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A year after my break up I still haven't been on a date and no one has shown any real interest in me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

20 October 2017 (F - I'm 22 and the only relationship I have ever been In lasted 3 years before he came out gay. It was a very complicated break up with a lot of mixed feelings and we would still spend time together and end up sleeping together for around a year ...

Family problem has just got worse

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 October 2017 (F - Hi, I posted previously about a fall out I had with my sister due to her not being able to take responsibility for a flat she shares with me and also that I didn't want her drug addict boyfriend round. Anyway she has taken it to extremes and I ...

She cheated twice! Will her boyfriend ever accept her or trust her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 October 2017 (F - There is this girl dating someone she really love this guy and this guy also love her but she later cheat ,she went to have sex with her ex but she no longer love her ex and her current boyfriend found about it he was mad according to him he said ...

My ex, who has a new girlfriend, has just contaced me out of the blue

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 October 2017 (F - My ex and I split up a year ago and the other day he contacted me out of the blue to say he was sorry about how things ended between us. He wants to meet up next month so I said ok. He has been talking to me very strange though, he has said that...

Boyfriend brings up his ex girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 October 2017 (F - I went to a high school reunion this past summer. While there, I met a man who I really didn't talk to much in high school. We kind of hit it off, and for the past 2 months, we have been dating and getting to know each other. My question is abou...

I want to have sex with the father of my children

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 October 2017 (F - Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children. We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn...

How do I handle this meeting with him after the news that he's trying to reconcile with his ex in Italy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 October 2017 (F - I met an Italian guy recently. We talked on-line for a few weeks. Then he was in Italy for a month. We met when he came back. I was a little suspicious as to why such a long holiday in Italy as he has no children or parents. We met for the...

It was going great and now she has stopped responding ... I guess its over!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 October 2017 (M - Hello everyone! A few months ago I started exchanging Facebook messages with a girl I knew in high school about ten years ago. I'm 30 and she's 29. Things went really well and she agreed to meet up as soon as we could (she was moving back to h...

My ex cheated on me, it took me 2 years to get over him and now he wants to try again

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

11 October 2017 (F - At what point can you be sure you have forgiven someone for hurting you, and take them back? 3 years ago my then boyfriend of nearly 2 years left me for someone else. It took me a long time to get over it, but I did. I never really forgot he...

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to delete his exes from facebook?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 October 2017 (F - Why doesnt my boyfriend want to delete his exes from fb? Hes sayin that they r just friends and their break up were amicable but i notice a constant interest of them on his posts and messenger and also hints and subliminal comments One of them ...

How to move on after a bad relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

10 October 2017 (F - Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...

I feel I am not good enough and cry everyday

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - I am 25, single and VERY lonely. My now ex bf recently broke up with me because he lost feelings for me. I think it is all my fault, but he says it is not. He says his feelings fizzled out over time and insists there is no new girl. I am scared of ...

How soon is too soon to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 October 2017 (M - Ok I use to give this girl a lift to work and we got on really well and have so much in common. 2 weeks ago she split up with her boyfriend and has moved so I longer have to give her a lift. At work we have been speaking a lot more since she has ...

He found the girl he dumped me for was too costly and wants me to take him back.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - So, this guy and I were dating for almost two years and he proposed to me in May. A few weeks later he tells me hes going on vacation with his old crush/ friend since high school there both 28. But they have been friends forever. So, he breaks off ...

My boyfriend is sad after his ex girlfriend's revelation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 October 2017 (F - Hello, I have a story to tell. This summer my bf and I got together. He had a girlfriend but he cheated on her to be with me. At first we were friends and I knew he had a girlfriend but I was so in love with him and I was trying to resist for so ...

My ex bf new gf texting me how good their relationship is

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 October 2017 (F - I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now. We've had our ups and downs but we pulled through. We also had lots of arguments. On our last argument we had I went to work, came home and he packed his things and left. My ex bf now, left a ...

Should I suggest to my ex she seek professional help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 October 2017 (M - I recently went through a bad breakup with a woman I thought was the one. Even though she did it in a cold hearted way I still care deeply for her and have been told that she loves me just not like I love her. The relationship is in the past so I'm ...

Is this a positive sign or is she just being nice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 October 2017 (M - My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I had been working on the things she didnt like about me and I sent her an email updating her on how I have been changing i.e getting better and that I love her and hopefully in future we might cross ...

I don't trust my husband and he thinks I am cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 October 2017 (F - Are I met my husband 5 years ago back when I was in high school it's been tough throught out these years... I have 2 kids of my own and he has 2 of his own ever since we got engaged and moved in we've been working a lot his baby mommas call him all ...

I constantly feel jealous about his exes!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

2 October 2017 (? - Any advice on how to get past jealousy. My boyfriend has clearly had other girlfriends as we have been together only a few months. Yesterday he said about going to Italy and when I asked who with and he said his ex girlfriend from 8 years ago I feel ...

I'd like to be spoiled a bit and shown some appreciation too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 October 2017 (F - Hi, how do i deal with ex marital jealousy? My husband and i, we've been married for almost 2 years now and we do love each other and all who know us would say we have the "ideal" relationship and marriage. Most unfortunately, within my h...

I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

30 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...

I feel so guilty about leaving my abusive ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

30 September 2017 (F - Hi, I previously asked for advice regarding a relationship I was in for 3 years with a guy I lived with who was controlling and violent. It went on for a number of years and last December I cheated on him with a guy who had been keen on me for a wh...

How to forget about your ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 September 2017 (F - Hi me and my ex boyfriend resently break up two months ago we were together from last year January we were on and off .. we broke up four times because people told him things I never said about him and he was believing them he block me on everything ...

How else do I show my long distance cheating girlfriend that I love her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

28 September 2017 (F - I am in a complicated relationship with my girlfriend. We both have a distance between us which has affected our relationship . I found out a few weeks ago that she had been sleeping with her ex gf which made me very upset. She opplpgised to me and ...

My past won’t go away, should I talk to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 September 2017 (F - Hey aunts! Quick advice please! I post a few years ago asking well venting about my situation. When I was 22 I got pregnant by this guy I was dating and I thought the best decision for me was to have an abortion. At the time the guy ag...

Love triangle, help! Who do you think I love and who should I be with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 September 2017 (F - I am in a love triangle. I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who happened to be my sitting mate in high school. And had some feelings for each other but didn't confess our love. Until I traveled to Holland(where I am currently living), and he ...

My ex had a baby and am sad, but I don't know why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

23 September 2017 (F - My Ex had a kid and now I'm depressed and I don't know why. We dated from 2012-2013 and I would have to say he was my first love. We ended our relationship horribly, he cheated twice and picked the other girl over me and we haven't spoken since. ...

Difficult LDR, I feel I'm becoming close to my ex. Should I isolate myself from all girls so I don't find myself slipping?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

22 September 2017 (M - Greetings Agony Aunts and Uncles, To give you a bit of background Im in a LDR with mg GF for about a month now and the separation is killing us. We met in college and our both living near our families in different states. Unless one of us is willi...

Can we get what we once had back, or are we destined to be 'just friends?'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

22 September 2017 (F - Hi. I was in a short relationship with a guy for around eight months. During this time we developed very strong feelings and connection. Subsequently we split up around six months back, due to differences in the area of affection. His love language ...

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

22 September 2017 (F - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another ...

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

21 September 2017 (F - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked fo...

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