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Crushes: Help and advice

Do I go with the flow on this one? Or try and dial it back to friends only and if so how?

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12 November 2018 (F - I got back in touch with an old male friend around 9 months ago. We were close friends years ago and I was a good friend of his girlfriend. I've been in a relationship with someone else and whilst it started out as friends only, around 3 months in ...

He wants to be friends only!

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11 November 2018 (F - I have been seeing a guy on and off for around 10 months, we’ve never gotten past the casual first stage due to him not being ready and so there have been gaps where we haven’t seen each other and dated other people, however always seem to come ...

I've got a crush on the check out chck!

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11 November 2018 (M - Over the last couple of months i have been getting very friendly with a girl who works on the checkout at my local supermarket. We chat a lot and share lots of eye contact, and when i am walking away with my trolley after paying i look back and she ...

I like a guy but another girl might steal him.

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11 November 2018 (F - I like this uy named Jonah but im not sure how to go about it because we only talk in school and this one girl Aliyah may steal him but I feel like me and him have a connection...

I can't believe he couldnt see how I felt.

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10 November 2018 (F - I love a guy who is a good friend of mine and he doesnt know that I love him. At present we are not at all in talking terms. Let me explain how all this happened. 6-7 months back it came to my realization that I love him because I sensed jealousy...

We have fun and the sex is amazing but then why doesn't he fall for me?

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5 November 2018 (F - Hey all. I feel like a spoilt brat here, like Verruca Salt when she can't get what she wants. I've completely fallen for a co worker. He works in another office and lives 80 miles away. He lives alone (divorced with a son) as I live with parents ...

Does this mean he likes me, or am I friend zoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

4 November 2018 (F - Might be a bit young, but I’m a freshman who likes a sophomore. Now last year he started giving me hugs when ever I’m about to leave, same this year. (Extra information: Our school is small, so I see him often the the hallways or after school.) I’m ...

Help! I am seeing my crush in other people. I don't think this is normal!

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1 November 2018 (M - I developed a crush on a girl a while ago, Im pretty sure she is into me as well but we are both in longterm relationships. So I have limited contact with her but remained polite with just a hello or a wave. The problem is I am seeing her body ...

He's successful and talented.. I fear missing out on an exciting life if I'm not with him but I want a completely different future

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

31 October 2018 (F - I recently met a guy who’s an actor so his life is definitely in London. My life definitely isn’t in London. I don’t want to live there. I established this when my performer ex got a job there and it was the end of our relationship. We met a ...

I'm unable to move on after being rejected by the girl I love

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30 October 2018 (M - In my current state I feel lonely, depressed and unable to get over recent rejection with the *only* person I've had feelings for so far. To give more insight, I'm 15 years old and far from being attractive. In fact, I've not been favoured once by...

How can I make her my girlfriend?

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28 October 2018 (M - There is this girl I work with and I really, really like her. Her and I both started working together at the same time and she has been in 2 relationships that hadn't ended well. She knows I like her and care a lot about her, but she keeps saying ...

She said no. Should I keep trying?

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27 October 2018 (M - So, I've liked somebody for a long time (2-3 years) and recently, a couple of weeks ago I decided to tell them how I felt. I've been friends with her since we first met and everybody I know was certain she was into me as well. Unfortunately I was ...

Has anyone else given up a fairly long-term, comfortable relationship for something new and exciting with so much in common and a strong sexual attraction?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

27 October 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have just passed 3 years together. We have a great life together: we laugh a lot, we support each other, we cook, we travel, we have many of the same interests and tastes. I know he loves me and I love him too, but it's always ...

Why are these people at my gym being so weird? Do you think the guy likes me?

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26 October 2018 (F - For the past few months, a group of people who I see at the gym regularly have started paying attention to me. I have been going there for 3 years and have seen them throughout those 3 years, and they have never noticed me until now, which is ...

Can I just turn off some thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

19 October 2018 (M - I have very strong romantic feelings for my cousin and I know its wrong even if she is my step cousin I know its wrong. The problem is I suspect she feels the same way. She plays with her hair when she speaks to me, tries to get closer to me whe...

He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

18 October 2018 (F - My crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes. I was sick the day after and I wasn’t at school. My friends texted me about it. Apparently he had told most of my friends. Now I have to go back to school. I don’t really like him a lot. I just ...

Why can't I develop strong feelings for guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

15 October 2018 (F - I'm struggling to understand why I can't seem to develop strong feelings for guys. I have crushes, but they're always for the guys I can't have. The minute I get into a relationship or feel myself going into one I immediately go off them and run ...

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