Help I don't understand why girls do this?
Q. i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not...
A. 6 November 2009: See?... (read in full...)
What if I kiss someone for the first time and they say I'm terrible?
Q. ok ive just turned 14 but ive never kissed a boy i guess ive always been waiting for a nice boy but now i just feel really embarassed because all! of my friends have been going on about how there boy friends are really good kissers and i really want ...
A. 6 November 2009: Try practicing on your hand.... (read in full...)
Help I don't understand why girls do this?
Q. i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not...
A. 6 November 2009: I dare say q's has all kinds of comebacks for this kind of situation...if I were you, poster, I'd PM him.... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 6 November 2009: Hi Guys! What's going on?... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 6 November 2009: Do YOU think your family will have problem with the age difference?... (read in full...)
Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?
Q. ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...
A. 6 November 2009: Sorry about the hiccup.... (read in full...)
Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?
Q. ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...
A. 6 November 2009: First I would talk to your Dad. Just tell him what you found in the history and the concerns you have. He may have a very plasible reason for searching for massages. But ultimately it is up to him to tell your Mom or not. She may already be aware of ... (read in full...)
Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?
Q. ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...
A. 6 November 2009: First I would talk to your Dad. Just tell him what you found in the history and the concerns you have. He may have a very plasible reason for searching for massages. But ultimately it is up to him to tell your Mom or not. She may already be aware of ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
A. 6 November 2009: If she just turned 50 your question will become moot very shortly.... (read in full...)
Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?
Q. I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...
A. 5 November 2009: Sorry Buddy, but you must like being her puppy dog or you would send her packing. She obviously isn't going to change. At least make her find her own place and see if money still means nothing to her.... (read in full...)
Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?
Q. I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...
A. 5 November 2009: People are used only because they allow themselves to be used. If you are not happy being her doormat then tell her to get her own place. Man up and show her the door or put up with her crap. Quite simple really.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?
Q. Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I k...
A. 5 November 2009: Just don't put your life on hold for him. It's too precious. ... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?
Q. I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. ...
A. 5 November 2009: Excellent question r&b!... (read in full...)
I'm worried! Is this an orgasm?
Q. Okay this is wierd!..but when having oral sex, and the guy is fingering a girl, and she tells him too stop, and he smiles and says i could feel that thing a jumpin, but he talks about having sex again, the next night...is that bad? Like should the ...
A. 5 November 2009: Some guys kiss and tell that's why young ladies are advised not to get too intimate too young or too fast. Once you reputation is damaged it is mighty hard to fix it. Tell him to keep his hands to himself or you'll show him the door.... (read in full...)
2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why...
A. 5 November 2009: Put the parental blocks on your laptop, or have your mom do it. As for your period, girls can get their periods as early as 10 years and as late as 18 years and it falls in the range of normal. Why not have this discussion with your mom? She will be ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
A. 5 November 2009: What's a period again? I forget....... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?
Q. Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I k...
A. 5 November 2009: I certainly wouldn't be putting all my eggs into just this one basket if I were you. It doesn't sound like his feeling for you quite match yours for him. You can keep him on the back burner while he's gone but I think you should also get out there ... (read in full...)
How can I show my ex-friend I am happy without him?
Q. So I have an ex-friend who I kinda dislike. But today I felt upset because he was with other people and I felt lonely and like I had nobody. I do have my own friends but I feel alone too sometimes. I want to show him that I'm happy with not being ...
A. 5 November 2009: This doesn't sound harsh to me but it does sound like junior high school. Ignore him, just be yourself and move on with your life.... (read in full...)
I want to see him for an explanation and an apology but his wife forbids him from contacting me!
Q. I was seeing an Iranian man for a couple of months. He told me he was separated for the last year, doesn't live with his wife and has a 5 year old child. We got on really well and a while into our relationship I actually was getting more conscious ...
A. 5 November 2009: Wives can be so darn pesky can't they!? Sorry you got suckered, don't let it happen again. Oh and leave them alone.... (read in full...)
My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?
Q. I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?...
A. 5 November 2009: I don't know, maybe lock her up and throw away the key until she's 20? Either that or have her babysit your kid all the time, that should take the "inspiration" away quick, fast, and in a hurry.... (read in full...)
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: No rational person would risk jeopardising a happy 33 year old marriage over something that happened long before the vows were made. ... (read in full...)
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: Here's my idea, drop this like a hot potato Bob me boy. It's over 30 years and a very happy marriage later and you did up this old chestnut?! You've had a fuller love life than many folks so quit beating a dead horse. Appreciate what you have and ... (read in full...)
I think my 14 year old sister is going to run away with a 24 year old man!
Q. i'm worried about my sister shes 14 in half and shes going out with a 24 year old. she was scared i was going to tell mom and dad about it so she made me promse to not say anything to them. and i'm worried that hes going to hurt her. she wont tell ...
A. 5 November 2009: Tell your parents immediately, you made a promise that was meant to be broken for your sister's safety sake. She'll thank you later. Talk to Mom and Dad.... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 5 November 2009: At the risk of getting aunts angry at me, I've got to say there is something about this whole post that seems just a tad surreal, like maybe it more fantasy than fact?!... (read in full...)
Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?
Q. I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...
A. 5 November 2009: She just isn't ready to settle down with one guy. She is only 19 and as far as I'm concerned that's way too young to get married, for most people anyway. Ditch the engagement, as you say, but you guys can still date each other. Maybe you both should ... (read in full...)
Am I headed towards divorce or is this normal?
Q. My 2nd husband, no kids, and I are living different lives with very different lives. He seems semi-concerned (probable to guilt to my daily affairs and i s'pose i to his) I am flirting back to men who flirt with me in a semi-(im)proper manner, he ...
A. 5 November 2009: I agree with Tish, you both have let your marriage wither and die. If neither one of you is willing to make the effort to bring the marriage back to health then it's time to split the blanket, and in your case that means for the second time. Think ... (read in full...)
Is 7 months too soon to bring up marriage?
Q. When is it safe to bring up marriage? We've been dating 7 months, and we are in love. He treats me like I've never been before, and the signs are all there. He is younger than I am and has never been married. I have been married before but this ...
A. 4 November 2009: Of course there is nothing carve in stone about this. I do think that 7 months is still on the early side so if I were in your shoes I'd just relax for a while and enjoy the ride.... (read in full...)
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
Q. My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...
A. 4 November 2009: One can only hope...... (read in full...)
She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?
Q. He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...
A. 4 November 2009: Aww the poor old guy is probably just trying to guarantee a line up of nursing home visitors.... (read in full...)
He's 31..I am almost 17! Could he get in trouble for dating me?
Q. im 16 and ive been dating this guy for about two years i love him with all my heart and so does he, we have been through so much together but theres one problem he's 15 years older than me which makes him 31(im turing 17 in a few days though.) is ...
A. 3 November 2009: What do your parents say about it?... (read in full...)
She left me drunk and defenceless on the pavement!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was broken into paragraphs to make it easier to read. No other changes have been made.] I am questioning my partners love for me. I don't think she loves me with the way she responds to me and also in her actions agai...
A. 2 November 2009: Poor judgement on everybody's part. You should've left when you wanted to in the first place, then you wouldn't have ended up past out on the pavement. She should have helped you amble back to her place so you wouldn't have gotten robbed. Chalk it ... (read in full...)
Our love is forbidden! How can I be her best friend?
Q. My lover decided to return with her husband and workout her marriage but now considers me to be her best friend... she tells me that she loves me and that she is in love with me but feels that she needs to sacrifice her "happiness" for the sake of ...
A. 2 November 2009: Walk away so she can commit her entire attention to saving what's left of her marriage. If you truly care about her that's what you should do. If she decides there's just not enough left to save and finally divorces, then you can hook up but until ... (read in full...)
How can I be loose when I am still a virgin?
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was minimally edited for spelling and grammar to improve legibility.] I'm worried. Basically I'm a horny girl. I can't help it, I think I'm more horny than a guy. Anyway, I masturbate a lot, like in one go, 3 times and ...
A. 2 November 2009: Your boyfriend sound like a dork, ignore his comments or get a new one.... (read in full...)
Misbehaviour with sister-in-law...
Q. I am 20 yr old. I used to have fantasies for my sister in law who was elder. I started touching her whenever i got chance. But one day she asked me why i was touching her special parts. I understood that i was caught. I became pale. Then she was ...
A. 2 November 2009: Keep you hands to yourself, that's what you do now. Sheesh Buddy, grow up.... (read in full...)
Help! How do I get my first kiss?
Q. ok well I'm 18 and I have never had my first kiss or anything. please tell me how I should get it. I need major help so please give me all your ideas....
A. 2 November 2009: Well New Year's Eve is coming around the corner maybe you'll get lucky.... (read in full...)
How do I change my mom's mind?
Q. im 16 and want my tongue pierced soooo bad! but my mom says no cuz its "trashy". 2 questions, how do i get her to change her mind and is it really trashy for a girl to have a tongue piercing? thanks! lovee, Laceyyy....
A. 2 November 2009: One of the students I worked with got her tongue pierced and chipped two teeth with it and had to get caps. Until you get your own dental insurance, I'm with mom on this one.... (read in full...)
I'll keep it short:
Q. will i ever be loved...
A. 2 November 2009: I like quiet-echo's answer. If you are feeling unloved hang out here awhile, we're great company.... (read in full...)
I can't stand the thought of my divorced parents with new partners, what should I do?
Q. My parents have recently split up after 30 years of marriage. I think one of them has just started a new relationship and I don't know what to do. I don't want to have anything to do with the new partner but does that mean I can't have the same ...
A. 2 November 2009: I guess I'll chime in and say that this is really none your business. Why grown children expect to be the center of their parent's universe is beyond me. They raised you, their primary job is done. Let them now live their lives as they see fit. Act ... (read in full...)
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
Q. MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
A. 30 October 2009: The only advice I have is for you to talk to your parents. They know you better than anybody else and will have your best interests in mind. At least listen to their counsel. I'm not going to judge you but your teacher is in the wrong profession, by ... (read in full...)
Why is my vagina swollen shut?
Q. okay a few months ago i started having problems with my vag it was swollen shut an there was redness an some irritation so i went to the doctor an i was treated for a yeast infection after i was okay test results came out fine sometime after this ...
A. 30 October 2009: Go back to the doctor. Posting this on a relationship website isn't going to do you any good, that is if you are really concerned about your health.... (read in full...)
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