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The ex-factor: Help and advice

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

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21 May 2013 (M) - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she ...

Why do I miss him, even after a week? He dumped me!

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21 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me last week. He was very abusive for that past 6 months. Long story short, I haven't called him since the day he dumped me. I'm making myself busy at work so I won't have time to mope. But for the past 2 days...

My fiance's ex is getting out of jail and he once told me he'd never love me as much as he loves her, am I going to get kicked to the curb when she's back?

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21 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. To start off Im engaged and happy for the most part. My fiancé list year got full custody of his kids which I love with all my heart. The kids mother went to jail and ate now getting out early.my fiancé knew about her getting out early ...

Why is my ex still trying to hurt me? He is bringing a girl into my work and my church.....

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21 May 2013 (F) - Okay so my ex broke up with me. He knows my work schedule and where I work so he brings another girl to my job I work in a make up store most guys don't go in they usually go shopping or wait outside. I was off that day he brought a girl but I ...

Are there too many issues in our relationship to continue?

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21 May 2013 (F) - Are there too many issues in our relationship to continue? My bf and I have been together for 3 years most of the time our relationship is brilliant, but some issues keep coming up and we don't seem to be able to resolve them. When we argue (which ...

How do you stop being jealous?

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21 May 2013 (F) - How do you stop being jealous???? I have never been that jealous of other woman when I have been with boyfriends but in my last relationship my ex boyfriend had a few close female friends and aqaintences and I was very jealous and can't work out why ...

Am I being unfair by not wanting to discuss her ex's? Or is she in the wrong?

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21 May 2013 (M) - Hello there people I am engaged to a beautiful, smart and intelligent girl. Everything is great between us. The thing is, I haven't been in any serious relationships prior to this one although she has been in two very serious relationships, u...

My ex has jumped straight into a new relationship and she wants me to leave her alone, but I want her back! What should I do?

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21 May 2013 (M) - So my ex girlfriend/the mother of my child of 5years broke up with me and is involved in a rebound relationship. I really want her back but don't know what to do, I've tried expressing my feelings but that seems to push her further away and closer ...

B/f ended things rudely denied dating a co-worker and now they're hugging and kissing at work!

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20 May 2013 (F) - I am so hurt by my ex and I really just want to vent... we dated for about 6 months and it starts off great... we met at work, went out on dates that he paid for, we spent alot of time outside of work, and generally enjoyed our time together...I ...

Why do I want my ex back? Why can't I accept that its over?

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20 May 2013 (F) - I am 18 years of age and my ex boyfriend is 22. We have been together 2years today. We have been split up for 3 weeks tomorrow. My ex split up with me because he said he needed a break because we had been living together for a few weeks because I ...

I love my boyfriend not my ex, but how do I convince my boyfriend of this?

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20 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm 24 years old and have completely landed myself in a hopeless situation. I am in a relationship since a month with a new guy after I broke up with my former boyfriend. The issue is that I am still friends with my ex and my presen...

Can ex's be friends without issues? My boyfriend still talks online to his ex every day!

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19 May 2013 (F) - Hello Aunts. My question is based on my own relationship history and my boyfriend's. Whenever I have broken up with someone, I haven't been able to stay friends with my ex's, for whatever reason. I have had 3 serious relationships including my ...

My boyfriend has been acting strangely since he discovered I deleted his ex-girlfriend's number from his phone

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19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship now because he is from the UK and I am from North America and I have to finish university until December, then we can be together. We have been dating for about a year and a half now and have...

I'm having a difficult time getting over an abusive man

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19 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me a week ago. I'm still trying to move on even though for the last 6 months he was very abusive (verbally and emotionally) towards me, called me whore and slut while dumping me thru phone. I know I didn't de...

Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?

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19 May 2013 (F) - My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...

Feel hopelessly bound to him. Do I just try to get over him?

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19 May 2013 (F) - Began I relationship with a boy from a very young age. We lost our virginities to each other and were beyond in-love. Due to our age and him wanting to 'be a bloke' and hang out with 'his boys' and the pressure of us having to get on with our live...

My ex is trying to change, should I get back together with him? How do I tell my mom?

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18 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my fiancé in late January this year. I loved and still do love him dearly. I left him because I was unhappy about many things about how he chose to live his life. he chose to hang out with loser drug addicts and got himself ...

Lesbian LDR and I need help. Is our relationship going no where?

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18 May 2013 (F) - Guys I need help My girlfriend says she is not gay or bi but not 100% straight neither… I am sooooo confused …Although I understand that we shouldn't be putting labels on ourselves but I just don't feel our relationship is secure. Almost all my f...

Does my ex-girlfriend want to reunite or remain friends?

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18 May 2013 (M) - Ok here's the situation. I’m 23 she's 22... we dated for about a year. I got caught up and did a bunch of stuff I shouldn't have (cheated, lying) and things got rocky. Trust was gone, she was hurt like hell and eventually we broke up. I did the ...

After 8 years of marriage I became totally dependant on my ex-husband to support me

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18 May 2013 (F) - i am 28 and i don't want to work. I'm still living with my ex husband and his girl friend, he has moved on and i relied on him so much for 8 years. i have become comfortable living like that. i don't work or pay any bills. i don't do anything...

My friend is acting as if our hot making out meant nothing!

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17 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he treated me like crap, but I was really feeling down so I started hanging out with a friend. Yesterday I was riding home with they guy and things just kind of happened and we ended up making out in ...

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

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17 May 2013 (F) - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refu...

How do I engage myself on weekends so I wont have time to think and mope and call him and get humiliated by him?

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17 May 2013 (F) - Hi My abusive bf dumped me a week ago and im still struggling to move on. I havent contacted him from the day he dumped me. I had work the whole work, hence i didnt have much time to mope on, but since its friday and i have no plans for t...

I want my ex to regret treating me badly. I want him to know I am happy

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17 May 2013 (F) - My bf and I were on and off so many times. He cheated on me twice and while he studied abroad I found out that he kissed some other girl. I forgave him and gave him a lot of chances. We were in a long distance relationship before I broke up with ...

How can I improve my self esteem after an abusive relationship?

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17 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid Long story short, got dumped from a 3 years abusive relationship. My self esteem is record low and im still thinking about ways to get my ex-bf back, haven't acted on it though. I am trying really hard to move on and not think ab...

My husband doesn't understand his ex-wife and her daughter are manipulating him

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16 May 2013 (?) - hi,im 34 myparthners 52. we have 3 kids together. i love him but for some strange reason he thinks I don't love him but I love his money or etc. hes terribly wrong! he lived with his ex for 20 years.they have no kids together.we would have a har...

Its been a year, why can't I let go?

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16 May 2013 (F) - What is wrong with me- WHY can't I just let it go. It's been almost a yr. since I heard from my ex..the last time I heard from him was not a good conversation. His soon to be wife had been calling me 2 mths. prior but, I totally ignored the ...

I want to get back with my ex but I cant kick my boyfriend out because he owes my parents money! What should I do?

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16 May 2013 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been 'together' for nearly 3 years right at the beginning it was a casual thing we were only young and I kissed someone at a party, and up until yesterday that was all I had done. Whereas he has cheated on me 5+ times...

How do I get over my girlfriend's past?

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16 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend (20) and I (19) go to the same college, and have been together for the past couple months. It's been, for the most part, an excellent relationship. We care for each other a great deal; heck, I think I'm in love with her. And, for the ...

Boyfriend vacationing with his Ex-Wife

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15 May 2013 (F) - I've been dating this guy for several months and it's been absolutely fantastic. He is divorced (6 years ago) and has 2 wonderful children. (8 and 11) I've met his ex-wife and she seems nice and genuinely happy for him being with me. Before I...

Do you think parents who do not want to take responsibility for their children should be let scot free for the sake of peace?

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15 May 2013 (F) - I have a 10 year old daughter with my ex. My ex has not been seeing the child nor supporting her financially. I took him to court for child maintenance, and he was ordered. He only paid few times and has completely stopped. I work and can somehow ...

I'm sick of his ex! Will she ever be out of the picture?

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15 May 2013 (F) - hi all thank you for taking the time to read this. i have fallen in love with a man who is 25 yrs older than me and im having his baby. the problem is, is that his stupid ex wife will not get it through her head that i am with him now. i had to w...

His wife has moved back in with him and he cant divorce her, but he wants to continue seeing me. What should I do?

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14 May 2013 (F) - Hi, how I’m going to start this. I read some of “my boyfriend has a wife” discussion and I’m in the same situation now. We start as a friend since then all of our friends knew that his separated to his wife. He has a kid, and that is the only thing ...

I am really mad at how he ended our relationship!

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14 May 2013 (F) - Just realized that my boyfriend dumped me over Facebook! How immature and obnoxious is that? We are talking about a 28 year old guy here! We were on a break, and as everyone, I expected him to contact me in order to know if we would stay toget...

My boyfriend cheated on me with an old fling!

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13 May 2013 (F) - Just found out my boyfriend slept with someone else on Saturday night. Background: We've been together for over a year. Moved in together after a month and although we've had our ups and downs, I've never felt this way about anyone before. ...

He wont tell his married ex about me.....

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13 May 2013 (F) - Hello that's my first time to ask online but I'm really upset and stressed. My story is long and will try to make It short. I'm in a long distance relation. He was my friend before becoming my bf but there was too much chemistry between us he was i...

Which one do I let go?

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12 May 2013 (F) - I am having to choose between two men and its killing me inside, i was with one for a year, we got engaged after a week, we have both had a lot happen, his mum died, then my dad but before his mum died i found out he had been texting his ex over a ...

How can I make my ex realize what he lost?

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12 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago, we were together for 2 years. I've just moved into a new place a few days ago and he is still living with my brother and another friend of his. I had been unhappy for months with him and asked him to come to ...

Jealousy is eating away at me about my boyfriend's ex

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12 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are great together, he loves and appreciates me and vice versa and the sex is great. The only problem in our relationship is my jealousy! I often ask questions about one of exes of two and a half years ago. He is very honest about ...

My baby daddy has a new girlfriend but wont let me live my own life!

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12 May 2013 (F) - I have kids with a guy. And he has a new girlfriend but he still sends me flowers. And cards, still texts me he misses me. And I have started dating someone new. I have told my boyfriend and he is mad. I can't stop talking to him or cut him out of ...

Is it right for an ex to buy you jewelry?

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11 May 2013 (F) - Back once again about the obsessive ex. He texted me and said he has to see me tomorrow night (mothers day) because its important but says he won't be up until 9 at night my son is in bed by then. So I asked him why and he said he had to drop ...

I'm feeling uncertain as I try to woo my ex back

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10 May 2013 (M) - My ex and I had a long distance relationship for 7 months which has slowly faded out. While we're not in the same kind of relationship as we were we have been texting a little each day mostly general day to day stuff. This morning I closed our short ...

Is my B/f still not over his ex? And is she the reason why he wants to go for the party?

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10 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 8mths who I live with, has been asked to go to a 30th birthday party. He asked me to go with him, and I said yes. It was a Facebook group invite and I have since seen that his ex (who broke his heart ) is invited. He has been ...

My boyfriend is going to spend Mother's Day with his ex and his daughter

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10 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has a daughter with his ex, and usually he got to see his daughter after he finished class like around 9pm. Recently his ex decided that 9pm is too late to come see her (even though on the days she works, she's ok with him watching her ...

If she lied to me, and used me....will she now lie and use HIM as well?

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10 May 2013 (M) - Right so it's been a while so i've been hurt by this girl. Long story short, i met her about 4 years ago. She was an immigrant. Striking beauty. Struck up a friendship. Soon I was giving her money because she claimed to be poor, getting by. Drove ...

How do I deal with the guilt trips my ex lays on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

10 May 2013 (F) - Short and Sweet: How do I not let his guilt trips get to me, and how to get him to move on? Backstory: I was with my ex for 1.5 years, and it was great for the most part. Certain traits I didn't care for, and vice versa, but it worked. No plans...

Is there any hope of me getting her back?

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9 May 2013 (M) - I had been with my now ex girlfriend for a little over a year, the last 3 months however was long distance. We spoke basically everyday and I went to see her 4times in that space. I asked her if iI could move up to the same place and iif she felt it ...

No contact with ex since he broke things off. What do I do?

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9 May 2013 (F) - Hi really hope you can help i was with a man for 4 months who i really loved i met his family who i got on well with me and my ex were so in sync with each other we would say the same things at the same time we had known each other for 5 years ...

I don't think I can cope with another disappointment from boyfriend. What should I do?

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9 May 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts. My bf moved in with me 2 years ago and then his ex wife ordered him to move back (his old place was close to hers and with me he was an hour away) because he was not so available for the 2 kids. Which he did. Now he is looking at a new ...

I can't get over my ex! I'm still in love with her!

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8 May 2013 (M) - Hello Everyone, I hope that anybody who reads this can give me some positive advice as I am totally lost. It's been 4 months since I split from my partner. We had a rocky relationship, I admit. But I think it was because it was so intense an...