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#1 with 185 people reading it:

My boyfriend is very casual about his daughters' privacy and I find it very very odd

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted today

18 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Ive been seeing a guy who's super awesome. We're both single parents of two girls each. They stay the night frequently. My girls are 9 and 13, his are 9 and 11. Despite having lived in an all girl house for the last 5 years or so, my daughters and ...

#2 with 165 people reading it:

My husband looks at young women in porn and tells me I should just be happy he's still having sex with me despite my shortcomings

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 May 2019 (F age 41-50 - My husband looks at porn of women around 18- 20 . I’m entering menopause and feeling extremely depressed about my changes to my body such as less elasticity and lubrication wrinkles etc . I’m fit and healthy but nothing makes me as young as the ...

#3 with 119 people reading it:

We're both unhappy in our marriages and have a long history. Should we have sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted today

18 May 2019 (F age 36-40 - When I was a teenager While visiting family i met a boy, through high school we crushed back and forth on each other secretly and living in different ends of the country made it impossible for anything to happen. As young adults be told me he liked ...

#4 with 105 people reading it:

I'm completely infatuated with a married man who's my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 May 2019 (F age 18-21 - I just need someone to tell me that I’m crazy and maybe give me some advice on how to move on. I feel like I’m a high school girl! I’m 21 and I’m completely infatuated with a 40 year old married man who also happens to be very close with my ...

#5 with 100 people reading it:

Why are men so cruel? Is that the way of the world?

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17 May 2019 (F age 41-50 - I’ve asked for help in the past and am very grateful. Which is why i’m Asking again. As I need to process something clearly. I am 44 years old. Divorced twice ( arranged marriage in Asia and an alcoholic husband in the UK). I have worked all ...

#6 with 85 people reading it:

How can I stay grounded, protect myself and keep even firmer boundaries with an absolutely ghastly ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Today I realized that I am experiencing Crazy-Making with my ex, whom I split up with over 9 years ago. There has been a repeated pattern of him provoking arguments and there is no room for effective communication to take place; he chooses to ta...

#7 with 84 people reading it:

My partner avoids me, but says there is nothing wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

18 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi people I really need some advice I’ve been with my partner for 6 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a son from a previous relationship we’ve been having problems this last year I caught him watching porn which normally would not of ...

#8 with 71 people reading it:

I feel so alone and I'm so scared of being abandoned.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

18 May 2019 (F age 22-25 - I'm wanting some advice about a few issues right now and a bit of perhaps on guidance on what to do next or how to make the next decision on the next chapter. I'm currently in a small city in the UK and I've been struggling with mental health is...

#9 with 71 people reading it:

My boyfriend goes out drinking every weekend and our relationship is devoid of intimacy, emotional and physical contact

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17 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - I am feeling sad because my boyfriend has just gone out to the pub and told me he isn't getting drunk, but he will be getting drunk tomorrow night. We've been together for 2 years. I am sad because this is becoming a pattern. He gets to the weekend ...

#10 with 63 people reading it:

My best friend says he's in love with me after his break up but I don't feel the same way

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17 May 2019 (F age 18-21 - My best friend has recently been dumped by his girlfriend of three years, this is the first time he’s been single his entire since he was 16 and was naturally cut up about it. However after about a week he’s told me that he doesn’t care any more ...

#11 with 31 people reading it:

One date later, should I pursue this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

19 May 2019 (M age 30-35 - I have been internet dating for a little while now and have had 4 dates. The last was a woman from Canada who is visiting over here for a month. She contacted me and explained she was travelling but we chatted a little online and we went for a dr...

#12 with 28 people reading it:

My boyfriend stares at and approaches other women, it makes me uncomfortable.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

20 May 2019 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend keeps looking at other women when we are out and ive seen him literally turn his neck to side and stare for ages at other women also he goes up to women on theyre own and chats to them about anything usually starting with theyre dog to ...

#13 with 26 people reading it:

I have doubts about my fiance.

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19 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I’m not sure about if I should be with my fiancé or not. I feel because I ask the question that it should be the obvious answer. But I don’t know if my expectations are just wrong. I’ve been with him for 10 years, we have a house together. ...

#14 with 25 people reading it:

I don't know how to deal with people who ignore other's worries while making theirs sound worse than they are

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19 May 2019 (F age 41-50 - How do you all deal with people who like to make a mountain out of their molehill and when they encounter people who have actually overcome a mountain they act uncomfortable or belittle that person's experience? It's so upsetting to have a serious ...

#15 with 25 people reading it:

I broke it off ... so how come he hasn't unfriended me on facebook?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

19 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i need some advise. I broke up with my LDR bf of 3 months ,this weekend sent him message on facebook that i want to break up with him and he just said he respect ny decision. But he never unfriend or even blocked me on facebook. Why you think ...

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