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Should I confront him or break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

19 August 2019 (F - I have been seeing him for just over two months. We have a great connection, the sex is amazing and we can talk for hours. We are comfortable around each other. It’s really great most of the time. I noticed when I started seeing him that he had ...

I feel like I’m grieving someone who is still alive. How do I let go and cope with losing someone to addiction & mental health issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 August 2019 (F - My ex-fiancé was the man of my dreams. He proposed this year after dating for three years. A few months later, his personality suddenly changed. He became disrespectful and manipulative. He then admitted to having severe depression and anxiety ...

We like each other, but she still lives with her ex and I'm worried

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 August 2019 (M - So, I've been talking with this girl from Denmark. We met up last month and talking about seeing eachother again. She knows I really like her and she tells me she likes me too. The problem is that 3 months ago she ended a 2 year long relationship ...

For 6 years I treated him as my son now I find out he's not. How do I move on?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 August 2019 (M - I am a man married to a woman who loves me unconditionally. I have put my wife through a terrible heartache when I cheated on her twice with my ex. My wife was devastated, heartbroken and depressed and wanted to end our marriage, but she decided to ...

Do I go back to my ex or see if theres potential with the new guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 August 2019 (F - Almost 2 years ago i started a relationship with a guy (call him A), he didnt work and suffered with ptsd and would tell elaborate lies. After 4 months we ended things so to speak, we drifted apart very fast. Fast forward to 2 month ago and i joined ...

Boyfriend still in touch with ex says he needs his privacy and says he will pay for sex. Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 August 2019 (F - My boyfriend has a well paid job and I know he has money, but he is too stingy. We had a small argument over money issue and he told me, if he want sex, he will just make a call and he will get it and that he needs his privacy that's why he don't ...

I am worried about my boyfriend's baby mama

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 August 2019 (F - Hello i am a young girl of 18 am dating a guy of 22 he has a child which hurt me most at times when i think of it . I truly love him and wish i could spend the rest of my life with him . He love me so much but my problem is his baby mama ,she still ...

I can't get over my ex but I know he's an ex for a reason

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 August 2019 (F - I can't get over my ex.. It's been 8 months but I think about him 10times a day.. Dream about him often.. It makes it worse when he calls to tell me he misses me.... But his an ex for reasons..his not aware I miss him... But I don't know why the ...

Do I give my ex extra time to pay me back or go to court?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 August 2019 (F - I was dating a guy for almost a year, he had had a very bad time with his health and wasnt working. He slowly got better and the doctor signed him off sick so he could work. In the time he wasnt working i offered to lend him a bit of money which he ...

My b/f found out I texted my ex to make sure he no longer contacted me. My b/f hit me but I want to make things right with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 August 2019 (F - Me and my bf were in good relationship but I messed up everything . We loved each other alot . I used to hide things and our relationship become worse than anything. Day before yesterday we decided to forgot the past and started a fresh ...

Boyfriend deleted his ex girlfriend's texts

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 August 2019 (F - I've been living with my bf now for almost 2 years. Recently, his ex texted him again. I know because he told me that she did. I asked to read the texts a few days later, but was told that they had been deleted. I asked why he had deleted the...

A guy keeps coming back when he doesn't want a relationship.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

30 July 2019 (F - My ex and met online game site 3 years and we hit it off. However, after 5 months he broke it off because he felt like we don’t live within reasonable distance to support a relationship. We live 5 hours away from each other of driving distance. We ...

He said he had been celibate but after we had sex he told me he had herpes.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 July 2019 (F - I'm so afraid right now.Here's a summary of what happened. I recently connected with my ex and we attempted to be intimate but he could not become aroused,he said it was because he was nervous and that he hadn't had sex in 4 years. I found it really ...

A girl I like has told me she might get back with her ex, should I tell her again, how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 July 2019 (M - I met a girl who at that time told me that she is still not over her ex boyfriend and wanted to take it as friends for the time being if that is acceptable with me. She seemed cool and I was okay with that at that point. We started as friends and ...

The way my boyfriend acts makes me feel insecure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 July 2019 (F - I’ve been dating a guy for a year now. He’s practically very committed - helps me out around my home, is great with my three year old (loves spending time with him), and talks openly about our future. In 30, have a great job and my own home and he ...

5 months into our relationship and partner is dragging his feet filing for divorce from wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

23 July 2019 (F - A guy I've known over the years went through a split up with his wife. He was staying at my brothers house but it was crowded there so i told him he could stay with me. I just so happened to be searching for a roommate to help out. It wasn't long ...

The first guy I loved is moving to another continent

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 27 days ago

20 July 2019 (F - Hey guys. So, something has happened that has me so sad. I met this guy back in 2016, and I haven’t seen him for over a year. The last time we saw each other we had a fight and he unfollowed me on Instagram and I deleted him from Facebook. Haven’t ...

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