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Crushes: Help and advice

Why would he say he isn't right for me, yet I'm right for him but he still doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

19 August 2017 (F - Please be patient as I outline my story. We were good friends and disclosed our feelings for each other a few months after re-establishing contact. He's been supportive of me from the beginning, and we have always playfully flirted. There was ...

I feel guilty for having feelings for my wife's sister!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 August 2017 (M - I am very happily married but I think I love my wife's sister. She is married to my friend who has changed over the years and treats her terrible. We were always close but now she confides in me all the time. She is always hugging me and rubbing my ...

Married but falling for someone across the world

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 August 2017 (F - I'm married with 3 children. A few weeks ago, I met a wonderful man in a pub in Edinburgh. He's Australian and was on a cricket tour. We instantly connected and got on do well I found myself being attracted to him. We shared a kiss at the end of the ...

I've developed feelings for her, should I tell her? She's 20 years younger than I am.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 August 2017 (M - This is a bit of a strange situation, but bear with me. I am a big Meat Loaf fan, and together with other FB Mad about Meat Loaf group members, we set up a fund to get one of the members, who has ME, down to London from Hull to see the Bat Out of H...

My best friend's boyfriend tells me he loves me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 August 2017 (F - So my best friend's boyfriend likes me and her and I like him as well. I feel horrible for liking him even though I liked him before they started going out. He says we should just wait even though he keeps telling me he loves me. I don't know what ...

A one time encounter has caused my friend to be standoffish. Do I contact him on his birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 August 2017 (M - Hey all I'm in need of some advice. I crushed on one of my friends for about 3 years, i'm gay and he's bi but not out to many. He had girlfriends for most of that time but one day they were about to split and after a night out we were on our own ...

I am in love with my brother's best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - Ok so I really need advice!!!! My brother has been best friends with this one guy for like ever. His friend M. Has known me his entire life and I never thought of him as anything else but like a second brother. But my brother and his friend drifted ...

I think my personal trainer is crushing on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 August 2017 (F - Hey guys! So I've recently joined a gym that was recommended by a personal trainer who works there and bought a guitar from me. I started regularly going to his fun classes and then he decided to give me some one on one training as we would weight ...

My love interest is ill .... is it worth waiting for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 August 2017 (F - I am in my 30s and my love interest is in his 40s but we are just friends. I haven't seen him in a long time and have seen recently that his health is bad. He struggles to walk, has asthma and drinks. He randomly said to me he would not be able to ...

I don't want to meet a woman my boyfriend fancies! Your advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 August 2017 (F - When I had been dating my partner for a couple of months he showed me his old school friend's facebook page who had just married. He said his friend'a wife is so attractive and and he thought he was punching above his weight when they were dating. I ...

Do his words reflect his true feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 August 2017 (F - Back in junior high, this guy pursued me but I was never interested. We lost contact and he added me on Facebook 5 years later. I was single at the time, but removed him because I was not interested in maintaining contact. Fast forward 6 ye...

I wonder should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

1 August 2017 (F - So there's this guy. He was the president of a club I'm in, but this past may he graduated and he's going off to college in 2 weeks. We became really close. He would give me rides places and we would go on runs together. We went out to a formal ...

He blows hot and cold. Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

26 July 2017 (M - I really want to tell this guy how he makes me feel but I'm scared I'll scare him off because he is sometimes hot and cold with me... When we talk we connect although he asks me things about myself, when I ask him he doesn't reply, he continuous...

Why do I want him so much? With no cares about who gets hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - The below is a story about, love, betrayal, cheating, and fate... In order for you to understand my story, I have to take it back TO THE BEGINNING. 6 years ago I met my now ex-boyfriend. After a year of us dating, we both moved across the count...

Any suggestions on how to get someone that's been your best friend to see you as more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 July 2017 (F - I'm 15 and I like a guy that's 17 and turning 18 in a few months. I am slightly concerned about the age difference. If we don't *do anything*, there wouldn't be anything from keeping us together, right? I've liked him for years now haha! Any ...

I know I can't ask the waiter out, but what are your views on this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 July 2017 (F - I have been going out on a trip to this sea side and I always go at the same cafe with my parents. I went there a couple of years and I keep seeing this same guy who still works there. He's my type but I don't know anything about him or his name ...

Should I let him go? or see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - I met this guy last year while I was drunk eating pizza after clubbing with my friend (typical party girl scene) now I never took this guy seriously I'd always ignore his texts, or keep conversations small, sometimes he'd ask to hang out but I'd ...

Advice please on my crush on a policeman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - I am 17 year old young woman! I have a strong attraction to a local cop, because he responded to a home invasion when i was all alone one summer.. I fell for him because he was such a quick responder, like 5 mins. He was so sweet, very experienced. ...

I'm lost in feelings about my cousin. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

20 July 2017 (M - Well as my title states I'm lost on my feelings about my cousin. It first started out when we were kids and we were both very close. Then we both learned out sex. We experimented quite a bit. To tell you the truth it made us even closer. From there ...

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