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#1 with 135 people reading it:

Was dirty sexual encounter a deal breaker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 November 2018 (M age 36-40 - I met this older more top man online. We had a coffee and we decided to play around in his hotel room. He was nice and friendly but no sooner had he lain on the bed than I saw the bedcover smeared with shit from his rear - even though he had at ...


#2 with 114 people reading it:

My boyfriend throw my things away without even asking me!

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16 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps throwing my things away without asking me or, worse, even after I have told him not to. We live in a relatively small flat and don’t have a lot of space so he thinks it’s ok to just throw things away that he thinks are taking up ...


#3 with 107 people reading it:

Am I being unreasonable asking him not to meet up with an old flame?

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16 November 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hello Cupids I have been with my partner for six years and living together for three. Yesterday he told me that he has been meeting up with a woman he sort of used to see and I'm not sure how to take it. We all met in university, and the pair ...


#4 with 105 people reading it:

He has been texting someone he met in a dating site

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

18 November 2018 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my Other Half (OH) for 2 years and have really felt as though he is the one. I've trusted him completely and yet the other day, when I silenced an alarm on his phone, I see Facebook messages between him and another woman that he ...


#5 with 76 people reading it:

Is there a genuine man out there who will not take advantage of me and use my weaknesses against me? How can I learn to trust again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - How did you regain trust once you lost it for the oppsotite sex . I have a very hard time trusting men. I have had few ralsrionships and one long one - I have only been open and the “real” me in my first relationship with my ex bf (5years) where he ...


#6 with 74 people reading it:

Should I talk to him about my concerns? Or just cool things?

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18 November 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hi all, wanting some relationship/life advice please! I split up from a long term relationship back in June this year. I lived with him for 3 years, we were together about 3.5 years and it ended badly with no closure. I was very much in love wit...


#7 with 73 people reading it:

I'm unsure of the relationship but is that enough to throw it away?

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17 November 2018 (F age 22-25 - I can't tell right now if I'm unsure of my relationship. I know even questioning it is probably an indication. But people bet cold feet at weddings.. so could this jusy be cold feet as were getting older? We've been together for a year but split up...


#8 with 73 people reading it:

Any little thing seems to set my husband off and he talks to me very disrespectfully then acts like "I'm sorry" will make everything ok

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 November 2018 (F age 41-50 - Long story short: my husband started talking to me in a downright offensive way. We had our problems before (he has a short fuse and gets angry easily, many things annoy him and he has reactions that are disproportionate to problems he's fa...


#9 with 73 people reading it:

She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back!

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17 November 2018 (M age 30-35 - I got a tough deal.. So my girlfriend just broke up with me, beacause ive continuously lied to her about my drinking. Which is a problem. I don’t blame her for breaking up with me at all, but of coarse i didnt want that. okay the thing is we ...


#10 with 70 people reading it:

I've fallen hard for him but do I wait?

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17 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hey Cupids :) I've been single for 2 years. A few months ago, I started talking to a guy who I first met 3 years ago. He's now single, but is still very affected by his break-up (from 5/6 months ago-I think they were together a couple of years....


#11 with 66 people reading it:

He watches porn before having sex with me

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16 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi I’m in a 5 year relationship I am in a very awkward situation I don’t want sex with my partner anymore over this past year I found out he watches porn before we have sex he’s been sleeping in the spare room for 9 months and I don’t know why he ...


#12 with 60 people reading it:

Been out a few times but I got Cancelled on, was this the right response?

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17 November 2018 (M age 22-25 - As the title said, we've been out a few times already. Hasn't really been much of a spark but it seems like given time it could go somewhere. However this last time I asked her out I was cancelled on, not last minute but still cancelled on ...


#13 with 54 people reading it:

I think he's going through a midlife crisis he went to Thailand and met a girl and he doesn't know that I know

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

18 November 2018 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for over a year who has just recently gone through a divorce. (Nothing to do with me). I felt he used me as a punching bag as he was very angry about the divorce although I knew he loved me. He stopped speaking to me f...


#14 with 52 people reading it:

How can I stop being so negative and worrying all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - How can I learn to appreciate and be happy? I suffer from mental illness - I have been diagnosed with OCD and depressive episodes and overly just anxious. Although I have these obstacles it really is my negativity that is getting in the way and I ...


#15 with 48 people reading it:

I've lost the people in my family that I was closest to and I'm depressed, anxious and low

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16 November 2018 (F age 22-25 - Over the last 12 months I haven’t been feeling myself. I lost my grandad 7 years ago, my mother 4 years ago and my grandmother almost a year ago. They played a significant part in my childhood, obviously, as my mother raised myself and my sister o...


#16 with 37 people reading it:

Why is the state taking so long to give my child what is due to him from his absent father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 November 2018 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am a single parent and I have been fighting for childsupport for many years finally I am receiving it. But my children are grown the oldest passed away natural causes and I have a son he is grown. Their dad finally got caught after many ...


#17 with 37 people reading it:

I'm 15 and can't get over feeling the same way every day that I am a failure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

18 November 2018 (M age 13-15 - Hi all. I am 15 years old, approaching GCSE's and I'm under an onslaught of problems. My first is that I appear to be *VERY* unattractive (and not only just my apparent bad looks reinforce this). From what I've heard, seen and experienced peop...


#18 with 37 people reading it:

Should I ask my boyfriend if he knows what his friend says about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 November 2018 (F age 18-21 - Recently a friend of mine was talking to me about an interaction she had with one of her guy friends, lets call him Brian. Brian happens to also be close friends with my boyfriend and lived with him last year. While my friend was hanging out with ...


#19 with 35 people reading it:

He says I'm "the one", but how can this work with the distance?

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18 November 2018 (F age 22-25 - I've got a dilemma. Last year I was studying in the US for a semester, and I fell for someone. We tried to ignore our feelings for a long time because I wouldn't be staying, but the electricity between us was like nothing else I've ever felt ...


#20 with 33 people reading it:

Could this work out for us in the future or should I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 November 2018 (F age 18-21 - So I told my friend that I liked him and he told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I was really scared that our friendship was going to be ruined but luckily we're still pretty good friends cause he didn't want to ruin the friendship ...


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