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Is trust possible? How do I overcome these relationship obstacles?

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21 January 2019 (F - I have come here in the past because of my relationship which I have gotten great great advice - I realize that I have been in neglectful - narcissistic relationship which stem from my parents - both are emotionally unavailable and to be honest I ...

Do people like this ever change or am I best out of it?

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18 January 2019 (F - Hiya I’m in a relationship for 5 years we have a 2 year old son and we live together I just need some advice on this we used to go to school together and met up years later through social media we moved in together and had our son but the past year ...

Before her pregnancy she would flirt all the time... now Nothing.

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31 December 2018 (F - Recently i changed job and got close to a girl here. She used to behave with me like she is my girlfriend. She is married but she even asked me to be her "Boyfriend" forever. We did heavy flirting and she also told me she'd kiss me when we go for ...

I just can’t stop thinking I’m betraying her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 33 days ago

21 December 2018 (M - About a year and a half back I went to a online school. Now I meet one girl in one of my classes and we started taking usually for 1 or 2 hours a day, however soon it grew to like 9 hours per day sometimes more, in the one year time period I got to ...

I don't know if she will come back or has moved on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 38 days ago

15 December 2018 (M - Can anyone please help me what I did wrong or is it she is being self centered? Well this cancer girl, she is my friend and its been 2 years for our friendship. Months ago I confronted her about why she was being mean with this another girl in our g...

I'm crushing on my team leader.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 41 days ago

13 December 2018 (F - I am very frustrated because there is someone that I'm potentially interested in at work that I think is also very interested in me but that nothing is happening for -- So I started work at this new place about five months ago now, and slowly ...

Should I just leave it at that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 41 days ago

11 December 2018 (F - A guy i had got to know had occasionally winked and started bantering by text with me. We started having really good chats together bantering and flirting and then at a recent party we were both texting each other and he was saying I bet you really ...

Loves first kiss ..........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 43 days ago

9 December 2018 (M - How can I kiss a girl who is taller than me without looking silly. I imagine we will be standing since it will be the first kiss. ...

How do I stop being desperate and clingy when dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 62 days ago

22 November 2018 (F - Hi I am in mid twenties. My previous and first relationship was with a guy from high school . We were together for 6 years and he cheated on me. It was very messy and painful breakup. I made him like centre of my universe and did all compromises ...

How do I change my desperate tendencies regarding men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 94 days ago

19 October 2018 (F - I have realized that when I get into any relationship my main goal is to win the over - and close the deal. This is all mentally obviously I never reveal my intentions out loud but with my bf two years ago he approached me asked me out etc and we ...

He said he'd break up with his girlfriend to date me but I just want to be friends

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14 October 2018 (F - Hi, I've just transferred to a new university starting second year where everybody already knows each other. I befriended a girl on my course and she introduced me to her friendship group on the course which has been lovely. I've particularly got...

I am caught in the middle of a boy I like and my female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

9 October 2018 (F - I'm in a pretty tough situation and I don't know what to do. I'm in a friendship group of three people. My closest friend who is a girl and a guy that I have become closer to as he is really close to her aswell. I have feelings for him and have done ...

How do I stop obsessing over this guy and just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 106 days ago

6 October 2018 (F - I have liked the same person for ages now and I still have feelings for him ,we don't talk anymore as things happened mainly due to me and since then I just haven't stopped liking him . I do think I am obsessed/infatuated with him which is so ...

I'm not fitting in with my new coworkers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

1 October 2018 (F - I've been at my job for 5 years. 2 months ago, I decided to change positions to get more experience. In my line of work, it looks good to try new roles and I'd been in my previous position for 4 years. My coworkers in my old position were li...

I want to fix things after I freaked him out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

1 October 2018 (F - There's a person I still have feelings for who I used to talk to, but not anymore due to some of the things I did in which I was sorry for and apologised lots of times . I hate the fact I still like him as it makes me feel so upset and worthless , ...

How to get people off my back about dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

23 September 2018 (M - Hey guys I have a question, may be weird for most as you probably have not experienced it. But I have to face the facts. From young age I was always bullied about my looks. Certain facial features different proportions etc. Anyway I always ...

After I broke up with my ex I began seeing one of his friends

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31 August 2018 (F - Rite long story... me and my ex where together for 6 years. 1 little boy age 4. we split just about a year ago and it was a nasty split after we broke up i started seeing his friend to which after months he fell in love with me. i know i hurt ...

Should I keep talking to him even though I feel like he likes my older sister but knows he can’t do anything about his feelings and is using me to get rid of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 August 2018 (F - Hello! There is this very attractive guy i met almost two years ago. When i met him he had a girlfriend and wasn’t really looking for anything. He recently came last month again and i became very attracted to him. This guy is the same age as me and ...

I always find some flaw in men, am I a full-blown lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 158 days ago

18 August 2018 (F - Hi, I am 32 and reevaluating my life. I have noticed a pattern of freaking out from liking the same sex. I must admit that I think I'm definitely into the same sex because I am attracted to them physically. I haven't yet gone on a date and don't k...

How I am going to do with my the monthly expenses with all these medical debt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

13 August 2018 (F - I had an emergency surgery done this year and unfortunately, the medical insurance covered only a small portion of it so I am in debt with medical bills. I did call all the parties and set up a payment plan so at least I am paying it little by ...

How to initiate conversations on social media with potential dates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 161 days ago

12 August 2018 (F - Okay I'm new to this whole internet dating thing..... if I find a guy on social media who has similar interests and appears single, how do I go about initiating a conversation and how to I turn it to a conversation that asks if he is single and if ...

I feel stuck. Did I waste too much time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 163 days ago

9 August 2018 (F - Hi all. I will try to be short and specific. I'm a biotech grad. And I was hopelessly running behind a research job for 3 and a half long years after my graduation but I did not achieved it. At the same time due to this unemployment and conflicts ...

Why does my partner fall asleep during oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

4 August 2018 (F - My partner has done exactly the same, fallen asleep during a blowjob! This is the 2nd time now he has done it, I’m starting to think it’s me that’s making him fall asleep whilst giving him a boring blowy. I know I’m rubbish at giving head as it is ...

I'm in love but I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 171 days ago

2 August 2018 (F - I've known this boy since we were kids and I have never felt the way I do towards him to anyone before. I can fully be myself around him and he doesn't judge me for being me. I can almost act exactly the same with him as I do with my best friend. I ...

I’m not sure what to do about these feelings I’ve developed for her! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 176 days ago

29 July 2018 (M - Sorry in advance for the novel. I (21M) started getting really close to my supervisor (24F) at work last summer. As we worked together more and more, she would flirt a little, and I would just act casual. I even remember one instance where she ...

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