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We're both unhappy in our marriages and have a long history. Should we have sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted today

18 May 2019 (F - When I was a teenager While visiting family i met a boy, through high school we crushed back and forth on each other secretly and living in different ends of the country made it impossible for anything to happen. As young adults be told me he liked ...

I'm completely infatuated with a married man who's my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 May 2019 (F - I just need someone to tell me that I’m crazy and maybe give me some advice on how to move on. I feel like I’m a high school girl! I’m 21 and I’m completely infatuated with a 40 year old married man who also happens to be very close with my ...

I can't get over him, we had sex once but he has a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 May 2019 (F - A year ago I fell in love with someone who had a girlfriend. After months of building sexual tension, we had sex once, after which he told his girlfriend. She told him never to contact me again. For a few months he didn't, then he got back in touch. ...

Seeking advice for a first time crush on a trans man

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13 May 2019 (F - I am a single heterosexual cis female. I've recently started spending a lot of social time with a 24yr old transitioning man (ftm), and have suprised myself by developing a crush. He and I aren't super close, and to be honest if nothing else the...

It's embarrassing to think I may have scared the younger guy off for good. Did I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 May 2019 (F - Hi - I was tutoring this guy - a young adult, his exams are coming up soon. We both got on well - in fact - a little too well at times. We both would catch each other glancing at each other, were often laughing and joking or he would blush sometime...

Should I reconnect with an old lesbian teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 May 2019 (F - When I was at school, there was an out teacher. We got on well but I haven't spoken to her since I left, I was 16 then but I haven't seen her since. I felt that we had a good friendship at the time however it has been 5 years since I left. I don't ...

Is my FWB starting to get feelings for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 May 2019 (F - My friend with benefits knows i like him more than what we have we talked about things a while back he said he doesnt feel the same way but at the weekend we did a lot more than usual and he made a point of wanting to hold my hand and wanted to keep ...

I like him, his friend likes me and indicates to him that I prefer the friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

8 May 2019 (F - I met him at his place of work and boom, big time crush. He feels the same way too. We were still in the initial stages of attraction.. Not talking too much.. Just staring at each other. Then his house mate who is always around just out smarted him ...

I want to hear from you - especially the male ‘aunts’ - if you think he likes me?!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 May 2019 (F - I'm really confused and need your help. Sorry, buckle in... it's gonna be a bit long but the details are important. I promise. I started University in August, and my major is really small. There's this really shy/quiet guy in my major, so he's e...

I’m struggling to balance my feelings for him with my care for my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 May 2019 (F - Dear Cupid, I am in high school and i am struggling with this person that I have feelings for. We are just friends and lost our close friendship not long after I told him that i had feelings for him thinking it would make me feel more relieved...

My guy friends always wind up having feelings for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 May 2019 (F - I've always enjoyed having guy friends more than girl friends, and i always have to deal with the exact same problem, which is, him ending up having feelings for me. I always try to avoid those situations by acting more casual and not giving them ...

Should I make him my friend with benefits

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

1 May 2019 (F - So I met a guy about 14 years ago and was instantly attracted to him. He had a girlfriend at the time and I had just got into a new relationship too. I’m not going to lie there was one or 2 nights we hooked up and did things we shouldn’t of ...

What is the best way to reject this persistent guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 April 2019 (F - There is a guy at work (we work in separate departments) and he is always trying to chat me up. I thought he just wanted to be friends a "friendly co-worker" relationship, but I bought up about a vacation trip and said I went with someone and his ...

Despite all the nonsense I still wanted him but the "Facebook relationship" woman he's never met in real life reaps all the benefits

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

22 April 2019 (F - He is a typical Mr Unavailable. We were close once and we’d text all the time. I was coming out of a destructive relationship and soon our involvement became romantic. Despite his advances and “promises”, he was just unable to commit to a ...

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