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#1 with 205 people reading it:

Is it true that men simply don't want to see my body type, over weight but not huge, or is my body type just boring to them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 February 2017 (F age 41-50 - My bf looks at porn with the women who are much thinner than me and also those who are extremely overweight . I am overweight but not huge like the bbw porn he likes and he says he doesn't have any porn of women like me because it's hard to find ...


#2 with 184 people reading it:

I don't want to hurt my girlfriend but after 3 years I am not sure that I want to be with her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 February 2017 (M age 22-25 - How can i break up with my girlfriend? Im not sure if i even want to. We have been together for three years. We have been having problems recently. She told me she was not sure where we were going, that we were stuck in the same old patterns doing ...


#3 with 184 people reading it:

Am I normal for hoping he could overcome his alcoholism?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 February 2017 (F age - I want to know if I am normal. I have been involved with an alcoholic on/of for ten years. I miss him deeply, like I am vexed. My mind knows the truth but my heart can not get the message. I weigh out the cons but the love I feel and felt outweighs ...


#4 with 180 people reading it:

Did I just get friend-zoned?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 February 2017 (M age 22-25 - So ive been talking to this girl , she Has trust issues from her past relationship she told me but before We texted each other goodnight she told me this Thanks for being the bestest friend.. did I just get friendzoned ??...


#5 with 179 people reading it:

I hope I'm wrong but wonder based on these signs if should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 February 2017 (F age 22-25 - I normally have a really good intuition about relationships and men, but oftentimes ignore it in hopes that I am wrong. I'm sort of hoping that I'm wrong this time around, but I digress. I met with this guy about a month ago. He is older than me...


#6 with 169 people reading it:

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 February 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...


#7 with 165 people reading it:

Is he just being a generous best friend, who loves my company? Or is he in love with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 February 2017 (M age 30-35 - Good morning Aunties, I have a mighty problem I need help with. I am a bisexual man, 33 years of age. I am attracted to this 19 year old guy. He says he doesn't love me as a lover but as a friend. He says he is Christian and that his parent woul...


#8 with 159 people reading it:

What are the protocols about posting and commenting on the pictures of others on social media? Or am I just being crassly controlling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 February 2017 (M age 51-59 - I am coming to social media rather late in life and am confused by the protocols that seem to liberally litter posts with kisses and hearts. So when my girlfriend posts a pic of an event she attended where I wasn't present and someone responds...


#9 with 150 people reading it:

He looks at naked women online but said he'd leave if I posted nudes of myself!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 February 2017 (F age 22-25 - I want to post nude pics of myself on an amateur site . It excites me to imagine men getting off to pictures of my naked body . My husband is against it and says he will leave . He looks at other men's wives naked and at porn . Why is it ok for him ...


#10 with 147 people reading it:

Should I ask if we are boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 February 2017 (F age 22-25 - I have been dating a guy I met on tinder since December. We seem to get on really well and I feel that we always have good dates. After the 10th date, we slept together and have slept together a few times since. We have now probably been on...


#11 with 146 people reading it:

Should I end this relationship or work with it? He's become my best friend, but the excitement and passion have faded

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 February 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now but i am 18 and just starting to feel like i want to have other boyfriends and get to know other guys. I do really love my boyfriend but hes kind of more my bestfriend now. I defintely dont have ...


#12 with 145 people reading it:

I don't in the slightest trust this artist who she met for lunch recently . Am I just insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 February 2017 (M age 51-59 - I am engaged to be married (2nd time for both of us). Because of her work my wife to be has developed many male friends/acquaintances including some who have been keen to take it further than platonic. She presents very innocently of al...


#13 with 136 people reading it:

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 February 2017 (F age 30-35 - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...


#14 with 128 people reading it:

We were on a break for 2 weeks and he got a woman pregnant. I dont't know how I feel about this

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted today

20 February 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hi my question is that I have been seeing a guy casually for about 8 months now. We had quite a big argument about 6 weeks ago and there were was no contact for 2 weeks, then he got in touch, so we started talking again. Whilst we were havin...


#15 with 125 people reading it:

I feel like my boyfriend is making me chose between him and my daughter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 February 2017 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost six years and my daughter recently moved out to go to college and tends to come home in the weekends. There have been several occasions where my boyfriend has made comments about my daughter getting ...


#16 with 118 people reading it:

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 February 2017 (M age 26-29 - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...


#17 with 116 people reading it:

I can't get in contact with my love who has moved on to another country. How can I deal with his absence?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 February 2017 (F age 18-21 - This boy that I have fallen in love with has moved to Spain and I have no way of getting in touch with him. Although he is back in summer but that's 5 months away. I'm worried he might find another girl whilst he's there and everyday I worry an...


#18 with 114 people reading it:

I'm a virgin and a little afraid of sex but I'm worried this guy will want it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 February 2017 (F age 18-21 - I'm a virgin at the age of 21 and always feel embarrassed talking about it. I've never done anything with a guy... But I've met a guy and we get on well... however I'm afraid of having sex. I don't know why. I just think he will just want that. An...


#19 with 111 people reading it:

Why do I allow him to treat me like trash, throw me out and then let him back into my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 February 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I would appreciate some outside perspective on the situation I'm currently dealing with. I started dating someone last year that I had known for about 10 years though granted we were mostly only acquaintances during that time with limited int...


#20 with 108 people reading it:

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 February 2017 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...


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