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Recently there is a lack of trust from both sides!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

21 May 2018 (F - I'm in a relationship and have been with the boy for 6 months. We had a very good start to our relationship other than a few anger issues he had where he would get too angry too easily. Beside this it was pretty much perfect. Recently he found out ...

Why am I having dreams about his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

20 May 2018 (F - I had a dream of a bull chasing me to the edge of a river and when it was about to hit me I close my eyes and on opening I am at my boyfriends house and her ex is seated on the chair. So I ignore and go straight to the bedroom to drop my bag then I ...

He broke up with my but regrets it 1.5 years later. I still love him, but what is the right thing to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 May 2018 (F - My ex and I are high school sweethearts and each other’s first love. We had been together for a decade and the last 4 years were long distance. I thought he was the guy I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with;unfortunately he ...

Why does my husband look up his ex after we argue?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 May 2018 (F - Anytime I have a really big argument with my husband, the next day or day after I check his internet history. I did this once years ago as I felt paranoid after the fight. I really really hate arguing, it freaks me out. So the first time I did it, I ...

Am I playing myself for a fool with this older guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted today

15 May 2018 (F - My boyfriend is 8 years older than me. I met him in early February while he was non exclusively dating a 21 year old .I met him in a little store near my house and one thing Led to another and now we are a couple. When i first initially met him he ...

Why does it seem like my boyfriend is stringing along his ex ?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted today

14 May 2018 (F - My boyfriend is 31 his ex is 21 and I’m 23 , my current boyfriend of two months left a girl he was dating in February to be with me. He told me he complained to her about standing up to her family and she never did it and how her family didn’t even ...

My ex said hurtful things about my body. I'm self conscious and my get up and go has gone

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - I I hope you guys don't mind me asking for advice. I have been feeling low since splitting with my ex around 5 month ago, I have lost my get up and go and I work and then come home and that's it or I go to bed and fall asleep crying. My ex said I ...

How can I stop thinking about him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - Hello! I'm sorry if this is not the right place to vent, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone about something that is bothering me so much right now and just need to hear others' thoughts. I fell for a guy who is a good/long-time friend of mi...

How can I change my life after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 May 2018 (F - I have broken up with my partner of 6 years. It turns out we both want different things in the end. I've broken up with her so many times that the grieving and then getting back together is just exhausting. It feels like there's no end. I'm pretty ...

My boyfriend says he wants to get back together eventually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

12 May 2018 (F - Background story: My boyfriend and I broke up in what initially was in good terms last month. We were together for 7 years, we were fighting too much and became so busy with our own lives that maybe we drifted away. We figured maybe we needed time ...

My ex-girlfriend's confession has re-opened old wounds

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

12 May 2018 (F - My girlfriend of close to 3 years split up with me a couple of months ago. It felt like a total blindside because I never saw it coming. I haven't taken it well. I've dealt with significant anxiety and depression since. I had asked extensivel...

Please help me get me over my obsession with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 May 2018 (F - I dated a guy a few months ago and we mutually ended things because we wanted different things. Now I find we text quite a lot, he’s always giving out compliments, but I don’t know when he’ll reply etc. I know I’ve fallen in the trap of craving ...

My ex is hanging around me and my new boyfriend and its causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 May 2018 (F - Hello there! I wanted to ask advice about the current situation I'm in. A couple of months ago, I broke up with my ex, whom I'll refer to as M. We had gone out for a while. but during the relationship, M didn't spend any time with me, always chose ...

My boyfriend and his ex are "best friends" and keep saying that they love each other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 May 2018 (F - My boyfriends ex is starting to make me have uneasy. Feelings. They were only married two years and had no children together. She did bring a two year old little girl into the marriage. They fought all the time and she wanted out and filed for ...

My ex's girlfriend found me and texted me. Why is this happening to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 May 2018 (F - Yesterday morning I woke up and I get a message on my phone saying "Do I know you?" I did not know this person at all come to find out its my ex's "new gf" or someone he has been talking to she says they been talking for 5 months and that they ...

I'm tired of my ex's manipulative behavior

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 May 2018 (F - What should I do? I was in a long term relationship and got dumped the other month, I got lots of abusive texts saying disgusting things about me and then the next I was getting texts saying miss you and love you, I replied and got ignored for days ...

If he still plans to move then what is his intentions with reaching out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 May 2018 (F - My ex and I broke up a few months back due to him accepting a job offer in a different state. He hasn’t moved yet but we had decided to break it off at that time because there’s no point in prolonging the heartbreak. He reached out a week after the ...

I'm not sure what to think about relationships now my heart is broken.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

3 May 2018 (M - Dear friends, I am having a hard time after a break up. I have been 6 months with a very beautiful girl (dark hair, blue eyes). It was the first time really that I dated someone of this type, she was and knew she was beautiful. The relationship...

Why does my ex married lover want to fix things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 April 2018 (F - I really don't know what to anymore about my situation. I left my married lover because it was the right thing to do and it was hurting me. We are both military (one outranks the other) so it complicates things in terms of actually having a ...

My ex boyfriend is now messaging my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 April 2018 (F - Dated my ex boyfriend for 6 months, and we admittedly rushed into things which was probably where we went wrong. We’ve been split up about a month now and he’s messaging my friend, but the girl herself hasn’t told me, one of our friends has. I’m...

How do I cope with insecurity while he's abroad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 April 2018 (F - I've been in relationship almost 2 years with a man of 60 year old, we have 16 year of age difference. We used to work in the same work place. 2-month-ago he was relocated temporarily to a country where his ex lives permanently. He is a ...

If I make him feel better why did he inbox his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

29 April 2018 (F - Is my boyfriend being genuine about his feelings? The other day, my boyfriend was a little sick, not dying sick, but sick. I went to the hospital with him and he made a post on Facebook posting a picture of his hospital band and captioned it say...

We've broken up but why does my heart still hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 April 2018 (F - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS COMBINED My head is in a spin . My ex broke up with me a few months ago. At first he sent nasty texts and then texts saying he loves me and then I heard nothing for over a week, the texts dwindled to odd 1 or 2 and then not...

Is it fair to let past experiences influence tis relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 April 2018 (F - I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and we started to talk about the future and what the relationship is and he tells me that last summer he was accused of raping his ex. At the time he was telling me with I had just had consensual sex w...

Should I gave up or wait more time to approach my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 April 2018 (M - I broke up with my boyfriend one month ago, the reason of the break up was an accumulation of many reasons and things he did. He is 25 and I am 35 years, we had up and down relationship , with great moments and bad moments. I give him a lot, I r...

Should I trust her on birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

26 April 2018 (M - I'm 32 years old, dating my 22 old girlfriend for 3 months and days ago we had sex without condom and it was amazing, I almost forgot how good it feels lol, last time I had unprotected sex was with my ex wife who I divorced three years ago. Since ...

We've split up,he wants me to move out.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

26 April 2018 (F - Hi Dear Cupid. I have been in a relationship for three and a half years and my partner split up with me once more and said we are done and that we can still be friends....does friends work? We still live together, are sleeping separately and ...

My confidence is shot, I know I'm better off but I want him to realise it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

26 April 2018 (F - My ex of 8 years dumped me 4 months ago, he was and still is an alcoholic and takes heroin and crack and blues and pregabs plus antidepressants ( bought of the streets) I tried helping him and loved him so much , in the past year before the break up ...

I cant get the "cloud 9" feeling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 25 days ago

26 April 2018 (F - hello dear aunts! Don't want to go too long or detailed about this. I'm going to cut it short. I 'm seeing someone who is great. He is known to be an honest and decent guy. I've known him as a friend for a long time but we started seeing e...

Why did my ex give his friend my number?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 April 2018 (F - Dear Agony Aunts, i broke up in July last year (2017) with my boyfriend (I’ll call him M) i loved very much because i felt he had fallen out of love with me and two weeks later, he got a new girlfriend (I know because i came back to him so we could ...

Why do I feel I have to supress my emotions when in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 April 2018 (F - I don't know how to be in a relationship. When I get excited about someone, I drive them away. The pattern is always I show too much interest (in a happy, excited way, from my perspective), they pull away, and then because they pull away, I start to ...

I have feelings for my ex but he just wants to be friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

23 April 2018 (M - dear cupid i have recently got back in to touch with an ex boyfriend we Broke up on bad term yrs ago but as i said we got back in touch and we are friends but i have realised i still have feeling for him and he said he just wants to be friends ...

What is going on with me? How do I end this weird relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

23 April 2018 (F - I don’t understand what happened. I am in my 30s, I fell in love once when I was a teen 14 yeas old. It was so intense and somewhat had a feel of overwhelmingness and it didn’t end up too well even though we had a crazy run of about 5 years tog...

Did I do the right thing, I think he is still involved with his children's mother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 April 2018 (F - I was seeing a man who lives with his 18 year month twin boys and he still lives with his kids mother.He told me they have broken up but staying together for financial reasons for now. Well he wouldn't see me outside working hours so I calle...

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