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Her kids and mine are cousins, is it okay to date?

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16 December 2017 (M - So I have started to date or have been with and seen, my ex wife’s brothers ex wife I have a son with my ex and she has two kids with her ex who is my ex wife’s brother. Our kids are cousins but we both want no more kids. We both feel this could be ...

I love him and want to be his but I don't want to get hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 December 2017 (F - So I started dating this guy I never though I’d be with and fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. We had the best relationship. Well he joined the military a year after dating and I decided I was going to support him, that my love for ...

Will I never be with my soulmate? It seems fate is keeping us apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 December 2017 (F - I met the love of my life when I was 14, we fell in love so deep. The world was our oyster, growing together year after year, experiencing every 1st thing together. Bad and good. Both our life’s were tragically twisted and I made a mistake when I w...

How do I get the power back in the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 December 2017 (F - Hi, I started an affair with a guy from work around 1 year ago, who actively pursued me. The relationship I was in was physically and dometically abusive and around 5 months ago after police involvement I left him and moved out on my own, which was ...

How do I deal with his ex and his family during Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

9 December 2017 (F - I have met the most wonderful guy ever. I have totally fallen for him after years of rubbish relationships and I love him wholeheartedly. He has a young daughter with his ex and he never gets to see her despite trying over and over to be civil wi...

Are they together or is she now his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

8 December 2017 (F - I went on my first date with a guy. I asked him if he's married and he said no. He is semi-famous and has all his life online basically. I did some research and found out that it's possible he has a girlfriend or wife or some sort. On her IG,...

I want her back but she doesn't want a relationship. How can she just walk away?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

6 December 2017 (M - So, there was this girl I met two years ago and I am in love with her (we dated and were pretty serious) . I am in the military and I was stationed in Alaska.( Where I met her, I am originally from Florida). But I hurt her and she well I left ...

How do I let go of these obsessive thoughts about his past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

4 December 2017 (F - I have met my boyfriend last year and Im so happy with him. The only thing that bothers me is that I keep digging up the past - one day I woke up and wondered, did he really was with me and only me from day one of us knowing each other? This s...

My ex isn't apologetic about his behavior and its starting to turn me off

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 December 2017 (F - I broke things off with him because he kept gaslighting me. Anytime I wanted to talk to him about something he’d call me a drama queen, sensitive, emotional. I got so drained trying to salvage things. The last straw was when he told me to shut up as ...

My ex's actions make me feel like I was never worth fighting for

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 December 2017 (F - Hi guys, So this is an ongoing problem with my ex bf that has left me feeling confused, angry, resentful, but mostly hurt, and I need advice on how to deal with the situation. So earlier this year, I posted on this website about whether or no...

I'm obsessed with the man I had a little bit of fun with, 16 years ago!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

30 November 2017 (F - This is really weird. So, some 16 years ago, I had a one night stand with this acquaintance - we traveled together to a new city with a group of friends and stayed in the same house. I was relatively sexually inexperienced and socially inept. The ...

I feel he's lied about his past and I can't shake that off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

28 November 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months, i love him and can see a future with him, we get on well and i feel he acts like he feels as much for me as i do him and he has told me recently that i am the love of his life. My problem is i fee...

I'm tired of trying to avoid him ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

25 November 2017 (F - Okay so this is a really weird situation. I liked this lad since my first year of high school, we had flirty banta untill he left in 2016. After showing up on the bus on my way to the first day of college a few months ago, it bought old feelings up. ...

I've reconnected with an old boyfriend but don't want to hurt my most recent ex!

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22 November 2017 (F - Hi I've recently met an old boyfriend from years ago ,we still like each other ,I've been in a relationship over a number of years ,but split 3 years ago but are still friends ,it was a violent relationship that's why it ended but I still have ...

I flirted with another man but I never meant to hurt my boyfriend. How do I convince him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

22 November 2017 (F - Hello, I am looking for advice. Before I get into it, I take full responsibility for my own actions, and do not shift any of the blame onto my partner. I am merely stating what got me to the point of my betrayal. Me and my (Ex) boyfriend have b...

Why do I feel so insecure about his ex and his other relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

20 November 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for six months and right from the start we really liked each other. He has been married and split up with her several years ago. He married young and went to another country where she lived to be with her. I feel th...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

18 November 2017 (F - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

How to overcome the guilt of dating my friend's ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - Dear Cupids I met this wonderful man. We have been dating for less than two months but our relationship is moving quite fast. It feels so right and ever-since we dated we have not spent a day without talking to each other. He calls and we mee...

Is it too much to hope that things might work out with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

16 November 2017 (F - My ex text me after a week. After breaking up, briefly getting back together, then breaking up again, my ex text me asking how I was. We'd been having difficulties for a while because I just felt that my bf wasn't giving me any of his time. He was...

My boyfriend has hooked up with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

16 November 2017 (F - I've been dating this guy, and we are crazy about each other. The only thing I'm a little uncomfortable with is the fact that his best friend is someone he's had strong feelings for and hooked up with in the past. plot twist: she is a lesbian. I ...

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