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He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant

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11 May 2008 (F age 13-15 - Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...

Unbearable truth....do I move on or wait for a cheater to reform?

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11 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am 38 and my ex gf is 23 going on 24. We had been together for over a year and a half. Chance meeting at a bar and I wasn't looking for someone this young. Firstly, she's geniunely naive, stupid and weak. I slept with her the first night. I had ...


   

My husband doesn't want to have sex anymore, is it time to move on?

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11 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I thought this was the perfect man for me. we were so in love when we got married. We made love several times a day. We loved to hang out together, talk for hours. We have not made love in a very long time.. almost a year. I constantly asked him ...

She stole him from me and I don't plan on ever talking to her again. Am I over-reacting?

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11 May 2008 (F age 16-17 - Hey well ive been seeing this guy since august last year. and well basically my best friend has taken him of me. she liked some guy in her work he doesnt like her . She knows how much i like this guy and she pure hits on him and stuff infront of...

Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?

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11 May 2008 (M age 16-17 - I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and gene...

   

He wants sexy but I don't think I am...

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10 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi everyone ok i need help from all guys. my bf wnts me 2 do something sexy for him and im not sexy one bit. im worried that he mite not like what i do. so thats what i need help on guys what do ur gfs/wives do that is sexy 4 u? i want him 2 ...

Does anyone else mind their boyfriend having porn?

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10 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - am i the only girl who doesnt mind her boyfriend looking at and having porn?...

What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.

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9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He kn...

My lecturer's been with his wife for 15 yrs, I really like him, so I'm planning to act!

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9 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - The lecturer I fancy knows my name and i think he likes me. He's married but he's been with her for over 15 years (even though hes only 35, i'm 20) and has indicated to me he's a bit bored. He's so clever and interesting and i'm dying to spend time...

Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..

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9 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...

How to spice things up in a relationship where sex and oral sex are not an option?

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9 May 2008 (F age 22-25 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost one year now and we are both in our 20s. I've chosen to remain a virgin until I am married. It is both a religious and personal choice on my end. My question is this, how do you spice things up with...

I have been stalking a teacher that I am in love with, now all the teachers are watching my steps! What can I do to stop this?

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7 May 2008 (F age 13-15 - this is a weird problem to be honest, and im not sure if i can explain it properly but, here it goes ... About six months ago, the teacher [Miss X] i was head-over-heels for found out that i had been .. stalking her, so to speak. Within t...

What is guys' opinion about women with kids?

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25 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - does having a child turn a guy off? im 20 and have a 3yr old daughter. me and her dad broke up last year. do guys not like women wiv kids...

Why do I feel this need to have a baby?

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20 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I want a baby. I don't even feel I need a husband or boyfriend. Also I don't need to hear about how hard they are to take care of, I have babysat twin boys since they were born for 3 years now, everyday all day since their parents have very ...

Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....

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24 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...

How do guys really feel about small boobs ?

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23 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hey I'm 15 and I have small boobs and I wanna know why guys like big ones so much ? are small boobs bad ?Does it really matter to guys ? I need some guys to be honest here. it doesn't matter how old you are but I need answers!!!! i...

I have a small penis,,how can I satisfy a female?

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16 February 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hi im a guy in my late teens and im really embarrassed ive got a very small penis just on 2 inches fully erect ive never had a girlfriend im to embarrassed what can i do can i even satisfy a girl?...

I prefer natural pubic areas to the fashionable smooth, hairless styles. Why do women think I'm a freak when I explain my preferance?...

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9 February 2008 (M age 36-40 - I discovered long ago that I'm only attracted to women who keep themselves "all-natural" or at least remain very hairy below the belt. In the past I dated women like this and I never had a problem meeting women who cherished their natural hair ...

What is the average penis size for a 13 year old?

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4 February 2008 (M age 13-15 - What is the average penis size for a 13 year old boy? I am just curious......

My boyfriend lied about watching porn. Now I can't trust him. What should I do to make things better?

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15 January 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have a better relationship than many. Except for one thing... Right now we finally have a place of our own. But we were in a long distance relationship for about 1.5 years in the middle of that. ...

I have an annoying little Sister--how should I deal with her?

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21 December 2007 (F age 13-15 - I have a younger sister who is always getting on my nerves. She is always taking and using my stuff without asking first. This may not seem like much but after a while it does get on your nerves, especially if your parents don't do anything about ...

My husband keeps contact with his ex. What should I do??

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2 December 2007 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together since college. We have two young children. Last year he contacted some friends including an ex-girlfriend from high school through reunion.com. I recently found out that he has been in contact with her this...

Normal to have hair around the nipple area? I'm very self-conscious about it.

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20 November 2007 (F age 22-25 - I have a lot of hair growing around my nipple areas. I am very self-conscious about it. My boyfriend has noticed them before but he says it doesnt bother him. I try to pluck as much off without letting him see them. It's so annoying though to keep ...

I can't be physically intimate with women.

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10 November 2007 (M age 22-25 - Today I was in a conversation with a 15 year-old lad I know and the conversation drifted past the question of being a virgin in terms of peer pressure. While trying to exercise the maturity and responsible adult attitude in response to this I found ...

I have just started my period and don't know how to tell mom...

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2 November 2007 (F age 13-15 - ok i am 14 and have just started my period how can i tell my mom without cringing....

Is my penis a normal size for a 13 year old?

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20 October 2007 (M age 13-15 - err hi i was wondering if this is normal im 13 and my penis is 5.4 inches long i mean i think thats good but is it ok to be so big so young?...

My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him.

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17 October 2007 (F age 22-25 - Just a quick question. Before having sex once, my boyfriend was fingering me and he slowly guided my hand down and basically told me to sort of rub myself. I've never done that in front of anyone before so I was kinda uncomfortable and didn't. He ...

How do I ask my cousin to have sex with me?

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14 October 2007 (M age 10-12 - Hi, I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her? Thanks for a...

How do I tell my mom my period has just started when I'm only 10 years old??

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11 October 2007 (F age 13-15 - HELP! I'm 10 years old and today I started my period in school today for the first time! I didn't tell my mom or the nurse. So so far no one knows except me of course. But I don't know how to tell my mom. She told me one of her freind's daughter is ...

How do you get a guy to like you?

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11 September 2007 (? age 13-15 - Has anyone got any tips on how to get a guy to like you? e.g flirting tips. Anything would be great! xx...

Will eating only 2 apples a day make me lose weight quickly?6

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20 August 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hey.. ok well i'm planning to lose weight..So i'm going to eat two apples a day and that's it..iv done this now for 1 day..and I no that i'm going keep on doing it..how long will it take like before the weight all drops off?? i'm 9 stone and I hate ...

What does a orgasm feel like?

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23 June 2007 (F age 13-15 - Hi this is a question for girls only cuz i don't think guys can answer this question. Anyways i'm 13 and i have a boyfriend who's 15. And yesterday he was finger banging me but it wasn't the first time. But yesterday was different he got me ...

I'm not sexually attracted to my husband! Any advice?

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19 June 2007 (F age 41-50 - When I was in highschool, I fell in love with a guy who broke my heart 6 mon.after we started seeing each other. His younger brother started coming over to my house after the break up and we'd hang out, sometimes go for pizza or a movie. Then one ...

My in laws hate me and my husband doesn't stand up for me! Is this right?

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24 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi - from the outset of my long (18 year) relationship with my husband (i have been married for 13) I have been relentlessly put down and bullied by my parents in law. This has ranged from making derogatory comments about my hair and my weight ( I ...

What does love mean to you?

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10 May 2008 (M age 18-21 - This has more than likely been asked many times before but I don't feel like going through thousands of questions. Anyway I wanted to know what each of you thought love means to you....

Are teenage girls so worried about pubic hair?

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10 May 2008 (M age 16-17 - Hello I was talking to my girlfriend about "stuff" yesterday and turns out that herself and most of her friends are all a little worried about how their pubes look, like how they shave them or how they don't shave them. Can any other women ...

He asks my friends to do naughty things, should I trust him?

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10 May 2008 (F age 22-25 - hi, i chose a boy over my bf nd i think i made the right choice we r a lot more affectionate nd i luv him. But he is a bit of a naughty boy! nd likes to ask my m8's to do stuff, just like showin him their bra's. they hav always sed no but i dont kno...

Is it because I refused him sex that he couldn't wait to get rid of me?

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10 May 2008 (F - About 2 weeks ago I slept over my bf's house. I told him before that I wasnt ready for sex, so he should not of expected me to sleep with him just cause i agreed to sleeping over...i just wanted to sleep in his arms, nothing more. Anyway, he wante...

I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?

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9 May 2008 (F age 13-15 - hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...

I'm scared I'm turning into a horrible person

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9 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - i'm scared i'm turning into a horrible person, i keep being mean without the intension, like being nasty without me thinking about it. please help me stop! should i appologise? recently i have become a model for absolute and i'm scared it will go ...

I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period

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9 May 2008 (F age 10-12 - i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...

Should I leave my wife because our sex life is virtually non existent?

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9 May 2008 (M age - Hi i'm thinking of leaving my wife, i like her in many ways but our sex life is virtually non exsistance. I've met a wonderful woman aged 18 who is beautiful and works as a model. The sex is absolutely fantastic. Do think there is a chance for us, ...

He's 35 and I'm 17 and pregnant, is that really wrong?

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9 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm 17 he's 35, we have been living together for two months, and i'm 6 weeks pregnant. I love him so much, is this wrong we get along so good, so in love with each other? I left mad and went 7 hrs away to my sister's and he drove all night, tired wi...

Is it possible to be with a partner and not trust them 100%, but disconnect yourself emotionally so you don't get hurt?

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9 May 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hi there, My problem is that I can't trust my current girlfriend. We have been together for a month. But have known each other for 4 years. The problem stems from a few text messages i read on her phone from her ex boyfriend, which read 'I love you ...

I tend to go for older men, but he is so much older...

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8 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - Im 17, nearly 18. I have a tendency to go for older men, Normally about 24,25. But in this case i like someone who is much older! He's 59. Im not normally attracted to men this age but he is a huge expection! I see him everyday, at a sports club ...

I'm worried boys will be put off by my ginger hair...

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8 May 2008 (F age 16-17 - hey im a ginger girl, 16. whenever i go out to town and places and meet boys im always worried that boys will be put off by my ginger hair. I don't know if its just me being wierd or weather boys don't actually like ginger hair. What do you think...

My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse!

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8 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse. He says according to Darwins theory he is just an alpha male and i should be glad to be with him, and he will continue to sleep with as many women as he can. I do love him but i find his ...

He likes me, but doesn't want his family/friends to know he likes fat girls?

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7 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - I've been dating this guy for 6 months now and he doesn't want to introduce me to his friends or family. When I asked him why I havent met his family yet he said it is because I'm fat and he's not sure if they would approve. I've been ignoring him ...

Is my grirlfriend planning to cheat on me in this vacation since she does not want me to accompany her?

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1 May 2008 (M age 26-29 - I need desperate help. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. Things have been a little down lately due to my side of the family issues accepting her. She plans on going on a business trip abroad, conveniently over memo...

My husband will not stop looking at porn. How can I make him understand?

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30 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - My husband will not stop looking at porn. i have asked him to stop but he does it behind my back. when i catch him he turns the argument around on me. i am a heavy woman and i am trying to lose weight. it hurts me because i believe he thinks i am ...

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

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30 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

Am I too young to be bisexual?

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23 April 2008 (F age 10-12 - Heya, im 12 years old. I just wanted to know... Am i too young to decide to be bi-sexual? Because i like watching lesbian porn and, i know it semi-normal at my age to feel like this but as i said, do you guys think im too young to decide to be bi? ...

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

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20 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

I hate his ex and myself.

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31 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and ...

Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?

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13 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...

Would it be wrong for a 36 year old to date a teenager? Can people choose who they are attracted to?

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2 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - honeslty do people think this is wrong if a 36 year old man is really really attracted to a 16 year old (mature, or so he thinks) girl...i mean people cant help who they're attracetd to right??? and if he got carried away and ended up in bed with ...

Can you answer my questions on sex please?

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23 February 2008 (M age 18-21 - Ok I am a 20 year old virgin in college which is tough. But I think my time may be coming. I have A LOT of questions (sorry, and thanks to anyone who reads it all) help on any would be appreciated. Anyways I hear all this about women having a hard ...

If you have oral sex and finger sex are you still a virgin?

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23 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey I was wondering.... if you had oral sex and finger sex are you still a virgin? I was just wondering....

If it's impossible to get my hair straight, is there any "scene" hairstyles for curly hair?

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17 February 2008 (M age 13-15 - Hi, I have thick, wavy/curly hair (like a sheep) but I want my hair to be like a "scene" kid, but I don't think it's possible. :( I know people say to use flat irons to straighten curly hair, but I'm looking for a way to get my hair REALLY strai...

Are all women bisexual?

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15 February 2008 (F age 26-29 - just wondering... are all women bisexual?...

I haven't had Sex in a year and It's really getting me down

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7 February 2008 (M age 18-21 - I'm 19, I've gone a year without sex, and I feel pretty upset over it. It seems like such a terrible thing to say to your friends; "Well guys, I've not had any for a year, now". I've been in relationships, but they haven 't worked out, and so I'm ...

Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!

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6 February 2008 (F age 36-40 - Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...

I'm undecided - should I give in to my brother's urges and have sex with him?

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31 January 2008 (F age 18-21 - My brother trying to seduce me. He's been trying for a long time, from time to time he was making a move on me, but now I think he's serious. When we were in early teens (13-15) we already had a kind of sexual relationship with him - we've been tou...

He cheated on me and I can't forget it it! Help!

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16 January 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey, My boyfriend and I are both happy and have been going out for 7months. Everything has been perfect for one thing.. Earlier in our relationship, when things were still a bit awkward, he went out one night, got drunk and kissed another girl. He ...

How do I walk away from someone I love so much?

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14 January 2008 (F age 18-21 - hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...

My husband walked out on me and my children, he is uncontactable, I still love him but should I still wait for him?

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5 December 2007 (F age 41-50 - my husband has walked out on me after 5 years of marriage. He hasnt told me where he has gone and hasnt been in touch at all.Before he went he blamed me for everything, that wasnt right in our relationship.I didnt know there was anything wrong,he ...

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

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6 November 2007 (M age 26-29 - please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

My fiance says this guy was just a friend, so why didn't she introduce him to me?

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5 November 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have found out,that after years of being told Iam keeping secrets,that my fiance herself has had her own secrets. Basicaly,she has told lie after lie about who is on the other side of a phone number that keeps cropping up. She has finaly admitted ...

I'm pregnant but my partner wants to terminate. What should I do?

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6 October 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hi I am 24 and I am aslo 10 weeks pregnant. I have been with my partner for only 4 months so got caught really quick - yes, we were both stupid. I had a termination last year at five months due to medical conditions and my current partner ...

My girlfriend is pregnant but pushes me away. Should i just move on?

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27 August 2007 (M age 30-35 - I will try and be as direct as possible. I dated a girl for 7 months. She had her own place but stayed at mine. I then sold my house and moved in with her on temporary basis. You could tell there was some tension after a month of the new ...

My boyfriend constantly gives me a hard time for my past, and it makes me miserable!

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8 August 2007 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am writing with tears on my eyes 'cause devastated. I will try to make my story short. I met my bf while in college and while in college I acted a little crazy and mess around with a couple of guys. My bf and I were not together...

He dumped me and I am lost!

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28 June 2007 (F age 16-17 - Hey! erm my boyfriend of 16 months broke up with me last tuesday by text...and it wasn't asif i was expecting it he had been fine with me. He text me saying he doesn't want anything to do with me and that has really f**ked me up because he wasn't ...

I hate my boyfriend so why am I still with him?

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23 June 2007 (F age 22-25 - I know i hate my b/f. i cannot stand the boy,and yet i allow myself to remain there, be mistreated, oh my lord i am such a fool wha tis wrong with me. i am not happy at all. Reasons why i do hate my b/f 1. he does not do anything for me---on...

I'm eleven and want to have sex but worried about becoming pregnant. What does first time sex feel like?

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17 June 2007 (? age 13-15 - hi my boyfreind and i have dicided that we really love each other and have decided to have sex i am only 11.. i feel confident but i really dont know what to expect .. im also scared that i wont put the comdom on him properly and i will become preg...

Does anal sex hurt?

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10 June 2007 (F age 16-17 - me and my boyfriend want to have anal sex does it hurt?...

Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?

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9 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and ...

He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend

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9 May 2008 (F age 13-15 - I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...

My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?

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9 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was a...

My neighbor is allowed to kill my dog because my dog "murdered"? What the hell?

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9 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi everyone im gettin really agravated with my neighbor he lives 2 houses down from me and my dog lucy is a lab and a retriever mix n is 12 years old and is still very playfull but now shes to be confined in2 the house because of my dumb ass ...

We're trying to conceive but he can't ejaculate! What can I do?

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9 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I hope some of you will be able to help. This is probably going to be long but I need advice real bad. I don't know what else to do! OKay, so my partner has difficulty ejaculating for some reason. But the sex is good, at least I think so, so i...

My girlfriend has lied to me about her sexual history! I hate what she's done to herself but she says she's different now?

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9 May 2008 (M age 22-25 - I know this is not a new topic, I know this has been discussed over, and over... i know that some of you will say get over it, but I don't think I can... Or at least, not always. My problem is that my girl friend has been with more people than...

Is it normal to have your left ball bigger than your right ball?

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9 May 2008 (M age 18-21 - is it normal 2 have ur left ball bigger than ur right ball ...

I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?

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9 May 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi Everyone We have been dating for 2 yrs now, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, and like he does not love me. I have cheated on him several times but we're still together, and he is the first longest relationship i have ever had. The o...

Come on aunts and uncles stop dodging your resposibilities....

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9 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - I often hear the phrase 'it's not for me to judge'. If no one offers a judgement then how is right and wrong determined in society? Someone batters an old woman, 'it's not for me to judge'....Someone molests a child, 'it's not for me to judge'. Isn...

Would you stick it out just for the kids?

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9 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am married 11 years with 2 kids. We have been living abroad for the past year. This is our first time away from fam/friends. He has made the move as he moved from another country to mine 15 years ago. Our relationship has never been passoinate ...

How can I help my girlfriend? I'm the only one to whom she has confided she has been raped.

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9 May 2008 (M age 16-17 - Hi, my girlfriend recently confided in me that she had been raped, or molested or something of the sort not too long ago, possibly less then a few months ago, she refuses to divulge any details to me, she won't tell me who, when, where, what ...

My daughter is 19, unmarried and pregnant. Any pointers?

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9 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - My daughter is 19 and lives with her bf. I was against that decision, but she's grown. Now, she tells me that she is pregnant, I don't know how to handle the situation without alienating her. I don't approve because she is not married. It's not what ...

Why am I cheating on a girl who is so perfect for me?

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9 May 2008 (M age 22-25 - I've been dating a girl for 2 years. Everything was perfect, until I met a girl about 8 months ago who I slept with, roughly twice a month, for 6 months. I have only physical feelings for this girl and do not love her what so ever. I have be...

Why is she taking so long in deciding whether she loves me or not?

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9 May 2008 (M age 18-21 - Please help me! I've been with this girl for 6 months and I love her, she told me she'll feel the same way soon about me. She's said before that she wants to make sure everything will work between us. I'm doing my best to wait for her to make up h...

What sort of women do men really like? Real? Or fake dolls with fake breasts, fake nails, fake hair...

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8 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ok, I know this topic gets old fast, and that I'll probably hear the same answers that are usually given, but let's have a try and I truly do expect honesty... PLEASE... It's always said men prefer natural beauty, natural looking women. But if th...

When he hears your voice and instantly turns, is he interested?

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8 May 2008 (F age 13-15 - when a guy hears your voice and he instantly turns around does that mean he is interested?...

Page 3 model on his phone. What next? Heaps of porn?

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8 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were out with his friends the other day, and my boyfriend wanted to show us something on his phone. When he flipped the phone open, there was a picture of a page 3 model which he told us he is using as a screensaver. My ...

I'm being stalked by a telemarketer?

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8 May 2008 (F age 26-29 - This is bizarre and the whole thing makes me feel like a nutter. Everyone knows telemarketers can be annoying and I've never had much patience with it, I usually hang up as soon as I realize where its going or ask to be removed from the list. ...

Should I tell my husband about a fling I had?

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8 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi all, well my situation is, i was wondering should i tell my husband about a fling i had. (Sorry this is a bit long) We hit a very rough patch in our marriage at the time. My husband left me for three months, no reason given, i was devastated...

I want to receive, but not give oral, is this fair in a relationship?

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6 May 2008 (F - I dont know if this will get published, but i was just wondering, when you're getting into foreplay and stuff, is it acceptable to want the guy to go down on you - but not go down on them? It's just that i've heard it's REALLY nice for females and ...

I'm so deeply hurt and desperately need some wise advice.

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6 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I would truly appreciate some advice/opinions on a really upsetting situation that I have recently found myself in. You won't believe the unbelievable piece of bad luck that I and my girlfriend just experienced... I'm 31, my girl...

My boyfriend says there are hotter girls than me. How can I feel better about myself now?

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6 May 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been going through a rough patch lately... I asked him if he was still with me just because of the sex (because it seems it's the time he enjoys the most when he's with me), so he said: "Look, there are hotter girls tha...

Boys and Men...what do you think about teenage lesbians?

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30 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Older men..do you think 'Oh she's just a teenager, it's just a phase..she doesn't really know what she wants'? We had to talk about it in class today and it seemed that most boys thought it 'hot'. I know some guys think that, but what do the othe...

6 months pregnant and separated from my partner, who initially wanted to break any contact! Now he seems to have changed his mind, his behaviour is confusing!

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21 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi, i'm new to this but need bit of advice. i'm 6 months pregnant and have split with my partner. he said he didn't want anything to do with me or the baby but has since seemed to have changed his mind.i've had to move out and go live with my ...

What does the word soulmate connotate to a man?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Recently my new boss called me his soulmate. We have never been intimate, but we spend a lot of time together outside of work. What does the word soulmate connotate to a man? Further, he has never crossed any physical barriers with me. What...

His addiction to video games is causing problems! What can I do?

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1 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - hey people out there, well i need help my boyfriend is addicted to video games and it annoys me so much. i hate video games because with one of my ex it got between our relationship. and i don't want that to happen to me and him. because i love him ...

On A Search For Either Escorts Or Massage Parlours Any Advice Welcome.

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28 February 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi All I have never had a girlfriend or sex and I am in my 20's, I am fed up waiting for the right female to come along as I know it will probably never happen so I have decided to look for sex either in a massage parlour or hire an escort as I n...

Am I obsessed with my university lecturer?

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18 February 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm worried that I may be obsessed with one of my lecturers at uni. He's incredibly interesting and despite the fact that he's extremely terrifying, he's so passionate and intelligent. I find myself looking him up in my free time and with desire to ...

I don't want the abortion...But they're all pressuring me!

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26 January 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm 17 and 8-9 weeks pregnant. I have my first midwife appointment on the 25th February. My boyfriend and parents are basically forcing me into an abortion that I don't want because I KNOW that after it I will be a wreck. Sure abortion is for ...

I want to get my sister into bed

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10 November 2007 (M age 13-15 - i am 14 i like my sister wont to get her in to bed but she it 19 and has a bf plzzz i no i wont to do soo if any one can help me on it hlep me two get my sisert into bed wat am i meen 2 she is 19 i am 14 but i no i wont 2 do this ...

Is a female who performs oral sex still a virgin???

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20 October 2007 (M age 22-25 - I have a curious question, if a female did oral sex once but she never had any sexual intercourse before, Would she still be considered a virgin?...

Is it bad for me to wish my mum was dead, just to have some relief to know that no one is in danger - including herself?

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27 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - My mother is an alcoholic. She and my stepfather were married almost 10 years before they got a divorce. I understand why he did it. He had to choose either his 4 children (including me) or my mother who was helpless. It was a hard decision for him ...

Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?

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27 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...

How can I stop feeling guilty for cheating on my girlfriend?

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12 September 2007 (M age 26-29 - I have cheated on my girlfriend after 3years of being together, i kissed another girl. Can anyone help me get rid of the guilt that continuosly pesters me every second and every hour. Im struggling to forgive myself and it is affecting my ...

I've been with him 10 months and he's started eyeing up women on tv and in the street. He says its normal but I've told him I dont like it!

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31 August 2007 (F - Should I leave my fiance? The other night we were watching a movie and everytime a "hot girl" was on the screen he would say something like "she has a nice body", etc. I've already told him that this bothers me, but he won't stop and says that all ...

My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?

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29 August 2007 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...

Cheating on my boyfriend, now I'm pregnant by the other guy!

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12 June 2007 (F age 22-25 - I will try to make this quick ,I been with my Man for 8 and half years , We are suppose to get married this year, I love him to death and a part of me is so ready. Problem is for the first 5 years he was unfaithful, loving him so much I settle for ...

Will my red pubic hair turn him off?

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6 June 2007 (F age 18-21 - I have never had sex before and my boyfriend has been making moves as if he was going to go down on me. I would love for him to do this but I need some advice on pubic hair. I have red hair and I was wondering if guys are turned off by that since ...

Why doesn't he care about my family's health, or is it just a 'guy thing' to have no feelings?

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