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The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel bad because I rejected my cheating ex bf... please give me some encouragement!

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7 November 2009 (F) - i was with my ex for 2years and he really hurt me.. like he'd be talking to other girls, cheating..lying etc: but i stayed with him cos i was young naive and thought i was in love and the sex was great.. but i finally had the courage to leave ...

I need to get him out of my head forever. How do I get rid of his so-called "friendship"?

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7 November 2009 (F) - I am so upset by this so please no horrible answers. My ex friended me on facebook-i hadnt seen him for 4 years-it was to tell me he had got married. We were due to get married but it ended really badly because he barely showed any love or care-i o...

I've split with my ex but he's so depressed and still dependent on me... how do I help him to get help?

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7 November 2009 (F) - I just got out of a relationship that lasted for a few years about 2 months back, and my ex is taking it pretty hard. He still calls me sometimes when he is really upset and says stuff like he is so depressed. It is hard because I do care about him ...

Should I let him back in my life, or just keep trying to move on?

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6 November 2009 (F) - For the first time in my life, I felt like I was falling in love. After about 6 months my ex suddenly broke up with me after telling me he was falling in love too and swearing that he was very happy to be with me. It turns out, he went back to his ...

Met someone online. Now how do I handle the exes?

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6 November 2009 (F) - hi everyone. i know meeting people online is so common yet there is still negative stigma attached to this. honestly, before anyone gets all critical let me remind you i am not out for cyber fun. i just met somebody online and he confessed to likin...

He is saving an old love letter from some other girl! Why?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Hello the other day i saw my boyfriend going threw his stuff and pulled out a letter her glanced at it for a few seconds and folded it up and put it back in hes box then when he left i went and read it. IT was a old love letter for some girl? why ...

He says he still loves me. Is it possible he might come back to me someday?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I was with this guy for about 9 months. You could call our relationship unoffically exclusive because, even though he loved me and wanted to be with me, I wasn't ready for the commitment (for various reasons which I've worked through). He ended ...

I broke up with him and now I realize how much I loved him and want him back!

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6 November 2009 (F) - Hello! I am new to this site. I am hoping that someone would advise me on what to do. I have been dating this guy since a year. I have known him since 6 years. We have many common friends and I know a lot of his cousins. Everything was a...

Help me from the torture of my Psycho ex...Is there a womens organization or something that can help me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - hi, i am 26yrs old female From INDIA, Andhra pradesh. i have this serious problem with my X-boyfrnd we broke up 5yrs ago but he just dosent seem to accpt it and keeps interfiering in my personal life, keeps threathning me to killing me.he t...

Theres a possibility of getting back together this weekend but I'm scared. What do you think?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex split up about 5 months ago and my feelings for him never ended and I thought he just had no feelings for me at all! You see the reason why he ended it is because we didn't see each other much and so in those 5 months of us being apart ...

Why does my ex want to be close to my new good friend??

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6 November 2009 (M) - I went out with a girl for a long time at work and I thought it was special to me,we are both adults. Anyway by chance I found out she was seeing someone else at work. I was devastated. I walked away saying listen I respect you so I respect your ...

She had a month long fling with her ex, should I take her back?

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6 November 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf after one year but hours later i was texting her and calling her telling her i was sorry and it was a stupid mistake. 12 hours later shes texting her ex bf and after 10 days of us being broken up, she is already having sex ...

Should I see my ex and finally find out if this is real?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I looked for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then. I don't know why I looked for him, he was my high school bf and ...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

Why is my ex playing games with me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - So, my ex and I broke up in dec. 2007. We talked on and off from that point until the end of feb. hooking up once. I had a lot of issues going on then and I went away for a year to sort through them. During that time we had no contact ...

My ex confessed he still loves me...but he has a girlfriend!

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She's going to live our dream with someone else

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6 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 yrs has recently left me and i am finding it very difficult to move on. She says she loves me, but she's not IN love with me anymore. We have been through alot in our relationship, 4 miscarriages but it made us stronger. She says...

Violent ex tricked me. Will this hurt me in court?

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6 November 2009 (F) - My ex was arrested the following night of him attacking me. It was my friend who rang the police luckily she was there when he got in my flat, and pulled a knife on me. He wrecked my flat too, his bail conditions meant that he wasnt to come near me ...

My best friend is dating my ex who I still love... what should I do?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what to do... my friend well "best friend" and i have been bickering back and forth for a while now over dumb things.... lately the reasons we've been fighting because every time i just break up with a guy she goes and asks him out ...

How can I show my ex-girlfriend that I've changed?

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5 November 2009 (M) - i dated this girl for 4 years on an off. we broke up about a year ago and sine then she has started seeing another guy. she told me that we were done for good and then about a week ago she started calling me and saying that she still loves me and ...

She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?

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5 November 2009 (M) - hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i we...

Can I get him back? Or is it too late?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I was devastated. I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but ...

Have I lost him forever by cutting him off like this?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my best friend of three years/boyfriend of one year over the summer. It was hard at first but our close friendship seemed to pull through, and soon we were able to talk fairly normally again, even after I agreed to give a mutual ...

Do I have a chance of getting him back in my life?

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5 November 2009 (F) - When i was 13 i lost my Virginity to my 4th grade crush 13 is young but i felt we were meant to be. And the relationship took a down fall..Now he is dating one of my Closest friend...she is like Family...my feelings for him hasn't gone away...On my ...

Married, but still thinking about my ex

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5 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my Ex boyfriend and now am married, after 6 years into my marriage I started thinking about my ex till today and it has been going on for the past 5 years. I am haunted and regret ever breaking up with him, what should I do? Is ...

I don't want to be just friends! It's too hard to pretend nothing happened!

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5 November 2009 (M) - Ok this is my situation. My ex and i broke up in early june. Im a junior in high school so it so it was summer vacation. She went to school where i went but she lived two hours away so i knew i wouldnt see her the rest of the summer and that was ...

Why does he feel the need to be in contact with her when he knows how I feel about this?

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4 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been married about 9 months. we dated two years before we got married. Throughout our relationship when we were younger i dealt with him contacting his ex's. We were not completely exclusive, I was hardly out of highscho...

He said it's in the past, but I saw the text to his ex!

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4 November 2009 (F) - I met my current bf while he was in a relationship. I had no idea until he told me. We both tried to end things and it didn't work. She came out here and I guess they both tried to figure things out and she broke up with him. Since then him and ...

I think he may be still in love with his ex...

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4 November 2009 (F) - ive been dating this guy for almost a year now and we have gone threw alot i lost a baby with him and we live 2gether well he had told me about his ex and blah blah blah he said he almost married her and crap well i know i should of did this but i ...

He says it's over... is it? Somebody please help.

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4 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfreind split up on friday i havent always been a jealous person when we first was going out he was going with his ex 4 3 yr and he split up with her and i ended up getting with him at our christmas party we wo going out 2 week then i ...

My ex has offered to hook me up with some of her friends, and while I do want a new girlfriend I find this really weird!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I came to realize that she probably wasn't coming back. I eventually moved on, started living my life. Working, going out, things like that. I'm not really "trying" to find a girlfriend, but I have to ...

Where should I begin to move on from my ex?

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4 November 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend who has not treated me very well in our relationship (we have dated twice), and has started coming to parties with people from my school, and has been chatting up girls in my grade recently. I made the mistake at the last party by ...

Is this bad karma?

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4 November 2009 (M) - My ex-best friend was a cheater and a liar to his ex girlfriend who is my current Girlfriend who I love and wish to marry one day though he hadnt done anything wrong by me.He had done so much of wrong by her and I and her ex fell in love.Now he is ...

Torn between ex and b/f who to chose?

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4 November 2009 (F) - i with my current bf 'A' for 1 year. He is very good and care for me. I am very happy with him all this while. I am looking forward to marry him. We do have our shares of argueing sometimes and everytime we argued, he will said we are not ...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...

Boyfriend's best friend has interfered with our relationship!

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3 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we have been taking it slow. Recently his best friend came back to town and is thinking about moving back. He is with us all the time. I don't mind, but... Things he is doing creep me out. He calls me all the time. ...

Is my ex leading me on?

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3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have split up after 4 years, of being togeather. we are not just a dating couple, we lived togeather, raised his daughter togeather, bought cars togeather. everything was about us. he split up with me because he says he wasn't ...

I'm in love with my ex-husband, even after 9 months!

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3 November 2009 (F) - how do i stop loving my ex and the father of my 2 children? its been 9months sice we finished and im still head over hells in love with him, i asked him move out because he stopped all affection towards me we were like 2 flat mates instead of a ...

Is it wrong to want to date my friend's ex-boyfriend?

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3 November 2009 (F) - A friend of mine hooked up with a guy over the summer. (Mostly likely as a rebound as she had just broken up with her boyfriend of a year). They slept together a couple times and then she told him she didn't want anything more from him. At the bar ...

I'm overwhelmed with the thought of something happening between my girlfriend and her ex!

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3 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriends Ex is coming down he is threatening our relationship and me(we use to be friends) im terribly in love with my girlfriend.I get the feeling something might happen this makes me feel so empty and unhappy and agitated and a voice in my ...

What should I do about my ex-girlfriend?

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3 November 2009 (M) - Me and this girl met in senior year of high school and we had a bunch of the same classes. I liked her in high school but I didn't really care about girls so I never really got to hang out and get to know her. Then we both went to college. I stayed ...

Have I made the right choice by giving up on my friend and starting a relationship with his ex?

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3 November 2009 (M) - [Moderator's Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question 1: Hi, I have been in a relationship for over 6 months now with the girl of my dreams.We are very happy and wish to spend the rest of our lifes toge...

Was that a form of verbal abuse that I went through?

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3 November 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with a guy for 7 months, and when the relationship started it was all good he would talk nicely well a week after talking he wanted to meet up for coffee i said we can. We spoke for long and after dropping me off he asked if ...

She masterbated to his voice during a business phone call...am I overreacting and how should I handle this?

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3 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, My question is about my boyfriend's ex.Her behaviour has upset me.I think that he should not talk to her any more.Am I overreacting?How should I deal with this? I am with someone I love dearly for over a year now.And he loves me too....

Why is ex really flirty now?

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3 November 2009 (F) - okay so my boyfriend recently broke up with me and so far its all been okay. him and i are still friends and we get along well. lately though he has been getting really flirty and im not sure why. we have only been broken up for about 3 weeks. i ...

I am VERY happy with my boyfriend, but still mourn the loss of my ex. Please help!

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3 November 2009 (F) - Im 23 Im having a really hard time getting over my ex finacee. I was with him for a 1 1/2. We loved each another very much but he had some insecure issues. I let my mother get into my head and i left him with a ring in hand and a broken ...

Accidentally changed ex's email password!! Should I be honest or deny it?

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2 November 2009 (F) - Okay so curiosity killed the cat... I'm really worried of what the outcome of this will be. So please any advice on how to handle this would help. Boyfriend of 2 years and me broke up. We have been seeing each other and things have been up and...

Does this mean she wants me back?

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2 November 2009 (M) - Me and my girl have been broken up for about 3 weeks because my ex wife keeps texting and calling her and it drives her crazy but she wont change her number. she says she needs her time and space and is not interested in anybody else. she keeps ...

Is she jealous of me?

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2 November 2009 (F) - My ex-boyfriend of over a year has this new girlfriend who has been flirting with him since him and I were going out. I also moved on and am dating someone else. Since I started going out with my new boyfriend, she has been telling my ex not to talk ...

He is a father figure to this boy..he calls his son. Not sure where I fit in here?

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2 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to a year. I love him and we've discussed moving in together... The problem in our relationship right now is his "son". Six years ago, he began dating a single mother. Her son was only 3 months old when ...