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Why have I already resigned myself to the fact that I'll never find someone ?
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25 May 2013 (M) 
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I am 22 and pretty good looking, I get told quite often I could get most girls (by both guys and girls). To begin with it was a nice ego boost to think people believed that about me. But now it just depresses me as in actual fact I never done ...
Is it normal for ex wives/husbands going on vacation together normal?
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25 May 2013 (M) 
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I am on my third marriage/my wife also her third. My wife is going on vacation with her grown kids, grandchildren and with her ex husband from her first marriage. The ex is bringing his girlfriend also. I just find it strange that she would want to ...
Why did she unblock me on facebook? Does it mean anything?
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25 May 2013 (M)
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I got blocked on Facebook by an ex randomly a month ago for no reason other than me still staying in touch with her which she obviously didn't like, hence the block so she obviously blocked to stop me contacting her. She told me she never wanted t...
Should I tolerate this kind of behavior from my boyfriend?
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25 May 2013 (F)
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Last night I went to a bar with my boyfriend, we went to order the drinks and the bartender was an old man. After that we sat in a table and were talking, all of a sudden my boyfriend started saying bad things to me, he said i was a bitch and go ...
If he was backing off from me, why go to such lengths to show that this girl is just his friend?
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25 May 2013 (F)
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I have a quick question about male behavior. I have a friend i work with.. He was real flirty and and a big group of us went out and he was all about me. I didn't really think a whole lot on it since he was going through a divorce and we were all ...
How can I get this man to commit to me?
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25 May 2013 (F)
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Hi all. I'm 21 and my boyfried is 39. Yes, I realize the age difference but that's never mattered to me and my parents don't seem to mind much. We've been together since I was 18 and for being my age, that's a long time. Yes, we've both had a few ...
I'm tired of being the shoulder to cry on but never get the girl!
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24 May 2013 (M)
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I hope not just any girl reads this, im looking for responses from the type of girls who usually blow the nice guys off (me) for the serious jerks/tools/jock types. Because of them i have never had a g/f, held hands, sex, etc... Why do girls m...
I confronted my friend about never paying when we go out together. Was this the right way to deal with the situation? Please advise?
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24 May 2013 (F)
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I have a friend who never pays for her drinks when we go out to bars. She is the one that ussualy drives, so I always buy her first drink, but then she kind of assumes that the whole nite is on me. It happened already so many times, that I fi...
Are there some women that just do not like receiving oral sex?
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24 May 2013 (M)
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Hi there, I have a question about oral sex on a woman friend (or lack of). Several months ago when we first became intimate, she performed oral on me (with condom)and i politely asked if i could return the favour. The answer to my question was 'No, ...
My wife got pregnant by her lover and had a secret abortion!
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24 May 2013 (M)
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This is difficult but I will just say it. My wife had an affair with a person I considered my friend and got pregnant. She made arrangements with her lover (also married) and had a secret abortion one year ago. We have been married for 6 years and ...
Why do guys pay flirty, promiscuous girls so much attention?
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23 May 2013 (F)
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Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around wi...
Does guys keep their female friends so long so close because they really want to be just friends or because they like them?
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23 May 2013 (F) 
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I have a friend of 5 years and I kinda like him ever since we first met. He is an amazing guy and I would love to be more than just friends, but even though we are close, and there is some tension, he never actually said he likes me or he never ...
My girlfriend may be hiding her past from me. How can I know whether she's a virgin?
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23 May 2013 (M) 
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Hey friends.. I have a girlfriend and i love her much. we are in relationship from past 2 months. we met and became friends in her hometown. actually i guess that she is hiding her past from me and i dont feel good..so here her past goes.. ...
Will she come back to me because I can support her and her kids?
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5 May 2013 (M)
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I married a philippine women 3.years ago and I.regret that everyday of my life but im glad I discovered she was going to use me for a green card because I.went.back to visit her and.discovered she was sleeping with so many men and I wonder is she ...
I'm married and a married hottie came onto me at work. What should I do?
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18 March 2013 (M)
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I work in the same company as this woman. Never really took any notice of her or talked to her, but I knew she was married. One day we found ourselves alone together and she made it plain she fancied me. In fact she put her hand on my thigh, I ...
Is my boyfriends sister affecting our relationship? What do I say?
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19 July 2012 (F) -
Okay, I'm sorry if this is long.. but I'm really confused. Basically, my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. I am totally and completely in love with him, I can't stay mad at him for longer that a minute, but lately.. something has been ...
My boyriend keeps on criticising me. Why can't he see that he's upsetting me? He says he's 'trying to help me be a better person'
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24 May 2013 (F) 
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I had a rather large argument with my boyfriend today. We where trying to organize who's place we would hang out at tonight. Every week, on this night I'm out until after dark and I often get a lift home from class but not every week as I don't ...
Do you think rejection hurts worse than being cheated on?
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24 May 2013 (F)
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I understand rejection happens to all of us at some point, but damn I've been rejected twice in the past two months for the first time in my life. I'm trying to reevaluate where I might have messed up, or maybe it's not something I did, it's just me ...
Does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship?
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23 May 2013 (F) 
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does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship? i ask because my fiance and i live together and i find it hard to sleep next to him due to his snoring. i've had important professional exams today, so for the last week, he's ...
How can I tactfully reject him?
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23 May 2013 (F)
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Hello, First off thank you in advance for taking the time to read and offer advice :) I have a FRIEND that insists on hanging out with me and stuff. He invited me to a wedding in Washington state, he calls me "sexy", "Pretty lady" and things...
My fiance says that if I gain weight, he won't make love to me in the same way! How should I respond?
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23 May 2013 (F)
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My fiance has told me he hates fat women. He thinks they are disgusting and have no self control. His mother is heavy and he points to her for his reasoning. He told me, while making love to me, that if I ever gain weight, that he will not make...
I caught my husband texting a co-worker. He says its not cheating but I think it is!
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23 May 2013 (F)
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I caught my husband texting a female co worker. She is much younger and a single mother (pretty too). He was texting her late in the evening and even from business trips. He never texted me from the business trip. I caught him in some lies about ...
At what point has a relationship boundaries been crossed and the necessity for privacy to go by the wayside?
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23 May 2013 (M)
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Hi, I've been struggling with some issues in my relationship. My girlfriend of a year has remained in contact with some exes. She has stated that its not a big deal they just message her on occasion and the conversations do not really go beyond...
Every few days we have anal sex but I hate it and scares me to think of having it all my life!
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22 May 2013 (F) 
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Hello! Straight to the facts: I have a rather big problem in my nearly perfect relationship. For introduction, I must inform you that I am (23) in relationship for nearly 7 month, 2 month ago we have moved together, he is so much caring and lovin...
It upsets me that my son won't speak to me. Should my parents be offering him special treats, even though he disrespects me?
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21 May 2013 (M)
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I've fallen out with my son, about 6 months ago. I'm perfectly willing to discuss whatever's bothering him, and try and resolve it. He's 20 ,and a very strong character. He simply won't speak to me. He sees my parents about once a week, and I...
Swept off my feet to be dropped on my butt
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19 March 2013 (F)
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Am I insane? I met a guy on match.com. We messaged eachother at the same time. He was stationed in afghanistan and would be home in two months. He was in special forces (i won't say what but it is pretty badass). we exchanged texts and emails d...
Is he using me? He gives me no physical contact but wants me to buy things for him!
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23 May 2013 (F)
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So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple weeks now. So far I have bought dinners, lunch, he told me he needed sunglasses, and then that he needed rent. He doesnt have a car and have been running him up and down the road. I dont particularly ...
Why does my ex want nothing to do with me?
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22 May 2013 (F) 
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My ex broke up with me 7 months ago and has maintained no contact since then. I have always loved him and a part of me still does, and I accept that he does not want to be with me anymore, but why doesn't he at least want to be friends with me? I...
My boyfriend pointed out a larger girl to me and said if I ever got that fat he would dump me!
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22 May 2013 (F)
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I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for just under 4 years. At the weekend we were on a night out and he pointed out a woman on the dancefloor who was probably a UK size 14/16 and he told me if I ever get as fat as that he will dump me! Now this ...
Am I too needy or is she not really as into me as I am thinking?
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22 May 2013 (M)
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This might be long because I really need help and want anyone who can help to have as many "facts" as possible, but I'll be as brief as I can... I became friends with my girlfriend over a two year period that eventually blossomed into romance. A...
He wants to get married and have children and I'm not sure yet. Do I stay and have kids or do I let him go?
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22 May 2013 (F)
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I have been together with a guy for two years. We live together and for the most part, things are fine. We come from different cultures and are quite different as people, but we get on well in many respects. I'm happy enough with him but he doesn't ...
My Wedding. Does any one have any solutions? I'm just terrified of everything and everything revolving around me
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22 May 2013 (F)
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Hi! So I dont really know what to do for this, but I'm afraid of my wedding. I'm not afraid of commitment or anything and Im not afraid to go to other peoples weddings- just afraid of my own. I start looking at venues or dresses and just panic. ...
What is appropriate? From the moment I was introduced to this woman, she has been rude and condescending to me. Do I stay home or demand he end the friendship?
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21 May 2013 (F)
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I have been living with my boyfriend for the last year. Very early in our relationship I was introduced to a female friend/colleague of his. This woman was the partner of one of his close friends, he knew them as a couple for almost 20 years. The ...
Could my decision hurt me in any way and what do you think of FWB?
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21 May 2013 (F)
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Hi. Im 18 young and single. I am getting ready to graduate from high school and will be heading off to college shortly. I have done extremely well and am graduating with a 3.9 gpa. I figure with the year coming to a close why not have some fun. So ...
How do I teach my partner to apologise and show him it isnt a sign of weakness?
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21 May 2013 (F)
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My partner doesn't know how to sincerely apologise. He can do something wrong but he will never say sorry, let alone mean it. He will most likely get angry with me and find something to blame me for and turn it all around. My question is, how...
Had the second date and I really like her, but she's not responded to my texts for a week!
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21 May 2013 (M)
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Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been on two dates with a wonderful woman and over the course of these dates I have found out that she is perfect for me in every way. The problem is that even though the dates were successful it seems that I'm n...
My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!
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19 May 2013 (F)
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Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...
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