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Archived questions from: December, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I live in LA and she lives in Las Vegas. Can a LDR work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3031 days ago

31 December 2015 (M) - Do long distance relationships work? There's this girl that if I'm honest with myself I've been in love with since I met her two years ago. We've never been out of communication, even when we both had significant others. Those relationships ended ...

I'm scared to trust him - please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend told me he's been having sex since 6th grade. We've had an off/on relationship because of friends and family but he says he wants to kiss me the next time he sees me. I've never kissed anyone and I'm also afraid he'll go too far. What ...

Girls, who do I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Question for the girls. You have a choice to go out with one of two guys. One is gorgeous and you find him irresistable but for some reason, which we will leave to the side, he only wants passionate foreplay no penetration. The second guy is ok in ...

Am I wasting my time with legally separated man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Dear all, I am dating a wonderful man who is legally separated but not divorced. He is 10 years older than me, he lives 5 mins from his family home with two teenage daughters and on very good terms with his ex which I'm ok with. My concern i...

Where can I meet men besides the bar or dating sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - My (ex) boyfriend ended our long term relationship back in the summer of 2014, and I've been single since. He was the first actual relationship I've had, and I met him back in college. Well, now I don't really know where to go and meet men and...

What do I say, if anything about our LDR? Why re-connect with these girls? Why have a racist friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I've been dating my so for a while now and we have a fabulous relationship the majority of the time. However he lives 418 miles away in a big city and I'm stuck here in a small town. There are a few problems that have arisen and the majority of ...

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

If I don't change I'm afraid she'll leave me. But I don't want to be pushed around. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I have been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 6 months now. When we met, the connection was real and we hit it off almost instantly. The only difference is that she's religious, but I'm not. As far as I've always been concerned it didn't p...

He didn't contact me Christmas day. What can I say to him? Is my reaction reasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Hello everyone I have been dating a wonderful man for 3 months. We were friends for 4 months prior to that. He is kind, attentive, loving, considerate, reliable, funny, generous, always keeps his promises, and generally a good man. We get on...

This girl has left me feeling confused. Can you help me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to each other that we liked each other we kissed and things were good. We went o...

How can I ever accept and forgive what she did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I realize I am being a complete hypocrite and I hate it but I can't change how I feel. BACKGROUND: I grew up in a Bible-based church where soul-winning, youth conferences, missionary work and Bible memorization were expected. Most children wer...

Is it jealousy the issue or is something else the reason my fiance cannot deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I met a guy and I seemed to like him and we decided to meet up and we had sex the first night. After that he acted like he doesn't know me. I contacted him a few times after that and he said I was expecting to be his wife and pushed him. And I...

Will it look like I am chasing my ex if I message him about his plans for New Year's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I have been out on a few dates with my ex boyfriend over the last 6 months. He had made me feel alive again after not seeing hm for about 15 yrs. we don't talk very often or text which does wind me up. I feel we are both playing games with each ...

Is this man almost twice my age trying to get close to me? Ask me to move in with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Okay so I've just met a guy older than me.. (50 years old) and he owns his own business and we have been chatting for 3 weeks at most. He invited me out out 2 times already. The first time I was cautious and questioned him a lot (after all he is...

Broke up with boyfriend of 5 years, but was it the right decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a little over 5 years. We broke up the 26th. A little rundown about what happened. We really did have an amazing relationship. We had serious talks about our future, kids, getting a house together, etc. It was my first ...

What can I do to make my LDR boyfriend trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I m in a relationship with this guy and it had been 2 years. We love each other More then our lives. This is a long distance relationship. He is really possessive. I don't use any social networking because of him and I m fine with it. I don't talk ...

Heartbroken over silent boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, but recently I've been pushing to see him more. I know i was wrong for being so bossy. He now seems to be backing off. I've hardly seen him and he doesn't put x at the end of texts. He also doesn't repl...

I feel like she's put me on reserve while she dates someone else but I don't want to ruin things either. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

29 December 2015 (M) - Ok I'll keep this brief. I met a girl at the weekend in a bar and we chatted for a while and it was all great. I added her on Facebook and today I plucked up the courage to ask her to meet for a drink. Her friend and her both told me she was single ...

My boyfriend acting strange and evasive while in his hometown, is it his ex? or his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3033 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hi. Been with bf for five months and he went back home for the holidays for a few days. I didn't expect constant contact and didn't get it either. But after Xmas, two days of no contact at all. I caved and texted him, he called me back. Apparently ...

What could we do on dates that won't make me anxious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3033 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We live in the same campus accommodation at our university and hang out in each other's rooms every day. I get on really well with all his friends and we have a nice relaxed time together. However ...

I feel like she got me to fall in love with her but now she's backing out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

29 December 2015 (M) - I met a girl at work and it became apparent after a couple of weeks that we liked eachother. She had literally just split with her ex of four years. After expressing to eachother that we liked eachother we kissed and things were good. We went out ...

I trust him but I don't trust his really attractive female friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship and although we've not been together for very long i love him,but i feel myself getting jealous of other girls already. It all started when he told me about his "good friend", that's like a sister to him. At the time i d...

I ended things but now I'm totally in love with him and I think he's moving on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Hello, I really need your help. I’ll start by telling you the situation. You’re in for a long one so sit back. About a year and a half ago I met this guy; I’ll call him Josh, at my tennis club. I didn’t know him very well at all, but straight awa...

I just want him to love and care about me but he never shows any emotion

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I'll try and explain this as simple as I can :) Right, am 29 years of age and when I was a little girl, I had a best friend who is a boy and we where the best of friends since the age of 6 up until we where 13, we had sleep overs, we where best fri...

How do I end this 5 year relationship with the man I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - Finally working up the nerve to end five years relationship. I'm 33, he is 39. I love him, but this cycle of feeling happy then miserable is wearing on me...a lot. Most recent event: he blew me off on Christmas. To help myself move forward wit...

How do I learn to fancy her again? I love her, I do, but I have stopped fancying her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

29 December 2015 (F) - I adore my girlfriend, we have been together two years and have had an extremely rocky relationship. She's lied numerous times, we have broken up but always ended up back together. We argue, like all couples at some point but my biggest problem ...

Is my boyfriend's brother attracted to me? What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I really don't want to sound arrogant or full of myself but I think that my boyfriend's brother may be attracted with me and need an outsider view of the situation to tell me if I am looking too much into things. I also fear that I may now be attra...

I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I just caught my fiance, cheating on me numerous times with tgirls, CD, etc. He appears to have a serious t fetish. He claims to love me and wants to marry me. However, when I confront him with the obvious evidence, he denies everything. The wier...

Online dating and we clicked. But am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy online. We clicked and I enjoyed his conversation. Unfortunately, this man is 2800 miles away. After a couple weeks of phone conversation he decided that the distance was too much for him and that we could just remain as friends....

Am I falling out of love? Four years together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Hi there, first of all thank you for taking the time to give me advice! Right so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years. Bit of background of our relationship.. we met and I was actually with someone else but nothing happened we ...

I am feeling unease with my relationship and am worried she may drop me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (M) - Hello everyone My question concerns my uneasy feelings about my partner. I have been with this lady for 3 years, and it has been the best relationship I have ever had in my life. She has gone out of my her way in every sense to make me feel l...

Am I jealous? Or am I being disrespected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3034 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - Okay, i'm not really used to girs being all flirty because my previous relationships didn't have any sort of problems with girls. But this relationship i'm in now all we seem to fight about is this topic. He says "you never want me to talk to any ...

Should I try this blind date with a woman I'm not sure of to experience my first lesbian experience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - dear cupids, i am a woman who experienced sex before with a man, then while with the man asked him to experience threesome (2 female one guy) and he refused then accepted, but we never got the chance to do it because we broke up. now i am ...

What's the best way to call it quits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - My question is: Is it acceptable to split up with a woman via email or over the phone. I have been dating for someone for about 4 months but it isn't going anywhere and I would like to end it. I want to do it properly in the right way. I was going ...

Can't get him out of my head but is he really interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy 3 years ago at a program and we became good friends. We both had a 'thing' for each other but both were committed to different people so didn't act on it. We lost in touch after the program ended until last year when I got back on ...

She's into me one week then ignores me the next week. Why so many mood swings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - My partner exhibits some peculiar behavior that I find rather frustrating and hard to figure out. We have a great time together for the most part, and I really value her companionship and our overall relationship. At the same time, she goes off...

Is it wrong not to call when you get their number?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (M) - I've seen sites saying to get as many girls phone numbers as you can. To give you experience and therefore confidence etc. Other sites say it's cruel to get numbers and not call. On the other hand, girls sometimes give out false numbers or play oth...

How do I attract and choose the right men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I just recently ended my 3rd serious relationship. We were long distance and he was very selfish and emotionally abusive. However, the pattern remains the same. I meet a guy, we get attached very quickly, after a month or so he says he loves me...

How do I tell if he's being honest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - I met this guy like about 2 months ago and he seemed interested in me and I was too, but when he would tell me to let him know to hang out he always had things to do so I would get upset. I've asked him if he's single and he said he doesn't have a ...

What is the likelihood of this working, considering that I wonder if we are intellectually incompatible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - This may end up being a bit lengthy so I apologise in advance if there turns out to be a lot of reading to be done. My current significant other and I have been together for 1 year and roughly 3 months, however we have known each other for about ...

I'm waiting for him to make the next move but it's killing me! Advice, please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I rekindled with my ex boyfriend this year and over the last 6 months we have dated a few times and have now become intimate. He came to my work xmas party and we had a great time. That was over 12 days ago. since then he has not called me or ...

How can I tell if the woman I like wants to be treated like a princess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

26 December 2015 (M) - Ladies, can you help, me with a problem I have, am single, not a bad boy, the problem is, I don't know which women, to treat like a princess, an which ones, I should act like I don't care, the ones ,i treat fantastic, which has only been two, in ten ...

Why has my boyfriend suddenly gone nasty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - my boyfriend has been letting me down a lot recently so i told him i was having a week to myself to clear my head he said he was fine with this . i messaged him on facebook today (a week later) and could see he had read the message 2 hours later he...

What good excuse can I give my bf ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 6 months. I am on vacation right now with my mom, because she just retired. My bf didnt want me to go on vacation, but I had to because my mom had purchased the airplane tickets and everything before I even me...

Why is it considered wrong to just want to date or just crush on people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I have this problem where I had crushes on boys before and I always look forward to dating and having boyfriend until I actually got one. he wasn't a bad guy he did nothing to hurt me but he was sort of laughing a lot and kind of mock me by sayin...

Is this fair? Do I have a right to be angry and upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - Hi guys.. So to keep it simple, my boyfriend of just over 2 years had this friend before we met.. His friend was a girl- he told me that they kissed once but it didn't feel right apparently so nothing else happened. He hasn't spoken to her since we...

My ex is calling me a whore and a liar. It bothers me! Would anyone else feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

26 December 2015 (F) - I'm in a bad situation and I don't know what to do about it. Apologies if this quite a long question. I can't really talk to my family because they all have quite decent lives and I feel like a bit of a black sheep. Anyway I've been seeing m...

Was I too pushy and frightened off a good guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

25 December 2015 (F) - My question is about whether or not I might have frightened a good guy off. Male and female answers appreciated as I know we sometimes see things a bit differently! Anyway I will try to be brief. I met a guy at evening class in September and we...

I feel very alone with no social life and no friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - Hi dearcupids, I am 24 yr unemployed, single, postgraduate girl. I had many friends in college and highschool. But all of them are either married and moved to another city, or some of them got a job and moved to another city. I am facing the problem ...

Had the best day with my boyfriend but he did not rely to my Good night text. Should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

24 December 2015 (F) - I sent my BF a "Good night" text late last night. Till now (mid aft) he still has not responded. We spent the day together yesterday and he gave me a gorgeous crystal bracelet. It was the best day. And I felt we were very close. I texted him...