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Hi my name is Rose, I am a 41 year old mother of two lovely kids and have a lovely 15 months old grandaughter. Being on cupid has become a kinda hobby of mine. I like helping other people with their problems, it shows me there are always people that are worse off than yourself. I have made quite a few friends on here THANKS GUYS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT.

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I don't think girls find me attractive!

Q.   Hi, I'm a typical 16 year old boy in a situation I bet everyone has been in, so I'm hoping you guys can help me :) Basically I've getting quite depressed recently because I like a girl but I don't think she finds me attractive, its been li...

A.   25 August 2009: Sweety if you continue to put yourself down and have a lack of confidence. Girls will sense that and run a mile. Here are the qualities that will make you attractive. Sense of humour (Us girls love to laugh) Confidence (Without being too c... (read in full...)

My boyfriend answered his phone during sex! Why is he acting so weird?

Q.   My guy never answers his phone for me when he is with his friends, but, When we are together he is texting and he has even answered the phone in the middle of sex! He has been acting really weird lately. He also just told me a few hours ago that "He ...

A.   25 August 2009: What an insenstive oaf your bf is. You are better off without this jerk, who has all the sensitivity of a paperbag. He should be there comforting you at your hour of need, not passing on shitty comments like "I can't handle your sadness". Did ... (read in full...)

23 year old son wants to meet with a girl he met online. Is it safe?

Q.   Our 23 year old son lives with us, and he's in university doing a 4-year business course - it got delayed for financial reasons. He's doing well academically. However, he told us yesterday he wants to meet this girl he met online - he got talk...

A.   23 August 2009: You are going to have to cut the apron strings hear dear. Your son is old enough to live his own life, if you try and persuade him not to meet this girl; the likelyhood is he will do so anyway. Just wish him luck on his date, I think he is savvy... (read in full...)

Side effects of the morning after pill?

Q.   I've just taken the morning after pill prescribed by my doctor, but didn't think to ask what exactly is going to happen to by body, and I can't find it any where on the internet. I was just wondering if any one else who has taken it can tell me, ...

A.   23 August 2009: Usually the morning after pill has directions of use on the packet/leaflet. You are meant to take it within 72 hours after sex, eat something before taking it because you will probably get nauseaous or sick. You take the first pill, then take the... (read in full...)

Should I keep making excuses for him?

Q.   So my boyfriend is a pretty shy and clueless guy when it comes to girls. I'm his first girlfriend, and we've been dating for about 3 months. I'm 19, he's 22. We've been working together since fall of last year, and we first went out in January.....

A.   23 August 2009: If he cannot be prepared to have a two-way relationship with you, then I am afraid he is a lost cause and that you should finish with him.... (read in full...)

We want to date - but the 'kids' think it's too weird, what should we do?

Q.   I am interested in having a relationship with my daughter's boyfriend's dad. We like each other and would like to date.We live on opposite ends of the country but communicate each day.We will get together when we can.Here's the problem though, my ...

A.   23 August 2009: Lazyguy!!!! How will this be incest???? The bf and gf are not even blood related,read up on the meaning of incest on Google and maybe you will learn a thing or two. Dear Poster, I think you should go ahead and date the FIL. If the kids thinks i... (read in full...)

Why does my girlfriend only come for a short while whilst having sex?

Q.   Hello. I have one question. While me and my GF having sex, after a while she losses her juice in the pussy and it gets dry. So of course it starts to heart her. Please help me, I am really worried about this. Thanks to everyone who try to help...

A.   22 August 2009: Buy her some KY Jelly.... (read in full...)

My girldfriend wasn't upfront with me about her past. How do I get over it?

Q.   how do i get over the fact that my girlfriend kissed another guy and he felt all over her before we started dating and she told me way after we've been dating for 4 to 5 months? i checked and didnt find the question at all please post thanks....

A.   21 August 2009: What the hell has it got to do with you, whether she has kissed a guy before or not? If she is of similar age to you, my guess is that she has probably kissed a few blokes before she met you. Unless you can accept that she actually has a p... (read in full...)

I want to leave my abusive household but I'm not sure.. please help!

Q.   im 15 and i know i recently asked this question but i had a nother follow up question for my situations. i had a boyfriend who was 19 and im 15. we are not having sex. we've been together for about 6 months. my parents didnt know about us until they ...

A.   21 August 2009: Hey this thread was posted a couple of days ago!... (read in full...)

My partner keeps having sex with me in my sleep, even if we have had sex before sleeping!

Q.   my partner and i have a very active sex life, we have been together 14 years, we still have sex 3-4 times a week, however he goes through phases, of having sex whilst im sleepin, my partner is quite a dominate man, and ive let him be, when i start ...

A.   20 August 2009: Leave him, no-one deserves to be raped in their sleep. Has he been violent or verbally abusive towards you during the 14 years you guys have been together? You do not state what your overall relationship is like and need more info about your ... (read in full...)

He's lying about dating sites and porn

Q.   i've been with my boyf for nearly 2 years, we live together and it hasn't all been plain sailing! He had a problem with porn. not just any porn but wanting to do things with black guys (both me and him - we are white) I told him that i wasn't into ...

A.   20 August 2009: I dumped my bf, when I found out about him visiting dating sites. Stay with him and he will continue to lie to you, as he constantly abuses your trust. I say get rid of him, he will never change.... (read in full...)

I lied to him about my age and now he wants to visit me, what should I do?

Q.   Okay, so, I was on a chat room one day, bored out of my mind, telling people I was 17 when I actually, I had just turned 14. Well, me and this guy (he was 17) got talking and exchanged emails. We got to know eachother and I guess he started liking ...

A.   19 August 2009: Sounds like a Paedo grooming his next victim. Do not go and meet him,because you maybe putting your life in danger. I think parents should supervise their kids when they are on the computer, we hear too many horror stories of perverts enticing... (read in full...)

I'm in a new relationship and worried I may have gotten an STD! I don't want this to ruin things!

Q.   I recently became involved in a relationship with the most incredible woman and things have been going very well. However, lat week I began not feeling so well downstairs and became concerned that I might have contracted and STD. I have held off ...

A.   18 August 2009: Tell her now! Look up on Google about STD too.... (read in full...)

He seems insensitive - should I dump him?

Q.   Hi - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years but I am worrying we are just not compatible because every now and then he says the most insensitive things. Just one example which plays on my mind and still upsets me was before Xmas my 92 year old ...

A.   18 August 2009: Just three words..... Dump him Sweetie!!!... (read in full...)

Guys: How do you forget your girls so easily?

Q.   It's getting really hard to forget him, here i am, at 7 in the morning crying over him, yet again. not the first time i'll admit. it's been 4 months since i spoke to him, and i came on myspace just now (what i'm about to say is really stupid) and i ...

A.   18 August 2009: Have you actually met this guy hun? There are too many so called cyber relationships, that cause loads of heartache. People go on these websites to meet, chat and have fun with as many people. That is the whole point of these site my dear. ... (read in full...)

Will women be put off by man who's only had one sexual partner?

Q.   Hi, Im wondering do women think its a turn off if aguy who is in his early 30s has had only one sexual partner in the past. It was a long term relationship that didnt work out and I now wonder if women will be put off by it? Thanks....

A.   18 August 2009: You sound like a lovely guy, who has great respect for women. If there are more like you in the world, it would be a much better place. I think that is something to be proud of, most men tend to play the Alpha male and notch up as many women th... (read in full...)

Why in the world do I always give in and let him contact me and start believing in him again?

Q.   I am sorry ahead of time for how long this is going to be, but I am totally at a lost.....Me and my ex meet online 4 yrs ago. He totally swept me off my feet. We dated online for over a year, seeing each other on weekends etc. After a year, I ...

A.   17 August 2009: You going back to him, will only add more fuel to the way you are feeling now. You can still be that smart, independant and confident woman, if you have nothing to do with this self indulgent and egotistical little jerk. You owe it to your child... (read in full...)

Threesome turned can we improve our sex life without resorting to that again?

Q.   I seem to be in trouble. After repeatedly cheating on my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years, we had a good chat and I confessed that it was only sexual stuff and nothing emotional involved and that whereas I never climax with him, I did with the last guy ...

A.   17 August 2009: If you really loved your bf as you say you do, then you would do the decent thing and stay faithful. You sound like a superficial, self indulgent young lady and do not deserve such a nice decent young man like your bf. You constantly undermin... (read in full...)

Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!

Q.   Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...

A.   17 August 2009: No the age of consent is there for a reason. There are far too many under age girls getting pregnant, or having catching STD. Physically and emotionally they not ready for such relationships.... (read in full...)

He's just confessed to me he's 29... I'm 18, what should I do?

Q.   I'm 18 years old and I fell inlove with an 29 year old man... what's really crazy is that he was an undercover cop. I met him at the hospital in the waiting room, he told me he was 17 years old in high school. I believed him because he does look ...

A.   15 February 2009: For you to believe that he is 17, he must look like a very young 30.... (read in full...)

My long term boyfriend's mother can't accept me and won't clarify why. Any ideas on what I can do?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years,on and off. We got back together on a serious basis in June. I am very frustrated cos his mum doesn;'t want to accept me.I am not allowed to go to his house. I feel humiliated by it, as I have never met the ...

A.   4 November 2008: Well what a nasty piece of work your boyfriend has turned out to be, he is the one who is a control freak not you. Ditch this spineless wimp!!!... (read in full...)

After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"

Q.   I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after ...

A.   28 October 2008: If you don't want to get used, then stop sleeping with him.......... End of!!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend left me after 8½ months to go back to his ex, what can I do to make him come back to me again?

Q.   Hi im so confused with myself at the moment, i really want my ex bf back we split 2 weeks today his choice, he wanted his ex back we where together for 8 1/2 months, i still talk to him and everything seems fine, hes now back with his old ex gf an...

A.   26 October 2008: All the Aunts are spot on with their advice. Never play second fiddle to another woman over this horrible pondlife. He upped and left you high and dry, when it suited him. Now he is having problems with this woman (TOUGH TITTY!!!), its h... (read in full...)

Girls/ Woman, When should I pop the question????

Q.   I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months now and we are in love : ) I want to propose to her because I know she's the one. I have a plan all worked out, I'm going to put 'You Are So Beautiful' on by Joe Cocker (I think that sums her up and how ...

A.   26 October 2008: Oh darling what a lucky young lady you have, you sound like an absolute sweety :D. Propose to her on New years day on the stroke of midnight, that will be a great start to the New year and fab memorable one too. Good luck my love xxxxx... (read in full...)

How long is too long without sex?

Q.   I'm just wondering how long is too long without sex? I know people have different sex drives but just wanting to get some personal opinions really. how long would you go without sex before you got unhappy with your partner and wanted explanations? ...

A.   24 October 2008: Sadly my partner is not a 9-5 man, so we see each other on average of once a week as he works different shifts each week. This makes our sexual desire for each other stronger,as we miss having regular contact with each other. I think that having s... (read in full...)

I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.

Q.   I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...

A.   23 October 2008: Dear Dr Realitycheck, is there an touch of irony to your username? You are quite happy to label a girl a slut if she has casual sex, yet you say nothing about the guy she is wanting to sleep with. Please tell me your views on guys who use wom... (read in full...)

I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.

Q.   I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...

A.   23 October 2008: Darling do you really undervalue yourself that much to let a jerk like him use you for sex? This will lead to heartache, simply because you are wearing your heart on your sleeve and he is wearing his in his underpants. Do you think you are ... (read in full...)

Why a play instead of out to dinner? Does he not want to talk face to face?

Q.   Hi this guy im interested in didnt want to go for dinner/ lunch with me but instead invited me to a play. I find it quite strange, does he find it uncomfortable to sit and talk with me face to face? do you think he's just being polite or he likes me ...

A.   19 October 2008: Hi hun make sure the TIGHT WAD pays for the theatre tickets.... (read in full...)

I don't want her little sister to live with her as I don't like kids!

Q.   My girlfriend's sister (who's 5) was being abuse by her parents. To cut a long story short, child services called her asking if she wanted to be her guardian, or she'll be in foster care. She told me she doesn't want her sister to live with brun...

A.   19 October 2008: Your girlfriend should have the sense to leave you. How dare you take out your resentment and hatred on this poor little girl, she has been abused by people who are supposed to love and cherish her and the last thing she wants is a SAD MEAN HUMAN... (read in full...)

He tells me I am chubby! Do you know how I can deal with my weight issues?

Q.   Hi, I need some help here dealing with a couple of things or an extra point of view. CONTEXT I used to have a very nice body (waist 24in/62cm)but a couple of years ago I decided to quit my job and start a business with my partner. So now I 'm wor...

A.   12 October 2008: Hey your man sound like an ass. Telling their gf that they are chubby, is another way of saying that you are fat. Surely that he is aware of your eating disorder past and should have never made a cheap jibe like that. Do yourself a favour love... (read in full...)

I am living in a sexless marriage, what should I do?

Q.   My husband of 43yrs. all of a sudden decided he has no desire for sex or affection. I asked him what am I suppose to do and he said he didn`t know. He has affection for the children and grand children but not me. Now the kicker--we haven`t had sex ...

A.   12 October 2008: I would get out of the loveless marriage and find a lover to fulfill your needs.... (read in full...)

My young girlfriend has lost her sense of reality, accepting the advanced of a septuagenarian!

Q.   my beautiful girlfriend was hit on by her 75 year old basketball coach in Germany. She is 23 and has been on an exchange now for several months and though I have updated my original question a couple of times (http://www.dear...

A.   11 October 2008: Dump her and let her have her fun with this dirty old man!... (read in full...)

Is he worth a second chance even though he has hit me twice...

Q.   I went on holiday with my boyfriend in sept just gone, i am 29 he is 25 though very wise and mature for his age in some ways. Met a year ago on holiday and started going out in may this year, he suffers from schizophrenia though i never knew how ...

A.   10 October 2008: Get out of this relationship now or are likely to end up in hospital or worse still dead.... (read in full...)

What does "One of the Guys" mean?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am concluding a cheating episode with my fiance and ultimately trying to forgive him, but I am curious as to an explanation he has stated to me. He had cheated with me with one particular girl for a while and I asked him why? He said...

A.   9 October 2008: How dare he trivialise and justify what he has done, by saying she is one of the guys. What he did was completely unforgivable and should never be trusted. He will probably say something rally lame like "She offered it on a plate". Get rid... (read in full...)

He asked me to get breast implants, I refused, but now I can't let go of the worry this has caused me!

Q.   My boyfriend asked me to get breast implants early in our relationship, and it tore me apart because I thought he already liked the way I looked. Why get together with someone if you're going to ask them to change? All of my boyfriends in the past...

A.   7 October 2008: Fake breasts are just plain ugly!!! Real breasts are beautiful no matter what size they are. Even Katie Price AKA Jordan has had her implants taken out. I think you should have a talk with him, as to why he likes fake tits. If he insists that you... (read in full...)

I can't get pregnant. What are my chances?

Q.   I am an 18 year old petite 5"5 inch girl whos been tryin for 3 months of unprotective sex to get pregnant.. How high is my chance of getting pregant? And for my size, is it possible for me to give birth without problems? -Michell...

A.   4 October 2008: I am 5'4" and i gave birth to two children no problem. Every pregnancy and birth is different, some women have problems with giving birth some don't.... (read in full...)

I feel second best to a stupid computer game, what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I live together. I am currently 6 months pregnant with his first child (this problem was happening way before i got pregnant though). He does have a job, and if this wasnt a problem i think our relationship would be almost perfect. ...

A.   2 October 2008: Refuse to pick and tidy up after him. Tell him you are pregnant and you need all the help you can get. If he does not comply then give him an ultimatum,its either you and the baby or his computer.... (read in full...)

Am I wrong guys or is he just not that into me?

Q.   I have dated a man twice in three weeks. Because his 17 and 19 year old sons live with him, he says he is really only available to see me after 8 pm weeknights and, so far, has not been available on weekends. He called tonight and left a message ...

A.   2 October 2008: Well he does'nt need a babysitter no more does he? Kids that age can get their own dinner once in a while,and you can set up a dinner date with him. Have you tried explaining this to him, that you need to be taken out on dates? If he finds ex... (read in full...)

His young kids are out of control and are effecting our relationhip, should I stay in this or not?

Q.   Has anyone dated a man that has kids that are out of control????? He has full custody and the kids don't listen, fight constantly. What scares me is they are only 3 and 4. He minimizes their behavior!!! We have been dating only 4 months and at the ...

A.   2 October 2008: These poor little mites have just lost their mummy!!! What do you expect? Have you ever thought how they are feeling, now that their mother is no longer around? They have lost someone who is very dear to them, show some compassion. Childre... (read in full...)

Boyfriend problems, am I overreacting? He neglected me on my birthday!

Q.   of course I didn't expect to have a party or anything like that. I live with my boyfriend, so I expected him to at least do something nice. I don't care about a gift, I just wanted him to be nice/thoughtful because he never is. So I got home from ...

A.   2 October 2008: If he was my bf I would have CHEWED HIS ASS BIG TIME!! Did you drop any hints about what you wanted for your birthday or how you wanted to spend it? If you are looking for a guy who is more thoughtful and romantic, then I am afraid he AIN'T TH... (read in full...)

My long term boyfriend's mother can't accept me and won't clarify why. Any ideas on what I can do?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years,on and off. We got back together on a serious basis in June. I am very frustrated cos his mum doesn;'t want to accept me.I am not allowed to go to his house. I feel humiliated by it, as I have never met the ...

A.   15 December 2007: What a nasty piece of work his mother is, don't be intimidated by the old witch. Anybody who judges people by the colour of their skin, is nothing but narrow minded bigot. As Lulu said arrange a meeting with her and see how she reacts by meeting in ... (read in full...)

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