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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He tells me to call but he never picks up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - hello everyone,i went on a date with a guy that i really like and we had a great time.He said he had a ball.We talked on a regular basis for two weeks and then he jus stopped so i waited a couple days and called him we talkin until the morning he ...

Will my gf be put off by my problem I think I'm not what she thought I was

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - hi. Ive been with my gf for about 3 months. ive known her for years and shes always really fancied me. Iv always suffered with acne and i dont go out when i get a bad flare up. Most people dont realise i have bad acne because i dont go out when...

How do I be romantic in a quiet way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - me and my female friend admitted we liked each other a month ago but we didn't do anything after wards nor have we talked about it. now things have gone back to normal whenever we are alone it gets a bit awkward as in we have nothing to say. I want ...

Will he consider me again if things don't work out with his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hello. I dated a man 3 years ago. We dated for right at 2 years. We went through the whole break-up, get together thing for about the last 4 months. I met him at a football game. I went down and got his number, we talked on the phone every single ...

Does this mean it's a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - This started about a month ago. (It's a long story) I just see him in my art lecture I started my second year at college. There is a new lad that I like. Every girl in the college like him. They are all clingy to him and always around him. I am ...

Is it me or am I right to think he is lying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - hi maybe i am thinking to much of this one so i would be grateful for any outside views. my boyfriend cheated on me two years ago, it ended once i found out, he is flirty by nature but i knew that when i first met him. he doesnt really have clo...

I don't want to causing cheating, but I'm still in love with my best friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have known my best friend for 2 years now, starting freshmen year of college. He is now my roommate. We hung out every day, have many inside jokes, nicknames, and we used to say I love you. We never really went out because we had communication ...

I am an overweight shy guy and love a girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - I am an overweight shy guy and love a girl. What should I do to impress her or make her my girlfriend? I wonder how would she love me as I am fat and get nervous when she comes in front of me? Plz tell what should I do? I will be very thankful to ...

Is my boss looking for action or just playing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I work in a place that as long as customers aren't around we don't act very professional. One of my managers seems to have taken a fancy for me. He talks alot to me, bumps into me alot or touches me (hair... side... back, nothing crude). But he al...

He wants to be exclusive, but I'm not so sure... can this work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have a male friend of almost two years who I'm pretty sure has been interested in me the entire time. We've been getting closer and in the last month he's been up front about his feelings for me. We've slept together a couple times since then ...

Does he have a crush on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) - well there this boy that i am really close too and we tell each other pretty much everything and he always wants to know who i have a crush on. he basically stalks me if i don't tell him and asks me over and over again. We always exchange so i tell ...

I don't want his ex wife to be involved with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I am in love with this guy who also says that he loves me and I know he does through his actions and all however, he was married about 2 years ago and has a baby from his ex wife. The thing is that she is always around; calling him, coming to his ...

How can I help him see I'm trust worthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for a little over a year our begaining wasn't so good. I have learned to trust him but he still don't trust me. How can I help him see I'm trust worthy?...

She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...

How do I ask my sis for help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) - hi, my one year younger sister has boyfriend and she is not virgin...she enjoys sex with him. i have a girl friend now but I m virgin and now i want to learn how to carry out sex in order to get max. pleasure... I know that my sister can teach...

Would it be cool if I got our mutual friend to give me her number? We really hit it off but I didnt get her number at the end of the night!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - Last Night I went out with a friend and we met up with his ex-girlfriend and a couple of her friends. Well, hit it off with one of her friends, but for whatever reason at the end of the night didn't get her number. Do you think it would be cool if I ...

I love him but whats going on in his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have dated a boy for nearly 2 years now.I truley thought that i loved him.But it seems all the wrong things i have done by him in the time that we have been dateing has taken its toll.I dont no what to think Due to the fact that he has started ...

What does this body language mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - hi .. can anyone enlighten me? i was just wondering what body language it means when my bf of 4 months looks quickly away with his eyes at the moment when i kiss him goodbye.. its just a quick kiss on the lips, eyes open but his eyes flit to the ...

Is it normal for a guy to like you but not text or compliment you anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - My friend has been showing signs that he likes me. He stares at me when I’m across the room, talks to me, remembers what I say. On the bus if I don’t say anything because I don’t want to talk he will just look at me then look away then look at me ...

Why does he text me so much? Does he feel bad for me...or does he have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend just broke up with me a few days ago and that is when me and one of my guy friends started texting on our phones around 7 at night and we texted until 12:30 in the morning and the next night we texted each other until 1:30 in the ...

Does it matter if the girl is taller and older than you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - Hi.. I am in love with a girl who is ten months elder than me. Most probably, she is taller than me.. I am 166 cm, where she is 173 cm.. Keeping this barrier in mind, I didn't propose her yet.. I met her before two months and we are working together ...

Why only 2 or 3 dates and then nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I am a lady in her mid fifties ,divorced and told that i am still attractive and look young for my age.I use dating sites a lot and get a lot of response , some good and some bad. I am pretty choosey who I date and usually the date goes well a...

I like her but how to play it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - My first time doing something like this so I'd like help please. I met this girl through my job a few months ago. Every week we got talking and chatting a bit more and more. I found that we got on really well and she liked me for who I am and she ...

Ultimatium from family: Your ex or us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I've been dating my best friend for a few days now. We dated about two weeks ago, but we broke up and he dated his ex girlfriend. Then he cheated on his ex girlfriend with me, left her, and now we're dating. My ex boyfriend comes back in town. We...

We have a FWB relationship so why does he keep asking about other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I know most men are literal, but maybe I've been out of the dating game too long to read the signs. I joined a dating site earlier this year and reached out to a man that I felt was someone that fit me. He responded and we spent the summer...

Boy equals Stupid.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Theres this guy that I really like. He likes me back. But he wants to ask me out, but this guy in our class who is retarted and hated by everyone made fun of him for liking me. Im not ugly at all, normal weight, popular... (if that matters?) He a...

How do I tell my mother about my heavy metal, rocker boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Okay. Big issue here. In April of 2009, i was working in this teen job called clean and green. And i met this wonderful guy named _____. We got to go out to The Grand Canyon from working there. During that trip we got together. And its been 6months ...

Is it likely my friend is dating this girl?

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24 October 2009 (M) - A new girl joined our year at UCLA a few weeks ago and I've developed a real crush on her over the past while. She was initially befriended by a friend of mine who is also in our year and that's how we met. The two of them hang out a lot and ...

Is he only with me because he likes my stuff?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I just got in a new relationship and my boyfriend doesnt act like a boyfriend at all. Whenever he comes to my house hes always on my laptop which i understand since he doesnt have a computer at his house, and he likes to check his email and so ...

How do I stop being so insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I really need some help. I've been dating a guy for just under 3 years and I love him very much. We get along great, don't have too many disagreements and we've had an excelolent friendship throughout the relationship. I really love this...

Losing interest in an LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm in a LDR right now and i have been for about 3 months now. I love her, a lot, but i only get to see her about 2 times a month. I feel like im losing interest but i think it's just a feeling of not being able to be with her. I d...

Young, free, and single but not ready to mingle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - 28 year old female. Three months ago I was heartbroken and had moved on. I feel like a complete different person. I'm happier, in control and excited about new challenges ahead. Although I'm free and single and I get asked out alot, I cannot b...

Do looks matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - Does look important when you want to appraoch someone ? I don't feel confident at all because I'm not a good looking guy. I really want to know if look matters or not in a relationship....

Do you think the situation is unsolvable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have big crush on somebody, who is almost impossible to be or just to start conversation with. One year ago we ended on a sofa kissing in the house of his neightboor. But it was extreme situation, that can never happen again (because of a bit ...

Why would my ex tell me she is not happy with her new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - my ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend but i think she is not happy in the new relationship. because when i was talking to her on msn she said her boyfriend called me a rude name. so i knew her boyfriend doesnt like me for some reason and my ex said ...

Is it wrong for me to not be ready for sex after 4 years together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Is it wrong for me to not be ready for sex when my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years on and off? My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me for the non-sex part and than wants to get back together with me. We had around 5 breakups. Each ...

I won't let anyone get close to me any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

24 October 2009 (M) - for some reason i find my self incapable of letting anybody become to close to me now. after me and my ex broke up i just dont trust people getting that close to me. it seems girl after girl that i become involved with i mess it up intentionally or ...

His parents call me a predator!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hi all ty for reading this and please your comments will be so welcome.. I met this guy will be 2 years soon .. We were instant friends and started off talking every day it was crazy how natural it was and innocent. He loves with his parents who I ...