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Isn’t it unfair for my life-long friend to put our relationship on hold?

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22 May 2019, 16 hours ago (M - I have a question that has been bothering me. We are both 26. I have a childhood friend whom I went to school with. We have spent everyday day of our lives together, and as life is coming to a crucial stage (soon we will be with kids, lifes change, ...

Seeking advice for a first time crush on a trans man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 May 2019 (F - I am a single heterosexual cis female. I've recently started spending a lot of social time with a 24yr old transitioning man (ftm), and have suprised myself by developing a crush. He and I aren't super close, and to be honest if nothing else the...

Does this mean he is into me?

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12 May 2019 (F - Hello and thank you A bit of background. I knew this persons brother and his brother passed away recently. It was a difficult time for both of us. We talked alot . Lately hes been asking so many questions. Also, saying in a caring , underst...

My step children's mother is still creating problems

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8 May 2019 (F - Hello - just wanted to know whether we are being selfish. I have a child who is 2 and 2 stepchildren who are gorgeous. My husband had to go to court to see the children and we have a very unreasonable ex. The children aren’t allowed to see a...

Parts of my life don't work with me being gay and I have a crush on a straight man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 38 days ago

31 March 2019 (M - For starters, I am a gay 25 year old man. I am in the closet to most everybody, with a few friends/family members being the exception. I am not "hiding" my true self per se, meaning that I don't fear being outed every waking moment like I did when I ...

Is this trainer being friendly or flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 65 days ago

18 March 2019 (F - I hired a female personal trainer to help me achieve my weight loss goals, and she is co-workers with another personal trainer who is male. I see him around often and a couple of times he has said hi to me, and when he was getting his client on the ...

How can I better draw other males' attention online..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

14 March 2019 (M - I have no particular interest in women, nor enough experience with them, whom I maybe like just about 10% sexually. The thing is that I also find it hard to always leave "gay" in the sexuality box on the dating site for men.Rather, I usually go by ...

How do I stop my anxiety from ruining my career and life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 71 days ago

14 March 2019 (F - Last September I started a hairdressing apprenticeship. I was really happy because I was working dead end jobs for minimum wage that were very tiring physically. Luckily I found an employer willing to take me on as at my age it is quite rare. So the ...

I love a guy who is nothing like my abusive ex. But we are of different religions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 79 days ago

5 March 2019 (F - I m in my mid 20s. I started dating a when I was 18. Through all bad times we were together. Long story short I was abused mistreated by him. He was verbally nd at time phsycially abuse too . He ghosted me then I was begging him to talk. His ...

I’m trying to understand where I stand with her before telling her how I feel! We are both very shy.

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2 March 2019 (M - Hi again I posted on here a few days ago with the title “Is she shy or just not into me?”. The situation has changed a lot since I posted that so I wanted to get your opinions once again. I’m sorry if this is long, my mind is a bit of a mess at...

The other woman or mind games?

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17 January 2019 (F - I have been in a relationship with a woman for five years now. We have hit some rocky patches in our road together but always stayed together. There has been issues involving another woman, an ex of hers that she doesn't seem to want to let go of. ...

I don't know if she will come back or has moved on.

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15 December 2018 (M - Can anyone please help me what I did wrong or is it she is being self centered? Well this cancer girl, she is my friend and its been 2 years for our friendship. Months ago I confronted her about why she was being mean with this another girl in our g...

I'm crushing on my team leader.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 162 days ago

13 December 2018 (F - I am very frustrated because there is someone that I'm potentially interested in at work that I think is also very interested in me but that nothing is happening for -- So I started work at this new place about five months ago now, and slowly ...

He said he'd break up with his girlfriend to date me but I just want to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 October 2018 (F - Hi, I've just transferred to a new university starting second year where everybody already knows each other. I befriended a girl on my course and she introduced me to her friendship group on the course which has been lovely. I've particularly got...

I am caught in the middle of a boy I like and my female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 225 days ago

9 October 2018 (F - I'm in a pretty tough situation and I don't know what to do. I'm in a friendship group of three people. My closest friend who is a girl and a guy that I have become closer to as he is really close to her aswell. I have feelings for him and have done ...

How do I stop obsessing over this guy and just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 227 days ago

6 October 2018 (F - I have liked the same person for ages now and I still have feelings for him ,we don't talk anymore as things happened mainly due to me and since then I just haven't stopped liking him . I do think I am obsessed/infatuated with him which is so ...

I'm not fitting in with my new coworkers!

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1 October 2018 (F - I've been at my job for 5 years. 2 months ago, I decided to change positions to get more experience. In my line of work, it looks good to try new roles and I'd been in my previous position for 4 years. My coworkers in my old position were li...

I want to fix things after I freaked him out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

1 October 2018 (F - There's a person I still have feelings for who I used to talk to, but not anymore due to some of the things I did in which I was sorry for and apologised lots of times . I hate the fact I still like him as it makes me feel so upset and worthless , ...

How to get people off my back about dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

23 September 2018 (M - Hey guys I have a question, may be weird for most as you probably have not experienced it. But I have to face the facts. From young age I was always bullied about my looks. Certain facial features different proportions etc. Anyway I always ...

Should I keep talking to him even though I feel like he likes my older sister but knows he can’t do anything about his feelings and is using me to get rid of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 267 days ago

30 August 2018 (F - Hello! There is this very attractive guy i met almost two years ago. When i met him he had a girlfriend and wasn’t really looking for anything. He recently came last month again and i became very attracted to him. This guy is the same age as me and ...

I always find some flaw in men, am I a full-blown lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 August 2018 (F - Hi, I am 32 and reevaluating my life. I have noticed a pattern of freaking out from liking the same sex. I must admit that I think I'm definitely into the same sex because I am attracted to them physically. I haven't yet gone on a date and don't k...

How I am going to do with my the monthly expenses with all these medical debt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 282 days ago

13 August 2018 (F - I had an emergency surgery done this year and unfortunately, the medical insurance covered only a small portion of it so I am in debt with medical bills. I did call all the parties and set up a payment plan so at least I am paying it little by ...

How to initiate conversations on social media with potential dates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 282 days ago

12 August 2018 (F - Okay I'm new to this whole internet dating thing..... if I find a guy on social media who has similar interests and appears single, how do I go about initiating a conversation and how to I turn it to a conversation that asks if he is single and if ...

I feel stuck. Did I waste too much time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 August 2018 (F - Hi all. I will try to be short and specific. I'm a biotech grad. And I was hopelessly running behind a research job for 3 and a half long years after my graduation but I did not achieved it. At the same time due to this unemployment and conflicts ...

Why does my partner fall asleep during oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

4 August 2018 (F - My partner has done exactly the same, fallen asleep during a blowjob! This is the 2nd time now he has done it, I’m starting to think it’s me that’s making him fall asleep whilst giving him a boring blowy. I know I’m rubbish at giving head as it is ...

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