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| | EbonyBlossom's profile:Hey guys!
Well this isn't the first time I've been a member, but I had to delete my old account. I ain't new to this lol.
I suppose really I should tell who I am so if we were friends before you can add me again. My old username was GothPod. Ring any bells...?!
However since I was last here I've learned more about love and have become more worldly wise, lucky for you!
Anyway, I'm 17 and I am still a virgin! I have just started dating one of my best mates! I'm going back on my word a bit there because I always thought relationships with a best friend didn't really work, but then again all my exes used me and only took me in the first place because I was a shoulder for them to cry on. But my current boyfriend has always been a pretty happy person and our relationship sort of came out of the blue! I like gothic and metal music, some acoustic and piano stuff, musicals and novelty stuff so that's a bit of a mish mash lol! I love to dance and sing and act and just to perform! I don't know if this is confidence or just hiding the real me lol! I have also had my fair share of love and loss and other bad (and good) shit! I think I can be quite mature for my age, especially when giving advice, so I hope you guys agree!!!
You can also find me on www.netdoctor.co.uk - my username is FatalAttraction
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If a guy wants a blow job every single day does it mean he does not like sex as much as the blow?
Q. How do men feel about blow jobs, do you prefer this to sex? Just asking as my boyfriend has a tiny problem with that, I know I am good at it and that’s why he enjoys it that much, but if a guy wants a blow job every single day does it mean he does ...
A. 8 January 2009: Guys have different tastes, it's possible he might prefer blowjobs to the real thing (I get the feeling my bf is gonna be the same way!) You don't have to do it every day if you don't want to, but if it pleases him more then it pleases him more! Why ... (read in full...)
Girls Girls Girls please help
Q. Question to girls, do you find guys that wear tight pants attractive??? I'm not talking about the super emo tight pants but something that hugs the body at least??? And why do you find it attractive???...
A. 8 January 2009: I like skinny jeans, I like baggy jeans, it's the old men trousers and lycra that turn me off!!! But every girl has a different taste...... (read in full...)
Both times I've done oral sex on her I've gotten ill!??
Q. Ok. . . This is very serious for me because it can jepordize a much desired relationship with a certain girl I've come to. . .like. . alot. The first time we engaged in sexual activity was also the first time I've ever given oral sex. Fortunately...
A. 8 January 2009: Yeah when I said ill I didn't mean an STD, I meant if she'd had a bug. You said it happened the second time a fortnight later, but the Noro virus (which fits the description of your symptoms) can be contagious for up to a fortnight...... (read in full...)
Is there some pill I could take to kill the egg?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he only did a quick in and out and he said for sure he didn't have pre cum and he normally feels it when he does. I'm still scared I'm pregnant, could I be? and if I could be is there some pill I ...
A. 8 January 2009: The morning after pill can be effective up to 72 hours (3 days) after conception. If it's too late I recommend you get a pregnancy test.
I'm sure you've learnt a valuable lesson from this - use AT LEAST one form of contraception at once! =]... (read in full...)
Embarrassing noises after sex!
Q. ok.. this is a little embarrassing, but it's to do with when i have sex. Sex in every position is really good and fine.. what i am asking about is when i have sex doggy style.. i enjoy this style the most and so its my favorite to do. the thing...
A. 7 January 2009: This can happen if you're upside down and air enters the vagina, I can front bottom burp too! It is a bit weird but if I were you I'd either try another position or just laugh it off, because I don't know if there is anything you can do... =]... (read in full...)
Both times I've done oral sex on her I've gotten ill!??
Q. Ok. . . This is very serious for me because it can jepordize a much desired relationship with a certain girl I've come to. . .like. . alot. The first time we engaged in sexual activity was also the first time I've ever given oral sex. Fortunately...
A. 7 January 2009: This is weird, I've never heard of it before! Yeah I would see a doctor. Had she been ill and contagious? You could have caught something off her.
Speak to your doctor. If the same thing happens again then I'm afraid you're going to have to let h... (read in full...)
Are we too old to have children?
Q. Hi I'm new to this, I'm 37 and my girlfriend is a little bit younger. We have not been together long and I know one day she wants children. Are we too old to have children? I don't want to my children to think their dad is old, but I'm not...
A. 7 January 2009: I think you're young enough, but only just. If you both want kids I would have them now. But always remember there is the option of adopting =]... (read in full...)
What are the chances of pregnancy in my situation?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend the other night, but he withdrew before he ejaculated and had to wank himself for a couple of seconds until he actually came. After another hour we did it again unprotected for maybe 20 seconds and then he put on the ...
A. 7 January 2009: It's highly unlikely but still possible for you to be pregnant. Get tested asap, and ALWAYS use AT LEAST one form of contraception at a time in future =]... (read in full...)
I heard precum doesn't contain sperm-true?
Q. A few days ago my boyfriend and I had sex using the withdrawal method. The next day i took the emergency pill known as Postinor 2. Then on the next night, we both had sex unprotected just for a while, and then got a condom. I'm worried if i could be ...
A. 7 January 2009: Supposedly no sperm in precum, but it is possible there could be some in there.... (read in full...)
Research for a novel--sexual questions
Q. I am doing research for a novel I am writing. I would like to have answers to the following questions for females and males alike: 1. For the females: What were the circumstances that you were in when you performed fellatio for the very first ti...
A. 7 January 2009: 1. On my bed in my room with my then bf, my folks were out, I was 16 and I was pretty crap at it, it made my jaw cane! And it's the only time I managed to make him cum... (Much more successful with my current though!)
2. I've never done anal and... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my Mom about getting my period?
Q. hi, ok erm i have a really big issue. well last april sometime i started my periods, im not really that close with my mum for no reason really im just not. I dont even discuss normally girly stuff with her so you can imagine how hard it was when my ...
A. 7 January 2009: Why don't you clean the bin yourself then? As for the undies, just give 'em a rinse and chuck 'em in the wash - your mum will probably think nothing of it (if she even notices.)... (read in full...)
Why do I feel bad for telling them off when they deserved it?
Q. I have had someone in my life who has made me feel awful about myself, pointless and very lonely. At every opportunity i have offered my friendship they have ignored me or made short excuses in order not to see me or speak to me. We have been out of ...
A. 6 January 2009: I get you, you feel guilty because you worry more about pleasing other people than yourself probably. It's their loss, so don't stress over it, have some you time and hang out with people that make you feel good =]... (read in full...)
How much is the foreskin supposed to cover up?
Q. How much is the foreskin supposed to cover the head of the penis when erect? Mine only covers half of it, is this normal?...
A. 6 January 2009: Probably normal, my exe's foreskin was too big for his penis!!!... (read in full...)
My GF loves giving oral sex, but she's horrible at it - how can I tell her?
Q. Hi all, im jo and im 22 years old. i have a very beautiful Gf AND She is 19. We have been dating for 3 months or more. My problem is that my gf is crazy about (Oral sex) i mean we have never spent more than 3 days without doing it for at least 1 t...
A. 6 January 2009: Instead of confronting her, give her tips as she's doing it. Once she starts just try saying 'curl your lips around your teeth' or 'go down further' or whatever. My boyfriend did this to me while I was going down on him and I've improved a lot, he ... (read in full...)
Horny! Advertise for sex?
Q. Every month just before I get my period I fel really horny and desperate for sex. I'm single though I'd like to be in a relationship and I don't sleep around. I know that I could give myself pleasure, vibrators etc but what I really want is the real ...
A. 4 January 2009: Nah that's dangerous, you don't know who's gonna pry on you. Find someone to have a relationship with, and until then - I guess it'll have to be self entertainment!... (read in full...)
I'm a 32A and could never give a titwank... what can I do?
Q. My boyfriends sometimes jokes around about titwanks to his friends - Im only a 32A and theres no way I can give a sexy titwank. I feel sad that I cant do this....
A. 4 January 2009: My bf doesn't like em anyway lol. (I don't think they're all that great either.) There's loads of other things you can experiment with, and you're not the only 32A girl in the world so loads of other people will be feeling the same! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps spelling my name wrong and it's so embarrassing...
Q. Hey everyone...! I have a problem, it might seem slightly small and silly, but in the long-term it could turn out to be a bigger problem lol I'm 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 months. The problem is that he used ...
A. 4 January 2009: It's no big deal, he'll probably laugh it off! If he does react funny, just tell him that you only just noticed.... (read in full...)
Why do I suck?
Q. Why do I suck? I can't seem to find anything positive about me. A microdick, no gf, no sex or love in my life, and OAB. Please help me rebuilt my confidence....
A. 4 January 2009: Well technically if you had a sex life it would be illegal in this country anyway, so don't stress about that bit. You're still growing so don't worry about your size (what size are you anyway? Because average is 7') A lot of people don't find what ... (read in full...)
Is there the possibility of pregnancy here?
Q. My boyfriend and I had sex three days before my period. I usually get it around every 25th day of the month but I haven't and I'm late about two days. Right after we had sex the first time, I noticed some light spotting, and it was the first ti...
A. 4 January 2009: It is possible you could be the big P, as even if he doesn't cum there can still be the odd old one lurking that's still alive. If you're using the withdrawl method for contraception, it really isn't reliable and you should use a condom or go on the ... (read in full...)
My husband calls me a fat cow bitch
Q. I live with a husband that drinks lives in the bar does not work much does drugs has got me to do what he does and i hate every minute of it. here recently i stopped being a part of what he does and life has been hell, i was told to never divorce ...
A. 4 January 2009: Sorry, but that don't sound like love to me - if he loved you at all he would make some kind of effort. He sounds pretty disgusting. You need to tell him that either he changes or you leave. This is clearly getting you very down (understandably) and ... (read in full...)
Questions about pubic hair....
Q. How do women prefer their man's pubic hair?Completely shaved/Trimmed/Etc? Also why do men like a woman's pubic hair completely shaved? I haven't seen a Vagina or a girl naked in person,but I know I'd prefer for her to have some form of hair oth...
A. 4 January 2009: Just a trim is fine.
As for myself if just shave the edges.... (read in full...)
I'm worried we'll look weird if I grow taller than my boyfriend!
Q. I have a new boyfriend, we are currently the same height but im 16 and still growing and he is 18, im worried we will look strange if i get any taller, help?! ...
A. 4 January 2009: I felt like that tday, I was wearing platforms lol! I had a shorter boyfriend once and I kinda liked it at the time. People think it's cute (if they think anything of it at all!) so I really wouldn't stress over it.... (read in full...)
What is the best and most discrete form of pubic hair removal for a female?
Q. What is the best and most discrete form of pubic hair removal for a female?...
A. 4 January 2009: I shave, but it's high maintenance. And waxing looks good to start with but a. you have to let it get long before you can wax again and b. it canes! You could try hair removal cream but when I tried it, it didn't really work. It's worth a try ... (read in full...)
I think my body is unattractive and it's holding me back from sex.
Q. I find my body very un-attractive i am an english size 12-14 a 36C bust size. I have a boyfriend and am afraid to further the relationship into a sexual one because my body holds me back, please can someone help me?...
A. 4 January 2009: If he didn't think you were attractive, he wouldn't be with you! And even if you were butt ugly he wouldn't care if he loved you! Any way I reckon loads of girls would kill to be the same bust size as you =]... (read in full...)
Will he think I'm disgusting?
Q. Well, I always worry that when you shave your pubic hair and you go to a boyfriends or whatever and engage in sexual pleasure with him... Then the next after a few days you have it again but haven't brought a razor along to get rid during a shower. ...
A. 4 January 2009: Borrow a razor from his house if you're that uncomfortable, but chances are he won't care =]... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis bigger?
Q. I'm 18 and have just finished college and while looking for a job a friend suggested getting an audition for Brazzers (as a porn star) anyway I ended up going to the audition and was told my penis wasn't big enough, needed to be over 9 inches, I am ...
A. 4 January 2009: Nah, surgery is the only way. Are you prepared to do that for a job? You could just be a regular model =]... (read in full...)
TOOK THE MINI BIRTH CONTROL, NOW I THINK I'M PREGNANT
Q. Hi i am 16 years old and my boyfriend and i have been involved in a loving, commited relationship for almost 3 years now. We are quite sensible so we have agreed not to have full penatrative sex untill we are both out of school. He is 17. I went on ...
A. 4 January 2009: If you're on the pill then I doubt it's pregnancy, especially if he didn't even penetrate you! I suspect it's something else - have you been really stressed or ill? Have you lost weight? If your periods have been regular for 1.5 years up until now ... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex now because it hurts!
Q. this is slightly embarasing to ask but i really dont know whats wrong with me... me and my bf have been having sex quite regularly and it never used to hurt, but the past two times it was extremely painful, not because i was tensed up or i wasnt we...
A. 3 January 2009: Sounds like your cervix wasn't up, were you fully aroused? Try more foreplay next time and if it still hurts, see a doctor =]... (read in full...)
What is fingering?
Q. Hey.... what is fingering?...
A. 3 January 2009: When a guy (or girl!) puts on or two fingers into your vagina.... (read in full...)
Tips please guys - I wasn't good enough for my ex and I want to be able to satisfy my current boyfriend!
Q. This question I guess is for the guys to answer. But I'd like some tips on hand-jobs/giving head. What do you enjoy? After me and my ex split up, he decided he was gonna bitch about me to one of our 'mutual' friends (this friend only pretends to...
A. 2 January 2009: There's no problem here any more =] ... (read in full...)
Whenever we're socialising my girlfriend always takes photos of other guys' legs and it's started worrying me!
Q. I'm Steve, 23 years old from South Yorkshire and my girlfriend is 22 and lives in nearby Nottinghamshire. Whenever we're socialising she always takes photos of other guys' legs and it's started worrying me - not in a jealous way, but rather about...
A. 29 December 2008: You need to get an answer from her and explain the reason is not jealousy but fear for her safety. She's been threatened enough times - all you need is to mess with the wrong person just once and she could be in hospital. It is a pretty weird ... (read in full...)
Blood spots... should we be concerned about pregnancy?
Q. Hey guys, So me and my girl friend had Safe sex but the condom broke.. Although i did not come inside her but i have her the MORNING EMERGENCY PILL within 24 hours.. She had a complete 5 day normal period this month. She had gone for track...
A. 29 December 2008: It's not pregnancy if she's had a period. Have you fingered her or anything since? Because if it was rough then that could cause a little blood. Also sometimes periods are weird and just do that - I've had a period for a week, spotting all the next ... (read in full...)
Does masturbating effect your period and should I be getting sore after?
Q. I enjoy masturbating. I am a 13 year old girl. I want to know if this is normal for girl my age. I have been doing this for about 3-4 years. I want to know if there is a way to stop. I have tried many times, but it is almost addicting. I am not a ...
A. 29 December 2008: Touching yourself should not affect your period. However if it's making you sore then maybe you're being a bit rough or going for too long! Be gentler with yourself, also if you rub some canasten cream on it then it should ease the pain a little ... (read in full...)
Difficult family situation
Q. I hate my relationship with my daddy. he isn't the way he used to be. and he won't ever be the was he was again. about 8 yrs ago he hurt his back. he used to surf and play tennis and swim with my brother and I all the time. now he can barely make it ...
A. 29 December 2008: Well I'm not in the same situation but it doesn't mean I'm going to ignore the problem!
I think you all need to sit down as a family and talk things through. I get the impression you all have quite a short temper, you need to learn and practice... (read in full...)
First timer... Does it really hurt?
Q. So I'm meeting this guy next week and planning to have sex.. It's my first time but I think I'm ready.. I'm turning 18 so there's no problem.. The question is does it really hurt on first time?...
A. 29 December 2008: Ah another guy, nah I don't think it's hurt, I mean unless his arse is really small! But then how would he poop? Lol =D... (read in full...)
First timer... Does it really hurt?
Q. So I'm meeting this guy next week and planning to have sex.. It's my first time but I think I'm ready.. I'm turning 18 so there's no problem.. The question is does it really hurt on first time?...
A. 29 December 2008: You're a guy... so you're doing it with a girl or another guy? I know sometimes if a guy has sex with a girl on HER first time or if she's just particularly tense it can hurt because it's a tight hole to get into! But generally for guys there is no ... (read in full...)
Is masturbation bad for your health?
Q. What is the average amount of ejaculation.. Is it bad for my health if I do this a lot?...
A. 29 December 2008: Nah it's not bad for you, it's supposed to be good... isn't it?... (read in full...)
Relationship with step brother wrong?
Q. I feel really confused and don't know what to do, me and my step-brother (not blood related) are kind of having a relationship, i always worry about what happens if my mom and step dad or dad and step mom find out, they kind of know somethings going ...
A. 28 December 2008: I don't personally see anything wrong in this relationship, I mean it's even legal for cousins to marry! However it could be quite weird for your folks, are they tolerant people?... (read in full...)
Can it be my hymen?
Q. Hey everyone thanks for any help. The other night I tryed fingering myself but I could'nt get my finger in, there was like a layer of skin. It was blocking the entrance for my finger. Im really worried coz I dont no what it is. Is it my hymen? Also ...
A. 28 December 2008: Yeah, sounds like your hymen. And yeah if it's still there when you lose your virginity then it will most likely hurt. Yeah if you wanna finger yourself and get the pain out the way now then I guess you could.... (read in full...)
What is causing this white discharge?
Q. This is quite a personal question. I hope you can help me out with the problem. Some mornings when I get up and go to the bathroom, my underwear has white stuff (like a big blob of it) on it. I don't know what it is. Any ideas? ...
A. 28 December 2008: I get it everyday (except when I'm on!) It's just it's way of keeping clean, nothing to worry about (unless it's yellow or it smells bad.)... (read in full...)
Tips please guys - I wasn't good enough for my ex and I want to be able to satisfy my current boyfriend!
Q. This question I guess is for the guys to answer. But I'd like some tips on hand-jobs/giving head. What do you enjoy? After me and my ex split up, he decided he was gonna bitch about me to one of our 'mutual' friends (this friend only pretends to...
A. 9 December 2008: Nah I'm not even hurt by my ex, it's just I don't wanna be crap. And he won't know what he likes because he doesn't have the experience...... (read in full...)
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