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At the start I lied to him, I've been mean to him and told him to leave. How can I get him to like me?

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20 January 2017 (M age 30-35 - There is this guy l am attracted to. He is 18. He is homophobic and hates discussing gay stuff. I am bi. I really wanted to give him head, but he was adamant. I lied l had a stomach problem that only semen could cure. I was foolish to. He resisted...

Moving in together and disagree on houseguests. Help!

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19 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are both 26 and moving in together for the first time. We’re doing it for the right reasons and discussed everything we could think of before making the decision together. Currently we spend most of our time together at his place, ...

Is it my fault I got put into the FWB category?

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19 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - I've always been a woman that holds myself with dignity and believe that I have a lot to offer a man in a relationship. I am in no way saying this to brag or boast myself but my personality has always shined and others have told me so as well. ...

I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

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19 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets ver...

Shall I tell him? Do I let it out or just walk away without saying anything ?

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19 January 2017 (F age 18-21 - Do you tell the person you love that you have feelings for him ? Despite the fact he is not that friendly to you and never indulges you in their personal thoughts and life ? I have been thinking about telling the guy I love that I loved him but ...

He lacks a stable job and a career so I'm breaking up with him. Am I not openminded?

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19 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've put a lot of consideration into this and I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. It's not that we don't get along - we get along rather well and have a great time together. He is positive I will be his future wife and has info...

Is there any way I can change his perceptions about me? How should or could I attract him back to me?

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18 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - Its been 50 days. My boyfriend broke up with me.. It was all my fault. Its been 2 years. For 1 year we were together when i was working ..but from last 1 year we are in long distance. I live with my parents and i am jobless. My career is ...

He says my body is his.

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16 January 2017 (F age 41-50 - My partner of 3 yrs and i have a beautiful little girl who is 1. Lately my partner has been trying touching me and trying to penetrate me whilst we are playing with our daughter which i have put a stop to. He has started sayimg he can touch me ...

Can you be pregnant with negative test results?

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29 December 2016 (F age 26-29 - I had sex with a guy one night in September. I dont really remember what happened but i know we had sex. We used a condom but i am unsure if he secretly slipped it off or of the condom may have failed. It isvDecember now and my stomach looks ...

Was he wrong for hitting me or am I being dramatic?

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19 January 2017 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together 8months, I was pulling a silly face he didn't like and to stop me doing it he slapped my face, not hard by enough to shock me a little. He knows how I feel about face slapping (from previous bedroom antics) ...

Why won't my friend admit that he is married?

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19 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi, Aunts! Of late, I've been speaking with one of my friends who is married for 2 months now. The issue is that he has fallen for me and won't even accept or acknowledge his marriage, when I already have seen their pictures (why would he lie to ...

She has no problems trying to crush my ego. NOW she says I'm bad in bed. How should I respond to her insults about lovemaking?

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18 January 2017 (M age 18-21 - My girlfriend completely criticized my sex. Said I suck in bed when she's been wanting me for 3 years saying that no one knows her body like me and she never felt this good before and blah blah blah. But as soon as she gets mad at me that complet...

How can I get my current Gf to trust me? I've not cheated on her. But I did cheat on my ex.

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18 January 2017 (M age 18-21 - I cheated on my first love two years ago with my current girlfriend. I broke up with my first love to set her free from my cheating ways. I still love her and check her social media accounts to see how she's doing but I never told her I cheated wh...

Is he using me? He's spending more time with his ex than he spends with me.

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18 January 2017 (F age 36-40 - I'm going out with this bloke on and off for over a year now, but what gets to me is he spends most off his time at his ex's house. He says he's there for kids but half of the time the children are not there. He leaves at 8:00 in morning and ...

This bothers me a lot. What can I do? Married nearly 15 years and now my wife is no longer interested in Bjs.

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18 January 2017 (M age 41-50 - Been married for nearly 15 years. My wife has basically decided that she will no longer perform oral sex on me. It's not like I was getting once a week, in fact once every two years is more like the current rate. When we first married, it was some...

Family issues. What should I do? Apologise and stick to my plans? Or cancel my holiday?

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18 January 2017 (F age 41-50 - I have, it seems, caused an enormous family rift. I booked a holiday for 2 weeks at the start of February - it had been booked a while but I told family over Christmas what my plans were. This is the first holiday I have had in 7 years so it means...

Do good relationships go through this?

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18 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 7 months. From the moment I met him I felt that he was the one I would marry. We have been through a lot in the last year. My Nan got cancer (she is okay now), my Grandfather passed away, and I was ...

My girlfriend told me that I have 'dry 10 second sex'!

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18 January 2017 (M age 18-21 - My girlfriend told me that I have "Dry 10 second sex" and I took it as a insult because to me it felt like she was saying that she doesn't enjoy my sex anymore. I told her how I felt and tried to move past it but I just couldn't it makes me feel ...

I’m angry with his mom and his sister and have reached a breaking point. I need input!

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17 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hello everyone, This is a long so please bear with me. I live with my boyfriend and his sister. Some background info: his sister is the youngest. She is a bit spoiled by her parents and doesn't have friends for various reasons. She's a princes...

Why do some men say things to their partner the man thinks may sound supportive, and yet concurrently they collect pictures of women and porn?

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24 December 2016 (F age 36-40 - I know this might seem a dumb question but it's bothered me in a lot of relationships I've been in as I've noticed most guys seem to do it and think it's no big deal to lie about it . Why do some men say things to their partner like 'you're the only...

Any opinions as to whether she is into me?

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18 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - There is a young girl who I come across frequently as she works near me and I am of the understanding she is straight. I think she has a boyfriend but I am gay with a girlfriend. I am just curious as to whether she is into me or not. She remembe...

Should I continue dating someone who's 15 years older than me?

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17 January 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hey guys, My question is should I continue to pursue a relationship with someone who's 15 years older than me? Okay so I am 21 next month , my boyfriend is 35. I did not know he was 35 when we first met because he told me he was 26. He said he k...

I still feel embarrassed 8 months later.

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17 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - I expressed interest in guy that I was interested in 8 months ago but he turned me down. I felt disappointed but brushed it off and acted like it was no big deal. However, the long term effect was embarrassment. I thought he was interested in me...

Boyfriend doesn't post us on social media

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16 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been official for about 90 days. I have very few complaints about him- I'm extremely happy. We go out regularly and spend lots of quality time together and go on fun dates. But he has nothing about us posted on social media. ...

Logically I know it doesn't matter, but I am struggling with my Girlfriend's past!

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16 January 2017 (M age 41-50 - I know a lot of you are going to say this is just another guy with hang-ups and insecurities suffering from hypocritical retrospective jealousy – and to a certain extent you may be right – but I really am desperate to fix this (fix myself?), so ...

Is she his EX? Is my BF being honest to me? He seems very emotionally connected to his woman he says he is helping due to the woman's health issues

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16 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - About almost TWO years ago, my boyfriend who is 37 years old asked me (28 years old) to do him a favour and to please call his female ”friend” (27 years old) to give her an address (which I looked up and it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can ...

I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?

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16 January 2017 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...

Why do I have to hunt down my vacationing boyfriend by text before he answers?

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15 January 2017 (F age 36-40 - I need your help. I need to know whether I should end a 3.5 year relationship. My boyfriend is traveling outside the country with family. He has been in touch by text because it's expensive to send texts and make phone calls. So his texts...

I am worried about letting my daughter's father back into her life.

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14 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hello everyone. I'm a single mum to my beautiful 8 year old daughter and I have struggled in the past but I have always got by. I was 16 when I found out I was pregnant with her, and at the insistence of her dad, I went through with the pregnanc...

The sex is good but I want more!

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9 January 2017 (F age 36-40 - I'll get straight to the point: I'm not happy with my sex life. I'e been with my husband for 15 years, we're married for 4. we are happy in our realtionship- though there are always things to work on. He works a lot, which is fine. He is caring and ...

I live at home and my Mum won't let me clean it up, its a biohazard mess!

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16 January 2017 (F age 30-35 - It's a long story, but I got laid off from my job last year and I live at home with my mom. I feel like I've failed at life and this wasn't how I thought I would turn out, but this is just background information. What's going on is that I'm ...

What was my colleague's intention?

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15 January 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi there, Looking for advice on how to handle this situation with a colleague at work. I'll start by saying I'm not usually one to assume that everyone is flirting with me or attracted to me. There is a relatively new man at work in quite a high u...

I think I am pregnant and the dad has disappeared.

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15 January 2017 (F age 22-25 - Well. I met a guy months ago. We went out 3 times. At the 2nd one we had sex. I was the one who brought the sexual topic to the conversation. After sex we had sex once more. And the condom didn't work. I think I'm probably pregnant. He started ...

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