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How do I communicate with my boyfriend about how I feel towards this topic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 September 2019 (F - Hello, I am a 23 year old female and my boyfriend is 26. Recently I feel like my boyfriend has been acting strange. I have noticed some changes. He is a really nice guy and good to me and my family. He is also good with his family as well. A littl...

I feel alone and like a loser after he broke up with me, any advice for moving forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 18 days ago

3 September 2019 (F - Hey! I’m 29 and I just got out of a 2.5 year relationship. I really thought we were going to end up together but things dint turn out that way. I really love my ex and I miss him terribly but I’m dealing with the pain, loneliness, grie...

There's less passion with this relationship and I am wondering what that means

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 34 days ago

19 August 2019 (M - I'm seeing a girl now for the last few months on/off. We met on a dating app and went out a handful of times before I got injured and wasn't able to drive for about 2-3 months. We kept in contact and now things are getting more serious now that I ...

Fiance cheated, how do I move on from my first serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 51 days ago

1 August 2019 (F - My now ex-fiance and I were dating and living together for three years. He proposed in December 2018. Starting in April, he started going out often and neglecting our relationship. Last month, he finally confessed everything to me. During this ...

My other half gets angry in his sleep

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 52 days ago

30 July 2019 (F - My other half gets angry in his sleep. He will turn to me, shout and swear. It happens around the time he feels anxious and he has a loss of libido. He cant pin point why he's anxious though. He's suffered from depression in the past a...

The first guy I loved is moving to another continent

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 61 days ago

20 July 2019 (F - Hey guys. So, something has happened that has me so sad. I met this guy back in 2016, and I haven’t seen him for over a year. The last time we saw each other we had a fight and he unfollowed me on Instagram and I deleted him from Facebook. Haven’t ...

My boyfriend is being really distant and cold.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 71 days ago

8 July 2019 (F - My boyfriend is being really distant and cold. We’ve been together 8 months. He is currently depressed because his ex hasn’t allowed him to see his child. This has been going on for 3 weeks. We never even spoke for the first week - he often shuts ...

She's married we had an affair ended things but is it really over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 75 days ago

8 July 2019 (M - The girl I feel in love with is 6 years younger than me. We were best friends before anything. i had been in two different relationships and we would discuss and vent to one another. She also had a bf at the time. We were best friends. ...

We lost out on a house because my husband won't stand up to his sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 76 days ago

7 July 2019 (F - He would not stand up for us and we lost a house we were to move in in September. My husband is very afraid of his oldest sister he thinks whatever she says is right I am so mad at him I have not spoke to him for the last 3 days and do not know ...

Why am I attracted to younger guys now who are no good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 80 days ago

2 July 2019 (F - My whole life I've been pretty level headed with men and tended to like the older "mature" guys. I was in a long term relationship with a guy who was six years older and he wanted marriage and commitment, which is what I thought I always wanted too. ...

I don't want to invest in something that will hurt me, or waste both of our time. HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 81 days ago

2 July 2019 (F - I met a guy through some mutual friends. He in only in the city right now for work, for a couple of months, however it was an instant connection, and he asked me out on a date. We have gone on multiple dates now, and have spent a lot of time ...

How can I stop falling in love so easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

30 June 2019 (F - It is so easy for me to have feelings for someone that I'm kind of scared being too influenced by this... I don't really like group social gatherings much, and would prefer one on one talk. The problem is, once I have a really good communicati...

Upset with my friends putting me in the middle of a mess

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 91 days ago

21 June 2019 (M - Am I right to be upset with my friends on this? I help coach some softball teams for my local area. I try to help setup teams and find people to play on all the nights. My problems began a couple months ago when two of my friends(from different ...

Why are my parents showing contradictory responses to my dating? And should I proceed with my day trip and longer plans?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

8 June 2019 (F - Hi there, I actually have three questions after the back story of my situation. To begin with, my parents were really uptight on the idea of having a boyfriend or dating. However, a couple of months ago, I got to know a guy from my university an...

What jobs can you do from home without major qualifications?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 103 days ago

8 June 2019 (? - What jobs can you do from home without major qualifications? Particularly in the UK, but any ideas welcome because you may think of some in the UK that don't spring to mind for others. I'm looking online too. I'm unable to work full-time outsid...

How do I stop overthinking my insecurities and thinking my boyfriend is cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 104 days ago

7 June 2019 (F - Hi guys. I just wanted to come on here and get everything of my mind. Il try to give as many details as possible I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and although that might not seem like a long time to some, and like we have...

Quick, affordable ideas to keep romance alive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 108 days ago

3 June 2019 (F - I like surprising my husband with post-it notes in his lunch, buying his favorite dessert or snacks, or setting up a comfy place for him to sit. We are both busy people and on a budget but try our best to keep things interesting. Does anyone have ...

I'm worried that my feelings for my FWB man will go stronger once we go away together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 May 2019 (F - I met a hot guy four years ago on vacation. He was 21 and I was 25 and we lived states away from each other so we decided to hook up during our respective vacations. We knew the distance would mean we couldn't be together so it was supposed to end ...

Isn’t it unfair for my life-long friend to put our relationship on hold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 122 days ago

22 May 2019 (M - I have a question that has been bothering me. We are both 26. I have a childhood friend whom I went to school with. We have spent everyday day of our lives together, and as life is coming to a crucial stage (soon we will be with kids, lifes change, ...

Seeking advice for a first time crush on a trans man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

13 May 2019 (F - I am a single heterosexual cis female. I've recently started spending a lot of social time with a 24yr old transitioning man (ftm), and have suprised myself by developing a crush. He and I aren't super close, and to be honest if nothing else the...

My step children's mother is still creating problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 136 days ago

8 May 2019 (F - Hello - just wanted to know whether we are being selfish. I have a child who is 2 and 2 stepchildren who are gorgeous. My husband had to go to court to see the children and we have a very unreasonable ex. The children aren’t allowed to see a...

Parts of my life don't work with me being gay and I have a crush on a straight man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 159 days ago

31 March 2019 (M - For starters, I am a gay 25 year old man. I am in the closet to most everybody, with a few friends/family members being the exception. I am not "hiding" my true self per se, meaning that I don't fear being outed every waking moment like I did when I ...

Is this trainer being friendly or flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 186 days ago

18 March 2019 (F - I hired a female personal trainer to help me achieve my weight loss goals, and she is co-workers with another personal trainer who is male. I see him around often and a couple of times he has said hi to me, and when he was getting his client on the ...

How can I better draw other males' attention online..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 190 days ago

14 March 2019 (M - I have no particular interest in women, nor enough experience with them, whom I maybe like just about 10% sexually. The thing is that I also find it hard to always leave "gay" in the sexuality box on the dating site for men.Rather, I usually go by ...

How do I stop my anxiety from ruining my career and life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 March 2019 (F - Last September I started a hairdressing apprenticeship. I was really happy because I was working dead end jobs for minimum wage that were very tiring physically. Luckily I found an employer willing to take me on as at my age it is quite rare. So the ...

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