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Crushes: Help and advice

Is he cheating on me if he's flirting in public with other girls? Should I kiss him for the first time at the party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

26 April 2017 (F - hey guys i need some help. I am dating this boy that i have strong feelings for. But recently I see him flirting with some other girls like playing around, like poking their stomach,laughing,and talking a lot to each other in front of me knowing w...

Was I harsh for just blocking him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

26 April 2017 (F - I had been talking to this guy for almost 2 weeks and we went on 3 dates.  Up until now he has been extremely attentive, the dates were great and I actually walked into the 1st date expecting nothing to come of it.  There has been 0 sex involved, so ...

He's still receiving messages from women on a dating site he joined earlier. How can I raise the subject with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

25 April 2017 (F - I met my man through a dating site and all is fabulous 13 weeks on. He says I'm the one for him, and I love him dearly. Since we mutually agreed, that we are 'in a relationship' we both decided to cancel our match accounts. Mine is gone complete...

Where do I stand in this relationship? What can I say to him to get the answers I need? 2

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

25 April 2017 (F - So I've been talking/meeting this guy since last May, which is nearly a year ! He says he doesn't want to rush into a relationship because his last girlfriend cheated on him. And he tells me to be patient for a relationship because he will have to...

How can I find out if my neighbor likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 April 2017 (F - Hi, I live in a mid terrace block of 3. To one side I have my sibling and to the other I have a really nice guy. I moved in here near the end of last year and I must admit it was a shock. Not because I have a place of my own, but because it's nex...

Is my relationship healthy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

23 April 2017 (F - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We got into a relationship pretty fast. I expressed how not having sex until marriage was important to me but after a month he talked me into it. We have went out a lot and he says things like this relationship...

I want to help my boyfriend but I know I'll leave him eventually because my relationship is dead but I'm terribly attracted to his brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 April 2017 (F - Hello there, So I have been in a relationship for 9 years. We started out as friends with benefits and then when I got into trouble financially I moved in with him. He's nice and we get along...we would be great friends. I have occasionally tri...

I thought he liked me back but apparently he's "in a relationship" , which I saw on Facebook today. I feel like such an idiot now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

17 April 2017 (F - I met a guy a month ago through mutual friends and he kept liking all my FB photos and statuses. I have been on Facebook today and it now says he 'is in a relationship'. I feel a bit of a mug as I was hoping to get to know him more. I know it's ...

I believe I am the one for him. Is his staring at me significant? He likes this other girl who doesn't like him back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

14 April 2017 (F - In school I really like this boy who is my best friend's ex. He always stares at me and told my friend I was pretty but he likes this other girl who doesn't like him back. I really want to talk to him and make him realize that I am the one for him....

Do you think this guy at school might have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 April 2017 (F - I like this boy who dated my best friend. We don't talk at all, but my friends send him pictures of us and one day my friend sent a picture of us to him. She asks if he thinks I'm pretty and he responds yeah. He always looks at me at schoo...

How can we solve our relationship and jealousy issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

13 April 2017 (F - I've been dealing with jealousy as one of the problems in my relationship lately. I try to ignore and keep it together but nothing is working. A few weeks ago, a girl randomly chatted with my boyfriend through Facebook and I got jealous because ...

Why am I thinking about someone else who is not my husband, why I feel irrational and risky?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

12 April 2017 (F - I'm 30 year old, married and I have 2 beautiful children. I've married my husband 5 years ago, I always loved him but never really fell in love with him (movie style) I actually didn't think those feelings truly exist and love is how you treat pe...

I know I shouldn't make a deal out of this or read too much into it. But out of curiosity, does he like me or does he like me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

11 April 2017 (F - Hi everyone :) So ive been studying a new course for about 7 months. So like there's a guy, lets just refer to him as W. at the beginning of the term, i rarely spoke to him because of the age difference we have. he's turning 22 and i'm 18. Anyw...

Dating tips sought, please? Any tips on forgetting about the ex? How to chat up a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

11 April 2017 (M - Hi guys, I'm having a real hard time at the moment trying to get back out into the world of dating. I've recently finally ended a VERY on/off relationship and I'm trying to put myself back out there to get over it as soon as possible. The...

Men, do you stare off have intense eye sex with women if you are not interested in them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

10 April 2017 (F - Hello world! I'm writing to you men out there, or women who feel they can provide insight!! About a year ago I was entranced in a cafe by the most beautiful young man I have ever seen. Although that wasn't what entranced me: he was sittin...

I fancy a guy at my gym but he seems immature. Should I keep flirting with him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

9 April 2017 (F - I go to the gym regularly and there's this guy I always see in the weights section, usually with his friends. He's very cute in my opinion and I often see him smiling at me or checking me out. I'm not sure if I should encourage him more because he ...

I don't seem to have much luck with dating. Should I message him one more time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 April 2017 (F - I'm quite unsuccessful in the dating game. I havent had much experience . Over a year ago i tried online dating and i got chatting with a lovely man and we met up had a great date . We agreed to meet up again but didnt exchange numbers and his memb...

I want to confront this guy. Should I do this? Or should I just let sleeping dogs lie?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

8 April 2017 (M - I have been with my wife approaching 14 years now and married for three. Four years ago my wife confessed to me that she had kissed another man that delivers to her work. She said she felt terrible about it immediately after, she quit her job and...

Does my brother's friend likes me? 2

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

8 April 2017 (F - That day,my brother was messaging to his friend. Suddenly he said playfully that he wants me and his friend to date.Its very rare for my brother to say such thing.Did his friend said anything about me?Once,I gifted shoes for my brother and his frie...

In love with my online friend but my parents want me to marry my childhood friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

7 April 2017 (F - Hi there! I started to fall in love with a guy who is totally opposite of my dream guy. I found him in online. In short period of time I realized I love him. I don't know how to tell him. I'm scared that it might spoil my friendship. At the same ...

My fiance, my toddler, my crush and my life... I am looking for advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

7 April 2017 (F - Myself and my fiancé have been together for over ten years. To start off with things were great, I felt like everything was perfect and he was amazing and always looked out for me. He'd help if I struggled with anything we would share the load for ...

Should I be totally honest or shall I leave it as friends and stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

6 April 2017 (F - Recently I have realised I have feelings for a man who I have known for 10 years. We met when I was 17, he was 21, and he asked me out on a date. We only dated for a few weeks before going our own ways and reconciling a few months later as just fri...

Is there something between us that could mean something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

5 April 2017 (F - Hello seeking a little advise.. We meet six months ago via internet finally met in person with our children spent a week together. Because of the kids we kept our distance neither one of us telling of our feelings. I've hinted that I'm interested ...

He says he's not quite ready for a relationship. Am I over-thinking this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

4 April 2017 (F - I've know a boy for 1 year and we were close talking everyday we could, he lives 6 hours away from me and is in the army, recently he's moved based and is less than 1 hour away from me. Whilst talking to him I slowly started falling in love, wh...

Does he have an interest or is he just friendly polite guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

4 April 2017 (F - So this guy who works in different departments at my new job always make eye contact and we say hi to each other in the passing.Last time he came in on my floor I was working on ,in the kitchen looking for cup,we exchanged pleasantries then I went ...

The person I like lives 4 hours away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

4 April 2017 (F - So I met this guy on holiday. He's so sweet, funny, amazing and basically everything I ever dreamed of. I have his number and he has recently gone back home. I miss him already. He lives 4 hours away from me by car. Can long distance ever work? Has ...

How do I get over someone I have never been in a relationship with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

2 April 2017 (F - I really need advice on how to get over someone. It's really complicated because we have never been in a relationship , but I feel like I have fallen harder than ever before, and also have been kept dangling by him because he knows I really lik him. ...

How should I respond in this situation? I don't know who I really like, nor who likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

2 April 2017 (F - Hi... So I have had a crush on this guy , V, at school for almost a year. He's always been giving me mixed signals. One day he'll blush seeing me , the other day he will ignore me . I've often seen his friends teasing him when I'm around in th...

Crushing and strong feelings. I want him to be a part of my life. Does it sound like he wants the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 April 2017 (F - So I'm a 22 years old female and I'm dating a 29 years old man, my question might sound random and weird but I would really like to know. So I like this man and he says when he wakes up I'm the first thing that pops to his head all day long, when he ...

I feel no connection with the available guy. Yet the married guy and I do have a connection. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 April 2017 (F - I am trying to figure out love and what it means and why life gives me certain people when I ask for love. I don't get it. I feel I'm ready for true love but nothing is happening. I admire my coworker who I look forward to seeing everyday, who pu...

Does it mean she is not interested, if she doesn't ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 April 2017 (M - She is one of my close friend, in class. I have ask her out a couple of times but she had only asked me out once. However when I ask her how her day was, she would give me her answer and ask me why am I asking and is it because I want to have a meal ...

What should I do? Should I let him go? 2

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 April 2017 (F - I have been talking to this guy for over a month now and now has been going downhill from there. There will be days where he treats me like his girlfriend and call me "his beautiful" and tells me to stop worrying about him, then there are other da...

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30 March 2017 (M - My style of posting has been going through some changes and I thought I should share what's going on and why these changes. I'm rapidly moving into empty nest. I have 2 Daughters still living at home and they are both looking for their on place. ...

How can I strike up a conversation with a boy I have a massive crush on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 March 2017 (F - What are some ways to approach and start a conversation with a boy you like without showing you like them? I'm a very shy person and I don't know how to approach a boy I have had a crush on for two years. I'm really emotionally attached to him and I ...

Torn between two and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

30 March 2017 (F - I am 28 and my boyfriend Brad is 31. I work in healthcare and he is formwr military that has a good job. He and I have been dating for five years and it has been very, very rough kn those five years. We started as fwb and I saw other people. Right ...

I'm becoming close with my best friend's hubby's best friend! Is there something there or is this wrecking a friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 March 2017 (F - I've becomever very close with my best friends hubbys bestfriend. We hang out all the time and he stays at my house most nights or I'm at his.(unfortunate event car accident and he's got to vehicle)people think we are dating but we are "just ...

Was I being used, by her ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

28 March 2017 (M - I was dating a girl for 5 weeks – I felt there was something special there and every time we met there was always at least one point where we both laughed so hard we were crying. We even had cute pet names for each other (I called her peach). ...

Should I ask him how he feels now? Or wait a while before I ask?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - Hi, I have a relationship issue and would love some advice! For the past nine months I have been in an ambiguous relationship with my housemate. We started sleeping together last summer. I knew he had fancied me for a while and he even starte...

Do most guy friends behave this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - So for a few weeks I've had a crush on this guy that I see periodically at a social dance event. I have known him but not well for almost a year, but have recently started getting closer to him. We started getting closer once a previous relationship ...

I am confused! Why didn't my professor call when I left her my number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - I'm in 4th year of Psychology school, and I am 23 years old. There's this older professor (a woman, in fact). She was married a few times (five, to be exact, all to men), there are rumors that she hooks up with students (not sure which sex), and ...

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