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Crushes: Help and advice

What should I do? I want my parents to allow me to hang out with this boy and stop being so strict

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

25 March 2017 (F - hello, i'm a 13 year old girl that comes from a muslim family and I really need help when it comes down to boys and dating. my parents are extremely strict when it comes down to these things and don't allow me to hang out with boys or have bo...

LD friend. Should I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

24 March 2017 (F - I have been talking to this guy for longer than a month and we get along well. We have both admitted to each other that we really like each other, however we both live in different states, 9-10 hours away from each other. We have spoken about a l...

Why am I getting mixed signals from her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

24 March 2017 (M - This girl at work is giving me mixed signals, seems like mostly negative. On the one hand someone asked her if she likes me ( in front of me), to which she responded "of course I love him". On the other hand she's always telling me I talk too much, ...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

24 March 2017 (F - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

I overthink and cannot just let things be in the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 March 2017 (F - Dear aunts and uncles, I often do overthink stuff and I feel like I am in this situation too. All I am asking here if for you guys to hear me out and give me your views and comments. Sorry if this post gets too long. Thank you in advance to al...

She says she wants to be friends with me but wants to take a year off to focus on her new relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

24 March 2017 (M - Hi, I was sort of dating this girl. We flirted, talked every day, I emailed her cute things, amde her things, she sent me a nice care package, etc. but then realized things were not right. We decided since we shared so much, I asked her if we could...

Is he interested in me? And how do I get over him if he's not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 March 2017 (F - This man I have had a crush on for the past six months seems to have been playing hot and cold with me. (Or maybe I am just reading too much into it). He's been flirty one day and then distant the next. He recently hugged and kissed me on the cheek, ...

How do I get things back to normal, before we end up not being able to be friends at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

23 March 2017 (F - I have feelings for someone who has previously told me they reciprocate but for various complicated reasons nothing ever came of it. We get on really well and are attracted to each other. But things have been difficult since this came out into the ...

Should I wait another year until I am more sure of my feelings for him before I buy him an airline ticket to allow him to visit me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 March 2017 (M - This issue is a bit tricky and I need an external view I met a guy online 6 months ago , he lives in Argentina, he is 5 years younger than me, I live in Europe, we talk constantly every day including video calls , although the time is differen...

Was this man in my walking group interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - Last year I joined a walking group online. I noticed a guy had viewed my profile a few times at the time but we had never met. 8 months went by and I finally made an appearance and met the group in person. The guy who had viewed my profile was ...

Should I make a move on my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

19 March 2017 (F - does anyone have any experience with those kinds of guys who are really clever, not very masculine and all their friends are girls but they're still straight, and the signs that they like you, because I'm really into a guy like that and I feel like ...

I put all the effort into contacting her but she never does the same back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - Ladies, I need your opinion here. I'm friends with a girl who I have always found attractive. I recently found out that she has interest in me too and so we began texting daily. However, from her texts I can sense something's not right. She goes mis...

My friend doesn't know if he likes her or not or if she has a chance with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - Just wanted to say thank you for taking your time to read this first. This has nothing to do with me, my friend is having problems reading this guy she likes and I thought asking here would help as I understand a lot of people here give out go...

We are really close friends but I want more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - I really need some help. For the last 2 and a half years I've been crazy about this girl. We have known each other for years, and are extremely close friends. Over the last couple of years, we've been close to becoming more than friends a few times. ...

My Bf passed away a year ago. Is it wrong to start dating the second cousin of my late partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 March 2017 (F - Okay my boyfriend passed away (father of my child) about 1 year ago. We were on and off for about 5 years, always fighting never really happy. I met someone who makes me really happy. Unfortunately it's his second cousin. (Even though the...

Does he still want to see me? He said that we would not be compatible long term, but he does like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

16 March 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I need some advice, I've been seeing this guy for about a month (I'm 19 and he's 25) and we were getting on really well, he takes me out and treats me really nice, we just clicked. We're very similar and we've both noticed this. We'v...

Should I stop flirting and just see if he makes a move? Do guys always flirt back if they're into you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 March 2017 (F - I met a guy and didn't talk to him for long, but was teasing him cos i thought he was cute., but he didn't tease or flirt back. We sat at the bar together and were swinging on the stools slightly so our legs touched. We made eye contact across the ...

How easy is it for some men to cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - How easy it is for some men to cheat? Do you think my man cheated on me based on this: *He's had sex with approx. 30 girls that I know about... *They are all types of faces and bodies and most of them he says he considers them ugly. (Ma...

Based on his words and actions since November, is it reasonable to ask if we are exclusive now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - I had a conversation with the guy i'm seeing and we were talking about which friends are single and which are with someone. So I said when you coming off the market and he said well I am kinda off the market. I said not really then he said ok, ...

Lesbian, Bisexual or Heterosexual or all three? I’m confused, any chance of talking some sense into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - I used to identify as a lesbian, and had only had serious relationships with women, however I fell madly in love with my male best friend, who has now been my partner for the past three years. We have an excellent relationship and have many exc...

Why can't I attract the guys I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 March 2017 (M - I feel like I'm one of them good looking guys..... I get told I'm cute, I'm handsome.... no ones ever actually called me ugly People tend to love my personality once I get to know them to But why can't I sleep with the guys I find attractive?...

I want the relationship to work. What are your opinions on flirting/ making inappropriate comments to another female while the guy is in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - Please guys only (ps if advice is just shouldnt be together please do not respond. I want to make this work) Okay so guys. What are your opinions on flirting/ making inappropriate comments to another female while in a relationship. ...

I made a fool out of myself, how can I feel better about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - Long story short, I've done a series of things that made me look bad in front of my crush. I don't mean things that have to do with being rude, immoral, nasty or unkind, etc. I just haven't had much dating experience and made mistakes that made the ...

What can I do or say, that might encourage him to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - Hello. I know one of my guy friends likes me. But he wont say anything. His best friend used to go out with my sister and it ended badly. His best friend said that he might not say anything because of this Is there a way to help change his min...

Do I gave up on her or give her a chance? She visited her ex and relegated me to the friend zone.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

5 March 2017 (M - First of all, sorry for my english, I am not a native speaker. So I was seeing this girl for some months (september to december) and we had such a great time together. It never got into a serious relationship. Probably I was not ready for that, ...

Why is he so hard to get to know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

4 March 2017 (M - So this is a little bit of a head messer (for me anyway) So there's a guy I really like we know each other from social media and hears the thing. I message him and sometimes he replies sometimes he don't. We share a match in music taste. ...

I try to put myself in his girlfriend's shoes, but I still like him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

4 March 2017 (F - I began liking this guy (who I see at my bus stop everyday and goes to a different school) in the beginning of Feb and we never speak. A friend gave me his snapchat and we started talking from there and for two people who are shy, we were very ...

What I thought was just a good time has me having feelings for this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

3 March 2017 (M - I'm away from my wife now for 1 month, she's visiting her parents and she is pregnant, we are in good terms and very happy with our relation, we have this kind of up and downs that can happen to all the couples well one week ago I traveled for 3 da...

I know I can't get involved but how do I deal with my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

3 March 2017 (F - I started a job 3 months ago the same time as a male colleague who is a few years older than me. Over time we have chatted and I have found myself attracted to him. I get from his body language that he likes me too. He gazes at me when he talks or ...

Could this girl be interested in me?

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2 March 2017 (M - I stop at this petrol station sometimes. The past two, three times there's been a nice young girl there, and as at the times I go there it's not that busy, we have a chat. Somehow we got on to the topic of massages. I said that my massages may be ...

He was my friend a long time ago. But he now has a girlfriend. Could I ever mean more to him? Or is he destined to be only a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - I fell in love with a old friend i met 39yrs ago. i were dating another one also. I chose my husband over him who is now deceased in whom were also a friend at that time. My friend came back in my life after 26yrs. To support me thru the ha...

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

I like this guy. But he has also become friends on social media with a girl who has previously said bad things about me. What can I do in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - Hello everyone I could use some advice It's a small world, definitely for me. I went for a pageant where my roommate wasn't such a good person. She accused me of stealing because all apple headphones look the same and I took her headphones by mi...

He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

26 February 2017 (F - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings h...

Do I ask her out online or in person? She is shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

24 February 2017 (M - I don't know if I should ask her out in person or online? We talk often, and get along well. In fact I often see her staring, and all of the signs that tell me she likes me are clear now. She's shy, and probably won't ask me out herself, so I thin...

How do I tell someone that their romantic feelings toward me are not mutual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

24 February 2017 (F - I'm not into relationships at all, just casual stuff mainly. However, a guy I've recently been seeing thinks he's fallen in love with me and wants to be in a relationship. The issue is I can't bring myself to tell him that's not what I want. I'm ...

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

24 February 2017 (M - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it so...

How do I stop falling in love with my best friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

23 February 2017 (F - I'm in love with my best friend at college. He's not your average stud bit of a stoner, very clever and it nerdy but probably THE funniest guy I have ever met, I could be having a really shit time and I'd talk to him for like 2 minutes and he puts a ...

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