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So, heres a whole bunch of stuff about me:

- I'm 23. Which scares me. I swear I was 17 yesterday!!

- My family are completely disfunctional and I wouldnt have it any other way.

- I work in a nursing home. Yep - bathing old people, taking them to the toilet and playing bingo all afternoon. Ok its not the most glamorous of jobs but i absolutely LOVE it and cant see myself ever doing anything else. I'd rather do a job which is a bit on the disgusting side but someone could not live without me doing for them than sit at a checkout all day saying "would you like a hand to pack?"

- I think I'm a little bit psychic. No really, stop laughing. Sometimes i just "get feelings" about things and then it happens. its weird.

- I fall in love very quickly. Not easily - I have a lot of boxes that need to be ticked before i'll want him, but if i meet someone special who does tick all those boxes, i'm in love in a matter of days.

- Relationships and the thought of being in love terrifies me right now.

- On 4 July 2007 I almost died - it wasnt my time. someone was looking out for me. Thank you.

- I have a big heart and it gets bruised easily.

- I can see things clearer when i'm not involved. situations seem very obvious to me when its happening to someone else, but when its me its a different matter. Basically, i should take my own advice sometimes.

- i love socks

- If all goes to plan, 2008 is gonna be a big one for me! Not much happened in 2007 really and I can only blame myself for not getting off my big fat butt and making stuff happen. So in 08 I'm planning to work in Zante, Greece for 6 months and also hoping to do Volunteer work in Ghana in November.

- i'd rather be told to F**k off than ignored

- I sing into my hairbrush and dance around in my underwear

- Someone on here (i forget who) recommended a book called The Secret to me. It completely changed my life.

- I hate drama. But i have so much drama. If it can happen to someone, it will almost certainly happen to me!

- I dont like being called pretty. Its not a compliment. Tell me i'm nice / important to you / did something that made you feel good or smile. I dont care if i got lucky in the DNA department or not, its not something i've done or achieved.

- Music is my life

- im a big big big believer in fate and destiny and i truly believe that EVERYTHING happens for a reason.

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Is there any way that you can make someone want you?

Q.   I know this may sound silly but ive seen it happen before and i jsut wondered if there was a chance, is there any way that you can make someone want you after they've said they dont. I know that does kinda answer itself as a big NO but theres so...

A.   8 September 2010: It depends on the circumstances, but I definitely think its possible. Not easy though. A lot of people let their emotions run away with them and rule their behaviour and thats when it gets messy. If you get dramatic or emotional, he wont be ... (read in full...)

I feel I'll never get over this lad...

Q.   hi everyone just a little question.. ive just broken up with my boyfriend and i know it is over between us but why is it i feel like i will never get over this lad and in the back of my mind i have this feeling we will get back together! even t...

A.   8 September 2010: You're right. You will get over him, like you got over others. Just keep busy, avoid him as much as you can and enjoy being single. Have you ever noticed that everytime you break up with someone, someone new always comes along and they're always ... (read in full...)

Fight? Or give up hope?

Q.   me and ex went out for 2 an half years we were both really in love but we let relationship get boring and she ended it. i have since went with other girls but they dont appeal the same its been 9 months should i fight for her even if she wont talk ...

A.   21 January 2009: I would give her a lot of space, if you were needy and clingy and thats why she wont talk to you i would say to give her a lot of room and distance, try your best to move on and KEEP BUSY so you're not thinking about her all the time. Maybe in the ... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend today called me a cling on.

Q.   Hi all, my ex boyfriend today called me a cling on, yes I still do like him but I'm no way like that, Anyway I rang him 2 confront him and I said comon then what do you really think of me, he said that I was annoying sometimes but I know that any...

A.   21 January 2009: To be honest it just sounds to me like he doesnt want the confrontation. Not that he feels like there's something he wants to say to you but doesnt know how to say it. Boys in general dont like arguing. Especially when a relationship is over. They ... (read in full...)

Sore breasts, is it because they are growing or a side effect to the birth control pills?

Q.   Okay, i'm 15 and i'm on Birth Control. My breast have been kinda painful to where i can't sleep on my stomach anymore and i wanna know is it because they're growing or becauuse im on the pill? Thanx for reading,any advice would help....

A.   28 June 2008: probably a bit of both. the pill effects oestrogen in your body, and a side effect of that can be that your breasts will become larger and more painful. At your age they will still be growing as well. If you are newly on the pill it can take a few ... (read in full...)

Are these signs of pregnancy? What else could they mean? I've tender breasts, stomachaches, backaches and vomit.

Q.   Think i could be pregnant all of a sudden throwing up tender breasts stomache and back aches dardnt go to the doctors or tell ANYONE il get called a slag at my school what else can it be? what can i do?any anwers appriciated!! x x xx xx xx ...

A.   6 June 2008: Congratulations! All the best for a healthy pregnancy and an easy delivery. xxx... (read in full...)

He bled into me. Is this dangerous?

Q.   Me and my partner last night had sex. I was on top and becouse we are both new to sex, lets just say 'things up my end were tight' wich caused his penis to cut and bleed. He was in a lot of pain but we didnt realise he was bleeding so we continued. ...

A.   29 May 2008: It can be dangerous if the blood was coming from him. You say you are inexperienced but dont say if it was your first time, it is possible your hymen broke and some of the blood was coming from you but regardless, his penis was bleeding while he was ... (read in full...)

I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?

Q.   Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is t...

A.   29 May 2008: I totally agree with Dr Pete. I think you have to be honest about it. Yep you're gonna get in a lot of trouble but you knew that would happen when you had sex with your wifes sister and best friend. The point is there is an innocent little b... (read in full...)

I am having terrible dreams about my dead parent, that taint my memory of him. How can I stop them?

Q.   3 years ago my father died. Ever since then, every so often i have horrific dreams about him. They started about a year after he died. In these dreams, he's always trying to hurt me. In one he chased after me and beat me up until i could barely m...

A.   18 May 2008: If you want to see a counsellor you can see one on the NHS. You will have to ask your GP to refer you but it will be free of charge. I definitely think its worth trying because its obviously really distressing and upsetting to have dreams like this ... (read in full...)

I tested positive in my pregnancy test then had a preiod two days later-Am I or am I not pregnant?

Q.   Hey im Sue, im 20 years old and married...we've been married for almost 6 months now and fimally decided we want to have a baby...soo we've been trying i did the clear blue pregnancy test and gave me a postive...i got all excited 2 days later i ...

A.   17 May 2008: I would make an appointment with your doctor. It could be that the test was wrong (although it is very uncommon for a test to detect the pregnancy hormone if it is not present, usually if a pregnancy test is wrong its because its missed the hormone ... (read in full...)

Is 17 too young to know you have found "the one"?

Q.   Ok I know what everyone is going to say when I ask this question but is 17 to young to find the one? Me and my boyfreind are very matture then most other couple and so happy, everyday just keeps getting better with him , so what im asking is can it ...

A.   12 May 2008: Its definitely possible, not very common at all but it is possible. Nobody can tell you if you are in love or not, only you know how you feel about him but it is very individual. The problem is that at 17 you havent really come into your own ... (read in full...)

I am very pale and want a new foundation, so my boyfriend can notice how nice my make up is... any ideas?

Q.   Im not sure if this is the place for this question.... It starts off a bit weird but then i explain myself. I am very pale and want a new foundation. I can't find one anywhere, that dosnt have an orange tint. i dont want to look gothicy i just w...

A.   12 May 2008: Nicola Roberts from Girls Aloud is your new best friend. She had the same problem - could NOT find a foundation light enough for her ivory skin. So she has brought out her own range and it is massive. You'll definitely find the perfect colour in ... (read in full...)

We flirted then wanted to meet, but we got waylaid, now she's got someone else, should I keep trying?

Q.   A while ago I met this guy on an online community. We became close friends and eventually even more. It was then that I decided it would be best to let him know I was actually a girl, with a male avatar (kind of a role playing community). He ...

A.   12 May 2008: I agree with jitter cakes. This is really complicated and it sounds like a messy one. Anyway if shes moved on completely you dont have a choice, you need to just stay well away from her and respect the fact that she is happy and with someone else. ... (read in full...)

I feel really great about myself...except for my body. I'm so upset, how can I cope?

Q.   I'm glad to say I've been improving my self esteem. As a result, I'm less jealous of other girls, and less envious (baout their personalities, or how well they do in school, their talents, things like that). I feel better, as I know I'm worth a lot, ...

A.   11 May 2008: The girls you are seeing in the media arent real. They are photoshopped and airbrushed beyond recognition. Don't know if you are from the UK but if you know of Keeley Hazell (glamour model, major MAJOR favourite with mens magazines and tabloids) I ... (read in full...)

My date for the prom...do I greet her with flowers, a rose or what?

Q.   I'm taking girl to prom. I'll be meeting her there because she's arriving with friends. Do I bring flowers? A Rose? Please explain in much detail. Thank you....

A.   9 May 2008: aww i would bring her a rose. It doesnt matter that you're meeting her there, but you dont want to give her a big massive bunch of flowers that shes gonna have to carry around all night. A single rose is a nice touch though. Have fun! Brooke ... (read in full...)

Gaining this much has me scared to eat, because I look so fat.

Q.   Okay, well this is kind of a personal question, but i think i'm about to start my period (this isn't my first time) but i have never gained weight like this before, and like i used to have an eating disorder, and it looks like i gained like 10lbs. ...

A.   7 May 2008: hey, Its totally normal. Girls can gain anything from 3 - 8lbs. Its water retention. I bet you've noticed your boobs look a bit bigger recently too. It happens to everyone, when you start your period your weight will return to normal so dont wor... (read in full...)

How should I ask a girl out..at night when the stars are out to make it romantic or what? .

Q.   Hi people, i just wanted to ask, how should i ask a girl out? Should it be during the day, at night when the stars are out to make it romantic or what? Should i ask out by a note or get a friend to ask her? Please help, i'll appreciate it very muc...

A.   7 May 2008: To be honest, it doesnt make much difference. If she likes you she'll want to go out with you, if she doesnt then no amount of stars are gonna change her mind. In saying that dont ask her in front of all of her friends or a lot of people and ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   7 May 2008: And what makes me think I am right and others are wrong? The fact that someone said they wish she had posted here before going to the police because he could have told her not to as the police would not do anything. I know for a FACT that is wrong... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   7 May 2008: I dont know the posters motives, but I fully believe that it was to protect her niece and to seek justice for herself. My mothers on motives for pressing charges against her uncle were very similar. And you are right, in this country we WILL pro... (read in full...)

They say, visit a doctor, but I really can't tell my mum! What do you suggest?

Q.   Help me! I know discharge is normal but I get SO MUCH. I'm not sure if it's right. I have to put loo roll in my knickers all the time its awful. When i wake up, and then stand up, its realy heavy, as if its been 'collecting' overnight. I hate it b...

A.   5 May 2008: I think its just normal for you. I mean if there is no itchiness/smell from it its unlikely to be an infection and if its varying depending on the time of the month it sounds like what we all get, but just a little bit heavier. Its probably a ... (read in full...)

They say, visit a doctor, but I really can't tell my mum! What do you suggest?

Q.   Help me! I know discharge is normal but I get SO MUCH. I'm not sure if it's right. I have to put loo roll in my knickers all the time its awful. When i wake up, and then stand up, its realy heavy, as if its been 'collecting' overnight. I hate it b...

A.   5 May 2008: If you really don't want to tell your mum, uou can visit a doctor without telling her, just call up to make an appointment (if there is more than one doctor working at your surgery ask for a female doctor if that would make you more comfortable). ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   5 May 2008: But the point is, she did not know how the case would go therefor she was right to press charges and not just take the law into her own hands. Because he COULD have been tried and found guilty. She knew he commited a crime and she reported it. That ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   5 May 2008: And Laura, I'm not being funny but I dont think you are really grasping this at all. What does the age of consent have to do with any of this? We already know she was well under the age of consent and that he was well above the age of criminal ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   5 May 2008: You said yourself in your first post on this topic that you do not know how the law works in the UK. There have been plenty of high profile and not so high profile cases where victims of sexual abuse have filed reports as adults and the case has ... (read in full...)

I have a small ball underneath the skin on my vagina, what is it?

Q.   i have a small ball underneath my skin on the side of my vagina like were the panyline goes and it feels like a hard ball underneath the skin but if i irritate it pus comes out.. what is it and how can i make it go away...

A.   5 May 2008: See your doctor. It could be anything from a cyst to an ingrown hair to an std and about a million things in between but if there is pus coming out of it theres some kind of infection going on and its not just one of those normal lumps and bumps ... (read in full...)

What is the strangest place to have sex?

Q.   Sorry for all the questions on here but I enjoy hearing everyone's comments on things, it makes you look at everything so much differently. The world is so diverse it is amazing. But as for my question. Where is the wierdest place any of you...

A.   5 May 2008: I've done that JustGirl, in Zante, they have the most amazing beaches ever there but it seriously doesnt live up to the fantasy lol. Beaches are cold at night and sand drives you crazy and its just one of those things thats better kept a fantasy me ... (read in full...)

What is the strangest place to have sex?

Q.   Sorry for all the questions on here but I enjoy hearing everyone's comments on things, it makes you look at everything so much differently. The world is so diverse it is amazing. But as for my question. Where is the wierdest place any of you...

A.   5 May 2008: Mine is probably in the changing rooms at Topshop but thats not tooooo crazy lol. I did some stuff on a night flight to Vancouver after everyone was asleep, just hidden by the blanket but I dont think thats anything too far out there either cos they ... (read in full...)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

Q.   Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

A.   5 May 2008: Read your own question back, it doesnt make sense. What people are telling you is that how can you be the most popular girl in your class if people are all talking about you behind your back? If people are all saying you are stuck up then they obv... (read in full...)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

Q.   Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

A.   5 May 2008: yawn.... (read in full...)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

Q.   Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

A.   4 May 2008: I happen to think i'm not bad to look at and both of my parents are surgeons. We're not exactly broke. But if I was to walk around claiming to be the most popular person in my class (even though every bitches about me behind my back) and that all ... (read in full...)

I want to be a Model not a Doctor!!

Q.   hey everyone i am 19 years old..and i am doing medicine(mbbs)in the first year of school..recently i have lost all my interest in studies and dont want to pursue what i am doin..cause now all my attention is into modelling..i did a few shows and i ...

A.   4 May 2008: Hey, I'm basically just gonna repeat what was said to you in the last post you made about this. Look at online portfolios of successful models and find out who their agency is, then contact that agency and find out when their open casting days are... (read in full...)

How do I get this older, annoying, married guy to leave me alone?

Q.   ok, so theres this guy that i think likes me and i dont know what to do about it because i want him to leave me alone. at first when he would talk to me i thought he was just being nice. but now hes always calling me names like "baby" and saying how ...

A.   4 May 2008: I think you should tell your parents. He's old enough to be your father and a 40 year old man making advances on a 16-17 year old is all kinds of wrong. He's crossed a serious line by trying to kiss you and I dont think you should have to deal with ... (read in full...)

Is it an offence to send text threatening to tell everyone she was sexually abused?

Q.   One of my best friends, just 17, split with her boyfriend of the same age after he cheated on her almost a year ago, and has hardly spoken to him since, hasn't done ANYTHING to upset him, at the break-up or after, and he hadn't tried to iteract with ...

A.   4 May 2008: Its technically not a crime to go spilling secrets someone told you but there may be a loophole or a grey area in the law you could work to your advantage. There is something called "public disclosure of private facts" which may be worth looking ... (read in full...)

I think I am picking up her rich habits. Am I changing? What should I do?

Q.   well to begin with i am a hard working teenager,because of my excellent grades i got into this prestigious university meant only for rich kids..when i first came to class i felt really lonely because i wasnt like any of the rich kids..but later on i ...

A.   4 May 2008: You need to be a bit stronger. If you want to continue being friends with this girl but dont want to do some of the things she does, then dont do them. You have your own mind and make your own decisions. Most importantly, make sure your school w... (read in full...)

I really want him back even though he was violent. What do I do?

Q.   Last night me and my boyfriend had an arguement, which caused him to get angry at me, he used violence against me and as a result im bruised, he told me he doesnt want a relationship and maybe in a few years time me and him will get back with me ...

A.   4 May 2008: He's done you a favour. Seriously you dont want a guy like that. When a man turns violent and starts hitting his girlfriend, if you let him get away with it he will almost certainly do it again. Maybe not tomorrow or next week but he would. And you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is going away for 4 months. Should we break up?

Q.   Hello! I'm a 19 year old girl at university, just finishing my second year out of three, and have been with my lovely boyfriend for over a year. He lives in my home town so we're kind of long distance but obviously I spend all my breaks from ...

A.   4 May 2008: If you couldnt cope with it, don't do it. 4 months really isnt as long as it feels to you right now. It will fly by and if you really do love each other then he wont even want to hook up with other girls while he's travelling. I dated a guy who took ... (read in full...)

All tests were negative...so then why have I not had a period in nearly 3 months?

Q.   Ok. I haven't gotten my period in 2mths. It will be three on may 17. Now here is the weird part. I have taken 5 at home pregnancy test and 1 blood pregnancy test 2 weeks ago. All were negative. Can I be pregnant or what's going on with me?...

A.   4 May 2008: it could be a lot of things, you really need to see your doctor though because nobody here will be able to diagnose it. Good luck! Brooke x... (read in full...)

I feel I look awful without any make-up on and makes me feel too self-conscious about spending the night with guys!

Q.   Hi, I have never been lucky in love but recently I met someone really nice.We have been on dates. The problem is that i feel i look awful without any make-up on. He thinks i look really beautiful but i feel when he sees the real me he will run ...

A.   4 May 2008: I suspect you're going to get a lot of replies all saying this but if hes that bothered how you look without makeup hes not really worth having. Dont worry about it, I'm sure you look a lot better than you think and most men really do prefer to see ... (read in full...)

Where can I hide my "toy" from Mum?

Q.   Hello, I am trying to find a place to put my vibrator.do u know where the most unlikley Place that my Mom whould find it? Post thanks...

A.   4 May 2008: oh and a word of advice - take the batteries out of it when you're not using it. God has a sense of humour and I know a few people who have had the gross misfortune of a vibrator springing to life all by itself in a drawer when they have a room full ... (read in full...)

Where can I hide my "toy" from Mum?

Q.   Hello, I am trying to find a place to put my vibrator.do u know where the most unlikley Place that my Mom whould find it? Post thanks...

A.   4 May 2008: This is a tough one hey? lol When I lived at home I had frequent dreams about my dad finding mine - not nice! I used to keep it under the mattress then one day, I have no idea why but I decided to move it to the top of my wardrobe. I got home from ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   4 May 2008: Nothing needs to be proved to you. Everything that needs to be proved is proved to Andrew. Not you. Your logic is wrong. You claim that she should not have reported it because the police would not be able to do anything so far down the line. Wh... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: You're disappointed by our behaviour? Who the hell died and made you king of all dear cupid? Thats obviously the attitude you have since you sent me a pm requesting that i forward YOU the pm's that paedophile sent me. What has it to do with you and ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: and for the benefit of anyone reading this in a similar situation, my mother was sexually abused as a child. She reported the crime when she was 46. He was found guilty and is still in prison. pm me if you want links to the local media reports. Its ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: I would say to you, poster, forgive him in the sense of "Im not going to let this animal effect my life anymore, i'm going to get past it and move on and not have hatred in my life" because it will be better for you. Do not forgive what he did i... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: you are an idiot.... (read in full...)

All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!

Q.   Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...

A.   3 May 2008: I'm sorry but what planet are you on? You're the most popular girl in class but all your classmates talk about you behind your back and they all think you are stuck up? You're not very popular at all then are you! And maybe part of the problem ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   3 May 2008: "She should not have reported it to the police because she would only ruin his brother's name, bring shame to the family and destroyed her relationship with her family." Actually Laura I think you'll find HE ruined his own name, HE ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: Excuse me LonelyTwo but if you'd seen the PMs he has sent me you would not think that. so maybe its YOU jumping to conclusions? And when someone has OBVIOUSLY suffered abuse (or what would be the point to the post?) and comes on here looking ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: I apologise to the poster for the "help" you are getting from one of our "aunts". All I can really say is there is only one type of person in the world who would ever defend a paedophile. And that is a paedophile.... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: Can someone delete or edit what solver wrote? I can only assume he has been in a similar situation where HE was the abuser. But either way his post was cruel and an embarrassment to the site.... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   30 April 2008: I can see it from all angles. I think you were absolutely right to press charges against your brother and I cant stress that enough but I can see why it is hard for your parents too. He is their son and he has their grandchildren. That is difficult ... (read in full...)

Are these signs of pregnancy? What else could they mean? I've tender breasts, stomachaches, backaches and vomit.

Q.   Think i could be pregnant all of a sudden throwing up tender breasts stomache and back aches dardnt go to the doctors or tell ANYONE il get called a slag at my school what else can it be? what can i do?any anwers appriciated!! x x xx xx xx ...

A.   15 December 2007: im on the pill too and like you, i sometimes forget to take it, which is hella bad cos they tell you to take one a day for a reason - they dont tell you to take one every few days or one when you feel like it. so yeah its very possible you're ... (read in full...)

Are these signs of pregnancy? What else could they mean? I've tender breasts, stomachaches, backaches and vomit.

Q.   Think i could be pregnant all of a sudden throwing up tender breasts stomache and back aches dardnt go to the doctors or tell ANYONE il get called a slag at my school what else can it be? what can i do?any anwers appriciated!! x x xx xx xx ...

A.   15 December 2007: theres no way to know for definite unless you do a test. it could be that you're pregnant, it could be that you are about to have your period. you dont say if your period is late or if you have missed any so unless you do a test, its hard to say ... (read in full...)

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