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I need some guidance to win him back

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4 July 2009, 1 hour ago (F - hey guys, i feel like shit to put it bluntly, and by shit i mean real low, and ive felt like this on and off since valentines day, i had a boyfriend of 8month and we split up the day after valentines day. we were on and off and both lost are virg...

My heart is broken in pieces I really need help

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4 July 2009, 1 hour ago (M - My boyfriend broke up with me this week and it's being so hard to get over the whole situation for me because it ended up in really hurtful terms, he seemed like he didn't care hurting my feelings, he broke my heart in pieces, but after all that he ...


   

My Voyeuristic Boyfriend

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4 July 2009, 1 hour ago (F - My boyfriend and I have been friends for a few years, and have been dating for a few months, and he confessed something to me that I'm not sure how to respond to and not sure what to think about. He told me about his voyeuristic tendencies and t...

Does my guy friend like me?

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4 July 2009, 1 hour ago (F - Hi I need some advice about my guy friend.I need to know if he likes me. My guy friend is really nice to me only.Well,we met through my brother at first i didnt think he liked me but he knew i liked him.So he tried to aviod me.After a few years ...

Should I meet her anyway or can I win her back?

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4 July 2009, 1 hour ago (M - Hey...I was in or at least hoping still in a long distance relationship. My girl and i have been in a long distance relationship for 7 months now and lately she been losing her feelings for me. She said that she found another guy. I'm coming back in ...

   

I don't want to lose my friend

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4 July 2009, 1 hour ago (M - Hi, this is appu. i m best friend of a girl, since 3 years. she had a bf since 8 years.frm the very last year, she is not giving time to me, earlier we talk on net and on phone regularly , but now since 6 months she looks to change now she talks ...

How do you tell how a man feels about you when he won't talk?

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3 July 2009, 5 hours ago (F - How do you tell how a man feels about you when he want talk? My relationship with my b/f has spanned 23 years. Not all toghether. We have a child. We had great sex. He was great with my older kids. I have pulled away because I dont know how he ...

Are his feelings for me genuine?

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3 July 2009 (F - I like this guy from past 5 years... I got to know that he is in relationship with someone else and after that i dont how but even i commited myself in a relationship but my feelings for this person remain unchanged. Whenever I used to talk with som...

What does his eagerness to keep contact mean?

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3 July 2009 (F - I was with my boyfriend for a year and we made the huge mistake of living together to early and about a month ago we started fighting and i moved out. After i moved out things got a bit rough but we still managed to talk a and see each other ...

Feuding friends...

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3 July 2009 (F - Well, this isn't a dating question but I really needed to ask anyway. I grew up with my two best friends from kindergarden to high school then through uni we were inseperable. We had a very intense and amazing friendship. Then disaster struck. F...

I keep dreaming of my boyfriend cheating!

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3 July 2009 (F - I have had three dreams in a row where my boyfriend is cheating on my with my best friend. The first one - my best friend was trying to hook up with him, and I told her to stay out of our relationship and I kept screaming at her. The seco...

He has left me financially insolvent and hasn't shown any affection for years.

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3 July 2009 (F - Yahoo!My Yahoo!MailMore Can anyone give me some advice? I'm a little nervous writing this because i really dont want any nasty comments just some advice please. 6 years ago I worked at the same place as my then fiancee and a good friend. I ...

I''ve fallen for a girl who is with someone!

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3 July 2009 (F - About a year a go i realised i was bisexual. I currently have a boyfriend who i have been with for almost 3 years. I am only 19 but i realised something wasn't right. I started to have feelings for girls...especially some of my more closer mates and ...

I'm not rdy to lose him in our long distance relationship...

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3 July 2009 (F - Dear Cupid, I have 6mos relationship online with a guy from the US. I am from the Philippines. I loved the guy so much and I really care for him. We chatted everyday for more or less 1 hour. He was sweet to me when we were new. But lately...

My self-esteem issues is making me hang onto this boy

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3 July 2009 (F - So I was crazy about this guy a few months ago- like the very smell of him caused me pain' kind of crazy. We would flirt and heavily make out drunkenly/passionalty at parties, and hang out on a weekly basis, but always with a third wheeler friend to ...

They're only 3 days broken up, but I'm falling for her!

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2 July 2009 (M - OKay a friend of a friend of mine, has just broken up with his girlfriend about 3 days ago, and me and the girl are really good mates, were proper close, anyway the problem is that even without flirting with each other there seems to be this huge ...

What is my cousin's wife trying to do??

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2 July 2009 (F - I had a situation some years ago, I really loved this guy before and he kept lying to me that he was forced into a marriage but he really loved me, and I was stupid to believe him... So at the time my cousin and his wife were not married then..th...

I want one night of fun with her but it will be my first time!

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1 July 2009 (M - this girl and i are good mates, we keep talking about hooking up for one night of fun, i want to a lot, but at the same time i dont, becuase, well, it will be my first time and im woried that it will be over in like 30seconds and she wont enjoy it, ...

We don't trust each other and now I might be leaving for a job. How can we make this work?

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1 July 2009 (M - Don't know what to do? I have been dating this girl for almost a year! We live in the same town! In fact she lives about couple of blocks away from me! We spend almost every weekend together! But most of that time we will be fighting! I told her ...

I like his friend, what should I do?

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30 June 2009 (F - Me and my friends have started hanging around with one of my friends brothers and his mates. They all go to a different school from me and my friends. All of us have a sort of thing going with a different one of these lads. Its nothing official. But ...

We still can't trust each other and at 22 he's already gone off sex. Help!

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30 June 2009 (F - This is quite a long one and I apologise but I feel like giving the history is really important in this case. I've been with Roger* for nearly four years. We met online and were friends for three months before we became a couple, I guess we were ...

Does he really just want to be friends?

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29 June 2009 (F - i have known this really nice guy since sixth grade and its now my freshmen year and we are barely even friends. we talk sometimes but only when we really have nothing better to do. occasionally he will do things like tease me and touch my shoulders ...

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Age gap... can it REALLY work?

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4 July 2009, 5 hours ago (M - Hello, I met a girl.... I'm not yet emotionally overcommitted but i seek your wisdom.. before i begin to allow those sorts of things to build I'm separated.... and most women ive dated have been my age, almost all of them. I have had a few flings...

What is a first relationship like for child abuse victims or survivors?

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3 July 2009, 5 hours ago (F - My boyfriend was physically abused by his father as a child. He claims that neither of his parents ever really loved him. To this day, he sees his parents as very negative things. When they talk, I can still feel the tension in the air. It ...


   

Period problems and "spotting"

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I don't know what to make of all this, can you shed some light on it?

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3 July 2009, 5 hours ago (F - I don't understand what's going on. My boyfriend has a few issues with confidence and things of this nature. Recently they have become a massive problem and he said that he may need a break, but he doesn't even know if it would help him. So at the ...

Are his feelings still true?

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3 July 2009, 5 hours ago (F - a few months ago my boyfriend ended our relationship. Hes in the army and he was away for 8 months. He came back and within a few days he text me after me returning home from his with a text "i dont feel like its working out, it feels awkward"... ...

   

Step brother lover...

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3 July 2009 (F - This is actually quite hard for me to do, i am and have been deeply in love with my step brother for over 20 years. our parents were together when we were three till 13. he never lived with us and only stopped over once a month. our parents had kids ...

Does liking transsexuals make me gay?

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3 July 2009 (M - So I've recently developed a pretty strong fetish for Shemales (yes, I know the term is offensive to some, and I'm sorry, but that's the best way I know how to describe them - that is, transsexual men - women who have penises). Does it make me gay ...

Please help me get over this, we're so alike and they're just not suited its killing me.

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3 July 2009 (F - Hey some help here would be appreciated please. Could you just please explain to me why this lad that i was good friends with is behaving this way. We were good friends and stuff and i've always liked him think he liked me too because of how he ...

Since we've gotten back together I haven't orgasmed and my boyfriend thinks it's him that must be the problem. Help!

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3 July 2009 (F - Hey, so I'm with my boyfriend of just over three years. We have been in love for these three years since we met, though we broke up after two years as we were both worried we were getting tied down too early, and both saw other people. However after ...

Why all these emotions when I rub my nipples?

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3 July 2009 (M - Hey, I've discovered that when I rub my nipples for a while, I start to get really emotional, and even cry. Why do I get filled with these strange emotions when I rub my nipples? Like, at some points it almost feels like 'love' in the sense of a d...

I can't bare to think about them together or even see them together because it hurts to much...

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3 July 2009 (F - Hi, hope some of you could help me here. This is kinda 2 questions in one so sorry its long I know im probably being very stupid and yes i havent gotta get over it but i need some help and someone else opinion on what has happened. Obviously i won't ...

My boyfriend is mad about my past...

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3 July 2009 (F - Hello, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I know I still love him and I know he still cares about me, but he is extremly mad at me for my past. I gave him my msn password because I honestly didn't care if he went on. But before I met him there ...

My first boyfriend has reappeared in my life, and married and I don't know how to stop living in the past.

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3 July 2009 (F - I didn't start dating until I was 20, but I never had a serious relationship until I was 23. But the first boy I dated when i was 20, only for 3 months, but he was the sweetest, cutest, most lovely boy, and til now I still think about how wonderful ...

Do I choose my currnt bf or my best friend who likes me?

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3 July 2009 (F - i thought i was in love with this lad, everything was going great i thought, then this laad that was my bestfriend as loong as i knew him came along and told me i was gorgeous and a right bird, he keeps calling me gorgeous and beautiful and telling ...

This girl is like my sister but I said mean things to her....

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3 July 2009 (M - okay so there's this girl, she's like my sister we're that close, anyway we drifted apart abit, because i didnt like her boyfriend and one night whilst i was drunk/ hungover, i said a few mean things to her, now we dont speak at all, how can i say ...

I know I should be happy that he is with his next victim...so why am I so sad?

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3 July 2009 (F - Please help. I have written before about this. My xbf keeps getting in contact with me - for sex. Silly me thinking he would leave his new gf for me for the amazing things I did for him. She is the complete opposite me and I realized this ...

Ready to dump jealous boyfriend and go back to ex!

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3 July 2009 (F - I am 17 and i recently i started going out one of my close friends and it was ok but now he has changed and everytime that i talk to any of my boy friends he gets really jealous and always comes up and puts his arm around me even when i dont want ...

She has such an attachment to her ex--is that a red flag?

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3 July 2009 (M - Hello everyone on here, I would appreciate your valued advice or help please on my situation. Thank you. I have been enjoying dating and being with my girffriend for the past two months. (me 43, she 47) Very close, friendly and sharing. All rea...

Should I be worried about the guys she hangs around with?

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3 July 2009 (M - One week after the girl i really liked broke up with me i met this other girl, ( at this point i didnt care about anything i had lost a very special person and just didnt care) she was a gangster girl a bit crazy and when i met her i was kinda one ...

There was some miscommunication between us and he's stressing over it

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3 July 2009 (F - Yesterday night after I got off from work I went to a movie, and after it was over I texted my boyfriend saying I'll stop by his house since he was just getting off work. Well I was planning on having sex with him before I left but when he got back ...

Paranoid about my man's co-worker who has a crush on him

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3 July 2009 (F - Am I being paranoid?...B/f works with a woman who's had a crush on him since day one. They used to spend time out in the field; she'd make up any excuse to accompany him, even when it wasn't part of his job. But he came home to me every night. Once ...

Is it a bad idea to tell him I've started seeing someone else? I really like this guy, but he had a bad breakup.

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3 July 2009 (F - I care a lot about a guy I've been seeing. I try not to think about loving him but I know I do. However, he's not over his ex girlfriend - not in an "I still love her" kind of way, but in a "she hurt me so badly and killed my confidence in ...

I cant stop thinking about my ex-girl. Should I act on it?

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2 July 2009 (M - I broke up with my girlfriend after 3 years of ups and downs. I really loved her, but I felt it was the best thing to do given how she was treating me at the time. Funny thing is, I can't stop thinking about her. I tried to date other girls in the ...

Found out he's going on holiday without me!

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2 July 2009 (F - I found out that my boyfriend may be going on holiday. He did not ak me or anything. Our relationship has been struggling. I called him pretending not to know and told him I was planning on going to the same place. He did not say anything. ...

I'm loney and need to move on from my ex...Advice?

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2 July 2009 (F - Im lonely, I still talk to my ex even though I shouldn't and he told me hes going to America for 2 weeks on holiday with his girlfriend and even though its been a year and half since he dumped me it felt like a kick in the guts. I want to meet ...

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