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8 Golden rules!

Q.   Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...

A.   15 April 2011: Awesome! Words of wisdom, timeless.... (read in full...)

Fear Is The Father of all Misery

Q.   Please turn your mobile phone off, take the house phone off the hook and make yourself something delicious to drink. Lock the front door, sit down somewhere comfortable and listen carefully to what I have to say to you. I am, after all, a sha...

A.   26 February 2011: "There are two things you should never worry about: the things you can't change, and the things you can change." This is the most important take-away for me. Thanks and nice chatting with you :)... (read in full...)

My boyfriend does not celebrate X-Mas and I'm hurt by his apparent disregard to my my feelings

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are on the verge of breaking up over this.. He doesn't celebrate xmas, he's not from the UK, but he knows how important it is for my family to be around each other at that time, and this year has been one hell of a difficul...

A.   20 November 2010: I am with CindyCares, soon567, and janniepeg. We should respect individual differences and not force people to do what they don't feel comfortable doing, just to prove that they love and care about us. Imagine you were the one in their shoes. ... (read in full...)

My insecurities keep slapping me in the face!

Q.   I can't get over my insecurity. I've always been a bit insecure because I'm not pretty enough and ever since I was in like 6th grade, when other girls started getting some attention from boys, I was left out. The thing is, I recently broke up with ...

A.   19 November 2010: Insecurity comes from within. If you feel good about yourself irrespective of what others say about you, you will appear very attractive regardless of your size and appearance. I see a lot of couples - pretty girls with ugly guys, plain-look... (read in full...)

Are these signs she likes me?

Q.   i like this girl and i think she likes me, i have seen her occasionaly looking at me across the room, when i look at her she will either turn away quickly or smile. She calls me her 'best guy friend' and plays with my hair. She says that i am the ...

A.   19 November 2010: Yes, probably. When we like someone very much we can lose our senses and intelligence. If she acts dumb, it can be a sign that she's trying to attract you by appearing lost and weak. Another possibility could be she's using you. But if ... (read in full...)

How can he expect me to see him everyday and not show affection?

Q.   Hi everyone, well I guess I have the same problem as many of you. I have been dating my bf for about 2 years now - almost 2 years to the day actually. We were in a wonderful state at the beginning of our relationship, and then after about a year, it...

A.   8 November 2010: To be honest I would probably freak out if my boyfriend says he wants a break. I would think he means a break up! The thing is, it's always easier to be unemotional and objective and not lose your senses when you are the outsider. So, if you fe... (read in full...)

How to avoid being used financially

Q.   I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...

A.   8 November 2010: Thanks chigirl. "Just say you have a personal rule of not lending out money to anyone, and ask that they don't take it personally." is particularly helpful. I think I can do that and not feel bad :)... (read in full...)

How to avoid being used financially

Q.   I have tried to keep my relationship problems away from this site as I do not want my advice to be assosiated to my own questions. However I have now learned an important lesson that I want to share with the rest of you, in the hopes that you will ...

A.   7 November 2010: I've not been in such a situation before so I'm thankful that you shared your lessons as it's a learning opportunity for me. The 3 previous readers all seem to agree 100%, possibily due to having had similar experience. I do have some question... (read in full...)

How do you stop having feelings for someone?

Q.   I met a guy on holiday 4 years ago and we got on really well and spent the whole holiday together. Then when we came back to the uk he came up to see me and i went down to see him, but it just fizzled out and we lost contact. I actually really ...

A.   6 November 2010: In my opinion, one can never completely forget about someone whom had once been in your life. I still remember my first crush back in primary school. However, you can control how much you think of the person, and the kind of memory that you choo... (read in full...)

Should I make a move, or is he no longer interested?

Q.   I'm in a complicated situation. I recently met a man and started dating. All was going great - he was taking me out for dinner, coming over and cooking me dinner, going for moonlit walks. It was very early days but I was feeling really optimistic. ...

A.   6 November 2010: He probably thought you needed more time to grieve and didn't know you are ready to resume dating. You could ask him out and see how it goes.... (read in full...)

How can he expect me to see him everyday and not show affection?

Q.   Hi everyone, well I guess I have the same problem as many of you. I have been dating my bf for about 2 years now - almost 2 years to the day actually. We were in a wonderful state at the beginning of our relationship, and then after about a year, it...

A.   6 November 2010: While I understand that men sometimes need to retreat to their own space, there's a difference between a temporary break and a break up. I can't tell which one you are in, but you probably know better. If he's asking for some space, give it t... (read in full...)

I feel he is getting an easy ride ...

Q.   My partner has been living with me full time for a year now and he pays me £400 a month for his keep. My living expenses probably amount to about £1,500 a month and I am now feeling that he is getting an easy ride with what he gives me. Apar...

A.   6 November 2010: What you expect is absolutely fair. To be honest, if he's a real man, he would pay a bigger share, if not all.... (read in full...)

I cheated on my wife with this girl...and now she's giving me a hard time...

Q.   Dear All, I am very depressed because i have done a sin. I am married but was on a business trip for 3 months and befriended with a girl. She started loving me and started thinking about our marriage. I didn't tell her that i was already married....

A.   6 November 2010: This whole thing doesn't make sense. If she thinks sex before marriage is a sin and she can't face her mom and bro, why would she tell you to have sex and said she wouldn't force you if you can't marry her? Two possibilities: Either you have... (read in full...)

Long distance and time's running out. How do I win his heart and make him want a future with me?

Q.   He’s 36 and lives in Germany. I’m 27, in London for 2 years now but due to return to Asia next year when my job secondment ends. We met on 5 Apr (5 months ago) when I brought my parents on a month-long DIY / free and easy trip in Europe. Since ...

A.   28 September 2010: Thank you Boonridge McPhalify :) I'm indeed feeling much better now, when I learn to accept reality and just let it be...... (read in full...)

Long distance and time's running out. How do I win his heart and make him want a future with me?

Q.   He’s 36 and lives in Germany. I’m 27, in London for 2 years now but due to return to Asia next year when my job secondment ends. We met on 5 Apr (5 months ago) when I brought my parents on a month-long DIY / free and easy trip in Europe. Since ...

A.   28 September 2010: Hi all, thanks so much for your responses. The consensus is pretty clear, and I think you guys are probably right, because your views are objective. Rescuer brought a particularly fresh perspective - cultural differences probably played a huge par... (read in full...)

Long distance and time's running out. How do I win his heart and make him want a future with me?

Q.   He’s 36 and lives in Germany. I’m 27, in London for 2 years now but due to return to Asia next year when my job secondment ends. We met on 5 Apr (5 months ago) when I brought my parents on a month-long DIY / free and easy trip in Europe. Since ...

A.   26 September 2010: UPDATES and further questions: So, I have been reading other people’s Q&As on this website as well as articles on dating, love and relationship in general, and have been reflecting and asking myself questions... My conclusion is, it was proba... (read in full...)

Long distance and time's running out. How do I win his heart and make him want a future with me?

Q.   He’s 36 and lives in Germany. I’m 27, in London for 2 years now but due to return to Asia next year when my job secondment ends. We met on 5 Apr (5 months ago) when I brought my parents on a month-long DIY / free and easy trip in Europe. Since ...

A.   14 September 2010: Hi both, thank you very much for your insight. The distinction between infatuation and love is a new concept to me, and I've started reading about it to try and understand my situation more. Don't come across being heavy or intense is also ... (read in full...)

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