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I changed from being a gentleman to try to get girls, but it hasn't worked

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3 September 2010, 40 minutes ago (M - I don't understand what I am doing wrong can someone please explain to me if I am doing something wrong here... It's about my dating life, and just me in general. I have always been a gentleman type guy, never chased girls was always polite, t...

What if we meet and the feels are too good to be true?

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3 September 2010, 43 minutes ago (F - I've been trying to avoid these feelings because I know its way to soon to say them, and I still intend on not saying them now. I think I may be in love with my boyfriend. But that's not the bad part...we've never met, he has a daughter, only knew ...


   

Thought we'd had a good start, but haven't heard from her

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3 September 2010, 45 minutes ago (M - Hey everyone i'm 22, here's the deal. The last girl i was involved in before now was in 2005, the less said about that the better. Anyway that's long gone, and i've been talkng to this girl who's the same age as me for a month or two now (actually ...

4 guys, do I just wait for one of them to make a move?

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3 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - I am 21 years old. I'm in my fourth year of college and life is going pretty good right now. I feel good about the direction my life is going and I'm ready for anything. Everything feels perfect, except one thing. Well, three things that is. Thre...

I think he is mad because I confronted him about drunk dialing

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3 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - He dumped me after 6 months. I met this man online. We started meeting in my place.We never been anywhere else.He used to come at my place every Friday and drink stay over for the night.I enjoyed his company as I am lonely woman.I work 40 hours a ...

   

All he wants is sex, what about my financial responsibilities?

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2 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - Hello, I am a 56 year old female divorce now for 7 years...and I just told my boyfriend that it's over! We have known each other now for the past 20 years. And he just went through a divorce about 1 yr. ago....we have been dating for 2 yrs but te...

I'm so confused at where I stand with him

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2 September 2010, 3 hours ago (M - Ok so yeah i'm bisexual, this guy is my first sort of boyfriend..except this is the problem i don't know if it is a relationship or not..Everything was fine, one of the problems though is the distance, he lives 3-4 hours away from me on the train so ...

Everything I do is not good enough for him!

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2 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - Hi me and my boyfriend have been together almost two years and in the beggining everything was beyond wonderful..like a dream come true.we went on dates every weekend.he surprised me with gifts.and showered me with attention.but the past four months ...

I am in love with my aunt

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2 September 2010, 4 hours ago (M - hello again everyone. i have previously posted my question, but again, i would like to hear more advice from people so i am reposting it again. please let me know how you think and thank you very very much! i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and ...

I felt an attraction, but he was just leading me on

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2 September 2010 (F - This may sound really silly but i like the guy so much I have to ask. I met a really beautiful guy, James, while out the other night, and saw him again another night. He seemed really pleased to see me again and ran up hugging me. We got on so well ...

I don't trust her and want her out of my head

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2 September 2010 (M - Hey, Theres this chick ive been really close to for awhile and we sorta went out but not officially when i asked her out she turned me down. She than acted like a bit of a slut and i didnt talk to her for a few months cos of how she was acting b...

I know it sounds terrible about his past but I really want him to commit with me!

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1 September 2010 (F - "Wondering" I met this guy since i came here in Macau through our common friends. It's actually my guy friend who introduce me to him since that time that certain guy was looking for a vocalist for their band. It was like a sabotage thing b...

How do I ask him to hang out without him thinking I "like" him in that way?

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1 September 2010 (F - I met this guy and we've hung out about four times. We've always hung out in groups but we tended to stick with each other, not in like "we're together" sort of way, but more like "i feel comfortable around you and i know you the most". i want to ...

Should I keep trying to make thing work? Or should I let it go and move on?

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1 September 2010 (F - Hi my bf and I have been going through a rocky time lately. He doesn't seem as caring as he used to and that makes me a little insecure about his true feelings. I'm always the one approaching him, sending him texts, making plans, etc. Before it ...

I need a good reason to text him!

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1 September 2010 (F - so this is my first year at this college - im a sophomore transfer. i met this kid, who is a junior, and he is way too cool. at first i thought he liked me but im fairly certain he is just incredibly friendly. which means he knows everyone. which ...

I want him back, but he says "forget it"

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31 August 2010 (F - i was in a relation ship with an older man, he was married and he just had a kid. they were not doing so good they were sort of broke up, but stupid me started a relationship with him. we fell in love she found out and instead of just being broke up ...

He says he is young for a relationship, does this mean he has feelings? Should I try for an LDR?

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31 August 2010 (F - More than just good friends? I have this really good friend and I have known him for 5 years. At the moment we are in different countries and we only stay in contact through facebook. I have had feelings for him for long. So on April fools day I sa...

How to get him out of my brain?

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31 August 2010 (F - Cutting a long story short.... my now ex broke up with me out of nowhere in a pub in front of all his friends (nice) and didnt speak to me for 2 weeks. When he finally did he thought i would fall at his feet and get back with him, as much as i ...

Ever since I had the miscarriage our relationship has been troubled

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31 August 2010 (F - So me and my boyfriend has been together for a yr and 3 months, everything was perfect until recently about 2 or 3 months ago..around the time we had a miscarriage and i quit my job, we have been argueing alot about stupid things and havent been ...

Afraid to tell him but so confused and fed up

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31 August 2010 (F - I am 15 years old and I am a very emotional person who does make friends easily but doesn't connect extremely with them except of some rare cases. I had two friendships in the last 5-6 years that ended up really bad with me broken-hearted. I started ...

Should I bring up the exclusive talk, since he still has his dating profile up?

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30 August 2010 (F - I have been dating a great guy I met online for about 2 1/2 months now. He has met my family, and I have met part of his. We live about an hour apart, so we only see each other about every weekend/every other. We talk every couple of days. He has ...

Sometimes I think I love him and other times I hate him or don't even care about him?

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30 August 2010 (F - So my ex and I broke up in October of last year, we had an on and off thing going on since May. I lost my virginity to him which was a huge deal to me but I can't figure out if I'm attached to him b/c I lost it to him or if I would be as attached if ...

My current boyfriend would be the wiser choice but I am being pulled at by my ex

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30 August 2010 (F - I've been with a guy for just over three months now, after having a messy breakup with an ex who I was with for seven months, and only ended the beginning of this year. I thought i had moved on and that i could be happy with my new bf but now my ex ...

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I feel uncomfortable dating!

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3 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - hi, i'm 19, a virgin and never had a bf. i've always had small flings (if even that) that have just never kicked off the ground. i always moan about being the only single one all the time, but the moment any guy ever shows any interest in me, i for ...

In love with my married neighbour

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3 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - A couple of years ago I had to go round to my neighbours to borrow something. His wife was out for the night, we got chatting and he asked if I wanted to stay and have a drink. About five hours and a few drinks later I finally left. We got on so ...


   

Am I just convenient for him?

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3 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - I feel hurt by this coment but am i over reacting to it. I have been seeing this guy for over 5yrs now and while i love him dearly he does'nt love me,he's fond of me i know but i don't feel any love from him.he's always txting me everyday without ...

Guy is now talking with his ex..

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3 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - Okay, I really don't know where to turn here, so I'm hoping someone can help me. I'm 22 years old, and talking to someone who is 27. We have been talking for about 2 months or so. Its a short time, but we've bonded so fast and see each other ...

Having trouble conceiving

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2 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - Dear cupid and nd others i am a 18 yr ols feMale who is having trouble concieving . ive been pregnant an misscarred twice i have no kids but want some please giue meh answers on wat i shud do ! ...

   

Is he leading me on?

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2 September 2010, 3 hours ago (F - Hello, I'm really confused about this situation and wonder if anyone here knows of anything similar. I met this guy at a party about a month ago and it seemed that we both were really interested in each other - he was being quite flirtatious towa...

I like him, but I want to make sure it's for the right reasons

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2 September 2010 (F - Heyy (: So, my boyfriend recently broke up with me. This really hurt because i'd never been dumped before, and he was the first boy i really liked (maybe even loved)but after a month or two, i accepted it, and now i think i'm over it. Anyway, o...

Testing the waters with online friend again..any advice?

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2 September 2010 (F - I met a lovely guy on line a few months ago. The first day we spent together was great. I then subsequently spent two full weekends with him in June and July. Things progressed quickly. He lived over 100 miles form me so a lot of the ...

We are both insecure and now it's starting to get out of hand! Help!

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2 September 2010 (F - I have been with my now husband for almost 5 yrs. he is a bit older than me and has two older children,I have 3 from another marriage and we have one together. At first it seemed like things would last forever. In the begining of our relationship I ...

Why don't men admit to their feelings?

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2 September 2010 (F - ok you men out there why dont you admit to your feelings i am with a guy and he has told me he loves me in a text not said it again i have told him a few times but stopped now cause dont feel he loves me cause he does not say but then i think of ...

I really want to be pregnant! Do I have the symptoms?

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2 September 2010 (F - hi,im married and i met my husband on my ovulation day after a week i started having symptoms of pregnancy like tenderness,soarness and fullness of the breast,a green outline below my ...

Week alone with a new guy, what do I do?

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2 September 2010 (F - Okay well I have a week off at the end of my summer classes before my fall classes start and I called that week off from work. I just really need to get out of the house because I still live at home. I've been talking to this guy and he is going to ...

My BF is leaving... any ideas for something I can give him to remember me?

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2 September 2010 (F - Hello everyone. Well my BF is leaving to Georgia for 5 months. He is going to basic training for the Army. We have never been apart from each other that long. So I would like to give him a little detail so he can think about me and remember me when ...

He ALMOST cheated... is this a red flag?

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2 September 2010 (F - So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years now. I'm 25, he's 33. Our relationship has always been great except for the one thing we have always fought about, which is my lack of trust for him. I would say our first year together, ...

I feel like my girlfriend and I are drifting apart.

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2 September 2010 (M - My girlfriend and I have just recently started college at the same place. I'm 21 but transferred over and she is 19 but a freshman at the university. Lately it's been hard to feel close to her. I understand that this is the point in her life that ...

How can a couple rebuild from the point of relationship burnout? Or is it helpless?

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2 September 2010 (F - I've been in a relationship for about 1.5 years now, and it's been pretty rocky. There have been trust issues, control issues, fighting that goes on late into the night, etc. We have both made mistakes, probably me more than him. He's given me ...

Why the hell am I finding this guy so hard to resist when he offers me nothing?

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2 September 2010 (F - Hi again to readers who have given great advice re the Sydney internet guy. I haven't made the trip to Sydney and have decided that all he wants to do is to use me. I have accepted that, as hard as it is over the last week. When I text him last we...

My sisters husband has fallen in love with our other sister. Help!

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2 September 2010 (F - I've got two older sisters. The older one found out her husband has fallen in love with the other sister. She is upset about and talks to her husband about it. Her husband deny it. However they continue to go out together when my other sister is ...

Will he text me back?

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2 September 2010 (F - Basically, me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago... I cried for hours, it basically ruined my vacation... I still feel like crap... Basically because I'm very lonely as it is... I don't really have any friends to my name, I didn't depend on ...

Problems in my relationships....

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2 September 2010 (F - Am a 23 yr old female who is having problems in my relationship. one is that i have never come during all my sexual encouters with the few guys i have slept with. two is that i feel kind of confused coz i have two guys right now and currently am ...

Can anyone make sense of what is happening here?

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2 September 2010 (F - Please help me.my man womt touch me wthout being begged. Each time he gets home, sits to delete messages and numbers before relaxing. Most times when with people all is well,once alone in bedroom picks a fight over anything small and goes to bed ...

One minute she is very sweet to me, the next she breaks up with my saying she doesn't love me! What should I do?

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2 September 2010 (M - The girl whom i like is at times very sweet to me and show that i m the only one for her...but then she has a lot of guy friends because of which she doesnt devote time to me and then she want me to always be around her.. we were in a relation...

There are 3 guys that like me, on one hand I don't want a relationship right now but on the other I am worried about missing an opportunity!

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2 September 2010 (F - I hang around with a lot of guys. I dated one of these guys until I was pressured to break up with him because of my so called 'friend'. But now I find out that they all still like me. They're 3 guys and I'm not really sure what to do. I just don't ...

Is he wanting to be more than friends?

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2 September 2010 (F - I am confused more than ever about a coworker of mine. Lately, I've been wondering if he wants to be more than friends. I'm 25 and he's 30. We started as lunch buddies. We found out we have a lot in common so naturally we became good friends. We ...

I don't want my family or his family to know that we are having sex, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand this!

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2 September 2010 (F - I dont undestand why my boyfriend of 5 years gets mad when I dont want his family and my family know that we had sexual relationships. I know that his family judges the women for having sex for a young age but he denies it. His cousin got pregnant...

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