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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm finding it hard to think that the kind, attentive, wonderful man that I fell in love with has disappeared at the moment or even forever.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I'm having problems in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 2 1/2 years in an LDR. My boyfriend has been working really hard lately, so much so that I haven't seen him since the end of September whereas we were seeing each ...

Is sex before marriage okay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Is sex before marriage ok? I mean what happens if it's going to be a while before you find the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with??? ...

I'm pregnant and father doesn't want the baby... he wants the abortion pill!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I am 23 and just found out last week I am pregnant with my boyfriends baby. He is 20 and his father is a pastor. We were very devastated that we were pregnant and I told my sister, he told his brother and wife. The people we have told are very ...

How could he say he might love me only to drop me shortly after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I had been dating this guy that lived in my hometown for almost 7 months. The first 2 months were while I was at college, but when I was home, I followed him to all the summer ball games he played. When I had to go back, he told me how he would ...

Should I give him a chance to let his character shine through?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I was totally inlove with a charmer he was great made me laugh made me feel want him so much cos he knew all the right things to say to me! He had lots of women b4 me and woman in between us spilting up! He cant settle down he enjoys the chase of ...

How can I get her to accept when I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - i met a girl and asked her out but she is insisting on what i saw in her and why i asked her out. I told her because she is beautiful but she won't accept...

Should I have him visit to see how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I dated TJ during the summer. We had a good relationship and we had a lot of fun together. I was going away to school so I decided to end things. After Almost two monthes of guys here I realized that they just want to hook up and I'm not ok with ...

Dating problems: covered in freckles, bi, and overweight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - ok well I am 18 and I am having trouble dating I am bi and there are no girls or guys looking at me to date is there something wrong with me. I am a little over weight and covered in freckles but no one seems to like me...

Should I ignore him or ask him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - There is this guy I have had a crush on for two semesters now, he is really outgoing, he knows a lot of women and flirts a lot too. I can not even got back into the Art Building without him "flirting" with me. So I was walking on the opposite sid...

Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to ...

I'm self conscious about loose skin after losing weight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hi ive just started dating really nice man. Ive been single a yr and im a bit out of practice. I just wandering how long do people wait until u start sleeing with someone? Im a bit body concious and dreading taking my clothes of to a new man. Ive ...

I want to break up but how to tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hi,I can't raaly understand why I'm riting and asking you that question,but first time in my life I feel ansequre if the tnings that I am going to do are right.I have a boyfriend from a year ago.In the start was normal relationship.but now I just ...

Do you think I should tell my parents about my BF before I leave or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I'll spare you all of the intracate details if you'll avoid wasting your time and asking me or telling me whether or not what I'm doing is smart, safe, thought out, etc.... In January '10 I'm flying out to my boyfriend's town to stay there for 3...

How do I approach this without making it an ordeal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating close to a year and are happy together. Like all couples we have our fights and problems, but we get along well and we definitely see this as having future potential. The problem is the quinte...

Is he angry about something or has he just lost interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hi guys, quick question there is a guy i know through friends, and we've known each other for about a year but only recently he has started to get in touch with me talking to me more texting me alot. When we met he was with someone but he i...

He only wants me when he can't have me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - i met a guy about a year ago and he sent me lots of txt messages, tellin me he was in love with me etc, after a couple of months i really got to like him so we went out a few times and then had a month long intense relationship seeing each other ...

Does my close friend like me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Over the last few months I've started to really like one of my closest male friends. I've known him for a year and we lived together in halls at Uni. We have a little group of friends, us and a couple of others, who hang out together a lot. We ...

Could she be walking all over me at her convenience?

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31 October 2009 (M) - Alright everyone so I have a little problem. I have been seeing this girl for about 3 months...it's a casual thing...go on dates..we kiss when we part..we were friends to begin and then it turned into this. I have very strong feelings for her and ...

Is it normal for a boy to say, "I love you" in a different way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Ok. One day in science my boyfriend said I love You, But he didn't say it like that he said "Like the barney song." I was like Awwwwwwwwwww. I think it's sweet and wierd. Is it normal for a boy to say I love you to you in a different way?...

Should I be looking for a dominant girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - Recently whilst watching videos on the internet, i have found myself looking at dominatrix videos. Does this mean i should have dominant girlfriend or am i very strange?...

The right time to kiss her...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - I'm 16 and I'm taking this girl out to the cinema today and i would like to kiss her. What do I do to kiss her without looking or ending up doing something wrong or silly?...

I somehow feel that he likes me, yet isnt interested in a serious relationship. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I am in a stable relationship with a guy who loves me truly. We live in different cities and since last year I started to take liking for a colleague of mine. We talk to each other about work and personal stuff every single day. For the last 1 year ...

Taboo fantasy help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I've never told anyone about this but I need some advice. I like to keep things exciting in the bedroom and my boyfriend of 5 months wants to indulge me as I indulge him. We are just beginning anal sex as its his biggest fetish and I like to make ...

Is he being clingy or am I just not used to a guy like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Im loosing patience with my guy of 6 months. I was the one head over heels for him and had to step back cuz he was not ready. well now he is ready, askin me to move in for the last 3 months and i dont the feel the same as i did. He calls me allot...

He asks me to split the check - is he really interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I'm a little old fashioned and always had the idea that when a man is truly interested in you he pays for dinner. I've been on four dates with this guy and each time he ask to split the check. Is this guy really into me?...

Does he still like me, miss me or maybe want me back if he was sticking around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - Hello everyone I came on here in hope for some advice and maybe help me understand what's going on. 2 years ago me and my ex broke up. It was a pretty good relationship for a while then it all went bad and we had the worst breakup where we didn't ...

Can I trust him at this party without me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - The guy im going to marry is going to a halloween party tonight and will be drinking. he loves me i know that but then drinking is involved im not so sure he could say no cause i had a baby and its been 6 weeks since we had sex and he has a very ...

I seem to have no ambition to do anything...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - hey, lately i have been feeling unloved by my boyfriend of 5 years, i know he loves me but sometimes im just not sure. and i have gotten laid off work so im home a lot i never feel like doing anything, its a huge chore to leave the house, i have ...