Living with my boyfriend but messing around with his friend!
Q. Hi I'm a 22 year old male whos been with my boyfriend now for close on two years. I moved in with him last October and everythings been fine...until now. Last weekend I kissed one of his best friends and don't know what to do. I first met his ...
A. 20 July 2008: You don't seem so keen on your boyfriend but are excited by this new guy. Do the right thing by yourself and your BF, breakup with him. THEn see if this new guy is interested.... (read in full...)
She said she had been "forcing her feelings" to try to make it work. Is this possible?
Q. I was wondering, is it possible for someone to fake feelings because they want to be with someone. I was seeing a girl for about three weeks and she seemed very into me...lots of texts saying how much she liked me, etc. She stayed over at mine on ...
A. 11 July 2008: Some people are just good at dating, jumping from one relationship to the next without attaching much meaning to them. They go through all the motions, the text messaging ect only to discover much to their surprised that they aren't actually in ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned, is it normal for a guy to still have a few feelings for his ex?
Q. I have a concern: Ok i hav dated my bf for a year now. Back in January he told me he still had some feelings for his ex (the reason y they dindt work out was cuz they cudnt get married..our culture is diff -- we ask parents approval and her...
A. 11 July 2008: 1. Yes it is normal for someone to have feelings for their ex, especially if they are not together because of his choice (although personally I think he is hiding behind his parents and just used them as an excuse to break up with his ex. 2. M... (read in full...)
Should I just be patient and wait for his call?
Q. Hi, I just recently got back from a vacation where i met an absolutly wonderful guy. He wrote me a little letter before we left, and we were romantically involved. He gave me his cell number, even though it went into the ocean and doesn't work. I al...
A. 1 May 2008: I agree with the previous posters, calling him on his home number is probably going to creep him out and make you look obsessive and desperate.... (read in full...)
Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?
Q. I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I ...
A. 1 May 2008: I think your friend eels that she has something to prove, she can see that you have moved on and now she's trying to convince both you and her that she has as well. I don't think that her behaviour is intentionally directed at making you feel ... (read in full...)
He hardly talks to me on his own. The relationship is going downhill, as his school results!... What to do?
Q. HI... I'm sure youi get like a million letters with the same problem as i seem to be havin, but that doesnt change the fact that it makes you feel pretty much miserable. Well.. here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half y...
A. 30 April 2008: You seem to be making him feel inadequate, his poor results shown up even more by your good results. The fact that he is confiding in others and not you seems to indicate that there is a real rift devoloping between the two of you. Maybe you should ... (read in full...)
Should I risk friendship if there is the chance of a relationship?
Q. Hi guys hope that your advices help me to take a decision. I really like my flatmate. I'm 30 and she is 29. We live together for 3 months now. We get along very well and I really enjoyed her company. I'm trying to decide if I tell her what I'm fee...
A. 30 April 2008: Annon, truthfully only you are in the position to best decide how to proceed. If you feel that you need to build up more o a rapport with her before telling her directly how you feel then go for it! :oD... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before I give up?
Q. ive been working with a guy since last october, im really into him and i was unsure whether he felt the same, the people we work with tell me he talks about me, saying how nice i am and that he'd love to take me out. But yesterday was my last day ...
A. 29 April 2008: When I get a number I wait two days before calling it. It may be that your co-worker forgot to pass your number on. Why not pop back in there in a weeks time to say hello to your old co-workers and invite them out to drinks to celebrate your new ... (read in full...)
Help! I lost my erection!
Q. I have recently started seeing a girl, this is the first girl i have been dating for several months now. She is extremely nice and sexually stunning. After seeing her a few times we decided to make the next step to the bedroom. Unfortunately ha...
A. 29 April 2008: You might need a larger sized condom, if it's too tight you won't be able to get blood pumping into your cock.... (read in full...)
Should I risk friendship if there is the chance of a relationship?
Q. Hi guys hope that your advices help me to take a decision. I really like my flatmate. I'm 30 and she is 29. We live together for 3 months now. We get along very well and I really enjoyed her company. I'm trying to decide if I tell her what I'm fee...
A. 29 April 2008: I'm in exactly the same situation (only my flatmate isn't going anywhere). If you are going to tell her I recommend that you tell her before she leaves on this 10 day trip for two reasons: Firstly, it will give her a chance to sort things out in ... (read in full...)
In love with my flatmate ,but he's taken, should I give it a go?
Q. I have some strong emotional feelings for my housemate G. When we first met three years ago it was just for casual sex as I wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone after comming out of a four year relationship. Then he started dating someone ...
A. 29 April 2008: Thanks for your reply Waterloo, as for what have I got to lose? Well we live together, it would make things very akward for the two of us to be just friends afterwards if G said no, even more akward if he started seeing someone else. I don't want ... (read in full...)
I've been thinking about trying guys?
Q. Ok guys i have tons of questions so bear with me. Ok so i've been thinking about trying guy cause girls just cause all sorts of problems. But i have LOTS of issues... 1. I want to expierament but idk anyone who would want to 2. I don't know any ...
A. 29 April 2008: "Ok so i've been thinking about trying guy cause girls just cause all sorts of problems"
Guys cause just as many problems. Just decide who you are attracted to, guys, girls or both.... (read in full...)
It's a sticky situation but I think I'm really in love! What do you think?
Q. My married ex-boyfriend introduced me to his single brother by setting us up on a casual date that wasn't supposed to go anywhere, since he was gonna meet my bestfriend from out of town...Long story short, no matter how it happended it's been 2 ...
A. 29 April 2008: Of course your ex is going to feel akward having you at family functions and not want you there. Tough luck for him! I totally agree with your boyfriend, that you should attend with him and let your ex sort out his own problems.... (read in full...)
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