both on there engagment, Adding that it would be lovely to catch up.
Then hopefully he will get intouch
Hope this helps hunny with love n hugs Mandy xxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
What are some really romantic things to do on dates?
Q. Hello aunts and uncles:)I would love loads of answers I wud like your opinions on really romantic things to do on dates and things. They cud be simple or real elaborate . Anything really I like to try new things. Thanks ...
A. 22 August 2009: Hi Hunny
I think romantic walks in a beatiful place are good, Talking alot about what interests both of you. If you are in your home candles and incence make the room look really romantic and warming. Just being you can also be very nice for your... (read in full...)
He seems insensitive - should I dump him?
Q. Hi - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years but I am worrying we are just not compatible because every now and then he says the most insensitive things. Just one example which plays on my mind and still upsets me was before Xmas my 92 year old ...
A. 20 August 2009: GULP!
Seriously get away from this man he is a complete an utter dick head I wont mince my words hunny..He has treated you absolutly terrible. He thought you were lying!!!!Lying about something like that, What a twat..Im sorry I really did take a sh... (read in full...)
He seems insensitive - should I dump him?
Q. Hi - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years but I am worrying we are just not compatible because every now and then he says the most insensitive things. Just one example which plays on my mind and still upsets me was before Xmas my 92 year old ...
A. 18 August 2009: Hi Hunny
I went out with someone who said to my daughter "If you want sympathy its next to syphilis in the dictionary" She was 7yrs old...He was gone!
Your grandmother past away sweetheart for you this is a terribly sad time and if you ask me h... (read in full...)
How big or not big do ladies like him to be?
Q. Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...
A. 16 August 2009: lol! behave...
Its not the size, It has never entered my head.
when Im with someone I love and care about, Thats all that matters. Saying that my first husband was rather large and it could hurt, So the problem there was not as much sex as we co... (read in full...)
How big or not big do ladies like him to be?
Q. Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...
A. 16 August 2009: A...Fine B...Fine C...Run ... (read in full...)
Things to do to keep your mind off of your ex.
Q. - Whine - Rake your carpet - Baby oil the floor - Critique "Three's Company" - Listen to a painting - Play with matches - Buff your cat - Race ferrets - Paint your house - Have a formal dinner at White Castle - Read Homer in the original Gree...
A. 16 August 2009: LOL!!!!!!:)XXXXXX... (read in full...)
While we had broken up she slept with someone else....and I can't stop thinking about it. Help!
Q. My girlfriend and I had a bad break up with no intent to get back together. While we were broken up, she thought I did not care about her and I thought the same as she did. we became started talking to each other between our break up, but very ...
A. 15 August 2009: Hi Hunny
You two broke up with no intentions of getting back together, She has told you the truth love she could have said nothing..She loves you enough to tell you the truth and try again. What is there to forgive? I think that if you really love... (read in full...)
How to get over her promicuous past including threesomes and gangbangs?
Q. Hey, I am seeing a girl, I been with her for over three months now. We have a really good relationship, even though its only three months in, we are really good together and spend more time together then either one of us has with former lovers. ...
A. 14 August 2009: Hi Hunny
Has your g/f told you other things about her ex? Did he bully her in anyway? Was she scared of him? Or was this just all ok with her..I was bullied by my second husband quite badly and he used to ask all the time for threesomes and he also... (read in full...)
He said he used to pretend his ex wife was me in bed, what does that mean?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. our relationship has been kind of complex. we dated when we were younger for several years. then it ended and he married someone else. through a series of events we got back together ...
A. 14 August 2009: Hi Hunny
What he means is when he had sex with his ex he thought of you..simple as that, So he really didnt get over you love XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Any advice for teen relationship, and a possible breakup at hand?
Q. Before you begin to read, I must warn you the following might sound childish, and I may even sound stupid. I just ask you put that aside and just try and help my regardless. I'm fourteen, and almost four months ago, I started dating this boy. It'...
A. 14 August 2009: Hi Hunny
You sound grown up in the way you speak I like this you no certain things :) This is good, Im going to tell you a secret..
Whatever is written on facebook status wise ignore unless it makes you laugh, There are some weird and wonderfu... (read in full...)
Many of the right symptoms...I think I might be pregnant!
Q. I feel as if im pregnant!! every day at around 3 pm my stomach starts to really hurt. i am due on my period around the 17th and my boobs are starting to hurt all ready at it is only the 9th. The stomach ace i get daily is really bad but the pain ...
A. 10 August 2009: sweetheart go to the doctor please as soon as possible, Then all your fears will be put to rest, let us no how you get on WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
Many of the right symptoms...I think I might be pregnant!
Q. I feel as if im pregnant!! every day at around 3 pm my stomach starts to really hurt. i am due on my period around the 17th and my boobs are starting to hurt all ready at it is only the 9th. The stomach ace i get daily is really bad but the pain ...
A. 9 August 2009: Hi Hunny
I cant answer this sweetheart but from what you have said I think you should go and see your doctor..This is the best advise I can give you WITH LOVE MANDY XXX... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?
Q. I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and ...
A. 8 August 2009: Hi Hun
There is no problem having a F.W.B I mean what would we do without them? But the only thing that concerns me here is the fact that you are still a virgin and you could quite easy become attached. Anyone can become attached but because this... (read in full...)
Being friends with the ex
Q. Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
A. 8 August 2009: Yea that pretty much how it went with me fella hehehehehehe!!!!!!!!!BLESS EH!!!!!!:)... (read in full...)
Being friends with the ex
Q. Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
A. 7 August 2009: Good job I had jays voddy or Id have been chasing my own tail mate..It was so obvious that he wanted me back and I was bloody mortified (is dat d right shpellin???)poor jay but once again I just laughed it off and pepper sprayed him lol!!!!!!!!!:)... (read in full...)
Being friends with the ex
Q. Well were to begin...Mmmmmmmm!!!!!! Last night I went out quite a random night all in all, I popped out of the club for a ciggy with my fella and this guy was trying to get my attention.It took me 5 minutes to realise he was my ex husbands best fri...
A. 7 August 2009: Wanted to pop a smile on peoples faces hun :):):):):):) hope it worked. N no do not take sweetys from strange men only beer lol!!!!:) (joking) maybe :)... (read in full...)
I want to get rid of my sex drive!
Q. Here's the thing - I don't want a sex drive. I don't want to get involved in a relationship because they always make me miserable. No way am I doing the casual sex thing. I really do not want a sex drive. how, how, how do I kill it? I'm a ...
A. 6 August 2009: The two last posts are very good hunny take this advise..I hope u are feeling a little better xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
How do I get it through his head that it's best to wait before we get married? And how long do you normally wait before marriage?
Q. This summer was crazy, and I don't know where to start. Well first, My boyfriend is in army basic training, but because of a medical discharge he's coming back. He's done with the army for two years (his choice if he comes back). But has said he ...
A. 5 August 2009: Hi Hunny
This must be so hard for you at your age...Sweetheart my heart goes out to you...First lets try and help you with your stress levels and find some sort of advise to help your pain levels and then talk about your bf/
http://ww... (read in full...)
I want to get rid of my sex drive!
Q. Here's the thing - I don't want a sex drive. I don't want to get involved in a relationship because they always make me miserable. No way am I doing the casual sex thing. I really do not want a sex drive. how, how, how do I kill it? I'm a ...
A. 4 August 2009: Hi Hunny
You really do sound very down and I agree with TTM..
Some may say this is not a genuine question.
Im going to answer as it is as I feel that if this is the life you have at this moment then I would not like to feel this way myself ... (read in full...)
Is my friend in trouble? Do you think I should call?
Q. My friend who´s in military and living across the country wrote me down today asking how I was. He´s married and I do know his kids from his 1st marriage went over there and payed him a visit. Well, his daughter told me she didn´t spent a nice time. ...
A. 4 August 2009: Hi Hun
I think that if something has happened he may feel either he wants to keep it quiet at this moment or he just doesnt feel able to talk about it love..The good thing here is he has got you to talk to, So I would be the lovely friend you are ... (read in full...)
I got rejected!
Q. I got rejected by this guy that showed interest in me. After I met with him for our date, I couldn't eat or sleep normally for a week because I was that into him. He said he just wanted to be friends. I'm still hurt and I don't know how to get over...
A. 4 August 2009: Hi Hunny
I no how your feeling rejection of any kind can hurt so much, What you dont need to be thinking about right now is the hundred questions you are asking yourself everyday as sweetheart it may not be one of them..The reasons for why he just... (read in full...)
How would you feel if you were in her shoes? What did I do wrong?
Q. me (i'm a girl) and this girl has been friends for a while and around november i told her i was bi..and she said its just a phase..and then like 4 months later i told her that i had no interest in boys..and i was lesbian and she started to accept it ...
A. 30 July 2009: Hi Hunny
Well Its all a little confusing, When you first told your mate you thought you were bi she told you maybe you were going through a phase..(maybe you thought she is never going to understand) Then 4 months later you explain that you have... (read in full...)
Bleeding during sex?
Q. Does anyone have any ideas on why I've started bleeding during sex? This has never happened to me before, it's only been the last 3 or 4 times. Sometimes it's really heavy and sometimes it's just spotting but it's really worrying me. I know it could ...
A. 21 July 2009: Im glad that link helped hun and I hope you feel better soon and everything is ok WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXX... (read in full...)
THe only reason I got with her is because I thought she was easy
Q. My girlfriend has kind of a sluty past, and I know shes a freak. Infact the only reason i got with her was becuz i heard she was easy, which she was extremely and also REALLY REALY FREAKY, but then while we were sitting in bed she told me a bunch of ...
A. 19 July 2009: Hi Hun
You said your g/f was freaky by that I take it you mean unusual in the way she behaved?
If really bad things happened to her, Then this can account as to why she appeared and may have been so easy as you put it..
If someone has only bee... (read in full...)
Bleeding during sex?
Q. Does anyone have any ideas on why I've started bleeding during sex? This has never happened to me before, it's only been the last 3 or 4 times. Sometimes it's really heavy and sometimes it's just spotting but it's really worrying me. I know it could ...
A. 19 July 2009: Hi Hunny
Ive found a link for you...
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/menstruation/a/bleedaftersex.htm
As you said you are going to the doc so thats the best thing I think I hope this link helps with love mandy xxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Pregnancy scares!
Q. I'm 16 and i have had sex twice, i have used protection both times but im scared i could be pregnant. My period is only 2 days late, i have had cramp and sore breasts but i dont know if thats just my periods. My mum said to me you look like you have ...
A. 19 July 2009: oh I so glad for u hunny xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Why did he put in so much effort for the first 3 months, only to now act like this?
Q. alright guys i am confused. so this is going to be long. please give me some opinions though. so i have been sorta kinda been with this guy for 5 months so i met this guy who works at the airport in my hometown, when i had a really long layo...
A. 16 July 2009: Hi Hun
First Id say to you give him space leave him for awhile just let him do his work and dont contact him at all...If he is stressed with family issues and all the hrs he is working then he may feel slightly pressured..
If he wants you he will ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy scares!
Q. I'm 16 and i have had sex twice, i have used protection both times but im scared i could be pregnant. My period is only 2 days late, i have had cramp and sore breasts but i dont know if thats just my periods. My mum said to me you look like you have ...
A. 16 July 2009: Hi Hunny
My advice is to get a pregnancy test as soon as possible, You may be getting cramps and sore breast from your due period but from what you have said Id get the test..Once that is done then you will hopefully no were you stand..You can phon... (read in full...)
What does a guy from Kansas have to offer a girl from Italy?
Q. note: i am changing all details and painting the picture/situation accurately to find advice/suggestion...should i fight for her. title: Boy from Kansas meets girl from Italy. She's 33 and i'm 36. ...we dated for 3 years, i'm 36 and to be as m...
A. 7 July 2009: yes mate do it!!!!!!!
You never know you could be living in italy in 2yrs time, Go for it hun. Wot have you got to loose at this moment NOTHING!!!!! sweep her off her feet mate, Show her how much you are willing to do for her and win this girl back... (read in full...)
What does a guy from Kansas have to offer a girl from Italy?
Q. note: i am changing all details and painting the picture/situation accurately to find advice/suggestion...should i fight for her. title: Boy from Kansas meets girl from Italy. She's 33 and i'm 36. ...we dated for 3 years, i'm 36 and to be as m...
A. 5 July 2009: Hi Hunny
You love this girl and by the sounds of it she to loves you..The fact that she lived in and has been brought up in a different country to me are neither here or there...Yes different cultures have different values and of course diff... (read in full...)
Should I get my husband's permission to apologize to my ex?
Q. I have a condition called delayed PTSD. I started showing symptoms of it with one of my ex's when we were dating.( I think that's when it started, not sure, maybe earlier before we were dating.) Now that I am married and have been for 11 months, I ...
A. 22 June 2009: Hi Hun
Im glad you got some help and you have sent your message, I do hope you feel better very soon WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXX... (read in full...)
Should I get my husband's permission to apologize to my ex?
Q. I have a condition called delayed PTSD. I started showing symptoms of it with one of my ex's when we were dating.( I think that's when it started, not sure, maybe earlier before we were dating.) Now that I am married and have been for 11 months, I ...
A. 21 June 2009: Hi Hunny
I understand how you feel as Ive had post traumatic stress for quite awhile now, and yes it does get better much! much! better..It really does I feel so different now than I did yrs ago..Im happy now love, I hope this gives you some hope... (read in full...)
Found a video tape of my husband and my best friend's husband having sex, where do I go from here?
Q. I came home from work last night to find a video tape by the side of the sofa with a note attached from my husband saying "Hope you enjoy this and missing you loads. John* xx". My husband was away on business at the time when this happened. I p...
A. 12 June 2009: Oh my goodness sweetheart
What a horrible way to inform you of what has been going on!!!!Coward!!!
you have that tape, Not that you would wish to see it again so Id pop it somewere safe for the moment.. (This is just I would have thought there wa... (read in full...)
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