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Crushes: Help and advice

Should I tell my friend my crush gave me his number, when he's her crush too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 June 2017 (F - The guy I've been trying to talk to all year - and had a major crush on for two years - has just told me that he's wanted to be friends for a long time, but didn't know how to do it. In fact, he even gave me his phone number and email addresses. As ...

Should I contact my old tutor and tell him how much he meant to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 June 2017 (F - So I need some advice about 'the one who got away..' I need to start with the fact that I had a really difficult childhood because my parents were quite abusive and had alcohol issues, and I had to depend on myself from a young age. But my wo...

How do I put him at ease?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 June 2017 (F - Myself and a guy I work with have been dancing around each other for a while now, we've been out a couple of times and he's kissed me with a bit of Dutch courage on board! Thing is he's really shy and un-confident and he fully admits to that whe...

The way he answered a question..wouldn't he have said if he had a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 June 2017 (F - MEN what does this mean? one day my crush had came late 2 pick me up and I said you're late and he said traffic, laughing and I said I hope you don't use that excuse on your girlfriend. he said nothing, he just laughed and smiled....and I smiled and ...

Any suggestions on how to gain the attention of this gorgeous Turkish girl when I return to Turkey for another vacation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - Hi people I'm a college student from France. So I want to share my story with you all and hopefully find a solution. A couple friends and I went on vacation to Turkey 2 weeks ago, and I met this gorgeous Turkish girl. I've never seen anything li...

In process of breaking up with my partner. Is my physiotherapist flirting with me, or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 June 2017 (F - Hey everyone. So, I've been with someone was 4 years and we have a child together. Over the past two years or so, the relationship has become incredibly fraught and there's no passion or excitement. It drains the life out of me and my partner t...

What's the best thing to do? I have a crush on a hot co-worker

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - Well, I have a crush on coworker, but she is dating another co-worker and has a kid with him. She asked me if I think her boyfriend would cheat on her. I told her "no, I didn't think so". She supposed to come over and hang out, but Im not going to ...

Should I tell my boyfriend the truth about a small crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 June 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 years. In the past 4 years, I've started to become really unhappy because he has broken so many promises, has lied so much, and I want to be married. He says he want's to be married too, but...

Why can't my wife understand my need to cross-dress? Why is she so upset that I wore her clothes?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - My wife knows I am a crossdresser so why was she so angry at me when I came home the other night. I was completely dressed, with a full make over, my eyebrows plucked super thin with a high arch in them and my ears pierced. She said she knows t...

I advised the male friend that jacking off is normal, but telling me all about it is not. How should I deal with this issue when I raise it with my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

9 June 2017 (F - Hello, I've been here historically and your answers have really helped me so I am hoping you can help me with something else as I honestly don't know how to talk to anyone about this or if I should. Before I get into it I need to point out that I...

The 60 year old professor doesn't know me. Advice, please? Should I tell him my feelings for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

8 June 2017 (M - hello guys, I have a crush on my professor, he is 60 years old, it been more than 2 years, I don't know what to do. I'm always thinking of him. He is so smart and handsome, I like his personality and smile. I feel I need to know him,and talk...

Should I be worried? He's 18 years older than me, separated and with kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

8 June 2017 (F - So I have been seeing this amazing guy for a few months now and I'm head over heels for him. He is the same towards me. The only thing that worries me is he is 18 years older than me and is separated with kids... Advice please?...

My partner for 3 years loves me. Would it be wrong to take a chance with another man who I've loved for 27 years?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 June 2017 (? - Dear Cupid, I have recently been contacted by the man I've been in love with for 27 years. There are songs I couldn't listen to, our anniversary date that I still hold dear to my heart. I hadn't laid eyes on him in 18 years and that one time wa...

Is he rushing things by telling me he loves me when we've only been talking online for less than a month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hello everyone, So i'm 19 years old and there's a guy i met online, who's really cute, smart and i like him. It's my first time really liking someone. We still didn't meet, though we're chatting everyday for hours.. The thing is he told me late...

What were his intentions in messaging me everyday, only to then friend-zone me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I've been friends with this guy for a little over a year now. He was a friend of a friend, and one day he messaged me and started talking about relationships. I responded and it followed with us messaging each other back and fort...

Feeling confused. What is happening to me? I had sex with him and I'm not over him yet. Even though my feelings for him are fading.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - Hello, I'm 17 going on 18 and I am a little confused about my feelings towards a guy. In a nut shell, we've been friends for a while, things got flirty, he hung out a few times, I lost my virginity to him, we decided to stay friends to avoid th...

He used to like me, tells people he doesn't like me, but does he?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 June 2017 (F - I'm 15 and talking to this guy I've had a crush on for this whole year. He used to like me but doesn't anymore apparently. I was out with friends the other night and when they were picking me up at my house the guy I like said I looked hot asf, my ...

I am getting vibes but I don't want to misread them and ruin a friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 20 days ago

4 June 2017 (M - I'm just going to dive in here. I'm friends with a girl that I have a crush on. She had invited me over to her house, because she wanted to show me a gift I had given here the year before, that she had just found. Then later, she has asked me to ...

Wanting to be seen as Hot. Is it an unrealistic expectation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

2 June 2017 (F - I've never been much of a romantic; I don't really believe in love at first sight, or soul mates, and far prefer my relationship to be based on practical criteria over emotions (we have common interests, we have good conversations, we have a similar ...

I love my boyfriend, but why can't get this other guy out of my head? ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

2 June 2017 (F - I just need some advice So I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and it's going great! It's the best relationship I've ever had. However there is this guy who I work with, and like we talked for ages and got really close as friends,...

I've fallen hard for a one-night-stand guy. How do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

1 June 2017 (F - I got back onto the dating scene a couple of weeks ago after a year of being single. I went onto a dating app and I met someone there. He caught me off guard completely! I fell for him, hard. He was so handsome and charming! I couldn't believe ...

So tired of it, what now? I feel rejected again. We met, and then we were texting a lot. Now he is not replying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 May 2017 (F - Hi! Just need some advice on not stressing out too much... I met this guy a week ago, last friday. We were at a party and kissed on the night and he was SO nice. He asked for my number and texted me the day after and told me how nice it was ...

Who am I? I want to be bisexual as I think I like girls more than boys now. Hardly anyone I know is bisexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

29 May 2017 (F - I have been out with loads of boys but I kissed a girl and I think I like girls now. I want to be bisexual, but don't know what people would think and well it's harder to get a good relationship because hardly anyone I know is bisexual or gay. W...

Does he feel the same way or did I make him uncomfortable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 May 2017 (F - Hi. I'd love to get a third person's opinion I fell hard for an old friend but we live in different cities. He used to flirt back and forth and met a few times. I'm not sure of he had feelings for me. After 3 years and I finally told him everyth...

Does she like me romantically or just see me as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

25 May 2017 (M - Not entirely sure with this, I'd like to think she likes me but I really struggle to tell the difference between what counts as friendship or relationship material. Basically put I met up with this girl who I got talking to online and I met up wit...

My crush of 2 years just got a girlfriend! Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

25 May 2017 (F - I'm sure this has happened to people a million times before but this is the first time for me. Quite simply, the boy I've had a crush on for two years has just gotten a girlfriend. He likes her very much - he is constantly preoccupied, staring into ...

Should I tell my art teacher of my feelings in case I never see her again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

25 May 2017 (F - So I'm a 16 year old girl I'll be 17 in 2 months. And I am in love with my female art teacher. Sadly she is straight and has a boyfriend. I want to tell her how i feel after I graduate just to get it off my chest but I'm afraid that she will never ...

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