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Crushes: Help and advice

Shall I tell him? Do I let it out or just walk away without saying anything ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

19 January 2017 (F - Do you tell the person you love that you have feelings for him ? Despite the fact he is not that friendly to you and never indulges you in their personal thoughts and life ? I have been thinking about telling the guy I love that I loved him but ...

Any opinions as to whether she is into me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 January 2017 (F - There is a young girl who I come across frequently as she works near me and I am of the understanding she is straight. I think she has a boyfriend but I am gay with a girlfriend. I am just curious as to whether she is into me or not. She remembe...

I still feel embarrassed 8 months later.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 January 2017 (F - I expressed interest in guy that I was interested in 8 months ago but he turned me down. I felt disappointed but brushed it off and acted like it was no big deal. However, the long term effect was embarrassment. I thought he was interested in me...

He seemed interested, but I was at work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - A customer came to apply for a house and seemed like he was interested in me. He asked my name, then told me his as he left. He came back the next day and asked me who would help him with his housing application as I was going somewhere else. I came ...

People changing their minds about crushing on you years later...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 January 2017 (M - When someone turns you down romantically or makes no time for your friendship, then years later they see you again. Suddenly, like nothing has happened they are all over you, and suddenly attracted you. Do you give them a chance or leave them? ...

Should I listen to my heart or to my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - Hi, i have fallen for my assistant. Its just that we are so different. We come from different strata s of society, different upbringing and different religion. We have different tastes. But we get along very well in office. Now i cant stop thinking...

Should I take a step back and distance myself from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - so I like this girl who is one of my best friends. when we first met we started something it wasn't serious but that ended due to me and hers mental health issues. anyway we stayed friends and we're really close talk everyday, tell each other ...

I'm not sure if I should hang in there or let it go ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 January 2017 (M - Hello everyone, I'm not sure where to begin? I came out of a very bad relationship. I try not to say anything negative about anyone, but imagine the worst things you can do and she pretty much did it. This ended about a year ago. I met...

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

Why is he making this so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - I have so much in common with this guy why is he making it so hard to be more...... okay so I know this guy from social media. We have loads in common when we first started talking he had a BF he asked me to go to a concert with him but I declined...

We enjoy each other's company but nothing seems to be starting! Any advice, aunties?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - In April last year I met a guy at a local sports club I go to and over the course of the last few months we've built up a friendship and now regularly see each other outside our sports club. We're both single and in our 30s and at the start of las...

How can I get over this guy? Or at least no longer act like an idiot in front of him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - Okay I need help with ways of coping when seeing the guy I like. We work together and he's a young doctor and I assist him about once a month. Every time I see him I get extremely nervous to the point where my heart starts to pound so hard, I ...

How to get over the embarrassment of rejection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - I expressed interest in guy that I had my eye on 9 months ago but I was politely rebuffed. I felt embarrassed but brushed it .However,I try to be polite and friendly whenever our path cross but things are extremely awkward between us.I wish things ...

I'm a girl who has liked this girl for 3 years! Should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - There is this beautiful girl who goes to my school and I'm in love with everything about her from her looks to her knowledge. She has blond hair and blue eyes and she has one hell of a body.(brace yourselves this is gonna be a long heart-breaking ...

I've fallen for my friend's ex! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - I have fallen in love with my friend's ex. What should I do? I have been crushing on him for just over a year now and can't stop thinking about him, they broke up about 2 and a half years ago and she is in a relationship with this new guy who she ...

Help, please? I don't want to hurt my friends, but we all like the same guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hi, I'm 13 and I'm in a bit of a love triangle... Well.. Love square. My two best friends like the same boy, and they have for ages now. And guess what? Now I'm in the picture, I like him too. And the thing is, he likes me. I feel bad for my...

His behavior has me asking if he is bisexual!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hey everyone, Thanks for taking the time to hear me out. I met my boyfriend in college almost 3 years ago. We've gotten along great and haven't had any serious issues...until now. I've just recently noticed that his behavior is a little od...

She's broken up with her girlfriend and I've always thought we could have something special together, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Yesterday I bumped into an old friend, someone I haven't seen much of this past year, but someone I have always, since we first met, had very strong feelings for. In the entire time that I have known her she has always had a long-term girlfriend, ...

He likes and comments on my social media but blanks when invited out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 January 2017 (M - Okay so I met this guy on social media but I don't get him.... seems we have a lot in common and when we've spoken convo flowed well. He follows me on two types of social media as I do him. Sometimes now he don't reply to conversations......

I fancy my friend's housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I really fancy my friend's housemate. She doesn't. But he is super nice to her and I wonder if he fancies her. She does not see him like that but it makes me feel sad. Is he just being friendly? I feel that everyone always fancies her over me and ...

Should I consider that this friend I like is now available? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I asked a friend who I like and who knows I like him, advice about dating as my ex is now started dating again and my friend told me to get out there etc. I then took a month away from social media. I came back mid/late December and I found out ...

Guy says he doesn't like me, but others say the opposite. What do you think? ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Question: Every guy I know says this guy obviously likes me, but the guy himself said to me it's not that way? He's close to me since my break up 5 months ago. He's brought me out, treated me to food and movies, would come all the way to my neighb...

Should I tell her he cheated on both of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Hi, I had a difficult abusive relationship before hand. I met someone from out the country and he made me trust again and go out again. I was content with his friendship but he pursued it to something more. Time for him to leave. He wanted me to go ...

Is my ex looking to reconcile, or just hoping to being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - Ex gave me two missed calls on the 29th of Dec. He claimed it was accidental. So I didn't react thinking it was genuine mistake. But he wished me a happy new year, and we ended up texting for about an hour. Funny thing about the text was we we...

I find myself attracted to another person. I would never cheat. But what does this feeling say about my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - I have been in a relationship for nine years. I love him. But recently I have found myself somewhat attracted to someone else. I would never cheat, ever. But is this something that is normal? It's just a crush but does that mean I don't fee...

Why tell me about this other girl when he knows how I feel? We live in different countries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

31 December 2016 (F - My online friend recently changed his bio from in a relationship to single after 3 weeks . I asked him about it and he said that they didn't have social media so that was why. But earlier that week he told me that he wasn't going to tell me their ...

Does he possibly still like me? Is it normal behaviour to spend Xmas with your ex and not with a child he fathered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - Me and my ex split in November 2013 due to him leaving for a new job then couple months later me finding out he met someone he knew and having a kid with her. Which I've asked many times but he will always denie anything. Anyway Feb this yr he r...

Is he ghosting me? He's not anywhere online. What must I make of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - I hooked up with a friend of a friend. I first noticed him on Facebook and grew interest in him. Over time I asked a friend to organize for us to meet. My friend told me he was single I am also single. He's 41 and very handsome. I had hinted t...

A friend has a crush on a guy. I would like to see them become a couple. Or should I help her to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - Hi, My problem is that my best friend is obsessed with her crush and I am obsessed with getting them together. All we both do is talk about this GUY. My friend's obsession is quite understandable because she had a breakup and was very dep...

Do you think my ex is deliberately calling me on purpose? Is he seeking my attention? Or is it likely that the calls were an accident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - We were together for 7 years, and broke off 4 months ago. He missed call me today (on social media) at 8am. And I texted "u called?" He said it was accidental. So I didn't reply. Then he missed call again at 130pm. I texted this ":/" Then h...

Is he not interested or just bad at texting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - Recently I've been talking to a guy, we live a long distance from each other so our main form of communication is texting. At first we texted frequently and the conversation flowed. However after a few weeks he kept taking longer and longer to ...

Is AB more important to my Bf than he implies? I believe he loves me. But I only sharing him with AB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and some change. When I left for college he became really close with a female friend( I'll call her AB). I do know her but I don't know her that well because we were never friends we just all kno...

Is there any way I can repair my friendship with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

28 December 2016 (M - Well,I just have a colleague which is a girl and she likes me. I used to talk to her after getting out from work on the way home.After some weeks I had some thoughts flying through my mind (not about her).I started to stop talking to her. Now we us...

I told him that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. Am I just a friend to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - I told one of my guy friend that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. From that day we started texting a lot. It's been 9 months.. I don't know where exactly we stand.. We talk and meet up sometimes but we haven't talk on this top...

Should I continue this? Let him visit and spend more time together? Or is it sounding too unhealthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

27 December 2016 (F - This is a hard question for me to put out there because it involves a relationship I am in with someone I really like and care about. However, I have made so many unhealthy choices in my past and I don't want to do that anymore. I think some...

I'm dating but I'm also developing stronger feeling for another guy. Not sure what to do. Help, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

24 December 2016 (F - I started university in September and have formed a good group of friends. I have started to date one of the guys in the group privately and I know he has fairly strong feelings for me. However, I have been talking a lot with one of the other guy...

How Long Do I Wait? Does he want a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

24 December 2016 (F - We have been talking for about 5 weeks now. We are about a 2 hours drive away from each other. We are not in a relationship, just been talking. He has already said he loves me we have sexted and we are planning on meeting up soon. I want to...

Do girls start to like guys if they spend this much time together? Or will I remain as just a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 December 2016 (M - Hi everyone. I have question about this girl I like. Main question is does she like me? Background info about the situation. I have moved to a new country 6 months ago. I met this girl 4 months ago at a meetup. Meetup is where you go meet rand...

He's in a band and seems shy. Might he like me, or does he just see me as just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

23 December 2016 (F - hello i really like this boy he is in a band we met once when he invited me to watch them perform. he seemed nervous but when we talked he was calm an d when we took pictures he was so close...later in the evening he apologised for being silent c...

How to determine if a woman likes me? How do I let a woman know I like her? How to slow down my orgasm when with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

23 December 2016 (M - Moderator note: more than one question combined into this one post. .. . . . . . . . . . . .. . I am a man wanting to know how to go about letting a woman know I like her? I am very shy and have a hard time telling a woman I like them. Once I...

I’m struggling with my sexuality and depression and wonder what I should do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

22 December 2016 (M - I'd always considered myself a straight man but I guess what I'm about to say kind of disputes that a bit. So for the last 5-6 years I've basically been in love with my best friend who is also a man. I knew the entire time that he wasn't gay and ...

I think I may not be the only one he likes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

22 December 2016 (F - I'm in love with a guy in my school, that's university.i met him in early September.My problem is, I don't really know whether he likes me just as a friend or more than a friend. Even though he constantly tell me he likes me, holds my hands often, ...

Why does he ask? Why does he keep showing an interest in my dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

22 December 2016 (F - My friend's husband always asks me about my dating every time I see him and seems quite enthusiastic when he asks. Just before they got married a mutual friend said in front of my friend how her husband wanted to date me before they got together...

Could this be the beginning of an emotional affair ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

19 December 2016 (F - Could this be the beginning of an emotional affair?We've been married about five years. My husband is pretty open about most things, and I feel pretty much that I can trust him. The other day he called me over to see what a co-worker had posted o...

Take a job I don't want just to keep in contact with a crush?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

19 December 2016 (M - Hi I'm Sam and I'm 17 years old. I have been working at a bar in the UK temporarily over the Christmas period. I was hoping that after this temporary spell, I would be offered the job permanently. However at the my shift last night, my boss spoke to ...

Should I write my bus driver crush a Christmas card?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

19 December 2016 (F - well I seen the bus driver I have a crush on who I think is about 36, I am 33. he is always shy but extra nice towards me and talks very low and mild mannered….so as I am getting on the bus today, he just cheeses and grins with all 32 teeth and says ...

Is my supervisor falling for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

19 December 2016 (M - Hello, There is a supervisor at my job who I would always have small talk with and she's very accommodating when I ask her for something work wise. Sometimes I'm so busy I don't get the time to talk to her. I can admit that I do find her attract...

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