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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Depressed by his absence.....is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - i've been through some shit in my life. i've pushed through drug addictions, an abusive father, promescuity, terrible decisions that ive had to live with. these things made me depressed and hurt at the time, however, they are all in the past now. ...

Help...I'm gonna be single forever!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I feel really lonely. I've had a couple of broken relationships, about 3 years ago, but the last time i actually felt intimate with someone was about 6 years ago. I feel like the rest of my life is going to be the same, and sometimes it get...

My girlfriend hid the fact she had a son. Could this indicate a potential pattern of lying?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Girlfriend of three months tells me via text message that she has a son. We just started getting slightly serious, and I still feel a little lied to. I am 25, she 23, I have no idea how old her son is. I had no idea that she had a son, not e...

Who should I choose? I just want to be happy again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hi, i really need some help, i don't think i've ever felt so confused in my whole life. Ok its quite complicated but here goes. Ok so i recently broke up with my boyfriend. We only really were bf and gf for 2 months, but have been seeing eachother ...

Is this guy playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - A boy I like have a girlfriend. He does not know I know he have a girlfriend. But I know he likes me and he said heis interested in me some times. We were dating four three times. When we are together I see clearly how much he likes me and there ar...

How would you tell if a guy thinks you look good without him saying anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Today I was walking to the bus and my best friend Rob was sitting there as always waiting to talk to me. I sat down across from him and he started talking to me. Today was different though he kept playing with his hair and he always faces my way. ...

If I am a virgin, am I able to have an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - What if he says no? I really like this guy and want to take it further than friendship but what if he does not like me more than a friend? I feel like I am falling in love with him but he does not like me. He gives me a hug everyday but only if I ...

I cant get enough...Has anyone felt this before?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - im 18 and i really like this guy who is 33 years old he likes me too , we know it's wrong ,but just can't gt enough of each other has anyone ever felt this before?what to do?...

I want to go for it, but I physically can't! I'm too nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - hey guys heres one for you: its the usual girl meets boy and boy doesnt know she exists. i met him last year on a trip to Normandy when we were on the same coach and ever since then ive constantly been thinking about him. so recently ive asked fo...

2 people have asked me now if I really like him...why doesn't he ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hi Basically there's this guy that I see every Wednesday and Thursdays I haven't spoken to him yet because all his friends keep running up to me and asking me I set you up with Scott etc...And yeah he likes you blah blah...I don't know if they are...

How can I spend time with her in my own home before I leave for active duty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old and enlisted in the United States Airforce. I have a girlfriend well ex now girlfriend who is 16 years old. I have been dating her since i was 14 years old and I lost my virginity to this girl. My first true love and basically only ...

I don't think I'm ready to settle down yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I’m 21 and my boyfriend is 24, we met online and have been together for about 4 months now... He’s my first real relationship; all my other experiences have been disastrous one offs and this is the first time I’ve actually been on actual dates wit...

Are girls in this country just shallow and racist?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm a 22 years old male living in the UK. I'm originally from Japan, however I've been living here for a long time, since i was young. I don't know if this type of things should be asked on here, as it's not directly linked to existing...

Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I recently made a new guy friend and he and i have become good friends in the time being which was about a month. this past week we have been getting closer and have started talking on the phone and stuff. today i realized he was less perverted, ...

He cut me off suddenly....what did I do wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - he cut me off and i just dont know what i did wrong.. I dated this guy for a month,we always had a good time toghether and he said so himself, we were double dating alot with his friend and my friend which are now b/f and g/f...he was aff...

Is holding out on sex normal when dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I've been dating to meet the right guy. I don't put out until I know its right and we have the discussion to be exclusive. It seems after about 4 dates the guy doesn't call. What is the standard of putting out dating these days (I've been out of ...

Going to Homecoming in a week and don't have any ideas on what to do after!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Need Help quick ! Going to Homecoming in a week and dont have any ideas on what to do after. Any suggestions ? Please Help!...

Dating 1 girl but still love another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Please Help Me :( Okay, Im dating this girl but i still have strong feelings for my ex which happens to be my best friend (yes, i have a best friend that is a girl. who doesnt?) I got expelled from my school so i dont get see them that much. ...

I don't want this feeling anymore!

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21 October 2009 (M) - so there is this girl who at the moment i am crazy for. the thing is i'm pretty sure she doesnt like me. it all started a few months ago. we had always been friends but lately she started talking to me a lot and always wanting to hang out. i just ...

My girlfriend had a one night stand with a professional athelte before we met.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend recently told me that a few months before we met she had a one night stand with a famous professional ball player. She wanted to be open and I think that is a great thing. We have a great relationship, we are madly in love and its ...

Women seem to dislike nice guys!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I asked this girl out i have like for a long time a month or so ago and she said no and said she didn't like me like that, and that we had been friends for to long and thought it may end up kind of awkward. Well she could tell it sort of aggravated, ...

I'm aroused 75% of the time, and my girlfriend is getting irritated...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I have this problem that is beginning to irritate my fiancee. It seems like I am aroused 75% of the time Im around her. I was never aroused that often around women in past relationships. I cant explain it. I just really love her, and she turns me on ...

Should I just give her time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I met this girl in the beginning of the year of school and I got to know her and began to like her. She had a boyfriend ,but they broke up because he was not being a boyfriend to her. We were texting and I mentioned how her friend had said we should ...

Is he freaked out by the idea of commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I'm so dense when it comes to figuring out what's going on in a guy's head, especially when I like him (as is the case now). One minute I'll think he's interested and the next he'll do something to make me change my mind. Full story (sorry abo...

What should I do if I've been turned down 10 times by girls in 3 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - What should i do if i've been turned down 10 times by tons of girls, in 3 months? I'm nice to them, and it seems like they always say either: No, I'm taken, or I'm not looking for a boyfriend at the momnt....