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How do I become more comfortable with sex when my own body isn't responding the way I want it to?

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23 March 2019 (F - So, there's this young man. We've been together for a couple of months although we've known each other for longer than that. The mutual attraction developed slowly over several months until at one point it was undeniable, but it still took us a ...

Do I wait until after his birthday to break up?

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23 March 2019 (F - I am kind of on the young side. I have been dating this guy for 2 and a half months and just seemed to have lost interest in him and am starting to have feelings for another guy. I want to break up with my current boyfriend but still be friends. How ...

My husband never wants to take time off!

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21 March 2019 (F - I always seem to be the one to ask my husband when he is taking time off work. he is a sales man so out 4 days a week up and down the motorways. he never complains that he ever needs to take time off or says he is fed up so needs to have a break so ...

Is this trainer being friendly or flirting?

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18 March 2019 (F - I hired a female personal trainer to help me achieve my weight loss goals, and she is co-workers with another personal trainer who is male. I see him around often and a couple of times he has said hi to me, and when he was getting his client on the ...

I'm having doubts about my 5 year relationship

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18 March 2019 (F - I am in a 5 year relationship and starting to have serious doubts about it. I'm not sure if I want it anymore, and pressures are growing around marriage, mortgage and children. There's no apparent reason as to why I'm feeling this way... nothing ...

How can I better draw other males' attention online..

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14 March 2019 (M - I have no particular interest in women, nor enough experience with them, whom I maybe like just about 10% sexually. The thing is that I also find it hard to always leave "gay" in the sexuality box on the dating site for men.Rather, I usually go by ...

How do I stop my anxiety from ruining my career and life?

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14 March 2019 (F - Last September I started a hairdressing apprenticeship. I was really happy because I was working dead end jobs for minimum wage that were very tiring physically. Luckily I found an employer willing to take me on as at my age it is quite rare. So the ...

I love a guy who is nothing like my abusive ex. But we are of different religions!

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5 March 2019 (F - I m in my mid 20s. I started dating a when I was 18. Through all bad times we were together. Long story short I was abused mistreated by him. He was verbally nd at time phsycially abuse too . He ghosted me then I was begging him to talk. His ...

I’m trying to understand where I stand with her before telling her how I feel! We are both very shy.

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2 March 2019 (M - Hi again I posted on here a few days ago with the title “Is she shy or just not into me?”. The situation has changed a lot since I posted that so I wanted to get your opinions once again. I’m sorry if this is long, my mind is a bit of a mess at...

I don't know if she will come back or has moved on.

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15 December 2018 (M - Can anyone please help me what I did wrong or is it she is being self centered? Well this cancer girl, she is my friend and its been 2 years for our friendship. Months ago I confronted her about why she was being mean with this another girl in our g...

I'm crushing on my team leader.

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13 December 2018 (F - I am very frustrated because there is someone that I'm potentially interested in at work that I think is also very interested in me but that nothing is happening for -- So I started work at this new place about five months ago now, and slowly ...

He said he'd break up with his girlfriend to date me but I just want to be friends

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14 October 2018 (F - Hi, I've just transferred to a new university starting second year where everybody already knows each other. I befriended a girl on my course and she introduced me to her friendship group on the course which has been lovely. I've particularly got...

I am caught in the middle of a boy I like and my female friend

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9 October 2018 (F - I'm in a pretty tough situation and I don't know what to do. I'm in a friendship group of three people. My closest friend who is a girl and a guy that I have become closer to as he is really close to her aswell. I have feelings for him and have done ...

How do I stop obsessing over this guy and just move on?

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6 October 2018 (F - I have liked the same person for ages now and I still have feelings for him ,we don't talk anymore as things happened mainly due to me and since then I just haven't stopped liking him . I do think I am obsessed/infatuated with him which is so ...

I'm not fitting in with my new coworkers!

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1 October 2018 (F - I've been at my job for 5 years. 2 months ago, I decided to change positions to get more experience. In my line of work, it looks good to try new roles and I'd been in my previous position for 4 years. My coworkers in my old position were li...

I want to fix things after I freaked him out!

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1 October 2018 (F - There's a person I still have feelings for who I used to talk to, but not anymore due to some of the things I did in which I was sorry for and apologised lots of times . I hate the fact I still like him as it makes me feel so upset and worthless , ...

How to get people off my back about dating?

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23 September 2018 (M - Hey guys I have a question, may be weird for most as you probably have not experienced it. But I have to face the facts. From young age I was always bullied about my looks. Certain facial features different proportions etc. Anyway I always ...

After I broke up with my ex I began seeing one of his friends

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31 August 2018 (F - Rite long story... me and my ex where together for 6 years. 1 little boy age 4. we split just about a year ago and it was a nasty split after we broke up i started seeing his friend to which after months he fell in love with me. i know i hurt ...

Should I keep talking to him even though I feel like he likes my older sister but knows he can’t do anything about his feelings and is using me to get rid of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 August 2018 (F - Hello! There is this very attractive guy i met almost two years ago. When i met him he had a girlfriend and wasn’t really looking for anything. He recently came last month again and i became very attracted to him. This guy is the same age as me and ...

I always find some flaw in men, am I a full-blown lesbian?

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18 August 2018 (F - Hi, I am 32 and reevaluating my life. I have noticed a pattern of freaking out from liking the same sex. I must admit that I think I'm definitely into the same sex because I am attracted to them physically. I haven't yet gone on a date and don't k...

How I am going to do with my the monthly expenses with all these medical debt?

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13 August 2018 (F - I had an emergency surgery done this year and unfortunately, the medical insurance covered only a small portion of it so I am in debt with medical bills. I did call all the parties and set up a payment plan so at least I am paying it little by ...

How to initiate conversations on social media with potential dates?

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12 August 2018 (F - Okay I'm new to this whole internet dating thing..... if I find a guy on social media who has similar interests and appears single, how do I go about initiating a conversation and how to I turn it to a conversation that asks if he is single and if ...

I feel stuck. Did I waste too much time?

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9 August 2018 (F - Hi all. I will try to be short and specific. I'm a biotech grad. And I was hopelessly running behind a research job for 3 and a half long years after my graduation but I did not achieved it. At the same time due to this unemployment and conflicts ...

Why does my partner fall asleep during oral sex?

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4 August 2018 (F - My partner has done exactly the same, fallen asleep during a blowjob! This is the 2nd time now he has done it, I’m starting to think it’s me that’s making him fall asleep whilst giving him a boring blowy. I know I’m rubbish at giving head as it is ...

I'm in love but I don't know what to do?

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2 August 2018 (F - I've known this boy since we were kids and I have never felt the way I do towards him to anyone before. I can fully be myself around him and he doesn't judge me for being me. I can almost act exactly the same with him as I do with my best friend. I ...

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