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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I get my boyfriends parents to stop being clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend's parents to stop being so clingy? We are both in graduate school in the same town as his parents. We have been dating for over 2 years, live together, and have talked very seriously about getting engaged sometime within ...

My abusive parents won't let me be with the one I love!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy about a year ago. At first, I didn't think it was anything. I had not really had a real boyfriend before that, and I wasn't expecting it to last very long. I'll call him mr. A Well, after two amazing dates, I was rea...

Any ideas of interesting topics?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am running out of conversation topics when ever I talk with the boy I like. It always ends up being silent and boring since neither of us can think of anything to talk about. Rarely, do we have a conversation where the talking lasts more than 10 ...

Should I risk confessing my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - For the past few months I have been very close friends with this boy. As you have probably guessed, I like him alot. The thing is, he is a real flirt and alot of girls also like him. We open up to eachother alot. He tells me that he flirts to give ...

Can't figure out whether I like this guy or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Theres this guy that goes to my college, i see him around sometimes. well about once and we said hi. We've been speaking on msn for like 5 months though, and we are always chatting and getting on well. He flirts sometimes, not lots but a little :...

Am I totally out of line here? Uncomfortable about a text my girlfriend received.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - well it started bad in the first place because i looked on my gf phone at a message that a male friend of hers sent to her. the message said and it was forwarded to her ....you and i do it in the bedroom.we do it in the livingroom we do it all over ...

What does "exclusive" mean while dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy and it was funny when he said we were exclusively but now i feel dumb cuz i dont know what exclusively means. help me?...

What did I do wrong and how do I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for about a month and a half now, and everything is going great. She is 26 I am 22. She has a kid and works 2 jobs. Its hard to get time for us to go out so we spend most times at her house just hanging out. We are no...

What are some ways to take a relationship to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship. We have fun together. We are to the place were we want to take are relationship to the next level. What are some ways to do that? We are both curious about sex. We think we are ready for that as part...

How can I get him to really like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do I really like this guy...since last year but I do not know if he likes me? At my homecoming I was grinding on him and felt his boner and just about exploded down there. But that is not why I like him it is not at all just ...

My family is convinced he just wants me for sex! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Im im 15 years an a sophomore in high school. and i recently have been seeing this guy that is out of high school graduate. He is 18. He is really sweet an cares about me. But.. its my parents. Like they think all the guys want me for sex. But ...

Why is it so hard to let go of a person who's not treating you right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - im stuck in one of the worst situations ever. i think im in love with this man who doesnt care at all about me. all he wants is sex and because i care about him, i neva minded. but now im so hurt, to a point where i cant do anything but cry. i want ...

How do I move forward and meet someone new?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old, and I really want to be in a relationship right now. My only problem is that I sort of have anxiety issues when I'm forced to interact with other people in public situations, so I often find it hard to make friends and meet new ...

Is this how "Grown Up" relationships work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hi :) i'm Trixie and im 16 (17 in a few days!!) Basically I have started this "relationship" with a really great guy who is 20. The thing is we have been acting like boyfriend and girlfriend for about... 5 weeks now, although were not going out. No...

What can I do to stop getting worked up about stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - To cut a long story short I slept in the same bed as this guy one night. Nothing happened and I didn't intend on anything happening either. I didn't sleep that night anyway. I have a lovely boyfriend who Is a great friend as well. I told him what ...

Do you think we are moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I've known this girl for about 4 or 5 months, we both felt extremely attracted to each other from the day we met (this was later established). we only recently began to hang out quite often and 5 days ago decided to start "dating". however, since ...

How can I get through this first date without thinking the worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hi im going on a first date in a few days after being single 6 months and coming out of a mental and verbually abusive relationship. Ive been mentally drained and lost my confidence and self esteem.and i am alot better now im out of it but i am ...

Should we be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for about a year and a half. We hang out one or maybe two times a month, but exchange email messages daily or every other day. I guess I knew from the beginning that he was attracted to me, but throughout the course ...

The guy I like is in a class I help teach. Is it ok to pursue him once the class is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so this isn't the typical student-teacher question but I thought I'd ask and see what happens. I help teach a vocational course for adults that will run for the next two months or so. I find myself very attracted to one of my students. I k...

Do I just have a crush? Why am I feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I'm so confused, I've been with my bf for nearly 2 years like just head over heels for him. It's my first relationship but it felt like I would be with him forever. Just recently I met a guy who for some reason I find interesting. Jus...

She's hit me with a bombshell. Do I just need to give her some space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Hi. My Girlfriend of almost 6 years has hit me with a bombshell, she says she doesnt feel as though she loves me in that way any more, I love her more than I can explain, she's my world, I have never done anything to push her away and she openly ...

I love him but I don't want sex anymore, I am not interested in being around him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I am a girl and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend for about one and a half years now - pretty much for the most part I have been at university, as I am now finishing my second year. However, I am finding that alt...

Met this guy at a pub, has he lost interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am a bit confused by this guy. I see him around my local pubs quite a bit and he always had lots of girls around him. I thought he was a bit of a jerk. I had a feeling he had a thing for me because he would always stare at me and look at me when ...

What is the right age for a serious relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 boy. I never had any girlfriend. I want to make only one relationship in life. So if I get a gf now , will i be able to carry on the relationship untill marriage? I'm not gonna marry before the age of 26/27. What your experience says? ...

How often do girls fall for their best male friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I have been in love with this girl for a whole year already. I told her that a year ago but she wanted to stay friends. We became the very best friends and I'm the most important person in her life apart from her family. We go out on dates all the ...

Why don't I trust women when it comes to their relationship status?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (?) - I'm a friendly, well-liked individual, I'm 23 years old and do volunteer work. Somehow I have a knack for being able to talk to new people well. Once a woman stopped me in the street when I was in the city centre asking for directions - s...

My girlfriend's twin seems to have issues with me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - Hi all, I have been with my gorgeous girlfriend for a few years now, and she has suffered with a disability all of her life which is quite painful, and which I have more than supported her through. But on a recent night out I had a blazing...

He says he loves me. Why isn't he ready for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - So im still having trouble with *parker* it had been over six months since we spoke and he turned up to where im living now. I avoided him for 3 days i was so worried about seeing him . So i go out and he's there, he grabs me and we start to have a ...

I think the age difference is immoral. Is my intution right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - i am a 20 year old college junior and i have no problem with getting men's attention. however, i like a 17 year old high school senior. is this wrong? we met through mutual friends, which are all 19-21 years old except for him. at the time, we had...

Is she just playing with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - I need help and i have no idea what i am supposed to do. My ex and i broke up about 4 months ago because i believe we were spending way to much time together and small fights turned to big ones. We dated for 4 years and everything was great up until ...

Should I just be patient and continue talking while giving him more time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - my ex and i have been recently talking----i reached out a year later (he ended it but our problems didn't consist of anything that couldnt be changed)b/c i still had feelings and took a chance..well basically he said he can't just jump back to this ...

Is he interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Here's the story folks. Met a guy a year and a half ago. I could see it on his face that he was attracted to me the moment he saw me. Things went REAL SLOW. Saw him around. Ended up hanging out with mutual friends more until we were in the same ...

What should I do to get this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

20 October 2009 (M) - She says that she doesnt want a relationship right now but things can always change, she says she has feelings for me but doesnt act on them. i dont know how long to continue playing this game but i think shes soo special and it would be tough to ...

Should I take a chance or ignore my instincts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hey there, ok so here's my problem. I have the strongest feelings ever for my best friend. (he's a guy). I know it's not love but it sure feels like it whenever i see him or talk to him. He just came out of a 1 year relationship so i know he's ...

Does he sound like he wants a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I've been seeing someone for about 2 months. We talk daily and usually see each other 2 or 3 times a week. When we do get together it's for hours on end. I haven't slept with him and have told him that I'm not ready and he's said he's ok with ...