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Archived questions from: August, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Our meetings seem to go well, but it's always me that does the initiating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6812 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I met this guy a couple of months ago when out one night. We started mailing each other and have met three times for coffee. I have initiated the last two meetings and they appeared to go quite well. He mails me every day and says he enjoys m...

What problems might I encounter with an introduction agency?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

31 August 2005 (M) - I am a lonely 59 year old male, seeking to use a Thai introduction agency to find a wife. Having already had two broken marriages I feel that this is the only way for me to find happiness. I am worried however, that any bride I find, may like me for ...

What do I do after telling her I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6812 days ago

31 August 2005 (M) - Simple question really. How do I get the girl of my dreams when she only knows my name and knows little else? I told her I liked her but I don't know what to do next. What should I do?...

We see each other... we have sex. Now I'd like us to be boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6809 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - I wonder if I can have your opinion please.. I started texting this guy in April - I'd seen him around and so I managed to get hold of his number. At first he was quite slow to reply, but the more we got to know each other the more he replied....

What do I say to the sexy girl at the library who keeps smiling at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6803 days ago

30 August 2005 (?) - I go to my local library nearly every day. I love it, but when I see this girl(17-20 years old) so she's about five years older than me. The thing about her is that she is damn sexy. She gives me this really really weird smile. She has a boyfri...

He wants a "relationship", but he hasn't told his mum, or been out in public with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6812 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I've been seeing my bf for just under a 5 months now, although we have known each other a year. We met online. It started out as just casual fun, meeting for sex once a week. Eventually he told me that he wanted more, when I asked him to explain he ...

Three years ago, I broke up with her. I want to go out with her, but she won't say why she won't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6813 days ago

30 August 2005 (M) - I broke up with my girl three years ago, because of peer presure and now I want it back. Everyone said that I could do better and said countless negative things about her. She had just moved into my town and had not really settled in, so she was ...

I think I look awful because I feel so fat!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I have a huge problem. I had a bmi of 21.5, I am 5'10" inches tall and weighed 150 pounds up until 2 months ago. I am now 166 pounds and I am miserable. I walk around feeling ugly everyday and I have not gone home because of how awful I feel abo...

I really like him and I want to ask him out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6814 days ago

29 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I am a teenage girl working with this lovely fella. I really like him. I get really nervous around him. I have never had a boyfriend before. He is way more experienced than me. I want to ask him out. ...

Did I do something that scared her off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6815 days ago

28 August 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I met this girl a week ago. She just came over from foreign country and now she's studying at my school. Because I was helping out with the new student orientation, I got to know quite well. I showed her around the campus, visi...

Is my girlfriend too needy, or is it me?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

28 August 2005 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for almost a year now but I think she is becoming a bit possessive. To give a specific example, towards the end of this week I spent Thursday and Friday night with her and Saturday morning. On Saturday...

He's good looking, but so gentle that I wonder if he's gay...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6815 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - Last week, I went out with a good looking guy. We arranged to meet at 11 o’clock in the morning at Department Store. I was there on time. After walking around with him for a while, I found something strange in him. He seems like a gay. His action ...

Little sister reminds me of the girl I love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6815 days ago

28 August 2005 (M) - I'm 17, and a senior in high school. I just got out of a relationship with a girl who is now a freshmen in college. I love her so much, and she is who I am meant to be with. I would give anything to be with her, and her only. But she is not ...

I'm interested... but would he have been affected by a relationship with an older woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

27 August 2005 (F) - There's a guy who comes to the book shop where I work, and he's funny and cute and a little bit shy. We chat for a bit nearly every time he comes in. I'm pretty sure he's unattached because a girl who works with me knows his sister. I've been feel...

We're dating and I want more. Am I asking too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6816 days ago

26 August 2005 (F) - Basically, I have been seeing a guy for 6 weeks. Due to work, kids, and the hobby commitments I only get to see him once a week. During the rest of the time he texts me but never rings. I know he's single as I've met his eldest daughter who live...

Someone please tell me how to read the right signals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6816 days ago

25 August 2005 (M) - I am completely unable to read signals. I am blind to any signals a girl gives whether she likes me or not. I keep falling for girls who are just trying to be friendly, and keep missing those who actually like me. I just can't see it. Please ...

It takes me ages to work up to asking a girl out, and then it's usually too late!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6818 days ago

25 August 2005 (M) - I am 22 years old. Have just finished uni and waiting to get into the army. I am confident in most aspects of my life but when it comes to girls I am a no hoper. I normally fall for girls after I have already made friends with them, by which time ...

I'm so shy that I have trouble talking with my girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

25 August 2005 (M) - I have been dating a girl for about three months and I think I'm in love with her, but I doubt she feels the same. I'm usually very shy and even after three months I still get really nervous around her and don't know what to say. I'm afraid I'll ...

How do I approach my kids on the issue of my new "friend" sleeping over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

25 August 2005 (?) - When is it appropriate for the person I've been seeing to spend the night? We've been seeing each other for 2 months. But here's the catch, I have two children, my son is 15 and my daughter is 9. My "friend" has spent lots of time with them and ...

I know it's harsh, but I don't like the way my partner's son interferes in our lives...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - Please Help! I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he has a 9 year old son through a past relationship. When we first met he didn't see him that much but now sees him regularly now and sometime he stays overnight at our house. I feel ter...

My boyfriend and I might not deal with our children the same way. Should I wait to see if it's a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - I have been dating a man for almost 2 years we live about 1 hour and 30 minutes apart . We both had previous failed marriages resulting in children and we are having some issues with the kids. I don't know if we want the same things and feel ...

Our relationship is special and secret, but I want to show some affection in public!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6819 days ago

22 August 2005 (?) - I've been seeing a guy on and off for the past 6 months and like him quite a bit. It was labelled a "no strings sex" thing when we first started seeing each other, but it clearly isn't that now, there are feelings which I know are there as previous ...

My first relationship lasted a week... then I was dumped for her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

22 August 2005 (M) - I am 19 and I have not yet had sex or even had any kind of relationship with someone. I find this depressing and rather odd. Recently I have met somone but she was going out with somone else at the time but after many months of us being friends she ...

Am I just being possessive, or do other girls do what mine does?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

22 August 2005 (M) - I just want to know, is it common for girls to be out with their boyfriends and look at other guys and think they are hot, then when confronted about it deny that they were looking? Am I being possessive or does everyone do it?...

Should I tell my friend how I feel? He probably already knows...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6822 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - Hi Here goes..I recently started having feelings for a male friend who I have known for 16 years. Neither of us are currently in a relationship (both suffering the after effects of some horrendous break ups) and we get on really well. I have no...

How can I find out if he might be interested... without making things uncomfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6822 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - I have not been in a relationship in a while and met a guy at my hairdresser's a few days ago. I wasn't 100 per cent sure if he liked me back or was interested but he was very friendly and always caught my eyeline with a smile and blush. We got...

We were great together when we were friends, but now that we're dating... it's different!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6822 days ago

21 August 2005 (M) - Hi there's a girl that I really like and before we started going out we were great together. I could be myself which was amazing because I'd never felt that way around a girl before. Now that we are together feels like she doesn't really care abo...

My guy is afraid that history will repeat itself in our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6822 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - This guy and I have been great "friends" for awhile now, and have already both expressed our strong emotional and physical attraction for the other. He lives in a country I used to live in and moved from, but visited again a few weeks ago, whe...

Since I started dating my best friend's friend, the best friend stopped speaking to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6809 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend's friend who I met on a blind date. Everything was fine at first but as we've become more serious my best friend has become more distant. It's got to the point now where she doesn't even talk to me anymore. I'm afraid ...

Should I wait until next year to see if my boyfriend is serious about going to uni?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6823 days ago

19 August 2005 (F) - I'm a 23 year old female student in my last year of school. I recently started dating someone about a month and a half ago. Shortly after we began dating he lost his job and is now looking for work. He is 26 years old and has graduated high ...

I'm too scared to let any guys get close, because I'm sure they'll see my flaws!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

19 August 2005 (F) - Can anyone help me? I am a 27 year old female - virgin. Not by any religous choice but purely because the fact of letting someone that close to me terrifies me (I feel sick, start shaking - like real fear!). On the outside I am fairly outgoing, ...

Just freshly broken up and I want to date some new girls... but how do I start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6818 days ago

19 August 2005 (M) - Hello I've recently broken up with my first ever love. I'm still deeply in love with her but she has lied and kept things from me throughout our relationship. Even today she still lies to me. Unfortunately I still have deep feelings for her, but I'm ...

How do I approach that sexy shop girl and start talking to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6826 days ago

17 August 2005 (M) - What can I do? I love this gal. I'm a boy aged 18. The thing with me is I'm so attracted to one gal I always meet in a shop. She is a shop assistant. I meet her every time I get into that shop to buy my phone voucher thing. The main problem ...

I was happy to be his girlfriend, but now he's moody and less affectionate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - Hi there. I'm am a 20 year old female. I met a my boyfriend about 3 months ago. We hit it off and became friends. However, we also kissed and such which eventually led to the loss of my virginity. He recently (about two weeks ago) asked me to be ...

What can I do to stop my bad habit of ogling other women?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3167 days ago

16 August 2005 (M) - I've spent my entire life hoping to find my girlfriend and feel like the luckiest man on the planet having found my one true love. We were to be married last Saturday but she called it off a while back. We're still together and hoping that one day ...

Why won't my boyfriend spend more time with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6792 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. He has more time for his mates than me and this is starting to really upset me. How can I make him want to spend more time with me? Am I being selfish?...

I look OK and I'm a nice guy. Girls just won't talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

16 August 2005 (M) - I'm a 20 year old guy. I work out so I'm in great physical shape and have been told I'm an attractive guy, however, I am unable to start a relationship with anyone. Girls just don't talk to me, what is the problem? I'm a nice guy, I promise!...

The guy from work seems so shy around me that it's hard to judge if he's interested!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6823 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - Hi. I will put everything in paragraphs so its easier to understand. -I have recently separated from my boyfriend of 2 years. A guy at work has caught my eye since I started there a year ago but because I was in a relationship at the time...

It's just easier to appeal to guys' sexual interest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6827 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - Hey. I have never had trouble getting a boyfriend and have always had lots of attention from guys. Lately though, I feel like I have been getting it on with any guy I meet. I don't want to be labelled 'easy' and I never mean anything by making out ...

So scared of being hurt again that I pushed away a fantastic girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

15 August 2005 (M) - I have recently met a fantastic girl. But due to a badly ending previous relationship, I have found myself running scared. I have kept the poor girl hanging on, by telling her yes, I'd like a relationship, to only break it off the next day. Thro...

Is it too soon to sleep with the guy I met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6829 days ago

14 August 2005 (F) - I haven't been in a relationship for 4 years. I have just met a wonderful man and want to start sleeping with him. Do you think it's too soon? I don't want to appear easy!...

I was away 6 months. Now I don't understand whether he wants me or not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6827 days ago

14 August 2005 (F) - Hi! I am a 22 year old girl and I have been single for over two years now. After lots of dating I finally started to hit it off with this cute, smart, and loving guy. I was very happy and excited. The problem was that I had to leave town to study ...

Nothing serious is going to come of this... but maybe I should leave before things get complicated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6829 days ago

13 August 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm a teenage guy who is seeing this woman who is a few years older then me. We are not going out or in a relationship as such, but we meet up and go on dates and when we meet up it is usually great fun. She lives in my county, not far away, but ...

Would I seem like a stalker if I asked his friend for his email address?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6832 days ago

12 August 2005 (F) - Hi, About 3 months ago I worked with a guy who is about 10 years older than me. We saw each other enough times so that we would stop to chat in the corridor but after 3 weeks he left to move to another job. I thought nothing more about it un...

They never meet, but they know about each other. Which of my two loves to choose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6832 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - I am 20 years old, and I am very confused. I am in love with two different people. One is an ex and, one a long time friend. I'm not dating either one, but I am making it very difficult for both since I am with both of them. They never meet, bu...

The woman I love says she's not sure what love is, so she's not sure she loves me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6833 days ago

10 August 2005 (M) - Please can you help me? I’m 48 years old, divorced, and very deeply in love with a lady of 45 years old, also divorced. I just cannot explain how truly I am in love with her. We have a very special and close relationship but the problem is that she ...

Big Question No. 2 How do I meet someone who will love me for who I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6833 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I'm 24 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm 6 stone overweight but am not unattractive and don't understand why I have such bad luck. I've tried all the diets and everything but none of it works. How do I meet a nice guy who'll love me for me? I ...

Big Question No 1: What is true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6832 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - Hello readers What is true love? I've been in relationships but they alway end in tears. Two of them appeared like they could last forever. Is it passion? Is it friendship? If any one knows can you let me know....

I've been afraid to say how I feel for 4 years. If she rejects me, what happens to our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6830 days ago

9 August 2005 (M) - I had a first love when I was 14 years old,(grade 9). I met her at English camp. I felt happy every time I looked at her face. At that time I did not tell her that I love her. After that we were still close friends. Now it's 4 years past. My feeli...

We met at a camp and she's everything I could want. How can I prevent this from becoming a failure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6834 days ago

9 August 2005 (M) - Hi, my name is Ken. I'm 21 year old, still in college. I'm here to seek for relationship advices hopefully will me onto the right direction. I met this girl at a diversity camp that we both attended this past weekend. When I first saw her, I...