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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Should I be over his cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 January 2019 (F - I’ve been with my guy for over 6 yrs now. We got into a discussion yesterday about his twin boys momma. Saying you know we will have to be around her more. And I said “as long as nothing else happens again” due to him going behind my back a couple ...

I lied to my boyfriend about the time frame last time I had sex before him. He STILL doesn't know the actual truth. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 January 2019 (F - Hey all! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. We are both 26 years old and in very transitional phases of our lives. We also recently (within the last year) ended long term (3-6year) relationships. Both relationships we...

Do people like this ever change or am I best out of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 January 2019 (F - Hiya I’m in a relationship for 5 years we have a 2 year old son and we live together I just need some advice on this we used to go to school together and met up years later through social media we moved in together and had our son but the past year ...

I see his ex as a threat. Am I being silly or do I have reason to worry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 January 2019 (F - I am probably being silly but my partner was married a few years ago and been divorced over ten years. He has told me that how he feels about me is far deeper than his ex wife, he said he was very unhappy with her and he looks back and knows it was ...

Should I tell him what I know and see if he has had closure from the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 January 2019 (F - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, he is awesome, treats me like a princess, (him and I met in January 2018,) but in early 2017, he started going out and getting to know this other girl which was in his day to day work ...

My abusive ex occupies too much space in my head and I can't move on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 January 2019 (F - Hello. I ended an emotionally abusive relationship in October. He still occupies so much space in my head. I hate it. I don't know why I miss this immature person. He would mock me during arguments and smoke a lot of pot to numb himself. I know I ...

I can’t help longing for my beautiful ex, and it’s ruining my chances of starting a new relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 January 2019 (M - Some time ago I got out of a long relationship (7 years, the only serious relationship I have had) after she moved away for grad school, and now I am trying to move on by going on some dates (but no second dates). My ex was beautiful. Maybe not a ...

I feel like the laughing stock because I want boundaries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 December 2018 (F - I'm wondering if this situation is worth breaking up over. Right now we're on the brinks because I'm mad about it. The guy I've been seeing for almost a year now is a hippie, I'm not, though i like to party with hippies sometimes. We had a brief ...

I've met a nice guy but my cheating daddy wants me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 December 2018 (F - Please help me I am in such a dilemma a few months ago me and my baby daddy split up due to a lot of issues in which one of them was him cheating I am not sure if it was physical but I know for sure girls were calling him and texting him and he was ...

How do I change my patterns?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 December 2018 (F - I have come out of a very long term relationship where my partner 'parentified' me. I've read a lot about how there can be a passive / active dynamic (or divide) between partners, where one acts like the kid and the other is positioned as parent, ...

My step children's mother is creating problems

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 December 2018 (F - Dear Aunts and Uncles I need some advice please. Not sure where to go from here. I have 2 beautiful step children. They have just got back from a once in a lifetime holiday with their Mum. We didn’t know about this holiday at all as the...

How can I ask my family to back off from my pregnant girlfriend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 December 2018 (M - I’ve been dating my gf for 6 months. My family met her for the first time over the holidays and they weren’t very welcoming. When we met she had just found out she was pregnant. She also has a two year daughter. She left her ex because he was chea...

My ex saw my hairy nipples! Is that enough to end years of great sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 December 2018 (F - The other night I ran into my ex while drunk and went home with him. It was spontaneous and so I didn’t have time to “prepare” myself for him.. I didn’t sleep with him that night (although he tried, persistently) but everything seemed as it was...

My boyfriend regifted a present he had given to his ex

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 December 2018 (F - My new bf gave me a regifted present! A mutual friend sent me a pic of his ex wearing this exact bracelet i received. Im so hurt and offended. I thought this person loved me. Who does such a thing? I am gutted. ...

Is it possible to love 2 women the same way at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

23 December 2018 (M - When i was 13 i dated this girl, who we will call girl "A". After half a year she broke up with me. 3 years later i started dating one of her close cousin, which we will call girl "B". we ended up talking online and eventually getting together. Yes ...

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