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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I asked him about it but he said that he didn't. He always hangs out with his best friend who is a girl. She borrows his boxers, goes to the movies with him ...

Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me. I dont mean like a slap a full on attack. I dont know what to do i really love her, im walking round with bruises all over my body. This isnt the first time she has lashed out at me wha...

I got on my boyfriend's PC, he was talking with this girl and they were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hello. Recently i managed to hack into my boyfriends internet account and found him talking to this girl at work. They were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication! Although you can see nothing actually happened. In Januar...

We've had sex twice but now he's not calling me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 3 weeks. we had sex on our second date. he says he is ready for a serious relationship. we work very close so i see him everyday but thats all he does not call. we had sex again but since then he has not called what ...

How would you react if your new boyfriend told you his last girlfriend had "a lovely big pair of tits"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - hey girls id like your opinion. How would you react if your new boyfriend told you his last girlfriend had "a lovely big pair of tits" sorry to use this kind of language- these are his words not mine...

Please help, I've never kissed a boy before...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Plz help!!! I've never kissed a boy before and he's my 1st boyfriend, how do i know if he wants 2 kiss me or not, plz help!!...

He taking a female friend to the cinema and I'm jealous. How do I deal with this 'jealousy bug'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend recently bumped into an old friend and agreed to go to the cinema with her, just the two of them. I felt a bit uncomfortable with this so asked if he could take a friend with him just to put my mind at rest. I know he loves me, and i ...

I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ...

My boyfriend wants me to get a nude/topless photo of myself done professionally so that he can put it up in his house.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hey guys, I need some advice. My boyfriend wants me to get a nude/topless photo of myself done professionally so that he can put it up in his house. I'm not sure because I don't know why he came up with the idea. He said he would do one for me in ...

Why do I have to do all the work when we're having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - hi ive been getting kind of annoyed lately because in bed it seems as if im always doing all the work. I mean its fine to do it sometimes but I would like to get some pleasure back. Really hard to explain. but i dont know what to do. can someone ...

My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much. For example, I called her and said "Hey, what you up to?" and her reply was "I was just thinking about fooling around with my boss". ...

I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm still a virgin. What's it like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) - can someone please help me with sex, i am a virgin and i am with a guy im 15 and he is 16. we really want to have sex, im scared of letting him go down there because i find it embarrasing although i realli like him. we want to have sex but can ...

Every time he puts on a condom he goes limp. How can we fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my bf fot 14 months. We started having sex back last august. We have only had sex like 15 times since as i still get a bit anxious and after a while feel pain when having sex. He finds that when we have finished foreplay and are...

She always wants her own way and throws tantrums.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - I'm writing to ask what I should do in my current situation with my girlfriend. We have been together 3 months now and it's all been pretty much fantastic. Since our first date we have been with each other everyday since and apart from the odd ...

My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1775 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this? Sometimes when i kiss her i think yuck, Thats only happened twice in the 2years we've been together. Just knowing that she gave an ex partner a blow job is disgustin...

My boyfriend said sex hurt him, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - My guy and I recently had sex after a few months because we were in different parts of the country. He said that it hurt him, he felt good but also pain. Is this normal ? I am worried for him. I was on top of him just for the record here. We did ...

My girlfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time this weekend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Me and my gf have been together for 7 months have have decided that on saturday night when i stop over that we will have sex for the first time, we are both virgins btw. We are incredibly close as we have been best friends for many years, have have ...

I want to tell him the truth that I lied but I don't know if it'll make the situation better or worse. HELP!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hi...Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and we just had a son together. The problem is that we live 20 mins from each other and I barely ever see him and when we have plans to see each other it's very rare he'll come over. ...

I just broke up completely with my boyfriend and I wanted to know if I did the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - ok well I just broke up completely with my boyfriend and I wanted to know if I did the right thing. we have been going on and off for about 9 months and i do love him but he does not know how to treet a girl thinking that hes all that and that he ...

How can I really show him that I really care and am really into him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I am not sure how should I deal with this. I really like my boyfriend and starting to fall for him, we have been together for 4 months now. Things were great until few weeks ago I made a stupid mistake: I couldn't see him because his daughter...

It bothers me when he spends a lot of time with his sisters and not me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - i am in a relationship with someone for 3 months and my problem is he spends alot of time with his sisters and brother in laws. i dont have a problem with it but when he starts to be with me too much they call constantly. every holiday he spends ...

He dumped me and I was getting over it and then...he texts me saying he misses me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - he dumped me last week monday. i was devastated. i was then convinced that it was over until he sms, then later called, to tell that he had made a mistake and that he misses me. i was on the process of getting over him and i was doing well until he ...

Mom found a condom wrapper in my bedroom. She now says my bf and I are not allowed to be alone together, here! Is she being unreasonable? or is she right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Right this is a long one so i need to find a place to start. Well im 15. Have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for 5 months. i was moving my room around with my mum nd she found a condom wrapper. She at first was pretty ok about it, but then she ...

He says he was mean to me, because he 'did' like me! I am confused..any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - i am reali confused. a guy i always knew liked me just asked me out but i've neva been out with any1 and in the past he was mean to be because he likes me and was afraid. i reali confused please help!...

I have a growth problem and I'm short--it stops me from asking girls out. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - i'm not sure what to do, i'm 16 and i'm debating to ask this girl out in my year. The thing is i have a growth problem (i'm about a head and a bit shorter than average) and it's always stopped asking any girls out because i'm worried she will just ...

My friend is so embittered to love and dating men. How can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hi! I need your help with agony-aunting my friend, because I just don't know what to tell her. I think she may be a lost cause. Okay, so, she never fell in love at all until she was twenty-six, and then it was with a married man - a workmate. They...

I told him I wanted to to be more assertive and say NO to sex with just anyone. Yet he took advantage when I got drunk! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Im 17, im pretty and have a nice figure however i am very insecure about myself.. i cant go out with out makeup and take so long to get ready in the mornings... ive slept with 5 people between now and last June and i no this is too many, and i ...

Why would 2 people in a close relationship have a threesome? Is this a sign of a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - why would 2 people in a close relationship have a threesome? why would a man have a threesome with his long term girlfriend and her friend? is this the type of thing that would just happen when you got drunk or would you plan this? is this ...

We swapped phone numbers but he hasn't called me, yet when he sees me, he's pretty attentive! What's up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I met a boy last week who I really like and thought liked me. We swapped numbers and he said he wanted to take me out for a drink. He was really nice to me and kept kissing me but I know he had been drinking. Anyway, a week later and he still has...

Our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently...is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Hi guys, I've been seeing my girlfriend for over a year now, and she moved in with me last month (serious, I know!) - but our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently, only making love once a month at the most. It just seems that she d...

He has two of us girls, chasing him. Will he text me while the other gf is visiting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - He rings me to go out for a drink, he walks me home after, kisses and heavy pets me, but I wont go all the way. he has another female friend who he met the same time as me, she is staying with him for 1 weeks holiday, and he has just spent the last ...

Has this relationship gone as far as it can? Any views?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hi Guys - My partner and I had been together nearly 4 years when things started to go wrong. That was last summer and since then I'd had mixed feelings about the relationship. He has two sons aged 13 and 17 and my son is 11. I started looking ...

Is it acceptable to give your number out to an ex when your in a relationship? Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - I have been seeing my partner for about two years we currently live together. The other day I answered her mobile and I guy who i never heard of name appeared on the caller ID. The guy never wanted to leave a message but wanted to know who I was, i ...

She's had threesomes, a lot of past sex partners, and told me I can show our home made porn clip to anyone! What's her problem?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - I've been dating this girl for six months now and have a few doubts about her. I am just being old fashioned and silly? She's 25 and I am 30. Here's why: 20 or so sexual partners in 9 years. Can’t give an exact figure. Didn’t always go all th...

He has a hard time trusting me now because I lied about liking another guy...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I need your advise. My boyfirend and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have had our ups and downs, I guess like any relationship. Last year we almost broke up, I was having doubts about us and instead of talking with him and opening up I ...

Invited to the ex's house to visit. She spent the whole time flirting with her new bf-was she playing a cruel game with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Ok, i'm confused and need an unbiased response. My now ex-fiance and i split a year ago. Shortly after that i asked that i still see her 3yr old daughter to whom i became very attached and the child to me. She advised that wouldnt be appropriate and ...

He takes holidays, doesn't tell me where he going, his daughter tells me to leave him alone--tried to end this but can't! Help..any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Dear all, i would appreciate any advise however harsh. I met my partner 4 years ago when he was working in my area, (he's a contractor)we clicked and got on really well despite our age difference, he's 60 17 years my senior. The problem i have i...

Cellphone antics...mysterious calls, a lot of unusual numbers (females). Should I drop him off in 'dump' city?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - what's up with the guy im dating or am i being insecure he has numerous phone numbers yeah i check them with female's on the other side of the phone he has a habit of walking to the next room when certain calls come in.may have to drop him off in ...

We're both just out of relationships that ended badly. Do I get involved in this one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I've just recently met a really nice guy but not sure whether I should get involved. He came out of a long term relationship just 3 months ago, things turned nasty with his ex, they have a small child together and he tells me he's not completely ...

He's somewhat of a jock, always around the beautiful girls but why doesn't he have a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - so there's this guy... lol... it baffles me why he dosn't have a girlfriend because he is a good looking guy with a great personality. he's somewhat of a jock, so he is always hanging around beautiful girls, but still he dosn't have a girlfrie...

Unhappily married - but was this young guy genuinely interested in me, or was he just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Help! I don't know what to do. A younger ( he's 20 something, I'm 38, although I've been told I could easily pass for 30.)man began some "innocent" flirting with me a few months ago. Made some comments about valentines and how he would give me ...

I'm 16. Will a 19yr old date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Ok, theres this boy that i've known since i was little, because we grew up together in the same church. Sounds like a fairy tale huh? The only problem is that hes 19 and im 16. Do you think hell wanna date me anyway because i'm very mature for my ...

I got dumped because she found out a mate had a crush on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - i was going out with this gal, and a mate had a crush on me and told me, somehow my galfrend found out, and ditched me, which hurt alot. the mate that had the crush on me is going out with another guy, but asked if i would ever consider getting ...

I said one wrong thing and now he refuses to talk to me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (?) - I HAVE BEEN REALLY STUPID!!! i have been talkin to this guy that i realli like for about 3 to 4 months now! he is really nice! well we wa chattin on msn just now and we wa laffin n jokin he wa showin me things on cam n i wa doin the same n i ope...

Had a threesome with my bf and his best friend. Trouble is-I've fallen for the best friend! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have had a 3sum i am a nymphomaniac and have had many so its not the first time we have currently had a bunch with his best friend who i dated for 1 month over the phone when i was away me and my boyfriend have been together ...

Off to college next year! I want to be single..how do I break off with my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hey im 17 and I have a boyfriend that is really great, he's sweet, smart and very good looking. Im going to college next year but i don't want a boyfriend in college just because i don't want to be so committed and obligate to one person just yet. ...

I 'm interested in BDSM-how do I introduce it to my bf of 2 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Help! This is a very strange question... And I feel strange asking it. I am interested in BDSM (male domination) and am in a really secure relationship with my boyfriend. I just don't know how to introduce a Dom/Sub relationship, since it all seems ...

She lied about her age but her reason was valid...I think? What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I'v been dating a girl for almost 5 months, but recently she has told me her true age :( I initially met her in a night club (pub) hence didnt query her age when she told me she was 18. Plus she looked 18, and the staff of the club must ha...

Two guys and whom do I like more? I can't decide..any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm sorry to bother you but I'm in a big bit of trouble. A few months ago I got together with a good friend of mine who I had always thought I wanted to be with. However we never made it official and while away on holiday I got together...

Can two people who genuinely care and love each other make their relationship work even if they are living two seperate lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of three years and I have recently split. It has completely devasted me as I thought of her as my future wife. After putting the pieces together, I have come to the conclusion that the biggest reason for the break-up was because we are ...