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#1 with 218 people reading it:

Told my boyfriend I got a new job at a hotel. He was concerned men would look up my skirt.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 30-35 - I told my boyfriend I just got a new job! It will help me pay my bills and I really needed a job right now. It's in housekeeping at an upscale hotel. The first question he asked is what will I be wearing? He was concerned it would be a skimp...


#2 with 178 people reading it:

I'm dating a nice lady but all I can think about is my ex who ghosted me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 June 2017 (M age 51-59 - I am seeing someone new who treats me wonderful, the way I've always wanted to be treated, but all I think about is my ex, who I treated great, she ghost me, what I think about is why couldn't my ex treated me this way, it could of been so ...


#3 with 167 people reading it:

Family puts too much stress on me. Should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I’m sorry if this going to be a lengthy question, I just want to give you all the facts to better explain the situation. I met my current live-in boyfriend almost 5 years ago while I was on the rebound from another relationship. I...


#4 with 162 people reading it:

The man I'm dating lied he said he was 30, he's almost 44

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 22-25 - Aunts and uncles! Please help.. So I've been seeing a guy for 5 months, I'm 25 and he's 30.. Things are a bit rocky here and there, but today iced the cake. I seen a comment on Facebook and decided to Snoop... I see him address his 38 year old brot...


#5 with 161 people reading it:

How to make someone who doesn't like you fall in love with you ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 26-29 - I know a man who fancy me sexually but doesn't like me personally. This is odd I know, please open your mind. This is a player, someone who sleeps around and goes from a girl to a girl like a bee in the spring lol. He is good looking, char...


#6 with 161 people reading it:

My girlfriend wants to wait but I'm frustrated

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 June 2017 (M age 18-21 - My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until she is married. She is a virgin. I am frustrated telling her how important sex is in relationship and how deeply emotionally we can be connected. She even used to give her ex bf liberty to have sex with...


#7 with 158 people reading it:

How can I get hime to be more romantic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 30-35 - I'm dating a guy for almost a year and he isn't the romantic type. He's said he's not a mushy type about 6 months in so I pulled back a lot and decided to move on. After two weeks apart he texted me and called wanted to try again. Still the same no ...


#8 with 148 people reading it:

Is getting back with him a vain hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone, I have a question regarding an ex that I am still in love with. We broke up in March. He said he "wasn't in the right mindset to have a girlfriend, I have to sort some stuff out" and "this doesn't mean we can't get back together." ...


#9 with 140 people reading it:

I don't get his on-off attitude

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have been dating a guy for 1 and a half years. He asked for space. He asked for space and then said sorry the next day, and again stopped contact with me for a week. Suddenly he texted me again when he needed me and now again has cut off contact ...


#10 with 139 people reading it:

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 16-17 - Hello, I met this guy online, nearly 2 years ago. He's korean and I'm polish. There are quite a few things that my parents refuse to accept about him and they constantly try to make me break up with him. The main arguments are his short height, th...


#11 with 138 people reading it:

Have I put him off by staring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

23 June 2017 (F age 22-25 - There's this guy I had a feeling liked me or was attracted to me at least, I catch him looking and staring at me loads, always made an effort to speak to me in a group, got nervous sometimes and was always offering to help me or give me rides ho...


#12 with 138 people reading it:

I met him online, lied about everything and now 4 years later I know I need to tell him the truth but I don't know how

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 June 2017 (F age 18-21 - I met someone online 4years back when I was 17 - 18, so I joined in just for fun..members were not really serious about relationships but everyone was there after a breakup or divorce. And I decided to hide my identity and just to have chat with ...


#13 with 130 people reading it:

His history has me worried

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 June 2017 (F age 36-40 - If you hear a guy beat up his ex' and you're kind of seeing him what would you do? I talked to him about it of course, yet it keeps bothering me... At first, though he admited it and said he took two years alone to fix himself i was okay. Yet i ke...


#14 with 129 people reading it:

I have huge mental blocks regarding finding a partner but I really want one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

23 June 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hello all, I turned 18 last year and I'm still a virgin. I crave to be with someone, preferably another girl. I'm just scared. I've tried posting ads and online "dating" sites but I never go through with anything. My main issues are 1. I'd get cau...


#15 with 123 people reading it:

Is my pedicure cause for concern?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted today

23 June 2017 (F age 30-35 - I am not sure if I should be offended or not? But I AM!! I just got a pedicure and I love it. I like the colour. It is bright and summery. My boyfriend did not share my enthusiasm. He said pedicures with any colour draw attention to feet, and he ...


#16 with 122 people reading it:

Why is he still looking for me? He's married now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 June 2017 (F age 22-25 - 9 years ago (15-16yrs old)I dated a guy in H.S. But we only dated for about a month before he broke up with me over the phone. In that month we were together we had sex and seems like all the guys were talking about it..Well next school year he ...


#17 with 121 people reading it:

Should I make the first move second time around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 June 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone. I joined a dating site back in Jan. and had just got chatting with a nice guy but he did inform me he was leaving the site because he was going to see how it would go with someone. I’m still on the site and recently he's come back on. ...


#18 with 114 people reading it:

Am I foolish to forgive my girlfriend for cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

24 June 2017 (M age 22-25 - In January I found out that I'd been offered a promotion at work. A fantastic opportunity to change my life, but it involved 6 months living abroad. My girlfriend of 4 years didn't want me to go initially, but after talking things through she agreed ...


#19 with 113 people reading it:

Am I masturbating properly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

24 June 2017 (F age 22-25 - I'm 23 years old. I have plenty of confidence and feel sexy too. I have absolutely no clue if I'm touching myself properly because you can't touch my clitoris. Why does it hurt to touch my clit? Even when my ex boyfriend licked my clit it still hu...


#20 with 113 people reading it:

I want to be strong for him at this time of terrible grief, but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 June 2017 (F - My boyfriends brother died suddenly last week and it has hit the whole family hard. I am trying so hard to be strong for my boyfriend but every time I'm on my own I beak down in tears myself because I feel so sorry for him. He hasn't spoke much ...


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