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I met him 2 weeks ago and am wondering is this a friendship or a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

17 July 2018 (F - I am 25 and have been single for a year now. Two weeks ago, I met a guy at a party who works with a friend of mine. We hit it off and talked nonstop. Later that week we ended up going to another group event together and staying after everyone ...

How do I close out this sad chapter in my life and start anew?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 July 2018 (F - Hi all I am from conservative indian family. I am 24 and financially independent. I met my ex 6 years back on school. We fell in love . The relationship was intense and serious. All my school and college friends knew we were together. His pa...

Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted today

17 July 2018 (F - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

I overheard my wife saying that her ex was the best sex she'd ever had and now my ego is shattered!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 July 2018 (M - So my ego has been devastated and I really don’t know how to handle this. Turns out I’m not the best sex my wife has ever had. Any advice is appreciated. About a week ago my wife had one of her friends at our house for some drinks. After ha...

Not sure I feel the same as my ex he wants to try again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 July 2018 (F - An ex recently got back in touch with me after 7 months. He wanted to see me so i agreed and went to his . We talked about stuff and they way he was saying things and what he was saying is he wants to start again . When we were in a relationship ...

My ex treats his present girlfriend so much better than he ever treated me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 July 2018 (F - I dated a guy on and off for 3 years. I’m pretty sure he is a Narcissist by everything I’ve read and researched. I’m really trying to get over him and move on. I’m really hurt by how he is treating his new girlfriend. It’s seems like she is ...

Why do I have a strong gut feeling that there's something going on between my boyfriend and his ex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 July 2018 (F - During the first 2 years of being with my BF, he was still in touch with his ex stringing her along, not telling her that he was in a relationship with me. When I found out how he lied about not being in contact with her, I was very upset. Since ...

He’s ignoring me all of a sudden! How do I react?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 July 2018 (F - I’m 27 from UK and recently reconnected with my ex from 7 years ago who I broke up with. We had an amazing couple of days together rekindling and we’ve been very romantic since. Awkward part - he lives in America right now for work. He has men...

My ex is poisoning my children against me and interfering in my visitation with them!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

5 July 2018 (M - Just a quick question about my ex and my children. I had to take my ex to court in order to see my children. I have a good arrangement now and I love having my children. However I always set up really good weekends when I have them, prope...

Should I move away and start a new life close to my daughter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - I split up with a long term ex (17 years) because he treated me so badly that it ruined my self esteem and this impacted on my career and relationship with my daughter. I realise now I put up with his behaviour because I grew up in a dysfunctional ...

My ex has I have slept together too many times!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - My ex and I go to the same college. We see each other a lot considering we have many of the same friends. We broke up two months ago because I was stressed out a lot, and he was too about school and things happening with his family. But rece...

I am starting to lose my feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 July 2018 (F - My partner (of two years) and I are separated due to his new location of work place. He has been stationed in a far distance island since March 2018 where his ex-wife lives now. He is a dedicated medical practitioner undoubtedly. This time in his ...

He looks up his exes when we argue!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

1 July 2018 (F - I noticed my boyfriend had looked up an ex recently and he has admitted that after some bad arguments he has looked up exes as a form of escape. He's done this "every month or so", just looking at their pictures. I understand looking up exes out of ...

How could my girlfriend move on from a 4 year relationship so quickly and already be with another man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 June 2018 (M - Two Weeks ago, my relationship of 4 years ended with my girlfriend. i have been devastated, things have not been good for a while, but i was willing to do whatever it took as i never saw myself being with anyone else. we have not been intimate in ...

There's a weird movie-like scenario playing in my head where I imagine my boyfriend and his ex pining for each other and wanting to get back together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend (26) and I (22) have been together for ~9 months. This is my first ever relationship and, at this point, we're going pretty strong and live together. I feel more confident in my relationship that I ever have. Except for one thing. ...

Should I add my ex to my contacts or just erase him completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 18 days ago

29 June 2018 (M - Me and my boyfriend recently broke up because we've been in a long distance relationship after he moved out the state. We both didn't cheat, but we just couldn't keep the spark in LDR and we decided to move on since we both have different ...

What do I do when I'm not ready for this to be over and fear that's what will happen if I told him I read that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 June 2018 (F - Even my boyfriend and I got together, he told me "You can read my diaries, but do not tell me about it." When I asked about it he said it's because he wants to be understood, but he doesn't want anyone to read his deepest thoughts. So, after his ex ...

Is it for sure that I will get a green card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 June 2018 (F - I got a divorce 3 years ago because my husband was emotionally and physically abusive. I have a 4 year old daughter, and i always do my best to sacrifice the best for her. I live in the middle east, and i always have to go to Texas, USA for months ...

Am I being too harsh in blocking her completely out of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - I am currently going through a breakup. I already have a hard time making friends, for some odd reason (whcih I am in a way blessed) most of the few people in my circle are now also goiung through breakups, divorces, single, etc. so it helps me to ...

Anything that bothers me he says its a cultural thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

23 June 2018 (F - Hello I'm married and my husband has all his exes on social media and still speaks to them. I have told him I feel its inappropriate to talk to your exes when their part of his past. He is also addicted to his cell phone. He has many Male fr...

My bf drunk texted his ex FWB and now I feel like I have a right to go through his phone

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend of a year and 8 months drunkenly text a girl whom he used to see sexually before we started dating. I feel like I have a right to go through his phone now but at the same time I don’t. He feels terribly about the situation and has since ...

Was I wrong not to thank the ex who agreed we would go “no contact” for the flowers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - So, my ex fiancé sent me flowers Monday, about a year ago he left me for his ex that he was stuck on. I knew something was wrong but he never admitted it. When she rejected him when he went back home he tired to get back with me. I flat out ignor...

I'm struggling to trust my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I'm struggling with trusting my boyfriend of 2 years and I don't know what to do. I guess my reasons sound petty but things add up. When I met him he had been seeing this girl casually and they'd been sleeping together. Anyway things ended and we ...

I worry so much about my baby, I just need a balanced view.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Hi All, I've posted a number of times before and you've always provided me with great advice. My child's dad and I split before he was born ( 16weeks pregnant). Our son was planned - tried for a year to conceive him..split after ten yea...

I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Is he really over his Ex? Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now and I thought we was both the happiest we could be. Last night he went to show me something on social media and his ex girlfriend was at the very top of his search bar I...

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