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I'm ready to walk, am I just being used as a babysitter?

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20 July 2017 (M age 30-35 - hey, my partner sits on her phone all day does the odd chore round the house i mean when one of the babies does a dirty nappy she doesnt get down to cleaning it up she tells me babies pood so i end up doing it and been like that for years im a stay ...

How do I tell a man he's not doing it for me in the bedroom?

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19 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - Ok so my problem is pretty simple. How do I tell a man he's not doing it for me in the bedroom? I've been seeing a man for about 6 weeks now and in the last two weeks we've started to have sex, but it really isn't good. He's a great kisser and...

Engaged but I've seen someone new

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18 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - I am engaged to a man whom I have been in a mostly happy relationship for 9 years. He cheated on me three years in with someone at work but we got over it. We are now engaged and the wedding is next year. My problem is, I'm absolutely obses...

I'm disappointed that he suggested such a crummy hotel. Am I overreacting?

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17 July 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi, thanks for your advice in advance. I'm 40 and my my boyfriend is 45. He took his children on a short vacation and asked me to go with them. I didn't accept his invitation because this is a new relationship, we have been together for 6 months, ...

Will a guy wait for sex?

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10 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - How long will men wait to have sex? I am 31 and I have had only two boyfriends - I suffer from obsessive compulsive disorder and it's hard for me to be intimate because I always fear catching diseases. I am always mostly been celibate because of ...

I feel suffocated by my boyfriend! Is he controlling?

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10 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - I'm struggling with my boyfriends needy attitude. He wants constant reassurance from me and needs my attention all the time. We have been together 3 years and his behaviour has got worse and worse. He wants constant reassurance that I haven't felt ...

She makes up things I've said - then criticises me

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19 July 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys, Need some advice here or just a way to avoid the unnecessary arguments altogether. In short, my girlfriend is continuously saying I've said things I've never said. It's driving me mad because if I defend myself about these things...

How do I help my boyfriend sort himself out?

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19 July 2017 (F age 13-15 - My boyfriend had a really bad relationship with this girl before me and left him with some mental scars and we were totally fine until he got drunk and texted some random girl stupid stuff but they weren't that bad. Now he's apologised loads and I ...

8 years of trust,broken! Can we make it back?

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17 July 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi all thanks for your help first of all I have a horrible problem I need help with. Sorry about the lengh. I went on a holiday with 4 of my friends one of them is my boyfriends brothers girlfriend Side note: I've been with my bf 8 years been ...

Husband wants sex and a baby but he's searching online for partners

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17 July 2017 (F age 36-40 - Everyday I feel more and more sick. My husband always asks for sex but I don't want it, he wants a child but I don't, not even an adopted child, but he insists, and now he's trying to turn me on but I say no. The real problem is he's searching o...

Do I stay with my husband because I feel sorry for him?

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17 July 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 49 and married second time for 5 years. He is 13 years older and adores me. But Iv never really been settled. Iv hankered after an ex for the first years of the marriage. Now Iv met and fallen madly in love with a guy I met . I'm so ...

Can you stay friends after having a one night stand?

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17 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - About a month ago, I met a guy on a dating site. We would talk from night to morning every day. I kind of like him, but he rarely talked about himself. I was curious about him; therefore, I checked on him on Facebook and found out that he has a ...

Am I Being Played - - or Am I the One At Fault?

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16 July 2017 (M age 51-59 - Why did I allow myself to get to this point with her? Bit of a different spin. I am married. Main Head Boss of Organization. 300 employees. Always been aware of importance to treat all employees respectfully, etc. I've always adhered t...

Things were good until his ex' got involved

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15 July 2017 (F age 26-29 - I met a guy online in January who is a really great guy. He's a bit older than me but that doesn't bother me. He's 37,I'm 27. We spoke for about 3 weeks before we met for real. We got on instantly and after a few weeks, we began spending more and ...

A man who she has been dating for 3 weeks gets more recognition than I did in 3 years!

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15 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - I am so upset and livid right now and I just need some words of wisdom and kind responses to bring me back down. I'm a gay female. I spent 3 years in a relationship with a woman. I was the only woman that she'd ever been with. It was one of th...

My boyfriend's ex wife still comes into the house every week

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14 July 2017 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year is divorced three years and his ex wife comes into his house with their High School children to collect any things they have left there when hes at work. She comes in with them and into the lounge and kitchen etc and has a ...

Do I leave my depressed boyfriend who will not get help?

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10 July 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have been with my partner just short of four years and I can confidently say he was the love of my life. I say was because now he is suffering with depression and will not seek help. He got diagnosed with this in 2013 and stopped taking tablets ...

Is she interested or a flake?

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9 July 2017 (M age 30-35 - Hey there, I am recently out of a relationship and ready to start dating again. Went back online and met a cool girl who I really clicked with. We messaged a few times back and forth, exchanged numbers and text quite a bit. Before our first date s...

Caught him watching porn

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27 June 2017 (F age 36-40 - I caught my husband watching father daughter porn twice now is this normal he denied it and got very upset....

I can't deal with his passive aggressive behavior when I don't want sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy, who is now my boyfriend, 3 months ago. He has made it clear he is really into me. I wasn't sure if I was atttacted to him enough, but he was lovely to me and we had a lot in common, so I went with it. I was very happy to fiND we worked ...

I've fallen in love with my brother in law and I'm not sure where to go with these feelings

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13 July 2017 (F age - My husband passed away unexpectely in August of 2016. We had been separated for 2 years but we were working on our relationship towards getting back together just before he passed. We have a 21 year old daughter and she was greatly affected by his ...

He is getting married next month, I want to tell him I still love him!

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16 June 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hello, My ex will get married in one month from today - should I tell him I love him? We met nine years ago while travelling and had a whirlwind long-distance romance / relationship. I've never experienced being pulled towards someone lik...

Low self esteem is punishing me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hello to you all. I'm basically just wanting to know of anybody has gone through this and if so how do I overcome it. I have extreme self-esteem issues - it's starting to ruin my life literally. I dread summer or warm days where I have to show skin. ...

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