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I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

27 March 2017 (F - Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ...

I've met the perfect guy but after getting back in contact with my ex I am confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

27 March 2017 (F - I’ve been dating this seemingly perfect guy for the past couple of months and honestly the way he is with me and treats me is just perfect. I have a ‘check list’ of everything I want in a man he is everything and more BUT... Out of the blue my ex ...

I'm dating someone new but don't think I'm over my ex. Should I let the new guy go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

26 March 2017 (F - I am 28, In November I was dumped through whatsapp by my ex who I was madly in love with I was only with him for 4 months but I felt so much love for him after one month I got pregnant and had a n abortion and it totally messed me up as o didn't ...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

24 March 2017 (F - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

Her past bothers me, though I do like our sex life!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

24 March 2017 (M - Hey guys, I've been dating a girl for a few months and it's going really great, but her past has come up more than a few times (mainly by me) her lifestyle bothers me a bit she's 22 and loves to club. Has had 12 sexual partners her last dude wa...

My boyfriend does not like my ex husband doing my laundry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend does not like my ex husband doing my laundry. He called my ex a saint for doing it and said he must care about me to do it still. Like there is an emotional connection and he feels I should finish with the relationship entirely. But the ...

My husband is perfect in every way yet my imperfect ex haunts me and my heart belongs to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - I'm 30 years old, I've spent more than half of my life crazy insanely in love with this person, we had a great love story but equally great drama, what broke us was a very strong storm, both of us are changed forever and deeply wounded that to end ...

His ex is stunning and a lovely girl and I feel that I just don't measure up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - Hi everyone and thanks for taking the time to read my question. Ok so iv been with my boyfriend for a year now,he's the most caring and kindest man iv ever met and he is so good to me. I have no problem -however I find myself constantly comparing ...

He has not told his ex about me yet. Is is reasonable for me to feel so hurt? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

19 March 2017 (F - I've been going out with my partner for one year. We both have kids from previous relationships. Being a mother and full time parent i have included him in my two kids lives. We both have teenage daughters. He spent christmas with his ex and stay...

Boyfriend is seeing his ex behind my back....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend is seeing his ex-girlfriend behind my back. He says nothing sexual is happened. At the beginning of are relationship I went to jail for three months. While I was in jail, they got back together. ....or they never broke it off. He didn't ...

Is he insecure, jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - Hi, I've been seeing this man for 5 months. I'm 49, divorced twice, no kids. He is 51, divorced twice, two kids 18 and 20. His second wife cheated on him. He was adopted. His adoptive father died when he was young and the adoptive mother was ...

Why does my b/f talk to his ex but won't allow me to do the same?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted today

16 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend of a year is friends with an old ex who he doesn't feel attracted to anymore and I am totally fine with their friendship and glad they are friends. He has another ex who broke his heart and things got messy with her during the break ...

She gives me false hopes and is still chatting with her ex! Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 March 2017 (M - Hello DearCupid readers, I am 30. two and a half months ago I got in contact with a woman, who is 24 and she has a 2 year old daughter. We first talked online and then started seeing each other offline, since we're both in the same city. In...

His behaviour has broken my trust in people

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I hope you're doing well this Sunday. I was recently in a 3 year relationship. This whole time I thought I had a sweet, brutally honest, loyal, friend, lover, team mate. Everything came crashing down. Turned out he was not loyal or...

How should we respond? My husband's ex has threatened to abandon the children on our doorstep, if we don't agree to take them at a time convenient for her.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - We could do with some help solving a problem please. My husband has recently been made redundant(with one week pay) and was offered an opportunity to go on a course to improve his skills and at the end, secure a new job which he was so excited a...

When would be the appropriate time to block my ex on social media?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

10 March 2017 (F - Dear Aunts, This isn't a major issue. The thing is, I have half a mind to block my ex on facebook. Because I hate him so much and would like to erase from my mind I had him in my life. I'm happy and single now but sometimes I feel very angry when ...

I can't help feeling that I'm his second choice!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

10 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend always tells me that he knew from our first date that I was special and a keeper. I recently found out we had our first date, then he went out with another women the next day and had been chasing this women before and after we first...

I'm finding out things about my boyfriend's past that bother me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

9 March 2017 (F - I was friends with someone for just over a year, and we have been dating for three weeks. He has treated me well when we met up, but today, I added his sister on Facebook and saw some photos of him holding hands with his ex girlfriend. It was a ...

What are my options to protect my privacy? Do nothing? Or contact the company and flag my concerns?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

9 March 2017 (F - A year ago I split with my ex partner leaving behind an abusive relationship where my ex had been given a suspended sentence for assaulting me. I've moved on with my life and am a lot happier. This week though I discovered that my ex has a new ...

Why do I feel like I lost out after the break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

9 March 2017 (F - So its been probably a month post break up. My ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I really love my ex and care for him immensely, despite the fact that he is directionless, has no goals/ambition, very lazy in everything and he was/is ...

I can't seem to move on from my ex even though I know I should

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

9 March 2017 (F - I'm a recovering addict that has had to transplant to another state. I had to leave behind my ex of 8 years and have been dating a new guy for 7 months that I do love. I don't have the same feelings with him though. With my ex (who has also had some ...

I don't know whether to keep seeing this man or not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - I started dating a guy a few weeks ago, but a few things are worrying me. He knows a few gay men. One of these men kept asking me and this man what was going on between us. He pestered us for ages. This man jokingly blew the gay man a kiss. Another ...

Can I trust him is he a cheat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 March 2017 (M - I did something bad...... I catfished my boyfriends ex and found out some horrible things. They used to have group sex Go to sex parties He use to be on drugs all the time He was kicked out of his old house cause he stole drugs from his ...

We went on a date but I think she still feels an obligation to her ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 March 2017 (M - Hey all! I would like some advice please. OK so my work moved locations a couple months back and since we moved we don't have our propane set up yet so we have to go to a local gas station to fill up pretty much daily. I'm the one that has to do ...

What can I do or say, that might encourage him to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - Hello. I know one of my guy friends likes me. But he wont say anything. His best friend used to go out with my sister and it ended badly. His best friend said that he might not say anything because of this Is there a way to help change his min...

I just want to know if this is all due to him being bipolar or if I really am just stupid enough to not see that he was just using me all along.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend (now ex) is bipolar. I have been with him for more then a year now and I do love him, but also know it's past time to throw in the towel. So I just want to make it clear that this is not a question of if I should get back with him. I ...

Do I gave up on her or give her a chance? She visited her ex and relegated me to the friend zone.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 March 2017 (M - First of all, sorry for my english, I am not a native speaker. So I was seeing this girl for some months (september to december) and we had such a great time together. It never got into a serious relationship. Probably I was not ready for that, ...

Hard for me to sort out my feelings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 March 2017 (F - I'm in a difficult situation. I went out with my ex on and off for 15 months. He is very stubborn, and we hardly saw or spoke to each other. I have been friends with someone that he knows for a while. They aren't very close friends, but have known ...

He was my friend a long time ago. But he now has a girlfriend. Could I ever mean more to him? Or is he destined to be only a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - I fell in love with a old friend i met 39yrs ago. i were dating another one also. I chose my husband over him who is now deceased in whom were also a friend at that time. My friend came back in my life after 26yrs. To support me thru the ha...

I'm worried my reaction means I am not over him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 February 2017 (F - I had a one year relationship. The guy was a jerk, and anyway we boke up. After not even seeing eaach other for like 3 months i suddenly see him on the road and i vomit. why does this happen? please tell me it's normal and that i don't still have ...

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

27 February 2017 (F - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were th...

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

26 February 2017 (F - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he ...

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