Do these signs mean that I'm pregnant?
Q. I think i mite be pregnant but im not sure. I was due to come on today. I took 2 pregnancy tests yesterday. A cheap brand I took at lunchtime showed a very, very faint positive line, i mean extremely faint. I went straight out and bought a mor...
A. 5 September 2008: You might be. The best thing to do is take another test. For every day that comes and your period doesnt, take a test. It can get costly! A very (even VERY) faint line means pregnant. Is this a good thing for you?... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?
Q. ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...
A. 5 September 2008: Yes, you could get pregnant. It only takes a drop to do the trick. Fluid always comes out of me after sex, I have 2 kids and am expecting again. USE PROTECTION!!!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and having a fling! It's hurting me because we can never be 'official'....
Q. im 22 yrs old with child and a partner.for the past couple of months i have been having a fling with someone who i know really well, but he has his own family too and i think im falling in love with him.i cant help it and its hurting me because i ...
A. 4 September 2008: Never say never. Are you pregnant as the title to your question states, or do you already have a child? Anyway, not that it matters a whole lot. If your partner found out, he would probably be crushed, so I believe it's safe to say that if you left ... (read in full...)
Am I bored of my boyfriend because I felt 'sparks' with another guy?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we live together and I love him to bits. However, we recently went to a festival and camped with some friends and their friends. One of these guys was very funny and quite good looking, and I felt ...
A. 4 September 2008: There will always be someone out there that seems a little better for you than the one your with. Temptation. What you need to remember is that you don't know this other guy as well as you do your boyfriend, and he might have flaws that out do the ... (read in full...)
Am I bored of my boyfriend because I felt 'sparks' with another guy?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we live together and I love him to bits. However, we recently went to a festival and camped with some friends and their friends. One of these guys was very funny and quite good looking, and I felt ...
A. 4 September 2008: There will always be someone out there that seems a little better for you than the one your with. Temptation. What you need to remember is that you don't know this other guy as well as you do your boyfriend, and he might have flaws that out do the ... (read in full...)
How do I let people know I'm straight?
Q. I don't know why but people think think I'm gay, but I'm actually a straight male. Sometimes gay guys hit on me, and I don't mind but how can I let people know I'm straight?...
A. 4 September 2008: If they are judging you because of their assumpton, they are not worth your time anyway. However, if it is bothering you to the point where you feel everyone is spreading rumors and it is effecting your life, maybe consider dating a female you might ... (read in full...)
Do you think I am exagerating or being a bad girlfriend?
Q. I just want to hear out some opinions, because I think I already know the answer...my boyfriend and I had been thinking of getting married for a while, so we got engaged after 1 year and 6 months. He is in the military and has been for the past ...
A. 4 September 2008: Niether. In my opinion, relationships need compromises from both ends. I totally understand why he would want to see his family. On the other side of the coin, however, I can see why you feel he should come to see you as well. Perhaps you two can ... (read in full...)
I failed again in a relaionship and I feel like one because of that...
Q. I hate myself so much most of the time. I am not happy with myself. I feel like a failaure 'cause for the second time that I try a relationship it is not working. I've been crying a lot lately... I don't know what to do... I am depress 'cause my ...
A. 4 September 2008: There is nothing abnormal to the feeling of depression when we experience a failed relationship. It is part of the process of moving on and learning from it. What I'm trying to say is, we all experience the same feelings you do when we break it off ... (read in full...)
What are some ideas regarding exercise if you enjoy being active but the gym bores you to death?
Q. I would like to lose weight because although people don't think of me as fat, I am very self conscious about my appearance. I would like to have a nice figure, but I'm afraid that I'm nearing that age where it's impossible to lose weight. My ...
A. 4 September 2008: Well 1st, you need to change your diet. It's always the 1 thing that people seem to forget when it comes to weight loss. There is a proper diet for everyone, and they differ. See a nutritionist about that. It is never too late to change your figure. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving to the States and I don't know if I can trust him when he goes
Q. my boyfriend of 8 months is planning on going to uni in the states early next year.he wants me to wait but i dont know if i want to.not coz i dont want to be with him but i dont trust him as he was in a relationship when we met and when he goes over ...
A. 28 August 2008: This is the problem with getting into a relationship under sticky circumstances, as I'm sure you have already figured out;) Do you have children with him, or a previous relationship? The only thing you really can do is talk to him about it. Not in ... (read in full...)
My wife left me, but now she wants to try again. I am torn between giving it another shot with her and this new girl I am nuts for.
Q. This is long so I appreciate anyone who reads it. I am 47 and married with a 7 year old son. I work as a senior manager and have lots of people who work for me. About a year ago a 24 year old came to work with the company, I'll call her T. She is ...
A. 28 August 2008: Age gaps tend to get in the way of perfect relationships, I know, I've tried a couple of times. However, thats just an opinion. If you want to be serious with a 24 year old girl, try to ask yourself if you believe she is ready for a divorced man, ... (read in full...)
He has secretly been looking at porn! What should I do?
Q. Here's my story. I have been with my bf for about 3years, living with him for about two. I'm 30 he's 25.The thing is I truly adore him, but we are not on the same level obviously due to age difference.I just don't feel he's ready for an adult ...
A. 28 August 2008: Yeah, this same EXACT situation is what brought me to this site originally, months ago. I handled it by discussing my feelings about it to my husband in a non threatning way. I tried to expain to him that he wouldnt appreciate it if I got my sex ... (read in full...)
Romantic gestures towards women - some brainstorming!
Q. Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks!...
A. 27 August 2008: The one thing that turns me on, romanticlly, has to be originality in romance. A dozen roses with a card in each one explaining why you love her. A romantic dinner in a place other than a restraunt that has some meaning to the relationship. An odd ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me and got the other woman pregnant! Why am I made out to be the villain?
Q. My husband and I have been married for three years and we have no children together. We are both 24 years old. His parents never approved of our marriage due to racial factors, he is white and I am asian. A week ago, for the first time, I fo...
A. 26 August 2008: Ughhhh, I am SOOOOO sorry. The only villain here is your husband. Not you, not even the other girl. Your husband knew good and well what he was doing. You did nothing wrong, please don't even begin to think that you have. From what you say, I've ... (read in full...)
I'm a lone wolf and have no one to tell things too.....
Q. heya, ok this is going to be long so prepare yourself. well i really dont think i can cope anymore, however serious that may seem. i have lost all my friends as school for the most stupid of reasons. so im basically a lone wolf at school whic...
A. 26 August 2008: Have you told your parents how you feel? Maybe ask them what they'd think about changing schools? I, at one point of my school years, was a loner as well. I started seeking out other loners (because you are not the only one at school) and made ... (read in full...)
He's gone a bit cold after we slept together! Any ideas on why this is?
Q. I met this lad on my holiday and we started chatting when we got back to england - he only lives about an hour away and i know the area he lives in because my sister went uni there. So after 3 weeks of constant talking (and i mean constant ... ...
A. 26 August 2008: It isnt uncommon for a young man to sleep with someone and move on (the hormons are raging!) When you say he has gone cold, do you mean he has gotten a little mean when he speaks with you, making you feel like you are bothering him, or do you mean ... (read in full...)
My cheating partner...I've received opinions from friends, but maybe the outside world? You there? Anyone??
Q. We had the goods and the bad in our relationship. We been on and off for 5 years. Now I'm 25 and he's 27(he has a five year old son from a previous relationship) We made a commitment 2 years ago, because we loved each other so much and decided to ...
A. 26 August 2008: It isnt about what other people think, it's about what you think. No one knows this guy like you do, and although other people are seeing his sorrows now, they didnt see him behaving like a horses ass when you were living with him. He got used to ... (read in full...)
Do I still need to take the morning after pill? I need an answer asap, please.
Q. I am 16 and i had unprotected sex last night, but i came on my period today. Do i still need to take the morning after pill? Please answer ASAP. Thanks a lot....
A. 26 August 2008: Yes, as a mama to 2 with another on the way, you certainly can be pregnant even if you started your period the next day. Take the A.M. after pill. Good luck... (read in full...)
Some cracks have appeared in our relationship.....is she cheating?
Q. With complete strangers thinking the same as I did in reference to my previous question posted I realise I did see exactly what was happening. I would like to hear what more people think. I met my girlfriend via a dating site in early 08. We rea...
A. 25 August 2008: She probably was cheating. You should move on. I know it is hard to detatch yourself from someone who has broken your heart, but please try, because she sounds like trouble. Unless you were irrational when you went by her house and discovered her ... (read in full...)
I may have given STD's to a married man I've been sleeping with and his wife is pregnant!
Q. Please Help....I have been seing this married man for 2 years now and he has a wife with a baby on the way. i know its wrong but please dont judge. I went to the Gynocologist and i may have vaginal cancer, to top it all off my test results came back ...
A. 25 August 2008: TELL HIM NOW!!! A poor innocent life is at high risk!!! If you have any bit of moral value in your blood, you would worry LESS about losing him and worry MORE about the life of a baby!... (read in full...)
Why did she want to keep her bra on during sex?
Q. My girlfriend and me had sex for the frist time. For some reason she kept her bra on. When I tried to unhook it she would slap my hand away. Is this odd?...
A. 24 August 2008: Maybe she stuffs her bra, or wears a rediculously padded bra and doesnt want her secret revealed. Just a thought.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with our best friend, but I don't want to hurt my husband or break up our friend's marriage.
Q. okay here it is.about three years ago i started sleeping with my husband and mine's bestfriend. but I fell inlove with him .i told him i was inlove he said he loved me too.he's also married with 3 kids.he is not happy in his marriage but feels his ...
A. 23 August 2008: It is what it is..... Sounds pretty dramatic. You told the friend your feelings, you told your husband as well. "Somehow we are still together" ???!!! You are still together because if you leave your husband for the friend but the friend wont leave ... (read in full...)
Why are people so stressed and miserable?
Q. Why is everybody I see always so stressed and miserable? You only get one life,and its way too short to be anything but happy.why dont people realize this?...
A. 23 August 2008: Welcome to the U.S!! Look at the statistics, we are the only country with the highest rates of divorce, obesity, gas prices, (thanks Bush!) and really, the sad list goes on. With rates like this, people will get a little down. You are still young ... (read in full...)
My older boyfriend thinks I'm too young to settle down with, but I wasn't too young for sex. Is that just an excuse?
Q. I've always dated older guys but now my family think i should date guys my age. They usually are 10 years older than me. Do you really think age ain't nothing but a number? I'm currently dating a guy that has a girlfriend but now i want more but he ...
A. 23 August 2008: You're dating a guy that has a girlfriend? And you are wondering if this is just an excuse? It seems obvious to me that he dosnt want to leave his current girlfriend for you and, yes, he is using the age thing as an excuse (which is pointless ... (read in full...)
I'm a very insecure man and I lied to her about really stupid stuff. Do I have a chance with her?
Q. I have worked with this woman for two years. We finally met in April and immediatly started to date. I am a very, very insecure man and I lied about some really stupid stuff. She found out one by one (there were three) and each time I told here ...
A. 17 August 2008: Oh, dear. First, it's important to slove the insecurity issue. It will destroy any relatonship you are in wether she is the one or not. It will always come between you and her. (And I don't speak for all ladies, but in my opinion, insecurities are a ... (read in full...)
Why did she want to keep her bra on during sex?
Q. My girlfriend and me had sex for the frist time. For some reason she kept her bra on. When I tried to unhook it she would slap my hand away. Is this odd?...
A. 16 August 2008: "I love them and really get turned on when you let me touch them. I think they are perfect". That should help;)... (read in full...)
I'm a clingy person and I tend to be obsessive, need advice please?
Q. hi i need serious help. i'm clingy person and i tend to be obsessive. plus i'm a totaly failure at realtionships. this year i have gone through 10 different guys and then i become obsessive then they break up w/ me. i dont no why i'm like tat. i ...
A. 15 August 2008: I suppose the first step in solving a problem is to admit to having one. You need to pick up new hobbies (dont confuse that with hubbies, lol). Going through guys like water gets old, and wears you down. Being paranoid with someone you are with that ... (read in full...)
Why did she want to keep her bra on during sex?
Q. My girlfriend and me had sex for the frist time. For some reason she kept her bra on. When I tried to unhook it she would slap my hand away. Is this odd?...
A. 15 August 2008: Perhaps she has an issue with her breasts. Maybe she thinks they are too small, and her bust flattering bra was her security. Maybe she dosnt like the looks of her nipples. I can only assume that in time, as she feels more comfertable with you, she ... (read in full...)
My husband went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have discovered all kinds of things on Facebook from his 18 yo 'friend.' Guess where he went away.
Q. My husband and I have been having some marriage troubles...he went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have recently gone onto Facebook and he is on there too. I have discovered all these sexy, love, suggestive bumper ...
A. 15 August 2008: "Honey, I don't think you'd be too keen on finding these on my facebook, and these types of charges on the Visa card", as you hand him the obvious evidence, would be what I'd do in your situation. When was the last time you had time alone? Maybe NOW ... (read in full...)
I want to move out!
Q. I am 15 and i hate my family and i wish i could live some where else and just talk with them sometimes i hate it here, i love them but, i think i would be better off not living with them i fight with them, a little to much. but i don't want to hurt ...
A. 12 August 2008: I felt the same way you do at your age. Try to remamber that the way they treat you now is most likely in you futures best intrest. Unless they are abusing you, they are trying to keep you on the right track. My mother used to ground me for what I ... (read in full...)
If my husband's ex'es are such good friends of him, why can't we all be friends instead of him sneaking?
Q. Hello, I have a question about my husband. Now, he has ex girlfriends that he consistently texts when we have arguments. Now, these girls are only like 21 or 22 and I'm 28, so naturally they have rude comments and don't really get the whole story of ...
A. 12 August 2008: Your points are understandable and valid. I've said this before and I will say it again: a person with nothing to hide, hides nothing. And your instinct is telling you what? And why are you second guessing it? I'm not saying he is cheating, but ... (read in full...)
Some girls at my school are hating on me... how can I deal with this?
Q. Dear cupid... theres these girls at school that wont leave me alone... i was cool with them at the begging but some guy got in the way.. ever since theyve began hating me there whole lil click has started hating on me... i fought both of the twin...
A. 12 August 2008: Is the age bracket that is displayed by your screen name accurate? I ask this because at 22-25, these types of situations are far more rare than if you were, say, in High school. Just know that fighting never solves anything, in most cases, it makes ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend is a terrible lover. How do I improve this?
Q. Sex with my new boyfriend is not great, and even though I like him I'm about to call it quits. I am thinking of pretending like I'm completely uninterested in sex to see if that kick starts him. I hate to play games, but talking about sex with ...
A. 7 August 2008: Ah, a selfish sex partner is never something that leaves you wanting more. What worked for me is in the heat of a sexual moment, taking control of the situation completely. When is is good and hard, and ready, and tries to push your head down there, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has been away for a month and a half, I want to masturbate and look at porn. Is that cheating?
Q. My girlfriend has gone away and i miss her loads. We have a very active sex life and she will be away for a month and a half. I have thought about masturbating but i'm not sure if its okay to or not. Also, if i do and i use porn to help, is that ...
A. 7 August 2008: It's refreshing to hear you sound so considerate. Your girlfriend is a lucky lady. I, personally, don't think it is cheating to release your load to a good porn, but some ladies do. If it is really a concern of yours, ask her if she would be ... (read in full...)
I can't move past my boyfriend kissing another girl. Can you help?
Q. Hi, I am having a baby with my boyfriend and I'm having serious trust issues due to his past behaviour and my own. A few months ago, pre-pregnancy, my boyfriend (we are both in our mid to late 20s) of 2 years months kissed a girl at a club while he...
A. 7 August 2008: As a mother of 2 and expecting again, I know that these types of situations fall in a far more intense level of worry than if you were not carrying child. At this delicate stage in your life, you are thinking "I need a solid confermation that he ... (read in full...)
I just found out that my wife has a post office box just for letters from her "friend".
Q. My wife said she loves me but is not IN love with me. She said I didn't pay attention to her just after I found out I have MS. Now shes talking to an old lover, but said they are "Just Friends". how should I feel? I had a bad time for about a year ...
A. 5 August 2008: I'm sympathetic to your having MS. My mother has chronic progressive MS now for 18 years. I feel for you, and hope that soon they create a cure for this!!! She, too, had these types of issues with her husband one she found out. She made the mistake ... (read in full...)
I've been seeing a married man for 6 years and I think he's talking to other girls online!
Q. Hi: I have been seeing a married man for 6 years now, he tells me he loves me but he keeps chatting with women on line and wanting to get to know them better. When I ask him about he says it is not true but I know otherwise, what should I do?...
A. 5 August 2008: Heheheheh....sigh. You are suprised? Upset? Hurt? Betrayed? Yeah, think of how his wife will feel when (not if, WHEN) she finds out about you!!! Ever consider dating a single man?... (read in full...)
My 'best friend' tricked me in to believing he could help me date this girl, yet the whole time he was dating her himself!
Q. I have fallen for this girl at school, the problem is she does not know that i exist. I have liked her for 4 years, since i started secondary school. I am really shy, but my best friend knows her really well. He was telling me what to get her like ...
A. 1 August 2008: Tough question. I would figure out the details on why she is no longer with your "friend". Is it something you are prepared to deal with yourself? Did she know you liked her at all while the were together? Is your "friend" trying to make a mends ... (read in full...)
My best friend told me I was obsessed with my brother dying, now he hasn't got the guts to apologise! Why?
Q. My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had cancer. I even missed a week of school because of it. When I told my best guy friend (also my brother's friend) he said I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slap...
A. 1 August 2008: I am sorry for your loss, it isnt something you just forget about, and your friend was being very selfish and inconsiderate when he said that to you. He probably is afraid to appologize in person because he dosnt want to get smacked again, lol. He ... (read in full...)
Why am I hardly ever in the mood for sex?
Q. Is there something wrong with me? I am hardly ever in the mood for sex and i am only 23 years old. Does anyone have any advice for me, to help me have more of a sex life with my boyfriend?...
A. 1 August 2008: For some ladies, once they have been with their boyfriends for a while, they get a little too accustomed to the same old action in bed. It gets to the point where when the two of you reunite at the end of the day, all you want to do when he wants to ... (read in full...)
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