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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Can anyone help here? How long does it take to move on...?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I would really like some advice on how long it takes to get over a relationship. I was with my ex for 3 1/2 years and have since been split up for 6 months. We went cold turkey for a few months then got back into contact. We became very close again ...

I sit there every day and think about him (my ex) and cry.

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20 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex split over 3 months ago and recently even though he has a new partner he has said he isnt actually happy and he thinks he may be going through a breakdown, because we share 2 children together and we were together from a young age for ...

What do you aunts think? Does he still have feelings for his ex?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Before i met my boyfriend he had a female friend whom he was proposing to bit she preferred to be friends. They were very close and did everything that lovers do except for sex(so he says). After we got together he told her about me and she was ...

He texts his ex and another girl. Is he losing interest in me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i got 2gether a couple of months ago. his girlfriend split up him then he got with me but he constantly keeps texting her and texting this other girl that he constantly talks about. he met up with her, had a couple of drinks a...

The ex or the new guy?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Tonight I have set up a date with a person I met online approx 3 weeks ago..We hit it off via phone and we text when we have time. He has his own business so he works long hours, but he finds time to date. He is looking for that special woman......

I'm going out with someone new but I'm still in love with my ex!

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20 November 2009 (F) - Ok well I have posted a lot about a guy and its been over for a while now but I met this really good guy and he treats me like I deserve but I still feel that I really was in love with the last one. And real love doesn't come every day. I'm not ...

How can I explain this to him so we end on good terms?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I met my ex boyfriend through work although i didn't want to start anything in the beginning because i had just broken up with someone and he lived a very long way away from me. After around 6-9 months we started talking every day on the phone, ...

I'm jealous of his past! Will I always feel this way?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I grew up in a very religious home (no sex before marriage). I grew out of my religion, but my health kept me from having fun. I've met a great guy, (who i lost my virginity to at 23) but he has a lot of experience, with the pics to prove it. We've ...

Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?

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20 November 2009 (F) - my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...

Does this mean his still likes me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Okay, a week ago me and my bf ended it. I did. Today I texted him telling him I wanted to talk. He said sure. After class, he asked how was my week without him. I said good and asked him how his week was. He said um good. Does that mean he like me ...

Secrets to Getting an Ex Back - Find Out What 3 Things Those Who Got an Ex Back Have in Common

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20 November 2009 (F) - Do you want to get your ex back? Are you tired of hurting and feeling lost and alone? I've written this article to try and give you hope and some help in winning back your love. It can be really difficult to think rationally when you are going th...

I feel as if I'm hanging on by a thread here...

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19 November 2009 (M) - I was dating my ex for nine months and i broke it off with her. We kept on talking every day and hanging out like we were still together though this went on for about a year where she wanted to get back with me and have the title and i wasnt sure i ...

We've only been back together for a week but already she is showing signs of her old behaviour!

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19 November 2009 (M) - Hi, need some advice about what to do next. Me and my ex were with each other for 3 years but broke up 10 months ago she is very insecure no matter what i do to comfort her or resure her, in the end it tore us apart not saying i done nothing wrong ...

My fiance thinks I'm crazy for feeling uncomfortable with his ex's presence at all family functions!

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19 November 2009 (F) - My fiance and I are both divorced. His ex is very close with his family. His family feels obligated to invite her to every function because she has no family in the state and no friends. She has lived her over twenty years so go figure. I am ok ...

New girlfriend vs daughter from ex wife

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19 November 2009 (M) - I've been divorced for over 2 years now. I've got a 4yr old daughter that lives with mom. I see her on Mondays and have her every second weekend, holiday etc. The divorce was easy, friendly and we're still friendly. I've been dating the girl of ...

Should I move on forever or try one more time?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. My ex says he loves me, he always wants to hang out and always tries to hook up with me but says he doesn want a girlfriend right now. He has given me every excuse on the book for not wanting a girlfriend. First because he ...

Its my own fault he cant trust me, how do I make this relationship work?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he ...

Which of these amazing girls should I date?

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19 November 2009 (M) - (First off I would like to apologize for the length of this message. There's just some background information I thought might be necessary to put before my question) Hey people I am 15 years young and live in Maine. I have got myself stuck bet...

She I leave her to sort out her past?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Hi - I need help at this point in my life! I have met a wonderful woman - we met through an internet dating site. Everything was amazing from the very start - a great friendship, common interests, physical attraction, the best sex I have ever had in ...

I orgasm thinking of my ex. Does this mean I'm still attracted to him?

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19 November 2009 (F) - hi i love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, been together for ten months but i have known him for years. we are really close and we have so much fun together. its just the other night when we was having sex i thought about my ex and i...

Is it possible just to give up on love?

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18 November 2009 (M) - It's been 8 months since my ex dumped me. I tried being friends after the break up which was a mistake and just hurt me more. Her and I are over. I kind of want to send her a message saying we can't be friends but that would be pointless. I've ...

I am desperate to meet someone. Why am I having trouble?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a woman in my mid forties. I was in a relationship with a man a while back but, broke up. I still see him since we travel in the same circles. It took me a long time to get over him. I really fell for this guy and it has been...

How should I act around her when we hang out? I want her to want me back.

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18 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, but we still talked a lot and hung out and she still tells me she loves me. We broke up because we were fighting a lot (which was usually because of me being a ass) but since we have broke up I have ...

How can I show my ex I've changed and that I want her back?

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18 November 2009 (M) - I really want to give things with my exgirlfriend another go and i think she does too but im scared she will turn me down. We were together for 9 months a few years ago, and we're were very close. I stupidly dumped her when she became depresse...

Should I give him time before I walk away?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My ex and i might get back..i contacted him in late august..he said he can't just jump back into things and that we would exchange calls and then meet and see what happens. Sometimes it would take him a few nights to get back to me and i kept le...

Why did he break up with me? And why is he talking trash about me at school?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy who is 1 1/2 years younger than me. When we first became boyfriend and girlfriend his mom told me 1 month into the relationship he had gotten in trouble for drugs prior to us dating but that he had stopped. He told me he ...

Insecure & Losing My Mind...

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18 November 2009 (F) - Please help me... I'm really suffering. I have done countless Google searches, read through hundreds of forums and advice columns, and sought the help of family, friends, and even my significant other, but nothing will silence my thoughts and ...

Ovulation, Pregnancy, The ex-factor. Help!

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, so I have some questions. See me and my ex-boyfriend had unprotected sex (he has a girlfriend) and Im like bugging out I may get pregnant. See I already have a two year old with someone else and this is the same exact time of month I ...

Why would she still want to be friends after we broke up?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, i just got out of a relationship about 3 1/2 months ago and just talked to my ex today. it was casual and she told me about her new boyfriend. It didnt really bother me as much as i thought until she said that she was completely over me. i was ...

What to do when the ex who messed you about wants you back? I never got over him!

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17 November 2009 (F) - what do you do when you were with you're ex boyfriend for nearly 2 years, so in love.. but it all fell apart, because of his mistakes, he changed, started to treat me horribly, messed me about and so on.. nearly a year down the line after breaking ...

Having a bad tug of war with my heart..over my current guy and the ex bf! Help!

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17 November 2009 (F) - Alright, so my ex and I had been dating for just over a month when he broke up with me because I was distracting him from God (since we are both Christians) and that he just needed time and space to figure things out in his life because he has a ho...

How do I get over his past life with his ex gf??

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I hope someone can give me some advice about how to deal with this problem I am having with some of my feelings towards my fiancee. My fiance and I have been together for almost three years (engaged for eight months) and I...

My husband's ex wife...

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17 November 2009 (F) - My husband and his ex-wife are going together to a school lunch for their son. Should I worry about her, she is a very manipulative person and I trust her as far as I can throw her. He used to give her whatever she wanted, I use to tell him that she ...

I don't know what to do. There is no romance in my marriage and I am seeing my old girlfriend.

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17 November 2009 (M) - Good day 49 years old man been married for 21 years. Have three children 15, 18 and 19. My wife and I have made love three times in the last ten years. She won't discuss the problem or seek help. Full stop. I have gotten very down about it at time...

I feel like I have lost everything and this new girl is getting everything I worked so hard for!

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hi, this isn't really a question of sorts but I just really need some help getting over my ex. Basically we were together for four years, he's a year and a half older than me and we got together just before my 19th birthday. Our relationship was...

Thinking of getting back with my ex but he frequently doesn't answer my calls!

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17 November 2009 (F) - my ex and i might get back...we have been talking a little over 2 months. We will probably be meeting within the next few weeks..the thing that bothers me is its been about 5 or 6 times when it will be my turn to call and i do and there is no answer ...

Will I ever get over my ex?

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17 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend ended our long term relationship 2 months ago and i'm still struggling to get over it. We live in a village/small town and so I do occasionally bump into her. Because of this we have kept in contact - maybe once a week/fortnight w...

Why did my ex text me? What does he want from me?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I wish i didnt even care to ask this question but i cant help myself. ive been broken up with my ex since march and just two months ago we stopped talking completely. it was hard since the break up because we would still see each other and he even ...

After he's done things to hurt me, he still just blames me. How can I make this work?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 19 and I have been in the relationship I'm in right now for almost 2yrs. I have a very big problem with my partner. I have lied to him as well as cheating. I am not proud or happy about what I did, but there is nothing I can do to change ...

Will I be haunted by my ex for the rest of my life?

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17 November 2009 (M) - I've been in a happy relationship for 2 years with a top girl. Every now and then, however, I have these emotionally intense dreams involving my ex girlfriend who broke up with me more than 3 years ago. In these dreams she is either rejecting me ...

What to do if you still love your ex but he's got another girl?

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16 November 2009 (F) - So the basic story is i dated this guy(16) anyways I'm(15) and him and I broke up for a lot of stuff like me talking about my best friend to him (which is a guy), he just can't handle anything really. he's always super jealous. also cause i didn't ...

Is this really the price I have to pay for my happiness?

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16 November 2009 (F) - I dont really know where to start... Back in June I posted about how I had canceled my wedding to my fiance of 3 years and left him, and how i felt bad because he was beyond hurt. I was given a lot of advice on how he would get over it eventual...

Do you think my ex will come back after 2 years of not hearing from him?

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16 November 2009 (F) - i had a boyfriend whom i introduced to a friend of mine.they started getting close my friend didn't have anything to do with it she already had a fiancee but my boyfriend started pestering me about her i understood his intention and i left him ...

How to cope with hurt of your wife comparing you to her ex....

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16 November 2009 (M) - my wife was divorced and she had a baby that was 6 months old when i first met her. and after another six months we got married. i know the true story of what happened with her ex husband as she only married him because she was very young (18 at the ...

Should I give my ex boyfriend another chance?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Ok I am thinking of getting back with my ex. We broke up cause he went travelling round the world. I knew he had this planned when we got together and we didn't mean for things to get serious but they did. We were together about 6 months before ...

He dated my friend and now my friends don't like him!

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16 November 2009 (F) - Hi. So, about two months ago, I started dating this guy. I really really like him, and he's basically one of the kindest and sweetest people I'll ever meet. He treats me very well and tries his best to make me happy. Thing is, not long before he s...

My life is in tatters with an ex that won't move on and a new guy who isn't that interested in me. I don't know what to do!

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16 November 2009 (F) - My life is in tatters at the moment. I split up with my ex in july, mutual decision but since then it's been hard to move on as he is in daily contact with me. I have told him to cut contact but he can't go a day without texting me. The other wk I...

Is it possible to have a no-strings attached thing with him again?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Over the summer, I had a fling that was purely lustful. I went in not wanting anything. I told him I would be starting school in Sept and moving. I could tell he didn't want me to move. The relationship was great for what it was. It seemed like h...

I slept with my ex, even though he has a new girlfriend. I want him back, how do I do it?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I have a kind of bad story, but I need some advice, without bad comments please. So I have been talking to my ex whom I dated about five years ago. I am still crazy in love with him, and he told me there is no reason why he would not go out ...

Get Your Ex Back By Learning How to Say I'm Sorry

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16 November 2009 (F) - You may need to be able to say I'm sorry if you really want to get your ex back. Or are you wondering why you need to say that you are sorry. After all, doesn't it take two to argue and fight? Unfortunately a pattern of arguments causes a lot of ...