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Crushes: Help and advice

We're both in relationships but I'm extremely attracted to my co-worker and don't know how to deal with it

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26 May 2018 (F - I am in trouble and it hurts. I have a boyfriend and I respect him and love him. However, there is a guy at work who I think I may have developed feels for. We are both bilingual so joking around is fun. He makes me laugh with the things he sa...

Help! I’ve fallen for my friend, but I don’t know what to do about it!

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25 May 2018 (M - I was hoping if a female mind would be able to help out here because I'm in love with my best friend and I don't know if she feels the same way. I'm 23 and never had a proper relationship before so not terribly experienced! However, met thi...

Is this just a great friendship or does he have a crush?

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24 May 2018 (F - Ok, so this is a bit complicated. We are two cross cultural couples- my husband and I are Asian while the other couple is European. We used to live in the same country but we returned to our own after a couple of years. During our time there, ...

I’ve got a crush on him and need help deciphering if he has a crush on me!

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23 May 2018 (F - Hi I'm 14 years old (almost 15) and I've never had a boyfriend but a few links and crushes. A little while ago, I started finding one of my closest guy friends attractive, and it was really awkward for me because I've known him for so long. I was ...

I don't want to lead her on, but I don't want to flat out reject her as I don't want to hurt her that way either

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22 May 2018 (M - Dear all I need some advice. I met a girl online several months ago, as a language exchange. That was all I was looking for and her too i believe. We get along great and have learned a lot together. Our personalities are very similar, lots of ...

Why do guys I meet (and like) only like to flirt and never do anything?

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17 May 2018 (F - Why do guys I meet (and like) only like to flirt and never do anything? I have an unusual job, we do fieldwork and one expedition can last for several months, so we get to know each other well and spend time together. They are all very open...

If I’ve fallen for him and my parents don’t approve of me being with someone, what do I do?

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17 May 2018 (F - I met my friend when we were both just 10 years old. We kept in contact for years but were never close.. we just always make sure to wish each other on birthdays and chat to catch up and see how we’re both doing. But just last year in September, we ...

He hasn’t initiated a date and I’m wondering if I’m being played!

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17 May 2018 (F - Hello everyone! So I’ve been on a few dates with this guy, who I really like! He’s a mutual friend, but I don’t know much about him. The first date was good, we had plenty to talk about but we were trying to impress each other quite a lot b...

I have a huge crush on the perfect girl but we're both in relationships. Should I still get her number in case we break up with our partners in the future?

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16 May 2018 (M - Im in a class with a girl, who when I first saw her thought she was pretty but didnt think much of it. As Ive got to know her a little better over the semester and she is so smart! Probably the most intelligent in the class. She honestly seems so ...

In a long term relationship but now some things are bothering me!

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16 May 2018 (M - Hi. I am in a long term relationship (over 4 years) now. I do love my boyfriend very much, however recently a few 'issues' which ordinarily I would just ignore have started eating away at me. The first, I have found myself looking at other guys more ...

Does he love me? Or not? Is he worth the wait or is he spouting empty words? Must I risk it all and take a chance with him? Help!

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15 May 2018 (F - I am hoping to get perspective on an issue more to reflect on it and process it before deciding what to do. This is the situation: My first love and i were together for a year and a half before a very silly solit. He thought he wasn't ready as ...

How can I stop thinking about him and move on?

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13 May 2018 (F - Hello! I'm sorry if this is not the right place to vent, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone about something that is bothering me so much right now and just need to hear others' thoughts. I fell for a guy who is a good/long-time friend of mi...

Getting over my married boss

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12 May 2018 (F - I have a huge crush on my male boss who retires next week-what should I do? He is married, 55, with grown up children. I am 31, living with my bf but he's pretty boring and things haven't been great in terms of my emotional connect with him for ...

Is he playing games? How can I heal and also hurt him?

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12 May 2018 (F - Guys I seriously need help.please read whole. I need help. I know this guy since the past 1.5 years, we started off as friends but then three four months into the frndship he told me he liked me. I had another friend (female) who had a crush ...

I can't stop thinking about the girl at work...

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4 May 2018 (M - Sadly, I've not much experience with interacting with women despite my age, so I'm needing some advice about a woman at work. We work in different departments, so it's not as if we see each other every day if at all. Still, she's made it a point ...

She sounded cold and short, should I ask her if she is married before I ask her for a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

2 May 2018 (M - Dear Cupid I would like your advice, I am a divorced man that tried to make it work with my wife but it didnt work..after so many years we seperated and divorced got finalized last year. I am ready to start dating and I found my first love on ...

What does meeting a soulmate feel like? It that what this is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 April 2018 (F - So this may be a bit out there, but here goes... A few weeks ago I was introduced to a guy by a friend who had been talking this guy up to me for months. I was crazy anxious about the whole thing, because I don't like having attention put on me li...

I have feelings for a man 20 years my senior

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26 April 2018 (F - I have this weird question I'm hoping someone can help me with, I have romantic/sexual feelings for a much older man and I've recently told him this. What I want help is should I roll with it or try to move on? He's an old friend of the family and I ...

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