He asked me why I was so quiet and I told him... did I do the right thing?
Q. My boyfriend sent me a message two days ago asking why i had been so quiet with him recently and he knows i find it difficult to express my feelings face to face so he said to tell him in a message. So i did. I told him that i feel like i cant...
A. 21 November 2009: Very much so you did the right thing. You're not a porn star, you're different. Young men are bombarded with images of what a woman supposedly looks like, so when they actually do see a real women, they don't understand that it is the actresses ... (read in full...)
How can I improve my sex life?
Q. Me and Boyfriend have a strange sex life. we have sex but im not sure if its enough or too much sex. he likes the whole bondage thing with rope... don't mind it at all. hes also in to sexy clothes and stuff. but my question is i want sex more than ...
A. 21 November 2009: Why don't you try asking him more, or iniating it more. He might be unsure of how you're feeling at the time, so try initiating it. Guys aren't all great at reading the hints that women send out. Clear is best. If you want it, make it clear you want ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a guy but I'm not sure if he's after more or just another notch in his belt, how do I figure it out!? Advise please!
Q. So I'm active on an adult website and enjoy the privacy of participating on the site without the pressure of meeting someone. I chatted with a New Guy on and off for about 3 weeks and decided to meet him the other day. We immediately hit ...
A. 21 November 2009: I want you to think about this very carefully. He has been on this site for 6 years, has travalled a lot, was on that site DURING his so called long term relationship of four years, and has said he has no interest in commitment. Just think about ... (read in full...)
How do I leave my marriage without hurting him?
Q. So I have been married going on 2 years and lately i have not felt anything for my husband, I do not want to be sexually active and I take any chance of being away from him take so extra shifts at work what ever it takes. My husband says that he ...
A. 21 November 2009: Before you get out, ask yourself why you're feeling this way. Are you feeling unloved, or uncared for. Marriage takes a lot of effort, and if you give up easy this time, you'll give up easy next time and the time after. It would be a shame to give ... (read in full...)
He forgets to text me and he forgets our dates! Is he seeing someone else?
Q. i've been texing and meeting this boy for about 4-5 months, last week he told me he liked me but didnt want a relationship yet... all of a sudden since that he's been 'forgetting' to text me or ring me and tonight he even forgot we were supposed to ...
A. 21 November 2009: Like all young ladies, you'v matured before your time. Like all young guys, he's hasn't matured as quickly. You really like him, and you want to show it. I think he does like you, but I'm not sure that he knows what he wants at the moment, or what ... (read in full...)
Dating again but fear looking inexperienced and self-concious to the new guy! Help!
Q. Hey guys...I could really use some help please. I was with my ex for 4 years, and we broke up 2 years ago. It was generally a very happy match and I was pretty gutted when it ended. While I've dated a few other guys since we broke up, I've only ev...
A. 21 November 2009: Your new guy will like you for who YOU are, not who you were with your boyfriend two years ago. He won't be bothered about it at all. He is telling you you're sexy andng gorgeous, it's just you not believing it. He won't think you're inexperienced, ... (read in full...)
Two states apart and I feel like I'm losing her, please help!?
Q. So I've been at college for 3 months now, and it's hard on me and my gf of 3 years. I'm two states away. Recently we took a "break" just to see where our lives were, and we both decided it was a mistake, that we never wanted to be apart. BUT, while ...
A. 21 November 2009: This is no longer your problem, it's hers. She doesn't know what she wants anymore. She has kind of proved that she is not ready for a relationship like this, since you took a break, came back together and she then kissed someone. She now says that ... (read in full...)
Could my drink have been spiked?!
Q. I'm sorry i know this isn't the right site for this sort of question but i always get good advice so i thought id give it ago. Last night i went out with a friend... both got quite drunk...(but its not the first time, were 21 and very used to dri...
A. 21 November 2009: I really wouldn't go to work. You'd be better going to a doctor. You don'twant to get to work and collapse.... (read in full...)
Can anyone help here? How long does it take to move on...?
Q. I would really like some advice on how long it takes to get over a relationship. I was with my ex for 3 1/2 years and have since been split up for 6 months. We went cold turkey for a few months then got back into contact. We became very close again ...
A. 21 November 2009: Good luck :)... (read in full...)
Could my drink have been spiked?!
Q. I'm sorry i know this isn't the right site for this sort of question but i always get good advice so i thought id give it ago. Last night i went out with a friend... both got quite drunk...(but its not the first time, were 21 and very used to dri...
A. 20 November 2009: Yes, you could have been. Or it could be that your body is low on sugar. If you think you've had your drink spiked, then it might be a good idea to visit the doctor and get tested. If nothing else, they'll be able to eliminate that (hopefully) and ... (read in full...)
What could be the reason for very bad luck?
Q. What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details ...
A. 20 November 2009: I thought I was cursed as well at one point. Sometimes, I'm still convinced. But that's an easy way to point blame at something else. The truth is, one bad decision somewhere leads to another, that leads to another. If it all looks like it's going ... (read in full...)
Am I a slut?
Q. Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...
A. 20 November 2009: No, you're not. but you do need to be more careful, because you're putting yourself at risk of rape and STD's and even preganancy. You probably shouldn't drink as much, and just be more careful.You don't want to wake up one day and realize you're in ... (read in full...)
Are these the signs that he has a crush on me or dislikes me!?
Q. Ok, so - my fitness instructor who I have had a crush on for about 3 years has been acting weird with me lately. I assumed I had offended him but my mum says it sounds like he likes me. I facebooked him to ask if I could be added to a guest list ...
A. 20 November 2009: You might as well. He seems interested, and might not be able to say anything because of his work. But nothing ventured, nothing gained, and as long as you're both single, why not see what happens? Good luck.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should back of and become strictly friends as we're having such a great time!
Q. Ok here is the deal. I met this great guy but I made it clear from the beginning I was not interested in a relationship, which is totally true. It was fine since he has a girlfriend anyway. We became good friends, however we also knew from the ...
A. 20 November 2009: If you don't want to get really hurt, back off now.... (read in full...)
Can anyone help here? How long does it take to move on...?
Q. I would really like some advice on how long it takes to get over a relationship. I was with my ex for 3 1/2 years and have since been split up for 6 months. We went cold turkey for a few months then got back into contact. We became very close again ...
A. 20 November 2009: I'm never sure that it's a good idea for exes to remain friends, because one usually still fancies the other (as you do) and it often means it's more difficult to move on. He was abit cruel, stringing you along like he did, so I'm not sure he's even ... (read in full...)
He texts his ex and another girl. Is he losing interest in me?
Q. my boyfriend and i got 2gether a couple of months ago. his girlfriend split up him then he got with me but he constantly keeps texting her and texting this other girl that he constantly talks about. he met up with her, had a couple of drinks a...
A. 20 November 2009: Please get away from this guy now. He is STAYING at his ex girlfriend's house this weekend. What do you think he'll be doinmg with her? He is giving her more attention. He's not worth another moment of your time, so get away from him and find a ... (read in full...)
Does my aunt's dream mean I'm pregnant?
Q. My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a ...
A. 20 November 2009: You could be. The only way to be sure is to have a pregnany test done. ... (read in full...)
I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!
Q. Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...
A. 20 November 2009: I'm afraid I have to agree with Accountable here. this is a big mess, and it will get bigger whatever happens. But he can't be expected to bring up your child and this woman has no right to expect you to just disappear. It will hurt your friend to ... (read in full...)
Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?
Q. my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...
A. 20 November 2009: He's trying to use you. Don't let him.... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last? Help me get a gf!
Q. I'm a 25 year old virgin and I've never been in a relationship I feel at this point it's almost hopeless, the bad part is, is that, I'm almost ready to accept the fact that I will live out my life being alone and never understanding wh...
A. 20 November 2009: You don't need to become anyone else. It is true that nice guys do come last for a while, but certainly not forever. Younger women do like to have fun, which means a lot of them go for the bad boys who supposedly offer it. Then one day, one or two ... (read in full...)
He doesn't show any emotions even though we are on a break! Do you think he loves me or is he just hiding his emotions to appear "manly"?
Q. My boyfriend and I are on a break. I've been sad, but he doesn't feel any emotions at all. He's broken up with me at least four times, and each time he wasn't coming back. Each time he told me he doesn't love me anymore, but in the end, he come...
A. 20 November 2009: He's broken with you at least four times!! And he doensn't appear to feel pain!! Are you really sure you want to be with this guy, because I don't think he has the slightest clue as to what he wants. You can wait around for him forever, and this ... (read in full...)
Should I question him about this or leave it be?
Q. Hi I would really like the aunts interpreration of this man. I'm in a relationship with a guy we are both around 60. we have great sex and enjoy it very much.but sometimes he doesn't cum like today he always tells me how beautiful the love making is ...
A. 20 November 2009: I wouldn't worry about it to be honest. Some men find it harder to come as they get older. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak, as an old saying goes. I think he really enjoys being with you, and I think he has fun with you and I think he ... (read in full...)
Oh my god!!! Could I possibly be pregnant???
Q. hey, i have a question. im currently on bc, and i got my period last weds. but yesterday, when i was sitting under the dryer at the hair salon, i started feeling really sick, and ended up throwin up. then i drank some water and threw that up too. ...
A. 19 November 2009: You might be. You need to take a test to find out.... (read in full...)
Has anybody taken a break and everything worked out in the end?
Q. Ok so I'm 23 my bfs 25 we were dating for 4 months yet we have gone thru so much in so little time... yet he asked for space to make sure what he wants n to see if he's ready to make the next step which is marriage, yea sounds fast but we know each ...
A. 19 November 2009: 4 months in and he wants to take a break to see whether he wants to marry you? To be honest, that sounds a little suspicious. I've not known of anyone personally who has taken a break and then it's all worked out, but that doesn' mean it won't work. ... (read in full...)
Help me find a way to get closer to him...
Q. So there's this guy i like but im not sure if he likes me back. Some days he's sort of around me and my friends and seems interested but other days he just completely ignores me and doesn't seem to notice me at all. I talk to him sometimes but im ...
A. 19 November 2009: It won't put him off that you're shy, but it will confuse him. I think you have to be brave and tell him you like him. There really is no other way to get close to him. Be brave, start a conversation and ask him about himself, and see where it ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't someone gimme some lovin'?
Q. ok guys. im really frustrated im a fine looking girl, everyone says im a nice, honest and a confident person who enjoys a laugh. (im 18). i havent had a boyfreind since i was 14. i have a lot of boys saying how nice i am and they end up te...
A. 19 November 2009: Nothing is wrong with you at all. First of all, well done for not giving it to the wrong guy. My mother had a friend who was once afraid she was being left on the shelf. She married a complete ass. The point being, stop worrying and don't make the ... (read in full...)
Help me prepare... in case I'm pregnant!
Q. Please help! I'm worried I'm pregnant... Me and my boyfriend have never used a condom but I'm on the pill. We both got tested before we slept together. But I'm a bit forgetful and miss a few pills from time to time. But me and my boyfriend have ...
A. 19 November 2009: They could be, nobody knows for sure because we're not doctors. Don't be afraid to take a test. You need to take one now because if you don't and you're not pregnant, then you have another illness that you need to know about, but if you are, you'll ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with him even though I am not sure about him?
Q. ok, well I am in a somewhat serious relationship for about 12mos. I really care about him but I dont feel completely happy. and for some reason i'm falling in love with a man that already has a partner also. what is wrong with me? what do i do?...
A. 19 November 2009: Ask yourself why you're not completely happy. What is missing from your relationship? Do you feel loved by your boyfriend or is there more that he could do? If you can answer these questions, then you can save the relationship because you'll be able ... (read in full...)
Why wont he make the first move when we have sex?
Q. Okay, so I am wondering. Why is it that I ALWAYS have to get it going? In order to have sex, why can't he ever do it? And how can I make it more comfortable to give him a bj? I mean I used to swallow but one day it was just so much that I gagg...
A. 19 November 2009: He might be very shy about sex, more than you realize, or terrified that you won't be in the mood, or that you'll judge him or anything like that. Why don't you try talking to him (very gently, his ego might be fragile) and say you'd like him to ... (read in full...)
Why is my friend's boyfriend being so frigid?
Q. ok so i have this friend who actually is a friend!! She's my best mate and she has had a boyfriend for the last 6 months. The problem is (and I wouldn't be writing this all over the internet if we couldn't figure out the problem) but her boyfriend ...
A. 19 November 2009: Do you know what his beliefs are? Maybe he's religious and is being careful, or maybe he feels very very shy about it all. If he was brought up to think sex and touching were wrong, then he'll believe that. You need to try and get your friend to ... (read in full...)
Is there a problem with falling in love with a girl who is older than you?
Q. Hi cupid, i have serious question about my relationship with a girl who i met on the internet. am 22 and she's 23. she senior me with a year. she knows that. we have dated about two months now and we also shared pictures and web cam.she's very happy ...
A. 19 November 2009: Not at all. I'm seeing an older women. go for it.... (read in full...)
Why am I so destructive and jealous?
Q. I am extremely jealous and destructive. I was not always like this and I do not know how to fix myself. In high school I suffered with severe acne and a stye on my eye for almost two years. This was not because I was lazy and not looking for help. I ...
A. 19 November 2009: I think your problem is that you were treated so badly in school, you're now taking it out on your boyfriend. The fact is, he's with you and loves you. So you're not stupid or unattractive at all. But I do think you may need therarpy, because if ... (read in full...)
How can I move on and be more social?
Q. hi I went out with a guy for just over a year and in that time found out he was a compulsive liar who lied about his age, (he said he was 23 and he was 27) relationship status (hes married) and having a child. Im glad that I dumped him but Im having ...
A. 19 November 2009: I'm sorry you met such a complete liar. And I'm glad you've got away from him, so good for you.
You now need to focus on yourself entirely. This is the time for you to start doing a hobby you want to or something like that. If you want to meet peop... (read in full...)
I ended the relationship, now how can I get him out of my system?
Q. i was in a long term relationship with a guy for almost 15 months, during the relationships there were ups and downs, i believe i was always treated second best to everything else in his life. and i was treated terribily, loads of times i cryed ...
A. 19 November 2009: It will take time for you to be able to let him go, but it can be done if you're strong enough. You have to make sure you're seeing other people, staying busy with work or college, and you have to delete his contacts. The longer you don't the longer ... (read in full...)
He didn't "cum", did I do something wrong??
Q. Ok everyone, this is actually going red writing this but i need to know, i recently slept with this guy i meet about 2 weeks ago we slept together on a sat and on following monday, and both times he didnt cum, in fact i did loads and with other se...
A. 19 November 2009: No, it's nothing to do with you. some guys just don't come easily. He might be nervous about it all or just finds it hard to come. Try to help him relax more, but don't blame him or yourself, as this could make it worse. It'snot you at all.... (read in full...)
Why won't any man have sex with me?
Q. I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fa...
A. 18 November 2009: You sound like a lovely lady. It's more likely you just haven't found the guy for you. Don't be in a rush, or you'll meet the wrong guy who'll use you and hurt you. Be happy for yourself, and when the right guy comes along, everything will happen. ... (read in full...)
I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?
Q. Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX...
A. 18 November 2009: Well done for using condoms! There are durex ones called 'Pleasuremax' in Britain, I don't know if there are any in the USA. They're ribbed and they're supposed to make it better for women, so you could try those. ... (read in full...)
Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?
Q. I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...
A. 18 November 2009: You need to talk to him urgently. He's at least said something, which means he's worried too. I think the birth of your daughter has probably taken up your time lately, so maybe you're not as close as you once were. It would be a shame if you didn't ... (read in full...)
I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?
Q. i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...
A. 18 November 2009: No, bra size doesn't really matter. Not to decent people. And no, not all men prefer bigger. Some do, some don't depending on the guy. and in all honesty, there is more to a woman than her breast size. Keep having confidence in your body. Confidence ... (read in full...)
I'm going to prison for 6 months. How will I cope?!
Q. Hi, I hope you are all well. Ok here is my problem, I am a nice middle class women of 28, I have guy I am with and another think I may end up with, a good job and a nice flaty I rent with some friends, I went to University, did a degree and ...
A. 18 November 2009: You focus on that one date, June 1st. And every day until that comes, you take it one day at a time and stay focused. Make sure there are people you can at least communicate with, even if it's just a short letter once a week. Most importantly, when ... (read in full...)
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