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Our sex life used to be magical until his porn use!

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18 July 2018 (F - Im 43 and my self confidence and 20 yr relationship is suffering more and more with progressive viewing of porn by my partner. We’ve always enjoyed watching it together every once in awhile and I’m willing to spice up our sex life within reason. But ...

I met him 2 weeks ago and am wondering is this a friendship or a rebound?

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17 July 2018 (F - I am 25 and have been single for a year now. Two weeks ago, I met a guy at a party who works with a friend of mine. We hit it off and talked nonstop. Later that week we ended up going to another group event together and staying after everyone ...

What should I do about this player?

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30 June 2018 (F - OK - this is a long and complicated story, so please bear with me. I worked in the same company with a guy. We worked there for over a year, remotely. That means we didn't meet in real life, until perhaps a year into the time at the company, at a ...

Should I add my ex to my contacts or just erase him completely?

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29 June 2018 (M - Me and my boyfriend recently broke up because we've been in a long distance relationship after he moved out the state. We both didn't cheat, but we just couldn't keep the spark in LDR and we decided to move on since we both have different ...

I've lost faith in relationships, love and marriage. Can anyone else relate to me?

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26 June 2018 (F - Hi, I've kind of lost faith in love. The guys I dated taught me harsh realities and often love is not enough. I used to be romantic as a teenager and then it became mutual love and respect, then it became more about finding a good intellectua...

Is it normal for closed-mouth kisses to be wet?

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8 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend's kisses or pecks on my lips leave my lips wet with his saliva, which I do not like. I sometimes wipe my lips after which he understandably gets offended by. I don't recall this happening with other guys, only him. He seems to purse his ...

Is it time to end it ?

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8 June 2018 (F - Hi, So I’ve been in my first and only age gap relationship for six months, we met at work and both thought the other was closer in age. For the most part it hasn’t been an issue but recently I’ve found the level of maturity has been really starting...

I caught feelings for a friend and I'm not sure if I should tell them

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6 June 2018 (? - We've worked together for about a year now. We became friends a couple months ago after he broke up with his girlfriend, and we started hanging out outside of work (his initiation). We've hung out every week with his group of friends, and aside from ...

Am I right to worry about losing him in the future or should I just focus on now and whatever happens later, happens?

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4 June 2018 (F - Hi, I need some advice about me and my boyfriend. Everything's perfect at the minute but there's that risk of a long distance relationship coming between us. I'm gonna be speaking in code abit just so I don't give away too much about myself and...

I’ve got a crush on him and need help deciphering if he has a crush on me!

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23 May 2018 (F - Hi I'm 14 years old (almost 15) and I've never had a boyfriend but a few links and crushes. A little while ago, I started finding one of my closest guy friends attractive, and it was really awkward for me because I've known him for so long. I was ...

LDR Should I Ask Why He Hid His Profile? Need Advice

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12 May 2018 (F - I’ve been talking to a guy on a dating site for 3 weeks now. He is long distance so we have not been able to meet. We were supposed to meet recently and he had to cancel but he’s working on rescheduling for 3 weeks from now. We have had a very good ...

My ex is hanging around me and my new boyfriend and its causing problems

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11 May 2018 (F - Hello there! I wanted to ask advice about the current situation I'm in. A couple of months ago, I broke up with my ex, whom I'll refer to as M. We had gone out for a while. but during the relationship, M didn't spend any time with me, always chose ...

How do I distance myself from my toxic siblings?

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8 May 2018 (F - Okay so, it all began about a year ago. I've been having issues with both my elder and younger sisters. Before my younger sister came along, my elder and I were super close. Atleast we were, about a year ago. Now my you get sister is 12, an...

Shall I just go along with this as it is and see where it goes, or ask now what he's thinking?

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20 April 2018 (M - Hey, so I'm 24 but pretty new to dating in general - I came out of a long-term relationship with my (thus far only) boyfriend back in September last year and only recently felt ready to start dating. In any case, I've been seeing some for the las...

Was it the right time to end it?

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7 April 2018 (F - I’ve been dating a guy for a few months after a break up with a long term partner who i was living with. We started dating and it was great. It wasn’t butterflies and excitement, but comfortable and safe. After I told him the reason my...

I love another boy but don’t know how to break up with my boyfriend!

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30 March 2018 (F - Well, l am kind of in a weird situation, there was a boy who l had a crush on, but l thought he wasn't in to me. We grew up together and we did things we shouldn't have (anything other then sex*) but l thought we were just messing around, and he r...

We're almost breaking up over the question of having kids in the future but am I being irrational?

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28 March 2018 (F - Sorry this is rather long... I started dating a man 10 years older than me last year. We are serious going now and eventually the subject of children had to come up and it did. Before, it was something that was mentioned by both and brushed of...

Is it unreasonable for me to question their friendship?

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28 March 2018 (F - My boyfriend of 7 months has a best friend who is a girl and I was fine with it at first as they have been friends for 2 years before I got with him. She always hangs out with all our mutual friends in a group and has often joined us both on eveni...

I think my lecturer doesn't like me and I'm being targetted

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13 March 2018 (M - I feel like my teacher doesn't like me, is punishing or testing me. We switched groups today and has purposely put 2 very strong opinionated people who were debating the day before. The lecturer told one of the students that she put those 2 together ...

I need advice on dealing with his weeklong absence as well date ideas!

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8 March 2018 (F - Please help! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a month and we are still on that we see each other 24/7 phase and he is going away for spring break next week to Mexico for a month. How can I deal with him being gone a week?! Also, my b...

Is my fiance telling the truth about a porn related message he received on his cell?

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27 February 2018 (F - My fiance received a text message on his phone number that was from an non recipient email address for him to veiw a web cam he says he has no idea how it happened because he hasn't been on any porn sites or signed up for any dating sites is he ...

I love her but I don't know what to do.

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7 February 2018 (M - Ok so I been with my girlfriend for all most 6 years have a 4 year old son and honestly we have been thru so much from keeping lil lies from each other wen we where younger to frowning and trusting eachother for about the past 4 to 5 years there ...

Is his interest in this activity normal?

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28 January 2018 (F - I'm not sure if this is an issue, but it's been on my mind. I have a wonderful boyfriend. I love him to death. We're pretty sexually active, and I can't help but please him. It's just that despite all the sex and oral we do, he's always asking to ...

My husband often gives me the silent treatment

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20 January 2018 (F - Not sure what to do. Been married for 12 years (2nd marriage for both of us) My husband has generally given me the silent treatment when we have argued however lately he stonewalls me without arguing. every week we drive over to the next town to ...

How do I respond to his confession that he's falling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 181 days ago

18 January 2018 (? - My colleague and I have a very good relationship. He is someone very supportive and protective of me. A handsome and neat guy with high sense of morality. I am 4 months in the job and we have had a lot to talk about. We have a good rapport and...

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