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She broke up with me because I lied about my drinking. I want to get her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 November 2018 (M - I got a tough deal.. So my girlfriend just broke up with me, beacause ive continuously lied to her about my drinking. Which is a problem. I don’t blame her for breaking up with me at all, but of coarse i didnt want that. okay the thing is we ...

Am I being unreasonable asking him not to meet up with an old flame?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 November 2018 (F - Hello Cupids I have been with my partner for six years and living together for three. Yesterday he told me that he has been meeting up with a woman he sort of used to see and I'm not sure how to take it. We all met in university, and the pair ...

He insists he has changed, can it be true? Or is this all a front to win me back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 November 2018 (F - I recently posted a question a few weeks ago about my situtation of after a long break apart, my ex boyfriend is claiming and insisting he is a changed man. We have met up occasionally as "dates" which often led to dicussing our relationship and set ...

Was I expecting too much of my boyfriend regarding his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 November 2018 (F - Recently a friend of mine told me that she saw my boyfriend's ex working at a nearby shopping outlet. She is working there part time to earn extra holiday cash. History of my boyfriend and his ex : They remained friends for a whole year after hi...

I'm not in lov with him but scared of his reaction if I tell him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 November 2018 (F - How do you break up with someone your not in love with without hurting them?I think my new boyfriend is obsessed with me and something just doesn't feel right. About a year ago I had a hurtful breakup with my ex boyfriend of 3 years who I deep...

Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 November 2018 (F - I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of...

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

9 November 2018 (F - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...

My ex girlfriend wants to be reimbursed for gifts she gave me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 November 2018 (M - I have recently broke up with my girlfriend after nine months together, a couple of weeks before we separated she bought me a present but now we're not together she's asking me to give her back the money she spent on that present, I don't think ...

My boyfriend celebrates Christmas with his ex and family and I am not even invited

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 November 2018 (F - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He is early 50 and I’m 30. He has 2 kids that are early twenties. They live and study abroad and from time to time are back in town. The problem is that he celebrated Christmas at ...

Why does my husband look up the category of ex girlfriend in porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 November 2018 (F - My husband occasionally uses my laptop. And sometimes watches porn on it, which is fine as long as our sex life is ok. I always delete the porn off my browser history as i sometimes need to bring my laptop into work. Anyway, apart from looking up ...

I don't understand why she did this to me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

2 November 2018 (M - I know part of the answer. She's selfish. Has some severe mental health issues but so do I, so I'm trying not to hold it against her. Been scouring all over the internet to understand. Narcissist? Bipolar? Just trying to make sense of all this. ...

I am devastated that my ex has cut me out of her life. I thought we were still friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 November 2018 (F - My ex girlfriend doesn't speak to me anymore and it still haunts me. Her and I were the best of friends before we ever got together. We did everything together and were in a relationship for roughly three years when we split up. We are both women, ...

He doesn't believe that I am over my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 October 2018 (F - So I met this guy via a dating app 9 months ago, we messaged for about 2 months but he was wary to meet up as he was still not entirely over his last relationship. I wanted to meet him but in the end he freaked out, back tracked and asked me not to ...

How do I stop myself repeating the past with a different guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 October 2018 (F - I’ve been using Tinder a lot recently and I recently met up with a guy who was in my city as part of a touring musical. We met up, he brought me flowers and took me for dinner. We had a night of amazing sex and a following perfect day. We ...

I need your thoughts on how to sort this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 October 2018 (F - Recently with the past 2 months, my boyfriend of nine years and I ended our relationship. Our relationship had it’s good points, but overall was very toxic and tumultuous. He has a pre-teen daughter and myself an 11-year-old son. He’s been my ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 October 2018 (M - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

I cannot tollerate my ex husband so why do I feel angry and rejected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 October 2018 (F - I absolutely know that I cannot stay with my husband. We are near divorce and there are things I cannot tolerate about him. However, I still ache, I still miss the good stuff....and honestly word of his new relationship is killing me. I have ...

Should I fly 4,000 miles to go see my ex? Would it be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

19 October 2018 (F - So... we’ve broken up for 5 years after an incident and subsequently I moved home to my home country. Contact was lost eventually as we were sick of crying over the phone. Recently, I thought I saw him whilst on vacation and sent him a text. He...

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