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What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?

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20 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...

I need advice on my cheating girlfriend!

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20 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - Hey guys im rather upset about this but just wanted some constructive feedback and others opinions on it. last night my girlfriend of 4 years went to her male friends house and just them two were drinking until they were completely wasted and he...


   

How do I turn my FWB into something more?

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20 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...

Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?

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20 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...

Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.

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20 November 2009 (F age 13-15 - Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...

   

Has anybody taken a break and everything worked out in the end?

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19 November 2009 (F age 22-25 - Ok so I'm 23 my bfs 25 we were dating for 4 months yet we have gone thru so much in so little time... yet he asked for space to make sure what he wants n to see if he's ready to make the next step which is marriage, yea sounds fast but we know each ...

He's getting me a promise ring for Christmas. What should I get him?

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18 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - What should I get him for Christmas? He's getting me a PROMISE RING. So, im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. We've had a great relationship, we've been together for basically 6 months, but we both know that if we met sooner, we would have be...

Why do women sleep with married men?

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18 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

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18 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

How can I dress more attractively?

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18 November 2009 (M age 22-25 - i am a short , fat and black guy. plsss pour your suggestions for dressing attractively. i usually wear jeans trousers and t - shirts. but my friends insist me to wear formals that 'd be looking nice for me... plsss yur ideas!!!!!!!!!!!...

Am I wrong to be unhappy with my girlfriend performing Burlesque shows?

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18 November 2009 (M age 22-25 - hi recenty my girlfriend started doing burlesque shows. i think it's just a way for her to get on stage and strip to her under wear and talk dirty with a room full of strangers. is it wrong that i don't like it, i haven't told her out right ca...

I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!

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18 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...

I can't have children due to PCOS. Please advise!

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12 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I'm a 21 year old married female that can't have kids due to pcos... I have looked into adoption agencies but they are all so expensive. I really wanted to have children and now I am really beginning to become depressed because I can't have ...

Should I Allow My Boyfriend to Swing?

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10 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I've been in a wonderful relationship with my bf for 16 yrs. People remark how close we are, how loving we are to each other. We do everything together including our work. We have a great sex life and family life. He's always there for me and ...

How to steal my ex back from rebound?

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9 November 2009 (M age 22-25 - My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...

What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?

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5 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...

I feel really ugly and can't make my boyfriend understand

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8 September 2009 (F age 18-21 - Ok, I apologise beforehand because I truly need to rant, I've been having an awful week regarding this problem! I hate it when people say to ugly people "just accept yourself, love yourself... if you don't feel it, just fake confidence!". IT...

Do nice guys finish last? Help me get a gf!

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20 November 2009 (M age 22-25 - I'm a 25 year old virgin and I've never been in a relationship I feel at this point it's almost hopeless, the bad part is, is that, I'm almost ready to accept the fact that I will live out my life being alone and never understanding wh...

Bf has 11 inch penis... how can we make sex more comfortable for me?

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20 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - Please take this seriously. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex for a while, we have been going out for 5 years and trying for the last few months. It is really hurting me, and it is becoming unpleasant, we just end up arguing....

Oh my god!!! Could I possibly be pregnant???

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19 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - hey, i have a question. im currently on bc, and i got my period last weds. but yesterday, when i was sitting under the dryer at the hair salon, i started feeling really sick, and ended up throwin up. then i drank some water and threw that up too. ...

Who the heck is "Sadie?"

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19 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - the guy I ve been seeing just text me, he said ok tks sadie, thing is my name isnt sadie....what shall i do...

No gift from BF on birthday....?

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19 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my BF for three years. He has always been really romantic and thoughtful in the area of giving gifts on special days. However, our 3 yr anniversary passed about 6 wks ago and he did not get me a gift. A card, which was nice, but ...

Are they husband and wife?Cousins? Or brother and sister?

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19 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My son married my best friends daughter a few yrs ago and have a kid. 5 months ago i hooked up with my friend and now she is expecting our kid. How do we figure this out. The new baby will be both our kids half sibling making them not only related ...

How to approach the subject of giving and receiving oral?

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19 November 2009 (M age 16-17 - Hi i need some information on how to approach a girl whilst in foreplay and to either give or recieve oral?? Because im too shy to ask for a blowjob and im scared to pull her pants down and give her orar due to she might freak out and run off or hit ...

She reaches climax too soon!

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19 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - hey this is my first time asking for help...anyway.... I'm 19 and I love my girlfriend so much,but I'm having problems with her in bed. What I mean is that she cums really really fast. 5 minutes fast. This is frustrating caus it takes me about 45 ...

Please help me... he hits me on a regular basis...

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19 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i love him very much even though he hits me on a regular basis, I'm 17 he is 23 so when he does this to me i cant stand up for myself because hes too strong, i cant leave him because i have no one else to ...

I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?

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18 November 2009 (F age 13-15 - i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...

My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!

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18 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about ...

I'm upset about what he did in his past, but he doesn't seem to see the problem!

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18 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - Today I was texting my boyfriend of 2+ months, when somehow we got on the topic of alcohol. I asked him if he had ever drunk alcohol (we're both 16), and if he ever did anything stupid while drunk. He told me he HAD gotten drunk, and made out with a ...

I get overly excited with my bf...and it's embarrassing! Is this normal?

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17 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - Um, so, this is very embarassing. But I can't ask for advice anywhere else but on the internet, because, well, it IS way too embarassing. So, to get straight to the point, I've been dating a guy for 2 months. We've grown really close together, ...

I have had unprotected sex for 5 months and not fallen pg, does this mean I cant have kids or something?

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17 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - im 17 years old i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, hes 23 years old, ever since we got together we havent used protection once, i dont have to worry about STD's because we have been tested and we are both okay. the thing is i dont want ...

My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!

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17 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

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17 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...

Did I do the right thing in telling her the truth?

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17 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - I am 21 years old and im dating my best friend's ex girlfriend. I knew for a long time that my best friend was cheating on her but never knew enough. Fortunately i fell in love with her but was in a dilemma of keeping my friend's trust or falling in ...

I don't think I'm having sex right! Please help!

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16 November 2009 (M age 13-15 - Okay my name is jake. im 14 years old and i had sex i think! i dont no if i did it right or not. i mean she didnt make a sound it felt good 4 me but she didnt even move... i kinda thought she was dead or asleep. what am i doing. i was wondering if ...

She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?

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15 November 2009 (M age 13-15 - So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...

Niece gave me BJ while sleeping

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15 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I went to visit my sister while i was driving thru calif. We had a BBQ and lots of drinks. Well around midnight i went to bed and passed out. About 3 am i was woken up to a really good blow job but the lights were off. I was thinking it was one of ...

My b/f is in the middle of a divorce, his wife is making my life hell, help?

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14 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I am near my breaking point and need an unbiased opinion. My bf is in the middle of a divorce, yet they still live in the same house, both for financial reasons(hers) and both lawyers are telling them not to leave until one is ordered to. They...

My life has changed for the better for ever but how can I now deal with my friend/ work colleague who I suspect is jealous?

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13 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hello all. I wonder if you might offer me some advice on how to cope / deal with a jealous freind/ work colleague? I recently changed my life, and now have an active , busy life , and am pursuing my interests, goals and hobbies, doing well at wo...

Do women like chubby guys?

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12 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - Do women like chubby guys? My bmi is 26.3 and at 6 ft I wouldn't say that's insanly bad and it's not obese but it's not great either, so what do girls think of chubby guys? Is it really off putting? Is a beer belly enough to make you not want a ...

Please, help? I love him but its complicated. I just don't know what to do!

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11 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, So, I dated a guy almost year ago after he moved here to start school. I found out after we had been together for a year that he still had a girlfriend back home. We broke up, but remained friends. It has been 11 months, and we ar...

Should I be trying to move on with my life?

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6 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always ...

My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?

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5 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?...

I just can't STOP looking at porn! Help!

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3 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - So I've tryed to stop looking at porn and porn videos ill stop but then go right back. how could I stop it?...

I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!

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13 October 2009 (M age 18-21 - basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i j...

My wife likes to pleasure herself, is this normal? I only thought it was men that played with themselves!

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12 October 2009 (M age 51-59 - hi we have been married for over 25 years and there is very little my wife and i have not done in the bedroom department. we both enjoy sex and are healthy. recently my wife is more into self please of herself, its something she as done for ma...

I just want to feel beautiful and I don't!

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17 April 2009 (F age 18-21 - Please don't call me shallow or vain. I feel very ugly and unattractive. The problem is I was never told I was beautiful, I was even teased because I was ugly! One guy eve told me to get plastic surgery once! This was back when I was in school. I ...

How do I make my man really hard?

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17 February 2009 (F age 18-21 - I want him to become very hard and so he could be the happiest.. Any tips or ideas? I'm willing to do anything and i'm always in for something new! Cheers...

Why won't any man have sex with me?

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18 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fa...

I'm willing to compromise in my home. How can I get my daughter-in-law to pitch in?

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18 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I both smoke. I know it's a nasty, unhealthy, disgusting habit but we have it, nonetheless. We don't smoke in other people's homes out of respect for their space but feel we have the right to do what we want in our own home. ...

Is it a good idea to quit my job and let him support me?

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18 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i been dating for 3 years. we been through so many break-ups. he is a very jealous person. he can be controlling also. he is a great person when he wants to be. there's one problem though. i met him at my place of employment. im a ...

I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore

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18 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in he...

Getting it up (first time)

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18 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - Hi people, I have a concern I'd like to get input on. I'm 18-22 and a virgin; I was about to have sex several times after making out but every time I couldn't get a full erection, or of I did, it fell off quickly..I just didn't seem to be that ...

Why would she still want to be friends after we broke up?

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18 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - Hey, i just got out of a relationship about 3 1/2 months ago and just talked to my ex today. it was casual and she told me about her new boyfriend. It didnt really bother me as much as i thought until she said that she was completely over me. i was ...

Is it bad to talk to yourself?

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18 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - Is it bad to talk to yourself? I dont do it in public but if I'm by myself such as in the car driving I usaully talk to myself. The reason I do it is because I dont have nobody else to talk to all my friends that were always ears have babies now ...

Any good tips for online dating?

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18 November 2009 (M age 22-25 - I turned 22 a couple of weeks ago. I've decided to try this online dating malarkey now. basically, how do i present myself in the best possible yet most honest light, and have a chance of finding someone? i always used to associate online ...

A bad experience in bed!

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18 November 2009 (F age 22-25 - I had an experience in bed the other night and I am not sure how I should react to it. I was having sex with my boyfriend, I was lying on my stomach and he was on top of me. We were both very drunk. Then he stuck it my bum. I dont know whethe...

Smelling sweet... or not!

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17 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - This question may sound a bit stupid, but do women ever get paranoid of what they smell like down there? I don't smell or anything but when my boyfriend plays with me I get paranoid just in case I do, and even if I did would a boy tell you? I'm just ...

My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!

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17 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and somet...

I am struggling with the end of our relationship. I need closure.

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17 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am struggling to cope with the end of a 9 year relationship, and need some advice on how to get through it all as my now ex-bf has cut all contact, leaving me with many unanswered questions and no closure at all. We were together 9 years, lived ...

Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?

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17 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger,...

My girlfriend's threesome is haunting me...

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17 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend recently let slip that she was involved in a threesome when she was 16. The threesome involved her older sister (age 23) and the sister's boyfriend. Some things can't be unheard or rewound and it is now driving me nuts. The words ...

Should I look for someone else?

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16 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've began seeing a man of a different ethnicity than I am. Although I think this isn't such a big problem, I'm unsure if he would be serious with me because of culture/ethnic issues in the future. We are both adults, way past the issue of parents ...

My cheating wife says she wants her family back.

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16 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - I recently learned of an extramarital affair my wife was invloves in. I came home early to discover her texting on her cell phone. When I asked to see it she screamed empahtically no and ran into my 4 year old childs room. Upon convincing her I ...

I've been in love with my sister for 3 years!

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16 November 2009 (M age 13-15 - i need help i'm in love with my sister shes 17 and really beautiful and i'm 15 and i cant stop thinking about her every time i see her i want to grab her and kiss her and never stop this has bin going on for about 3 years now and i dont know if i ...

Should I smoke pot before sex?

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15 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - Would smoking pot before having sex make it hurt less the first time?...

I lied about a pregnacy and abortion to hurt my ex...should I come clean?

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13 November 2009 (F age 22-25 - I lied to my ex by telling him I was pregnant and aborted the baby. I only did it to hurt him because I found out he was sleeping with my friend. I know it's horrible and at the time it made me feel good to hurt him like he hurt me, but now I feel ...

I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!

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11 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...

My period is two weeks late but I've never had sex

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9 November 2009 (F age 13-15 - Im 15 and started my periods 3 years ago. They have been regular and consistant until this past month where Im currently over two weeks late. Im definately not pregnant as I havent had sex so I know I shouldnt worry but its bothering me. Does anyone ...

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

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4 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...

My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!

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4 November 2009 (F age 13-15 - Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...

Pregnant and boyfriend not ready...have you experienced this and can you help me?

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23 October 2009 (F age 22-25 - I'm 23 and I just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend, 20- almost 21, is not ready to have a child... For the main reason that he doesn't want to disappoint everyone. His father is a pastor and his parents would be devastated. The people in the ...

I am in love with my best friend but he has a girlfriend!

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19 October 2009 (F age 18-21 - So heres the thing... Me and my best friend have fallen in love with each other. He has a girlfriend but they are in a long distant relationship for over two years now. We realized that we love each other like 6 months back, and ever since then we ...

Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?

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14 October 2009 (F age 18-21 - there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a ...

She's just not that into me and should I forget it!!!

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5 October 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi :) I've been seeing the lady for 5 months now. She is 41, 2 kids separated for 3 years and her life is upside down - no job, bankrupt and mentally exhausted but an amazing women. She is trying to get out of it and probably will but who knows. I...

Do all girls think that masturbating is gross?

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5 June 2009 (M age 16-17 - Hey, im a male 16 and i had a question to ask, i know all about sex and stuff like that and i do myself masturbate, but when girls i've gotten close to have asked and i've admitted they've said it was gross, and that they would never do something ...

I have never loved my husband, and although he tries really hard, I never will. Should I divorce him?

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26 May 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi. i'm 30 years old. I've been with my husband since I was 20. When I met him I was fresh out of a relationship and wasn't really looking to get into anything new. However I met him and he was different than anyone I had ever dated..sweet, ...

Am I too short to be loved...???

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9 May 2009 (M age 18-21 - Hi Will women notice a good looking but only 5'8" guy? Will they find him handsome? Or is it too short for them?... I cant stop thinking about my height for months. I'm almost 20 so i wont grow up anymore, and ive never had a gf before, n...

He's a great boyfriend but he has no motivation!

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12 February 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is the same age. We have been dating almost two years. We laugh, have great chemistry, share some common interests and get along great with eachother's friends and family. The problem is that he has very little ...

Is being attracted to older men normal?

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17 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - my name is dan and i am seeing a guy who is 49 and im only 20 he is worried bout the age difference i am too but dnt tell him im worried about wat people will think of us also ive always been into older guys is that normal please help xxxxxxxx ...

I am sweating too much!

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17 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...

I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?

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17 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in ...

How can I gently break the news to my mother-in-law that I am pregnant?

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17 November 2009 (F age 22-25 - Ok then. This is the first time i've used this site, so be nice! (And excuse the punctuation, my CTRL button is tempermental today) So I was wondering how to break the news that im pregnant to my mother-in-law. She is a wonderful woman, and has a...

Should I continue to feel frustrated, or is there a simple solution to our sexual differences?

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17 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with the sweetest man I've ever met.He is thoughtful caring and loving,but the problem is he doesn't care to make love.He says were at different stages in life where I'm in my 30's and wanting intimate love and he is 40 and not ...

What should I choose, earth shattering sex or the great looking guy who is not so good in bed?

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17 November 2009 (F age 22-25 - Which one should I choose earth shattering great sex you know the kind that brings a tear to your eye and make you pull out the hairs on your head and ok looks or do i choose that guy when he walks in the room everyone creams their pants. You know ...

Sad I'm not his first love...

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17 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hey. :( I'm in a relationship, and in love for the first time. However, I'm jealous of my partner. Who had been in relationships, and in love before. He's my first, but I'm not his. And it just bugs me, and I feel like I'll never be as impor...

My b/f and his friends make really sexist jokes, should I worry?

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17 November 2009 (F - My bf and his friends (who are in their mid 20's) make jokes really sexist jokes. They also find it funny and entertaining talking about women being bashed up and abused by their bf's as well as women being raped and sexually assaulted. How can they...

Mom wants me to be with another race!

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17 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - Hi aunts, serious problem here... my mom is obsessed with me getting married to someone of a different race of my own, I am african american and she wants me to be with someone caucasian.. She has this thing against african americans because the ...

Can a life-long cheater ever be trustworthy or am I wasting my time?

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16 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought. part two; in jan 09 she went to her work chri...

Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?

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16 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...

Should I give up my virginity?

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16 November 2009 (F age 13-15 - hi, basically im 15, and im seeing a guy and hes very open about sex and hes not a virgin. i am and hes kind of asked about if i would and i kind of want to but am really like nervous about it all and how its all going to work lol. theres no poin...

21 and still a virgin, but lead a busy life! What can I do?

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15 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - well,i dont know from where to start.im 21years old and im still a virgin.sometimes is quite embarrassing for me.i dont know but in any relationship i have failed..this is giving me a some depression.i mean,i wanted to to with somebody spe...

Am I a normal 17 year old?

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15 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - always, whenever i see a girl or a woman, my eyes first of all go to her breasts. i want to ask is this normal ? do other guys also have this ? i am 17...

Serious sexual dysfunction without a cause!

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14 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - What can you do if your husband is permanently, sexually off? It started few years ago. In our early 40's. Now, we tried everything therapy, medical investigations but there is no answer, why is he the way he is. No medical cause, and not clear wh...

My husband has a small penis and I love the other man!

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14 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Im 29 and have been married for two years now but stil in love with a married man. Ive known this man before my husband and we love each other so much. I thought i was going to leave him after my marriage but i couldnt because i love him so much ...

My husband is useless in bed...is he gay, masterbating or what?

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13 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I need more help with this ongoing no sex at all with my husband of 9 years it's been over 2 years since he has even tryed, and when he did it was only because he knew we were in serious marriage trouble becasue i had him go wityh me to a ...

How can I maintain a healthy relationship?

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12 November 2009 (M age 22-25 - So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. We split up recently because our relationship went downhill, mainly because of me. At first, our relationship was perfect, about halfway, I started letting things that happened in my ...

How should I approach sharing my wife?

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9 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I want to hear from guys who have shared there wifes with a friend,stranger,etc. How did you approach it. How did it feel watching her when he started making love to her etc. My wife and I want to try something new . We sat in conversation one...

Help needed! How can I get over her past?

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8 November 2009 (M age 18-21 - I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 6 months now and everyhting was fine and dandy... We really felt we were in love with each other but we got into talking about our pasts and hers really upset me. She's young and has been with 7 ...

Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?

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7 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...

My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?

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2 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing ...

I heard Mom and Dad having sex and now I'm disgusted! How can I deal with this?

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10 August 2009 (F age 13-15 - i need some help on this one well one night i was lying in my bed and I heard my mum and dad having sex i then felt really sick looking at them the next day i felt disgusted with them. is it normal to feel this way towards them Im to scared to talk ...

I want my boyfriend to be with me 24/7..is that ok?

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11 July 2009 (F age 22-25 - I've been dating this guy for about 6 months now, he lives with his older brother while I live at home with my parents. He is really good when it comes to calling me everyday to tell me what he's doing. He tells me that he loves me but that he also ...

Why did he ask me to go to the gym with him? Does he think I'm fat???

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17 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - This question may sound a bit silly but i just want to know what my boyfriend meant by this. We were talking one night and he said hes going to start going to the gym and he asked "maybe you can come to keep me company" I felt a bit offended...

He gave me a back hander across the face when I mouthed off as he was yelling at me!

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16 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - Hi aunts. I have a real problem here. I'm just not sure what to do any more. Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately but last night it escalated and he backhanded me across the face because I mouthed off to him while he was yelling at me. ...

His penis smells of sex!!!

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16 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, i love him so much and he always tells me he loves me... but on 2 occasions, i went down on him and his penis smelt like sex, now im paranoid hes been sleeping with another girl then coming back to me. ...

Husband keeps graphic photos of his two ex wives!

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16 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - My husband of eight years, soon to be ex, has kept a collection of pictures and videos of the sex life he shared with his two ex wives. These are very graphic -- he describes himself as perverted -- and would qualify as hard core porn, not love ...

How will my ex react if I wore another guy's jersey?

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16 November 2009 (F age 16-17 - heyy guys :) i need fast answers for this one please! so this guy tht i flirt with all the time wants me to wear his football jersey to school 2moro. we both jus flirt, he has a gf tht goes to a different school, we will never be in a real ...

Could my symptoms be a sign of pregnancy?

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15 November 2009 (F age 22-25 - Last week, things got a bit heated between me and my boyfriend. We didn't have sex, but he had touched himself briefly before fingering me. I didn't notice any pre-ejaculate on him, so I didn't think anything of it. Later on I spoke to him about my ...

Her childish behaviour is making our new marriage difficult

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15 November 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I recently got married (3 months ago) to a girl i was with for 2 years. She is 20 and I am 26. I understood before getting married that she is younger and I decided to go through with it and develope more patience to accommodate the ...

My life is one sad tale....

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14 November 2009 (M age 13-15 - Hey aunts.I'm a 14 year old guy and turning 15 in a few days. My life is so complicated but yet too simple at the same time. I don't know what to do. Everything pretty much sucks for me. I never get anything easy. Everything bad always has to happen ...

He threatened to put me out of my misery. Should I dump him?

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12 November 2009 (F age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. Currently, I am not speaking to him. A couple days ago, we were talking on the phone, suggesting ideas about what we should do that day. Well, I put him on speaker phone so I could view my ca...

Problem with my wife getting over a twitter infatuation.

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12 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Problem with my wife getting over a twitter infatuation. My wife recently had an intense 'relationship' on twitter with a man that she just clicked with. We are going through some very difficult financial problems which has put a strain on our rela...

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

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1 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...

I'm married and in love with a younger co-worker. What should I do?

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28 October 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi All, I'm a 30yr old Married man for 1 year now, but have been in the current relationship for 10 years. After a very long engagement we finally got married, not because we didn't want to, it was just a money thing. We have 2 kids. One form ...

My boobs are already too big...how do I stop them from growing?

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27 October 2009 (F age 16-17 - heyy :) ok soo my names Lacey. im 16 and a junior in high school. this is my first post sooo bare with me haha. well im 5'1" and103 lbs, i have a pretty tight body, theres jus one thing... my boobs wont stop getting bigger! ever since i was 13 they ...

Involved with married man. Where do I go from here?

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25 October 2009 (F age 22-25 - hello, i'am 22 years old and i am breaking over this situation. 3 years ago i got involved with a married man 14 years older than me @ one of my previous jobs. everything just started, we both knew it was not right. I kept on because i liked him and ...

Husband angry because while seperated I slept with someone else

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12 October 2009 (F age 26-29 - My Husband and I were separated. While separated I slept with someone else. I now am trying to get him back. How do I keep my husband. He read some stuff on my computer and got very angry. Again we were separated. What do I do ?...

Should I move on or email him? It's an online, LDR.

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6 October 2009 (F age 22-25 - I have been talking to a 45 year old man (I'm 23) over the internet for about 5 months now. He lives about 13 hours away from me and I plan on moving to the state he lives in, in about 3 months (for college). Hes not married (is divorced). So we ...

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