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Does being rich make a guy sexier, or does he just offer more security?

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24 January 2017, 3 hours ago (M - Does being rich make a guy sexier, or does he just offer more security? What is better in a guy who is 20-30 years old.. Being super rich (through inheritance or the lottery), or having an $US80k job?...

Should I fight for this relationship? And if I do how do I show him that I really care?

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23 January 2017 (F - 3 months ago I met someone and for first time in a very long time, I started having feelings for a guy. I fell in love very hard. But feels like I keep doing stuff to mess it up. He says he loves me so much and I am his world but also feels like ...

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Should I stop holding back? I'm scared to get hurt

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23 January 2017 (F - Hey all Till now, I've had very hurtful experiences with the guys I've been involved with/liked. I always feel like I've been abandoned or left to myself. And that the other person doesn't feel any remorse in doing so. I know I'm probably wrong ...

How do I get my friend interested in the dating scene?

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5 January 2017 (M - Hi everyone, this is surely going to be a very long question and I'd appreciate any genuine answers as I'm doing this for a friend I care about. So my friend has had a pretty straight yet unusual growing up. Went to a boarding house for 6 year...

How can I deal with this? I'm straight but still confused about my sexuality.

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12 December 2016 (F - I'm a 25yr old women and I'm attracted towards androgynous/tomboy women. But I'm straight. 2 weeks before While I was at train station I saw this lady with sharp boyish personality and I went on noticing her continuously, she was attractive and f...

Why are my friend's parents so strict with her?

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5 November 2016 (F - So we have this one friend fake named April She's usually shy and quite and real shy. Her parents are real strict like she can't have over nites and can't go to them. Her parents don't let her get a job or a license or eve walk to the corner store ...

I feel I’m losing my “big brother" and it’s painful! What should I do?

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20 October 2016 (F - Hey guys, Rach here. I'm a 19-year-old girl and this question is about my big brother-type person. We're really not siblings, just friends, but I consider him my big brother. I'll make this as brief as possible (tho tbh the story is pretty long) -- ...

How do I allow myself to be vulnerable and work through fear?

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8 October 2016 (F - Hi all, I was on here in the spring talking about how a really abusive relationship left me sour and I was just doing the friends with benefits thing for awhile. Well- I met someone. He is a kinder man than I could ever have dreamed of. We b...

Do you think this friendship is dead?

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6 October 2016 (F - A guy who was my classmate said that he likes me .Then we chatted almost all over the night for 2 months. He was always online and replied to my messages as soon as possible. He shares everything but never tells me that he loves me. Nowadays he ...

Its hard since a co-worker every day when I still have feelings for him

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27 September 2016 (F - I have liked someone at work for quite a while, and have always had a good relationship, quite flirty and friendly, but i never really knew if they liked me back. They've recently admitted their feelings (while drunk) and then changed their mind, ...

How should I approach asking this cute girl out?

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21 September 2016 (F - There's a girl in class that I've got feelings for. She's super cute and we talk a lot, as we share many interests. I know that she is bisexual, as I've asked a while back. But she is extremley shy... It's easy for me to talk to her usually,...

Why am I jealous of this one girl who now means nothing to him?

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13 September 2016 (F - So basically I have been with my BF 10 months today and things have been beyond perfect, few fights, no girl issues just pure love as we live about 2 hours away from Eachother (depending on traffic) he comes To see me every week and stays ove...

What is my ex boyfriend feeling?

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5 September 2016 (F - Basically me and my boyfriend had a typical break up however I pushed for it because he was feeling so depressed and I knew he was gonna push me away I didn't want to be hurt. His depression had taken over and he said he felt nothing about anything ...

I have strange feelings about my male cousin. How do I get rid of them?

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31 August 2016 (M - So I have a male cousin. I know, it's already starting off bad. Today was my 16th bday and he's 14. I never though this way about him before, and I'm not gay. But he's been living with us for about 2 years now. I have a foot fetish as well, ...

Should I reach out to guy S? If yes what do I say? Or wait to see if N is still interested?

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21 August 2016 (M - Okay. I’m going to start off by saying that there is probably a shorter way to explain my situation, but I can be sort of long winded. So I’m a gay man and I just finished college back in December. Five years ago, during my freshmen year of...

Kissed another woman for the first time and enjoyed it. What happens from here?

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20 August 2016 (F - So i was at a friends wedding today (some alcohol consumed!) i was chatting with my girl friend (friends for years) about something random in the bathroom stall. Out of nowhere she said she had never kissed a girl and asked would i be up for it, i ...

How can I cope with the change in my mother's behavior and personality since my parents split up?

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16 August 2016 (F - Hi im an 18 yrs old girl,I got a problem with my mom, She's not used to wear sexy clothes when i was a kid but she changes what she wear's maybe 6 years ago? but that's not the problem,this past two years her personality changes,she keep...

I didn't ask for his number the first time we hung out. How and when do I approach him now?

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12 August 2016 (M - So I am a gay male, and I have a situation I need help. I appreciate all advice. Long story short, I have had a crush on this fellow gay man that lives in the same town. He works at our local coffee shop and well, I felt bold last week to go with my ...

I want to make it work but he's not helping by being inconsiderate

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26 July 2016 (F - I need help with a fairly new relationship that I really want to work long term. We've been together only 4 months but have known each other for over 10 years. We don't live close enough to each other to see each other on anything other than the w...

Really like this guy, but if he did like me wouldn't he really want to see me?

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14 July 2016 (F - hello, I have been speaking to this guy for nearly 4 years on and off. we have always said we care for each other and have a natural connection but haven't done anything about it due to my travelling and uni and his work. We text all day everyday...

I'm not sure if I should tell my friend I like her?

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20 June 2016 (F - Hi this is probably going to be a long post but I'm not sure if I should tell my friend that I like her. It started when we were having a girls night and we both mentionned how we were both bisexual but hadnt ever kissed a girl in a non-platonic w...

Angry I missed the signs he didn't love me

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10 June 2016 (F - My bf of six months just broke up with me over text and I wanted to know if im the one that missed the red flags. We met through mutual friends and there was an instant attraction - he was the one that asked me out and within two weeks of knowing...

Could my longstanding friend be cheating?

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6 June 2016 (F - There are times when i feel my longstanding boyfriend must be having an affair judging by his sometime cavalier attitude to mean! Then i feel emotionally exhausted and as if everything i have done has sumply been to prop anothercouple up. I would r...

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