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I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!
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6 November 2009 (F) 
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This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. ...
I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..
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6 November 2009 (M)
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Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot...
Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?
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4 November 2009 (F) 
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Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...
I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?
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7 November 2009 (F) 
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Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...
Do you think I'll ever get a boyfriend?
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7 November 2009 (F) 
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Okay... So I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and I don't think I'm ever gonna get a bf! I have blond hair, blue eyes, but I'm 150lbs... Would you go out with me?! Do you think I'll ever get a bf?...
Am I a normal girlfriend?
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7 November 2009 (F)
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please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they alw...
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
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7 November 2009 (M)
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I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...
At 24 am I too old to be happy again?
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6 November 2009 (F)
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i'm 24 and at the moment i'm not in such a good place in my life. 4 months ago my ex broke up with me - i adored him and it left me reeling. I'm getting over it now - and i feel ready to move on, but my confidence is pretty low. I feel like no ...
What should I do while my bf sucks my breasts?
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6 November 2009 (F)
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what should i do while my bf is sucking my breasts? And i want him to go down by my vagina but as his never been down there before not with me or any other girl im not sure what he'll think? We've been going out for 2years now :)...
My husband hit me while drunk and doesn't remember. Should I trust him not to do it again?
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6 November 2009 (F)
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Recently my husband hit me. He had been drinking and he lost his temper. He had no recollection the next day, has apologised and promised it will not happen again. I just don't know how I feel or if i'm stupid to believe him. He is a drinker anyway, ...
How can I learn to enjoy oral sex more?
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6 November 2009 (F)
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Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is ...
Biological clock in overdrive - please help!
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6 November 2009 (F)
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I'm a 30 year old woman in a committed 3 year relationship. I have lived with my partner for over 2 years now, and moved abroad to live with him. For the past year I have been struggling with increasing desire to have a child. Please understand that ...
Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues
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6 November 2009 (F)
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hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...
Help I don't understand why girls do this?
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6 November 2009 (M)
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i dont understand why some girls if you dont show them your penis then they be it has to be small or tell someone that your penis small when is not...
I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?
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6 November 2009 (F) 
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Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...
Do I tell mum that dad is looking for escort massages?
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6 November 2009 (F)
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ok so my dad is generally a really decent guy and nothing like this has ever happened before; he is really family orientated. but i have recently seen on the interent history that he has been searching for escort massages ( i assume that this is ...
I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!
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6 November 2009 (F)
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My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...
Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?
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6 November 2009 (F) 
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I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...
I've cheated on my fiancee and I'm seeing him this weekend... Do I tell?
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6 November 2009 (F)
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I've got myself into such a mess. I'm engaged to the most amazing guy in the world, he means everything to me. We currently only see eachother at weekends as I'm at university now, and may way of coping with him not being here is to sort of push him ...
My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!
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6 November 2009 (F)
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When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...
Is this older man playing me?
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6 November 2009 (F)
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I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
Twice I had unprotected sex. Am I pregnant?
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5 November 2009 (F)
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help! ok soo me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago. but just last weekend, i slept over and we had unprotected sex twice that night and again in the morning. i usually get my period from the 10th to the 12th of each month. its the 5th now. soo ...
What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?
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5 November 2009 (F) 
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what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...
Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?
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5 November 2009 (M)
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I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...
How can I show my ex-friend I am happy without him?
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5 November 2009 (F)
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So I have an ex-friend who I kinda dislike. But today I felt upset because he was with other people and I felt lonely and like I had nobody. I do have my own friends but I feel alone too sometimes. I want to show him that I'm happy with not being ...
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
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5 November 2009 (M)
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I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
Why do I find it so hard to approach women I am attracted to?
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5 November 2009 (M)
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Why do I find it so hard to approach females I like, particularly good-looking ones? Last night, I went to Pizza Hut and got my friend to ask the waitress out for me cos I didn't have the guts to do it? Is it because I am afraid of rejection, that ...
I want to see him for an explanation and an apology but his wife forbids him from contacting me!
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5 November 2009 (F)
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I was seeing an Iranian man for a couple of months. He told me he was separated for the last year, doesn't live with his wife and has a 5 year old child. We got on really well and a while into our relationship I actually was getting more conscious ...
He never feels sex!
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5 November 2009 (F) 
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hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...
How can I encourage my boyfriend to drive to see me?
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5 November 2009 (F)
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and we both live an hour away from each other. In the 3 months that we have known each other, I have always driven to see him weekly (sometimes twice a week), and he's only driven down to see me ...
My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.
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4 November 2009 (F)
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I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...
Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!
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4 November 2009 (M)
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Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more...
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
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4 November 2009 (F)
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My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...
My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!
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3 November 2009 (F)
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I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been ...
My first cousin got me pregnant!
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3 November 2009 (F)
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I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?
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2 November 2009 (F)
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my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing ...
Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?
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1 November 2009 (F)
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Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...
I've fallen in love with a prostitute...What is the solution to my fixation?
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1 November 2009 (M)
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Hi i have been seeing a prostitute now for some time as i was quite upset about myself losing my girlfriend few years ago i decided this was my only option. I had visited the brothels on several ocassions seeing a multiple of girls and living my ...
Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!
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29 October 2009 (F) 
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Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and ...
How do you know if the reason you get back with your ex is you, or the new baby?
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28 October 2009 (F)
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Am 16 wks pregnant. Broken up with partner. He is unsupportive but acting weird. When we were together - he would buy food cos he was practically living with me and I would cook it for him. He didn't want to go to any scans or hospital appointments ...
What is this white gunky stuff?
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24 October 2009 (F)
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ok i have seen other people ask but the anwsers were stupid and from people who just don't know??? i have been having during sex this white clumpy/gummy stuff coming from my vagina?? there is no odor and i have never seen this before?? any doctor or ...
Help with my boyfriend that's addicted to porn, but still has sex with me. I feel like I'm his sloppy seconds.
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22 October 2009 (F)
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My boyfriend masturbates to porn everyday. He still has sex with me, but it makes me feel horrible about myself because I am a very attractive woman that is in my early 40's. I look very good for my age. Men tell me all the time that any guy ...
I have low self esteem, slept with another guy and know I should tell my b/f but I'm afraid!
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21 October 2009 (?)
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Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I love him so much; he is gorgeous, intelligent good job etc. I could not ask for someone better. From what he has told me he feels the same way about me. However we have big relationship pro...
Blood in my semen -- help!
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13 October 2009 (M) 
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Guys, pls help me. I am 20, i am virgin. Never been in any sexual relationship. The problem is , i musterbate. And when i masterbet yesterday i bled, i bled a few with my sperm. Then again, when i musterbet i bled few hours ago , my ...
Should I move on or email him? It's an online, LDR.
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6 October 2009 (F)
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I have been talking to a 45 year old man (I'm 23) over the internet for about 5 months now. He lives about 13 hours away from me and I plan on moving to the state he lives in, in about 3 months (for college). Hes not married (is divorced). So we ...
I've let my insecurities get the better of me and just stuff everything up...
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5 October 2009 (F)
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I don't know what to do.. i feel as though my relationship, more myself has gone off track by a mile. I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and am 19 and in the past year have become overly obsessive and insecure. i really don't kno...
I've found out my wife is a slut
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10 August 2009 (M)
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Hello everyone. I'm 20 years old and my wife is 33 as of August 2, 2009. I just found out Saturday night August 8, 2009, that, well what I believe is a slut. She told over her 32 years of living she has had, 14 sexual partners. Some were one night ...
Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?
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23 May 2009 (F)
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ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ...
I'm 24, hot and still a virgin
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24 January 2009 (F)
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I am a very attractive 24 year old female virgin and I’m ashamed that I have yet to be intimate with someone. I have never been in a serious relationship and have never done anything more than kiss. I am worried that when I find a guy I want to have ...
In love with my first cousin
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3 January 2009 (F)
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Omg... I'm in a big dilemma, so I fell in love with my first cousin. Yes I know it sounds nasty but it really isnt. I never knew who he was. I knew he existed somewhere in the map but we were never brought up together. One summer he came to visit my ...
Drunken mistake won't leave me alone...
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5 November 2009 (F)
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This guy i did stuff with while drunk keeps trying to contact me through facebook, but he was just a DISGUSTING mistake and I really don't want to have anything to do with him... How can I reject him without seeming like a bit of a b****?...
2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!
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5 November 2009 (F)
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[MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why...
I'm depressed after my abortion.
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5 November 2009 (F)
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im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...
I think my 14 year old sister is going to run away with a 24 year old man!
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5 November 2009 (F)
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i'm worried about my sister shes 14 in half and shes going out with a 24 year old. she was scared i was going to tell mom and dad about it so she made me promse to not say anything to them. and i'm worried that hes going to hurt her. she wont tell ...
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
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5 November 2009 (M)
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36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
Read this email message and tell me what you think!
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5 November 2009 (F)
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I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...
Would you believe a married man who......
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5 November 2009 (F)
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would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...
She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?
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5 November 2009 (M)
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hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i we...
I am falling for my "friends with benefits" guy, should I tell him?
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5 November 2009 (F)
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I am in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who is not ready for a relationship. I thought I wasn't ready either so the arrangement at first suited me fine plus the XXX is fantastic. But lately I have found we have both been getting very ...
How can I get condoms discretely?
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5 November 2009 (M)
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i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store...
Am I selfish for wanting to go abroad, or is he selfish for wanting me to stay?
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5 November 2009 (F)
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I don't know who is right in this situation !.Me and this guy i used to be with have been together on and off for a few years. We haven't become very serious, such as moving in together, having kids, or doing many sexual things.He has said in the ...
I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!
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4 November 2009 (F)
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I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...
Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?
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4 November 2009 (M)
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I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...
Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.
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4 November 2009 (F)
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Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...
Could my two friends be having a secret affair?
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4 November 2009 (F)
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I'm not sure why I'm writing this but here goes. At college, I know this girl and to me it looks like this girl likes other girls. I know this sounds stupid but I'm not sure if it's in my head or if it's true. This girl (the main one-lets call her ...
I have a full life, but worry that I may not find love. Are there others out there like me?
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4 November 2009 (F)
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Hello all, I am an attractive, and very young looking 41 year old woman.I never meet men around my own age, as they always think I am too young for them, and do not approach me, and the guys I do meet are never really settled, or they are unsuita...
I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!
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4 November 2009 (F)
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We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigg...
Why do teachers flirt with female students?
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4 November 2009 (F)
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Just being curious, but why do young male teachers flirt with their female high school students. Is it so they can get them to like them? Do they enjoy watching how we get crushes on them or just for fun?? And of course there's teachers who...
Raped by two men and troubled by porn
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4 November 2009 (F)
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[Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...
I lied about my virginty. Can a man feel your hymen?
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4 November 2009 (F)
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I am a virgin, but for my own personal reasons I do not want my guy to know. We are having sex for the first time tomorrow night, and I'm afraid he might feel my hymen and know I lied to him. I don't care about the bleeding, since I know that can...
How can I Deep Throat a boy without gagging?
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3 November 2009 (F)
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Okey my problem isnt a really big one but a good answer will really help me in my situation. i want to give my boy friend the best blowjob ever and i kno this question has been asked alot but i need some tips on how to deep throat with out feeling ...
My wife refuses to give me oral pleasure because it's "degrading" but expects me to give it to her!
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3 November 2009 (M)
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My wife says that giving oral sex is degrading, so she refuses to do it. However, she expects me to give her oral pleasure every time we have sex. I have since stopped giving her oral sex. She says I am acting like a spoiled child. If that is the ...
What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.
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3 November 2009 (M)
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I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...
Is a monogamous relationship/marriage realistic these days?
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1 November 2009 (F)
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Hey, I don’t post much but I visit the site daily to see the new questions. I think this post is a rant versus a question, but it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. It’s really been on my mind. I really just don’t kno...
How can I resist the urge to cheat again?
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1 November 2009 (F)
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I really need some help Im a married wowman and have cheated even had an affair. It is not my personality to mess around. I have to admit I do miss the rush I used to get. It was always exciting to me to meet someone new. I feel guilty for feeling ...
My mum made me have an abortion but now I can't stop thinking about the baby I gave up.
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1 November 2009 (F)
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Im 14 years old, 15 in march. This February i had an abortion, my mom made me have an a abortion as i was too young to keep the baby, but i was too scared to tell my mom that i wanted to keep the baby. All i do now is think about what if i kept i...
If I leave him he has no one else!
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31 October 2009 (F)
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Hi, I'm in need of some help,I have been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years, and i now feel like i'm stuck because if I leave him he has no one else. this is because he changed universitys (to the one im at)and has made no other friends. H...
At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child
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30 October 2009 (F) 
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MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...
An honest and anonymous study on infidelity
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30 October 2009 (M)
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There have been so many posts about cheating and fidelity and who did or didn't do what. I thought it would be interesting to see what happened if everybody was honest and nobody was judgmental about infidelity. Here is what I propose: 1- P...
Does porn affect your feelings towards your own partner?
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18 answers
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29 October 2009 (F)
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Do one's perceptions of their partner's attractiveness become altered by actively engaging in pornography? Would it be possible to remain sexually attracted to your partner considering that the individuals portrayed in pornography are, for the...
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
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29 October 2009 (F)
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HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
14 and pregnant...Help!!
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27 October 2009 (F)
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Okay im 14 and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do because i dont want an abortion because im 100% against that. And i want to keep it but i have school.! i want to finish school but i want to have my baby.! PLEASE HELP...
Are girls in this country just shallow and racist?
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21 October 2009 (M)
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Hi everyone, I'm a 22 years old male living in the UK. I'm originally from Japan, however I've been living here for a long time, since i was young. I don't know if this type of things should be asked on here, as it's not directly linked to existing...
What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas? Please help
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14 October 2009 (F)
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18-21 -
Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 1/2 years now you would think I would know what to get him for Christmas by now. I have read suggestions on other posts and they don't help very much. We live together at college so we share ...
Everyone has his new number but me!
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2 days ago
7 October 2009 (F)
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hi, me and my guy are moving around for the past one year, it was all great initially, but now for the past one month things are getting worse, recently he said he needs a break for 3 months since he has some family issue and his exams are also ...
My girlfriend had sex with someone else more than a week after our break up. We're back together, is she more likely to cheat?
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18 September 2009 (M)
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My girlfriend and i were dating for a year and i broke up with her on our one year anniversary due to constant fighting and other bullshit. (nothing big though) after i realized that i shouldnt have been so quick to let her go, i quickly asked her ...
My cousin makes fun of me because I'm afraid of sex. And now I like a guy who is engaged! Can anyone help me here?
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1 August 2009 (F)
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16-17 -
Hello! my name is cathy and i have 2 pieces of information i need help on im 16 i really like this man and he's 21 and engaged!!! whenever were around with eachother theres alot of flirting going on and its a bit obvious we like eachother but yo...
Do men think about other women in a sexual way?
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19 July 2009 (F)
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Hi I have a question for guys or girls in the know. I was wondering how often men think about women in a sexual way. Does it vary if you are in a relationship; is it a reflection on the girlfriend the amount the guy checks other girls out? Do men ...
I'm a guy. Should I shave my legs?
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16 May 2009 (M)
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16-17 -
i am 15, 16 in a week and my legs are full of hairs i just want to know should i shave them because i am an amature footballer and i know that some footballers shave their legs? also i was woundering if i should shave them for the girl i like ...
I love him but he doesn't even know I exist...
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7 May 2009 (F)
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hello everyone i realy hope you can help me!!! well here goes... there is this guy at school that i realy like. and it isn't "just a crush" coz it's been nearly 10 months and i still love him like i did that very first day i saw him. But there is...
I offered to have sex with my gay friend to "turn him straight"! What now?
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31 January 2009 (F) 
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16-17 -
I'm going to be 16 soon. I've known this gay friend for years now and we're really good friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. A while ago, he was really depressed because the guy he likes for a long time finally decided to tell him the ...
Can a smaller penis look bigger from a different person's perspective?
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5 November 2009 (M)
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Hi i am about 18 years of age, and I have a question on measurement in penis sizes. When i put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that i am 8 inches. Now the problem is, when i was in MMA the men had to take showers when the session was over. I ...
Family: Where does your priorities lie?
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4 November 2009 (M)
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Wife Question to husband Who do you see as our family? Husband Answer to wife You and the two kids of course Wife to husband No one else? Husband to wife No. No one else Husband to wife Who do you see as our family? Wife to ...
She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!
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3 days ago
4 November 2009 (M)
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5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...
Worried I may have come accross dodgy stuff when viewing stuff on free porn sites! Is this a common worry?
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4 November 2009 (M)
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Hi I am worried becouse I have been viewing porn on the internet on the free porn sites such as porntube and the like. I have used standerd search terms but sometimes have seen images/links to videos that appeared dodgy. The greatest consern to me ...
My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!
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3 days ago
4 November 2009 (F)
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Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...
My boyfriend didn't respond to my calls or texts in 7 months!
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3 days ago
4 November 2009 (F)
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My bf and i have had a long distance relationship for 1 year now. but in march i texted him normally and waited for a reply. but he didnt reply to none of my calls or text messages. before all this he said he was busy with work and would be free in ...
My good friend wants to see my penis. Should I show her?
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4 November 2009 (M)
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i have a realy good friend and she ask me to show her my penis i dont know if should show her but at the same time i dont know why she want to see it can someone help me with this...
If you lose weight can it make your penis bigger?
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4 November 2009 (M)
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So, my penis isn't really that big. I'd say maybe 4 inches when erect. I know that 4 inches is long enough to satisfy a girl, but I would rather be average of maybe 5.5 inches. That would make me feel more confident with myself. I'm also a bit on ...
Is this bad karma?
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4 November 2009 (M) 
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My ex-best friend was a cheater and a liar to his ex girlfriend who is my current Girlfriend who I love and wish to marry one day though he hadnt done anything wrong by me.He had done so much of wrong by her and I and her ex fell in love.Now he is ...
14 year old girl scared about sex with her 15 year old boyfriend
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4 November 2009 (F)
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13-15 -
my boyfriend is 15 and he wants to have sex with me but i don't know if i want to remain abstinent or have sex with he says he's ready when i'm ready but i don't think thats true and he might dump me i'm scared though that it will hurt and i will be ...
They say I am pretty but fat. Should I be offended?
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3 days ago
4 November 2009 (F)
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13-15 -
Okay soo. Im 13 and i am over weight. please dont comment giving me tips on how to lose weight or on how to be healthier, im offended enough. i have low self asteem when it comes to my body, i have a stunning face but my body just isnt right, and ...
I had an abortion and now my sister won't talk to me!
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3 days ago
4 November 2009 (F)
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Should I say sorry to my sister, I had an abortion in April and my sister got very angry at me, she is very pro-life and wanted to to weigh my other options. She did not talk to me for a couple of months, and it was really hard not being able to ...
What do you think of a man, who...?
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3 days ago
4 November 2009 (F)
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What do you think about a man whom, you leave a phone message in the morning asking if he wants to have dinner and at 8:30pm he calls, leaves a message that does not mention the call, you try to call back and know he is there because he is on ...
She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?
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3 November 2009 (F)
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He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...
She masterbated to his voice during a business phone call...am I overreacting and how should I handle this?
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3 days ago
3 November 2009 (F)
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Hi everyone, My question is about my boyfriend's ex.Her behaviour has upset me.I think that he should not talk to her any more.Am I overreacting?How should I deal with this? I am with someone I love dearly for over a year now.And he loves me too....
Is this incest?
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8 answers
- newest was posted
3 days ago
2 November 2009 (F)
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Ok, Im 19.. I have a 21 year old sister who has a boyfriend at the age of 35.. He has a nephew at the same age as me! We have been talking for a while and my sister found out and her and her boyfriend tried to set us up... My sister an her bo...
My girlfriend has rejected me sexually for over 18 months...
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3 days ago
2 November 2009 (M)
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For well over a year my gf has been cold towards me. Some of this I explained in my earlier question - not allowing me to say I love you or express my feelings to her etc. Also she as rejected me sexually for nearly 18 months. At the start she used ...
Is it bad for a Christian girl to masterbate?
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3 days ago
31 October 2009 (F)
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13-15 -
im a 15 year old qirl. i am christian. in i have several questions. is it bad for a christian qirl to mastrubate?is it bad for a girl to mastrubate? can you loose your virginity? please help...
Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?
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3 days ago
31 October 2009 (M)
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There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to ...
How do I get this happily married man to notice me?
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3 days ago
17 October 2009 (F)
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i like this guy,but he is married and happy.i see him once every fortnight at work.what shoul i do for he notice me,please?...
How do you socialize and make friends? I feel hopeless.
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3 days ago
16 October 2009 (M)
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22-25 -
I guess I don't understand - how do you socialize with people and make friends? It feels impossible. People don't want to be your friend, they've already got enough. They don't want to take a risk on you - you could be crazy or dangerous and they're ...
Am I gay (honest opinions only)?
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15 answers
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3 days ago
13 October 2009 (M)
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i'm a 27 year old and have been thinking bout men since i was 17. it started as a little bit here and there like one day think about men the next i think about women. i had a sense of guilt when i masturbate thinking bout men when i blow. at the age ...
I think I need a break to sort things out. What should I do?
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11 answers
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3 days ago
10 October 2009 (F)
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Just before my fifteenth birthday I was with this guy, who I fell in love with. But then he made some bad decisions and we went our seperate ways. Not even a month later, I got with this new guy who was nothing spectacular and I figured he'd just be ...
My boyfriend got a girl pregnant?
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8 answers
- newest was posted
3 days ago
10 October 2009 (F)
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18-21 -
Hello everyone, I am in desperate need of some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I am 20 and he is 22. I have to say he is my everything, I am deeply in love with him. Our relationship has always been a good one, except ...
Females only, please: I'm in love with my sister!
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14 answers
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3 days ago
15 September 2009 (F)
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18-21 -
Probably I'm gonna get flamed here but I'm just curious if there are people out there like me and my sister. Everything started out as kid play. We both loved our Barbies and dressed up as princesses. We made up these stories about being save...
Do men like older virgins?
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3 days ago
30 May 2009 (F)
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Men and Older Virgins? I know most men are into young women - especially if they are still chaste and virginal - but what do men think of older women who are still virgins? For example women in their 30s or even 40s as there are still some of us ab...
Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ?
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27 April 2009 (M) 
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I went to see this topic and i saw this answer on its site http://www.dearcupid.org/question/15-year-old-virgin.html Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ? Is what he said true ? ...
Got my mistress AND my wife pregnant. Now my wife is being difficult. Shall I leave her?
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14 April 2009 (M)
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Last month I asked a question about how I could get my wife to forgive me after I had an affair and the other women got pregnant. Thankfully she forgave me but now things seem to be getting worse rather then better. My wife told me that she too is ...
Opinions on women going braless
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3 days ago
24 March 2009 (F)
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Well I have been doing some research and I keep finding out that it has never been proven that bras help keep breast firm, or stop them from sagging. I've been thinking about this issue, and what bras mean in the bigger picture, and I just don't ...
Do I quit my marriage altogether? Confront him then quit? Help!!!
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10 answers
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3 days ago
8 March 2009 (F)
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22-25 -
I am a 24 year old, I have been married for just over 2 years and in a relationship with my husband for just over 7 years. We dated young and married young, but we were both experienced sexually with others. What I mean to say is that we weren’t ...
Having an affair...
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7 March 2009 (M)
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If you have an affair, and then she goes cold, is it guilt on her part of just trying to protect her feelings from becoming deep love that will force her to decide on quitting her relationship?...
I don't have any real close friends! It saddens me, what can I do to find some?
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3 days ago
25 November 2008 (F)
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I have no family and even though I know many many people and have many acquaintances - hundreds...I will not call any of them true friends. I feel so down about this all lately, there just seems to be a lack of nice, genuine kind people. Whenever ...
What was SO HOT while we were drunk wasn't the same when we were sober!
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8 answers
- newest was posted
4 days ago
3 November 2009 (F)
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So im 14, and he is 18. I met him at my friends party and we made-out that night. We talked every weekend after that and he always asked me if i wanted to chill and i would always be busy or he would but it would mostly be me. Then, on halloween i ...
Alcohol takes over me and I attack my husband... do I have a drink problem?
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4 days ago
3 November 2009 (F) 
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Please help guys...? I'm not sure what to do anymore. When I have far too much alcohol (which isn't often) I have attacked my husband (scratch and bite)(I'm sounding like a wild dog which I'm so ashamed of)...it's as if I have a blind rage and t...
Married! How do I get over this huge crush?
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4 days ago
31 October 2009 (M) 
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I met my wife 15 years ago. It started as one night thing that just got extended... I have later realized that I never had a change to have big crush on her first. We just started being together because it was convenient and we liked each other. ...
Pregnant and boyfriend not ready...have you experienced this and can you help me?
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4 days ago
23 October 2009 (F)
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I'm 23 and I just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend, 20- almost 21, is not ready to have a child... For the main reason that he doesn't want to disappoint everyone. His father is a pastor and his parents would be devastated. The people in the ...
Please help! I cannot stop watching porn!
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- newest was posted
4 days ago
25 September 2009 (F)
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hi my name is aly and i can't stop watching porn. i really can't! i just have such an urge to watch it because i masturbate to it. i feel so dirty and guilty after doing it, but yet i keep going back. any advice on how to stop? i am a christian a...
I need your advice bad!!! My boyfriend got another girl pregnant, what should I do?
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28 June 2009 (F)
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Alright, well this is going to be long, but here it goes. A couple of days ago my boyfriend confessed that he indeed cheated on me with a girl and that she is claiming now that she is pregnant with his baby. The girl he cheated on me with was with ...
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