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Is he confused? Playing me? Using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

21 February 2017 (F - I was seeing a guy for few months, he told me he loved me multiple times but all whilst drunk, i responded saying that i did like him but didn't love him. The last time he said it he made little to no effort to see me, when he would normally come ...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

Should I get back into the dating world, before my youth fades?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 February 2017 (F - Dear Cupid,I been single for almost going on 16 years. I stopped dating at the age of 32-33. I'm 45 now. My heart has been hurt so bad that I'm in fear of dating again I don't want a repeat of my pass so I just allow my youth to fade away. I ju...

Do I pursue him or just move on? My boyfriend and I broke up but now he says we can be friends as he does not want me out of his life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend of 18 months and I fall out over something silly. Did not talk for a month, then he told me it was over. He said that I was amazing, would not change anything but we were not compatible. He also said that it hurts too much to talk...

How do I respond when friends query me on this? She uses a picture of herself with my BF as her profile picture on social media

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 February 2017 (F - Hi Everyone, I could use some advice. I am currently contemplating getting back into a relationship with my boyfriend of 7 years. We split for 3 years, and he began dating someone else. They recently had a child together, but are not in a relatio...

My boyfriend keeps texting a female co-worker and it's getting inappropriate. Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 February 2017 (F - So my boyfriend has a female co-worker. He told me a couple weeks ago that it was pretty obvious to him and a few co-workers that a supervisor was trying to get with this female coworker, let's call her "B". My boyfriend told me that he told B "I ...

If he misses his ex does that mean his affection for me was fake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 February 2017 (F - Seeing him for 3 months. He told me he loved me 3 separate times when drunk, to which I didn't respond. He came over to my place all the time, he said he wanted to meet my parents. Then the last time he told me he loved me, the next day he just sto...

Should I explain to my ex? Or just let him think what he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - Well, It all started when the guy I was seeing for a 1 1/2 years dumped me out of the blue... I moved on and met someone else who was going out of town for 2 months.. (New dating by this time) This new guy is nothing like my ex.. he's sucessful, ...

It's been impossible to move on from my ex. He's in a relationship now, yet is concurrently sending me texts. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - im in need of advice, I am being confused with random contact from my ex. my ex and I have been on and off for years. Four to five months ago he disappeared to date someone else, broke my heart. i was always the one wanted to get back together an...

Crazy obsessed women wants my man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - This lady had sex with my bf. They now share a kid together. She is obsessive over my bf. She is 10-11 years older than us. Recently she has stalked our Instagram a. But she blocked us but only unblocked my bf. I know she still wants my man. But I'm ...

How do I not worry that my girlfriend will chose the easy way out when returning home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 February 2017 (M - We're currently long distance and have been together for 6 months. We met in his home country but unfortunately my girlfriend has to move back to her home country. After we met, I have been studying overseas. We're very serious about each other. We ...

Anxiety from a previous relationship stops me moving forward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I like a guy but ever since i realised i like him I'm just stuck in this vortex of anxiety and fear. We went out on a date and it was fantastic but I'm feeling even more unsure of myself. I had a previous relationship where everything was going ...

I was an idiot to break up with her, now I see her all the time and she turns away ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 February 2017 (M - Hi I was with a woman who I fell madly in love with we were together a year I idolised her and could see myself spending the rest of my life with her and she also felt the same I finished with her after she had a miscarriage I was a idiot I know I ...

Our arguments often lead to physical altercations!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - ive been in this relationship for about five months now and things are definitely not the way i thought they would be. I care deeply about this man but the communication is limited. We get into arguments which some end in physical altercations. Both ...

A year after breaking it off with me he wants my phone number, should I give it to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - So I have a question I'd like some help with. I'm really confused as to whether I should get back with my ex. I was with my ex for 9 years 15-24. There were no issues everything was great almost perfect but nothing is perfect I guess. I loved h...

Do I stay and hope his performance in bed improves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - In November I split up with my partner of one year and it was difficult I was completely in love with him but he was verbally abusive and he dumped me. I spent until January doing the usual feeling sorry for myself until I met this man. This man was ...

I'm not sure if I should start dating again right after a break up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - I have posted before about my long distance relationship. I believe it has come to an end as the guy told me he wasn't ready, wanted to be single and told me not to wait for him. For the last week I have been completely devastated and tried ...

My ex' could be ready to start again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 February 2017 (F - Hi I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years we split up 4 years ago but for that 4 year he is constantly around near where I live and each time I see him it brings all the pain back that he caused me he is always staring at me. A mutual friend told me ...

Did we get together too soon after his break up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - Hi, I started dating my boyfriend in Feb 16. He had just come out of a long term relationship. He says that although he loved his previous GF ( she was the longest he had ever dated anyone) it was a very rocky relationship. Only thing is we got...

Boyfriend looks up his ex on facebook and then looks at porn. I don't like this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - Rcently my boyfriend gave me his facebook password because he had been flirting with girls and ex girlfriends in the past and it drove a wedge between us. We got over that after I deactivated my facebook so I couldn't see what he was doing and so ...

My girlfriend's sexual past troubles me, What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 February 2017 (M - My girlfriend and i have been together for 8 months and we both are in love and have talked about a future. we both talked about pasts as well and got on the subject of sex. i was disgusted when she told me on how many people she slept with and...

I'm torn between two guys. I'm wondering, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Hello anyone out there willing to give me advice. I seem to have gotten myself into a significant amount of a problem. I'm torn between two guys. One my High school sweetheart Man1 whom I went out with for around 4 and a half years. We'd always a...

I am 61 and living with a man who's sought my approval to go out with other women. Is this acceptable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - I am 61 years and /i nnnnnnnnnhave this man I met on a dating site last year it is coming up on a year we became friends on Facebook and chat and text almost daily. We have not met in person yet but he had asked about the possibility of moving i...

Why would a man who claims to love me tell me his ex looked as good as a porn star?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Why would a man who claims to love me tell me his ex looked as good as a porn star? Did he say this because he feels I'm not as pretty or hot as her . I am considerably fatter and older than her and can't understand why he said this. ...

What would be a good first gift, post breakup, to offer as a token of friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 February 2017 (M - Hi everyone, I would like to get my ex girlfriend a gift that is received as a token of friendship, or more specifically, as a gesture that I'm ready to foster one. She has already explicitly stated interest in doing so. This comes after se...

How do I start the conversation without looking desperate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 February 2017 (F - Hi, About 7 weeks, my boyfriend ended our 2-3 month relationship due to the fact I was abroad when we got together and there would still be another year and half of us being apart. He felt like he was waiting for us to truly be together because ...

My husband can't see the problems with his ex wife ...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

31 January 2017 (F - My husband and his ex have not spoken in years because of all the trouble she caused at the beginning of our relationship. She called begging him to come sleep with her, she kept asking to come over claiming she needed closure (she was the one who ...

Will I ever move on, get over everything and meet someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

31 January 2017 (F - Hello everyone, I hope you're all well. So basically I feel and think that I will seriously never meet anyone who I feel a close connection and chemistry with. A few years ago was the worst time of my life. I had no confidence and was very u...

I still have feelings for him. He still feels the attraction too. But now he's living with another girl. How can we go forward with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - Long story but need advice. In 2013, I dated a guy for a few months. I really, really liked him but he was very keen to make the relationship official (telling everyone), which at the time I wasn't ready for, mostly because I was really poor at t...

I don't want to have a relationship with him but I'd like him as a friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - Me and my ex (who i've known my entire life) split up a year ago because he started to treat me bad and was showing signs of unfaithfulness. However, a year on me and him were supposedly over the relationship and he requested that we be friends. We ...

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together ...

Why is he checking on his ex flings FB page after she unfriended him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - Something happened a few months ago with my husband and an "ex-fling" of his. I was there when the incident occurred and it was just a bit of drunk stupidity on his part, which we are both fine with in our relationship - it was a private message ...

I feel I have lost my future ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - Last week i split with my boyfriend of 2 years . Yesterday my friend shocked me with some news , she joined a dating site for single parents as she is one, i helped her set up her account and started looking at profiles and thats when i saw my now ...

He gave me deadline to talk to my ex and when things didn't work out he ended things with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - I need help to figure out who is the wrong one here. I'm 39 divorced and have a 10 years old daughter. My relationship with my ex is peaceful and it's just because we have a child together. I started dating for the first time, 3 years after divorce, ...

Wife friended EX on Facebook and it has caused issues in our marriage

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 January 2017 (M - One evening my wife was typing on her smartphone because she got a message on Facebook. It turned out, an ex-boyfriend wanted to friend her and she asked if it was OK. I asked her if he knew she was married and she said it was on her profile, so I ...

Should we talk things over or let him go ? His lies and his baby Mama have helped drive us apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

24 January 2017 (F - MODNOTE: two near identical questions combined with additional material from the second question combined below with the first question . . . . . . . . . Dear Cupid Am a 40 year old female with two children from my previous marriage. When I los...

I feel inadequate!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

22 January 2017 (M - Here I am..again. Now trying to stop loving my wife. During the last 6 months 3 of her former FWB have written e-mails to her remembering their pleasure moments...I found out reading those e-mails (not spying , given we both have open access t...

I need to let go of the past. Can someone give me some advice on how to do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

22 January 2017 (M - Me and my significant other have been in a relationship for 5 months, however, I've been in love with her (the love was for the most part unrequited) for about 3 years. We've started to plan a future with each other. But recently, we dis...

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