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Pregnancy: Help and advice

Why a sudden change of mind for us so soon after deciding we didn't want a child?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

25 May 2013 (F) - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, we had the "baby talk" and both decided it was right timing right now, but I've been panicking about the unprotected sex we had. I asked him as we cuddled in bed last night what he wants for us in the future ...

My wife got pregnant by her lover and had a secret abortion!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted today

24 May 2013 (M) - This is difficult but I will just say it. My wife had an affair with a person I considered my friend and got pregnant. She made arrangements with her lover (also married) and had a secret abortion one year ago. We have been married for 6 years and ...

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she ...

Pregnant and lonely, husband is always working?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

21 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I don't know what to do or who else to talk to about this but I really need to let it out. I'm halfway through my pregnancy with my first child and I'm feeling so down all the time. It was planned and I'm not unhappy that we're havin...

I'd like to wait until Father's Day to tell my husband I'm pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Hi! I just found out, Im two and a half weeks pregnant via blood test, so its very early on. ( I was getting a blood test anyway and had missed my period so I asked if my doctor could order a blood preg test also) Anyways its very early on and I ...

My only problem with him is his parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Let me start by saying my partner and I are 27 and 28. We have pretty much the perfect relationship. We never argue, fight, lie or hide anything from eachother. We are so happy together. We have had problems in the past from outside influences but ...

What birth defects could have been caused from caffeine, smoking and being fed by bottle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - My mother smoked cigarettes and consumed a lot of Caffeine while she was pregnant with me. I was also always bottle fed, never breast fed. I'm wondering what birth defects (if any) could have been caused by those three factors? ...

My ex is trying to change, should I get back together with him? How do I tell my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my fiancé in late January this year. I loved and still do love him dearly. I left him because I was unhappy about many things about how he chose to live his life. he chose to hang out with loser drug addicts and got himself ...

I'm worried that my smoking and drinking could delay or event prevent getting pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, so basically what it is is that I really want a baby (so does my partner) I came off the mirena two months ago, I drink on weekends socially but quite a lot and smoke 8-10 cigarettes a day, I know that's awful to do when trying to ...

Why is the smell of his cum so strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - After sex if my husband cums inside me afterwards some comes out and if it gets on my panties(specifically lacey ones) it turns the color of my panties. Like bleaching them. Also it smells really strong even when dry. Is this normal what could cause ...

I'm sick of his ex! Will she ever be out of the picture?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - hi all thank you for taking the time to read this. i have fallen in love with a man who is 25 yrs older than me and im having his baby. the problem is, is that his stupid ex wife will not get it through her head that i am with him now. i had to w...

Our marriage has went downhill since I've been pregnant. He just doesn't seem to care how I feel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - I've written about this topic before, and every time I try other's advice, it just goes no where, and I'm not sure what to do. I'm now 8 months pregnant (fit and all belly). Since I started showing, my sex life has dwindled. It's pretty much beco...

Is it too soon in our relationship to consider starting a family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - Boyfriend and I are together 8 months. I'm on the patch so this may be a silly question! I finished my period last week and had sex with the boyfriend and now my breasts are very very sore, all over and nipples and a bit veiny. I also felt dizzy and ...

I found out I'm the other girl and I'm pregnant!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

12 May 2013 (F) - I went on three dates with a guy(who said he was single)I had just met. We hooked up twice, and now I'm pregnant. We tried to make things work as a couple, but he ended that after less than a day, because he said it felt forced. We both decided to ...

Do men feel guilt at denying paternity, when they are informed about a pregnancy? Or do the men just move on and feel no guilt? Should I feel damaged by their actions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hello, friends, aunts, uncles etc I have a question again.... I am pregnant thanks to the advice I got I'm keeping my baby God will provide something for us. My question is do these men who abandon they children really move on or they do sit d...

My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was ...

I want a man who wants me and wants to have children.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - When I was 15, I got into a 3-year long relationship with a then 17 year old boy. The first year was great and yes, I lost my virginity to him (he did not lose his to me). But then he went off to university five hours away and we only saw each other ...

We had unprotected sex. Should I ask if everything is ok with her cycle?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

10 May 2013 (M) - okay, awkward subject: I've been dating a girl I really like for the past 5 months. We've been having sex on the regular basically every time we see each other. Only thing though, last month (the 25th specifically) she was on her per...

How can I stop obsessing about the fact that my Bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - My bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated, on and off from what i can gather. I know its not while he has been with me, but it makes me feel insecure or that he still has feelings for her. How do I stop obsessing about this?...

He is drunk every day and flirts with others. Does this mean he'll cheat while I am in hospital giving birth? Or am I having pregnancy paranoia?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - if a man is drunk every day and will flirt in front of you. Does this mean he is likely to cheat when you're not there? I am weeks away from giving birth so i am not very attractive at the moment. not sure if it's pregnancy paranoia or not......

I just want to know which method is highly risky or if both methods are equally risky? help me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Dear friend, I had unprotected sex with a guy but he ddnt ejaculate a week later I had protected sex with a different guy. I jus want to know how safe are condoms compared to non ejaculation? Nine months is far for me to get a partenity test a...

Miscarriage and breakup right on top of each other. I can't cope!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 20 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Hi i am going through a really bad time at the moment i have just recently had a miscarriage my boyfriend split up with me the day after we had all these plans of marriage and children he said he needed space and he is a loner what did he mean i ...

We can't get married so what happens if he leaves us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 21 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I have a relationship with my cousin olmost 8years we have own baby son 6 years old his healthy.... my question what if he found another and leave us alone.we cant be merried? ...

Excited to be pregnant, but I am not married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - So I am a teacher in a middle school and I've been seeing a co-worker of mine for about seven months now. We're the youngest teachers (23) by far and three weeks ago I found out that I'm pregnant with his and my first child. There are a lot of ...

What to do now, do I say something else to him? I feel lost and crushed by his lies and his games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I am going to try to make this as short as possible by giving enough info but it's a long story. any advice is welcomed. refrain from judgement and ill comments please. My fiance and I got into an argument one day. very stupid argument and...

Could I get pregnant still if he didn't ejaculate inside me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - We had sex before one week but he didn't entered me as he was rubbing my vagina with his penis and ejaculated outside my vagina. Can it cause pregnancy?...

How to make a tough decision when you're pregnant and it's unplanned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - I'm 26 and been with my boyfriend for a year. It's been stressful lately and I got laid off from my job (company downsizing/ folding). I hate not working and get depressed. Ive been sick and my boyfriend took me to the doctor. He told me I'm ...

My brother's girlfriend (now ex) is pregnant--how do we convince her to go through with the pregnancy?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - I'm 17. My 14 year old brother got his (now ex) girlfriend pregnant because they put on the condom wrong or something stupid because the school sex education is shite, my parents felt too awkward and embarrassed to talk to him about sex and him and ...

I'm pregnant again and all the old problems with my boyfriend and the last pregnancy have resurfaced

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 22 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 4 and a half years and we have a 2 almost 3 year old. We have been trying for a few months to get pregnant and I'm 8 weeks pregnant. Our son wasn't planned but it worked out ok, and he's a lovely little boy. When I wa...

How do I handle the visitation of my ex seeing our baby after its born? He left me and is an alcoholic

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - What to do when the father of my baby wants to see her after shes born?? I am now 20 weeks pregnant and alone. The father left me for dead and I havent heard boo from him. I have accepted the fact that Im going to be a single parent. The father is ...

I've just found out my boyfriend has a second child with his ex, I don't think I can deal with him having so many kids but I'm pregnant with his baby! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

2 May 2013 (F) - Just found out my boyfriend has another baby with his first baby mama, they already have a son I knew about. im also 5 months pregnant with his baby, he said he just found out that her daughter is his, he didn't cheat with her the baby was before me ...

What are the consequences I'm going to be facing being a single mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

1 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, This question is for all the single mothers out there, please encourage. I have decided to keep my baby because he/she can't suffer for my mistakes but I want to know how does it feel when the father denies the pregnanacy and y...

Has anyone with PCOS succeeded in getting pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I have PCOS and thanks to that I never get a period. Me and my boyfriend want a baby. I started metformin a month ago and have been taking 2000mg for 2 weeks now. Has anyone succeeded in conceiving? I really really want a baby now. Any...

Should I submit and be treated like dirt because I'm pregnant or should I simply abort?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old 2 weeks after meeting a guy I discovered how rude, controlling, short tempered and impolite he is and so I ended it. Now I jus discovered I'm pregnant I text him messages telling him of my suspicions and he has flatl...

We were happy until I had a miscarriage. After that we argued constantly and broke up.I miss him. So what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 26 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone my ex and I broke up middle of march after a 4 month relationship we had known each other to speak to for 5 years then we got together the relationship was intense we both fell in love moved in together i fell pregnant which w...

My friend hurt me. Should I give her the chance to do it again? Or should I send her packing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - My best friend hurt me really badly about a year ago it started suddenly for no obvious reason. She seemed to be constantly going out of her way to hurt me and said some terrible things behind my back. Including playing mind games and making nast...

I'm pregnant and feeling sad knowing my child's father won't be in the picture

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Im having to face being a single mum and only in the last week or so I have been feeling loss of love towards my baby. I know it could be hormonal but i dont like feeling this way. Especially when I felt nothing but excitement towards my baby from ...

Should I be concerned that he trusted her opinion, but earlier, when I said the same thing, he rejected my opinion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having an ongoing argument about certain aspects of childbirth (don't worry, we're not planning on having a baby, we're both too young and still in university anyway, but we've been talking through some of the ups and ...

Does everything has to be "his way"? Is there anyway to get him to see reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, hoping to get some objective feedback. My partner and I have been together for three and a half years, but have been in a long distance relationship for the past 1 year and 8 months (approx) and we have a two year old son who live...

I'm 30 weeks pregnant. How do I get my husband back in bed with me? He's been looking at sexy pictures of girls instead.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now. I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I have only gained 18 pounds so I feel a little silly moping, but I could really use some words of encouragement. My fears began when our love making sessions...