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Was I taken advantage of by my now ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 19 days ago

3 September 2018 (F - Hello aunts I'm at a low phase in life right now. In academics, career and health. I'm doing everything possible to set those things right. I feel people take advantage of my niceness. I used to be naive and vulnerable before and never stand up f...

After I broke up with my ex I began seeing one of his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 August 2018 (F - Rite long story... me and my ex where together for 6 years. 1 little boy age 4. we split just about a year ago and it was a nasty split after we broke up i started seeing his friend to which after months he fell in love with me. i know i hurt ...

Should I keep talking to him even though I feel like he likes my older sister but knows he can’t do anything about his feelings and is using me to get rid of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 August 2018 (F - Hello! There is this very attractive guy i met almost two years ago. When i met him he had a girlfriend and wasn’t really looking for anything. He recently came last month again and i became very attracted to him. This guy is the same age as me and ...

I always find some flaw in men, am I a full-blown lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 35 days ago

18 August 2018 (F - Hi, I am 32 and reevaluating my life. I have noticed a pattern of freaking out from liking the same sex. I must admit that I think I'm definitely into the same sex because I am attracted to them physically. I haven't yet gone on a date and don't k...

How I am going to do with my the monthly expenses with all these medical debt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 38 days ago

13 August 2018 (F - I had an emergency surgery done this year and unfortunately, the medical insurance covered only a small portion of it so I am in debt with medical bills. I did call all the parties and set up a payment plan so at least I am paying it little by ...

How to initiate conversations on social media with potential dates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 38 days ago

12 August 2018 (F - Okay I'm new to this whole internet dating thing..... if I find a guy on social media who has similar interests and appears single, how do I go about initiating a conversation and how to I turn it to a conversation that asks if he is single and if ...

I feel stuck. Did I waste too much time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 40 days ago

9 August 2018 (F - Hi all. I will try to be short and specific. I'm a biotech grad. And I was hopelessly running behind a research job for 3 and a half long years after my graduation but I did not achieved it. At the same time due to this unemployment and conflicts ...

I don't really know what the deal is with my guy friend and I. Are we just friends? Or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 48 days ago

4 August 2018 (F - I have a guy friend who I’ve known for two years. We go out for dinner regularly or maybe to the movies, and he messages with borderline flirty quick witted chat between the two of us. I’m single and he’s been mostly single during the two years ...

Why does my partner fall asleep during oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 48 days ago

4 August 2018 (F - My partner has done exactly the same, fallen asleep during a blowjob! This is the 2nd time now he has done it, I’m starting to think it’s me that’s making him fall asleep whilst giving him a boring blowy. I know I’m rubbish at giving head as it is ...

I'm in love but I don't know what to do?

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2 August 2018 (F - I've known this boy since we were kids and I have never felt the way I do towards him to anyone before. I can fully be myself around him and he doesn't judge me for being me. I can almost act exactly the same with him as I do with my best friend. I ...

Does anyone else take a quick look at their life and wonder how come time hasn't eroded all the better parts of their relationship and if it were not for the fact that they have been enduringly faithful then maybe things would have fallen apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 50 days ago

1 August 2018 (F - Lately I have had some doubts about how much my long term partner feels for me. He is an attractive man and many females are drawn towards him which gives him a cavalier attitude at times. This makes me feel extremely replaceable and coupled with...

I had sex with my best friend now I want to be his girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 55 days ago

29 July 2018 (F - So I have been best friends with an American man for about 12.5 years now, we met online and started as penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we were going through a tough ...

I’m not sure what to do about these feelings I’ve developed for her! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 53 days ago

29 July 2018 (M - Sorry in advance for the novel. I (21M) started getting really close to my supervisor (24F) at work last summer. As we worked together more and more, she would flirt a little, and I would just act casual. I even remember one instance where she ...

Is it normal to become slightly infatuated with someone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 54 days ago

26 July 2018 (F - is it normal to become slightly infatuated with someone, as I still have feelings for someone and I never know if becoming infatuated with someone is right and how you know you are infatuated with them . how should I deal with this . I constantly ...

Why were these girls staring and giggling at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 57 days ago

26 July 2018 (M - I had a crush on a girl from last semester's class and at the start of the new semester I walked past her and her friend, probably a distance of 200m. I saw her friend out and about the night before randomly and we both said a friendly hi. The thing ...

Crush on brothers best friend/ nanny’s son (SO CONFUSED)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 59 days ago

23 July 2018 (F - Ok so 6 years ago, I was 8, and my parents recently had gotten a divorce. Being the charming man my dad is, he found a nanny at church to watch us and cook for us in a little less than a year. My nanny, that we still have today, also has two sons. ...

Should I add my ex to my contacts or just erase him completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 84 days ago

29 June 2018 (M - Me and my boyfriend recently broke up because we've been in a long distance relationship after he moved out the state. We both didn't cheat, but we just couldn't keep the spark in LDR and we decided to move on since we both have different ...

I've lost faith in relationships, love and marriage. Can anyone else relate to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 86 days ago

26 June 2018 (F - Hi, I've kind of lost faith in love. The guys I dated taught me harsh realities and often love is not enough. I used to be romantic as a teenager and then it became mutual love and respect, then it became more about finding a good intellectua...

Is it normal for closed-mouth kisses to be wet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

8 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend's kisses or pecks on my lips leave my lips wet with his saliva, which I do not like. I sometimes wipe my lips after which he understandably gets offended by. I don't recall this happening with other guys, only him. He seems to purse his ...

Is it time to end it ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

8 June 2018 (F - Hi, So I’ve been in my first and only age gap relationship for six months, we met at work and both thought the other was closer in age. For the most part it hasn’t been an issue but recently I’ve found the level of maturity has been really starting...

I caught feelings for a friend and I'm not sure if I should tell them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 107 days ago

6 June 2018 (? - We've worked together for about a year now. We became friends a couple months ago after he broke up with his girlfriend, and we started hanging out outside of work (his initiation). We've hung out every week with his group of friends, and aside from ...

Am I right to worry about losing him in the future or should I just focus on now and whatever happens later, happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 109 days ago

4 June 2018 (F - Hi, I need some advice about me and my boyfriend. Everything's perfect at the minute but there's that risk of a long distance relationship coming between us. I'm gonna be speaking in code abit just so I don't give away too much about myself and...

I’ve got a crush on him and need help deciphering if he has a crush on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 121 days ago

23 May 2018 (F - Hi I'm 14 years old (almost 15) and I've never had a boyfriend but a few links and crushes. A little while ago, I started finding one of my closest guy friends attractive, and it was really awkward for me because I've known him for so long. I was ...

LDR Should I Ask Why He Hid His Profile? Need Advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 May 2018 (F - I’ve been talking to a guy on a dating site for 3 weeks now. He is long distance so we have not been able to meet. We were supposed to meet recently and he had to cancel but he’s working on rescheduling for 3 weeks from now. We have had a very good ...

My ex is hanging around me and my new boyfriend and its causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

11 May 2018 (F - Hello there! I wanted to ask advice about the current situation I'm in. A couple of months ago, I broke up with my ex, whom I'll refer to as M. We had gone out for a while. but during the relationship, M didn't spend any time with me, always chose ...

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