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Girls, do you think she won't call if she didn't call the first night?

Q.   me and this girl at work flirt with each other alot, make each other laugh, and when she catches me looking at her every once in a while she turns away and i see her smiling about it. I was goign to ask her out on a date but there were like 5 peop...

A.   14 April 2008: before i answer ur question i hav to ask..what did u say to her when u gave her ur number? xxxx... (read in full...)

How long after sex do I wait to take a pregnancy test?

Q.   hi i was wondering how long should i wait after having sex 2 take a pregnancy test for it to work properly? i mean...im afraid i might be pregnant but i dont know if i take a pregnancy test now if its gonna work..i haven't got my period yet, gett...

A.   14 April 2008: well i didnt wait the 4-6 weeks i mean i havent done the test coz my period was due last thurs wen it sud be and i still have it so i can take no test yet,i've bought one so i'll do it when my period is finished but i really doubt im pregnant! ... (read in full...)

I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore.

Q.   I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore. I'm in one right now but I'm so sick of it. I don't want to deal with it but I miss my ex.. what do you think I should do?...

A.   11 April 2008: no bother ;) any time xx... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!

Q.   hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...

A.   10 April 2008: thanks country woman i certainly will but hopefully next time i need help it will hav nothin to do with pregnancy lol thanks a mill xxxx... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!

Q.   hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...

A.   10 April 2008: thanks 4makin me feel "better" laura 1318...but im gonna keep thinkin positivly coz the chances are very slim like the rest of the people've said and my period cum exatcly when it should,2 days after i took my last pill,wasn't even 1 day late and ... (read in full...)

Why does he need to look at other women?

Q.   why my husband look other female ? and when i catch hem he say i didn't look at other female . what bother me is the lie do u think he miss something ? what i should do help thnax ...

A.   10 April 2008: P.S: u dont really expect him to tell ya he is lookin at sum other woman are u?its like askin a cheatin husband if hes cheatin on u..dey obviously are gonna deny and we ar so stupid dat we always let it go and after a few days der dey are doin it ... (read in full...)

Why does he need to look at other women?

Q.   why my husband look other female ? and when i catch hem he say i didn't look at other female . what bother me is the lie do u think he miss something ? what i should do help thnax ...

A.   10 April 2008: i know thats annoyin..my boyfriend dus even worse he compliments women in front of me mostly wen hes drunk and it annoys me so very much but i dont show him that!start doing the same to him i mean..i doesnt matter wat u say hes not gonna stop lukin ... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!

Q.   hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...

A.   10 April 2008: thank u so much guys..just after gettin my period..im delighted..i learned da lesson..no mre sleepin with people i hav no feelings 4 nd next time i do sleep with somebody im gonna make sure i tuk da pill as prescribed nd always wear a condom lol... (read in full...)

I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore.

Q.   I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore. I'm in one right now but I'm so sick of it. I don't want to deal with it but I miss my ex.. what do you think I should do?...

A.   10 April 2008: i know exactly wat u goin thru it happens to me in very relationship i get into too.i mean at the beginin i wud be da one v excited nd da one dat likes more bt sumhow inda end dey always end up bin the needy ones,dey fall 4me nd i feel sori 4dem so ... (read in full...)

I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore.

Q.   I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore. I'm in one right now but I'm so sick of it. I don't want to deal with it but I miss my ex.. what do you think I should do?...

A.   10 April 2008: i know exactly wat u goin thru it happens to me in very relationship i get into too.i mean at the beginin i wud be da one v excited nd da one dat likes more bt sumhow inda end dey always end up bin the needy ones,dey fall 4me nd i feel sori 4dem so ... (read in full...)

I want our relationship to work but it's just the thought of her going to clubs that has overtaken me...

Q.   Hi I was with my girlfriend for a year and a half before, we split up and found different partners for about 4 months, you got back together and its been about 5 months now. I feel our relationship is collapsing and I can see it, well it is all ...

A.   9 April 2008: well i do get ur point the thing is u and ur girlfriend hav to work on ur trust before the relationship goes down the drain,i mean..iv bin der before i was 16 he was 20,he wud go 2clubs nd i used to hate it but nutin i cud do bot it other den trust ... (read in full...)

How do I make a guy love me?

Q.   How do I make a guy love me?...

A.   8 April 2008: u dont babe...im sori i wish it was as simple as dat but it isnt,u have to wait and see wat happens.... (read in full...)

I suspect my ex goes out with my friend to make me jealous! Do I tell my friend how I feel?

Q.   me and my boyfriend ended our relationship this morning we agreed to stay friends but i dont want another friend whilst we were going out i knew he had an eye on one of my friends and have just seen them together holding hands and kissing, i dont...

A.   8 April 2008: i dont think u sud tell her.well she needs to know but the fact u are his ex might make it luk like ur jus jealous and dats gonna do no gud 4ur relationship with dem both.i mean ur friends gonna find out one way or the other.wat im tryin to say ... (read in full...)

My ex cheated but he really, really loves me! I'm so confused....can it work?

Q.   My ex cheated on me in september, and the girl he was with told me in december. he denied it.. i finaly got it out of him when i had solid evidence. i stayed with him, but broke up with him in january until march.... we were not really broken up, we ...

A.   8 April 2008: ok il try not to sound too harsh.sum people ar gonna say "if he loved u he wudnt hav cheated on u" nd dey might be right but i really think u sud give him a 2nd chance if u really love him as much as u say u do but make it clear jus because hm nd ... (read in full...)

Why does it take days for a guy to call or text message you back?

Q.   Why does it take days for a guy to call or text message you back? Does this often signify that he has a girlfriend? Or just super busy...or uninterested. ...

A.   8 April 2008: well i know its hard but wait and see if he txts ya or call u as he said he wud,i mean if u have only went on a date with this lad,he said he would txt u and he didnt u ar better off lettin him go now that the whole "u nd him" ting is only ... (read in full...)

How long after sex do I wait to take a pregnancy test?

Q.   hi i was wondering how long should i wait after having sex 2 take a pregnancy test for it to work properly? i mean...im afraid i might be pregnant but i dont know if i take a pregnancy test now if its gonna work..i haven't got my period yet, gett...

A.   7 April 2008: thanks everyone i'm gonna try nd wait 4 four weeks,dont want to get a false negative. cheers ;) xxxxxxxx ... (read in full...)

How long after sex do I wait to take a pregnancy test?

Q.   hi i was wondering how long should i wait after having sex 2 take a pregnancy test for it to work properly? i mean...im afraid i might be pregnant but i dont know if i take a pregnancy test now if its gonna work..i haven't got my period yet, gett...

A.   6 April 2008: 4-6 weeks?that long? did u get the wrong result wen u done in 2weeks?i thought it was only 14 days.OMG 4 weeks is to long im gonna go insane! thanx anyways =) xx... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!

Q.   hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...

A.   1 April 2008: HI GUYS,no i dont love him nemre dats a fact,dats why im freakin out coz the worst ting dat cud happen to me now is get pregnant wid HIS baby..i dont wanna be wid him i wudnt even think about gettin bak with him even if i was really carrying his ... (read in full...)

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