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Will he come back to his senses .... and me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 September 2018 (F - Hi So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Last year he lost his job and things were not great the fact that he never used to save or invested.I was there for him and supported him in any way I could.Last week he called Me asking h...

Is he fobbing me off, I thought we had a good thing going.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 September 2018 (F - I started seeing a guy a month ago. He’s 12 months separated from his wife with two young children. Our relationship seemed really promising but then he went a bit cold. He says his ex wife is being really challenging. She calls him up out of the ...

How do I get over this anger toward my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 September 2018 (F - It's been over 3 months since me and my ex broke up. Tonight a mutual friend said he has been really low for a few weeks and that could I talk to him. I had blocked him on everything and although I felt okay, I wasn't sure it was a good idea.......

Why block someone and not delete them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 September 2018 (F - My ex and i split up 8 months ago i never thought id see or speak to him again. A couple of month back we slept together ( both wanted it ) but before we did we were talking about how we could try again. We started to talk a little more over the...

How do I get this master manipulator out of my thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 September 2018 (F - Hello. I am looking for advice on a bad breakup. I am trying to figure out how I let someone manipulate my feelings like this. And how I still feel quite sad. I became reacquainted with someone from my childhood. He was never aggressive or a ...

My brother finally introduced us to his fiance - she's my ex!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 September 2018 (M - My brother has recently introduced the family to his new fiancée - but there's a massive issue. Basically he lives away and none of us have met her before - we only knew her name. We were all excited to meet her - but when he introduced her to ...

I dumped my boyfriend for sponging off of me but now I feel guilty

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 September 2018 (F - I’ve been dating this guy for 9 months now. Things started off great and though we have had a few issues I feel like they can be worked through. The latest issue though is surrounding money. He lost his job a few months ago and has been having a...

How could he move on so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

11 September 2018 (F - I ended my relationship with my ex back in February not because we no longer loved each other but because we both had different out looks on life. Realistically it wasn't going to work. I left our house and moved back home. My ex was distraught and ...

I kissed my ex when on a break from my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 September 2018 (F - I need help, me and my boyfriend always break up and this time I thought we broke up for good, but no. He came back like always. But while we broke up I kissed my ex. And I feel so bad about it but I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend told me he ...

Am I wrong for not trusting my man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 September 2018 (F - A few months ago I met this guy out of state. We really hit it off and he ended up moving in my state. He has an ex girl that he still has pictures with on social media. When she noticed that he moved to my state she immediately called him then ...

I am paying my girlfriend's rent but we are not on good terms. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 September 2018 (M - Found girlfriends journal. Made the mistake of reading some of it. She has been in contact with her ex in prison. Sentenced 25 to life. Wants to visit him as soon as she can. Hasn't seen him in like 2 yrs. I have been supporting her almost 100% for ...

After I broke up with my ex I began seeing one of his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 August 2018 (F - Rite long story... me and my ex where together for 6 years. 1 little boy age 4. we split just about a year ago and it was a nasty split after we broke up i started seeing his friend to which after months he fell in love with me. i know i hurt ...

Should I feel insecure or worried about him talking about this woman of the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 August 2018 (F - Does it make you feel insecure,when your boyfriend tells you about his ex before you?, like do you wonder if she is prettier, hotter, more smart? Well my wonderful boyfriend, which is older than me,divorced,no kids thank god!!, had an ex if you...

My boyfriend contacts my mum instead of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

28 August 2018 (F - After my previous post where me and my boyfriend have been on break for 3 weeks after a big row over one of my flaws..I ended up in A and E yesterday after an accident in work..my mother text him to let him know and he rung her right away. What's ...

I don't know what to say. I just feel lost and alone.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

28 August 2018 (M - My relationship is ending. I feel like I'm losing my best friend, my person. I know I should "man up" but the grief is overwhelming right now. A 7+ year relationship is ending and I don't see any way that I can ever move on. The woman I fell...

How do I stop creeping him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 August 2018 (F - I met a guy at college over four years ago now ,he was 18 and I was 17 which is quite a long time ago but only feels like a year ago .When I first met him I was not interested in getting to know him because I did not find him attractive and he ...

My ex has suddenly vanished again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 August 2018 (F - I have a general question. I am a gay female. I was in my last relationship for 3 years. We started off as really close friends that eventually developed into a relationship over the course of time. She is the one that broke it off with me and come ...

He's messing around with that other girl, he's the one that moved out leaving me paying all the bills when I'm unemployed and yet somehow I'm at fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 August 2018 (F - Hi guys, this will be a long one so please bear with me... I moved abroad around 3 years ago for work. Two years in, I met Jay who I thought was, as tacky as it sounds, the one for me. I had never had this connection with anybody before and there...

Are most people this uncomfortable seeing their exes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 August 2018 (F - Today we were going to go to a supermarket and my boyfriend did not want to go inside at all because his exes mom was in there. It made me feel like he wasn’t over that person because he always makes sure that person isn’t there If we are to sto...

My paranoia has driven us apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 August 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Sadly I have a problem which I've had for a few years, Where I suffer with paranoia. This has affected our relationship greatly, and has pushed us apart. We've now been on break (his idea) for now 3 ...

Will my married lover ever come back to me, even as a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 August 2018 (F - I am 45 with a teenage daughter. My husband is good but has no time or interest in me. I tried all ways to get him interested in me, but he is keen only in earning more money. He is not bad but a very very boring man. But he is a great dad. I ev...

His ex hates me because he dumped her two weeks before dating me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

23 August 2018 (F - So to explain the situation a bit better Ive been best friends with an American man for about 12.5 years now, I lived in Ireland and we met online and started as penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always rang each other and ...

Leaving a married man is more painful than staying

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

22 August 2018 (F - So I ended my A over a month ago. I felt like a huge weight was lighted off my shoulders that I finally off the roller coster ride of emotions. I started wanting more than he can give He would always make excuses to come to my place go to your p...

I've been taking stock of my life since my ex and I broke up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

22 August 2018 (F - I am in mid twenties from India. This is gonna be a very long post please bear with me . I am an introvert and solitary reaper kind of personality. I hardly have or made friends. Currently I have very small circle of friends with whom I am in const...

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