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Is it a good idea to get her a going away gift before she leaves for Australia for 5 months?

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9 February 2010, 44 minutes ago (M - Me and this girl have been hanging out quite a bit recently. I got her number at a party a few weeks ago and weve talked a few times and hung out a couple but just recently been going over to her house, she invited me to a hockey game with her, and ...

As soon as she came back from travelling her feelings changed, how could this happen so quickly?

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9 February 2010, 46 minutes ago (M - I've been really good friends with a girl for the past 15 years,we get on really well, usually have fun and laughs together and she had helped me through problems with my ex and witnessed the fallout on both sides from the eventual breakup a few ...


   

My ex and I agreed to be friends, ..so how often should I text ot talk to him?

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (F - Me and my boyfriend split up because we go to different schools and it makes it very difficult for us to be in a relationship right now, although we managed on and off for about a year, so we've agreed to be friends and keep our options open. How ...

I don't want to get too comfortable as friends if perhaps we both want to go farther.

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (M - I'm 26, she's 25. it's been 6 years since i seen her last, i had a huge crush on her before and we hung out a lot but i never really put on any moves on her. i didn't have a lot of confidence back then but these days i'm VERY cocky. She just got ...

I just think if a guy likes u he will be in touch everyday! am I wrong? Do I need to be more patient??

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (F - I was wondering if anyone could share some opinions on this and if i'm expecting too much! Ok so met this guy (kinda knew who he was before but not really to chat to) he took me number, we were texting all week he was always asking question...

   

Should I disconnect the friendship or should I play smart and act strong or should I move on and forget what had happened or should I wait for him?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (F - (Modf Note - Op's own title) I met this guy online while playing poker. Then he traveled from another country to come see me and take me on a vacation. We spent a week of vacation together. We made out two times but didn't have any sex. After th...

He makes me feel needy and neurotic. Is this his gameplan? ... or am I just being naive?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (F - One year ago my relationship of 16 years ended. I am now 33. I have never lived alone until this past year and i am finding it very hard. i was with my ex since i was 14. he had feelings for a woman he worked with and decided he wanted to pursue ...

She broke up because I can't see her enough. Any advice?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (M - I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and for the past month she has been hurt because she say's that i have been distancing myself from her. in the beginning of the relationship i was still in school with her so we hung out everyday. then in ...

Will she come back to me and ever get over her fear of marriage?

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9 February 2010, 50 minutes ago (M - Let me tell u in short story. I am in relation with this girl from 1.5yrs. Its long distance relationship. Well we never had fight. We both are loyal to each other. Trust each other very much. Our parents have no prob in our marriage. Everything was ...

Am I incapable of being in love?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F - I have had some of the greatest relationships but wonder if I am incapable of love. Guys get really attached to me and I dont know I cant get into the love part of the relationship. I get “blaséd about the whole thing. I wonder if it is because ...

I'm secretly talking to a guy out of state and my dad saw the phone bill!

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (M - Ok.. Where to start. Well first off, Im gay. Noone knows that though. Except one guy that i met on myspace/facebook that lives in a different state. Hes been really great with helping me out when im having "Down" days, but now i have a problem. He ...

I want guys to notice me and not just my friends around me!

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F - i'm a big gurl or you can call me fat i never had a boyfriend in my life each guy i like either had a gurlfriend or never think of me as a gurl at all i want to know how do i get guys to notice me and not my friends beside me ? ...

Should I go for him or to forget him completly!

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9 February 2010, 12 hours ago (F - okay so theres this guy, ill call him joe. joe is new this year. im 13, and hes 14 and were both in 8th grade. ever since he got here i thot he was cutee and nice. we became instant friends. but then he broke his leg and wwas out of school for a ...

I love him but I can't handle our differences what do I do?

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9 February 2010, 14 hours ago (F - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I really love him but I am not sure if I am in love with him. When I began dating him I had self esteem issues and now that I am more comfortable with myself, I'm not sure about our ...

How safe is it to meet a private escort?

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9 February 2010, 14 hours ago (M - Hi. I'm a young and very lonely man. I was a virgin until recently until I finally went to a brothel. I'd rather not go with prostitues, I'd rather have a gf but that's not happening and is another story. I would like to see an escort again but...

Question about bankruptcy...

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8 February 2010 (M - This isn't a relationship question obviously but with all the different types of people that are on this site maybe there is someone who will be able to answer me. I'm in the process of claiming bankruptcy. My question is this. If I don't clai...

Why don't I feel the same love and desire for my boyfriend, and how do I get back to where it was before?

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7 February 2010 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have been very happy, i love spending time with him and he always makes me feel better. He is so nice and he is really the only guy who would really understand and put up with me. He is ...

Am I too needy? I want to show her I care though

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7 February 2010 (M - I met a girl through a mutual friend in NY. She's seems to be everything I want in a girl. We've been dating for ten months now. When we first started dating (for the first couple months), she was a sweet happy girl that truly respected me. When we ...

What are these bumps on my legs and how can I improve them?

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7 February 2010 (F - My legs and thighs have bumps on them and are always dry and not smooth. I'm very insecure about my legs. I see other girl's legs are smooth with no bumps so why are mines like this? I don't let a guy touch me or see my legs or feel my legs bec...

Why do I keep thinking about him?

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6 February 2010 (F - i can't stop thinking about a guy who i knew just a month. i don't know if i really fall in love with him or what. i knew he doesn't love me, but why do i keep thinking about him? ...

Our mothers had an argument and now she ignores me.

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5 February 2010 (M - I have posted a question a few weeks ago about a distant cousin of mine,which I am interested in(not as much today).She is my age,and is the daughter of my much older cousin,so this would make her my first cousin once removed. Anyways her mom and ...

Best friend becomes boyfriend of the girl I like, what to do?

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4 February 2010 (M - Hello, so I have a problem with two friends of mine. Currently I have just started my second semester in college and everything is going fine. While in college I have spent most of my time with these two other friends, one girl and one guy. We are ...

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Should I stay or should I go?

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9 February 2010, 43 minutes ago (F - I recently wrote about finding condoms in mine and my bf's car and how he bought them for us and forgot them there. I also mentioned texts between him and some girls were, well lets say he crossed the line.(8 mnths ago) Well what if I do get ...

Am I just being paranoid that he will use me for sex due to the way I have been treated in the past?

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9 February 2010, 45 minutes ago (F - ive been getting to know this guy.. he calls me a lot.. and he actually does call me when he says he will:) the thing is he keeps asking me if i like him..i like talking to him.,,hes good looking, sweet..he seems like a gentleman.. b...


   

I cant get motivated to go to school.

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (F - I never want to go to school. I mean, when I get there, the lessons aren't so bad. I just can never motivate myself to get up and go! It's not becuase I'm tired in the morning, I just feel whats the point? And I know I should go, I really ...

I made out with my friend and now he has stopped calling me!

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9 February 2010, 2 hours ago (F - hi, am very distrubed, i had a friend, we have been together for aby 6 months, no sex but be shared good times together, but one day, we decided to make out for the FIRST time, and after that, he never called again. i called and texted him, he ...

Why do I want my ex wife around when I'm out and flirting?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (M - I feel so bad for my ex. We had a marriage for 6 years, and recently got divorced. I'm living with her till I get a job and can move out, we are trying to be friends, it's working pretty well, but she's noticed that I'm never home. Not only do my ...

   

Jekyll and Hyde, Narcissistic Personality Disorder? What is this about?

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9 February 2010, 3 hours ago (F - I never left him, everytime I do it just falls apart but I have changed . I was right of being suspicious about the other woman. He plays away, he has sexual affairs yet he tells me I am the only one he loves blah blah blah.. I know him well l...

He did not even tell me her got back with his ex!

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9 February 2010, 6 hours ago (F - I have a guy friend that i've been foolin around with for 8 months and i really like and i wish we could be together but he has a girlfriend/babymama and when he's with me sometimes he does'nt even go home that nite...he spent time with me 4 my ...

How long is an average 13 year old's penis?

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (M - how long is the averge penus of 1 13 year old ...

He won't discuss Valentine's Day and I feel like he doesn't care anymore.

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9 February 2010, 9 hours ago (F - My boyfriend and I are complicated right now and we are trying to fix things. weve been together 4 years now. its almost valentines day and he hasnt said anything to me about going out. i already got him a gift and a card, and im just waiting for ...

Why does he ask for my help then insist I am wrong?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F - What do you make of this frustrating situation? My b/f and I took a road trip recently. He set GPS to destination, yet still insisted that I read the map. When we stopped for lunch he glanced at the map and pointed out a small highway that looked ...

My boyfriend said he had hair in his mouth after oral sex with me!

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F - me and my bf r in a comitted relationship.he stays far from me..and we have sex only once in a month!well few days back we were talking on phone..and he said that wen he was trying to give me oral sex,my hairs got into his mouth..and dat was ...

My girlfriend lets people walk all over her. How can I change this?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (M - ok, so i have a kinda Big problem here. the thing is that my gf thinks that its her goal in life to make everyone happy and please them all the time, even though she says she doesnt know why she thinks that, but she still feels she Has to. one of ...

How would I go about turning on my shy and bi best friend?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F - What does another girl do to turn you on or warm you up? I'm bi curious but not sure how to get my bestfriend who his bi curious too to warm up to me? We have always talked about messing around but we've never done it. Should I start by rubbing her ...

I don't want to move before marriage in fear we will break up again. Should I leave him?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F - My ex and I got back together but I don't want to live with him before marriage. We were engaged once before, then I left him because he was emotionally not nice. Now he is thinking of moving again, but I don't want to leave my job again like i did ...

Can anyone tell me how far along in my pregnancy I am?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F - Hi and thanks all who get back to me =) I'm currently pregnant and Ive been using a baby calculator on my myspace to keep track of how far a long i am. But my husband says that it's wrong. So I was wondering if anyone could tell me how far a long i ...

What motivates a guy to be nice to his ex?

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9 February 2010, 10 hours ago (F - Hi, Aunties! Thanks in advance for reading-- I'm just wondering what motivations a guy might have to be abnormally nice to his ex. He never tends to be as nice or sweet or thoughtful as he's being, except when he pretended to love me. Could it ...

Public situations making me ill!

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9 February 2010, 14 hours ago (F - I hope someone can help me please.... My work involve dealing with people on a day to day basis, which is fine but there is a problem. I cannot stand up and talk infront of a crowd. When there is a workshop or training, i'll be there fine, bu...

Should I make a big deal of the fact we have no official anniversary date?

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9 February 2010, 14 hours ago (F - Ive been dating this guy about 3 months now and just the other day i had a fight with him about when we started dating because he hasn't actually said to me that he wants me to be his gf and what not.. he just started calling me his gf about a month ...

Still living together after they wanted a divorce, is this normal?

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9 February 2010, 14 hours ago (F - A man tells his wife he can't do their relationship anymore and wants a divorce. His wife is devastated, but has since "accepted the facts of the situation". This was 3 weeks ago. In the last 3 weeks, they have separated the bills (not legally ...

Am I doomed to be alone for the rest of my life. HELP!

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9 February 2010, 14 hours ago (M - I am a 25 year old male, and its been 5 years since I've had a relationship that matters. It lasted for 10 months and she decided one day that it was over and that was that. Since then I've had maybe 2-3 attempts trying to start a relationship with ...

The constant want of attention is catching up with me.

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9 February 2010, 14 hours ago (F - Ive been with my boyfriend well over a year now, and i think theres something wrong with me I constantly want attention. We see each other most days after work and we normaly have a day or two off in the week where we have time to ourselves. But wh...

I'm in love with an older married man, and he's a friend of the family!

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8 February 2010 (F - I cannot beleive I am doing this...but i feel i have no other choice but to ask for help from those not attached in any way to the situation. I am a girl who feel in love with some one i cant have for so many reasons. I am a military dependa...

He won't leave me alone, and HE ended it!

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8 February 2010 (F - My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about a week and a half ago. he made absolutely no contact with me the whole time we been broken up and I eventually gave up trying to talk because he would just tell me how much he hates me and a bunch of ...

Should I mend it or end it?

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8 February 2010 (F - I love my boyfriend, I just don't know if I'm in love with him and I don't know what to do. I love him because he's a great person, he truly cares for me, he's fun to be around, etc. However, I'm getting so tired of our relationship becaus...

Why can't my ex be friends with me?

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8 February 2010 (F - Ok.. So I was broken up with by a guy I was head over heels in love with about 5 years.. there are still feelings I have for him even though we have both moved on in life.. Recently I had found out he is actually friends with his girlfriend he had ...

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