Creepy friend keeps asking for hugs
Q. So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the ...
A. 20 November 2009: Well the main reason he will keep asking for them is because you keep saying yes.
You need to start saying "No, stop pestering me!"
Let him know it is pissing you off.
To be honest he does sound like a bit of a perv. What is the rest of your... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me, but hasn't turned in the key! Why?
Q. My boyfriend moved out without warning. He was a horrible communicator. His name is on the lease and he said that he would give me the key when the lease is up. Why keep the key?...
A. 18 November 2009: Maybe he doesn't trust you not to turn all the taps on and leave town?
In any case, tell him that as a woman you have far more to worry about than he does and change the locks.
Why risk him being a weirdo about things?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do teachers (especially in the UK) deal with student crushes?
Q. How do teachers deal with student crushes? In the UK if a teacher found out a student has a crush on her/him, do they reported immediately or do something maybe tell other teachers about it? etc or do they just keep it to themselvves?? Just wo...
A. 16 November 2009: Right this is the 4th time I've seen you ask this question.
I'm not exactly sure what you are hoping to hear but I think you need to think about what you've already been told.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I have to see her every day and know I'll probably never have her and it's driving me nuts. Help!
Q. I have a crush on a girl at work, dont speak to her much but I know she's dating online. We went out the other day (as friends/colleagues) and spoke for hours about lots of stuff, I hoped to find her irritating but she's wonderful - attractive, ...
A. 15 November 2009: So explain again what is stopping you asking her out for beer and burger one night after work, having a great time and seeing what happens??
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I don't want to come across as desperate so don't want to ring or text him but I would like to see him again.
Q. I met this guy. We talk but things aint going the way I wish it could.. he doesnt ring much..(sometimes every day other times he goes for days without calling) he wanted to see me last week and I told him due to college and all that stress I can ...
A. 15 November 2009: Just find an excuse and ring him.
As long as you have a "reason" to call then you aren't going to look mad.
Tell him you just saw a film trailer and really want to see it and does he fancy meeting up this week.
Just chill out and relax. Pho... (read in full...)
Any teachers out there??? How do teachers deal with student crushes?
Q. How/what do teachers deal/do with student crushes? For example: if a student had a crush on you, what would you do? and how would you know?...
A. 15 November 2009: Each school has its own policy.
In general in the UK, I would say they would ignore it for as long as possible. And if they say / do anything then they would report it to the head master / head of department.
I have heard of cases here on de... (read in full...)
The blame game!
Q. You know I am not a perfect person(who is?) But man don't stuff like this just make you mad? My husband and I had our car break down. Now I am not the greatest when it comes to fixing stuff like that but I gave it a good try the night before. My car ...
A. 15 November 2009: It's not a question of "Why Do Men...?"
Why are you giving him an excuse saying he did it because he's a man?
He was in a bad mood and acted like a dick.
Maybe his blood sugar was down, maybe he was stressed out by a bad dream.
You can as... (read in full...)
Falling for a marrried man?
Q. One day before school, I went to Starbucks where I met his guy. There wasn't really anywhere else to sit, so I sat down at his table. We ended talking and really getting along. He almost immediately told me he's married. I asked whether he was ...
A. 15 November 2009: It feels wrong because you know deep down it is.
Cut contact now and sit with some new none-married guys in coffee shops.
It's great that you met someone and felt a connection but it's not going to be the only time you feel this by any mean... (read in full...)
Should I call him again? Or is this his way of saying "get lost?"
Q. I've been getting to know this guy through email recently. Emails were going well and we seemed to have clicked, alot of interests same but some differences. Swapped photos and attracted to one another so all good. We had an issue about a topic on...
A. 15 November 2009: He wanted a girlfriend who would do what he wanted. Since you dared to want a man who would love you for who you actually are... he's gone off in a huff.
You had a lucky escape hun.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why won't admit he hasn't time for me?
Q. I need help! I met a guy online about 4 months ago. We met up and he seemed really keen. We met up a couple more times usually on a Friday night or a Saturday night. We have never been out on a date and apart from texting each other everyday...
A. 15 November 2009: Why are you putting up with this??? Do you seriously think that this guy is the best you can do?
Text him now and tell him you want to meet up in the next 7 days and he has to get back to you by Friday at the latest with a time and place to meet.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't have time for me
Q. Hi guys :) Feeling pretty low right now and would appreciate any advice :) I've been with my boyfriend a few months now and I met him last night so that I could meet some of his friends and people he works with. I had a bit of an argument with ...
A. 15 November 2009: Well you know where you stand, you just have to either put up with it or move on.
As perfect as he may be, if he never sees you and gets stressed by work then is he really the boyfriend you want?
This is not going to be the last guy you eve... (read in full...)
How do I silence my squelching fanny?
Q. when i am having sex with my bf my fanny makes a squelching noise. how can i stop this? help...
A. 15 November 2009: Sex is a messy noisy hairy business.
You are shoving one organ into one that has created slime to protect itself. There is going to be noise.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Can anyone recommend a good contraceptive pill?
Q. I need some female advice, I am 27 (virgin) and currently not on the pill, I have been seeing this guy and we want to take things further, I have never really wanted to go on the pill because I think it messes with the female body, but I also don't ...
A. 15 November 2009: Right, asking for a "good pill" with no side effects is like asking us to recommend a "good clothing size" that will fit you perfectly.
Unless we come and prod you in some very personal places we cannot say for definite "This Pill Will Be Best For... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm ready to settle down yet
Q. I’m 21 and my boyfriend is 24, we met online and have been together for about 4 months now... He’s my first real relationship; all my other experiences have been disastrous one offs and this is the first time I’ve actually been on actual dates wit...
A. 21 October 2009: All the answers so far are being a bit over zealous.
Personally I think you just need to chill out a bit.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how happy you are with him, and that you love the way things are between you... But tell him you are... (read in full...)
Do short women really make better lovers?
Q. Just curious to know why so many men say short women are better lovers than taller women. I read several different forums, and sure enough, it came up over and over again. Problem was, no one elaborated on what made sex better with petite women. ...
A. 17 October 2009: What forums are you on?????? If you put "short women are better in bed" then of course you are going to fine loads of stuff. If you put "Sheep are better in bed" then you'll find loads of stuff too. Doesn't mean you should start saying Baa... (read in full...)
Is it possible to build a future together when we have conflicting goals?
Q. Hi everybody, I am new to this site but I registered as I have a major issue and I do not know who else to turn to - I don't feel that I can discuss it with any of my family or friends as I live in a close-knit community and I do not think I can ...
A. 15 October 2009: This is crap and I absolutely sympathise. I was very lucky in finding a man who was happy to be an uncle but not a dad, as I feel the same as you.
The short answer is that you need to end things.
If he is 30, then short of marrying a much ... (read in full...)
Fatten and Feed, Diet and Humiliate. Where can I find a woman like this?
Q. Hi all well i have a bit of a fetish/fantacy but find it difficult to meet women as it is a little unusual, Well hear goes, i'm fat very fat and would like to meet a female that would help me get fatter but humiliate at the same time, for exampl...
A. 15 October 2009: Gumtree.com is full of weird fetishes.
People advertise for all kinds of things on there.
Bear in mind that this woman will dial 999 and run when you have a heart attack / go into a diabetic coma. Or just run and leave you to die.
Do this ... (read in full...)
When is my next period due?
Q. wondering if someone can help tell me when i am due on my period and how long my cycle is. also, what a cycle is, is it the day you come on your period to the next time you come on? right so, i came on on september 13th and came off on the 18th sep...
A. 15 October 2009: Take a pregnancy test then!!!
Go to the doctor if you are worried!
I get the feeling you are much much younger than it says here. Talk to your mum and go to the family planning clinic.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I tell my family I wan't to be a woman?
Q. Hey, im an 18year old male, and i want to turn into a woman, im just scared of what my family will say and will they disown me thats what im scared about, im always wearing ladies clothes like thongs and bras when family are out, but when they are ...
A. 15 October 2009: This kind of thing is VERY VERY hard for parents to understand.
Every parent wants their kid to grow up and be normal and produce grandchildren with a nice girl.
Be honest, you would want the same for your son too. So if you tell them this, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't take me to homecoming and will break up with me if I go. Is he bluffing?
Q. my boyfriend is a senior and im a sophomore, hes 18 im 16. homecoming is on friday and he wont take me. he says he doesnt wana go so i said i was jus gona go and he said we will break up if i go without him.. i asked why and he said "because its a ...
A. 15 October 2009: Why would you let some boy control you like this?
The number one rule a girl must learn when she starts dating is that you NEVER let a boy tell you what to do.
If he does then he's NO GOOD.
Go to the dance and if he gets annoyed then it pro... (read in full...)
Is it possible for Mr./Mrs. Right to not be into you?
Q. Quick question. Do you think that the person who you love and who doesn't love you back is simply not right for you? Or is it possible to know Mr. or Mrs. Right, the only issue is that he or she is just not that into you? Thanks....
A. 15 October 2009: You're trying to justify pursuing someone who isn't interested. I'm guessing all your friends are telling you to get over them and you don't want to.
It can feel good to be that romantic victim, who will die waiting like a poem. Plus, you are scar... (read in full...)
What do my horrible, recurring nightmares mean?
Q. i keep having reoccuring horrific nitemares. it`s so realstic. i prepare for bed and once i fall asleep in my dream a figure enters my room in the dark pins me down then rapes me. i scream and it feels so real. when i wake up it`s in fright. what ...
A. 15 October 2009: It could be your blankets / duvet is too heavy. If it's pinning you down in real life then it's going to impact your dreams.
Either that or you are just lacking a bit of self confidence in your abilities to defend yourself.
Take up judo,... (read in full...)
Do guys think virgins are a total turn off?
Q. ok, so do guys think virgins are a total turn off? im asking this because i am one and every guy i end up telling this to gets really uncomfortable even though they are the ones that asked. and then of course they run when i tell them i dont believe ...
A. 15 October 2009: Guys want sex, and many guys nowadays want sex as part of a loving relationship that they know probably won't lead to marriage.
You are asking a guy to chose up front whether he has any intention of marrying you, and then to be sex free until th... (read in full...)
What if I refuse to divorce?
Q. here is a dumb question. I still love my wife and i know she still loves me but she has alot of pride. I want to save our marige but i dont know how. Ive tried convincing her to go to counsling with me but she refuses. What would happen if i ...
A. 15 October 2009: I don't think any judge in 2009 is going to force a woman to stay married to you if she has a decent reason to want out.
If you hit her or cheated on her then you are stuffed I'm afraid.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do casual relationships ever turn into anything more?
Q. Has anyone ever had a casual dating relationship (seeing each other casually like maybe for a year) before turning into a real, committed relationship? Or have casual things always ended up as nothing more than that?...
A. 15 October 2009: There will always be an example of a guy who woke up one morning, and decided he wanted to get married. But people also win the lottery.
The chances of that happening are next to zero.
Guys are all very old fashioned about sex. If you have sex ... (read in full...)
Does my step-brother like me?
Q. My stepbrother is always touching my butt and asking me for sexual favors does he like mi?And i think he is sending mi mixed messages and its creeping mi out!!!! I need answers....
A. 15 October 2009: This is a common mistake to make for girls your age.
You think that by touching you he must "like you" and want to be your boyfriend.
It doesn't work like that. If he liked you, he'd treat you with respect and want to spend time with you.
... (read in full...)
Should I stay unsatisfied for my marriage?
Q. every time we have sex I stay unsatisfied. I rather for him to make it quick just to get it over with. There is a time when its good but that's only when I can engage him to make it "rough" but he doesn't like to. What can I do cuz its really ...
A. 15 October 2009: Well if you are married then why can't you talk to him about it?
Communication is the absolute key to being married and happy, so you need to TELL him what you like and the two of you can experiment to see what works.
A good tip is to make s... (read in full...)
It's getting harder and harder to trust her! Is she cheating?
Q. My girlfriend is acting suspicious, is she cheating on me? She tells me she is going to sleep at around 11 or 12 and we hang up, but when i log-in to facebook or myspace it says she is online. I have never said anything about this. But when we hang ...
A. 14 October 2009: So your evidence for cheating is that she's on the internet and she doesn't answer her phone when you think she should?
Well I find it quite hard to chat on facebook while having sex, so I don't quite get your logic.
As for answering her ph... (read in full...)
The Doctor thought I could be pregnant, but the test came back negative. The symptoms are still here - what's going on?
Q. Hey all, A few weeks ago I went to my doctor because I was having pain in my right nipple. He told me I had a blocked nipple duct and gave me some antibiotics so I went on holiday and forgot about it. The blocked duct was fairly erect at...
A. 14 October 2009: Well if you came off the pill then that's going to give you crazy symptoms.
Go back to the doctor again and ask him to do a blood test to confirm pregnancy or not. Ask him what else it could be.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I thought my ex and I were working things out, but he's disappeared again.
Q. I thought my ex and I were working things out. we were each other's first love, me at 23, and he at 25. We were together for a year, and then on and off for about another year, and then finally it didn't work and moved away from each other, b...
A. 14 October 2009: It sounds like he is one of these guys who is crap at communicating.
You either accept that being with him means you constantly don't know where you stand... or you tell him it's not good enough and you CUT CONTACT.
Things clearly haven't ... (read in full...)
I get the feeling there is something wrong, but my girlfriend won't talk to me about it!
Q. hey guys me and my gf are having a little problem and its a bit stupid..==" neway today we were talking on msn and then suddenly she started to sound really sad and depressed so i asked if she was and she said yes and then i asked wats wrong and s...
A. 14 October 2009: Tell her not to manipulate you and not to act pissed off if she is not prepared to talk like an adult about it.
Girls (and men) can do this to make you feel awful and then you beg for forgiveness when you don't even know what you did.
If she ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing with my ex, and was I reasonable with what I said?
Q. Why are men misleading about their feelings? I ask this cos two weeks ago I got close to my ex and all of a sudden he says he's seeing someone else. He said he couldn't do relationships and planned to be celibate. But I didn't believe him as th...
A. 14 October 2009: Yep, getting rid of users like this is the only way to move on and be happy.
So forget this and move on.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm scared of the one I've fallen in love with and I hate it...
Q. My boyfriend was extremely emotionally abusive (and occasionally physically abusive) for about 18 months. We both want to be together and he has been trying very hard to work through his personal trust and esteem issues that he blames for his ...
A. 14 October 2009: I think you need to get hold of some domestic violence leaflets and information.
You ask if your standards are too high. Are you serious??
Why do you think there are massive government sponsored programmes out there telling women like you t... (read in full...)
I'm in love but I'm scared to tell her! Advice please
Q. Im in love with my girlfriend ive been with for 2 months. I have recently had fallen in love with her but im scared to tell her. We already had sexual relationship but besides that its been going perfect. We enjoy each and we miss and think about ...
A. 14 October 2009: It's always a gamble saying it for the first time, but to be honest, she'll probably be over the moon if you say it.
I say go for it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I tell if she likes me? She has shot me down in the past!
Q. How do i tell if a flirty girl likes me. She touches me and goes out of her way to find me often and when she hugs me she does it longer then with others. She has hesitently shot me down before. ...
A. 14 October 2009: Ask her how she feels.
Tell her that you notice how she acts and you don't want to get hurt.
Ask her if she likes you as more than a friend, and if not then tell her to back off.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Could I have lost my virginity whilst dry humping?
Q. ok so i'm a virgin but i'm just wondering... me n my ex were dry humping and i was wearing really thin pj pants and his pants were undone so it was just his boxers.... well it felt really good but i could kinda feel this pressure/ pain like he had ...
A. 14 October 2009: Virginity is a bit more flexible nowadays.
It's not like a guy is going to want to check for blood on the sheets on your wedding night.
If you didn't have sex then you are still a virgin.
If you want to stay a virgin then having a guy on top... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my bestfriend....should I tell him?
Q. Hey guys, I'm in love with one if my best friends. It started last year: I had a crush on him ever since I got to know him. That crush slowly turned into to liking him a lot and wanting to date him. Then I realized that I loved him. Everything ab...
A. 14 October 2009: Ask hi what he meant when he said he said he loved you, and tell him you would be ok with seeing how things went if he wanted to start dating.
It's not good to sit in silence and suffer. If he says you have no chance then you can take a bit of t... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to rectify the broken rifts in my family and help them to be proud of me?
Q. I'm sitting here right now in tears, needing someone's advice on my life. I'm wondering, have any of you ever felt like you've lost your way in life? That there was a path you should've chosen, but instead went way off into the dirt roads into ...
A. 14 October 2009: What you do is simple:
Get a job, get some cash, move out.
Just because they are your family doesn't mean you have to be in their lives.
You'll be far happier without them. Not all parents are the lovely caring supportive types. There ... (read in full...)
Do I need to take the morning after pill?
Q. ive had unprotected sex 5 days after i finished my period can i get pregnant and do i need the morning after pill or will i be ok?...
A. 14 October 2009: If in doubt, ALWAYS get the morning after pill.
It's free from the GP so why take the risk?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What do you consider the upper limit in physical contact with friends? I'm worried I might be too affectionate and lead people on!
Q. Hi there Aunts! So this question definitely won't have just ONE answer, I'm interested in people's views. I would say that I can be a pretty affectionate person with friends I know well, and most of my friends are guys. I don't flirt with them ...
A. 14 October 2009: Yep you are flirting like hell.
Just because you use physical contact to flirt rather than words doesn't change it.
I' a flirty girl and I have got myself into lots of trouble like this.
Boys are STUPID. If you hug them too long, put your ... (read in full...)
When is my next period due?
Q. wondering if someone can help tell me when i am due on my period and how long my cycle is. also, what a cycle is, is it the day you come on your period to the next time you come on? right so, i came on on september 13th and came off on the 18th sep...
A. 11 October 2009: 28 days on from the 13th of September is today!
So you should be due on in the next few days if you are normally regular.
If you haven't come on by next weekend then buy a pregnancy test.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
When is my next period due?
Q. wondering if someone can help tell me when i am due on my period and how long my cycle is. also, what a cycle is, is it the day you come on your period to the next time you come on? right so, i came on on september 13th and came off on the 18th sep...
A. 10 October 2009: Go from the first day you came on, count forward 4 weeks and that is when you are next due.
The AVERAGE cycle for a woman is 28 days but every one is different so you could be longer or shorter than that. It can also be a little different every mo... (read in full...)
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