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Should I tell her that on our break I paid for sex?

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28 March 2017 (M age 22-25 - Hi, my and my gf of 5 years have sort of had a bit of distance come between us, on my end mainly. She was always so insecure and sort of clingy and although I loved her it chipped away at me and I felt I needed space. We took space and things were ...

Should I try online dating?

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28 March 2017 (M age 26-29 - As a male virgin who's never been on a date, never kissed a girl, and never had a girlfriend, I've been thinking a lot lately about trying online dating. I've never been competent at approaching women, it always results in rejection. In the pa...

Girlfriend doesn't make any real effort to lose weight despite wanting to

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28 March 2017 (M age 22-25 - I've been in relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. I liked her for her personality and character but her weight had always bothered me right from the start. She was actually slim just under 2 year back(she looked amazing) but gai...

My girlfriend's insecurity is chipping away at our relationship

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28 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - So I am having some serious issues in my relationship and I don't know how to deal with them. I am coming here for some much needed perspective. To start, I'm a gay female. 33 years old. My girlfriend is 27. We have what I would normally conside...

I like him but he doesn't stimulate me. Should I try again?

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28 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am under a lot of pressure by parents to get married, culturally, I'm old, 30. And my parents really care about whay others think. Anyways, I met a guy online. Sweet, untrustworthy guy, which is hard to find in a world full of untrustw...

Should I ask him how he feels now? Or wait a while before I ask?

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27 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have a relationship issue and would love some advice! For the past nine months I have been in an ambiguous relationship with my housemate. We started sleeping together last summer. I knew he had fancied me for a while and he even starte...

My boyfriend says he doesn't care about things!

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21 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend lives with me and I mean, we've had our arguments, but I find that he pays no attention to me. He goes to work, the gym, then he comes home and plays video games until we go to bed and pays more attention to the dog even. I've asked him ...

I feel like a third wheel in my own relationship! Any advice?

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18 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hello aunts and uncles, Me and my bf of a while now have usually been quite close with each other... Even though the majority of our relationship has been long distance, we've tried to keep each other happy and made sure to spend enough time toge...

Is he scamming me?

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17 March 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hi and thank you for your advice I met a male online approximately two months ago. He is very charming. We've talked daily. He tells me his wife died in an accident and he doesn't communicate with his family and he has one son who stays wit...

Can a true relationship be achieved without the affection and the touchy part?

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17 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - our sex life has slowly deteriorated. He blames it on my weight gain but many people including male friends and family have advised me that the weight is not the problem. He won't see a doctor cause he blames it on me, however he is 11 years olde...

I love her but I am nervous about the pressure to marry her so soon after the start of our LDR relationship. How should I respond to this pressure?

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16 March 2017 (M age 22-25 - Dear all i've been with my girlfriend since June last year and we've not had any problems. I've had 3 girlfriends before her but nothing has even come close to this. I know that she is the right one for me. She is probably the only person...

It was his first time. But straight after we finished he called his best friend to tell him we'd had sex. Made me feel like an object. What should I do?

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16 March 2017 (F age 16-17 - Hello, I'm a 16 year old girl. When I was 14 I had a relationship with a boy which lasted about 1,5 year. At the time my parents were breaking up and everything was falling apart. I got sexual abused and that boy destroyed me and I felt like de...

Why does my b/f talk to his ex but won't allow me to do the same?

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16 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year is friends with an old ex who he doesn't feel attracted to anymore and I am totally fine with their friendship and glad they are friends. He has another ex who broke his heart and things got messy with her during the break ...

I said "I love you" but he's not at that point and now I'm hurt/confused and wondering if I should break things off

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16 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - About two weeks ago, I found myself (regrettably) drunk after a super fun night out with a group of friends and my boyfriend, who I have been seeing for nearly 6 moths. The BF very sweetly took care of getting me to my house, getting me into my ...

She doesn't want to ruin our friendship but I don't want to lose her to another guy!

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16 March 2017 (M age 16-17 - So I have been friends with this girl for 7 months and the friendship has been amazing but the one thing is I want her, but she "doesn't want to ruin the friendship", but we have been in a relationship 3 months ago but we just took some time apart, ...

Am I justified to break up with him?

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15 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - I'm going through a mixed phase right now with my bf. Recently, I've been reflecting on our relationship for the past 5 years, and I'm wondering whether I should just move on because I just don't feel happy anymore. We have been dating for 5 yea...

I think having sex with another girl will get these crazy depressing thoughts out of my head!

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15 March 2017 (M age 18-21 - well, im in a relationship for about a year with this girl and we both love each other a lot. While she is my first gf, im not her  first bf, she had one before me who she really loved as well (i know this because a knew her back then) it was a long ...

I feel it's okay to say no to babysitting my husband's sister's children!

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15 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I are both 26 and have been married for half a year. His sister is 10 years older and married with a 2 year old and a 4 year old. I'm neutral to kids but my husband absolutely adores them. However neither of us are interested in ...

Should I ask him if there is a medical problem for the lack of sex?

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27 March 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi Guys, To you think my guy suffers from fertile dysfunction. Been seeing this guy for about 4 months, we have only had sex a few times as we didn't want it to only be about sex. Anyway we have sex it's great then the next morning he can't...

I want more sex but he would rather masturbate to porn with young girls with boobs!

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26 March 2017 (F age 41-50 - We have lived together 2.5 years. I'm 44 with 2 grown up kids living at home, he is 40. He works 10.5 hour days with an extra hour on top for travelling and claims to be too tired for sex. We will usually have sex once a week, sometimes twice a week ...

Phone sex with boyfriend turns out awfully wrong

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26 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - I don't know where to start but I've been in a relationship with my man for 5 years and he was never very colourful or expressive when we have phone sex. We recently got into a long distant relationship for 3 months since I'm studying. So these ...

I've lost all confidence in how to have a relationship

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26 March 2017 (M age 22-25 - Hi guys, I'm beginning to think I may be doing something wrong on my part in relation to females. I'm currently 25 years old, ive never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and the only sexual relationships I've had with girls have either ...

Miscarried and I'm not over it

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15 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hi all I'm a 20 year old woman and I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years. We're currently saving for a house. He is in a full time job while I've been drifting from job to job (whilst looking for a full time serious job). I have been ...

She gives me false hopes and is still chatting with her ex! Advice?

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15 March 2017 (M age 30-35 - Hello DearCupid readers, I am 30. two and a half months ago I got in contact with a woman, who is 24 and she has a 2 year old daughter. We first talked online and then started seeing each other offline, since we're both in the same city. In...

Is it normal to get married without a proposal?

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14 March 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have a question and would appreciate your help. I'm 40 and my boyfriend of 2 months is 44. We both have a kid from our previous marriage. He is a professor and I'm a nurse. I know it's too soon but things are going so well and fast! He is ...

Going silent on me after I asked him how he felt about me by telling me he would talk to me when he is ready.

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26 March 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I don't know what to make of my bf's behavior. I asked him a week and a half ago ago who he felt about me, because we are in a long distance relationship and do not get to see one another very often. I don't know how he feels about me, th...

Boyfriend didn't contact me and I'm angry

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25 March 2017 (F age 36-40 - My bf was at a lunch at a client today and then they went to a hotel bar with the guys for drinks. He hardly contacted me during the lunch nor told me they were going to a bar afterwards. I had to contact him and ask him what he was up to because he ...

Her past bothers me, though I do like our sex life!

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24 March 2017 (M age 26-29 - Hey guys, I've been dating a girl for a few months and it's going really great, but her past has come up more than a few times (mainly by me) her lifestyle bothers me a bit she's 22 and loves to club. Has had 12 sexual partners her last dude wa...

Why does inexperience turn women off more than the other way around?

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21 March 2017 (M age 26-29 - Why does inexperience turn women off more than the other way around? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the majority of girls that have had their fair share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, ...

Does it sound like my boyfriend wants to get me pregnant?

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25 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - So I think my boyfriend wants me to get pregnant , without actually saying it . This is more of a question for the guys since they may know more about how they think. First of all we haven't been dating for long but he's already talked about get...

Is she just lazy or what?

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25 March 2017 (M age 26-29 - This has been eating away at me for way too long! I feel like my wife never thinks about me. More times than I probably should I go out of my way and above and beyond for my wife. For Christmas, she was saying that she wanted a specific makeup. I ...

Please confirm my doubts

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24 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for 2.5yrs (living with him 1.7yrs).I've noticed that on his Facebook, he has lots of females "friends" (as he calls). I haven't used FB and had shut it down years ago as I prefer Linkedin. His account has been open to me but ...

My husband doesn't want kids but I do. My friends say that I should "trap" him. Is that my only option?

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24 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - Me and my husband have been together 8 years now and married for 2. Everybody that knows us have always said we are the best couple they've ever met as we love each other A LOT and would do anything for one another. It really is the perfect ...

Does anyone know of a "safe" or reasonably safe natural remedy that a man in his senior years could use as a stimulate?

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27 February 2017 (M age - I am 87 years old. Periodically what testosterone I have,kicks in with a vengeance and I long for sex. Or even succeeding at masturbation. My main problem is ED. I have been tempted to try Viagra or Cialis but they are not effective for me. Some of...

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