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Why is he still looking for me? He's married now.

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23 June 2017 (F - 9 years ago (15-16yrs old)I dated a guy in H.S. But we only dated for about a month before he broke up with me over the phone. In that month we were together we had sex and seems like all the guys were talking about it..Well next school year he ...

I'm dating a nice lady but all I can think about is my ex who ghosted me

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22 June 2017 (M - I am seeing someone new who treats me wonderful, the way I've always wanted to be treated, but all I think about is my ex, who I treated great, she ghost me, what I think about is why couldn't my ex treated me this way, it could of been so ...

Does her telling me to move on really mean its over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 June 2017 (M - Hello i was in a relationship with a woman for 17 months , she ended it because we argued, quite a bit , as she wanted to settle down,and i did , but not yet , she said at begining of april ,can,t say goodbye , so i,ll say goodnight, that was the ...

Is this guy interested or not?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 June 2017 (F - I met this guy about a year ago now-we met online and met up, we got on well and had a laugh, he didn't push for sex or anything like that, he was really respectful, I had a boyfriend at the time but the relationship was on its way out due to him ...

Is my ex meant to be back in my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 June 2017 (F - How do you know if someone is being brought back into your life for a reason? My ex and I broke up almost 2 years ago and we had stopped talking for 4 months after we broke up, then out of the blue one day he texted me. And we've been talking eve...

Unhappy newly wed, unemployed and losing my mind, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

17 June 2017 (F - This is a bit long so bear with me. I am 30 years old, newly married to my bf of 2 years and unemployed. Yes, this information is necessary. When i'd met him in 2015 i'd quit my hectic job in consulting to something with less travel...but...

He is getting married next month, I want to tell him I still love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - Hello, My ex will get married in one month from today - should I tell him I love him? We met nine years ago while travelling and had a whirlwind long-distance romance / relationship. I've never experienced being pulled towards someone lik...

Boyfriend wanted to use an old tube of lubricant during sex but I got upset because he's used it with previous partners. Am I being silly?

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16 June 2017 (F - Hi Everyone, So I have a bit of an awkward question, but genuinely don't know if I'm overreacting and too embarrassed too ask friends/family. So my boyfriend of 1 year has had a tube of lubricant in his drawer for a while, I noticed it a whil...

I love my girlfriend but can't get my ex out of my head

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15 June 2017 (F - I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to pieces but I can't get my ex out of my head. I miss her and want to talk to her again. She had been upset about me for a long time but she may have gotten over me. I've ways loved her. ...

Recently diagnosed with HSV-1 and HSV-2, he tested himself and results were negative??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 June 2017 (F - So I have a few concerns about my current situation. To begin, I was having low back pain for about 5 months and I finally decided to go to the doctor to try to get it checked and maybe some relief medication. While I was there my PCP also did ...

My partner is falling for his ex and although I know I should end things I love him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I've been in my relationship now for almost 6 years and engaged for 2 of those years. (No date for marriage due to both of us being at risk of redundancy) and over 5 years ago we had a problem with my partners work colleague. To give a little ba...

I'm married but cheating with my old flame and I'm hopelessly in love

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I went to a reunion and as soon as I stood in front of my old flame I knew. I hadn't thought of him in 40 years. I'm happily married and live a plush life. He never married. Even though we live in Different states we've been together twice And...

How do I move on from these experiences of 'abandonment' and build stable relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 June 2017 (F - This is a question on relationships in general although recent circumstances have affected my outlook on things: I broke up with my ex a year ago but we remained quite close and live together as well. He is my best friend still. However he has m...

Fear I'll always be comparing new guys to my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

11 June 2017 (F - My ex and I broke up almost exactly 1 month ago. It was one of the most painful breakups I've ever experienced. I thought our relationship was really good. He was incredibly considerate, kind, and dependable. He was always going out of his way to ...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

I was so attached to him. Now I want to cut him out of my life. But how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hey. I need some help. Although I have moved on from a long term relationship before this and I know it gets Okay with time but I can't seem to get over this situation. I invested all my feelings in a guy for 4 years just to get cheated. It too...

How can I forget him? How can I train myself to stop thinking of him in the way I do think now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hello everyone I wanted to ask if anyone has any techniques on how to stop associating certain memories with an ex. My ex and I went to school together and reunited for a short lived relationship. Long story short he was just brutal in endin...

My husband had an affair a couple of years ago. Should I write to the woman and ask some questions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - my husband had an affair a couple years ago, he says it is over but I have my doubts. She does not live near us anymore. I want to write her a letter and ask her if he has called her or written her a letter. If he has what has he told her, did he...

Why do I miss him so much now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I dated a guy for around 6 months altogether. The first three months were perfect, absolutely perfect and we were so well suited, it was literally as if he was my clone too, we were so matchy matchy. I became depressed at the end of the three mo...

I need advice on how to handle this, please? My life is turning into a sitcom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I'm sure a lot of you will probably think I'm being silly. I've tried talking to myself about this, and I've realized that I'm not mad/jealous because I don't want him anymore, I'm just annoyed. I married my ex-husband A (he's 33) in 2013, we wer...

Still devastated over ex, contacted him after 3 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 June 2017 (F - While he was in Italy on holiday with his mom who always a burden on our relationship, he told me he wanted to move out with me, and take the next step, I was hopeful. A week later he calls me telling me he has decided to move to Italy for good, ...

I regret breaking up with my ex and now that he's moving on I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

31 May 2017 (F - I broke up with my bf around a year ago mostly due to my own health issues and his depression too. I suppose the main practical reason was the death of our sex life (for those reasons). I didn't want to keep him from being happy cos of my issues. W...

We broke up but I want my ex back

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31 May 2017 (F - Hi cupids..I might be all over the place but thank you for reading this. So..I keep calling my ex lately and he hasn't been picking up the last few random times. Of course.. he is probably annoyed since I block my calls.. We broke up 8 months ago. ...

I can't stop stalking my ex on social media and I can't get over the way that he dumped me mercilessly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

30 May 2017 (F - I can't get over my ex and stalking him on social media; this is pathetic and I don't talk about it beside my therapists that doesn't approve my actions but here it is and I am hoping that someone might have some advice - my relationship with my ex ...

Why didn't he tell his friends he had broken up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 May 2017 (F - The man I had been seeing for 14 months and I had an argument....almost. I asked him how he felt about me because I needed to know in order to decide where to take my life. Eight months ago he was gung ho about "US" and then he turned cold. He told ...

I found a phone he'd been using to text a woman for 4 years!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 May 2017 (F - Hi I found a phone my husband had a few months ago he had been texting a woman for 4 years !! It was someone he had known 35 years ago and been out with a few times before he met me . He states that he thought they had slept together 35 years ago ...

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