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Crushes: Help and advice

Should I tell my ex-best friend I have feelings for him ?

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19 February 2017 (F - I have a best guy friend. For about 2 years we were always together , flirting, deep connection . I can't explain it was more love . Everyone used to think we was a couple I'm 99% sure he liked me but neither of us pushed for it .I wasn't sure whe...

If he misses his ex does that mean his affection for me was fake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 February 2017 (F - Seeing him for 3 months. He told me he loved me 3 separate times when drunk, to which I didn't respond. He came over to my place all the time, he said he wanted to meet my parents. Then the last time he told me he loved me, the next day he just sto...

I'm crushing on an older female doctor. How do I ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 February 2017 (F - I have a huge crush on a medical professional. I want to be as vague as I can be so bare with me. TL;DR I have a crush on my female doctor who's twice my age. How do I ask her out? Should I even do it? She's easily double my age... she's su...

Is he interested or not? He's confusing me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - So, I work with a foreign guy (a backpacker) and we've worked together for about 3 months. Probably in the past month or so I've taken more of an interest in him and actually find him very attractive and I feel like he flirts with me while we work ...

Would I be doing myself a favour to just tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - When should you tell someone how you feel? A friend and work colleague kissed me a while ago and told me had feelings for me but it all went wrong as he had an ex in the same work place and didn't want to make things awkward. I have been trying...

How can I find out if we are more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - I have known this guy for about 7 years now; we were good friends at uni but then we lost touch when we graduated. We recently reconnected at a mutual friends wedding, and have been messaging on and off ever since. For the past couple of months, we ...

Anxiety from a previous relationship stops me moving forward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I like a guy but ever since i realised i like him I'm just stuck in this vortex of anxiety and fear. We went out on a date and it was fantastic but I'm feeling even more unsure of myself. I had a previous relationship where everything was going ...

Is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? He has a GF. I have a crush on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 February 2017 (M - Hello, is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? I have been attracted to this guy who I am much older than. He is 19, I am 33. He says he isn't attracted to me, and sees me as a best friend. We have so much in common, ...

I like him, it's been 5 months but there seems to be no initiative from his side

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I met a guy a few months ago who started flirting with me. I did not like him to begin but then we got talking and I saw a really handsome interesting person. The flirting continued and I cold feel some chemistry between us, A few weeks later ...

How can I get my crush to notice me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - There's a guy I'm interested in but I just can't seem to get him to notice me. I try to talking to him, flirting, touching, writing him some steamy notes, but he just won't respond. I asked him to our school Valentine's day dance and he turned me ...

I'm jealous that my male best friend had beenseeing someone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I have known each other since we were 12 years old. So about 9/10 years now. We've always been best friends. Never argued etc.. he was there for me after my terrible breakup from my ex boyfriend. (He would tell me he will always ...

I like her but she is a prositute, how can I get her to leave that work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 February 2017 (M - Please help me. I have been in hiding wishing there was someone to love me with true heart. I am searching a true and honest woman to be my good friend and possibly marry her if God decide we should be together. I am tired of boy and girl friend ...

I think the married co-worker I've been flirting with is just looking for a fling, but I can't avoid him because we work together. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - Hi. I have recently started a part time job which i love. Everyone is so lovely but I have found myself flirting with this guy. We text a lot and he says very flattering things but he is due to be married in a few weeks. He has two children with ...

He says his On line friend is just fun and escapism. It sounds like emotional cheating to me. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Would love advice as to if " emotional cheating " on line is as bad as the physical cheating . I have dated my guy for two years and walked in on him skyping a woman who he knows through " business " when he was saying " love talking to you ,...

I'm torn between two guys. I'm wondering, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Hello anyone out there willing to give me advice. I seem to have gotten myself into a significant amount of a problem. I'm torn between two guys. One my High school sweetheart Man1 whom I went out with for around 4 and a half years. We'd always a...

My GCSE soon. Feel I am running out of time to ask her out. but I'm hesitant and shy about it. what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 February 2017 (M - After asking multiple questions on this site I can now confirm that a girl I know well has a crush on me (she keeps staring) and I like her back. It's almost like a magnet; almost as if we are fated to be with each other. Whenever she stares at me...

Do you think he actually likes me, in the same way that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - I really am crushing on this boy at my uni. It has been going on for quite some time but I don’t see him very often – maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes I don’t see him for a few months. We have very different classes and schedules. We ha...

Is it likely that we will get in trouble for being together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, we go to the same highschool and we were not looking for love when we found it. In my state I know that the age of consent is 16, but he will turn 18 before I turn 16. We are both concerned that we will get in t...

Is he trying to keep me on the back burner? Or am I misreading the situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - Dear cupid. I was seeing a guy last year for a couple of months. I fell for him. Was completely head over hills. We spoke all day every day and saw each other as much as possible. He was over here temporarily for work. We both knew it would be...

Does this married man fancy me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - Does this matried man just like me or do you think he wants more? Reasons I think he does: Caught him staring at me and he smiled and shook his head a little. Saw him looking out of the corner of my eye and when I turned my head he averted his ...

What's happening to me? Despite his disrespectful approach, why would I start to enjoy being disrespected?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - I know reading my post, my age is going to be the first thing you would all look at. Can't she be wise? At her age?? I have reached a point in my life where I am so tired of being disrespected that I have started seeing it as a normal occurrenc...

How do I beat my shyness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 February 2017 (M - I've known that somebody in my school is attracted to me, and I have to say for myself that I am attracted as well. However, I and my ' crush ' are shy people (We usually talk to each other and get along well). It's difficult to proceed as I am ...

How do I proceed ? I want to ask her out and we are both shy people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 February 2017 (M - I've known that somebody in my school has been attracted to me, and I have come to say for myself that I am attracted as well. However, I can say myself that I am a shy person and my ' crush ' is shy person (We usually talk to each other and get ...

He was once my crush. Does he like me? Or is he just being weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - There is this guy at school who keeps staring at me. We are actually quite good friends and do talk outside of school from time to time. I genuinely trust him but for some reason, he's been acting strangely lately. It started about six months...

18 year old senior at school. How could I attempt to seduce this teacher at my school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - I am a 18 year old female in high school as a senior. I had this teacher for the first semester and over time just seemed to really like him for a lot of reasons mostly because of how intelligent he is. I am not a very sexual person and could...

I'm not sure if she's into me romantically, or just friendly. How do I behave when we meet? What things do I mention? Don't want to scare her away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I'm a freshman in college. I enrolled into an English class last minute, I was assigned an older professor, mid thirties. I get to the class and it's a young woman about 24 years old, the professor. I was supposed have dropped out. The minute I saw...

Coming out for both of us is out of the question. Should I try to make both relationships work concurrently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I am married with two children but in love with my bestfriend who is a girl My husband is not aware that i am bisexual...but he suspects...and knows that my best friend is weird..but he is the most understanding and loving man..i love him and wan...

Should I continue the contact with my LDR friend, or cut the contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 February 2017 (M - Hi..We've known each other,and been on an LDR,for 5 months. We've met 3 times in person. A few days ago, he told me he considers me more of a intimate friend, while not being in love with me - he says he needs time. I have stronger feelings t...

My crush is moving to another country. Do I tell him I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - Back in 2015, I had met a boy at my school who had just moved from Colombia. We became really close friends, and within a few months, I had developed feelings for him. Now, in February 2017, he's moving back to Colombia in a couple of weeks,...

Its awkward at work and I am considering quitting!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

2 February 2017 (F - Months ago I made mistake of expressing interest in a work colleague by giving him my number but he never called/texted then exaggerated/lied as to why he didn't call.I felt little embarrassed but no big deal.I tried to be still friendly and ...

His mother threatened to kick him out if he didn't break up with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 February 2017 (F - Recently, I broke up with my ex. This was because his mother had threatened to kick him out if he didn't. We're both under eighteen and it was going really well, but then that happened and now, although we still want to talk to each other like we ...

Grossed Out by Violent Behavior

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

1 February 2017 (F - Hi. I wrote two times here about an older man I had a crush on, got advice here, stepped back and realized that like the aunts and uncles warned that he was a no go. (Thanks again!) I've been cordial since he works/lives not too far from where I ...

Is it possible to tell him everything and stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

31 January 2017 (F - Hi. I'm hurting and would appreciate a third person's opinion. I've had feelings for a friend for last 2.5 years. They kept getting intense with time but he lives in a different city so I never acted upon my feelings. We used to flirt back and fort...

Is he flirting or is it just banter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 January 2017 (M - Okay so there was a point I really fancied this guy but then he gave the impression he was straight He recently snap shot two pics I took and drew a penis on them to make it look like I was sucking dick.... then text" bravo you don't like (the ...

Do I have a realistic chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 January 2017 (M - So, here's the situation: there's a girl I've known about 8 eights that I've just received starting seeing as more than a friend. I met her at church about 8 years ago and we weren't especially close then. She went off to school and I saw her very ...

Ladies what would you suggest? She's caught my eye. But I'm not sure what my next move should be.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 January 2017 (M - This will seem funny for a 34 year old man to be seeking advice on. Basically, I go to the same shop a few times a week. There is a lady works there who has really caught my eye, whenever she is there when I go in, I get butterflies and feel...

What should I do? Is this normal behaviour or is there more to this than she's letting on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - So, I have loved my best friend of over 5 years basically since I met her. We just had one of those instant connections and became best friends the second we sat next to each other in class. Both of us went back and forth about liking each other but ...

I still have feelings for him. He still feels the attraction too. But now he's living with another girl. How can we go forward with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - Long story but need advice. In 2013, I dated a guy for a few months. I really, really liked him but he was very keen to make the relationship official (telling everyone), which at the time I wasn't ready for, mostly because I was really poor at t...

How do I proceed with this situation? How do I process feeling unwanted if it doesn't work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - There is somebody that I like who I am kind of friends with . We get on really well, have lots in common and laugh and joke a lot, as well as chatting when we go to the pub in a group etc. I've been on two holidays with him in a group. I wouldn't...

Should I give up on men? Is there such a thing as a normal guy? I want a relationship with a man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - I have have asked for advice before here and wanted to come back a year later to ask maybe what I am doing wrong. I am a woman in my early 30s that has given up on love. I have only been with three men and two had a relationship with. Through t...

I feel I am just not good enough for anything, its affecting my life and future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - How do I get over this overwhelming feeling that I'm just not good enough? I'm going to be 18 this year and I'm just sick of always feeling this way about everything. 1) I'm the middle child in my family, and this may sound really cliqué but it's...

I need help to face my fears so I can ask her out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

28 January 2017 (M - Hey ppl, I need some advice. I'll try to keep it short. I like a girl. I have a bad case of social anxiety. I think she used to like me too but think I've waited too long and she's loosing/lost interest.I get to see her once a week. Most times...

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together ...

I know we can solve any problems but he just acts distant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - Hi I really need some male opinion on this, I was friends with this guy 3 years ago we started having sex without admitting that we were in a relationship which was what we both wanted at that time ( though it seemed like we had feelings for each...

How come I am not heartbroken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 January 2017 (M - I had a huge crush on a girl for about 5 years. I went to school with her in high school, but now that I'm out I haven't spoken to her in person just over text. Recently I found out she just got a boyfriend, at first I thought I'd be all heart ...

We're already close. Do you think he is ready to move on and try something with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - Hi! Maybe this will be pretty obvious to you but I'm terrible when it comes to relationships and understanding men. I like this friend of mine (we were friends first) and he knows I like him, and we've kissed before but we were always drunk and st...

Should I meet him now, although he stood me up two years ago?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

27 January 2017 (M - Two years ago, I met this guy through a dating site. On the second time, he stood me up, while apologizing a month later giving a thin excuse..I couldn't bring myself to see him then again, even though I liked him.. Some days ago, I chanced ...

I like him and enjoy his flirting. But what should I do? Because I think he has a Gf already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

26 January 2017 (F - There's this guy I'm talking too. The problem is, I think he has a girlfriend.. We've been speaking a while and a few months ago, he told me that he can't take things forward with me because he has someone. I respected that and we remained to j...

Is this an emotional affair? ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 January 2017 (F - Is this an emotional affair? ? ? Last March- my husband of 27 years (M) was working at a customer's house (he's a contractor), and one day a woman (T) who lived across the street came over to bum a cigarette from one of M's workers. She a...

Should I stop holding back? I'm scared to get hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 January 2017 (F - Hey all Till now, I've had very hurtful experiences with the guys I've been involved with/liked. I always feel like I've been abandoned or left to myself. And that the other person doesn't feel any remorse in doing so. I know I'm probably wrong ...

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